WEBVTT - | Ep 90 | Our Forever First Lady

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? My people? This is Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 1>Robin Dixon in the house.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa whoa, whoa whoa whoa?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is that gonna be our new music?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that? Yes? Thank you for being here with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes again, once again, we so appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Shaz We love hearing from you telling us you know

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<v Speaker 1>how you enjoy listening to the podcast and your feedback.

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<v Speaker 1>You're reasonably shady scenarios.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, questions and just because the title of this of

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast is reasonably shady, does not mean you can

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<v Speaker 2>be shady to us, like let us do that, okay, Pepa, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>not being so shady?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Yes, like the girl. We didn't talk about this.

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<v Speaker 1>We briefly talked about the podcast festival, but the shady

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<v Speaker 1>asked question that the girl.

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<v Speaker 2>As child, she was ready, she was ready.

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<v Speaker 1>I picked on her, she was It was my fault,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was we were rapping up at the end. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we had run out of.

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<v Speaker 2>Time at the Black Effect Podcast Festival. In Atlanta. If

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<v Speaker 2>there's another one gets tickets going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. I we ran at the time, we were doing

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<v Speaker 1>to ask Us Anything segments and we were asking people

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<v Speaker 1>in the audience, you know, to you know, they can

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<v Speaker 1>ask us anything, ask us anything, and we ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of time and the people were still oh, oh, pick me.

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<v Speaker 2>They was jumping up and down raising a hand, pick me.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I picked a couple more and saw this girl.

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<v Speaker 2>She was just she had a burning question. It was burning, burning,

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<v Speaker 2>and I pointed at her. I said, okay, give you know,

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<v Speaker 2>give it a mic, Give it a mic.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why Robin did that. What you gotta say?

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't go a howl about ribbing? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think about the pictures of vomiteds mistress in the launcher

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<v Speaker 1>mat I just put my head down.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, oh shit, this is how we're gonna end

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast in this room with three thousand people. I said, shit,

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<v Speaker 2>why anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>So I answered a question and at this point you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to tune in to something to find out

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<v Speaker 1>that No, okay, they're gonna give us clips so that

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<v Speaker 1>we can potentially put it on our sites.

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<v Speaker 2>But guess what we're not putting that part on done.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, listen, Lizzen, y'all, I don't care. You can keep

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<v Speaker 1>making up shit. I don't care. All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, we have a what's your reasonable shady moment of

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<v Speaker 2>the week? Can I get mine? Because it's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like from a couple weeks ago and I forgot but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm meant to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So while we were in Atlanta for that festival Black

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<v Speaker 2>Effect shout out to Dolly and Charlemagne.

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<v Speaker 1>Woop woop.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a hotel that we stayed in. Oh yeah, which,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, Black Effect recommended this hotel. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to give the name of the hotel, but they

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<v Speaker 2>were recommended this hotel that we stay.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it was like nine minutes ten minutes from the venue. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's why.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, because I have my Atlanta hotels that

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<v Speaker 2>I like. Yeah, but I decided to veer off of

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<v Speaker 2>what I like to stay where they asked us to stay.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, okay, And I stayed there too, and we stayed there.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to stay in the same hotel because we

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<v Speaker 1>were getting our makeup done by the same person, right

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<v Speaker 1>of course.

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<v Speaker 2>So I walk into the room and I put my

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<v Speaker 2>bags down. I have been traveling all morning, put my

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<v Speaker 2>bags down, and I jumped to no, no, I was

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<v Speaker 2>actually this was like towards the evening, put my bags down,

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<v Speaker 2>went into the bathroom and realized there's no saint in

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<v Speaker 2>the backpack. The sink to wash your hands after you

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<v Speaker 2>pee in the toilet is outside take a dump or

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<v Speaker 2>or that is on the outside of the bathroom, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>by the bed, by the bed. Yeah, so it's not

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<v Speaker 2>connected to the bad This was the craziest setup I've

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<v Speaker 2>ever seen in my life. It was stupid, It was shady.

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<v Speaker 2>It was actually shady.

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<v Speaker 1>It was idiotic.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is the sink not in the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? I need the rationale for that? What is this? Maybe? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>And no mirror in the bathroom. The mirror was by

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<v Speaker 2>the sink on the on the outside, right yeah right.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, So the shower and the toilet are in

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<v Speaker 1>one room with a door that you open and close,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you have to walk out and then walk

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<v Speaker 1>around towards the bed to wash your hands. And so

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<v Speaker 1>for me, that's disgusting. It's problematic because now I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about all the people. First of all, when I come

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<v Speaker 1>into a hotel room, we instantly pulled a LFE house

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<v Speaker 1>spray out and we break everything down. Okay, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm spraying all the handles, the doors, the toilet and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and excuse me, I still have a cloth. And but

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<v Speaker 1>when you think about it, okay, think about the people

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<v Speaker 1>who were in that bathroom and they did their number

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<v Speaker 1>two and they're not as cleanly as you or me, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and they they wipe their you know, booty thang with

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<v Speaker 1>their hand, and they used that same hand to open

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<v Speaker 1>the door and close the door because there's no no

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<v Speaker 1>sink right there, right, And then they like walk out

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, oh shit, oh that's my favorite song,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my favorite TV show. Let me turn the TV up.

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<v Speaker 1>And they grabbed the remote with their duty hands, right

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<v Speaker 1>and they grabbed the remte and they turned TV up,

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<v Speaker 1>the volume up. All that's going and then they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to order room service. Let me pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. And then they're like, oh shit, let me

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<v Speaker 1>go wash my hands. You know what I'm saying, Like, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that is just disgusting, Like you literally, I didn't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think of that. All my brain goes that.

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<v Speaker 2>My brain did not go there right, but it's still

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<v Speaker 2>like who designed this? Who I designed this? And then

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<v Speaker 2>who thought this was Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So think about my life in that hotel because Wan

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<v Speaker 1>traveled with us, yes, or with me and he that

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<v Speaker 1>morning we didn't have to be Our call time for

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<v Speaker 1>the show wasn't until like one thirty, right, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know we were going to start hair and makeup. I

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<v Speaker 1>probably wasn't going to start hair and makeup until what

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<v Speaker 1>ten thirty. I think the makeup artists got to me, right, Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He had to leave the room at seven thirty am

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<v Speaker 1>because he was going traveling thirty minutes out somewhere to

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<v Speaker 1>watch a bunch of high school basketball games, So that

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<v Speaker 1>means he woke up at six thirty ish. Think about

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<v Speaker 1>me at that bed and I'm trying to sleep and

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<v Speaker 1>he's brushing his teeth at the scene right next to

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<v Speaker 1>the bed when within arm reach and the sink is loud,

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<v Speaker 1>like the water was loud coming out, saying, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a nightmare. This was the kicker for me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the room that I got. Was that the room

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<v Speaker 2>that I reserved. So when I got there, they were like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, we ran out of their rooms that you reserved, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>because it was a much larger room. And I said,

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<v Speaker 2>how does that even work? If you reserve it? It's yours, right, people,

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of feel like I do want to give

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<v Speaker 2>their name, but I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not give their name.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my reason that hotel. Oh yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. And for me my procrastinating as when I

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<v Speaker 1>went to book the book the hotel, that's all that

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<v Speaker 1>was left with those rooms. Okay, so yeah, any who, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was It's so crazy. It's like now when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking for hotels, I need to ask, is the sink

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<v Speaker 1>in the bathroom? Now?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't because we will not reserve. This was a

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<v Speaker 2>non trusted hotel. Okay, we won't do that again.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we trusted it because it was recommended.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, but I have some trusty hotels in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 2>I just have stayed where I noticed day Yeah, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So is that your reason to be shady moment as well?

