1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 2: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 2: Today's tip is to review your summer. 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: Figure out what was fun and what worked and what 5 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 1: didn't so you can make the next summer even better. 6 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: Every summer, I create a summer fun list. This is 7 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: a list of the various things I want to do 8 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: to make summer feel like summer to me. I want 9 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: to make memories and I don't want to get to 10 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: September and think, wait, we never did that. Creating a 11 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: summer fun list gives direction to this season that feels 12 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: a little different given that I have five school aged kids. 13 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,959 Speaker 1: This summer, like always, I created my list, and I'm 14 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: happy to report that I checked most of the things off. 15 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: I saw a lot of outdoor music, including Billie, Joel, 16 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,559 Speaker 1: and Fish. I went on some bike rides. I ran 17 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: in the early morning. I did one on one mommy 18 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: days with my older three kids and helped facilitate my 19 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: husband doing Daddy days with the two younger boys. I 20 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,639 Speaker 1: went to Maine and ate lobster. I took a writing 21 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: retreat and completed a draft of a novel. It was 22 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: a good summer. Of course, the summer fun list wasn't 23 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: the only thing going on all summer. My kids went 24 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: to various camps, and there are a lot of camps 25 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: in the world, and so we've talked about which ones 26 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: were hits that we'd like to do again next summer, 27 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: and we've talked about which ones were less fun. So 28 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: maybe we choose something different next time, or which might 29 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: be repeats but with modifications. In one case, we signed 30 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: up for camp aftercare not because we needed the extra hours, 31 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: but because the car line for regular dismissal was so 32 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: long it was a point of misery for whoever was 33 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: driving and any additional passengers. Since fewer campers were being 34 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: picked up at aftercare, that became less of a problem. 35 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: We talked about which weekend activities people liked and which 36 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: were not in fact fun for the whole family. I 37 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: know I would like to repeat a date my husband 38 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: and I went on, involving a ten mile bike ride 39 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: along a trail and then a stop for beers at 40 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: a brewery. Afterwards, we talked about our vacations and which 41 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: parts of which trips worked the best and which parts 42 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: could have been improved upon. Nothing is ever going to 43 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: be perfect, but it is good to know if people 44 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: found certain things more exciting than other things. Also, was 45 00:02:56,080 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: there anything people missed? Summer is long, but not infinitely long, 46 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: and we don't do everything every summer. If there was 47 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: something we didn't do this past summer that people got 48 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: to the end of summer and thought, hmm, I'd like 49 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: to do that again, well, that is good to know. 50 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: You might find a summer debrief helpful too. Those of 51 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: us in the Northern Hemisphere have just finished up this season, 52 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: look back and figure out what worked and what didn't 53 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: or what. 54 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 2: Could be improved. Those in the Southern Hemisphere can try 55 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: this tip after their summer. A little analysis is always 56 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: helpful whenever it happens. If you need a little help 57 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 2: remembering what you did, look back through your photos, your calendar, 58 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: your social media posts. What makes you smile, what makes 59 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: you go oh, dear, Remember that thinking about your summer 60 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 2: is a great way to cement memories and make sure 61 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: you have even more good memories in the future. In 62 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's 63 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: to making the most of our text. Hey everybody, I'd 64 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,239 Speaker 2: love to hear from you. You can send me your tips, 65 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: your questions, or anything else. 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