1 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: Okay, I have to say something very positive about Andy Cohen, 2 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: Bravo and Dorinda. There's something in page six about me 3 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: and that Dorinda said, Um, and we don't speak all 4 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: the time Direnda and I, but I have we have 5 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: a mutual respect for each other as people who work 6 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: together and know each other and mothers, etcetera. And she 7 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: said in page six, not even she could drag me 8 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: kicking and screaming to come back to the housewives. And um, 9 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: many times Andy has said, you know, oh, we said 10 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: at Bravo Con, this is all around Bravo Con. Andy 11 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: Cohen said, you know, he doesn't believe that I'm interested 12 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: in coming back all of this. I could tell you something. 13 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: Bravo and Andy have a bigger microphone and credibility in 14 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: that space than I do. And whilst I took the snarky, 15 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: low hanging fruit road and saying there's a number but 16 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: they and afford to pay that that's sort of snarky 17 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: and almost negative. It's not something negative about Andy or Bravo, 18 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: but it's it's true, but it's sort of a little snarky. 19 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: And usually people Bravo liberties take the snark and usually 20 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: Bravo and people like Andy want everyone you know, I 21 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: don't know. I I have a soft spot for the 22 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: fact that and that Andy and Arenda are truthful and 23 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: Bravo are truthful about the fact that I am always 24 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: welcome back and then I choose to not come back. 25 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: If anything, I've been the lesser person by letting everybody 26 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: know that I'm not coming back and why I left 27 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: and the reasons, and those reasons are true. I just 28 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: it would be very easy for Andy to say I 29 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 1: haven't said Bethany's welcome back, or Direnda to say who 30 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: knows the shows are better with that, or she hasn't 31 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: been here. That would be very easy to say, because 32 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: look at Beverly Hills, it's doing fine without least Savanda props. 33 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,919 Speaker 1: Some would say maybe even better. You know, you could say, um, 34 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: Bravo as a whole is thriving, and I didn't go 35 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: to Bravo con and they didn't have any problem. There's 36 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: a spot that I have for people like Dorenda and 37 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: Andy and Bravo overall and being truthful and saying she's 38 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: welcome back but doesn't seem to want to come back. 39 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: There's just something about that that's honest. That never happens. 40 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: It's like someone's saying, they broke up with me, they 41 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: broke my heart. It never happened. Someone's always saying, well, now, 42 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I really wanted to break up, but they 43 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: actually did. It just feels very mature. It sounds ridiculous 44 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: that I'm bringing that up, but it just struck me 45 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: well when given a page six moment, either Dorenda or 46 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: Andy could have said we're doing fine without Bethany, and 47 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: she doesn't miss an opportunity to say how much she 48 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 1: doesn't need to be here. Like there's a thousand ways 49 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: that could have been sliced, and everybody took the high road, 50 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: in the mature road. And I appreciate that Andy Cohen 51 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: and Dernda Medley. It does not go unnoticed. And they're 52 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: not even doing it for attention at all. They're just 53 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: doing it because they're being honest and being literal. And 54 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: he knows that they would have me back, and that 55 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: I don't. They don't feel that I want to do that, 56 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: or that I'm ready to do that or want you know, 57 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: And it's just very honest, and I just like that 58 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: the guy who is There are different people on the 59 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: com apps. There's a commapp, there's another one headspace. There 60 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: are these apps and it's really funny. There are different 61 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: voices that I like, a don't like what a job. 62 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: Some of them are former monks. I mean they've they've 63 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: got like real, real resumes from what they say. And 64 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: this is how it will go if you do like 65 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: a seven minute when they're like, hi, today, we're gonna 66 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: talk about being accountable to your presence and spiritual. I'm 67 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: making this up to your presence and spirituality. Sometimes we're 68 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: not present and sometimes we're not spiritual, and you know, 69 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: take a few deep breaths and then it goes silent 70 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: for a really long time. There's a couple of like 71 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: take a few in out deep breath and that's probably 72 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: like forty five seconds, and then they're like all these 73 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: minutes of quiet. Sometimes you're like that at my phone 74 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: go off, you go look at it, you hit the things, 75 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: so the light screen goes on and you don't know 76 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: if it's gone pause, etcetera. And then somehow, after like 77 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: all these minutes, they'll come back and they'll talk again 78 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: about some greepe breaths and cleansing, and it's important to 79 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: be present in me spiritual of and thank you very much, 80 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: have a wonderful day. Like this guy's got the best 81 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: fucking gig ever he has to He has to literally 82 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: speak for like forty five seconds at the beginning and 83 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: forty five seconds at the end of a seven minute comrade, 84 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: and I'm drooling and passed out. So he should be 85 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: getting paid the most of anybody all year than any job, 86 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: because I'd pay anything to just drool in the middle 87 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: of the day spontaneously. So I like your Picasso college. 88 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: I've started to think the college is absolutely useless and 89 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: worthless if you're not going to be a lawyer a doctor, 90 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: or you don't need to just be put someplace by 91 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: your parents for several years, or business school. My driver 92 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 1: has a son who's a rock star at soccer, like 93 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: going professional right out of high school, and he's not 94 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: sending him to college. Um, and he's actually even getting paid. 95 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: And you know, someone else on my staff was saying, well, 96 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 1: he's young, and what if something happens, and you know, 97 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 1: he didn't go to school, he doesn't have a diploma. 98 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: I've never once been asked to see my diploma. I've 99 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: never showed my diploma for a n y U. Ever, 100 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: I talked to Paul, who's really smart, my fiance, who 101 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: reads all day long, and he didn't learn a thing 102 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: in college. I really didn't learn a thing in college. 103 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: I learned in high school from my really good teachers, 104 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: from my English teacher in particular, and I'm hour writer. 