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It is a Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. 12 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 1: Subject She's too phony and bony now. Dear Stephen Shirley, 13 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: I've been married for four years to the love of 14 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 1: my life. When we met, she had just had a 15 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: handsome baby boy, and we bonded over us being both 16 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: being heartbroken. I was engaged to a self centered woman 17 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: before I met my wife, and two weeks before our wedding, 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: she ghosted me. My wife had been dating a man 19 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: for a long time, and when she got pregnant, he 20 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: ghosted her. We were two damaged friends that became lovers. 21 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: I have raised her son as my own and loved 22 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: her through her weight challenge. Is I know she was 23 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: bigger when we met because she just had a baby. 24 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: I knew she was bigger because she just had a 25 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: baby when she was still overweight. A year later, we 26 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: started eating healthier and I encouraged her to lose weight. 27 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: We got a trainer and she went and got a 28 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: breast reduction. When the weight came off, she got a 29 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: lot of new clothes, and she let her hair grow, 30 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: and she got a perm. It was like her attitude 31 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 1: changed overnight, and she was very uppity all of a sudden. 32 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: I suggest that she eats up on working out because 33 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: she lost all of her curves. She started hanging out 34 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 1: with her trainer and the trainer's friends, who are all skinny, 35 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: single airheads. 36 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 2: That drink a lot and like to be in the streets. 37 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: My wife started wearing emerald contacts, and she wants some 38 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: kind of cosmetic procedure on her chin. Our son will 39 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: be five in two months, and she wants to rent 40 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: a venue for his party because she said my house 41 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: is not adequate enough. She puts her tiny little but 42 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: in lingerie before sex, and her moan sounds so phony, 43 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: like we're in a poorno. I can't keep up with 44 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: a new woman she has become, and I hope she 45 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: doesn't tell me that I'm not enough for her. How 46 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 1: do I get my juicy, down to earth wife back. Well, honestly, 47 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: I don't think that's gonna happen. I don't think you're 48 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: gonna get her back, I think. And the problem is 49 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: you're afraid that you can't keep up with this new 50 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: woman she has become. And I think she's gone for good. 51 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: And you just basically told us why because she's changed 52 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: on the outside. You said, she got a breast reduction, 53 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: she lost dollar curve, she's wearing Emerald contacts now. But 54 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: I really think it's the inside change that's bothering you 55 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: the most. Because she has new friends now. She hangs 56 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: out with her trainer and his people. They like to 57 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: drink and they're from the street, you say. And although 58 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: you were very supportive in the beginning, you know about 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: her weight loss and all of that getting a trainer 60 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: and all of that eating healthier. That broken girl that 61 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 1: you bonded with a few years back, that girl is 62 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: no longer interested in being a good wife at see. 63 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: She's trying to live her best life right now after 64 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: conquering her weight issues, and this is who she really is. 65 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: You need to get used to this this is who 66 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: this person really is. She's skinny now, all of that 67 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: she you know, she got her priorities mixed up. They're 68 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: all out of order now because she's trying to find 69 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: herself and she's losing you. I mean, doesn't she realize 70 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: that she could have it both. She could have a 71 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: good family, a good marriage, she could have a good life, and. 72 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 2: She could still have a good toned body. 73 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: And all of a sudden, your house isn't good enough 74 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: for a five year old's birthday party. I mean, the 75 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: five year old doesn't care about that. He just wants 76 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: to party with his little friends. I say, you got 77 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: to talk to her. It might be too late, but 78 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: you know you've got to try to reason with her 79 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: because I think it's not over until it's over. I mean, 80 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: I can't speak on her fake moaning because if she 81 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: is faking it, that may be the real reason she's 82 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: checked out. 83 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 2: I mean, that's what's got you so scared. 84 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: You got to try and sit down and figure this 85 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: whole situation out with her. But I do think part 86 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: of her is gone for good. You'll never get that back. 87 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 3: Steve. Okay, look, you all bonded out of mutual hurt, 88 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 3: but I think the relationship started in a genuine fashion. 