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<v Speaker 1>No? So my reasonably shady moment is it is now

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<v Speaker 1>May close May yeah? Yeah, okay, So you know, unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>mostly you know, one was relieved of his job around March.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's like seventeenth ish okay, the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of March.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, oh wow, okay, so it's been a minute. Time

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<v Speaker 2>flies when you're having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in March because it was before we went

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<v Speaker 1>to the Bahamas, and it was yeah, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>towards the March. It was before my birthday, going by fast. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so wait a minute before you birth That means no gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not get a gift this year? The gift

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<v Speaker 1>was not gifted? Yeah, the birthday was a little sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Was no gift for the gift? Sad? Oopsie's next year.

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<v Speaker 1>We have next year. So okay. So you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>had to clean out all of his stuff, like his office.

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<v Speaker 1>He had had a bunch of stuff from like the

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<v Speaker 1>locker room that was like, you know, just stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>he had purchased that belonged to him. Like so he

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<v Speaker 1>he in, you know, towards the end of March, comes

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<v Speaker 1>home and brings home all this stuff of a mini refrigerator,

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<v Speaker 1>a microwave, a whole bunch of just bends plastic of stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and he puts it in the garage. Oh I park No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you don't park in the garage. I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>not parking in the garage. Oh no, and I am

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, now that is a now that will cause a divorce, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm literally like, okay, I gave you your time. Yes, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's over thirty days. It's like a month and a

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<v Speaker 1>half now, yes, And I am still not parking in

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<v Speaker 1>the garage.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, that's got stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you can.

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<v Speaker 2>You can leave your socks and your underwear all over

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<v Speaker 2>the place, but you will move that ship so I

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<v Speaker 2>can park my car in the garage.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's getting to the point and he'll every day

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, I'm gonna get to it today, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get to it to day. I'm gonna get to

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<v Speaker 1>it today and then magically it doesn't happen. It's getting

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where I'm gonna move the ships. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna be faking angry why I move it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be what you need to just call

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<v Speaker 2>one a hundred jump or whatever and just have the

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<v Speaker 2>ship thrown away.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I would do. That's what you say I

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<v Speaker 1>would do. It would be going right, Okay, God, I

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<v Speaker 1>am like so annoyed. Yeah, no, that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, But now where does he park his car.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he's always parked his car outside the house, like

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<v Speaker 1>we only like our cars are our garages are two

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<v Speaker 1>car garage. We only have room for one, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>other ship in there and stuff. And he's always understood

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<v Speaker 1>he parks his car outside, you know, as the gentleman should,

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<v Speaker 1>as he should. Yes, but I am through parking my

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<v Speaker 1>car outside. Yes, I have to bear the elements. Gotta

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<v Speaker 1>face the elements. I got it. You know it's I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta take the kids to school in the morning. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>the polling my car like a taxi cab. Like it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Draw up your divorce face.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's all I got to say about that, because

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<v Speaker 2>this is horrible, right, this is probably the worst thing

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<v Speaker 2>that wine that you've told me that wine has ever donen. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>for the record, use this is who now I'm angry

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<v Speaker 2>this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>You should see my garage.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my I can't. I saw your car out of

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<v Speaker 2>your garage. I was wondering why why now we know? Yes, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>something else that frightens me outside of the ship that's

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<v Speaker 2>in your garage is scientists have discovered Robin And I

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<v Speaker 2>know y'all think I make stuff up. I'm not making

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<v Speaker 2>this up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I just start really get your fact checking

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<v Speaker 1>fingers ready.

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<v Speaker 2>That there's a plastic eating fun guy that can break

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<v Speaker 2>down plastic. Okay, so this is terrify. When I read this,

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<v Speaker 2>I got terrified. Okay, it's terrifying to me that there's

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<v Speaker 2>a bacteria out there that can destroy plastic. Uh huh

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<v Speaker 2>do that plastic last forever? But that sounds like a

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<v Speaker 2>good thing, though, Why would that be a good thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the plastic that all of our plastic bottles that

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<v Speaker 1>we you know, throw away and stuff like what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what else does it say? That's all it says.

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<v Speaker 2>Now listen, it bothered me because it's like plastic you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like lasts forever. M Oh, maybe this is a

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<v Speaker 2>good thing. It could break.

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<v Speaker 1>Down right, the waste, the plastic waste that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, so in that way, nobody will bother

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<v Speaker 2>me about me using plastic water bottles.

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<v Speaker 1>Or oh this is a good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not terrified anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Today, only a small fraction of plastic waste can be

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<v Speaker 3>biologically degraded by microbes. Researchers are looking for more heat

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<v Speaker 3>tolerant plastivores in the planet's most hostile environments and engineering

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<v Speaker 3>better plastiforous enzymes in the lab. But we can't rely

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<v Speaker 3>solely on these tiny helpers to clean up our enormous man.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but what about bbls, bbls, the plastic that's in

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<v Speaker 2>these girls booties? Those are things they should be concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>They should and book jobs they should be Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it might be because you know there are there are

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<v Speaker 1>what toxic people at book jobs have had some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of toxic response to this because some of them, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>some of them, not all of them, right, but that

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<v Speaker 1>could be a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>That could be a thing. Yeah, I'm highly concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me cancel my BBL appointment.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I was trying to figure out when you

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<v Speaker 2>were getting that done, and now it's off the table

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<v Speaker 2>because there's a fun guy out of it here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, not plastic. I just changed my mind. But okay, but.

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<v Speaker 2>If it if it eats plastic and destroys it, how

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<v Speaker 2>does it destroy it?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good question. M it just makes it like

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<v Speaker 1>decenter grade it might.

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<v Speaker 2>It decomposes it. See I did not make this up.

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<v Speaker 1>This was an action.

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<v Speaker 2>She looked this up, curly, Yes, Carllige just looked it up,

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<v Speaker 2>and she she concurs. Our fact checker concurs that I

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<v Speaker 2>did not make this up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so are they? It's an experiment. Oh so this

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<v Speaker 1>is being contained in the lab. They haven't released it yet, right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so are they going to release it? And then should

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<v Speaker 1>we worry that, like.

