WEBVTT - HIGHLIGHT- Tanya's Road Rage

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<v Speaker 1>One A two point seven. It's Kiss FM. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>what do we got this morning? We got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>It's coming up after seven o'clock this morning. Also, we

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<v Speaker 1>have Angel City tickets, we have Dodger tickets to give away.

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<v Speaker 2>And we have a problem. Somebody is is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the lack of coffee or the coffee that's

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<v Speaker 1>got you on edge?

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<v Speaker 3>Tanya, No, here's the problem. I think that I'm a lemming.

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<v Speaker 3>I realized that I the other day, I was getting

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<v Speaker 3>off on Cold Water and this car was stopped like

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<v Speaker 3>kind of in the road, and I just thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was somebody delivering food to somebody's house, you know, because

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<v Speaker 3>there's houses on cold Water, and everybody was honky and

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<v Speaker 3>going around this person.

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<v Speaker 1>People very upset, right, It ruined their moment, It ruined

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<v Speaker 1>their day in their morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, because everything was stalled. And I did the same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I see the car, I'm the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>Up, and I huh so your blood the temperature rose

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<v Speaker 1>and you had an episode of road, Rachel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, And then as I honked and I got into

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<v Speaker 3>the next lane, I noticed that this girl looked distressed,

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<v Speaker 3>like it looked like like she wasn't doing this intentionally.

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<v Speaker 4>Work raging, raging, and so I felt awful.

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<v Speaker 3>So I went around back around to like go around

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<v Speaker 3>the block to see her again, and like I stopped

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 4>And she said, yeah, I got triple A.

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<v Speaker 3>She was stuck, her car was stalled, she wasn't doing

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<v Speaker 3>it intentionally, and everybody was just honky and just being

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<v Speaker 3>so rude to her. And it made me realize, like

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<v Speaker 3>I want to like calm down on the road and

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<v Speaker 3>not that had that be my first instinct to just

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<v Speaker 3>like honk and get angry at first.

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing how we can become evil and like so

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<v Speaker 1>feisty and ticked off about.

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<v Speaker 2>A stranger we know nothing about.

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<v Speaker 1>But it really has no impact on our lives just

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<v Speaker 1>because they're I mean, it cannot like the smallest little thing,

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<v Speaker 1>like if somebody doesn't you know, people are waiting to

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<v Speaker 1>turn left and they don't take it, they don't like

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<v Speaker 1>rush the light to get through on the left.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, you could have done it. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>could have made it. I mean, you're I look like

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<v Speaker 2>such an idiot talking to myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, they could have made it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean the rule on that is like three

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<v Speaker 1>cars can clear, yeah, with no signal on a yellow

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<v Speaker 1>to red, like three cars.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I just mated that.

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<v Speaker 3>My first instinct was this person is did she ever

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<v Speaker 3>hazard on?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's issue.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine like the horror you feel when you do know

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<v Speaker 1>that you're causing people delays and you're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere yourself and you're panicked and you're waiting. So the

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<v Speaker 1>lesson here is take a deep breath. Is not life

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<v Speaker 1>is too It's a life is too short moment?

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't it? To get upset?

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<v Speaker 3>And it just made me realize, like I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>my first instinct, especially on the road, to just be rage.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever say system? Do you ever say when

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<v Speaker 1>you Michael are in it, like having a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a difference of views on an issue, do you

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<v Speaker 1>ever just take a deep bread?

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<v Speaker 2>So you know what? To yourself, life's too short. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna move on.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I try to. But then he's like, let's get

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<v Speaker 4>down to the root of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh God, that.

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<v Speaker 1>I never want to get to the root of it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine. Let's

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<v Speaker 4>just move on, And he's like, we can't move on

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<v Speaker 4>until we get to I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna move on. I'm a life is too short. It's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>We did it, try to do right. Why does he

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<v Speaker 2>want the roots of stop and move on? And he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>He wants to get to the root of it. This

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<v Speaker 4>is not why you're upset.

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<v Speaker 2>We have to be said.

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<v Speaker 4>You're probably said because of something.

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<v Speaker 1>Else, and let's sit and discover until We're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go anywhere until we find out it does end.

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<v Speaker 4>Up being better. But yes, much waste of time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so much labor.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say when like, what are your words

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<v Speaker 1>when you want to talk with Robbie?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm the root girl, Like I want to say

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<v Speaker 3>about it?

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<v Speaker 4>I say, do you want to talk? Let's talk about it?

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<v Speaker 2>What does he say?

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<v Speaker 4>Can we do it tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 2>Every time? And I'm listening.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we go to bed now?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just mad. I don't want to go to bed upset, right, And.

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<v Speaker 3>He says, I'm not mad, I'm not want to sleep, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't want to talk about this tomorrow actually.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he does. He does. He likes the root situation,

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't He just wants time away from it so that

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<v Speaker 3>we're not emotional.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we just take a breath and come back to this,

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<v Speaker 1>let's revisit, let's put a pin it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But so if you're like me, which is uh, insecurely attached,

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<v Speaker 3>when somebody wants space to think about things or whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>you freak.

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<v Speaker 2>Out until you realize that's their method.

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<v Speaker 3>That's their method. But to me, it's like, oh, he

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<v Speaker 3>just wants out. That's my first instinct. And it's like that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, tru trust.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, what time.

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<v Speaker 4>Whenever I figure it out for myself?

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<v Speaker 2>The root?

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, let's talk about tomorrow. Okay, coming up your morning hack.

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<v Speaker 1>You have spider's corn around the house. You worry about spiders,

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<v Speaker 1>seen a few lately.

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<v Speaker 2>The spider. All kinds of creatures are out in this heat.

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<v Speaker 4>My gosh, there was one in beat his car yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Why was the spider bedas car? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>But she made me kill it.

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<v Speaker 2>Where we all going?

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<v Speaker 4>We were going to an event, a dojic head event.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, all right, anyway, I killed it with a

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<v Speaker 1>juice box.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that you want to be advocating the death.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, but you know what I did. People can

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<v Speaker 4>come at me, the spider advocates whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I think they will. Then they got their thumbs out. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we all need a web. The web is good.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good for the ecosystem.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, in the car, I had to make a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you spray this around your house, the spiders

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<v Speaker 1>will stay out. I'll tell you what it is and

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<v Speaker 1>a quote for this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Next