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<v Speaker 1>Hey va, fam, it's Mandy Money here. Now. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>but that was my staff. Y'all. It is B A

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<v Speaker 1>Q and A Friday, and I'm so excited to be

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<v Speaker 1>sharing a very special edition of our brand Ambission Q

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<v Speaker 1>and A with y'all this week. These questions were answered

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<v Speaker 1>during our live Halloween special where we were joined by

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<v Speaker 1>the incredible Delianbarrows from Delianne Money Coach and Mark Russell,

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<v Speaker 1>my baby brother from another mother, Mark Russell from Betterwallet

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<v Speaker 1>join us live in the Brand and Mission Studio on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>We were able to take some questions from the crowd

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<v Speaker 1>and without further ado, let's get on into this spooky

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<v Speaker 1>b A Q and A and I promise I'll stop

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<v Speaker 1>singing now. Okay, Christina has a question in the chat.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see what is ooh good one. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know the answer to this one. What's really going on

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<v Speaker 1>with the student loan forgiveness? This is Biden's do loan

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<v Speaker 1>forgiveness plan. There's so much being said, but nothing is

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<v Speaker 1>really clear. It is giving very much like Public Service

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<v Speaker 1>loan forgiveness, which was so like it was released and

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<v Speaker 1>then it was super confusing when people actually, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>took their tenures and they could apply for it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was all very like opaque. But like, let's let's set

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<v Speaker 1>the context. So Biden announced this a month ago. Now

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<v Speaker 1>was it in September? August?

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<v Speaker 2>Are we talking because two different things? Are we talking

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<v Speaker 2>about the PSL up forgiveness? I start we talking about

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<v Speaker 2>the ten to twenty thousand dollars long.

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<v Speaker 1>One talking about the ten to twenty k Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like comparing it to just how confusing that

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<v Speaker 1>whole forgiveness process was. Yeah, but they announced it in

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<v Speaker 1>August and now there's a lawsuit, right like they're being

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<v Speaker 1>fought in court as we know, what do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>know about the latest with the potential for this you know,

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<v Speaker 1>incredible program which everyone was so excited about the ultimate

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<v Speaker 1>fate of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I'm hearing that like they're still very optimistic about

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<v Speaker 2>it and that they're going to start issuing payments soon hopefully.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's stuck right now at the Eighth Circuit. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So the district court is like, there's levels to lawsuits.

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<v Speaker 2>So they came in at the district court level. That

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<v Speaker 2>judge was like, we're throwing this out. You guys have

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<v Speaker 2>no standing, which means like you're not being injured by this,

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<v Speaker 2>So if you can't prove injury, we're going to throw

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<v Speaker 2>this out. And so they did. But then they appealed

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<v Speaker 2>it to the Eighth Circuit. And this was intentional by

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<v Speaker 2>the Republic who file this lawsuit. They specifically filed it

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<v Speaker 2>in the Eighth Circuit, which is a very conservative circuit

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<v Speaker 2>because they thought that the judges would be more open

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<v Speaker 2>to their arguments. And so now it's stuck at the

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<v Speaker 2>Eighth Circuit. They're reading the briefs, they're hearing arguments, and

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to make a decision of whether or not

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to pause the program permanently or they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to let it continue. So the good news is that

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<v Speaker 2>even the Supreme Court has already preemptively rejected any challenge

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<v Speaker 2>to it. So now you've got the Supreme Court rejecting it,

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<v Speaker 2>the District Court rejecting it, and now it's just the

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<v Speaker 2>Eighth Circuit Court in the middle. But from everything that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm reading from the Biden administration, they're still very optimistic

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<v Speaker 2>this is going to go forward. So until we know otherwise,

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<v Speaker 2>I would try to like not panic this. Again, it's

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<v Speaker 2>one of those things that it's out of our control.