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<v Speaker 2>The BBL ladies should worry Okay, they should be on

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<v Speaker 2>notice that there might be a fun guy to chew

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<v Speaker 2>up your booty.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well notice, But should we worry that, like our

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<v Speaker 1>plastic bends that we store stuff at home and is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be is gonna decompose It's created it with

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<v Speaker 1>the intention of breaking down the plastic waste.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I like that, Gazelle can continue to use them, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but I do save the world in other ways.

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<v Speaker 1>How I try to take shorter showers? Really? Yeah? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>How long are your showers?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably I don't know what's what's a regular shower fifteen minutes?

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<v Speaker 1>Ten? It depends on what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh true, if it's hair hair hair doesn't just take

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<v Speaker 2>hair out, it's a regular, regular.

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<v Speaker 1>Shower nothing, no shaving, noh pooing, and just.

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<v Speaker 2>A regular shower ten minutes. Okay, A mine might be

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<v Speaker 2>five boom saved all that water. I say, five minutes

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<v Speaker 2>of water.

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<v Speaker 1>Boom, Okay, how you like? Honestly, I've been around you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when we take trips and stuff. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you take two minute showers. Two minutes, yes, because you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be like in and out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like dance listen, I watch all the parts, face,

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<v Speaker 2>all the way down, everything gets washed. Yes, like an

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<v Speaker 2>average two to three minutes is an average shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Two to three minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Two to three minutes is an average shower. Do you tell us?

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<v Speaker 2>I want people to write in and tell us how time.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I want people to time them yourself in the shower,

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<v Speaker 2>regular shower. Do not cheat guys, and tell us how

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<v Speaker 2>long your shower is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm a ten minute shower.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is what I don't like when guys

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<v Speaker 2>brush their freaking teeth in the shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's okay, that's a basket. I think Swan does that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's I think because there was a couple of the

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<v Speaker 2>basketball players I dated and they did that shit too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wand doesn't We didn't do it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm literally like, dude, you're not saving time by

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<v Speaker 1>doing this because you're you're in the shower and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still like they think they're like multitask, yeah, and I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the shower. You're just standing there brushing your teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like you're like brushing your teeth and washing

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<v Speaker 1>your ass. Toothpaste should not be in the shower, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean no, yes, I just think it's just pointless.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, just stand by the sink, yeah, brush teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>get in the shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Like, don't be in air either. Okay, moving on,

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<v Speaker 2>we know you do that, Robbin and I'm John Daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>You did it yesterday. Yes, I had to be really bad. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about my forever first lady, Michelle Obama. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>because she was named the most admired woman in the

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<v Speaker 2>world for the third consecutive wow by.

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<v Speaker 1>Who or where?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, bye, bye me damn it, No, listen, I concur

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<v Speaker 2>I do too. And she now has like a new book,

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<v Speaker 2>I believe, or a new something that's she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Going on this promoting something.

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<v Speaker 2>She's promote something with Oprah. And I'm here from Micham.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing I say in that book to young

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<v Speaker 2>people reading it, it takes a lifetime to find your voice.

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<v Speaker 2>We really have to focus on what we can control.

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<v Speaker 1>Start with the things that is small. Control what you

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<v Speaker 1>can I think. At one point, though, Oprah was one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most admired women in the world, so she

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<v Speaker 1>passed it off to her girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>And you can tell, now what I love is like

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<v Speaker 2>when they do their things, like when they have their

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's not a concert, but when they

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<v Speaker 2>have their like their talks. You can tell, like their friends,

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<v Speaker 2>which I really like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you think you'll ever become one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most admired women in the world?

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<v Speaker 2>I am now. Y'all just don't want to give me

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<v Speaker 2>my roses, my flowers, my tulip y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't want to give it to me. What number on

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<v Speaker 1>the list? Listen, there's Michelle Obama. She got it. We

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<v Speaker 1>want to give it. Continue to give her. I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>top five, top five.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, okay, fine, fine, one hundred and twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all. That's pretty high up there. One hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five. A lot of people in this world. Oh true, dad,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot about that. I mean, like, you got Kamala Harris,

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<v Speaker 1>you got Nancy Pelosi.

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<v Speaker 2>No, this is black woman. Oh no, it's just a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Yeah, Who's Who's second? Oprah Kama love a second?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay second, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, we're gonna we're gonna have Michelle rock this out

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<v Speaker 1>for a while. Yeah, she can. She can have ten

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<v Speaker 1>years in a row. That's but you know what, honestly, like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a hard title to carry for real, Like she

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<v Speaker 1>has to be on her p's and q's. She I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so she is someone who probably cares. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that she cares. Yeah, she cares about other people's opinions

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<v Speaker 1>because I am sure I believe she's being herself. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there are elements to her life and her

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<v Speaker 1>personality that she doesn't feel that she can.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but it was already tested with Donald and Millennia.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when they came and it was changed on

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<v Speaker 2>the guards. You know, Michelle wanted to cuss them out, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like right, or she just didn't want to be gracious

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't want to be there. But she was very gracious.

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<v Speaker 1>She was very you know, just classy.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. If I was Michelle, I'd be like, so we're

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<v Speaker 2>going from me to you and you were naked in

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<v Speaker 2>the magazine. We're going from me to you and you

0:19:36.240 --> 0:19:39.639
<v Speaker 2>hate Christmas? Right, We're going from me to you and

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have sex with your husband and I do

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<v Speaker 2>so Like, there was so many things she could have said.

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<v Speaker 1>True, and she didn't. She just kept it classy, kept

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<v Speaker 1>it classy.

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<v Speaker 2>And she did say the other day because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we joke about her saying when she goes high, when

0:19:53.960 --> 0:19:57.840
<v Speaker 2>they go low, you go high. Yeah, she said, you

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<v Speaker 2>can go high, but just think about the low.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't let the load come out your out. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta remind myself that kicking a loa.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get to Tyree's really quickly, okay, because he's AnGR

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<v Speaker 2>to me a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The judge had to tell him now because he didn't

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<v Speaker 2>come up with this on his own. The judge had

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<v Speaker 2>to tell him to pay your ex wife six hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and thirty six thousand dollars in child support in legal fees. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>why did judge have to tell Tyrese that? Why couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>you come up with that on your own?

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<v Speaker 1>Sir?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you have to put your wife, your ex

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<v Speaker 2>wife through this?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? And how long has this been going on a minute?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's been going on for a good minute because

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<v Speaker 2>he's been with the other of the new girl, Right,

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<v Speaker 2>they had been broken up four times, so I had together,

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<v Speaker 2>like he's been with her for a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I'm getting confused, and I'm mixing Tyree's up with Neo. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Tyrese is the fast in the furious Yeah, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what he Yeah, I can picture, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>mix mixing their scenarios up. Yeah, because Neo, you know, divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>got back together, blah blah blah, all that type of stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tyres has been ordered to pay six hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>thirty six thousand dollars and that's that's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>lump sum. I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's divided by backpay, is divided in child support,

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<v Speaker 2>and then legal fees.

