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Speaker 1: Jewels second dat Day. You know, the saying goes, after
Speaker 1: you've just got out of a relationship, you gotta jump
Speaker 1: right back on that horse, or you gotta let the
Speaker 1: horse jump back on you. However it works, And that
Speaker 1: is what Mark tried to do on his date. He
Speaker 1: tried to let the horse jump back on him. Right, Mark,
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means that you wanted to
Speaker 1: get back in the dating scene. Okay, Mark said that
Speaker 1: he wants to call this scrownam Alison to day. Apparently
Speaker 1: Mark met her and they went out on a date.
Speaker 1: Recently got out of a long relationship. That's what your
Speaker 1: email said, right, Yeah, that's right, okay, And tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit about Alice and the girl that you
Speaker 1: want us to call today. She works in my building,
Speaker 1: not in my office, but in my building, and my
Speaker 1: friends were trying to get me back in the game,
Speaker 1: and uh, they hooked me up with her. And so
Speaker 1: you just work in the big business park. How'd you
Speaker 1: approach her? A bunch of people from the building went
Speaker 1: to lunch together and she was in that group and
Speaker 1: sort of hit it off. There was it like a
Speaker 1: set up where your friends were like, Okay, we're all
Speaker 1: gonna go to lunch, We're gonna invite her. No, it
Speaker 1: wasn't set up for me to meet her. She was
Speaker 1: just there and I made the move, all right, And
Speaker 1: I made my move. So tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about your date. What did you guys do? We actually
Speaker 1: went ice skating. Oh, that's so dude. I always wanted
Speaker 1: to do that for a date and my husband will
Speaker 1: never take me. Maybe Mark, you know, if this doesn't
Speaker 1: work out for you, Mark, you can get a date
Speaker 1: with Brooke. I guess. Yeah, you went ice skating. How'd
Speaker 1: that go? It was awesome. I only fell twice and
Speaker 1: we hit it off, and like, we talked about how
Speaker 1: we both wanted to leave our jobs in the same building.
Speaker 1: All right, so you both said you both bonded over
Speaker 1: the hatred of your job. How did your date end? Then?
Speaker 1: After ice skating, we got some hot chocolate. You're adorable.
Speaker 1: Nice and then I walked her to her car and
Speaker 1: we kissed and it was really nice, a really nice,
Speaker 1: really good way to get back in it. You actually kissed,
Speaker 1: and since then she hasn't called you. Well, we have
Speaker 1: plans to go out again on a Saturday the next day,
Speaker 1: and then Saturday rolls around and she says, oh, can
Speaker 1: we push it to the next day. I said okay.
Speaker 1: And then after that the next day comes and she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: can we push it to next week? And I'm like
Speaker 1: that sucks. So it doesn't feel like she actually is
Speaker 1: just rescheduling. Mark. At the beginning of the call, you
Speaker 1: said you were trying to get back in the saddle.
Speaker 1: So how long have you been out of it? Like,
Speaker 1: was your last breakup early recent? It's been a couple
Speaker 1: of months, long enough to be over it and be
Speaker 1: ready to move on. Yeah, you weren't talking about your
Speaker 1: ex the whole time or anything, right. I specifically avoided
Speaker 1: that top. That's good. A lot of people wouldn't do that.
Speaker 1: They would have taken her ice skating. We're like, oh, man,
Speaker 1: Jessica used like ice skating a lot. I missing ice
Speaker 1: skating with her. You know, no, no, no, I've listened
Speaker 1: to your second dates a lot, so I know that's
Speaker 1: the wrong move. I like the second dates are actually
Speaker 1: helping people learn how to date. So if everything went right,
Speaker 1: ice skating was cool, you kissed at the end of
Speaker 1: the date, why do you think she's blowing you off? Now?
Speaker 1: I've been racking my brains and I have no idea
Speaker 1: because it went it really well. Have you run into
Speaker 1: her in the building? No, she works in a separate
Speaker 1: part of the building, so I never really saw her
Speaker 1: in the first place. All right, Okay, Well, we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, Well, I have one more thing though.
Speaker 1: It's the texts are really polite, and they're pushing this
Speaker 1: date that is theoretically going to happen, So it's not
Speaker 1: like she's like blowing me off. She just politely keeps moving.
Speaker 1: So that's why it's so confusing, because it's not just hey,
Speaker 1: I can't do it today. Yeah, exactly. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: we'll call her get your second day update right after this. Okay,
Speaker 1: but there's one more thing I have to tell you.
