1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: All right, it's their time. Buckle up and hold on tight. 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: We got it fall you in strawberry letter, subject my 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 1: wife's sister wants to tell all Dear Stephen Shirley, Oh boy, 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: A couple of years ago, I had an affair with 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: my wife's younger sister, and yes, we both we both 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: know it was wrong. My sister in law and I 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: had been good friends for several years, and we never 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: even looked at each other in a romantic way until then. 9 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: My sister in law ended the affair after a few months, 10 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: and unfortunately our friendship also ended, which was her choice. 11 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: The issue now is that she wants to tell my 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: wife about the affair. She says she wants to tell 13 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: so she can start off with a clean slate with 14 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: her sister. My marriage hasn't been good for many years, 15 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: but I never wanted to intentionally hurt my wife. What 16 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: should I do? Please help? Oh boy? I know you 17 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: got you say you guys aren't friends anymore. But you're 18 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: gonna have to talk to the sister in law and 19 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: persuade and convince her not to tell her sister. That 20 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: would not be a good look. It just wouldn't. It 21 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: would destroy your sister. Um, it's going to destroy an 22 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: already bad marriage. You're saying it hasn't been good for 23 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: years your marriage. Um, yeah, she can't tell. You know, 24 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: this is one of those secrets you're gonna have to 25 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: take to the grave. Don't let the guilt you know 26 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: of this illicit affair that you had, you two had, 27 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: get the best of you and go in and hurt 28 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: someone that doesn't need to be heard. I mean, you 29 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: just can't do it. It's just one of those things 30 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: you cannot tell. Uh, your wife about this. She can't 31 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: tell her sister and clean the slate for what I mean, 32 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: you're cleaning it. What is that gonna do? I mean, 33 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: what is that gonna do? If she doesn't know, she 34 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: doesn't know. I just wouldn't do this. I wouldn't advise this. 35 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: If I were you, like I said, I would try 36 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: and get to the sister in law and try and 37 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: persuade and convince her if this is just not a 38 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: good look. It's not a good thing to do because 39 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: it's going to destroy a bunch of people that don't 40 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: need to be destroyed. Steve H. Sherley's response used the 41 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: word in it that I've never understood the elicit are fair. 42 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: Let's start there. Elicit a fair? Does that mean like alleged? No, 43 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: it just means wrong, shouldn't happen? Well, then this show 44 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: shouldn't it is? Yeah, a couple of years ago you 45 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: had a fair with your wife's younger sister, that older sister, younger, 46 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: your wife's sister, all the other chicks in this world, dog, 47 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: all of them you could have slept with. You picked 48 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: her damn sister. Oh that's low, down homely, Yeah, it's 49 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: low dog. And I'm telling you right now before we 50 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: even get to the end of the letter, I can't 51 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: help you. Let's just you and the damn thing I 52 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: can do for you, because you're going to in telling 53 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: it ain't a damn thing we can do for you. 54 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 1: Now we both know always wrong. My sister in law 55 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: had been good friends several years, and we never even 56 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: looked at each other in a romantic way until then. Boy, stop, 57 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: you ain't never thought her little sister was fine until 58 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: the day y'all did something. First of all, dog, who 59 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: you think you're talking to? Who do you think you 60 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: talking to? You ain't thought nothing about this girl until 61 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: it happened. First of all, don't don't write me and 62 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: lie and then ask for help, you know, getting where 63 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: you've been looking at that little fine thing for him? 64 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: So y'all did it. The faire went on for months. 65 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: Your sister in law ended the fair after a few months. 