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Speaker 1: One A two point seven. It's Kiss FM. All right,

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Speaker 1: what do we got this morning? We got a lot

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift tickets. You need the iHeartRadio app. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: encourage you to perform and use a technology that I

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Speaker 1: love so much inside iHeartRadio. So stand by for that.

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Speaker 1: It's coming up after seven o'clock this morning. Also, we

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Speaker 1: have Angel City tickets, we have Dodger tickets to give away.

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Speaker 2: And we have a problem. Somebody is is it?

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Speaker 1: Is it the lack of coffee or the coffee that's

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Speaker 1: got you on edge?

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Speaker 3: Tanya, No, here's the problem. I think that I'm a lemming.

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Speaker 3: I realized that I the other day, I was getting

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Speaker 3: off on Cold Water and this car was stopped like

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Speaker 3: kind of in the road, and I just thought it

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Speaker 3: was somebody delivering food to somebody's house, you know, because

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Speaker 3: there's houses on cold Water, and everybody was honky and

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Speaker 3: going around this person.

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Speaker 1: People very upset, right, It ruined their moment, It ruined

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Speaker 1: their day in their morning.

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Speaker 3: Yes, because everything was stalled. And I did the same thing.

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Speaker 3: I see the car, I'm the next one.

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Speaker 1: Up, and I huh so your blood the temperature rose

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Speaker 1: and you had an episode of road, Rachel.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And then as I honked and I got into

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Speaker 3: the next lane, I noticed that this girl looked distressed,

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Speaker 3: like it looked like like she wasn't doing this intentionally.

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Speaker 4: Work raging, raging, and so I felt awful.

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Speaker 3: So I went around back around to like go around

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Speaker 3: the block to see her again, and like I stopped

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Speaker 3: and I said, are you okay?

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Speaker 4: And she said, yeah, I got triple A.

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Speaker 3: She was stuck, her car was stalled, she wasn't doing

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Speaker 3: it intentionally, and everybody was just honky and just being

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Speaker 3: so rude to her. And it made me realize, like

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Speaker 3: I want to like calm down on the road and

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Speaker 3: not that had that be my first instinct to just

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Speaker 3: like honk and get angry at first.

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Speaker 1: That's amazing how we can become evil and like so

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Speaker 1: feisty and ticked off about.

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Speaker 2: A stranger we know nothing about.

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Speaker 1: But it really has no impact on our lives just

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Speaker 1: because they're I mean, it cannot like the smallest little thing,

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Speaker 1: like if somebody doesn't you know, people are waiting to

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Speaker 1: turn left and they don't take it, they don't like

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Speaker 1: rush the light to get through on the left.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, you could have done it. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: could have made it. I mean, you're I look like

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Speaker 2: such an idiot talking to myself.

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Speaker 4: Yes, they could have made it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean the rule on that is like three

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Speaker 1: cars can clear, yeah, with no signal on a yellow

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Speaker 1: to red, like three cars.

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Speaker 4: Like I just mated that.

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Speaker 3: My first instinct was this person is did she ever

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Speaker 3: hazard on?

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Speaker 2: No, that's issue.

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Speaker 1: Imagine like the horror you feel when you do know

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Speaker 1: that you're causing people delays and you're trying to get

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Speaker 1: somewhere yourself and you're panicked and you're waiting. So the

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Speaker 1: lesson here is take a deep breath. Is not life

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Speaker 1: is too It's a life is too short moment?

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Speaker 2: Isn't it? To get upset?

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Speaker 3: And it just made me realize, like I don't want

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Speaker 3: my first instinct, especially on the road, to just be rage.

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Speaker 1: Did you ever say system? Do you ever say when

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Speaker 1: you Michael are in it, like having a little bit

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Speaker 1: of a difference of views on an issue, do you

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Speaker 1: ever just take a deep bread?

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Speaker 2: So you know what? To yourself, life's too short. I'm

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Speaker 2: just gonna move on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I try to. But then he's like, let's get

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Speaker 4: down to the root of it.

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Speaker 2: Oh God, that.

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Speaker 1: I never want to get to the root of it.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine. Let's

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Speaker 4: just move on, And he's like, we can't move on

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Speaker 4: until we get to I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna move on. I'm a life is too short. It's fine.

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Speaker 2: We did it, try to do right. Why does he

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Speaker 2: want the roots of stop and move on? And he doesn't.

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Speaker 4: He wants to get to the root of it. This

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Speaker 4: is not why you're upset.

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Speaker 2: We have to be said.

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Speaker 4: You're probably said because of something.

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Speaker 1: Else, and let's sit and discover until We're not gonna

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Speaker 1: go anywhere until we find out it does end.

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Speaker 4: Up being better. But yes, much waste of time.

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Speaker 2: It's so much labor.

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Speaker 1: What do you say when like, what are your words

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Speaker 1: when you want to talk with Robbie?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm the root girl, Like I want to say

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Speaker 3: about it?

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Speaker 4: I say, do you want to talk? Let's talk about it?

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Speaker 2: What does he say?

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Speaker 4: Can we do it tomorrow?

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Speaker 2: Every time? And I'm listening.

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Speaker 3: Can we go to bed now?

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Speaker 2: Let's just mad. I don't want to go to bed upset, right, And.

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Speaker 3: He says, I'm not mad, I'm not want to sleep, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I don't want to talk about this tomorrow actually.

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Speaker 3: No, he does. He does. He likes the root situation,

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Speaker 3: doesn't He just wants time away from it so that

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Speaker 3: we're not emotional.

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Speaker 2: I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: Can we just take a breath and come back to this,

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Speaker 1: let's revisit, let's put a pin it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But so if you're like me, which is uh, insecurely attached,

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Speaker 3: when somebody wants space to think about things or whatever,

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Speaker 3: you freak.

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Speaker 2: Out until you realize that's their method.

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Speaker 3: That's their method. But to me, it's like, oh, he

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Speaker 3: just wants out. That's my first instinct. And it's like that, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I know, tru trust.

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Speaker 2: Me, what time.

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Speaker 4: Whenever I figure it out for myself?

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Speaker 2: The root?

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Speaker 1: Yep, let's talk about tomorrow. Okay, coming up your morning hack.

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Speaker 1: You have spider's corn around the house. You worry about spiders,

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Speaker 1: seen a few lately.

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Speaker 2: The spider. All kinds of creatures are out in this heat.

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Speaker 4: My gosh, there was one in beat his car yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Why was the spider bedas car? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: But she made me kill it.

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Speaker 2: Where we all going?

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Speaker 4: We were going to an event, a dojic head event.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, all right, anyway, I killed it with a

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Speaker 1: juice box.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that you want to be advocating the death.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but you know what I did. People can

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Speaker 4: come at me, the spider advocates whatever.

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Speaker 1: Well I think they will. Then they got their thumbs out. Now,

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Speaker 1: I mean, we all need a web. The web is good.

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Speaker 2: It's good for the ecosystem.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, in the car, I had to make a choice.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you spray this around your house, the spiders

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Speaker 1: will stay out. I'll tell you what it is and

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Speaker 1: a quote for this morning.

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