WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I've Been Watching You

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<v Speaker 1>Jewels second dat Day. You know, the saying goes, after

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<v Speaker 1>you've just got out of a relationship, you gotta jump

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<v Speaker 1>right back on that horse, or you gotta let the

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<v Speaker 1>horse jump back on you. However it works, And that

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<v Speaker 1>is what Mark tried to do on his date. He

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<v Speaker 1>tried to let the horse jump back on him. Right, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that means that you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get back in the dating scene. Okay, Mark said that

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call this scrownam Alison to day. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>Mark met her and they went out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Recently got out of a long relationship. That's what your

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<v Speaker 1>email said, right, Yeah, that's right, okay, And tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about Alice and the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. She works in my building,

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<v Speaker 1>not in my office, but in my building, and my

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<v Speaker 1>friends were trying to get me back in the game,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, they hooked me up with her. And so

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<v Speaker 1>you just work in the big business park. How'd you

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<v Speaker 1>approach her? A bunch of people from the building went

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<v Speaker 1>to lunch together and she was in that group and

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<v Speaker 1>sort of hit it off. There was it like a

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<v Speaker 1>set up where your friends were like, Okay, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go to lunch, We're gonna invite her. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't set up for me to meet her. She was

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<v Speaker 1>just there and I made the move, all right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I made my move. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your date. What did you guys do? We actually

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<v Speaker 1>went ice skating. Oh, that's so dude. I always wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do that for a date and my husband will

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<v Speaker 1>never take me. Maybe Mark, you know, if this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out for you, Mark, you can get a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Brooke. I guess. Yeah, you went ice skating. How'd

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<v Speaker 1>that go? It was awesome. I only fell twice and

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<v Speaker 1>we hit it off, and like, we talked about how

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<v Speaker 1>we both wanted to leave our jobs in the same building.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so you both said you both bonded over

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<v Speaker 1>the hatred of your job. How did your date end? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>After ice skating, we got some hot chocolate. You're adorable.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice and then I walked her to her car and

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<v Speaker 1>we kissed and it was really nice, a really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>really good way to get back in it. You actually kissed,

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<v Speaker 1>and since then she hasn't called you. Well, we have

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<v Speaker 1>plans to go out again on a Saturday the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Saturday rolls around and she says, oh, can

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<v Speaker 1>we push it to the next day. I said okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after that the next day comes and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>can we push it to next week? And I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>that sucks. So it doesn't feel like she actually is

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<v Speaker 1>just rescheduling. Mark. At the beginning of the call, you

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<v Speaker 1>said you were trying to get back in the saddle.

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<v Speaker 1>So how long have you been out of it? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>was your last breakup early recent? It's been a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of months, long enough to be over it and be

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<v Speaker 1>ready to move on. Yeah, you weren't talking about your

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<v Speaker 1>ex the whole time or anything, right. I specifically avoided

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<v Speaker 1>that top. That's good. A lot of people wouldn't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>They would have taken her ice skating. We're like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica used like ice skating a lot. I missing ice

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<v Speaker 1>skating with her. You know, no, no, no, I've listened

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<v Speaker 1>to your second dates a lot, so I know that's

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong move. I like the second dates are actually

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<v Speaker 1>helping people learn how to date. So if everything went right,

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<v Speaker 1>ice skating was cool, you kissed at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the date, why do you think she's blowing you off? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>I've been racking my brains and I have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>because it went it really well. Have you run into

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<v Speaker 1>her in the building? No, she works in a separate

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<v Speaker 1>part of the building, so I never really saw her

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<v Speaker 1>in the first place. All right, Okay, Well, we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, Well, I have one more thing though.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the texts are really polite, and they're pushing this

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<v Speaker 1>date that is theoretically going to happen, So it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like she's like blowing me off. She just politely keeps moving.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why it's so confusing, because it's not just hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it today. Yeah, exactly. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call her get your second day update right after this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's one more thing I have to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it? Mark? I really appreciate you taking my call.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Is there before I throw it to the song?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else that you want to say before

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<v Speaker 1>we go? Um? No, we're good. All right, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>playing a song, come back and get your second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Update hang on the phone, all right, brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning updates. All right, Mark is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us. He emailed us about a girl named Alison.

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<v Speaker 1>They met through friends at work. They went out ice skating,

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<v Speaker 1>had some cocoa, kissed at the end of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Really nice date. Can't really find a reason why she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to go out with him again, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>been blowing him off rescheduling in a very nice way.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's not even really sure if she actually doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see him again, or if for some reason

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<v Speaker 1>she just really is rescheduling. We're about to call her

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<v Speaker 1>right now. But Mark, before we get her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you got out of a long relationship. You

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<v Speaker 1>told us, Yeah, that's right. Do you feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>girl could be your next girlfriend? I mean I probably.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be pushing it if I didn't think like

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<v Speaker 1>we had something. Okay, so turn into something. So there's

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<v Speaker 1>something there then yeah, yeah, and you're ready for another relationship? Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Well, yeah, I'm just curious if you really