Speaker 1: What is it? Mark? I really appreciate you taking my call.
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Is there before I throw it to the song?
Speaker 1: Is there anything else that you want to say before
Speaker 1: we go? Um? No, we're good. All right, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: playing a song, come back and get your second date.
Speaker 1: Update hang on the phone, all right, brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning updates. All right, Mark is on the phone
Speaker 1: with us. He emailed us about a girl named Alison.
Speaker 1: They met through friends at work. They went out ice skating,
Speaker 1: had some cocoa, kissed at the end of the date.
Speaker 1: Really nice date. Can't really find a reason why she
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to go out with him again, and she's
Speaker 1: been blowing him off rescheduling in a very nice way.
Speaker 1: So he's not even really sure if she actually doesn't
Speaker 1: want to see him again, or if for some reason
Speaker 1: she just really is rescheduling. We're about to call her
Speaker 1: right now. But Mark, before we get her on the phone,
Speaker 1: you know you got out of a long relationship. You
Speaker 1: told us, Yeah, that's right. Do you feel like this
Speaker 1: girl could be your next girlfriend? I mean I probably.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be pushing it if I didn't think like
Speaker 1: we had something. Okay, so turn into something. So there's
Speaker 1: something there then yeah, yeah, and you're ready for another relationship? Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think Well, yeah, I'm just curious if you really
Speaker 1: like this girl like you thought. Maybe you saw a
Speaker 1: future with her, or if you just thought that you
Speaker 1: wanted to go out on another date, because I mean,
Speaker 1: I definitely think that it's potential there for it to
Speaker 1: turn into something more. I'm just really curious. I don't
Speaker 1: get it. I don't get why she sheeps putting it off. Okay,
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna call it right now. See we can
Speaker 1: get on the phone and then get your second day
Speaker 1: up date. Okay, cool, here we go. Hello. Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Alison please? This is Alison. Hey, Alison,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning, the radio show. Yes, how you doing fine?
Speaker 1: I'm calling you actually because you recently went out on
Speaker 1: a date with a listener of our show. It then. Yeah,
Speaker 1: his name is Mark. Yeah. Well apparently you've been blowing
Speaker 1: him off for a couple of weeks since your date,
Speaker 1: and he asked us to call on see if we
Speaker 1: could find out why. He said I was blowing him off.
Speaker 1: He said he's been trying to go out with you
Speaker 1: ever since your date, and you keep like postponing it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not blowing him off. Okay, should I tell
Speaker 1: him that you're actually going to go out with him?
Speaker 1: One of these days. Yeah, absolutely, Okay, what are you
Speaker 1: waiting for? Well, I mean it's important and I want
Speaker 1: to make sure that, like I'm totally there for it.
Speaker 1: So I just needed to have the right time. So
Speaker 1: there's something going on with you personally that you just
Speaker 1: need to wait, Allison. Please don't tell me it's because
Speaker 1: you need to end another relationship. No, no, definitely not. No,
Speaker 1: I'm single. Okay. Well, Mark wants to know because that's
Speaker 1: why you emailed us, because you know how it is,
Speaker 1: if you go out with someone and they keep, you know, going, oh, hey,
Speaker 1: I can't go out this week, maybe next week, and
Speaker 1: then they keep doing that. At a certain point, you
Speaker 1: feel like they don't like you. I never meant to
Speaker 1: do that, like that was not my intention at all. No,
Speaker 1: I just I just needed more time. Okay, Because he's
Speaker 1: starting to get that vibe from you that you don't
Speaker 1: want to go out with him. What can I tell him? Then?
Speaker 1: Can you just tell him that I just needed a
Speaker 1: couple extra days just to just to kind of get
Speaker 1: some things together. That sounds so sketchy though, Allison, but
Speaker 1: it's not really, It really isn't sketchy. I just I
Speaker 1: just needed a couple more days. I promise. I really
Speaker 1: do like him. Are you just like out of time,
Speaker 1: like you don't have enough time in your day and
Speaker 1: your job's really demanding or I kind of would rather
Speaker 1: not tell you, guys, because I think it might sound
Speaker 1: crazy and I would really not want to come off
Speaker 1: like a crazy person. That makes me want to know
Speaker 1: even more. Yeah, I'm thinking like you're you're going to
Speaker 1: get a boob job or something and you need to
Speaker 1: get that finished. No, not at all. I just feel
Speaker 1: like this could be the most important second date of
Speaker 1: my life, and i'd really rather not ruin the surprise.