89 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 3: Seems like now when you all had this baby and 90 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 3: she was still overweight a year later. Now, let's talk 91 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 3: about this for a second. That's that baby wait. Man, 92 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: it's hard to get rid of it, really, really is. 93 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 3: I hear a lot of women talk about the struggles 94 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 3: of baby wait, and you got to understand that there 95 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 3: are women that's dealing with baby wait thirteen years afterwards. 96 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, yes, And who am I? Who 97 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 3: am I to say that she'd have gotten rid of 98 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 3: it by now because I look at my i stomach 99 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 3: and I think I should have gotten rid of it 100 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: by now, But it don't go away like I wanted to. 101 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: So this is a weight issue. This whole thing is 102 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: about weighting attitude. This whole thing. Y'all started eating healthier, 103 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 3: and you encourage her to lose weight. She got a trainer, 104 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 3: she went and got a breast reduction. So she just 105 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 3: started taking everything down. I'm gonna take this weight down 106 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 3: and get rid of these breasts. You know, all this 107 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 3: health The weight came off, she bought a lot of 108 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 3: new clothes, she let her hair grow, and she got 109 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 3: a purrent. Now I'm just really basing on these new 110 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: changes that you're telling me. I just want to deal 111 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 3: with what was it? We was dealing with it rigularly. 112 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 3: There you go, because you do cut everything. So it 113 00:05:54,560 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 3: just makes me when the weight she got a breast reduction, Yeah, 114 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 3: when the weight came, or she got a lot of 115 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 3: new clothes and she let her hair grow and got 116 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 3: a perm. Law, Jesus, what was going on before? So 117 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 3: before the breast reduction, before the weight loss, before she 118 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 3: grew her hair, and before the perm and before the 119 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 3: emerald eye contexts? Ho, Lord Jesus, who was you staying with? 120 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 2: Don't forget the emerald context? I said that just now, 121 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 2: all right, here we go. 122 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 1: When we come back, we'll have part two of Steve's 123 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: response at twenty three. 124 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 2: Minutes after the hour. You definitely don't want to miss it. 125 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject is she's too phony and bony. 126 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 2: Now we'll get back into it right after this. 127 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hi, this is Shirley's 128 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: Strawberry and I'm part with the leave. Let me tell 129 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 1: you it couldn't have come at a better time. I'm 130 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: owe some furniture around last weekend in my new place. 131 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: It turns out that was a really bad idea because 132 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: all that bending and lifting and pretending I'm still twenty 133 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: five didn't agree with my knees. So I grabbed a 134 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: leave because when my body pain shows up, I need 135 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: something that lasts. With just one pill. A leave lasts 136 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: up to twelve hours. Don't let those aches and pain 137 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: hold you back from doing what's important to you. Use 138 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: as directed. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's 139 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is she's too phony and bony. 140 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 3: Now, well, this was a letter about a man and 141 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 3: woman who met, who had mutual pain, but they were 142 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: there for each other, and both of them got ghosted. 143 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 3: One after this she got pregnant. The other ones the 144 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 3: guy got ghosted two weeks before his wed and they 145 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 3: met each other. They were friends. They two damaged friends 146 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 3: that became lovers. Was his description. You've raised a son 147 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 3: like your own. You've loved her through weight challenges. Now, 148 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 3: you said in the letter, I knew she was bigger 149 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: when we met because she just had a baby when 150 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 3: she was still overweight a year later. Then y'all started 151 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 3: eating health and you encourage her to lose a weight. 152 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 3: I'm assuming we started because you was kind of you know, 153 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 3: big boy yourself a little bit. Then got a trainer, 154 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 3: win it. 155 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 2: Now here was the problem. 156 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 3: I have to I'm listening to everything she's done, and 157 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 3: I want to just see what were we dealing with 158 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 3: before all this? So these is the change. She got 159 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 3: a trainer and got a breast reduction, so that's the 160 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 3: first thing she got. Because then you said when the 161 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 3: weight came or she got really new clothes. So she 162 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 3: got the breast reduction done first. That was probably so 163 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 3: she could do the workouts. What I don't know, That's 164 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 3: what I'm thinking. They stole this letter right here. If 165 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 3: I was an ignorant person reading this letter, and I 166 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: do have a tendency to be ignorant at times. 167 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: Oh really, check she was overweighted. 