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<v Speaker 1>It's divided. Yeah, I don't understand why they like someone

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<v Speaker 1>like Tyrese, who we know has made a ton of money. Gazillion. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why do they fight? Why do they fight that?

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<v Speaker 2>Just first of all, let's talk about the child support

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<v Speaker 2>part of it. This is for your child, right or children?

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<v Speaker 2>I think they have too maybe, but you know, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think a lot of men think that that money is

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<v Speaker 1>not going towards the child's benefit, and so they try

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<v Speaker 1>to prove, you know, why they don't need that money.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I did meet his ex wife. She's very beautiful, by

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<v Speaker 2>the way. I don't know her by no means. However,

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't seem like the woman that is going to

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<v Speaker 2>the mall shopping till she drops. She doesn't look like

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<v Speaker 2>Gucci Louis Prada. She seems like she's going to be

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<v Speaker 2>taking the money and using it for her right now,

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<v Speaker 2>that is a huge assumption, but I'm running with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, so yeah, but I mean, I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>that that's what goes through their heads. That's what the

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<v Speaker 1>lawyers are probably fighting for. I don't know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but still like, you should never let it get to

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<v Speaker 1>that point. No, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>No, okay, And this is in Dion Sanders news. I

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<v Speaker 2>am highly impressed. But I was on the Instagram again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and this is not I pray to God. This is

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<v Speaker 2>not like somebody has put a side by side together

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<v Speaker 2>of pictures and it's a lie. Okay. So they showed

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<v Speaker 2>the stands the football stand Oh yeah. Before Dion got

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<v Speaker 2>to be the head coach of the University of Colorado

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<v Speaker 2>to now yeah, okay, so it was like it was

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<v Speaker 2>like twenty twenty two, which was last year. I can

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<v Speaker 2>count the number of people in this picture that were

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<v Speaker 2>in and it was maybe forty five. Okay, So now

0:22:55.680 --> 0:23:00.639
<v Speaker 2>in twenty twenty three, there is not room in the end, right,

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<v Speaker 2>packed and sought out package insane.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>If whatever his contract is, he needs to go back

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<v Speaker 2>and renegotiate, Dion, I'm here for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Get your money, sir. Now do we know how the

0:23:13.160 --> 0:23:15.280
<v Speaker 1>team performed? Oh no, it's a spring game, so I

0:23:15.320 --> 0:23:18.440
<v Speaker 1>think that's that. That's like a scrimmage a month between them.

0:23:18.480 --> 0:23:20.199
<v Speaker 1>So the people just wanted to be in the building

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<v Speaker 1>with Dion. Yes, however, that's great and everything. Imagine the

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<v Speaker 1>pressure now, oh yeah, pressures on the expectations, yes, that

0:23:31.000 --> 0:23:34.639
<v Speaker 1>that are on him to have a successful program. And

0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:37.880
<v Speaker 1>they went from like maybe I don't know if it's

0:23:37.920 --> 0:23:39.560
<v Speaker 1>like an O and twelve team, like a very the

0:23:39.800 --> 0:23:41.760
<v Speaker 1>record before it was like probably one and twelve something

0:23:41.840 --> 0:23:46.439
<v Speaker 1>really bad, and these people are going to expect a

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 1>great season, right oh yeah, oh yeah, So he's got

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:50.960
<v Speaker 1>to manage that. He's got to manage the pressure of

0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:54.240
<v Speaker 1>the expectations. He also I heard has a lot of players,

0:23:54.280 --> 0:23:58.879
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of Colorado players from you know, last year,

0:23:58.920 --> 0:24:02.600
<v Speaker 1>the year before, who are now being told that they

0:24:02.840 --> 0:24:06.639
<v Speaker 1>should transfer because I guess he's telling them they're not

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:08.639
<v Speaker 1>going to play because he's recruiting.

0:24:08.160 --> 0:24:11.199
<v Speaker 2>Other players and always getting out the old yeah and

0:24:11.240 --> 0:24:12.119
<v Speaker 2>with the new yeah.

0:24:12.200 --> 0:24:14.439
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's causing that's ruffling a little bit

0:24:14.480 --> 0:24:17.960
<v Speaker 1>of feathers on probably yeah, those players and their parents

0:24:18.000 --> 0:24:20.159
<v Speaker 1>and the you know, these kids are student athletes who

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:23.560
<v Speaker 1>are depending on their scholarship and now you're coming in

0:24:23.600 --> 0:24:25.440
<v Speaker 1>and saying nope, all y'all got to go. But that's

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:28.639
<v Speaker 1>the name of the game. It's like it's reevaluate you,

0:24:28.760 --> 0:24:31.920
<v Speaker 1>and they see that you aren't in their mind, talented

0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:36.360
<v Speaker 1>enough to play. I think the respectful thing. I think

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:38.000
<v Speaker 1>what he's doing is trying to give those kids an

0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:41.000
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to go somewhere else to play, right, because he's

0:24:41.000 --> 0:24:43.080
<v Speaker 1>pretty much telling them like, look, you ain't gonna play,

0:24:43.080 --> 0:24:43.880
<v Speaker 1>You're not going to play.

0:24:45.240 --> 0:24:49.360
<v Speaker 4>This is a total commitment effort of unification to win.

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>It's not just us on the field.

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.920
<v Speaker 4>Everybody in this darned building got to understand that we're winners.

0:24:54.560 --> 0:24:57.280
<v Speaker 4>Change has to be provoked and that's why we're here.

0:24:57.680 --> 0:25:00.800
<v Speaker 4>But we're trying to check every durned box. If it

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:02.000
<v Speaker 4>was great, I wouldn't be here.

0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:04.400
<v Speaker 2>Wow, it's pressure.

0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:09.320
<v Speaker 1>It's all eyes on him, and I feel.

0:25:08.960 --> 0:25:13.679
<v Speaker 2>Like, listen, whether they win or lose, just the money

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:18.800
<v Speaker 2>that he's generating right now is worth contract negotiating.

0:25:18.240 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>The money, the attention and the excitement. Yes, I see

0:25:20.960 --> 0:25:22.760
<v Speaker 1>he still got the cameras.

0:25:22.359 --> 0:25:29.920
<v Speaker 2>Following him everywhere where every where. That's yeah, okay, speaking

0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:34.640
<v Speaker 2>of I don't believe anything you say news Kylie Jenner.

0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:38.199
<v Speaker 2>Can we get into Kylie Jenner really quickly? Because she

0:25:38.480 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 2>decided to say that. I mean, people think I had

0:25:42.680 --> 0:25:48.240
<v Speaker 2>all this plastic surgery, but I like didn't. I mean, okay, fine,

0:25:48.280 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 2>I got my lips done.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's it. I mean, what are we surprised? You

0:25:55.040 --> 0:25:56.439
<v Speaker 1>know who her family is?