Speaker 1: WHOA you like him that much? Wow? I do? I mean,
Speaker 1: I just I've been working on this picture book for
Speaker 1: him for the last I don't know, a couple of months,
Speaker 1: and I just want to make sure that it's it's
Speaker 1: just not ready yet to get to him, and so
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to finish it. You say you've been
Speaker 1: working on a picture book? Yeah, have you what? I've
Speaker 1: been working on collecting some photos of the last like
Speaker 1: year or so, of I guess, like of me liking him,
Speaker 1: and like Alison, I guess I'm I'm I'm confused. You
Speaker 1: guys went on that one day. Yeah, had you known
Speaker 1: each other beforehand? Because when we talked to him, he
Speaker 1: says that he knew you worked in the same building
Speaker 1: and you met like at a lunch. Yeah, in terms
Speaker 1: of like dating, but I've known of him for about
Speaker 1: a year and a half or so. One of my
Speaker 1: girlfriends at work pointed him out to me, and we
Speaker 1: were with two totally separate groups. But I met and
Speaker 1: I just knew it was perfect, Like it we were
Speaker 1: going to date. I had to wait it out. So
Speaker 1: are the pictures? So what I don't I guess I
Speaker 1: don't understand exactly what you're building. You said a picture book,
Speaker 1: But what is the picture book of collages or something? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I'm imagining you taking photos of him outside of
Speaker 1: his house. That's what it sounds like you're saying. No,
Speaker 1: just like who we were before we started dating. So
Speaker 1: like I went to his high school and I got
Speaker 1: his high school yearbook photo that minute, and I recently
Speaker 1: died my her blonde, so I have like the before
Speaker 1: and after photo. Like, so like who we were before
Speaker 1: we got together, and you're planning on giving him this
Speaker 1: on your second date? Yeah, And I mean I think
Speaker 1: he's really appreciated. I think he'd really love it. We
Speaker 1: don't you have girlfriends to tell you that this is
Speaker 1: like crazy. This isn't crazy. It's like a book of
Speaker 1: my feelings and all of like all of what we
Speaker 1: were before we're going to be together, and it's you know,
Speaker 1: like I know how much she liked blondes and the
Speaker 1: fact that I went and siged my hair bond. She's
Speaker 1: just going to appreciate it. Allison. You know what, You're right,
Speaker 1: Alison Buried. We're going to have this like shown at
Speaker 1: the wedding, was like what our lives were like before
Speaker 1: we were together. Alison, you know what if somebody had
Speaker 1: done that for me on a second date, I would
Speaker 1: think that that was so sweet. You are such a
Speaker 1: no I would think that, you know, it'd be nice
Speaker 1: if somebody went to all that work for me. Yeah. See, No,
Speaker 1: I just wanted it to be sweet like and that's
Speaker 1: why I can't see him yet. It's okay, not ready,
Speaker 1: all right, Allison, Well then I will. I would tell
Speaker 1: him to just hold tight and you will eventually go
Speaker 1: out with him. That's a message you want me to
Speaker 1: pass along. That's exactly it. Thank you, You're welcome, Alison.
Speaker 1: I also need to let you know that Mark is
Speaker 1: on the other line and just heard that. Mark. Yeah, Allison,
Speaker 1: what's going on? You've been collecting pictures of me? Allison? Um, Mark,
Speaker 1: it wasn't that you weren't supposed to find out about
Speaker 1: it this way. Like, I have this beautiful book that
Speaker 1: I've just been working on and I just wanted you
Speaker 1: to see it. And I haven't been blowing you off.
Speaker 1: I swear. See, you've been working on this since way
Speaker 1: before we even met. I mean yeah, because you were
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and so I knew that we couldn't
Speaker 1: be together. I'm not kind of girl like, of course,
Speaker 1: I was going to wait until you were single. How
Speaker 1: did you even know I was in a relationship. I mean,
Speaker 1: like we have mutual friend and at work, and so
Speaker 1: I just, you know, I knew, I knew some things
Speaker 1: about you. You've been like stalking for the past year. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, I'm not. I'm not that kind of crazy person.