105 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: I learned immaculate grammar, which is so important. If you 106 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: teach your kids one thing, please make it be immaculate grammar. 107 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: Kids can't write, they write an emojis, and they don't 108 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: They just can't write sentences, they can't write emails. Nobody 109 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: can write anything. But anyway, I really didn't learn a 110 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: fucking thing. I was trying to get by. I took 111 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: all my classes on Wednesdays so I could be done 112 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: at nine thirty at night and go back to New 113 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: York City. So I was just trying to get away 114 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: with something. College was paid for for me, one of 115 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: the very you know, few lucky college is paid for 116 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: and I was just trying to jam it all and 117 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 1: get the credits and get out, get back to New 118 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: York City to go wait for the weekend and have fun, 119 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: go see my boyfriend Being York. Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, 120 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: come back, take all my classes Wednesday. What a scan. 121 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: I didn't know what you know, paying for the dorm 122 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: was or any of that ship. What a spoiled asshole. 123 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 1: But nobody then it wasn't in the way that like 124 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: it's very in now to go to be to do 125 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: online dating, and back then it was taboo. It wasn't 126 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: in to not go to school. Everybody went to college. 127 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: You'd be like a dope if you didn't go. And 128 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: I just don't know if I think it's worthless if 129 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: you weigh the debt, there's no way it's worth something. 130 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: If you go to Harvard Fund, if you go to Warden, 131 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: the people you're gonna meet. Great, if you go and 132 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: you actually really study and really pay attention and rich 133 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: your life, great. But if you know that you're not 134 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: going to do that, and you know that your kids 135 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: are the types, just go there to get by and 136 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: have a social atmosphere for that many years. Write it 137 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: down on a piece of paper, the amount of money 138 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: and the amount of money you're gonna. Oh, I don't 139 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: know if it's worth it. It wasn't worth it for Paul. 140 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: It wasn't worth it for me. So while I was 141 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: thinking my uh employed driver Alton his son, I was thinking, 142 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: are you a dope? He's not gonna have an employed 143 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 1: a college diploma? What if it doesn't work out? I thought, 144 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: I've talked to Paul about I thought about it overnight. 145 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: I thought about what I've talked to Mark Cuban about 146 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: in different people. I woke up, I texted him. I said, 147 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: you know what, I think, You're right, I said, but 148 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: you don't want to have him be a dope. Make 149 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: sure he's taking classes. Make sure he's taking community classes. 150 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: You make sure he doesn't get any of that money 151 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: from what he's being paid to go pro like as 152 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: a young pro, like a New York League, you know, 153 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: not like he's going off to play for you know, 154 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: the World Cup soccer or whatever. I said, make sure 155 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: he's taking classes and you hold him accountable that he's 156 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: taking classes online. And it made me realize how valuable 157 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: online learning is. Like you could go through why is 158 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: an online learning? Go through college online if you can't 159 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: afford it, do online classes, trade schools. If you know 160 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: exactly what you want to do, or no, three things 161 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: you want to do, go learn a couple of different trades. 162 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: It just feels like going to college and spending all 163 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: this money. It could be like up to hundred thousand 164 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: dollars a year to learn. You know, I don't know 165 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: about I've never seen the employee. I've never seen the 166 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: diplomas for any of the girls at work for me, 167 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: and I've never even read the resumes. And if they 168 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: didn't have the where they went to school, I wouldn't 169 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: even care. So, you know, I know assistance that are 170 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: going on to make a lot of money, and I 171 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: know people who just get in the kitchen. You want 172 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: to be a chief, get in the kitchen Bobby Flay style. 173 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: You don't even need to go to culinary school. I went. 174 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: It gave me confidence. It was great. Get in the 175 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: goddamn kitchen. If you want to work for someone, you 176 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: want to work in a business, get in their kitchen. 177 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: Learn how to trade stocks, learn how to you know, 178 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: work in the media, learn how to do pr learn. 179 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know what. I really am 180 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: getting more and more strongly against this. Unless you are 181 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: going to go to Wharton and you're gonna make incredible 182 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: relationships like form great relationships, go to Harvard, gonna be 183 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: a doctor, gonna be get your n b A. You 184 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: need something that that college provides. Of course, otherwise, I 185 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: just don't know. You're gonna be a psychologist. Great, I 186 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: just don't know. Otherwise. TikTok is becoming the real wild, 187 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: wild fucking West. Random people they're just put on pause 188 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 1: for days. Their videos don't post because they're posting about 189 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: some plastic surgery or something. Other people are doing hate 190 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: speech and bullying. It's a fucking wild wild West. I'm 191 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: doubling down on Facebook and Instagram. Okay, I'm gonna tell 192 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 1: you why. Viewser down and follows her down. And the 193 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: value of TikTok followers is not as high as they 194 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: are on Instagram. The actual views, followers, et cetera are 195 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: way more valuable. I didn't know that Instagram came in 196 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: and kicked snapchats, asked once it knew it had to 197 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 1: go do stories. Instagram's coming in with reels. They're gonna 198 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: kick TikTok's asked because now they know who they have 199 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: to copy and be better. They've got more money. Facebook 200 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: is for I know, dinosaurs. It still has millions of 201 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: people on million and millions more than than TikTok. So, 202 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: while we all like with the new kid in the 203 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: new popular kid in school, just know that you have 204 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: to pay attention to all these social media apps and 205 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: that they have tremendous resources and money, and that Meta 206 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: who owned Facebook and Instagram have way more money than 207 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: TikTok so. Just think about that. Just think about that.