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<v Speaker 2>It's out of our hands, So there's no point in

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<v Speaker 2>panicking about it. As soon as there's something new that's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be posted about it, I guarantee you you

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<v Speaker 2>will care about it because every social media platform is

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<v Speaker 2>talking about it. We are all on top of it.

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<v Speaker 2>If you follow any of us.

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<v Speaker 1>Follow these two especially, could.

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<v Speaker 3>You talk amongst each other just trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>like are we on the same page? Like okay, like

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<v Speaker 3>what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>What're you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I mean, like the lawsuits coming through and

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<v Speaker 3>just going through the different I didn't even know all

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<v Speaker 3>that dealy answer. Thank you for providing some context. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I think it just comes down to just politics,

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<v Speaker 3>which unfortunately they have to go through before there was

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<v Speaker 3>any relief.

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<v Speaker 2>I always say money's political, and this is a perfect example, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Like this is literally we're right before the midterms. Both

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<v Speaker 2>sides are being you know, catered to in their way,

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<v Speaker 2>so top of politicians do politicians are going to a politician,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like you can't like you can't blame them

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<v Speaker 2>for doing exactly that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>We want, right, I'm like, we voted for you do

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<v Speaker 1>some stuff like when we get a little dance, you

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<v Speaker 1>promised us you had some moves, mister Joe, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>finally doing it, and everyone's like, yeah, he's just doing

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<v Speaker 1>it because it's midterms. I'm like, yeah, that's the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>That means that he's afraid of our power as voters

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<v Speaker 1>and he needs to.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's also what he campaigned on and what he promised,

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<v Speaker 2>so he's trying to deliver on that promise. Otherwise, like

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<v Speaker 2>what was the point of us, you know, like taking.

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<v Speaker 3>Your word for that exactly. I think the big CTA

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<v Speaker 3>or call the action is like, make sure you're applying.

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<v Speaker 3>I think there are so many people out there that

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<v Speaker 3>are not applying, and the time is now, the applete

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<v Speaker 3>from the last time I checked, the applications are still open.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go and apply for student loan debt forgiveness.

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<v Speaker 3>And again to Delian's point, like control what you can

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, hopefully if everything pushes through, then you

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<v Speaker 3>end up gaining that you know, ten I guess ten

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<v Speaker 3>to twenty thousand dollars with debt relieved, which can help

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<v Speaker 3>out a significant amount of Americans.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, my sister is so excited. I think she's

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<v Speaker 1>getting like eighteen thousand between her and her husband, eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>thousand forgiven. And I mean that's a game changer for

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<v Speaker 1>them because she works in healthcare and they don't pay

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<v Speaker 1>them nearly enough, nearly enough. Should we take one more question?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see John has a question the chat. With the

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<v Speaker 1>holidays coming up and having a big family, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>best way to budget for buying gifts while still having

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<v Speaker 1>enough to take care of bills. I would consider like

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<v Speaker 1>going after Halloween and starting your shopping. You little late John,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to get in there early.

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<v Speaker 2>Budget.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling like shopping in July, like this will be

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<v Speaker 1>good for so and so, and start like that's my

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<v Speaker 1>my strategy is like by throughout the year and then

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<v Speaker 1>try not to forget where you put the stuff. That's

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<v Speaker 1>my strategy. What do y'all say?

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, I no longer buy toys for my

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<v Speaker 2>friend's kids. Sorry, thank you enough. I contribute to their

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<v Speaker 2>five twenty nines. I'm like, you're set up a five

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<v Speaker 2>twenty nine. If so, I will happily contribute to it.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know that's my vibe now, and I I

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<v Speaker 2>think that that is it's been. The parents are very

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<v Speaker 2>grateful for it. It's not awkward at all. You get

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<v Speaker 2>to also educate your friends on it if they don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what a five twenty nine is. And that's been

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<v Speaker 2>my strategy for a couple of years now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeap, totally agree. Either a five twenty nine or I

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<v Speaker 3>just give people money, like my sisters know every single

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<v Speaker 3>year I have five older sisters. I'm like, you guys

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<v Speaker 3>are getting money because I don't know. First of all,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what the hell you want. Second of all,

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<v Speaker 3>like I much rather just give you cash, because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sure you much rather have fifty dollars than me pay

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<v Speaker 3>one hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>For a product that you don't want.