66 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: And unfortunately, now see this, this little moment of regret 67 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: you having, this is stupid. Unfortunately our friendship also ended, 68 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: which was her choice. What you mad? But now you 69 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: ain't mad about friendship ended, You're mad about the fair 70 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 1: in let the quick talking to Steve like he paying 71 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: no tention. M hm. The issue now is she wants 72 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: to tell my wife about the affair. Boy boy, I 73 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: don't know what you're gonna do, and nothing I can 74 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 1: tell you to do is it's I'm not happy. You 75 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: gouts to think of something to do to yourself that 76 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: deflex attention from this a fan bring it home. You 77 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: have got to do something drastic to yourself now. I 78 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: don't know how you feel. Let let me go. I'ma 79 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: tell you what you gotta do it Let it because 80 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 1: you cannot let this happen. I got four minutes to kill. Boy. 81 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Let's just kill this letter 82 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: right now. You gotta do something to yourself, and I'm 83 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: gonna tell you that in a minute. But let me 84 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: get this last line. She says, she wants to tell 85 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: her so she can start off clean with her sister. 86 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: Let's get a couple of things establish it. She don't 87 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: give a damn by her sister. A matter of fact, 88 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: she don't even like hers system. That's why she slept 89 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: with her sister's husband in the first place. Because you're 90 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: the only one. Think you can get a man, I 91 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: can get show man. Now to going in and tell 92 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: her is to go nine nine nine? What slates you 93 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: talking about cleaning? Because it's gonna be do to all 94 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: over the slate if you're walk in there and open 95 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:21,799 Speaker 1: your mouth and say this, yeah, it's gonna get real 96 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: reals up in there. What do you need to do 97 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: to sugar hunted ice tissh up in there? My marriage 98 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: ain't been good for a couple of years. That's another thing. 99 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: It's been over, ain't with damn no Hi. But before 100 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 1: you let her go in there and and and tell 101 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: your sister, tell your wife that they had in the fair, 102 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: you need to do something to yourself. You got to 103 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: divert the attention and it has to be something tragic. Now. 104 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: I don't know how you feel about your car, but 105 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: you need to wrap it around the telephone. That's what 106 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: you need to take this thing and driving into the 107 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: side of the warehouse building at about you need both 108 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: air bags to come out, and just put the mouth 109 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: piece in your mouth. Put the mouth piece, get your 110 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: football mouth piece and put him and be a crash 111 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: dummy and gonna take that wall on about forty miles nothing. 112 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: You're gonna break both man, you as you're gonna need 113 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: some type of injury the sact thing. You're gonna have 114 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: your self inflicted wound, gunshot. You gotta shoot yourself. Low 115 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: your shoulder cap off. You don't even need your shoulder 116 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: cap because you can put your pants in your set. Okay, 117 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: we'll be back with me, and I'm let the fellas 118 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: join in on some other stuff you can do. We'll 119 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: be back. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. We 120 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: gotta get back to part two of Steve's response to 121 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: this letter. Though uh my wife sister wants to tell 122 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: all is the subject, Steve, we cannot let this happen. 123 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: The recap is quite simple. This man slept with his 124 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: wife's younger sister, he said. They know it's wrong, but 125 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: let's put credit where credit is due. Dog, you low, 126 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: there's too many other women out here. You go get 127 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: your your wife's sister down. But then what about this 128 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: skank sister she got. Obviously she don't like her, so 129 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: she's gonna sleep with her. Man now, you and your 130 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: stupid behind says, Unfortunately, our friendship also ended, which was 131 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: her choice, because you ended the affair after a few months. 132 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: Unfortunately our friendship, boy, you don't didn't give a damn 133 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: about that friendship. She quit sleeping with you. Some y'all 134 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: should have never did. She now is she wants to 135 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: tell my wife about the affairs. She says, she wants 136 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: to tell her so she can start off with a 137 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: clean slate with her sister. Let's explain something to you, homie. 138 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: M I can't really give you anything. This can't happen. 139 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: This cannot happen. Now. I don't want you to do 140 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 1: nothing to her, but you got to do something to yourself. 