168 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: A year later, we started eating health together, we got 169 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 3: a trainer, she went and got a breast reduction. I'm 170 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 3: assuming that these exercises with without the breast reduction was 171 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 3: a bit much. She was getting hit in the mouth 172 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 3: a lot, you know, maybe even jumped and knocked herself out, 173 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 3: you know, Uh, couldn't couldn't see the flow, you know, 174 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 3: doing the little letter drills on the floe and couldn't 175 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 3: see the flow caught the breast. It was in the way. 176 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 3: I don't know what, but to do these exercises, she 177 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 3: had to get this breast reduction. Then when the weight 178 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 3: come off, she got a lot of clothes. Then she 179 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 3: let her hair grow and got a perm. So before 180 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 3: this it wasn't no hand and it wasn't no perm. 181 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: I'm just basing this on that. Then her attitude changed 182 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 3: and she started wearing emerald contacts. You gotta be careful 183 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 3: with the emerald contact because they got to match your 184 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 3: told you just can't want green eyes and be any shade. 185 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 3: Now if some of this we bought a line, scary. 186 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 3: Now we're looking like children of the coin and stuff 187 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 3: like this. Now, you you know, like really really fair 188 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 3: complexing people can't get mraal eyes, and real dog people 189 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 3: can't get m raal eyes. You can't go on the street. 190 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: You gotta be somewhere in the middle. You gotta be 191 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 3: like a different color to get them eyes. Then you 192 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 3: said she wanted some kind of cosmetic surgery on her chin, 193 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 3: or her chin was probably damaged from her breast. You know, 194 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 3: a lot of this golds hand in hand in this 195 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 3: letter right here, I'm not gonna be able to help 196 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 3: this couple out. 197 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: I can see that right now. 198 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: So let's just find the joy out of this letter. 199 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 3: Because after this breast reduction, notcha, for the first time. 200 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 2: She's seeing her chin. 201 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 3: Now she got to get something done because them breakfasts 202 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 3: all up under her throat. She had her cleavage started. 203 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 3: Her cleavage was so big some people thought she had 204 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: a cleft in her chin. It was actually her breast. 205 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 3: So now once she got that cleavage reduced, she found 206 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 3: out it wasn't a cleft in her chin. 207 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,239 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 208 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: Then the sun gonna be five in two months, and 209 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 3: she want to rent a venue because the house ain't 210 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 3: adequate enough for the five year old party, because she 211 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 3: want a flex in front of her little skinny uh 212 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 3: friends and train of friends. Then then she puts on 213 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 3: a little tiny butt in large and ray before sex 214 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 3: and her moon sounds so funny, like we are a 215 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 3: porno and you just can't keep up with this woman. 216 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 3: She could come and hope she don't tell me that 217 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 3: I'm not enough for her. How do I get my 218 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 3: juicy down to earth wife back? She could be gone 219 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 3: with all this chin worth weight reduction and then took 220 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 3: the breast off. You just can't go packing that back home. 221 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 3: But we're gonna have to start though. The only way 222 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 3: we're gonna get big Juicy back is we got to 223 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 3: start with food. We got to get these calories up. 224 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: This I can help you with. I can't help you 225 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 3: with losing weight, but I can show no how to 226 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 3: packing the bread. Bread is very important, and not just 227 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 3: bread alone, but you got to put something on the bread. 228 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 3: It's got to be the butter or jam, stuff like that. 229 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 3: You don't just eat the bread by itself. Because we 230 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 3: got to get big juice it back. That's what you want. 231 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: You want big juice it down to earth. And she 232 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: was down to earth because she couldn't get off the earth, 233 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: you understand. So big people is gonna be more ground 234 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 3: dead because they are very rarely ever a born. So 235 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 3: there you're gonna have these moments like this here. So 236 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 3: to get big juice It back, we got to start 237 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 3: with bread. We need to go to the grocery store 238 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 3: and buy that big bag of potatoes, the one you 239 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 3: ain't bought in a while. That's paper, but it's got 240 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 3: the little mesh on the front so you can see 241 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 3: that there is potatoes. And you need to go down 242 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 3: there at the bottom row. 243 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: They are the. 244 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 3: Bottom row of that out and get that big bag 245 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,079 Speaker 3: of rice, the one that that that you can't hold 246 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 3: in one head. It's on the bottom rope. It's the 247 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 3: big bags is on the bottom row right all right, listen, 248 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 3: she gets that in done. She get that chi in done. 249 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: You ain't gonna be talk to her. 250 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: On the Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey on Instagram 251 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: and Facebook. 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