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Speaker 1: Jewels second dat Day. You know, the saying goes, after

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that means that you wanted to

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Speaker 1: Recently got out of a long relationship. That's what your

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Speaker 1: you need to end another relationship. No, no, definitely not. No,

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Speaker 1: But what is the picture book of collages or something? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like crazy. This isn't crazy. It's like a book of

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