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<v Speaker 3>So that allowed me to decrease how much I spend

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<v Speaker 3>during the holiday season. But when you think, when you

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<v Speaker 3>think about twenty twenty three, I talk all the time

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<v Speaker 3>on the platform, you know, make sure you're setting up

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<v Speaker 3>a sinking funder, a Christmas fund. I mean, twenty dollars

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<v Speaker 3>a week for fifty two weeks. It's more than one

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<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars that you could have for your kids or

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<v Speaker 3>for family that you can either give out or you

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<v Speaker 3>can buy toys, whatever it is, while not having to

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<v Speaker 3>think about, Okay, well how am I going to find

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<v Speaker 3>the money that I need in order to pay for

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<v Speaker 3>not only gifts but also the life expenses that I have.

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<v Speaker 3>So planning for Christmas starts on December, or Christmas of

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<v Speaker 3>next year starts December twenty sixth, right, So like, just

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<v Speaker 3>keep that in mind as you're planning out, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Christmas gifts and everything. I think that was the only

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<v Speaker 3>money tip my mom has ever taught me, is like

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<v Speaker 3>to build a sinking fund, their Christmas fund.

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<v Speaker 1>You call the thinking fund.

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<v Speaker 3>Sinking Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, the sinking fund, all right, I feel like for

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<v Speaker 1>big families, if you have young kids, it's so hard though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I see the ads now coming up on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to invest in the ad for YouTube kids

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<v Speaker 1>for Rio because my son, because I was like, he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be inductrinated to want these toys. So the

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<v Speaker 1>ads come up and then their minds change all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I really can empathize with parents who are like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you said you were into Paw Patrol and July. Well

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<v Speaker 1>now it's December and it's all about I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like my Little Pony or whatever the kids are watching

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<v Speaker 1>these days, Blippy or these random Russian children who open

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<v Speaker 1>up toys and are bajillionaires on YouTube. But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>experience as rule. So I think having conversations when the

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<v Speaker 1>kids are old enough about what do you value? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want If you want a toy, Okay, here's our budget.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna you can have toys and things. But what

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<v Speaker 1>if we put the same money we would put into

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<v Speaker 1>gifts into a family experience and maybe it's going on

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<v Speaker 1>a cruise or you know, going on a road trip

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<v Speaker 1>or a vacation or something. I hope that I can

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<v Speaker 1>create the kind of we were so gift obsessed as

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<v Speaker 1>kids in my household like and I, And it makes

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<v Speaker 1>me so sad because my parents, especially my mom. I

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<v Speaker 1>was raised by a single mom and she had four kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just like my heart breaks for her having

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<v Speaker 1>these greedy ass little kids landing toys, and I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>like want to go back and just squeeze my little

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<v Speaker 1>self like stam it, but I want to create, like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, to household where it's about those experiences,

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<v Speaker 1>and we recognize that it's a trade off. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>things you can't take with you, but these experiences as

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<v Speaker 1>a family, you know, we won't get back.

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<v Speaker 2>I recently tweeted something where I said, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>grew up poor and my parents did the best that

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<v Speaker 2>they could. But at the end of the day, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think about like the gifts or the things that

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get. I think about all of the time

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<v Speaker 2>that I wanted with them but didn't have because my

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<v Speaker 2>parents were working all the time, and when they were home,

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<v Speaker 2>they were always tired. Like my parents were always exhausted.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom couldn't even sit for a movie with us,

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<v Speaker 2>like she would immediately fall asleep, you know, So I

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<v Speaker 2>would rather they work less and spend more quality time

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<v Speaker 2>with us and not buy you know, gifts or so

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<v Speaker 2>many gifts. I feel the pressure to like keep up

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<v Speaker 2>because at the end of the day, like, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I remember is just how exhausted they were all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think at the end of the day, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's what most kids want, they just want quality time.