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<v Speaker 1>like this girl like you thought. Maybe you saw a

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<v Speaker 1>future with her, or if you just thought that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go out on another date, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely think that it's potential there for it to

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<v Speaker 1>turn into something more. I'm just really curious. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get it. I don't get why she sheeps putting it off. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I'm gonna call it right now. See we can

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<v Speaker 1>get on the phone and then get your second day

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<v Speaker 1>up date. Okay, cool, here we go. Hello. Hi, can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Alison please? This is Alison. Hey, Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, the radio show. Yes, how you doing fine?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you actually because you recently went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a listener of our show. It then. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Mark. Yeah. Well apparently you've been blowing

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<v Speaker 1>him off for a couple of weeks since your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked us to call on see if we

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<v Speaker 1>could find out why. He said I was blowing him off.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he's been trying to go out with you

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<v Speaker 1>ever since your date, and you keep like postponing it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not blowing him off. Okay, should I tell

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<v Speaker 1>him that you're actually going to go out with him?

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<v Speaker 1>One of these days. Yeah, absolutely, Okay, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for? Well, I mean it's important and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that, like I'm totally there for it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just needed to have the right time. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's something going on with you personally that you just

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<v Speaker 1>need to wait, Allison. Please don't tell me it's because

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<v Speaker 1>you need to end another relationship. No, no, definitely not. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm single. Okay. Well, Mark wants to know because that's

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<v Speaker 1>why you emailed us, because you know how it is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out with someone and they keep, you know, going, oh, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't go out this week, maybe next week, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they keep doing that. At a certain point, you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they don't like you. I never meant to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, like that was not my intention at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just needed more time. Okay, Because he's

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<v Speaker 1>starting to get that vibe from you that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him. What can I tell him? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you just tell him that I just needed a

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<v Speaker 1>couple extra days just to just to kind of get

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<v Speaker 1>some things together. That sounds so sketchy though, Allison, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not really, It really isn't sketchy. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>just needed a couple more days. I promise. I really

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<v Speaker 1>do like him. Are you just like out of time,

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't have enough time in your day and

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<v Speaker 1>your job's really demanding or I kind of would rather

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<v Speaker 1>not tell you, guys, because I think it might sound

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<v Speaker 1>crazy and I would really not want to come off

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<v Speaker 1>like a crazy person. That makes me want to know

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<v Speaker 1>even more. Yeah, I'm thinking like you're you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get a boob job or something and you need to

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<v Speaker 1>get that finished. No, not at all. I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like this could be the most important second date of

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<v Speaker 1>my life, and i'd really rather not ruin the surprise.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA you like him that much? Wow? I do? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I've been working on this picture book for

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<v Speaker 1>him for the last I don't know, a couple of months,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just want to make sure that it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not ready yet to get to him, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to finish it. You say you've been

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<v Speaker 1>working on a picture book? Yeah, have you what? I've

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<v Speaker 1>been working on collecting some photos of the last like

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<v Speaker 1>year or so, of I guess, like of me liking him,

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<v Speaker 1>and like Alison, I guess I'm I'm I'm confused. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys went on that one day. Yeah, had you known

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<v Speaker 1>each other beforehand? Because when we talked to him, he

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<v Speaker 1>says that he knew you worked in the same building

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<v Speaker 1>and you met like at a lunch. Yeah, in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of like dating, but I've known of him for about

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<v Speaker 1>a year and a half or so. One of my

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriends at work pointed him out to me, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were with two totally separate groups. But I met and

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<v Speaker 1>I just knew it was perfect, Like it we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to date. I had to wait it out. So

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<v Speaker 1>are the pictures? So what I don't I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand exactly what you're building. You said a picture book,

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<v Speaker 1>But what is the picture book of collages or something? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm imagining you taking photos of him outside of

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<v Speaker 1>his house. That's what it sounds like you're saying. No,

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<v Speaker 1>just like who we were before we started dating. So

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<v Speaker 1>like I went to his high school and I got

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<v Speaker 1>his high school yearbook photo that minute, and I recently

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<v Speaker 1>died my her blonde, so I have like the before

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<v Speaker 1>and after photo. Like, so like who we were before

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<v Speaker 1>we got together, and you're planning on giving him this

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<v Speaker 1>on your second date? Yeah, And I mean I think

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<v Speaker 1>he's really appreciated. I think he'd really love it. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't you have girlfriends to tell you that this is

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy. This isn't crazy. It's like a book of

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<v Speaker 1>my feelings and all of like all of what we

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<v Speaker 1>were before we're going to be together, and it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I know how much she liked blondes and the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that I went and siged my hair bond. She's

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<v Speaker 1>just going to appreciate it. Allison. You know what, You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>Alison Buried. We're going to have this like shown at

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding, was like what our lives were like before

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<v Speaker 1>we were together. Alison, you know what if somebody had

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<v Speaker 1>done that for me on a second date, I would

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<v Speaker 1>think that that was so sweet. You are such a

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<v Speaker 1>no I would think that, you know, it'd be nice

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody went to all that work for me. Yeah. See, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted it to be sweet like and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I can't see him yet. It's okay, not ready,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Allison, Well then I will. I would tell

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<v Speaker 1>him to just hold tight and you will eventually go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him. That's a message you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>pass along. That's exactly it. Thank you, You're welcome, Alison.