0:25:56.520 --> 0:25:59.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but like, if there's a side by side that

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<v Speaker 2>drastically different, why are you gonna lie about it?

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:06.320
<v Speaker 1>But but the thing is, I think it's like semantics

0:26:06.760 --> 0:26:10.160
<v Speaker 1>because I think she's trying to say what she did

0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:15.320
<v Speaker 1>is not plastic surgery. Oh, it's just an a lot

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:18.239
<v Speaker 1>of fillers. But I think when you look at her,

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:20.480
<v Speaker 1>you can see there's been some sort of browlift, but

0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I guess that can I don't see, I don't I

0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:24.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know how it works. She's like a totally different person.

0:26:25.200 --> 0:26:26.480
<v Speaker 1>She looks like a totally different person.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not mad at it, do you boob, but

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<v Speaker 2>just about it.

0:26:29.560 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 1>But also like, yeah, share your secrets, you know what

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, because what if somebody else It's like I

0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 1>want to do that to myself too? What did you do?

0:26:36.640 --> 0:26:40.720
<v Speaker 1>And what did you? Should I get a brow lift?

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:43.879
<v Speaker 1>Should I get a jaw lift or should I, you know,

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:47.720
<v Speaker 1>a jaw left? What is that? I don't know. I

0:26:47.760 --> 0:26:49.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know either, but you know what I'm saying. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just be honest. Should I work what should I work on?

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:52.399
<v Speaker 4>So?

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:55.679
<v Speaker 2>And if your whole, if your family, if the business

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:56.600
<v Speaker 2>of the family.

0:26:56.320 --> 0:27:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Is we're she needs to down the list. There's that.

0:27:01.800 --> 0:27:03.359
<v Speaker 2>But if the business of the families kind of like,

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 2>look at me, beauty, we look beautiful, then just say

0:27:08.119 --> 0:27:08.760
<v Speaker 2>it exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree, because you didn't. Yeah, it's like old

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:16.480
<v Speaker 1>is so when Kylie when she was like she was

0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:18.560
<v Speaker 1>like a teenager, she.

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:20.840
<v Speaker 2>Looks pretty by the way, I mean, no, sh you

0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:21.600
<v Speaker 2>look beautiful.

0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I just know that if you looked at a picture

0:27:24.480 --> 0:27:26.640
<v Speaker 1>of me as a teenager, and then if you looked

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:32.000
<v Speaker 1>at a picture of me as a as a I

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:34.679
<v Speaker 1>don't know, twenty five, twenty six year old, you're not

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:37.239
<v Speaker 1>going to be like, damn, what kind of work did

0:27:37.760 --> 0:27:39.400
<v Speaker 1>have done? No? You know what I mean?

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:43.160
<v Speaker 2>No, But now that's what we say.

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Now. I'm like, God, damn, but I'm saying when you

0:27:49.600 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 1>look at Kylie Jenner, it's like, wow, what does she do?

0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:56.040
<v Speaker 1>What is different here? And it's just so it's just

0:27:56.080 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>absurd just for them just not to just be like,

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 1>just be honest this, I do this. I do this. Yeah,

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:02.639
<v Speaker 1>y'all look great. I just said I do this, and

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 1>it cost this amount of money, right, you know, just

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 1>to keep the expectations realistic and all of that.

0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:10.600
<v Speaker 2>So it's weird. Okay, now this is what I didn't know. Okay,

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:17.000
<v Speaker 2>So Red Table Talk got canceled. I thought I thought

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:21.359
<v Speaker 2>that that show was like on their own, meaning like

0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:23.520
<v Speaker 2>Jada was like, I put a red table in my

0:28:23.600 --> 0:28:27.119
<v Speaker 2>in my living room, y'all sit down, we're gonna tape it,

0:28:27.160 --> 0:28:28.440
<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna throw it on Facebook.

0:28:28.800 --> 0:28:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:28:29.240 --> 0:28:30.879
<v Speaker 2>I didn't think it was a Facebook deal.

0:28:31.720 --> 0:28:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I know what

0:28:33.320 --> 0:28:33.760
<v Speaker 1>you're saying.

0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:36.080
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, how could they get canceled?

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Canceled?

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 2>This is if they can, Yeah, but apparently it's not right.

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 1>So it was like a Facebook initiative, I guess, or

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 1>it So this is this Facebook or YouTube versus Facebook

0:28:50.440 --> 0:28:52.840
<v Speaker 1>because so it was called Facebook Watch, I believe.

0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:55.360
<v Speaker 2>And so they clearly had a contract with Facebook, which

0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 2>makes sense because well because I mean, obviously Facebook wanted

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 2>a piece of a pie. Yeah. But yeah, so because

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:05.640
<v Speaker 2>I was I was like kind of like gonna call

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:08.240
<v Speaker 2>our show Purple Table Talk.

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:12.120
<v Speaker 1>We were going to do it, but I guess we can't.

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:14.600
<v Speaker 1>We can't. You can't just like pick it up and

0:29:14.720 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 1>PLoP it. I guess. Think about it, like Facebook is

0:29:17.160 --> 0:29:21.120
<v Speaker 1>a platform with how many users? Undred hundreds of millions

0:29:21.120 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 1>of users and stuff, and so Facebook probably put a

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 1>lot behind promoting it and pushing it out to their users.

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>And you know, you're if you're scrolling on Facebook, all

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, red Table Talk pops up because Facebook

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 1>is pushing it. So and apparently they canceled all of

0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>their programming.

0:29:37.800 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wonder why.

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they're making money. But are they making They're

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 1>like cutting staff crazy like they're making They're making a

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:50.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of changes, okay, a lot of changes, a lot

0:29:50.720 --> 0:29:52.440
<v Speaker 1>of cuts, yeah to staff.

0:29:54.080 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 2>I oh they fired twenty thousand people.

0:29:57.040 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, yeah, oh wow. Yeah, that's so. I think

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:04.040
<v Speaker 1>think they're feeling, you know, the need to just scale back. Okay,

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. And maybe whatever, maybe whatever they put

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 1>into this original programming wasn't translating because for me, it's like,

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't think of going to Facebook to watch well,

0:30:16.520 --> 0:30:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't open Facebook to be honest, but I don't

0:30:18.880 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 1>think of Facebook to go to watch anything. I think

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:23.040
<v Speaker 1>it's the I think it might be hard for them

0:30:23.080 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 1>to compete with YouTube. Yeah, of course all the streaming services,

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:30.760
<v Speaker 1>the netflixes, the Hulu and the Peacock all of that.

0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think it was just too much Amazon Prime.

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but Jada can take her red table and just

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:40.480
<v Speaker 2>do it from Livero and just put up the rain light.