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<v Speaker 2>They want your attention more than you know. When they're

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<v Speaker 2>opening the gift, they're like, are you looking at me

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<v Speaker 2>opening the gift? Want your attention, you know, So give

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<v Speaker 2>them your undivided attention. That is the best gift you

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<v Speaker 2>can give them.

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<v Speaker 1>Or if your mark, just throw money at them. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's a little brother move right there. If it's not cash,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, here's a bath and body, You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no clue, absolutely no clue we want.

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<v Speaker 1>And no time to figure it out, I guess anyway. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this has been so fun. Okay, let's take a quick

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<v Speaker 1>breaking break and we'll be right back with more of

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<v Speaker 1>our special Halloween Treat edition of the ba Q and

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<v Speaker 1>a let's pivot because I have a fun little segment.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call this brand ambition trick oh treat. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to ask you, guys. I'm going to run

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<v Speaker 1>through like a little list of financial things, concept headlines,

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<v Speaker 1>and y'all have to answer trick or treat. It should

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<v Speaker 1>be pretty self explanatory. Treat is good and trick is bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to kick things off and we can

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully go a little bit speedy on this one. But

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna start with cryptocurrency.

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<v Speaker 2>Trick or treat.

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<v Speaker 1>Trick shock, I'm amazed, trick you've thought about that for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't think I have enough time to explain,

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<v Speaker 3>but I would say trick.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, explain for like ten seconds. All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think when you think about any type of

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<v Speaker 3>if you bucket crypto underneath alternative asset classes, I think

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<v Speaker 3>there's a place in your portfolio for it, but it

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<v Speaker 3>should not be the entire portfolio. Right like when people

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<v Speaker 3>are going they're putting ninety percent of their money into crypto,

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<v Speaker 3>like their entire portfolio into crypto, I think then it

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<v Speaker 3>becomes a trick. But if you find a way to

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<v Speaker 3>use it strategically and let it be five, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>less than five percent of your portfolio, I think there's

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<v Speaker 3>there's an opportunity there We'll see how it pans out

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<v Speaker 3>into the future when we have more data on cryptocurrency,

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<v Speaker 3>but as of right now, it's it's a trick, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think people are falling for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, no, especially black and brown people to a crazy extent.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if y'all, if you don't know what these words mean, Vanguard,

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<v Speaker 1>etf indext fun, don't be investing in crypto before you

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<v Speaker 1>understand these other terms. Okay, all right? What about buying

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<v Speaker 1>a house in today's housing market? Trick or treat?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? That's always that is a trick, question, is what

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<v Speaker 2>it is. I think it's hard. It can always be

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<v Speaker 2>a trick if you don't run your numbers and you

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<v Speaker 2>don't actually know what you're getting into, right, If you're

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<v Speaker 2>just doing it because you've been told that that's like

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<v Speaker 2>what you're supposed to do as an adult, that you're

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to buy a house, that this is how you

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<v Speaker 2>build wealth. If all of your expectations are off, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a huge trick. If you're buying a home because you

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely want one, you know it's going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>big expense, but you want one. You want a backyard

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<v Speaker 2>for your family, you want more space, you want more privacy.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're not counting on this being like your retire plan, right,

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<v Speaker 2>You're not counting on this, you know, being like putting

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<v Speaker 2>all your eggs in this one house and that this

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<v Speaker 2>is going to be guaranteed, you know, generational wealth for

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<v Speaker 2>my family. I think then that it can be a tree.

