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Speaker 1: Is jealousy natural in a relationship? Today, we are reading

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Speaker 1: stories to find the answer to that question. Starting with

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Speaker 1: Am I the ahole for being mad at my partner

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Speaker 1: for being jealous of my late husband?

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Speaker 2: I mean, a ghost can never die, thus the jealousy

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Speaker 2: can last forever. Wow, I am John? John sim it

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Speaker 2: is luscious today. He did say it's laying in a

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Speaker 2: beautiful way. It's laid, Okay, kidd of laid John.

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Speaker 1: This comes from to limit forty five sixty six, who

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Speaker 1: says my late husband and I dated for a while

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Speaker 1: back in high school, then on and off again in

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Speaker 1: the university, and got married a few years later. In short,

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Speaker 1: he was a wonderful man and our relationship was amazing.

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Speaker 1: Words can't do it justice. He passed away three years ago.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, the final off again. Wow.

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Speaker 3: That is one way of saying that.

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Speaker 1: That is one way of saying that my current partner

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Speaker 1: was a mutual friend of ours. He basically knows a

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Speaker 1: lot about my past. We got we got into relationship

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Speaker 1: a year ago. In general, he is a good person.

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Speaker 1: In general, he's a good person. That sounds like he's

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Speaker 1: do you think he's not?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah? In general, you know what's a bad person like?

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Speaker 2: In general? Have you taken it? Like everything that they've done,

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Speaker 2: I swear they're not bad, but and.

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Speaker 4: Con sometimes he steals. But also.

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Speaker 2: He said hi, he opened the door for me once,

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Speaker 2: but then slammed it in an old lady's face.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: In general, he's a good person other than the problem

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Speaker 2: mentioned in the Sophia has muted. Sophia has muted. Oh no,

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Speaker 2: that says Sophia has been silent. Sofia, is he the chat?

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Speaker 3: You hear it?

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Speaker 2: She muted? The sound is weird for everyone, but Sam

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Speaker 2: John's mike is too quiet. Riley listen, Riley listenest want

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Speaker 2: to test the Sofia one two three, All right, talk

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Speaker 2: all worried that something is going to go wrong? And hey, guys,

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Speaker 2: we're talking in the mic.

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Speaker 3: We can go to stand by.

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Speaker 1: To stand by.

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Speaker 2: Actually it would be a purpose.

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Speaker 4: I've spent days crafting something from stand by, Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 4: can you talk, Sophia. Hey, I have spent days craft

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Speaker 4: and something for you.

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Speaker 2: That's good, all right? And that story.

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Speaker 3: Let us not have anything else, all right?

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Speaker 1: So he is sweet caring, not only with me, but

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Speaker 1: I speak in general. There we go, The thing is,

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Speaker 1: whenever we get into an argument, he would bring up

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Speaker 1: my late husband. And when we're having a discussion, he

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Speaker 1: never misses a chance to start with uh, to start

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Speaker 1: with comparisons. For example, if we're discussing something and he

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Speaker 1: raises his voice, I would tell him there's no need,

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Speaker 1: we're just talking, and that's when he would hit me

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Speaker 1: with something like yeah, yeah, now you don't like the

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Speaker 1: way I talk. I bet you wouldn't have had said

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Speaker 1: the same thing to him. What man can't talk though.

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Speaker 2: I mean not anymore. But what he was today, I

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Speaker 2: don't know why. He's like, like he's stomping on someone's

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Speaker 4: Now doing a jig.

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Speaker 2: He's doing a jig on someone's grave. And that is not.

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Speaker 4: Cool unless you're trying to raise the dead. Don't do

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Speaker 4: a jig on a I don't raise the dad, raise

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Speaker 4: jig on a grave. Well tell the Irish Riley oucht.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that was.

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Speaker 4: That wasn't Irish.

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Speaker 3: I got it.

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Speaker 1: So, but back to the story, or when we finished

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Speaker 1: arguing about something, he would finish with I'm sure it

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Speaker 1: was never like this with him. E when he moved

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Speaker 1: did with me. I called him once by my husband's name.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember doing it, but he was sure.

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Speaker 2: He was so sure that I apologized to him.

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Speaker 1: He's the first man I ever got close to after

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Speaker 1: what happened, and not gonna lie. I knew my late

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Speaker 1: husband for years, and it wasn't easy for me to

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Speaker 1: accept that he's gone and adjust easily. So uh wait,

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Speaker 1: I knew my late husband for years, and it wasn't

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Speaker 1: easy for me to accept he's gone and adjust easy

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Speaker 1: as easy as I might have it. I know it

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Speaker 1: was wrong, but I really didn't. I didn't really mean

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Speaker 1: to call him by his name. I think there might

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Speaker 1: be some changed words in here, so bear with me,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I mean yeah, it just sounds like he's very jealous,

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Speaker 2: but also like an accidental name switch wouldn't help the jealousy.

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Speaker 4: He doesn't remember doing it, so maybe by.

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Speaker 2: Their wrong name, I wouldn't. I'm not gonna remember doing it.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: It's possible. I am I'm detected. I'm totally guessing here,

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Speaker 1: but I'm detecting stinky man.

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Speaker 2: I'm detecting. Oh, I'm detecting the stinkers. Like she's like, oh.

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Speaker 4: No, he's good and all this it's general.

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Speaker 2: But it's good.

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Speaker 1: That is a horrible thing, like it's usually like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't like when he sweeps, he doesn't empty the

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Speaker 1: dust bin, you know.

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Speaker 2: Leave the dust in the dust bin. But Riley, I

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Speaker 2: want to hear what happens next. But I said, John,

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Speaker 2: I'm lost.

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Speaker 3: I get you if you do this, jokes to him, John.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, stop, Okay, I'm getting back to the story. So

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Speaker 1: he never let it slide, though, and he still brings

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Speaker 1: up that incident sometimes. One day we passed by a

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Speaker 1: nearby restaurant and he said it seems like a good place.

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Speaker 1: I said, yeah, it is, I've been there a few times.

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Speaker 1: He instantly asked me if it was with my husband?

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Speaker 2: Who is it? And I said yes.

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Speaker 1: Then he started with how of course it's a good

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Speaker 1: because the only thing that would be in my mind

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Speaker 1: is my husband. I snapped in him and told him

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Speaker 1: to stop this crap and never bring him up again.

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Speaker 1: He apologized, but never stopped. Very can we get a

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Speaker 1: poll uh.

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Speaker 2: Dump or not? Dude? This is this is dump? Word

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Speaker 4: Jealous? Jealous?

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Speaker 1: Just that one last sentence, he apologized but never stops.

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Speaker 1: That tells me I feel like everything I need to

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Speaker 2: It's like you've brought it up multiple times and he's

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Speaker 2: still doing the same thing. It's like I could understand

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Speaker 2: being jealous for a little bit and then like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, maybe making some of these quips like that

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Speaker 2: is forgivable, but at this point not the one heated

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Speaker 4: Then continuous, Ah, you know, yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that. That's not good.

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Speaker 2: When we were still friends, I was still wearing my

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Speaker 2: One day and out of nowhere, he asked me about

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Speaker 2: the ring. I said, it's in my closet a month ago.

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Speaker 2: I noticed it wasn't there.

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Speaker 3: No, BUTU, I.

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Speaker 2: See you in the chat if you know what is happening.

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Speaker 2: Taken to court, broke court.

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Speaker 4: Take him to court, prosecuted him the eyes.

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Speaker 1: Of the law literally, though, I mean that is that

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Speaker 1: is stealing how much seling ten k plus money three months?

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Speaker 2: Uh No, that's the wedding band though that's like a dude,

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Speaker 2: dude band. D bands aren't that much. It's not her,

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Speaker 2: it was her wedding ring. I was still wearing my.

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Speaker 4: She said she took it off and put it away

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Speaker 4: when she started dating him, got that rock on it.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: How long do you wear a wedding ring after your

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Speaker 4: I mean, according to Monk, you never take it off.

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Speaker 2: He also never dated. I've been watching I've been rewatching

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Speaker 2: Monk two fucking freaking fire show.

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Speaker 1: Minutes saying dude, yep, should so. About a month ago

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Speaker 1: I noticed it wasn't there. I wonder if it disappeared

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Speaker 1: no idea whar suspicious. The thing is, it's only the

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Speaker 1: two of us. We rarely have people over. When I

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Speaker 1: around raised voices, my eyes well up with tears, not

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Speaker 1: So when we argue about bringing him up and how

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Speaker 1: he should stop with comparisons, he would get frustrated and

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Speaker 1: say that I'm still in love with him and I

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Speaker 1: cry thinking about him.

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Speaker 2: No, this guy literally just sucks and.

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Speaker 4: Making her cry and he's like, see you're crying. Stop.

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Speaker 2: But if that's true, what, like, can can she still

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Speaker 2: be in love with her dead ex? And and and

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Speaker 4: I think so, I don't think that you're But because

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Speaker 4: it's not a X, it is a late husband, I

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Speaker 4: think it's totally fair for someone to still be in

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Speaker 2: Right, So it's kind of like fine relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it is one of those like just

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Speaker 2: What I miss something I heard?

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Speaker 4: I heard it and I will not address like a ghost.

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Speaker 2: That's not what I said. It's like a poly relationship

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Speaker 4: I love that you just laughed at it. Anyway, you're

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like that is kind of an exception. What, yeah,

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Speaker 1: imagine honestly, anyone watching right now in the chat let

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Speaker 1: us know or afterwards, like have you been or seen

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Speaker 1: someone in the situation where like, yeah, I will literally

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Speaker 1: never stop loving my partner, but I I just wanted

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Speaker 2: That's yeah, I could. I feel like I could understand that,

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Speaker 2: and it's like yeah, it's also someone in the chat

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Speaker 2: is like, why are you getting jealous of someone who

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Speaker 2: had like can do nothing? Yeah, you know, like I

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Speaker 2: an ex that was out there, because that person still

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Speaker 2: exists and could re enter your life. But like, this

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Speaker 2: person isn't gonna unless you're like Ouiji boarding, Like it's

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Speaker 2: not gonna You're not competent, like gonna be in competition

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Speaker 2: with this person. And he knew what you were signing

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Speaker 2: up for, like you knew exactly.

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Speaker 4: A woman you know there were friends before too. Come on,

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Speaker 4: oh yeah maybe at that point I wondered if he

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Speaker 4: knew the husband how long and he was How long

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Speaker 4: ago did the husband pass.

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Speaker 2: I think it was a few years ago and a

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Speaker 2: Three years ago, husband passed away, three years ago.

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Speaker 1: He's been dating this guy for one year, but they

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Speaker 1: were friends before, they were friends previously.

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Speaker 2: Also, I think the very thing that he's worried about,

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Speaker 2: like like the the jealousy is what will drive her away. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: not what is going on before that?

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Speaker 4: Exactly?

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Speaker 3: This is true, good points.

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Speaker 1: My eyes will literally be like that even when we're

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Speaker 4: WHOA, He's like, you'll never be better than me.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you're only a good guy.

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Speaker 3: Generally I was a.

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Speaker 2: Good whole life. Yeah, I'm gonna be a bad guy. Dang.

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Speaker 3: So what should I do?

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Speaker 1: We have some top comments and an updates, But ladies

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Speaker 4: Ghost man, oh man.

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Speaker 1: I see you, bristle drizzle, I see you, I see you.