141 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: You gots to divert the attention. Here's what I think 142 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: you're now. The two things I've said he should do it. 143 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: You have to get a self inflicted one. You have 144 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: to shoot yourself somewhat, blow a finger off something. But 145 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: it needs to be I think it's got to be 146 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: up in the chest area. You gotta shoot yourself under 147 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: your arm, blow your arm, pied off. Something gots to 148 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: get you in the hospital. My next suggestion, you need 149 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: to get in some kind of coma. Yeah, quickly, instant coma. 150 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: You need a six month coma, some six months coma 151 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 1: when you come out. Don't know, no damn body that's 152 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: for started fellas any ideas? Yeah, well yeah, I got one. Yeah. 153 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: See the thing about it is she cannot say the 154 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 1: words I slept with your hook. That cannot come out. 155 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: So if y'all at the dinner table and she said, listen, 156 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: I got something I want to say. Touch yourself with 157 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: a cattle proud instant right there, knock yourself, just knocking 158 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: stuff out of the differtation. She didn't keep one, bay, 159 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: keep it right time you got one. Put a fire 160 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: cracker in your mouth, just blow all that takes over, 161 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: everything that happens. Ain't nobody trying to hear what this 162 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: girl got to say. You didn't blew your mouth out. 163 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:19,599 Speaker 1: Not a fact of the chair, bone hand, My head in. No, No, 164 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: it's very easy. This is I hear you, guys, and 165 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: hear what you're saying. But the sister has got to disappear. 166 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: We don't know what happened to We don't know where 167 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: she is and we and now we know that you 168 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: got rid of the sister. So you got to bring 169 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: up the conversation. Se your sister around lately everybody you 170 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 1: don't know, right, ain't been real. Just come over every day. 171 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: We sister. She's got to be yeah, and the freeze someone. Yeah, 172 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 1: she's got to be in small sandwich bag somewhere. Yeah. Yeah, Yes, 173 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: you have not hurt this woman. She's got to be hurt. 174 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: It's got to be pain involved. This pain stops other pain. 175 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: That's what's what he should do. Come on, this man 176 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:19,679 Speaker 1: has got to go into the bank maskless, no mask okay, 177 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: good in hand note taped on his chest. Take a 178 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: full three sixty turn as you step up to the 179 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: window so the camera can get you from all angles. 180 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: She reads the note to tell age the money. When 181 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: you get to when you get the money, sit your 182 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: ass down in the middle of that float with all 183 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: that money and hug it tight. M You have got 184 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: to get arrested. You got to be in the man 185 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: where they can't get to you. You gotta do something. 186 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: Years that's all I got for you. To take this 187 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: sister out and let me fish with this. I got it, y'all. 188 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: I got Take her down the Oklahoma go storm watching, 189 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: storm chasing. As soon as the tornado get close, get 190 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: her ass up in that funnel. Yeah, and let's fly 191 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: her clean up out of here. Twister. What we get 192 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 1: close to that funnel, that twister, get in there and 193 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: let us get the flying straight up out of it. Kidnapping, murder. 194 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: It looks like tornadoes set a house on to Oh 195 00:13:55,400 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: my god, oya, end up person, nothing possible. Fly to Congo. 196 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: One way to get all your money, ba, just for 197 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 1: the man, Get all your money, bar all the money 198 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: you can and take your ass up to Cleep to 199 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: the Garden Valley Projects and get you a room and 200 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: ride it out there. It's bad enough. That's you and 201 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: the projects. Now Garden Valley Projects, beautiful, beautiful hideout place. 202 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: While she in Cleveland on she can go to the 203 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: He can take her to the game tonight. Hm. No, 204 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: he can just go to the game by himself. Just 205 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: go out there on the floor and slapping the bro. 206 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: That's gonna get you killed, yo, Yeah, you're gonna get 207 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: severely beat. At the same time that that could be 208 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: the coma we're looking for. That could be the coma. 209 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: But that's happened. But she cannot say these, well now 210 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: she can't say nothing. All right, Uh this craziness. You're 211 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.