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<v Speaker 2>So you have to It's all about like your perspective

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<v Speaker 2>when you buy the house, and also like are you

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<v Speaker 2>buying too much house? Are you overbidding? Are you you know,

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<v Speaker 2>giving into pressure. Just because you get approved for you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a million dollar mortgage doesn't mean that you go and

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<v Speaker 2>buy a million dollar house. So I think if whether

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<v Speaker 2>it's a trick or treat is like depends.

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<v Speaker 1>On you, right, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>When Dellian mentioned in the beginning, I mean it's really

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<v Speaker 3>a numbers game because you're either going to get you know,

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<v Speaker 3>right now, prices are lower, but rates are high. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>a year ago the other way around, you know, housing

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<v Speaker 3>prices were higher and rates are low. So it's truly

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<v Speaker 3>a numbers game, and I think it does to Delian's point,

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<v Speaker 3>it comes down to what you want in your life,

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<v Speaker 3>Like where are you at in your stage of your

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<v Speaker 3>life because everyone's situation is different. I'm looking at the

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<v Speaker 3>Atlanta market now and I think there's a ton of opportunities.

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<v Speaker 3>Though rates are high, but you can always refinance after

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<v Speaker 3>a certain period of time. So if you need to

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<v Speaker 3>jump in, you know, do whatever you need to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Put yourself in a position to jump into the market.

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<v Speaker 3>But don't feel pressured from other people telling you to

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<v Speaker 3>do certain things, because, like investing, you know your time

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<v Speaker 3>to jump into the housing market or into the investing market,

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it might be, isn't going to be the same

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<v Speaker 3>as someone down the street or your best friend or

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<v Speaker 3>whoever else. It will always be different on your situation.

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<v Speaker 1>And you ain't co signing this mortgage, then you can

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<v Speaker 1>take your advice and take it to the internet streets

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<v Speaker 1>and leave me alone, all right? What about Elon musk

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<v Speaker 1>owns Twitter now trick or treat.

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<v Speaker 2>Or that is a big ass trick?

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<v Speaker 3>I agree?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What about the think? I mean, he brought a freaking sink?

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<v Speaker 2>What was that all about?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even let it sink in. I'm the owner

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<v Speaker 1>of that now. Yeah, yeah, dad joke, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>Well he got a lot of babies, Nick Cannon check.

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<v Speaker 2>Anybody can make a dad job.

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<v Speaker 3>Quirky guy. I think it's more of like the I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like the impact to social media world is what

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<v Speaker 3>I worry more about, because he's going to make some

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<v Speaker 3>pretty big moves with Twitter, I'm sure. I mean, he's

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<v Speaker 3>probably already made a bunch of moves over the last

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<v Speaker 3>forty eight hours. And I think he's going to influence

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<v Speaker 3>what Mark Zuckerberg does with meta and like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>what other people do with their social media platforms, which

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<v Speaker 3>may not be extremely positive for the overall experience.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my biggest and the fact that he's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>he's taking a private which means less oversight. He's doing

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<v Speaker 2>that intentionally so that he can do whatever he wants

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<v Speaker 2>without having an answer to anyone, having to answer to shareholders.

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<v Speaker 2>And I will say the most disturbing thing that I've

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<v Speaker 2>seen is how, you know, the use of the N

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<v Speaker 2>word has shot up like forty five and since he's

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<v Speaker 2>taken over, so people are like, finally we can say

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<v Speaker 2>what we want, And yeah, that was terrifying. That was

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<v Speaker 2>really really scary.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeahant you know be fact checken, stay fact chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get it going. I gotta get more

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<v Speaker 1>and more and more Okay, what about this after pay

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<v Speaker 1>slash Clarina slash affirm.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh for creat big ass trick trick tricks.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm not gonna lie I used. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>used one of them to pay for my peloton. I

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<v Speaker 1>finally paid that thing off.

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<v Speaker 3>You're smart with money, right, like you're smart with money,

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<v Speaker 3>like you've you can you can kind of navigate that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think it's the new credit card right without

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<v Speaker 3>the negative connotation that comes along with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just too good to be true. Well, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to have to pay that Sephora purchase. Come on now.