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Speaker 3: You can put that in the comments.

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Speaker 4: Put that in the comments.

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Speaker 1: They need it, all right, But let's let's break this down, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Ud stinky dude. Like instant dump, right, instant instant dump.

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Speaker 1: Do we even try for therapy or any sort of.

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Speaker 2: Some stuff out of the married married? Yeah, if they

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Speaker 4: But this is like, this is noncommittal relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dump him, dump him? You don't, I like, at

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Speaker 2: what point do you do therapy? Because I feel like

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Speaker 4: I remember this person was. I literally have no relection

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Speaker 4: go to couples counseling? Do you think it's they're too

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know, man, Wow, Sophia

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Speaker 2: That was such a explanation to it. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. Okay, but I okay, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: No getting on that story. Do you in that in

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Speaker 1: I very firmly believe, Like I'm like, if couples do

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Speaker 2: But I know you're just forgetting. You were the one

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Speaker 1: So he he was like, oh, we started our relationship

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Speaker 2: Of me that I'm working on and I know are crazy.

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Speaker 2: Second date all right, second date them?

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Speaker 4: I am.

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Speaker 2: I'm inferring ida ice cream in therapy.

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Speaker 1: I am imagining I didn't get the specifics. That was

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Speaker 4: The end of my story is how was going to

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Speaker 4: be No, it was going to be a question. I

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Speaker 2: That's not ending, that's opening it.

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Speaker 4: I was going to open it up to the audience.

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Speaker 4: How is the how young is too.

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Speaker 2: God?

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Speaker 4: How young is too young? A couple's counselors.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I don't think it's a youngness thing. I

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you can be two years and eighteen years old,

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Speaker 2: Is too I think I think one election cycle f.

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Speaker 4: Four years you're sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, four years. Yeah, it's a longevity of the relationships

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Speaker 2: twenty years. Like, we should get back to this story.

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Speaker 2: Let's open it up to the audience. We'll go back

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Speaker 2: to John's story. But what when do you think it

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Speaker 4: Do you think it's there's an age requirement, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or an age of relationship requirement. Let us know in

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Speaker 1: Good one, So talk about it all right? So uh

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Speaker 1: top comments real quick. Electric worker eighty eight says, not

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Speaker 1: the a hole. He sounds like an emotionally abusive liarn thief.

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Speaker 1: Dump him and see counseling. Dump him or seek counseling,

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Speaker 1: but don't continue to.

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Speaker 2: Live like Thisah, I mean think counseling man. Yeah, honestly

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Speaker 1: Most stories we say, like, oh I go to a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are understanding, but this, this is beyond understanding.

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Speaker 1: That point, he just is so disrespectful consistently. Yeah, for

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Speaker 4: For a guy that's only generally nice, what do you

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Speaker 4: keep him? Keeping him around?

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Speaker 2: Get guys that were one's specifically nice, Yeah, specifically nice.

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Speaker 2: And I'm going to tell you all the reasons why.

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Speaker 2: It's thirteen reasons why I date specifically night guys. Don't

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Speaker 2: you dare? Don't you dare comment on my my mispronunciation

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Speaker 2: of nice?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I I was gonna comment on your choice

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Speaker 4: of thirteen reasons why I didn't a story about dead.

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize that that was someone just mentioned that

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Speaker 2: like ten reasons I hate about you.

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Speaker 4: Ten things I hate about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I thought the movie was about. I

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Speaker 2: am now realizing what that movie, that show is about. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I made a boo boo and I am sorry and

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Speaker 2: onto the updates got you?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 1: Uh we broke up, yes, hallelujah. Things got more complicated.

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Speaker 1: We didn't end things in good terms. I tried my

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Speaker 1: best to explain to him how his actions affect our relationship, right,

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Speaker 1: but he wouldn't understand. Terrible when I made it clear

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Speaker 1: and promised to give back and suggested we start couples therapy. No,

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Speaker 1: the way he talked, the moment he admitted that he

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one year relationship is not worth a couple.

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Speaker 2: And he stole the ring.

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Speaker 4: He's a thief, He's a scoundrel.

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Speaker 1: Yes, when we were just friends, he never acted like

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Speaker 1: he never acted this way. I mean, you wouldn't know

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Speaker 1: I never saw things from his perspective. That it's hard

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Speaker 3: I was married. What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 2: Wait, that it's hard to be with a woman you

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Speaker 4: Women who are a stranger.

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Speaker 2: There is something about the mystery, you know, my life sting.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to be a masked marauder with a

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Speaker 2: pointy sword. Where's the pointy sword? I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 2: waiting for my point. What's what's the sword?

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Speaker 1: So when we were just friends, he never acted this way.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you wouldn't capable of such things. Also, also

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? He also said that it was

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Speaker 2: Damn, dude, it sucks to be right, Riley, can you

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Speaker 2: scroll up there?

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Speaker 4: Dude just says Op should call him gollum because he

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Speaker 2: True? Is that why you made the filthy hobbitses?

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Speaker 4: No, someone said it in the chat. I was just

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Speaker 2: You're taking us back to that joke that was like

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Speaker 2: thirty seconds ago. Okay, sick, Absolutely, that was great. You know,

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Speaker 2: clap to Sophia the applause.

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Speaker 3: She did crush it though.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, we broke up and he's taking his sweet time

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Speaker 1: packing up his things. He owns an apartment but it's

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Speaker 2: We don't talk.

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Speaker 1: He's staying in the guest room until he finishes packing,

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Speaker 1: and he still didn't give me the ring back.

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Speaker 4: Could they move in together?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Sunflower, that's all. Thank you and Sunflower. They

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Speaker 1: I believe he has his own Yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 4: They would it take him to move out?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got a lot of stuff. He's got to

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Speaker 2: get all of his raw fish.

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Speaker 4: He's like, I brought some forks.

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Speaker 3: Sheer time.

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Speaker 4: I've got like a tumblr here. I'm gonna need to

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Speaker 4: find that before I head out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it can take me some time time, no time, okay,

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Speaker 1: and there's a quick relevant comment before the updates and

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Speaker 1: then well we can.

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Speaker 2: Make sure the answers riddles three before you know, I

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Speaker 3: I should.

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Speaker 2: I should really watch movies.

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Speaker 4: Guys, you haven't seen Lord of the Rings.

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Speaker 2: I haven't like like, you know, every time I go

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Speaker 2: the Hobbit.

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Speaker 4: You know, it wouldn't have been weird if you just continued.

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Speaker 1: I know, I won't lie I thought the same thing,

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Speaker 1: but I of course was going to say nothing.

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Speaker 2: So you're welcome to say stuff.

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Speaker 4: Rachel Roth, thank you my mom and I designed this thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh say what she said?

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Speaker 4: Richard Rod says, Oh MG, Sophia's shirt is so freaking cute. Please,

443
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,679
Speaker 4: I need to know where she got it. The shirt

444
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 4: we bought, but this we made.

445
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 2: And you know what else, We're gonna make more of

446
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 2: this episode. So that's right.

447
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: I will say, maybe like originals from each of us

448
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: could be.

449
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 2: Cool birch drop in the future. But anyways, yeah, designed

450
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 2: by my mom was my first piece.

451
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 1: So onto a elemant comment Opie on the partner's behavior

452
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: towards her late husband. And if she's mad, Opie, I'm

453
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: not mad at him. I'm mad at the way he

454
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: would never let me move on with my life a little.

455
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: He never missed an opportunity to bring up my late

456
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: husband and start comparing.

457
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think she generally helped him move on.

458
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: Generally he was generally helping him. He even accuses me

459
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 2: of thinking about my ex more than him. I never

460
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 2: really gave.

461
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: Him a reason to I just wanted a normal relationship

462
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: where my partner would respect me more, uh than keeping

463
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: bringing up my past just because actually I am ad

464
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: at him, to be honest, I can't just get past

465
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: the fact that he stole something from me just to

466
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: punish me for whatever reason he believes. He didn't steal

467
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: just for the sake of stealing. It's my ring from

468
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: my late husband, in case you needed a freaking reminder.

469
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: I love how she's like, yeah, I would forgive him

470
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: if he was just stealing to steal us. It's got

471
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,120
Speaker 1: a little stefing, you know, it was just generally stealing.

472
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 2: Totally.

473
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 3: You got a new hobby.

474
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 4: He's thinking about something other than my husband.

475
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: I just love a man with a hobby. True. Wow,

476
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 2: my god, that was a good one.

477
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 3: Right over here, that's right. That's why I asked, I'm

478
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: micing a camera.

479
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, what joke. That's right. Great a talent all around.

480
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: You're you're sorry, wait, sorry, I'm I'm clubbing. We're distracting

481
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen. This is the final update, dude. That

482
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 2: was a great zoom Riles. Yeah, yeah, I felt zoo

483
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 2: felt that elevated the stream slow zoom where you press

484
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 2: the button and goes like animation zoom.

485
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: You think the way me bar But anyways, final update,

486
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: Like most of you advised me, I had my sister

487
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,239
Speaker 1: and her husband come stay the night with me. My

488
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 1: brother in law helped him the next day with him hacking.

489
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 3: Me. Great, Will I get through this story?

490
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 4: Am I?

491
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 2: They here for trying to read this story? This podcast show.

492
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 2: It's about correct myself. That's a show. I corrected myself. Hey,

493
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 2: don't flip it on me.

494
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:11,640
Speaker 6: So have my husband such a good okay, buddy, I'm sorry.

495
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: Anyways, my brother in law helped him the next day

496
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: with packing. My ex had literally nothing left to pack,

497
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: but brother in law helped him move his things out

498
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 1: out of the guest room. He also offered to help

499
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 1: him move his stuff to the apartment. He refused and

500
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: called his stepfather instead.

501
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 2: I'm calling my dad. I'm not coming stead day. I

502
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: didn't your dad malfoy. That's right.

503
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: He did give my ring back by throwing it at

504
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: my face after I threatened to report it as stolen.

505
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 2: Bro. He's just trying to get it to her as

506
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 2: quickly as possible. Yeah, that's it. That's why catch I'm

507
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 2: throwing at your general direction. I'm generally really quick with

508
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 2: the really about the general like, just focus on the

509
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: fact that you got your ring back, not on how

510
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: you got it exactly. In general, in general, generally a

511
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 2: nice guy. And he called me every name you can

512
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: think of along with accusing me of jumping into bed

513
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: with him right after my husband died.

514
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: Like a era.

515
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 4: You get off your high horse, sir. Yeah, because you

516
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 4: had that erection then.

517
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 2: You were you know, why do you say anything.

518
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 4: Then it takes two to tang.

519
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: It takes two to tango boom, and.

520
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 4: You're generally erect. I was gonna say bad at tango.

521
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: Oh, you're generally a wreck.

522
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: Sucker. We don't need to explain Oliver that too much.

523
00:27:58,680 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 3: Although it is funny.

524
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 1: And he called me every name you could think of

525
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 1: along with accusing me of jumping into bed with him

526
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 1: right after my husband died.

527
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 3: I didn't.

528
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: I never really got close to anyone for two years,

529
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: and he was the one who helped me through it all.

530
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: That's why I thought getting into a relationship with him

531
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: when he initiated was the right thing to do.

532
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: He initiated, He.

533
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: Was planning this whole time, and then it was so

534
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: insecure he couldn't handle it.

535
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, idiot, idiots.