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 1>Right and then okay, and then what and then put

0:30:43.040 --> 0:30:46.000
<v Speaker 1>it on YouTube and then okay, and then just get

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:48.360
<v Speaker 1>the money from YouTube, like the from the downloads.

0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Okay, she don't need the money just going and put

0:30:51.120 --> 0:30:51.880
<v Speaker 2>out the content.

0:30:52.520 --> 0:30:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Shouldn't it. I mean, shure, don't they need the money?

0:30:54.880 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like most people, they're not going to

0:30:57.000 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>do shit for free? True, do you know what I mean? True?

0:31:00.200 --> 0:31:02.040
<v Speaker 2>So okay, now this is this is the last thing.

0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:05.600
<v Speaker 1>This is some ridiculous news. Okay. So Stevie J.

0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:09.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, I like me some Stevie J just because

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:09.880
<v Speaker 2>he's entertaining me.

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 1>He's comedy. Yes, stee J used to be.

0:31:11.680 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 2>He's one of the hit boys or whatever. He's a

0:31:13.600 --> 0:31:15.360
<v Speaker 2>producer and he was on love and hip Hop.

0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:16.400
<v Speaker 1>And he married Faith Evans.

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:17.959
<v Speaker 2>Now they're getting a divorce.

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so a messy one at that, right, A.

0:31:20.520 --> 0:31:23.080
<v Speaker 2>MESSI wantedt that. So now that they're in the process

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:26.400
<v Speaker 2>of getting a divorce, he was over the house, she

0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:29.840
<v Speaker 2>fell asleep. He took the keys to her car, and

0:31:29.880 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 2>he went. She thought, to Coachella. He said he didn't

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:35.680
<v Speaker 2>go to Coachella. He said, if he was going to Coachella,

0:31:35.680 --> 0:31:36.800
<v Speaker 2>he would have got a jet. Damn it.

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>If you go get a jet to go to Coachella.

0:31:40.320 --> 0:31:42.640
<v Speaker 2>Why couldn't you get a jet to go to the

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 2>grocery store wherever you were going?

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:47.440
<v Speaker 1>But you can't take her car from So they live

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 1>was this in California? I think so? Okay, So.

0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah she said she I think she reported the car stolen.

0:31:56.360 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 2>She was like, he'd bring back them keys. And see,

0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:01.840
<v Speaker 2>it's not a girl you to around with. In my mind,

0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:06.479
<v Speaker 2>like I will never fall with fate, no, because I

0:32:06.600 --> 0:32:08.720
<v Speaker 2>feel like if she says she's gonna knock you out,

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:10.360
<v Speaker 2>she's gonna knock you out right.

0:32:10.760 --> 0:32:13.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's not the girl to play. It probably doesn't

0:32:13.280 --> 0:32:14.959
<v Speaker 1>take much to set her off. Now.

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:21.240
<v Speaker 2>So you and if you're going through divorce, yeah, why

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:22.600
<v Speaker 2>are you causing trouble?

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:32:23.640 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 2>Just mind your p's and cues.

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:30.600
<v Speaker 1>That's because they that sounds like some toxic mess, right,

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>Like why is he even there? Why is he even

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:33.200
<v Speaker 1>have the.

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:35.520
<v Speaker 2>It might have been, but it might have been he

0:32:35.600 --> 0:32:37.240
<v Speaker 2>might have been he might have been coming home to

0:32:37.320 --> 0:32:38.040
<v Speaker 2>like slide in it.

0:32:38.080 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>Really why doesn't he have a car? Why does he

0:32:41.000 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>have his own up? Many whys? But do you think he.

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:47.600
<v Speaker 2>Came to you know, be romantical for a minute, and.

0:32:47.560 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>She really, yeah, he's probably not trying to let go

0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:53.520
<v Speaker 1>or probably yes, that's me. That's a whole mass, you say, STEVIEJ.

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:58.600
<v Speaker 1>And I'm just think mess, Okay, Rob automatically was like,

0:32:58.600 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>oh Lord, what is it?

0:32:59.560 --> 0:32:59.720
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>What now? All right?

0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 2>So we want to hold on. We have a couple

0:33:04.560 --> 0:33:06.280
<v Speaker 2>of emails to read, guys.

0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I need to read this email because I

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:12.160
<v Speaker 1>messed up, y'all. I gotta clarify something. So I read

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 1>an email a few weeks ago. It was a question

0:33:17.440 --> 0:33:21.120
<v Speaker 1>about someone who was dating a married man, and you know,

0:33:21.200 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 1>the man would said he would break up with the

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:25.000
<v Speaker 1>wife and doesn't or something. Oh and the wife doesn't

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 1>want him to leave, and blah blah blah, all this stuff.

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 1>What to do? And because of the person's name, I

0:33:31.560 --> 0:33:34.240
<v Speaker 1>assumed it was a man, okay.

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:35.960
<v Speaker 2>And I asked for clarity, right, I.

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Asked for clarity. The name is Brett. When I read

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:43.360
<v Speaker 1>that this was from Brett, I'm instantly assuming it was

0:33:43.400 --> 0:33:47.240
<v Speaker 1>a man. So Brett emailed us, OMG, y'all turn my

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:51.880
<v Speaker 1>email into a whole soap opera of my leaf and

0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 1>my ass off. I was dying with laughter. I didn't

0:33:54.840 --> 0:33:57.680
<v Speaker 1>want y'all to use my name, but y'all switched it up.

0:33:57.960 --> 0:34:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Nobody's going to know it was me, so funny. First

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>of all, I Brett am a female and the guy

0:34:04.920 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>is nowhere nearbisexual, very very manly man lol. But something

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:13.279
<v Speaker 1>Gizelle said hit hard about karma. I believe in that

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 1>and will take that advice to heart. What was what

0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:17.120
<v Speaker 1>was the advice I gave? She was a chick on

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 1>the side.

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh wow. And then now there they've ended things.

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I think she's gonna take hopefully she says she's gonna

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 1>take your advice.

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:27.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, girl, let me tell you something about mine. I

0:34:27.160 --> 0:34:29.520
<v Speaker 2>don't I can't remember what the advice I gave, but

0:34:29.640 --> 0:34:32.799
<v Speaker 2>let me just say this. They have so many girlfriends

0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 2>that have I've given advice to over the years, and

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:37.800
<v Speaker 2>they always come back. They were like Gaseelle, the advices

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:39.239
<v Speaker 2>you gave was amazing. Now I don't remember what the

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 2>hell I said, right, but they always give me credit

0:34:42.120 --> 0:34:42.720
<v Speaker 2>for my advice.

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I give some good advice. Oh good. Yeah.

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 2>I might not take my own advice, but I give

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:48.399
<v Speaker 2>it and it's good.

0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Right. So so Bressa, thanks for the advice. Signed Sneaky Links.