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<v Speaker 2>I did the same thing you do with Mandy with

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<v Speaker 2>my time too, And the way I did it was

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<v Speaker 2>it was set up as autopay, so I don't I've

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<v Speaker 2>never missed the payment. It was auto pay, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>zero percent auto pay cool. I think the problem is

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<v Speaker 2>that people don't do the autopay option right. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>how these companies make millions and billions of dollars is

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<v Speaker 2>on the late fees. Because I'm like, how is this

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<v Speaker 2>business model working? I don't understand they're charging zero percent?

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<v Speaker 2>How are they making money? It's on the late fees,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's how they get you. So, if you are

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<v Speaker 2>going to use one of these, just set it to

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<v Speaker 2>auto pay, cool, no problem. But if you're not going

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<v Speaker 2>to use the autopay option, I would stay away from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I call them a treat. But with all those

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<v Speaker 1>all those quid pro quoe quotes like read the fine

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<v Speaker 1>print and I like to I could have paid for

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<v Speaker 1>it in cash, but I'm like, why tie up my

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<v Speaker 1>money with this bike if I can just zero percent

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<v Speaker 1>finance it and then keep my money in my savings

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<v Speaker 1>account where even I'm earning you know, maybe one percent

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<v Speaker 1>or two percent now anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>But Yeah, Similarly, like any other debt you take on,

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<v Speaker 3>you want to make sure you have a plan in

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<v Speaker 3>order to pay off. I think the challenge is a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of people around December they go and they buy

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<v Speaker 3>these gifts because they don't have the money and they

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<v Speaker 3>don't have the they don't have a plan to pay

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<v Speaker 3>it off, and they get into all this debt and

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<v Speaker 3>then they find yourselves getting in like January February worlds around.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, okay, well I'm still making payments on this

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<v Speaker 3>thing that I bought in December and November, and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have enough money to pay for it, right, So

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<v Speaker 3>you want to make sure you have that plan before

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<v Speaker 3>you get into really any debt, which it seems like

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<v Speaker 3>both you guys have I love.

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<v Speaker 1>That picture you just painted of that experience. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's such a visceral feeling of you have that moment

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<v Speaker 1>of joy when they open up the gift and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so exciting, and then you're left with the bills a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of months down, and you're the pit in your stomach.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's like in your stomach and you feel

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<v Speaker 1>sick because they've already forgotten about that thing you bought

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<v Speaker 1>and you're still dealing with the debt. Okay, speaking of

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<v Speaker 1>which trick or treat Black Friday sales, Mark, You're a dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you were in those best Buy Black Friday ads.

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<v Speaker 2>I love best Buy.

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<v Speaker 1>I why do I know you so well? And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know you that well.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like my second home.

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<v Speaker 3>Anytime that I just have extra time, I'm in best Buy,

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<v Speaker 3>I would say again in long same vain, you want

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<v Speaker 3>to be strategic about what you buy. Like for example,

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<v Speaker 3>I needed a toothbrush and I went and I bought

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<v Speaker 3>it now, but I really thought about Hey, like I

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<v Speaker 3>could have bought this during Black Friday and it could

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<v Speaker 3>have been half off, right. I also, when I moved

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<v Speaker 3>down to Atlanta, I need a TV. If it fell like,

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<v Speaker 3>if I moved down here in November, I probably would

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<v Speaker 3>wait until Black Friday in order to buy because I

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<v Speaker 3>needed a TV. But I think sometimes people go and

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<v Speaker 3>they buy things that they don't need, and then months

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<v Speaker 3>down the road they're like, why did I buy that? Right?