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<v Speaker 1>I also need to let you know that Mark is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line and just heard that. Mark. Yeah, Allison,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? You've been collecting pictures of me? Allison? Um, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that you weren't supposed to find out about

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<v Speaker 1>it this way. Like, I have this beautiful book that

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<v Speaker 1>I've just been working on and I just wanted you

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<v Speaker 1>to see it. And I haven't been blowing you off.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear. See, you've been working on this since way

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<v Speaker 1>before we even met. I mean yeah, because you were

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, and so I knew that we couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be together. I'm not kind of girl like, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to wait until you were single. How

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<v Speaker 1>did you even know I was in a relationship. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like we have mutual friend and at work, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I just, you know, I knew, I knew some things

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<v Speaker 1>about you. You've been like stalking for the past year. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no, I'm not. I'm not that kind of crazy person.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a stalker at all, a crazy person. You

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<v Speaker 1>knew what our life was like before, and it was documented. Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>this is creepy. It's not It's not at all like

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<v Speaker 1>it's really just meant to be sweet and endearing and

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<v Speaker 1>and you're really gonna love it when you see it,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise. I feel unsafe. I don't think anybody blames

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<v Speaker 1>you for that, Alison. I think you've officially scared Mark

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit because of you, because it wasn't supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be like that. She was supposed to see it

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<v Speaker 1>on our date, and now you ruined it and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>knows it. I'm supposed to show him this book and

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<v Speaker 1>he was supposed to just be so happy to see it. Yeah, Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. I'm sorry that up for you. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for the apology, but that doesn't change anything, Alison.

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<v Speaker 1>In your mind, how was this going to play out exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>He was going to fall in love with you after

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<v Speaker 1>you gave him a book. Who do you think you are?

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<v Speaker 1>That is exactly what was supposed to happen, Oh honey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't don't know? Honey, mean you know this was a

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<v Speaker 1>genius plan and you're just upset because you didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>about it. What there's so many things wrong with this?

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<v Speaker 1>How dare you spoil this for me? I don't know. Hey, hey, Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>you made me look and everything Allison. I know that

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<v Speaker 1>you're upset, but I haven't even asked if Mark would

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you again, Like the whole thing might

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<v Speaker 1>not be ruined. Mark, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Alison again on a second date? We'll pay for it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's because of you. You did that. I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 1>apologize Alison. I think Allison's gone, Oh my gosh, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get another photo book sent to the station, Jewel,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's going to be all of you with your

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<v Speaker 1>eyes crossed out. I'm scared for my safety and Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you might need to find a new job

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<v Speaker 1>and a new town. I think calling you, guys might

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<v Speaker 1>have literally saved my life. I think you're right. In

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<v Speaker 1>the morning text in at seven eight, five nine too,

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<v Speaker 1>it says, way to go, guys, you just ruined the

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<v Speaker 1>love of her life Jewel in the morning. I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of our thing. We tend to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about today's second date update. In case you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it, this dude Mark wanted to call a co

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<v Speaker 1>worker sort of that he went out with. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>was Alison. They had a good time, but when we

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<v Speaker 1>got her on the phone, we found out the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't calling him back. She also is very into Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>very and she wasn't calling him back because she was

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<v Speaker 1>making a photo collage of their lives, not their lives

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<v Speaker 1>together because I've only been on one date, but their

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<v Speaker 1>lives before they met, so that she could give it

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<v Speaker 1>to him and say, now our lives are changing and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll create our own collage. And Mark thought it was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We thought it was weird, and then she freaked out

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<v Speaker 1>on us because we ruined her chances. And yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>my personal opinion, even if you're dating for like a

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<v Speaker 1>year or photo collages are kind of like, yeah, questionable.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, photocollages anytime are kind of creepy no matter what,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you could have been together your whole life. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say you've been together fifty years and then your

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<v Speaker 1>wife comes down, she's like, look what I made. I

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<v Speaker 1>made a photo collage in the last fifty years. You're like, go,

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<v Speaker 1>time to get a divorce. You probably not something that

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, yay, I've been waiting for this photo collage

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, yeah, So she ended up hanging up on us.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not going out again, and she's super mad. Not

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<v Speaker 1>because he thought the photo collage was weird. She's super

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<v Speaker 1>mad because us getting the information out of her ruined

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<v Speaker 1>her chance dances at a lifetime of happiness with Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a surprise coming man, and it was definitely

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<v Speaker 1>a surprise. Well we just lost a listener, guys. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming she'll probably be all right because she sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like the kind of person to the next dude she

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<v Speaker 1>meets and goes on a date with. We'll also be

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<v Speaker 1>having a collage mate, so she'll be all right. She

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<v Speaker 1>will find love. Remember, if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, all you have to do is email

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<v Speaker 1>the show and we will call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back. Movement ninety two point five