536
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 2: The rule is you have to accept someone as they are. Yeah, yes, that's.

537
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 4: The you have to accept someone.

538
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 2: You have to you have to generally accept someone. We

539
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: were talking about someone who did like only fans before

540
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: their relationship. And then the guy was like, you know,

541
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 2: change your jobs, like if that was the job beforehand, Like,

542
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 2: you know, we got to stick with it.

543
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 3: You signed up for it, sign it.

544
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 4: Unless their job is to be a hit man. And

545
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 4: then you get a relationship with them, and then you

546
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 4: have kids and you're like, hitman, life is too dangerous,

547
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 4: but you can't.

548
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think you know that's a lifestyle,

549
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: a lifestyle.

550
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it was dangerous for the kids.

551
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: He's working overseas. Yeah, but you knew, you knew that

552
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 2: when you assigned the trade.

553
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 4: Sorry, partner is a hit man.

554
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: You have to accept them the way them, the way

555
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 2: they are. Yeah, yeah, even if they're a hit man,

556
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 2: just the way you are.

557
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's a song, but it could be.

558
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 3: It could be thank you.

559
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: Anyway. I didn't let him get on my nerves at first, but.

560
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: When he said if he could see how much you've changed,

561
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure he would ride that motorcycle again just to

562
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: get away from you. Whoa, I lost my husband to

563
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 1: an awful motorcycle.

564
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 4: That was what she was going to tell us how

565
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 4: he died.

566
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 2: I know, man, yikes, dude, this guy needs to get

567
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 2: on a motorcycle and hugge try.

568
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, question.

569
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: Both of us. Both of us used to ride. I

570
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: never did again after what happened. I lost it and

571
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: threw his phone away, which I'm not proud of. It

572
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: did or I I lost it and through my phone

573
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: his way, which I'm not proud of. It did hit

574
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: his arm, but my sister grabbed me from behind to

575
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: stop me from doing anything.

576
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 4: Ring at you and rings are sharp.

577
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 2: He did start it. He did start it. Yeah, also

578
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: terrible thing to say, probably the worst thing that.

579
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: I can't think of anything worse right now, like on nothing.

580
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: My brother in law kicked him out as politely as

581
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: he could. Brother in law is a gim freak, and

582
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: both my sister and I had to stop him from

583
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: doing anything to avoid getting into any unnecessary trouble. My

584
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: sister is still with me, her husband can't stay because

585
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: my place is two hours away from his work.

586
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: Cameras are already installed, along with an alarm, and I'm

587
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 2: currently working on changing the locks. I'm also in the

588
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 2: process of obtaining a restraining order against him. Smart Good.

589
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: His words are still echoed in my head and made

590
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: me realize I have to consider starting therapy.

591
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 2: I didn't grieve properly. Thinking about it now, I see

592
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: how I avoided my emotions by denial. It was sudden,

593
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 2: and although everything happened, I never really gave my ex

594
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 2: a reason to do this. I really treated him with respect, honesty,

595
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 2: and it took me a while to realize that I

596
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 2: deserved the same. Thank you for all the advice and support.

597
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: Hands up emoji, Hibiscus flower, that's what that is, right,

598
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: hibiscus flower.

599
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 4: I don't know.

600
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: I'm oppressed with your flower knowledge, if that is.

601
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: I just like I wanted to read her emojis because

602
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: I felt they they spoke yeah to the peace.

603
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 2: I feel like if I was to look at that

604
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 2: hibiscus flower, I would look at like, oh, like new beginnings,

605
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: Like I am a budding flower and I'm blossoming past

606
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 2: this trauma that I once came from, Like I am

607
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: rising from the dirt and from the ashes. Yeah, you know, yeah.

608
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 4: I also want to say, like even if op had

609
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 4: because she said something about like, I don't know what

610
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 4: I did?

611
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 2: What'd she just say it?

612
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 4: Even if she wasn't over her ex, he still shouldn't

613
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 4: have said any of that if he if he thought

614
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 4: that she truly wasn't over her ex or her late husband,

615
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 4: if he thought that, like she was still in love

616
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 4: with them and using him, just leave, yeah, just leave?

617
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 4: Why are you torturing your your partner because you're like,

618
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 4: what just leave?

619
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? So in confusion, leave, turn over a new leaf

620
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 2: and leave.

621
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 4: Did you say in confusion?

622
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: I said in conclusion? For you said in confusion?

623
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 4: Bro?

624
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 2: You literally just a gas lamp right now?

625
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 3: Those who are not guys?

626
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: Guys? Did he so? Did?

627
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: I thought you guys? Did he say in confusion? The

628
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: first time he said that? The comments you absolutely her surpose?

629
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: And I was gonna be like, that's funny, I'm getting.

630
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: Confusion, you.

631
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 3: Guys kidding?

632
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 2: YouTube in confusion? Boom, it's emma, thank you everyone.

633
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 4: I thought that was an on purpose joke.

634
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: Me too, me too. Okay, let's see I get up,

635
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: let's see it. We're gonna see it. I'm I did

636
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 2: say that. I did say that. Well yeah, all right,

637
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 2: all right, fine, come on, Sophia, John and Sophia moment

638
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 2: in your face. All right, all right, I said, confusion.

639
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: I made a poo poo. Is there this story?

640
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: Yes, there's one.

641
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: Final helm of Domina response.

642
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: Sodo says, that guy's absolutely crazy. But yeah, you really

643
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: shouldn't have jumped into a relationship. Within the very first

644
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: two lines of the first post, I could tell how

645
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: it was going to end. You're not over him, and

646
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: quite frankly, you're very far from being ready for a

647
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: relationship hope. He replies, You're right. It's the way he

648
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: was supportive and there for me that made me think

649
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: getting into relationship with him was the right thing. But

650
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: I know better now. I will work on myself. Hands

651
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: up a biscus flower.

652
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 2: Preach See, I love the I'm gonna start punctuating sentences

653
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 2: with hibiscus flowers.

654
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 4: What if you do different flowers?

655
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 2: No, I want a hibiscus. Hibiscus feels like me. But

656
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 2: question for chat and question for you. If your partner dies,

657
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: do you have to be over them to go date again?

658
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: And what does over even mean?

659
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 1: I feel like things Maybe it is ready to It

660
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: was that scenario we were referencing before, where you might

661
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: be ready to find a new life partner.

662
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 2: However, still have love.

663
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: For your late partner because they passed away and there

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Speaker 1: was no there's no ill will you would have you

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Speaker 1: would have continued with them, you know.

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Speaker 3: In Theory for.

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Speaker 2: Life, Jessica says, no over is for ex's That's.

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Speaker 4: What I was gonna say. I don't think you should

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Speaker 4: have to get over. I think it's about about moving on.

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Speaker 2: What is a sign that you have moved on from

671
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Speaker 2: a dead partner?

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Speaker 4: I think it's not from the person, It's from your grief.

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Speaker 2: M what's a sign that your grief leaved.

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Speaker 4: I have been fortunate enough to not have to go

675
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Speaker 4: through crazy amounts like I would say the most like

676
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Speaker 4: the person I was closest to that I've lost was

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Speaker 4: our uncle. And I don't know, maybe it's just like

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Speaker 4: I don't think there are moments when I still think

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Speaker 4: about him, So I don't think it's never thinking about them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to think about the people. I would

681
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Speaker 2: I would have to know from from Chad what what

682
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Speaker 2: what you guys? What you guys think? John Riley, any thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I think it's like you can, like, for instance, dating

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00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: again doesn't feel painful or like it's it's the positives

685
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: outweigh the negative where I'm sure like when you're first

686
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: in relationship, you probably are comparing, and maybe when you're

687
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: just starting in.

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Speaker 6: A relationship, like let's say you have a toxic X

689
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 6: and you have this cup and pup is dirty. The

690
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 6: only way to get I feel like over that X

691
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 6: is if you have running water and it makes the

692
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 6: water from dirty to like clear, Like you imagine I

693
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 6: have running water and the stirt's coming out.

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Speaker 2: But does the like I mean, then that's kind of

695
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 2: punishing the new person. That's like expecting them to clean you.

696
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 2: That's dirty water.

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00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 6: That's that's with X is like that like you're getting

698
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 6: that filtered out, but like we lost the loved one.

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Speaker 4: I don't really know what that looks.

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Speaker 2: Like, Serita, I forget the exact username. It was like

701
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 2: way up. But it's like you're ready for a new

702
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Speaker 2: partner when you have space, So like when you're uh,

703
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 2: when you're basically when you're your grief, you have enough, Yeah,

704
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 2: that when you have like less grief and the space

705
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 2: to love someone else again, because I think often if

706
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 2: you have a partner that dies and you're just over

707
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 2: come with grief, you don't have any room. There's no

708
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 2: there's no room in your life to love another person

709
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 2: or for any other emotion except for that that grief.

710
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Speaker 2: But I don't know what like a I want to rule.

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Speaker 4: I don't think these are this is I want to rule. Unfortunately,

712
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 4: grief doesn't go by rules.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think? Let let us know in

714
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 2: the chat. But is that the end of the story?

715
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: That is it? Well, you know it's not the end

716
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 2: of these freaking donations because donations that came in. It

717
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: looks like you guys want us to stream longer or something.

718
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 2: Josephine Madolo Bergquis says, once again, like the stream or

719
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 2: face my wrath. We have three hundred and two likes

720
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Speaker 2: of five hundred, and then we get to five hundred,

721
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Speaker 2: we will spin that wheel. So like that thing. Thanks

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Speaker 2: to the two fifty three Uncle Daddy Jesse coming in,

723
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Speaker 2: given some firewood to burn all night long like the

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Speaker 2: mule log at Christmas. Thanks for the twenty bucks cammy

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Speaker 2: cl is that what it means? I think so Spanish translation,

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Speaker 2: I think so nice. Maybe thanks for the two months

727
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,399
Speaker 2: of membership. I'm a quiet viewer, but I've watched all

728
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 2: your videos and all of the lives usually after the fact.

729
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:29,720
Speaker 2: I love watching while at work. Cammy, thank you for watching.

730
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 2: But you know what I'm gonna watch. I'm gonna watch

731
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Speaker 2: John's sweet lips. Read these next donations. Karen lemo lemeo.

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Speaker 2: Please tell me if I'm living.

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Speaker 1: Karen Lemue fifty dollars do Oh wow, Karen, shout out

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Speaker 1: to you, finally caught alive. You all make me laugh constantly.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Karen, Thank you for being incredible. Okay, if it's.

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Speaker 4: Anybody else's first stream shop shot, first found off there.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Put a little baby emoji your little stream

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Speaker 2: baby stream baby stream baby, one little one, little suck

739
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Speaker 2: for you one a little stop that.

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Speaker 1: Boxing cat. Thanks for the two bucks. Did you get

741
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: my package? It has gold tape. We do have a

742
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: lot of packages back there. Riley's hiding them all from

743
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Speaker 1: me right now with his beautiful body.

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Speaker 3: But we shall see.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, look at that but dunk dunk y right there

746
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 2: over split anyways, Oh yeah, overhut that hair out of

747
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Speaker 2: the way, Sophia, we got to see the curve of

748
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:39,399
Speaker 2: Riley's booty hole.

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Speaker 1: Olivia Claire celebrating three months membership of a Few streams go.