Speaker 1: I'm not a stalker at all, a crazy person. You
Speaker 1: knew what our life was like before, and it was documented. Alison,
Speaker 1: this is creepy. It's not It's not at all like
Speaker 1: it's really just meant to be sweet and endearing and
Speaker 1: and you're really gonna love it when you see it,
Speaker 1: I promise. I feel unsafe. I don't think anybody blames
Speaker 1: you for that, Alison. I think you've officially scared Mark
Speaker 1: a little bit because of you, because it wasn't supposed
Speaker 1: to be like that. She was supposed to see it
Speaker 1: on our date, and now you ruined it and everybody
Speaker 1: knows it. I'm supposed to show him this book and
Speaker 1: he was supposed to just be so happy to see it. Yeah, Alison,
Speaker 1: you know what. I'm sorry that up for you. Thank
Speaker 1: you for the apology, but that doesn't change anything, Alison.
Speaker 1: In your mind, how was this going to play out exactly?
Speaker 1: He was going to fall in love with you after
Speaker 1: you gave him a book. Who do you think you are?
Speaker 1: That is exactly what was supposed to happen, Oh honey,
Speaker 1: don't don't know? Honey, mean you know this was a
Speaker 1: genius plan and you're just upset because you didn't think
Speaker 1: about it. What there's so many things wrong with this?
Speaker 1: How dare you spoil this for me? I don't know. Hey, hey, Alison,
Speaker 1: you made me look and everything Allison. I know that
Speaker 1: you're upset, but I haven't even asked if Mark would
Speaker 1: go out with you again, Like the whole thing might
Speaker 1: not be ruined. Mark, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Alison again on a second date? We'll pay for it. No,
Speaker 1: it's because of you. You did that. I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: apologize Alison. I think Allison's gone, Oh my gosh, we're
Speaker 1: gonna get another photo book sent to the station, Jewel,
Speaker 1: but it's going to be all of you with your
Speaker 1: eyes crossed out. I'm scared for my safety and Mark.
Speaker 1: I think you might need to find a new job
Speaker 1: and a new town. I think calling you, guys might
Speaker 1: have literally saved my life. I think you're right. In
Speaker 1: the morning text in at seven eight, five nine too,
Speaker 1: it says, way to go, guys, you just ruined the
Speaker 1: love of her life Jewel in the morning. I know
Speaker 1: it's kind of our thing. We tend to do that.
Speaker 1: We're talking about today's second date update. In case you
Speaker 1: missed it, this dude Mark wanted to call a co
Speaker 1: worker sort of that he went out with. Her name
Speaker 1: was Alison. They had a good time, but when we
Speaker 1: got her on the phone, we found out the reason
Speaker 1: she wasn't calling him back. She also is very into Mark,
Speaker 1: very and she wasn't calling him back because she was
Speaker 1: making a photo collage of their lives, not their lives
Speaker 1: together because I've only been on one date, but their
Speaker 1: lives before they met, so that she could give it
Speaker 1: to him and say, now our lives are changing and
Speaker 1: we'll create our own collage. And Mark thought it was weird.
Speaker 1: We thought it was weird, and then she freaked out
Speaker 1: on us because we ruined her chances. And yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: my personal opinion, even if you're dating for like a
Speaker 1: year or photo collages are kind of like, yeah, questionable.
Speaker 1: You know, photocollages anytime are kind of creepy no matter what,
Speaker 1: Like you could have been together your whole life. Like,
Speaker 1: let's say you've been together fifty years and then your
Speaker 1: wife comes down, she's like, look what I made. I
Speaker 1: made a photo collage in the last fifty years. You're like, go,
Speaker 1: time to get a divorce. You probably not something that
Speaker 1: you're like, yay, I've been waiting for this photo collage
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, So she ended up hanging up on us.
Speaker 1: They're not going out again, and she's super mad. Not
Speaker 1: because he thought the photo collage was weird. She's super
Speaker 1: mad because us getting the information out of her ruined
Speaker 1: her chance dances at a lifetime of happiness with Mark.
Speaker 1: We had a surprise coming man, and it was definitely
Speaker 1: a surprise. Well we just lost a listener, guys. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming she'll probably be all right because she sounds
Speaker 1: like the kind of person to the next dude she
Speaker 1: meets and goes on a date with. We'll also be
Speaker 1: having a collage mate, so she'll be all right. She
Speaker 1: will find love. Remember, if you want to do a
Speaker 1: second date update, all you have to do is email
Speaker 1: the show and we will call the person who didn't
Speaker 1: call you back. Movement ninety two point five