0:34:55.000 --> 0:34:58.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh and Brett is a woman not a man.

0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Yes, all right? Oh god, I hope I'm not putting

0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 1>you at your blast, but well, yeah, it's there's there

0:35:05.960 --> 0:35:08.200
<v Speaker 1>are many female breads in this world that.

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:12.799
<v Speaker 2>Yes, there are a lady who is making my jewelry

0:35:12.920 --> 0:35:14.799
<v Speaker 2>when I'm I thought she was a man because her

0:35:14.880 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 2>name is Brent. Well, I didn't think she was a man,

0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:19.919
<v Speaker 2>but I would think that, Yeah, her name is Brent,

0:35:20.040 --> 0:35:23.239
<v Speaker 2>and it's a woman really yeah, like a woman that

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:25.440
<v Speaker 2>you would never look at and be like, your name's Brent.

0:35:25.719 --> 0:35:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean I would think she would always

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:31.359
<v Speaker 1>have to clarify that, like you know, people putting there,

0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 1>some people putting their e mail signature like she her whatever,

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:38.200
<v Speaker 1>like I would if my name was Brent, I would

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:41.279
<v Speaker 1>absolutely have to do that. Yes, yeah, even shit. Well,

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 1>I think because I'm robbing with the why, it's clear

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 1>to know that I'm a female. But I've never seen

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 1>a male spelled Robin with the Y. But I have

0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:53.800
<v Speaker 1>seen many of men name spelled Robin with the I. Okay,

0:35:54.040 --> 0:35:58.359
<v Speaker 1>Robin Williams. My old trainer's name was Robin, So yeah,

0:35:58.440 --> 0:36:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I would that issue too thick. Yeah, there you go. Okay,

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:04.239
<v Speaker 1>but I think the why makes it like you know,

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:05.800
<v Speaker 1>it's it's clear, it's clear.

0:36:11.800 --> 0:36:16.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So here we go. Hi Robin and Gizelle and Carly. Carly,

0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:19.120
<v Speaker 2>you got a shout out Carly loves her shoutout, guys,

0:36:19.920 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 2>I hope you're all having a beautiful day. I'm writing

0:36:21.680 --> 0:36:25.600
<v Speaker 2>about the reasonable or shady email you got about the

0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:28.720
<v Speaker 2>friends splitting the twenty dollars wedding gifts.

0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh.

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:32.480
<v Speaker 2>So, by the way, did we talk about it on

0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:33.440
<v Speaker 2>the podcast.

0:36:33.120 --> 0:36:35.400
<v Speaker 1>The twenty dollars Wedding Gift? Yeah? Yeah. People have been

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:38.320
<v Speaker 1>dm and me like, that's so shady. Okay.

0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:41.000
<v Speaker 2>So this is a follow up to that splitting the

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:44.000
<v Speaker 2>twenty dollars wedding gift, and it reminded me that of

0:36:44.080 --> 0:36:46.720
<v Speaker 2>the shady behavior many of my friends at the time

0:36:47.120 --> 0:36:51.240
<v Speaker 2>exhibited at my own wedding. I have roughly fifteen people

0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:54.319
<v Speaker 2>out of one hundred and ten flat out not give

0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:58.400
<v Speaker 2>a gift or even a card, including coworkers, one aunt,

0:36:58.680 --> 0:37:01.040
<v Speaker 2>and several of my college in childhood friends.

0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:03.719
<v Speaker 1>Lord, she putting them all, right, Okay, she put them.

0:37:03.719 --> 0:37:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to say your name is counting.

0:37:05.960 --> 0:37:08.640
<v Speaker 2>Yes, she said it was shady af one hundred and

0:37:08.640 --> 0:37:10.880
<v Speaker 2>fifty dollars per plate. That's what she paid for for

0:37:10.920 --> 0:37:14.040
<v Speaker 2>the food, and you can't even write a card wishing

0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:14.800
<v Speaker 2>us well.

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Shady.

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 2>Ask for a question, do you think it is reasonable

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:21.839
<v Speaker 2>a shady for a couple not to send a thank

0:37:21.920 --> 0:37:25.359
<v Speaker 2>you note for gifts they did receive. You guys said

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:28.799
<v Speaker 2>a thank you not if you received a gift, right, Yeah, yeah,

0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 2>that would be nice standard.

0:37:30.560 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:34.160
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I sent my cousin's wife a bridal shower gift

0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:37.440
<v Speaker 2>even though I didn't attend a shower, and then obviously

0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 2>gave the couple a very generous cash gift for the

0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 2>wedding which I did attend and never received any sort

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 2>of acknowledgment or thank you. I also think that's shady,

0:37:48.000 --> 0:37:49.720
<v Speaker 2>But I was wondering about your thoughts.

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.799
<v Speaker 1>What did we think? So we got multiple things? Okay,

0:37:52.840 --> 0:37:57.240
<v Speaker 1>first of all, yes, is it shady for I reflect

0:37:57.239 --> 0:38:01.120
<v Speaker 1>back on my own wedding. Four hundred people there, and

0:38:01.160 --> 0:38:05.400
<v Speaker 1>I think because one was in the NBA, people thought

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:07.720
<v Speaker 1>that was a reason to not give us a gift.

0:38:08.400 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I mean?

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:12.920
<v Speaker 2>Because they were like, y'all have everything already, yes, and millions.

0:38:12.920 --> 0:38:15.320
<v Speaker 1>I promise you out of those four hundred, we probably

0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>got gifts from like one hundred people.

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh but did you want really want for a hun gifts?

0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:22.480
<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean we had a registry, so you know,

0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:25.480
<v Speaker 1>people bought gifts from the registry and you know, or

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:28.600
<v Speaker 1>some people gave cash. But literally it was still it's

0:38:28.600 --> 0:38:31.920
<v Speaker 1>still like just it doesn't matter who the people are

0:38:32.040 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>unless they specifically say, you know, no, we don't want

0:38:35.000 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>a gift. Yeah, yeah, I would. I need to go

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:40.759
<v Speaker 1>find you know, I keep a lot of stuff. I

0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:42.520
<v Speaker 1>need to go find my old foul. Because you need

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:45.279
<v Speaker 1>to write everyone, put their name down, put what they

0:38:45.280 --> 0:38:48.879
<v Speaker 1>wrote you so you could send them to thank you note. Yeah.

0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Probably out of those four hundred people, we probably literally

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:52.799
<v Speaker 1>got gifts from like one hundred.

0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:55.040
<v Speaker 2>And so a lot of his the people that were

0:38:55.040 --> 0:38:56.880
<v Speaker 2>there were they his basketball friends.

0:38:57.239 --> 0:39:00.799
<v Speaker 1>They also yeah, you know we didn't we No, we

0:39:00.840 --> 0:39:03.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't invite like a lot of it's like teammates and stuff.