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<v Speaker 3>The joy goes away? You know that that feeling is

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<v Speaker 3>very fleeting after some time. So I would say it's

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<v Speaker 3>a it's a treat. You know, have some fun, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like we're like, how did how Delian start off? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you make the money, Like, go off and

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<v Speaker 3>live your best life, but make sure you have a

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<v Speaker 3>plan as going about doing it. So I'd say, take

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<v Speaker 3>advantage of it, have your fun, but again, still have

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<v Speaker 3>a plan and think about do I really need this

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<v Speaker 3>or do I want it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think everybody likes the idea of getting a

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<v Speaker 2>deal and so, oh I got a deal on this,

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<v Speaker 2>but they don't realize that a lot of these stores

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<v Speaker 2>will actually increase their prices before Black Friday sale and

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<v Speaker 2>then say it's forty percent off when they've already built

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<v Speaker 2>in a huge markup. So there is a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>marketing gimmicks going on that you guys don't may not

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<v Speaker 2>even realize is happening behind the scenes. Understand, at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day, these stores will always come out ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>They will always come out ahead. And if they get

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<v Speaker 2>you to buy something that you were never planning to

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<v Speaker 2>buy in the first place, they win and you lose.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm down for we need a new TV right

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<v Speaker 1>now too, and we're going to wait and see what

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<v Speaker 1>the sales are like. Even if we don't find something

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<v Speaker 1>good like, we'll get one. But it's like something that

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<v Speaker 1>you actually need that you're planning to buy to score

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<v Speaker 1>a good deal. When I'm day gal, I like shopping online.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to nobody's store. I'm not waiting at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I live across from a mall and I never.

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<v Speaker 1>Go in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a quick pro tip. If there's something that you

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<v Speaker 3>think that you want right now, let it be a

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<v Speaker 3>TV or a sound system, whatever it is, go to

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<v Speaker 3>Best Buy now, take pictures, figure out what the cost

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<v Speaker 3>is right now. That way, when November comes up, whenever

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<v Speaker 3>Black Friday is, you can go and check those prices

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<v Speaker 3>to see if it's actually fifty percent off or whatever

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<v Speaker 3>it is, and you will see what Delian's talking about

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<v Speaker 3>because I've seen and implemented the same strategies before when

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<v Speaker 3>I work in retail.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, there's also a Chrome extension I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>called price Checker that you can add to your Google

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<v Speaker 1>Chrome and you can just click it and it'll find

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<v Speaker 1>the same product you're looking at. So if you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>on Target or best Buy and it will show you

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<v Speaker 1>like four or five competitors and what they're So it

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<v Speaker 1>makes it really quick to makes it really easy to

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<v Speaker 1>quickly comparison shop. I think it's called price Checker. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out and put it in the show notes.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever it is, all right, A couple more, a couple

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<v Speaker 1>more shrink flation trick or treat.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a big ass trick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we can't do this year. The bags are shrinking,

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<v Speaker 1>but the price everything.

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<v Speaker 2>My potato chips, I'm like, were my potato chips? They

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<v Speaker 2>are gone? I'm like, what's going on? Like it's either

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<v Speaker 2>more air or less chips. I'm like, something's happening here.

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<v Speaker 2>I could feel like because like I used to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I would go to Trader Joe's. I spend like about

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred and fifty dollars every ten days, and I

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<v Speaker 2>would be able to fill up like four shopping bags

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<v Speaker 2>and now I spend one fifty and I can only

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<v Speaker 2>fill up three bags. So definitely seeing shrinkflation happening, and

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<v Speaker 2>that one's there's really not much you can do about it, right,

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<v Speaker 2>You just kind of have to. If you do see

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<v Speaker 2>some products like really skyrocketing, you may want to consider

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<v Speaker 2>just like not buying that for the foreseeable future. But

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<v Speaker 2>some things you just need and it's like I can't

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<v Speaker 2>avoid this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's about that price per ounce for me, or

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<v Speaker 1>price per unit. I'm always looking for that on the

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<v Speaker 1>barcode or with the little price on at the grocery store,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you buy the list of the bigger package,

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<v Speaker 1>usually you're paying less. But then it's also like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to waste anything. This is why I'm most

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<v Speaker 1>people who goes to the aisle at the grocery store,

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<v Speaker 1>and it takes me forever because I'm just reading everything

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<v Speaker 1>and doing mental calculation. Mark, is there anything I don't know?