750
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Speaker 1: I said, I graduated my master's and didn't say what

751
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: it was in, and Sofia asked, it's political science. I

752
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 1: want to teach in college. Joy, let's go science.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I can't see this next one, but I'm gonna

755
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Speaker 1: guess it's from Martika Waterman and I can't wait to

756
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Speaker 1: see if I'm right.

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Speaker 3: Let me see, let me see.

758
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Speaker 4: Oh it is mar.

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Speaker 3: I literally guess.

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00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: I literally guessed that.

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Speaker 1: I thank you for the two bucks on the dinner like, hello, everyone,

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Speaker 1: My birthday is tomorrow, will be thirty two, so you

763
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Speaker 1: can stop calling John an old man because I'm older

764
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Speaker 1: than him.

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Speaker 2: Let's go not true.

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Speaker 3: I'm off tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Keep doing so.

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Speaker 1: I'll be playing video games as my daughter tomorrow and

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Speaker 1: possibly having cake and ice cream with my parents.

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Speaker 4: That's awesomely, Dottie, Martika, Sophie, you want to take it

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Speaker 4: from here? Sure, Foxy Cat, thank you for the five bucks.

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Speaker 4: Did you get my gold tape? Pagag Tracking says it's

773
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Speaker 4: been delivered to the PO box. I can't wait to

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Speaker 4: see you open it. Uh.

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Speaker 2: I think I think it's still at the PO box.

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Speaker 4: No, we did not get it, then, I think, Uh.

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Speaker 4: The infamous Boost Takita, thank you for the two buck tip.

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Speaker 4: Boost Takita here, sup Yo, Opie Hubs, Huge a Hole

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Speaker 4: and mad Selfish. Also, can you please shout out me

780
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Speaker 4: Boost Takita and Jibbro for our seventeen year whoa anniversary

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00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 4: this Saturday, June first.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the event of the summurb Saturday relationship.

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Speaker 2: I guess sorry, barely illegal.

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Speaker 4: I'm twenty four years younger than him. Hashtag don't regrets though, Yes,

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Speaker 4: yes I said, yes, I said for girts. Sorry for

786
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Speaker 4: a small tip, but it's from my lunch money. We're

787
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 4: stealing your lunch money. Yeah, well, shout out shout out

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00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 4: to your anniversary. Who's t Kita and Gibro, Maddie Bailey

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Speaker 4: or Bully did we figure out how to say that?

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Speaker 3: The name?

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Speaker 2: Just hit it?

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Speaker 4: Mattie Buy thank you for the one buck and Brooke

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Speaker 4: aka Cosmic thank you for the twenty five buck tip.

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Speaker 3: We love you too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that was you speak intelligent like, yeah, what a take?

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Speaker 4: I can only I can only speak it. I don't

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Speaker 4: understand it.

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Speaker 2: Hanging fruit grab. I knew you were gonna grab it?

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Speaker 4: Did you say?

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Speaker 2: I just just yeah?

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Speaker 3: Don't she three?

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Speaker 4: Or should we think if the five bucks saw your

803
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 4: video from yesterday, Riley, what did your girlfriend girlfriend think

804
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 4: about your cherry chapstick.

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Speaker 3: That's for her to find out and her to know. Yeah,

806
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 3: but you're the one who offered this information.

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Speaker 2: Has she found it out?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Has she would?

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00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 2: Has she found it out?

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Speaker 4: Have you worn it?

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00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: Have you worn it? Well?

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Speaker 6: I haven't, like you got around to it. I have

814
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,959
Speaker 6: put different things on my lips like that.

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Speaker 2: But what what thing like?

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Speaker 6: I had whipped cream on my lips one time and

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Speaker 6: wait then had ice cream.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you haven't.

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Speaker 2: But I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: So what I'm hearing is you had food und her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how Riley, Riley baby birds all his Cairl friend.

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Speaker 4: Disgusting. Danielle Gutierras, thank you for the five bucks. It's

823
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Speaker 4: my first stream stream.

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Speaker 2: Maybe yes, stream hatchlings.

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00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 4: Yes, daniel Gutierraz, it's your first dream. I feel like

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Speaker 4: I've seen you before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Wait, Adel and Gutierras.

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Speaker 4: I listen every day at work while I clean out habitats.

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Speaker 4: Habitats are you like? Do you work at a zoo

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Speaker 4: or some sort of You make early morning shifts fully

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Speaker 4: worth the lack of.

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Speaker 2: Sleep, Daniel, I want to know what kind of habitats

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Speaker 2: like is it like Riley said, pigeons? Is it? I

834
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Speaker 2: want to I want to know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know anything.

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Speaker 4: Rena Verklas, thank you for the two buck tip. I'll

837
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 4: send you half of the last of my moneys because, uh,

838
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 4: because you give me dopamine. I got a story, but

839
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 4: I'm having a hard time text to speech or typing

840
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Speaker 4: it out. Can we do a voice note on the discord?

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Speaker 2: You can do a voice all on the discord.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Samy, thank you for the ten gifted membership.

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Speaker 2: Sam E. And also thank you to the seven hundred

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Speaker 2: and fourteen people that are here in the stream. But

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Speaker 2: also what the.

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Speaker 4: F Yeah guys, no, thank you to the uh.

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Speaker 2: The what's three seven fourteen minus three eighty two one

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Speaker 2: hundred and no three three hundred and thirty Oh, I.

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Speaker 4: Was doing seven hundred.

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Speaker 2: Two of you something like yeah, oh, D got three

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Speaker 2: hundred and thirty two of you who haven't liked the

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Speaker 2: stream and don't want to spend that wheel. It seems

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Speaker 2: like you don't want to spind the wheel. Shame on you, shame, shame, shame, shame.

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Speaker 3: Shame, shame, shame.

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Speaker 2: But you know it's not shamef what this next story? So,

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Speaker 2: am iy a hole for wanting to cut ties with

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Speaker 2: my wife's best friend because her and her husband want

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Speaker 2: to have a threesome again, again, again, again again. This

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Speaker 2: comes from Heavy Illustrator eight five to two, and they say,

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Speaker 2: I've known this for a long time. But when my

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Speaker 2: wife was younger, she's got a few threesomes with her

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Speaker 2: best friend and her best friend's husband, then boyfriend wild child.

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00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: This was years before we even met, and she told

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Speaker 2: me early in her relationship so there would be no secrets,

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Speaker 2: which I think is the right thing to do when

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Speaker 2: you have threesomes with your friends. Yeah, spread the words,

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Speaker 2: read the words legs.

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Speaker 3: What Wow?

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Speaker 6: You said threesome with your friends. Spread the word and

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Speaker 6: your legs because you're having three esomes.

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Speaker 4: No, you don't have to explain.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was just like, he didn't get it. That's

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Speaker 2: so of course I got it. I was just that,

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Speaker 2: but you shouldn't do that.

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Speaker 3: I thought they were having threesomes with them.

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Speaker 2: They were, but they're like, but like the this is

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Speaker 2: the husband you want the husband that he doesn't want it.

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Speaker 2: He just said in the tagle, don't spread your legs.

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Speaker 2: He wants he wants he wants the things to be

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Speaker 2: closed because I think he wants to.

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Speaker 6: Ye.

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00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 2: You gotta spread that gospel, damn. Anyway, before Riley was

883
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 2: talking about leg spreading, I've never had a problem with

884
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 2: my wife being around her best friend alone, since the

885
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 2: threesome didn't involve much girl on girl but more sharing

886
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 2: her boyfriend. And for that reason, I've had trouble throughout

887
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 2: our marriage being around the both of them. I just

888
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: have trouble having a normal conversation knowing that that guy

889
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,959
Speaker 2: has slept with my wife. How do we feel about that? John?

890
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: I mean, well, because think about this, think about this.

891
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: I was like pondering all the possible scenarios. Uh, a

892
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 1: co parent parent if you Yeah, if you're with someone

893
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 1: and then you divorce and you both are raising a child.

894
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: That person you're co parenting partner is your ex you know,

895
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 1: your ex husband or whatever. For example, you still have

896
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 1: a relationship with this person and your.

897
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 2: Should have a kid together. They don't have a kid,

898
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 2: But that is an example. I'm trying to think of

899
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 2: senuating certain aarios. Well, but you know that that happens,

900
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: and I think people.

901
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 4: Get ain't friendship one of the biggest extenuating circumstance.

902
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 5: I don't know. I ain't.

903
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 2: There, Riley, How would you feel if you were forced

904
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 2: to hang out with people that have been with your girlfriend?

905
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 3: I know his answer your I probably wouldn't want to

906
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 3: hang out with him, to be honest.

907
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, which I feel like is probably. I would say

908
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 2: most people would feel a little weird about that. Yeah,

909
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 2: I just thought about it for myself. Yeah, it's jealousy. Yeah.

910
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 2: And is it worse that it's a threesome? I think so.

911
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 2: I think so. I would. I would definitely feel a

912
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 2: little little weird about it.

913
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: Cause that like, like if it's like, oh, they slept together,

914
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: there's still like some like mystery, but threesome, like I

915
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 1: don't know, it's just like.

916
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 2: And threesomewhere it was like focused on that guy.

917
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, oh wow, I didn't even think about that.

918
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: But you're totally right. Wow, Yeah that's man. Man has

919
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: played it cool.

920
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 2: Sen Value Mama says, I feel like she could still

921
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: be friends with her while having very limited to note

922
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:38,399
Speaker 2: contact with her friend's husband. Maybe you're my wife doesn't

923
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 2: think anything of it, and it's completely comfortable. It's just

924
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: something she did for a little while multiple times, then

925
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 2: stop because she wasn't into it anymore. Once the taboo

926
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 2: and thrill were off, she can even talk about it

927
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 2: with them as casually as she talks about a concert

928
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 2: they went to. However, she doesn't do this when I'm

929
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: around because she knows it makes me uncomfortable. So she

930
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 2: talks about the threesome alone with that couple.

931
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 1: That makes me, honestly, But what does never makes me

932
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: uncomfortable is the fifty dollars donation from Naomi, almost taking

933
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:14,240
Speaker 1: us cross.

934
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 4: And there we go, possibly Noami.

935
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 2: Or possibly not Naomi or me or Gnome let us.

936
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 3: Know, you deserve to put respect on her.

937
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,919
Speaker 2: Anyway, we were all together last weekend and her friend

938
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 2: had gotten a little drunk and brought it up, the threesome.

939
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 2: That is. My wife quickly shut her down. But the

940
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 2: impression I got was that they had had a lengthier

941
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 2: conversation leading up to this that I didn't know about.

942
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 4: Oh lengthy.

943
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 2: Later on, speaking of lengthy, what the ex pus? What

944
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 2: does Sophia say? How Sophia, I'm not used to Sophia

945
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 2: A section that wasn't a joke? What was it like? Oh?

946
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,280
Speaker 4: How lengthy were these conversations.

947
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 2: Come on, get out of here. What are you talking about?

948
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 2: Get out of here? Yeah, we know these conversations.

949
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 3: Actually want to require.

950
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 4: That's bad.

951
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 2: Later on, my wife told me that her friend and

952
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 2: husband had asked if she and I were interested in

953
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 2: doing something Oh interesting. They were down for whatever we

954
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 2: were comfortable with down, but my wife admitted that they

955
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:48,439
Speaker 2: really wanted her again, but with me watching. We would

956
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 2: love to do it with you again. Your husband can

957
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 2: like watch in the corner.

