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Speaker 1: It is time now to check Steve's voicemails and if

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Speaker 1: you want to leave a message for Steve, and please

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Speaker 1: do we welcome you. Eight seven seven twenty nine Steve

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Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: Steve?

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Speaker 1: Here this color is a single mom who just needs

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Speaker 1: some dating advice. Steve.

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Speaker 2: I this message is well, it's a question. My name

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Speaker 2: is Yasmin. We'll just leave it up my first name.

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Speaker 2: And my question is how does a young single mother

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Speaker 2: deal with the dating world out there when she starts

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Speaker 2: to realize that most men don't want to date a

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Speaker 2: single mother, nor do they really want to give her

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Speaker 2: a chance, because I guess they're passing a judgment on her.

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Speaker 2: I'm the mother of twins. They're still very small. They

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Speaker 2: are only three years old, born a girl. And I

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Speaker 2: really like this guy and he's a great person, very successful.

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Speaker 2: I'm very successful as well, but he doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: take her to the next level because I'm a single

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Speaker 2: mother and I'd just like to know what these Steve

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Speaker 2: Harvey's opinion is what I should do, how I should

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Speaker 2: handle that, because it's really it's very discouraging.

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, don't be discouraged. Don't place the

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Speaker 3: label on yourself the fact that you are a single

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Speaker 3: mother that no one wants you, because that's not the case.

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Speaker 3: Surely was a single mother found love again. Marjorie was

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Speaker 3: a single mother of three found love again. There are

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Speaker 3: millions of cases of people out there. So first things first,

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Speaker 3: don't put that on yourself. Don't bring that negativity in

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Speaker 3: your existence, and don't put it out there in the

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Speaker 3: aura in the universe. You are fine. Just like he

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Speaker 3: was attracted to you, someone else will be attracted to

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Speaker 3: you and will be mature enough to understand that you

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Speaker 3: are a package. You are a very successful and attractive package.

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Speaker 3: And just because you run up into some man who

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Speaker 3: feel that way, there's a lot of men who don't

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Speaker 3: feel that way at all. Matter of fact, there are

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Speaker 3: a lot of men who are raising children that don't

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Speaker 3: belong to them fire log and doing a great job

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Speaker 3: of it too. And hats off to all of those men.

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Speaker 3: And there's a man out there for you. But you

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Speaker 3: cannot put into the universe that no one wants you,

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Speaker 3: because that's not true. It's not after they find out, see,

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Speaker 3: but what's good for you as you're finding this out

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Speaker 3: in time. Now, if they don't want you because you

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Speaker 3: have kids, then they don't want you, period. And let's

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Speaker 3: stop passing out the cookie for people that don't want

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Speaker 3: the package. The cookie comes in the package, no package,

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Speaker 3: no cookie, cookie, and you'll be just fine and everything

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Speaker 3: is going on them. And kill the baby talk because

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Speaker 3: it makes a lot of men come to you quicker.

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Speaker 3: Kill the baby talk.

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Speaker 1: Do you do that right there?

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Speaker 3: Just a little bit more authoritative, so you know, sounds

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Speaker 3: like you got three kids, had the twins and you

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Speaker 3: you know, you just

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