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<v Speaker 1>Has Berry's boot Camp? Have they shrunk your classes and

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<v Speaker 1>it's still charge the same. I have no relation, hit you.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just trying to think through that, and there

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<v Speaker 3>hasn't been many ways. The only thing I can think

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<v Speaker 3>of is like the price of like meats, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>have a pretty protein heavy diet. When you go and

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<v Speaker 3>you buy meat from you have a Publix down the

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<v Speaker 3>street and the trailer Joe's and Whole Foods. Now, it's

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<v Speaker 3>definitely more expensive in order to buy like a pound

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<v Speaker 3>of meat. But otherwise I haven't paid as much attention

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<v Speaker 3>as I probably should.

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<v Speaker 1>Check your ptter and see if they were putting less

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<v Speaker 1>than that can.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I need to check the clementines I just bought

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<v Speaker 3>to see if I'm getting less probably matter more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, let's make this the last one. TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>algorithm trick or treat mmm, trick, thank you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because even when.

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<v Speaker 2>You do hate a viral, it's not the people you want,

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<v Speaker 2>so it doesn't even help you. Like I've had several

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<v Speaker 2>videos go super viral, like a million views, and they

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<v Speaker 2>feed it to like a bunch of teenagers, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>these are not my people. These are not my people.

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<v Speaker 2>So it can be it can be frustrating on that

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<v Speaker 2>platform for sure. But you know, twenty twenty twenty one,

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok was glory days. I my business was booming. I

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<v Speaker 2>was getting a lot of business off of TikTok. Then

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<v Speaker 2>much less now now it's Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess it depends on what viewpoint, right, So

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<v Speaker 3>if you're coming in as like the consumer in a way,

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<v Speaker 3>like you may be getting what you're looking for. Like

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<v Speaker 3>my TikTok is not booming in any form of fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>I never had, it never has and I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if they ever will, but we'll see. But what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>looking at TikTok right now, I'm looking at like different

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<v Speaker 3>places that I want to travel, Like I'm playing a

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<v Speaker 3>trip to two Turks and my TikTok feed is like

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<v Speaker 3>all these different vacation places that like I really want

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<v Speaker 3>to go, so I'm saving them, I'm taking down notes,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm putting in the trip of vasor. So the algorithm

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<v Speaker 3>has been good to me from a consumer standpoint.

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<v Speaker 2>A consumer, I agree, fantastic.

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<v Speaker 3>But in terms of like business, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I put out prequality information and it's not

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<v Speaker 3>taking off as I would want it to. I think

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<v Speaker 3>they have some work to do on the algorithm.

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<v Speaker 2>Still, I will say like they're saying that TikTok is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be like the new Google, and it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I do find myself. I use it only for the

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<v Speaker 2>search bar in TikTok and Google and like using it

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<v Speaker 2>as a Google feature and it's fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially for cooking. Yeah, I'm a huge TikTok's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>where I go to take a brain vacation. So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't follow a lot of personal finance or money stuff

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<v Speaker 1>on TikTok. I just like to go enjoy my fun,

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<v Speaker 1>love island bloopers, and it knows me too well, it

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<v Speaker 1>shows me too well. Oh well, this has been so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Deli, thanks for saying yes to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so privileged and I hope it was a good

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<v Speaker 1>use of your time. It was such a joy having

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<v Speaker 1>you here and Mark the little brother, who I just adore.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though you're not actually blood, you feel like blood.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for spending a little spooktacular Halloween

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<v Speaker 1>episode with me, and to the BA fan for tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in live on YouTube. Y'all are amazing. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for your continued support, and we will see y'all

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