958
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 4: Put them on the bench.

959
00:50:54,400 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, literally a perfect achnology. Wow, you're gonna bench

960
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 2: the husband also so difficult to hear this, Like, I

961
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 2: would be really upset if I was the husband. An

962
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 2: injury on the Yeah, yeah, exactly.

963
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 3: Faithing goes wrong, we'll say you in, but.

964
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 2: We probably My wife knows there is no way in

965
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 2: hell I would be down for that, and neither would she.

966
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: My wife stop doing that with them for a reason,

967
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 2: and that's before she got married and had kids. My

968
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 2: wife has told me to just forget they said anything,

969
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: but holy crap, how can I do that now? I

970
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 2: swallowed being around them when these incidents were in the past,

971
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 2: but now that they are openly rusting for my wife

972
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if I feel comfortable with her or

973
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 2: me being around them? Am I wrong here? How do

974
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,760
Speaker 2: I navigate this? I don't want to tell my wife

975
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 2: to break off her friendship, but something I feel. But

976
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 2: there's something I feel that needs to be done. Tildr.

977
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: My wife had a threesome with her friend and husband

978
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 2: and they want to do it again. Now I don't

979
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 2: want them around anymore. And there is an edit and

980
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:07,319
Speaker 2: a juicy, thick update. But I want to know from

981
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 2: chat what do you think? What should Opie do and

982
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 2: tell his wife and these friends? Do you think this

983
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 2: is a weird thing that happened. Is op overreacting? Let

984
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 2: us know? But John Sophia Riley, what do you think

985
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: she literally said? Or OPI literally said?

986
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: This was put in the past for a reason, like

987
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: they they said, hey, I'm not going to do this anymore.

988
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 2: Then they come back and bring it up again.

989
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: When it was also it was them specifically that she

990
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 1: told said that to you right, like hey, I'm bound out,

991
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm yeah, grad I've moved on from this. Do

992
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: your thing, but I'm not going to do anymore. And

993
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: then they come back again. It's it's like breaking up

994
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: and then like.

995
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 2: When your X comes back and hey, so like let's

996
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: just like get together.

997
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, that's what it's like.

998
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 4: It's an ex that you become friends with in a way.

999
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 2: And I think it's actually a crystallizes how fed up

1000
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 2: this is when if you just replaced the couple with

1001
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 2: a person, because I feel like it, it feels like

1002
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 2: they're almost like a unit. And it's like if a

1003
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 2: if a like like you guys said, if an ex

1004
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 2: partner came in and was like, hey, let's hook up again.

1005
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 2: Your husband can watch, then you would be like, I

1006
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 2: don't know if I'm really comfortable you hanging out with

1007
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:23,399
Speaker 2: that friend or that ex partner. That's an insane thing. Yeah,

1008
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 2: Sarah says, not overreacting. Special says you can't be friends

1009
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 2: with anyone that's sexually attracted to your partner. I don't

1010
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 2: know if that's true, but.

1011
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 4: There's a song as they're not voicing it.

1012
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like there's like finding someone attractive and then

1013
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: someone like I feel like what that?

1014
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 3: Who is it?

1015
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 2: Who's it special? Someone special? Yes?

1016
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 3: What special was referring to as someone who's like actively.

1017
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: Like you're Yeah, you can't say like active pursuit of

1018
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 2: a partner. That doesn't make any an actor.

1019
00:53:59,640 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 4: Over.

1020
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 2: Okay, five one night we got an act of pursuit.

1021
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 2: Put all the alert put put some hot water or

1022
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 2: some cold water. This guy's face.

1023
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 4: Please, you made better?

1024
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 2: What did? It's called IMpower? How dare you sam?

1025
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 4: You better?

1026
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,720
Speaker 2: No? You have to couldn't let Sophia. It was already,

1027
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:25,720
Speaker 2: it was already fantastic improv. You gotta you gotta, you

1028
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 2: have to. You have to keep going.

1029
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 4: It's fine, you just made it better.

1030
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 2: It's okay, I'm with it. That's fine. But anyway, I

1031
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 2: got an edit, were free all so uh edit. Thanks

1032
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 2: for all the comments. I'm glad I'm not blowing this

1033
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 2: out of proportion, unlike your how do you hunt your partner?

1034
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 2: Blowing the trend out of proportion?

1035
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 4: Good job, that's okay.

1036
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 2: I feel out of a port and my response is

1037
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 2: normal for context. I do want to add that they

1038
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 2: all work together three times, and my wife stopped it

1039
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 2: simply because she stopped being into it. She only participated

1040
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 2: because her friend was bragging about her boyfriend's skill in

1041
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 2: the bedroom made it worse, and in did she try it.

1042
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 2: It's like trying escargo once.

1043
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 4: Oh you've got to try it. Try. You don't understand

1044
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 4: so much battisons.

1045
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: Last time, he's like a fine one.

1046
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 4: It's got notes of earth and.

1047
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 2: Sult that you.

1048
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 4: Really have to try it.

1049
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 2: Anyway, she did, and she found that no amount of

1050
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 2: skill could overcome the fact that she wasn't very attracted

1051
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 2: to him. Nice, damn couldn't overcome. Couldn't overcome. But you know,

1052
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 2: just there's nothing a bag wouldn't fix.

1053
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 4: Right back over his head.

1054
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyway, my wife also is really in oh really

1055
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 2: isn't into girls. She participated with her friend, but it

1056
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: was a first and a last. That's not true, it

1057
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 2: was three times. Just not her thing. So I really

1058
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 2: am not worried about her doing anything with them because

1059
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:22,280
Speaker 2: she has had ample opportunity before we met, and she passed.

1060
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah they're ugly, Yeah, Teddy says, going to say this again,

1061
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,959
Speaker 2: So nice had to do it thrice. Yeah. True. Also

1062
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 2: a lot of people are criticizing my wife for not

1063
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 2: telling me about the conversation, but I'm actually fine with that.

1064
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 2: She said no for both of us. I'm not angry

1065
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 2: at her for that. I'm angry at them for trying

1066
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 2: to basically cuck me, which is what they were trying

1067
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 2: to do, and there are some relevant comments in some updates.

1068
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

1069
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 2: It's just too much.

1070
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you're like, oh, I don't know if this

1071
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: is going to I'm trying to think of a good example,

1072
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 1: but I don't know if asking this person for mission

1073
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: for something is like so like even just asking for

1074
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:04,919
Speaker 1: permission is wrong.

1075
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: This is a example where it is clearly wrong. Do

1076
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 2: you even ask ask for this?

1077
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 4: Like like you're you're like, hey, can you watch my cat?

1078
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? And also it wasn't like, I think, the most

1079
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 2: insulting thing. It would be a different like I feel

1080
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 2: like I would feel a little bit better where it's like, hey,

1081
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 2: like I was thinking maybe like you're a couple, were

1082
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:25,920
Speaker 2: a couple, we could mess around a little bit. But

1083
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: it wasn't even that. It was like, hey, I want

1084
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 2: to hook up with you and your husband can watch Yeah?

1085
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 2: Like that feels that just hurts. That's crazy. That hurts.

1086
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 2: That is bananas that I think I think it. Honestly,

1087
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 2: it would be better if they were like, let's go

1088
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 2: together as a couple. It would, but they're asking for

1089
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 2: a cuck situation, which is just doesn't sit right with me.

1090
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 2: If that's what you're gonna do. You just can't ask

1091
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 2: for it. Yeah, unless you already know the guy, well

1092
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 2: you did, if he is a cuck, then yeah, you gotta.

1093
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 4: Be like you got to be like you with your partner,

1094
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 4: You're like, hey, like my partner and I have just

1095
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 4: been really looking for like a third recently, or like

1096
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 4: two others.

1097
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know everywhere, I don't know what to do?

1098
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 4: Do you know anyone who might be interested?

1099
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 2: You do the do you know anyone who might be interested?

1100
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 2: That is the tried and true way to ask for

1101
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 2: something without asking for something.

1102
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it wouldn't be super awkward for them to

1103
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 4: bring that it up in that way because like they

1104
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 4: know that she in the past had done it, so

1105
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 4: maybe she knows other people.

1106
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 2: And also sometimes the do you know anyone who would

1107
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 2: be like down for this is a genuine question. Yeah,

1108
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 2: it alibi, Yeah, but solved the speaking of working over time,

1109
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 2: these comments are juicy. So I'm going to go it's

1110
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 2: crazy at seventy four and they say, I think there

1111
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 2: is much more to this story. I think it is

1112
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 2: downright strange that you and your wife are in contact

1113
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 2: with them, let alone friends after you started dating your

1114
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 2: wife I'm almost positive that there is we're going on

1115
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 2: than you know. Sure, it's possible that your wife hasn't

1116
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 2: had any contact with either of them since you began dating,

1117
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 2: But to me, it really seems odd to be in

1118
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 2: a friendship with people that had a spicy sleep multiple

1119
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 2: times with her. Like others have said, it is like

1120
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 2: an ex spouse or dating partner being friends with her

1121
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 2: while married to you.

1122
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 4: I don't think that's necessarily that odd.

1123
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 2: I agree.

1124
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 4: I think it's okay to be friends with your ex

1125
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 4: as long as you're being respectful to your partner. And

1126
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 4: and she immediately created boundaries when they started approaching her

1127
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 4: with this stuff. She was like, no, I am not

1128
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 4: interested in.

1129
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 2: Not done.

1130
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 4: And then when her partners did bring it up.

1131
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 2: To her, did the stream freeze?

1132
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 4: Hello, play the bit stream, play the bits things.

1133
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 3: Teddy let us know or anyone.

1134
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 2: Else Teddy or.

1135
00:59:53,200 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 4: Sorry Teddy, it's not us, it's you.

1136
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 2: Ope, responds. Her best friend is a swinger. It's just

1137
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 2: that simple. Her and her husband have slept with different people,

1138
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 2: sometimes together, sometimes separate. It's just part of their lifestyle.

1139
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 2: It's not how my wife is. In her early twenties,

1140
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 2: when she was more spicy, sleep adventurous. She was down

1141
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 2: for the stuff, but that's in the past, the past. Yeah,

1142
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 2: I read it always goes too far. I think it's

1143
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 2: fine to be friends with people that you've hooked up with,

1144
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 2: as long as there's not active pursuit. We said, there's

1145
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 2: just like pull over, pull out. Please you should hear

1146
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna eat blackham stuck. We got a man in

1147
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 2: the closet hiding looking, making weird noises.

1148
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 4: We got an active super voyeurism.

1149
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: Bringing the helicopter. You boys gotta see this, well, I

1150
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:01,959
Speaker 2: hope you further explained. I'm actually offended that they really

1151
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 2: want me to watch, like that's one of their kinks

1152
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 2: to humiliate me. This guy wants to sleep with my wife,

1153
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 2: the mother of my children, and look me in the

1154
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 2: face while he does it. Yep. Yeah, that's that's what's

1155
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 2: most insulting to me, honestly, because for most people, like

1156
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 2: that is the worst thing. Yeah right, I can't think

1157
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 2: of a worse thing than seeing my the mother of

1158
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:29,919
Speaker 2: my children getting boned by some dude.

1159
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 3: That's not great.

1160
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, in front of me, not of o. I honestly

1161
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 2: just saying it is making me sad. Same, Yeah, and

1162
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 2: John had like you're in a relationship, so it's more

1163
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 2: crystallized for me. It's just a fuzzy idea of what

1164
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 2: a wife could be. Well, yeah, yeah, that's true, and

1165
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 2: there you have it to kill John's mood. But also

1166
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 2: if you want to give us your opinion, you should

1167
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 2: go over to our discord and DM Riley because Riley

1168
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 2: will bring one of you up on stage to give

1169
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 2: your thoughts and opinions on this, and especially if you

1170
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 2: have any experience with being cookeed or cooking, let us

1171
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 2: know because we want to know how this plays out

1172
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 2: in the cuckhold community.

1173
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 6: Hit her line, I am prioritizing the keyword cook in

1174
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 6: these uh I would on the shows.

1175
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, So go over to the to the discord, and

1176
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 2: if you're looking for a link, it's in the description below.

1177
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 2: But this updates from May sixteenth, twenty twenty four, rather

1178
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 2: recent after I posted I had a deeper conversation with

1179
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 2: my wife about her friends and expressed my discomfort about

1180
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:46,439
Speaker 2: her being around people that are lusting after my wife

1181
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 2: and fantasize about sleeping with her in front of me.

1182
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 2: She said she understood how I felt, but told me

1183
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 2: that there was absolutely nothing I should be concerned about.

1184
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 2: To my wife, her friend and her husband are not

1185
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 2: serious people. There's joking, there's joking. It was a joke.

1186
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 2: Don't worry. Jokes. They're just a friend. Don't even worry.

1187
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 2: They're the they're the couple.

1188
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 4: Time to do this all the time college with me.

1189
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 2: But they do it all the time. But she's not

1190
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 2: with me.

1191
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 4: In college, we always used to joke about Thrienza.

1192
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 2: And then it happened, But it was just jo so silly,

1193
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 2: those running jokes that you have you wouldn't get. You

1194
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 2: just have to be there. You could watch the next

1195
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 2: time and then maybe you'll get it. They are fun

1196
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 2: to be around, but that's it. She experimented with them

1197
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 2: in her early twenties, but she was a different person

1198
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 2: back then. She was very spicy, sleep adventurous in college

1199
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 2: and right after did a lot of things she'd never

1200
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 2: think about doing now never. She said, she's a thirty

1201
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 2: five year old, married mother of two with a serious career,

1202
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 2: and she simply isn't interested in behaving like that anymore. Riley,

1203
01:03:55,960 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 2: what you giggling about there? What's you get that about?

1204
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 2: What you giggling cuck holding experts? We're about to bring

1205
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 2: a couple holding expert onto the stream after this story

1206
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 2: to give her expert advice. So stick around to hear

1207
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 2: that our next segment on her next segment. But I'm

1208
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 2: going to segue, thank Sophia. So the report on the

1209
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 2: freeway with the K four one nine or the act

1210
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 2: of pursuit is hot. So I am not just comfortable

1211
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 2: around them. My wife then asked if we could talk

1212
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,760
Speaker 2: about it with her friends, and after that talk, if

1213
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 2: I'm still uncomfortable, then she will agree to whatever I

1214
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 2: am comfortable with. So she sounds like she's like down

1215
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 2: to clown in terms of communications. Communicate down to clown

1216
01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 2: is and come to the table, communicate authentically and with

1217
01:04:56,440 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 2: emotional uh intimate emotional intelligence. Anyway, So I agree that

1218
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 2: we I agree that we meet last night at our house,

1219
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 2: and they both apologized and swear to never bring it

1220
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 2: up again. The couple, but I can tell that neither

1221
01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 2: think of this as a big deal, and from their tone,

1222
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 2: it seems like they think I'm being overly sensitive. So

1223
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 2: I raised that point that they can see they do

1224
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 2: think I am being silly. They tell me that the

1225
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 2: time they had with my wife was a very memorable

1226
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 2: experience that they wanted to experience it again and simply

1227
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 2: asked if my wife would be interested in participating with

1228
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:39,919
Speaker 2: me or with my approval. Yeah, they should start breaking

1229
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 2: down the gory details. It's like, yeah, it was memorable,

1230
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 2: so great.

1231
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 4: Yeah we didn't. We just wanted to.

1232
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 2: We were doing that psychlops position where she was on

1233
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 2: my shoulders and just right on the face. You know,

1234
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 2: you just you have to be there. If I think

1235
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 2: you would understand, you would know, you would have you

1236
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 2: would be you would be there, but you would be

1237
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 2: on the inside. Well I would be inside, but you

1238
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 2: would be like on the inside of the Joe. I

1239
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 2: would be on the inside of your wife. But with

1240
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 2: your permission. Of course. They say that they would have

1241
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 2: been happy to allow me to participate in any way

1242
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 2: that I liked, but did admit that their biggest fantasy

1243
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 2: was to basically double team my wife.

1244
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 4: Stop abbitting things, Stop abbitting things.

1245
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:27,200
Speaker 2: There's such things are secret. Yeah, there's such things as

1246
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 2: too much information.

1247
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 4: You know what I you know what I don't like

1248
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 4: when like people on TikTok share information that I didn't

1249
01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 4: need to know, Like what I don't know? They're like,

1250
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 4: ah in sixth grade. I don't know, poop my pants.

1251
01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 4: I'm like, keep it to yourself.

1252
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, Sophia calmed down a little bit.

1253
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 2: That's a lot of information. Yeah, come on, so.

1254
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 4: Stories, but like that, you know that, just like sometimes

1255
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 4: people overshare to other people. But this is just my

1256
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,919
Speaker 4: experience of other people sharing on TikTok, and I don't

1257
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 4: like it in general. Stop over sharing.

1258
01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, stop stop sharing. Sometimes sharing is not caring. But

1259
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 2: I care about you, So I'm going to finish the story. So, uh,

1260
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 2: my wife had no interest. They confirmed that she set

1261
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 2: it down quickly. They brought it up later while they

1262
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 2: were drunk because they figured maybe I would have some interest,

1263
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 2: and if I did, I could convince her to do it.

1264
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 2: My wife's friend then says that once I let go

1265
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 2: of my inhibitions, that I would enjoy myself. How they

1266
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: think I would enjoy any experience that involves someone else

1267
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 2: effing my wife, whether I'm actively involved or not. Beyond me.

1268
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 2: I am about to say this when my wife jumps in,

1269
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 2: which Stellar move.

1270
01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 4: Jump in because they are they are starting that dude.

1271
01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:48,800
Speaker 4: Wife jumps in. She's like, no, no, you don't understand.

1272
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 2: It was great, super memorable, I'm about to say this

1273
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 2: that my wife jumps in. She tells them that I

1274
01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 2: will not be enjoying anything. I want him to suffer

1275
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 2: while he watches. No, she said she's not twenty two

1276
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: anymore and has baby asleep upstairs. She tells them that

1277
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 2: neither of us will be effing anyone else, and she

1278
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 2: thought she made that very clear. It got a little

1279
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 2: awkward after that, and they left shortly after. My wife

1280
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 2: hugged me when they left and said she was sorry

1281
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 2: for asking me to talk with them. That was not

1282
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 2: how she expected that to go. I love how it's

1283
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 2: like they doubled down. It's like, dude, you don't like

1284
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 2: if you understood how banging your wife was so great.

1285
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 4: I feel like the wife might have had a conversation

1286
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 4: with them before this conversation where she was like, hey,

1287
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:39,720
Speaker 4: can you please talk to my husband and like let

1288
01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:41,759
Speaker 4: him know that this is not happening anymore?

1289
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:45,679
Speaker 2: And I really you know chance, Yeah, yeah for sure.

1290
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 2: And then they get there like you run get it, bro,

1291
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 2: It would be so sick for you to watch, Like, I,

1292
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 2: why are they they keep going? They keep going, I'm

1293
01:08:58,080 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 2: so violating.

1294
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, but props to the oh for shutting it down.

1295
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean finally we talked a little more and

1296
01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 2: she admitted that hearing their stories is a fun escape

1297
01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 2: and even got flattered when they would tell her how

1298
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 2: much they love being with her, but admitted that it's

1299
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:13,960
Speaker 2: become a little too real and she could not stand

1300
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,799
Speaker 2: the thought of watching me with someone else and understands

1301
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 2: how I feel. So we agreed to take a good

1302
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 2: long break from seeing them. My wife isn't going to

1303
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 2: completely cut her best friend out of her life, but

1304
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 2: we are going to manage how we see them. No

1305
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 2: more drinking, no more her alone with both of them

1306
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 2: in their home or hours chopping lunch and similar activities

1307
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,760
Speaker 2: is where she's going to keep that friendship. And I

1308
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 2: can live with that. And there are some relevan comments

1309
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 2: they'll close it out, but just you wait because we're

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01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 2: going to bring a cuckhold expert into the mix. So

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01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 2: crazy beeB two thousand says your wife is one in

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01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 2: a million and didn't deserve any of the hate she

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01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 2: got in your last post. Neither of you have done

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01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 2: anything wrong, and you guys handle the situation perfectly. Opie responds, thanks,

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01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:00,600
Speaker 2: I never blamed her. She has been upfront with me

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01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 2: from the beginning of our relationship about the things that

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01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 2: she has done. Also, when asked if he's sure the

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01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 2: wife doesn't want to have threesomes anymore, Opie responds, my

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01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:13,680
Speaker 2: wife had ample opportunity before we met to do this

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01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 2: again with them. She stopped it about after three times,

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01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 2: and they tried for an entire year before we met

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01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:21,320
Speaker 2: to convince her to do it again, but she said no,

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Speaker 2: it just wasn't something she was into. The girl on

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01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 2: girl stuff isn't her thing either, and she isn't very

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Speaker 2: attractive to the husband. Once the taboo of the whole

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01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:32,759
Speaker 2: thing wore off, she was no longer interested. And that's

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01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:36,680
Speaker 2: where this story ends. But I want to ask all

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01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 2: of you in the chat. I want to ask John,

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01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 2: Sophia Riley, what do you think. Do you think this

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01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 2: deserves a complete cutoff from the relationship because that couple

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01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 2: that Opie's wife was friends with kept asking for a

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Speaker 2: threesome even though Opie was not comfortable with it. Or

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Speaker 2: you think the scaling back of the relationship is good enough.

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01:10:58,920 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 2: What do you think, y'all?

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Speaker 1: I definitely believe so, because uh you believe I believe

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Speaker 1: that they should cut off yesterday.

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01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 2: I think so too, just because yeah, they don't feel

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Speaker 2: very respectful.

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Speaker 3: They're not respecting it, and also.

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01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:14,759
Speaker 4: Like how would you want them to be your friends

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01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 4: at that point.

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Speaker 1: And the wife kind of teeter tottered where she was like, Oh,

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01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 1: they were just making jokes, they're just being silly. I

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01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 1: think eventually she came to the table and like.

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01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 3: Heard her partner out.

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01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 1: But I would be like, you're not like when you say, like, oh,

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01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 1: they're just like it's don't even worry about it.

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01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 2: They're fine.

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01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 1: It's like, well, you're not like respecting like my feelings

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01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: of how I feel like, you're not like acknowledging how

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01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:37,360
Speaker 1: I feel about this.

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01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 2: You know, I get that you are like it's not

1353
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 2: a big deal. But I think I think we this

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01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 2: deserves a poll. Should they cut off or is scaled back? Fine?

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01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:51,640
Speaker 2: So cut off or scale back? Put your answers in

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01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 2: the well. Once we get this pull up, we're gonna

1357
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 2: doing it. But speaking of getting pull up, I'm going

1358
01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 2: to strip down these little pipsoh. Josephine Madolo I made

1359
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 2: a post in the subredd about a toxic friend in

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01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 2: our friend group. Would love your advice on the situation.

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01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 2: Because it's quite a struggle. Thanks for submitting to the

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01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 2: to the subreddit, we are reading more. Okay, story time Subreddit.

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Speaker 4: I'm starting Yeah, I'm starting to go in. I've been

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01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 4: mainly going off of the reddit channel like on reddit,

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01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 4: but I'm starting to go into the discord stories.

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01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. We're sourcing it from all over them, all over

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01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 2: the place. And Riley, we're pulling up that discord uh

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01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 2: person too? Yeah cool? M J grow Thanks for five bucks.

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01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:37,679
Speaker 2: Hey you guys, how do you like the Maza pound

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01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 2: and chocolate appolita? It was great, delicious. Thanks for five bucks.

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01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:46,439
Speaker 2: Carasa celebrates two months of membership. Riley baby birding his girlfriend.

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01:12:46,479 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 2: But Sam is the pigeon boy Sony and now.

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01:12:54,520 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 1: That we always done, it's that it was in motion.

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01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 2: Riley baby birds me all the time. Yeah dude. Actually,

1375
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 2: he the reason that I'm eating potatoes the way I

1376
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 2: am is because of Riley, So shout out right for that.

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01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:12,600
Speaker 2: I cooked for them delicious and you don't like you

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01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 2: were ak cosmic. Thanks for the twenty five bucks, take

1379
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:18,680
Speaker 2: my money, honeys a ya.

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01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:20,559
Speaker 3: Bon bond.

1381
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:22,759
Speaker 2: Thanks for the two months of gifted memberships. Also, everyone,

1382
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 2: thanks for voting right now. It seems like we're pretty

1383
01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 2: pretty popping for the cutoff bon Thanks for the two

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01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:31,799
Speaker 2: months of membership. Thanks to the Okay fam for my membership.

1385
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 2: Has been watching since mid twenty twenty three. I'm one

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01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 2: of the weirdos who studied on stream. Again. We don't

1387
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,920
Speaker 2: understand it. We love you guys. Keep it up. Adam

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01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 2: and Gutierra's oh another than not the other? Goodia? Oh wait,

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01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:45,360
Speaker 2: that's right, the other Gutierrera.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi John, you remembered me. My heart Sierras shout

1392
01:13:49,520 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 2: out to you. Wow. Riley Lake spreading naughty, naughty guy.

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01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 2: I know you have a girlfriend, but beat good. Take

1394
01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 2: a cool shower. Lol. Let me watch now that's not

1395
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 2: what they said. JKJK. Just be good. Please. My kids

1396
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 2: are listening to this street message like that. Martica Waterman,

1397
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,840
Speaker 2: thanks for the two dollars tip. We appreciate you. Blood

1398
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 2: is Brunette next to the five bucks. Can you please

1399
01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 2: open up your pigeon package today? It's from Susan. I

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01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 2: will take a look at that pp very soon. Uh

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01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 2: A pigeon baggage this Naomi, thanks for the fifty dollars tip.

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01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 4: I think it was I think said he was Emi

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01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 4: and it was the first thing I said.

1404
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 2: Moonnights eighteen. Thanks for the twelve dollars. Tip dot dot dot,

1405
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:37,560
Speaker 2: Thanks for mysterious, mysterious. We love we love the mysteriousness.

1406
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:41,800
Speaker 2: But you know there's another Gutierras that just hit our line, John,

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01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 2: I think.

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01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:45,719
Speaker 3: Dan yell Gutiras from the Five Bucks.

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01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:48,479
Speaker 1: I work at a pet shop, so I cleaned reptile

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01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:51,799
Speaker 1: slash crential habitats, birds, hamsters, guinea pigs.

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01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:59,360
Speaker 2: It's very interesting. Loll white the uh Menagerie. Indeed, fifty words.

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01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 2: Sophia great word.

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01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 1: Sofia has great words, but then shames those of us

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01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:05,640
Speaker 1: who has me at peasants.

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01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:10,439
Speaker 4: I don't mean to shame. I mimic like.

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01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:12,360
Speaker 2: She's generally not shaming.

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01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, generally, she's generally.

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01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:20,759
Speaker 4: Really, it's just like my brain likes to repeat words

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01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:22,920
Speaker 4: that I find like fun to say.

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01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 1: Short time, but they all just happened to be words

1421
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 1: that we mispronounced wrong.

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01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, my brain's just an a hole sometimes, guys.

1423
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 2: But Case now celebrates two months of memberships. Glad I

1424
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,560
Speaker 2: caught y'all alive today. Sorry for the small doughnut. What

1425
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 2: what are you talking about? We're just glad you're here.

1426
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:42,040
Speaker 2: Today's my baby brother's birthday would have been twenty eight.

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01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 2: Today has been tough. Thanks for cheering me up. Hearts

1428
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 2: in the chat for Hearts in the chat Hearts in

1429
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 2: the chat for case now. Kristin Foyatt. Thanks for the

1430
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 2: ten gifted memberships, giving back to the community. We love

1431
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 2: it and passing it off back to John John.

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01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 6: Also on the memberships, there is a lag in the system,

1433
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:02,560
Speaker 6: so if you do gift, it won't be added to

1434
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:03,320
Speaker 6: the bar just yet.

1435
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 3: Oh we get another hour, so it will take a second,

1436
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 3: so bear with me. On the fifty memberships.

1437
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 2: Everyone good to know and who do we got next?

1438
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: Scrolled up for me Raley it's uh Angie Alice Agney

1439
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:18,680
Speaker 1: Alice things at two bucks.

1440
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 2: A good night, guys, it's one of five A M here.

1441
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 2: Did you get the worm scrunchy yet? Worm?

1442
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 4: There's a worm scrunchy.

1443
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:28,519
Speaker 3: Like we have yet to receive it, miping the package

1444
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 3: behind me.

1445
01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 1: If not, I might just try to make one for

1446
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:34,519
Speaker 1: you and an old man scrunchy for old man John,

1447
01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:35,839
Speaker 1: I will take a normal scrunchy.

1448
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1449
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:38,920
Speaker 2: What is that is there?

1450
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 4: An old man on the scrunchy. Is it just kind

1451
01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 4: of bedraggled?

1452
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:44,479
Speaker 2: I will trackled? Is that a word?

1453
01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1454
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:52,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, word of this everard, but draggled track it means

1455
01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:55,720
Speaker 4: like it's like kind of worn out and stuff. It's

1456
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:57,360
Speaker 4: like chat.

1457
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 1: Let us let us get Google to fact check this

1458
01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:03,640
Speaker 1: and say show thanks for to ten bucks on the

1459
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:05,240
Speaker 1: donor link. By the way, seeing a lot of donal

1460
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:10,639
Speaker 1: link donations, this couple is doing what's called hunting a unicorn. Indeed,

1461
01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 1: in the polyamory community, the fact that she's already in

1462
01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:17,360
Speaker 1: a monogamous relationship is kind of gross because it's implied

1463
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 1: by the way.

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01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 3: I have to shout out Kimberly fine, who.

1465
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:23,800
Speaker 1: Said, uh, a chair or a table with four legs

1466
01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 1: as wobbly, but a table with a fourth is just

1467
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 1: fine or something like that.

1468
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 3: Anyways, it was I can't remember what it was, but

1469
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:31,080
Speaker 3: it was.

1470
01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 2: I think a table with three legs is actually the

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01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:38,879
Speaker 2: table with three legs. A tripod is the most stable

1472
01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:46,760
Speaker 2: form of table, but is it but the strongest, which

1473
01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:51,519
Speaker 2: is why always lasts longest. It's why bridges use it

1474
01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 2: is a word that's crazy. So be out here learning,

1475
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 2: work freaking.

1476
01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 1: But also shout out to miss great, use your name

1477
01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:02,880
Speaker 1: for the twenty bucks on don't on link. Heck, yeah,

1478
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:05,120
Speaker 1: so glad I made it to listening to y'all after

1479
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 1: getting off work.

1480
01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 3: Y'all are amazing.

1481
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: Miss Tea, You're amazing, Susan Martin, thanks for one to

1482
01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: eighty five please like the stream and then Miss Tea

1483
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:17,760
Speaker 1: with another five bucks. Sorry I forgot the rest. That

1484
01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:22,360
Speaker 1: is fine, That is all good. Moxie celebrate too membership. Hey, hey,

1485
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:24,720
Speaker 1: so happy to catch a live and to be a

1486
01:18:24,760 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 1: little silly for over two months.

1487
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:27,040
Speaker 3: We love to see it.

1488
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 2: Aussy girl, a art ousty girl in.

1489
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 3: An art shop.

1490
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:33,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for a ten buck tip. Christin foil Hat, thanks

1491
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: for eight eight thirteen even.

1492
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:39,599
Speaker 2: Gang another christin foil Hat made it even shout out

1493
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:42,480
Speaker 2: christin foil Hot, Christy Gang.

1494
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 1: Y'all you've been on it, You've been on it, and

1495
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:47,920
Speaker 1: then thank you to make you ready for the ten bucks.

1496
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 1: Finally off work, So happy you guys are live after

1497
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:52,560
Speaker 1: my day started a new job and I hate it.

1498
01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 1: Come to find out the resorts is ran by an

1499
01:18:56,439 --> 01:19:01,160
Speaker 1: h away pretty much does pretty much. The lobby looks great,

1500
01:19:01,240 --> 01:19:04,759
Speaker 1: but everyone else is trashy and the rooms smell like dogs.

1501
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:08,439
Speaker 2: Hopefully there's some cute dogs that go along with that. Pee. Yeah,

1502
01:19:08,720 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 2: I got dog dream, you might as well get cute

1503
01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 2: dogs with the p We had a cute dog at

1504
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:17,360
Speaker 2: our party the other day. Did you guys see our

1505
01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 2: Instagram stories? It was it was adorable. I didn't see that, Okay,

1506
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:27,360
Speaker 2: I saw in our house your drug.

1507
01:19:28,680 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 3: I was running around. I saw and then.

1508
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:35,639
Speaker 2: That. Also, if you haven't followed all of us on Instagram,

1509
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 2: what are you doing? Are you just nodding because you

1510
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 2: do not want to see what we do behind the scenes.

1511
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 2: I did clean it. I cleaned it the heck.

1512
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 4: Literally, everyone who's brought a dog to our house, their

1513
01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:49,680
Speaker 4: dog is pete on something except except freaking Chip.

1514
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 2: That's right, and Chip has stay here the longest. He's

1515
01:19:52,360 --> 01:19:53,040
Speaker 2: such a good piece.

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01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:54,759
Speaker 4: The youngest who.

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01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:57,639
Speaker 2: Else is a good boy indoor girl too, ten Esquey

1518
01:19:57,680 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 2: thanks to the one dollar tip. Glad to finally catch

1519
01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 2: a live listening to y'all while I'm working. I might

1520
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 2: have stories for you guys later. Also, worm Army, go

1521
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 2: f yourself because pigeon Army for the when maybe that

1522
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:13,320
Speaker 2: was too aggressive. I actually do love you, but he

1523
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:15,080
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. I would join in on

1524
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:17,120
Speaker 2: all the old man John jokes. But I am older

1525
01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:20,240
Speaker 2: than John, so I would only hurt my own feelings.

1526
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:22,720
Speaker 2: It's not an age thing. It's just a vibe thing.

1527
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1528
01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 4: People at heart.

1529
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we just know that John has a withered

1530
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 2: withered heart.

1531
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:29,519
Speaker 3: That's me.

1532
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:34,760
Speaker 2: We did have heart. We did.

1533
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 3: We did have a pickup basketball game yesterday and you oh,

1534
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 3: I did win.

1535
01:20:39,200 --> 01:20:42,640
Speaker 2: We did win me and John said he like hit

1536
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 2: a fence and like heard his handstring. And my first

1537
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:47,960
Speaker 2: thought was, didn't really make fun.

1538
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 1: Of you, didn't, I say, you almost did. I was like, no, no, no, no,

1539
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:56,120
Speaker 1: don't actually, because I, in fairness, I hit that thing.

1540
01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 1: I was committed.

1541
01:20:57,200 --> 01:20:59,280
Speaker 3: He was running at it really fast, and then I

1542
01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 3: just caught myself.

1543
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 2: That was a good slap. Anyway, they keep that man away.

1544
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:08,519
Speaker 4: From the nine buck tip. My wife and I have

1545
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 4: been listening to y'all for months and it's been something

1546
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 4: for us to share where it's like your own maybe

1547
01:21:15,479 --> 01:21:19,599
Speaker 4: this can buy y'all some baha blast do the mother.

1548
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 2: And also what we say at the end of our threesome.

1549
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 2: It's a little short one.

1550
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 4: I would love them.

1551
01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:30,200
Speaker 2: You just had a story about a threesome and topical.

1552
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 3: Can't stop talking about it.

1553
01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:35,360
Speaker 4: The one buck tip there shall be some lovely package

1554
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:39,720
Speaker 4: sharing up tomorrow for your package, including the work week what.

1555
01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:47,600
Speaker 2: Squishy and cut delicious and Angie Alice thanks for the

1556
01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 2: two bucks. French framed angel and with old Man on

1557
01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:58,160
Speaker 2: it of course to wear that's awesome. We have the

1558
01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 2: vote that came in everyone saying that op should cut

1559
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 2: them off again for everyone who's just tuning into the stream,

1560
01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 2: Opie's wife listens to his concerns and sets boundaries about

1561
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 2: this friend, a couple friend couple of hers that keeps

1562
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 2: asking four threesome and Op can watch and he's like,

1563
01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 2: I don't like that, and we're like, oh, should they

1564
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 2: cut off the friend or like just you know, scale back,

1565
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:28,760
Speaker 2: and y'all voted overwhelmingly to cut it off. But we

1566
01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:31,360
Speaker 2: actually have something special for y'all is that we have

1567
01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:36,559
Speaker 2: a cuckhold expert that is going to be entering the building, uh, Riley.

1568
01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:38,800
Speaker 4: And then we have something special after that, and that's

1569
01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 4: a wheelspin.

1570
01:22:39,439 --> 01:22:43,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have a little Baja blast for you. But Riley,

1571
01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 2: are we ready?

1572
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 3: Yes, we are ready. It is Insatia. Nice background, ooh sexy.

1573
01:22:51,880 --> 01:22:58,639
Speaker 2: Insatia, are you here? Where you watch. It's a shock guys.

1574
01:22:58,680 --> 01:23:00,800
Speaker 2: Why are we acting like different armies? We have Worm,

1575
01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 2: Queen Pigeon, Lord, Duke Orange and the queens. You there,

1576
01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:09,599
Speaker 2: How are you doing?

1577
01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:13,439
Speaker 5: I am doing quite well recovering from COVID.

1578
01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:20,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but yes, I have two questions. One, do

1579
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 2: you think op was right in just scaling back or

1580
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:27,320
Speaker 2: do you think that he should have cut off the

1581
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:29,719
Speaker 2: friends that were trying to put him in a cuckhold situation?

1582
01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:32,560
Speaker 2: And speaking of cuckolds, it sounds like you have some

1583
01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:36,519
Speaker 2: experience with that. Can you give me insight into the

1584
01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:39,400
Speaker 2: cupholding community and give context to maybe what we were hearing.

1585
01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:42,680
Speaker 5: In the story of course. Okay, so, first of all,

1586
01:23:42,800 --> 01:23:44,240
Speaker 5: I do think that he was right to at least

1587
01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 5: go no or low contact. However I would have gone

1588
01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:52,439
Speaker 5: no contact. What they've done is really crossed a lot

1589
01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:58,640
Speaker 5: of boundaries. There's just no excuse for that. So so

1590
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:01,800
Speaker 5: that's that's the part. And then what was the second question?

1591
01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:02,360
Speaker 4: Uh?

1592
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:07,599
Speaker 2: What, like, I guess like more context around this cuckholding thing?

1593
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:11,840
Speaker 2: So like, is this a normal thing for couples that

1594
01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 2: are are swingers and participate in this cuck holding culture?

1595
01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 5: Okay, so, first of all, I'm polyamorous.

1596
01:24:20,400 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So so you are so.

1597
01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:27,840
Speaker 5: Uh, there are many different forms of polyamory. What they

1598
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,800
Speaker 5: are doing, as I mentioned in my donation earlier, their

1599
01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:34,479
Speaker 5: unicorn hunting. So basically normally what a couple would do

1600
01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:38,000
Speaker 5: is look for a single woman and try and bring

1601
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 5: her in for whatever they want, or to make her

1602
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:43,799
Speaker 5: part of their triad.

1603
01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:49,360
Speaker 2: Kind of gross, it's gross, but it is.

1604
01:24:49,479 --> 01:24:51,080
Speaker 5: Really commonly accepted.

1605
01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 3: Uh.

1606
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 5: It's kind of gross in the that instead of looking

1607
01:24:56,240 --> 01:25:02,479
Speaker 5: for like one on one relationship, it's intentionally with two people,

1608
01:25:03,560 --> 01:25:06,800
Speaker 5: or it's intentionally with three people all together in a

1609
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:09,200
Speaker 5: triangle rather than a V shape.

1610
01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 2: Mmm, so you're so, you would say it would be

1611
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 2: more you like in you are more comfortable in a

1612
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 2: poly relationship where there's one person that has two relationships

1613
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:25,799
Speaker 2: rather than like a partnership where everyone is connected to everyone.

1614
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:31,519
Speaker 5: I'm not saying that a triangle is even wrong. I'm

1615
01:25:31,600 --> 01:25:34,360
Speaker 5: just saying in this case where they're going after a

1616
01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:39,040
Speaker 5: monogamous woman, right who's already in a relationship, Yes, they've

1617
01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:42,559
Speaker 5: broken so many boundaries. That's where I think it's gross.

1618
01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:45,679
Speaker 5: So the fact that they're doing this is gross.

1619
01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:51,240
Speaker 2: So in your experience as a cupholding expert. How what

1620
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:54,320
Speaker 2: is the ethical way to source a unicorn?

1621
01:25:55,720 --> 01:25:59,120
Speaker 5: Okay, an ethical way to source a unicorn? I think

1622
01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:01,719
Speaker 5: they approached it and the correct way they approached a friend.

1623
01:26:02,080 --> 01:26:04,680
Speaker 5: But they didn't take no for an answer, and I

1624
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:08,320
Speaker 5: think that's the most important thing. There's also lots of

1625
01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:11,840
Speaker 5: groups out there where they could go and find people

1626
01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 5: who are open to being a third party owner relationship

1627
01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:19,479
Speaker 5: rather than seeking out their friends and potentially damaging them

1628
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:20,639
Speaker 5: like they've done.

1629
01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:25,839
Speaker 2: So, what has been your most successful method of garnering

1630
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:27,559
Speaker 2: more people for your poly tribe?

1631
01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:33,040
Speaker 5: Okay? Well, so here's here's where I become a little

1632
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:35,759
Speaker 5: bit of a hypocrite. And mind you, I've just got divorced.

1633
01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:36,479
Speaker 2: Okay.

1634
01:26:38,080 --> 01:26:44,160
Speaker 5: Most of my poly relationships have been through my husband

1635
01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:46,759
Speaker 5: has started dating a woman and then later I became

1636
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:50,720
Speaker 5: friends with her and we developed romantic feelings that way.

1637
01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 2: Oh so you did do the triangle method.

1638
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:57,320
Speaker 5: I have done a triangle But that's why I was saying, like,

1639
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:02,679
Speaker 5: in this case, it's it's a little the way they're

1640
01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 5: doing it is really it's unethical.

1641
01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:11,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, so if you want to ethically source a unicorn,

1642
01:27:11,640 --> 01:27:15,519
Speaker 2: it sounds like go to groups that, uh, this is happening.

1643
01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:17,880
Speaker 2: What are the groups called? If someone was.

1644
01:27:17,880 --> 01:27:21,880
Speaker 5: Curious, not me, Well, there's a lot of the bdsn

1645
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:25,439
Speaker 5: M communities. If you're looking for websites, there's that life.

1646
01:27:26,400 --> 01:27:31,400
Speaker 5: There's there's these things called munches where you can go

1647
01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:34,160
Speaker 5: and talk to other people who are poly and then

1648
01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:35,080
Speaker 5: BDS and M.

1649
01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:38,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, munch yeah, I thought they were feeling you.

1650
01:27:40,479 --> 01:27:40,880
Speaker 5: What's up?

1651
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,800
Speaker 2: What's a munch aunch of.

1652
01:27:43,840 --> 01:27:47,040
Speaker 5: A It's a meeting where a bunch of people who

1653
01:27:47,080 --> 01:27:50,599
Speaker 5: are polyamorous or it to BDSNM and KING we'll get

1654
01:27:50,640 --> 01:27:56,280
Speaker 5: together and talk and tell different exploits about themselves. I've

1655
01:27:56,320 --> 01:27:57,080
Speaker 5: only gone to one.

1656
01:27:59,120 --> 01:27:59,960
Speaker 2: We're asking for a friend.

1657
01:28:03,840 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 5: I was very uncomfortable, but I went with my boyfriend

1658
01:28:08,120 --> 01:28:10,760
Speaker 5: and my girlfriend or my husband and my girlfriend at

1659
01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 5: the time.

1660
01:28:11,479 --> 01:28:14,519
Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for sharing about your very

1661
01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 2: unique experience and also very topical to the story. We

1662
01:28:18,439 --> 01:28:19,639
Speaker 2: appreciate you. And Sasha.

1663
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:25,760
Speaker 5: All right, thank you, bye bye.

1664
01:28:26,160 --> 01:28:27,160
Speaker 3: Well there we go, Sam.

1665
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:31,280
Speaker 2: Now your friend is so educated on all of these things.

1666
01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:33,960
Speaker 2: It's very it's very good to educate your friends.

1667
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you can pass along this information. I'm

1668
01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:37,280
Speaker 3: so excited.

1669
01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:40,880
Speaker 2: I am excited for my friend too. My friend. I

1670
01:28:40,920 --> 01:28:42,880
Speaker 2: don't know if my friend will check out those websites,

1671
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:45,040
Speaker 2: but it's just nice to know that they are there. Yes,