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean it was literally like my parents' friends is

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:10.279
<v Speaker 1>a really big family. So his family, we both went

0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:15.399
<v Speaker 1>to Maryland to our Maryland friends. Definitely, I probably got

0:39:15.400 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 1>more gifts from like my parents friends, yes, than like

0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:19.640
<v Speaker 1>older people anybody else.

0:39:19.840 --> 0:39:22.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So but if you if you're not even invited

0:39:22.480 --> 0:39:24.920
<v Speaker 2>to like the shower, and you still send a gift,

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:27.320
<v Speaker 2>like that's for that's the gift that I'm going to remember.

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:29.760
<v Speaker 1>That's what that's I don't think she's saying she wasn't invited.

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she just couldn't go.

0:39:31.080 --> 0:39:33.040
<v Speaker 2>She didn't go, right, Yeah, yeah, she was probably invited.

0:39:33.040 --> 0:39:34.279
<v Speaker 2>But I mean, like, yeah, that's the gift I'm going

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:35.799
<v Speaker 2>to remember. Because the person wasn't even there and you

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.520
<v Speaker 2>still sent a gift. That's really nice, right, Yeah.

0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:41.440
<v Speaker 1>So onto the second part of her question, like something

0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:45.000
<v Speaker 1>etiquette and has gone out the window.

0:39:45.360 --> 0:39:48.640
<v Speaker 2>Trash can. It is in the trash can, out the window.

0:39:48.880 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you the last time I have received

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 1>a thank you gift thank you note from someone for

0:39:54.600 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 1>giving them a gift. Now, I don't really expect a

0:39:56.719 --> 0:39:58.840
<v Speaker 1>thank you note for like a birthday gift, you know,

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:01.080
<v Speaker 1>if it's a friend's birthday whatver, like, you know, you

0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:03.879
<v Speaker 1>give them a birthday gift. I don't really expect a note.

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:06.040
<v Speaker 1>But when they send them that's nice. It is. But

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 1>like something for a bridal shower and a wedding or

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 1>a baby shower. Yeah oh yes, like that shit should

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:16.560
<v Speaker 1>not be have gone out the window, but that has

0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:18.920
<v Speaker 1>gone out of the window. I can't receive. I cannot

0:40:18.920 --> 0:40:22.480
<v Speaker 1>remember the last thank you no I've received, neither have

0:40:22.520 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 1>I but you know, and I made short and I'm

0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 1>sorry to cut you off. When we got married. The

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:28.880
<v Speaker 1>first time I made sure. I was like, I'm not

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:31.399
<v Speaker 1>letting this hang over my head because they say, oh,

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:33.120
<v Speaker 1>you have a year to send the thank you note.

0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, no, I'm not letting this hang over

0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:39.200
<v Speaker 1>my head. I'm sending these things out like right away. Yeah.

0:40:39.320 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm trying. I'm trying to think of the last

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:43.280
<v Speaker 2>thank you note that I've gotten.

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Do you remember you? Can you recall yours? It might

0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:52.319
<v Speaker 1>have been from like, you know, like a cousin or

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:56.240
<v Speaker 1>something who may be graduated. Yeah, and I sent money

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:56.920
<v Speaker 1>to or something.

0:40:57.080 --> 0:41:01.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, mine was from Andy Cohen. Oh, he's say to

0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:04.960
<v Speaker 2>thank you for I sent a gift for Lucy and

0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 2>I sent a gift for Ben.

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:06.439
<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

0:41:06.440 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 2>And he's he wrote, hand wrote and put it in

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:09.879
<v Speaker 2>the mailbox.

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's people put it in there, but like, yeah.

0:41:13.640 --> 0:41:17.319
<v Speaker 2>That's what you're supposed to do. Like, and I might

0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:17.799
<v Speaker 2>be at fault.

0:41:17.880 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 1>Have I thank people?

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:21.480
<v Speaker 2>Don't give me nothing? I'm of my no, I'll give

0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:23.239
<v Speaker 2>me nothing. I mean, I know I know I have.

0:41:23.600 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 2>I slipped a little bit, but on something like That's

0:41:26.600 --> 0:41:28.040
<v Speaker 2>why I just feel like for sure.

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.239
<v Speaker 1>On like, you don't have to send a thank you

0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:34.680
<v Speaker 1>note for Christmas gifts right now, but yes, but I

0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:37.919
<v Speaker 1>think for you sending a gift to Andy for his baby, yeah,

0:41:37.960 --> 0:41:40.960
<v Speaker 1>just similar to a that's like baby shower power gift. Yes,

0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 1>that's appropriate. Yeah, you guys, thank you for sure? For sure.

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:47.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So in this getting to know you, people are

0:41:47.160 --> 0:41:50.880
<v Speaker 2>getting to know me and Robin so well. So that

0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:54.480
<v Speaker 2>you collect.

0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Anything that you collect, well, I talk about this before.

0:41:56.400 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 1>I collect nail polish.

0:41:59.280 --> 0:42:03.480
<v Speaker 2>You don't collect nail polish. That's not a collection of

0:42:03.680 --> 0:42:04.760
<v Speaker 2>nail polish.

0:42:05.040 --> 0:42:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, let's see. No, all right, I collect

0:42:07.440 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 1>nail polish. I really do so as far as like

0:42:11.400 --> 0:42:14.239
<v Speaker 1>artifacts or items or things when it's like oh I

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:19.600
<v Speaker 1>gotta go get yeah something or something magnet, yeah, every yeah. No,

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:22.799
<v Speaker 1>you know what I think. I think I have been

0:42:22.920 --> 0:42:30.239
<v Speaker 1>scarred from collector items because why because growing up, like

0:42:31.040 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 1>my brother would collect baseball cards and comic books and

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:35.960
<v Speaker 1>they'd just be like oh really all over the place.

0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:40.240
<v Speaker 1>And then my uncle collected dolls and that shit was creepy.

0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 1>What yeah what got dolls? Like I got you just

0:42:44.200 --> 0:42:46.160
<v Speaker 1>picture of me and my brother holding this doll's like

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.680
<v Speaker 1>a ventriloquist doll, like any type of doll. Like he Okay,

0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:53.560
<v Speaker 1>so my my uncle lives in Missouri, and whenever he

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:56.440
<v Speaker 1>would come visit, Uh huh, I feel like I was

0:42:56.520 --> 0:43:01.920
<v Speaker 1>dragged to every thrift shop like to look for dolls.

0:43:02.960 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 1>What are those things called flea market? This is a

0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:09.320
<v Speaker 1>bad movie. Yeah, Like he and my mom would go

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 1>to all these antique shops and he would just buy

0:43:12.200 --> 0:43:15.759
<v Speaker 1>all these weird dolls. Why and then in his house

0:43:15.800 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 1>he just has like walls and walls of.

0:43:18.160 --> 0:43:20.799
<v Speaker 2>Doll that's a horror movie. That's a horror that we

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:23.360
<v Speaker 2>are and that's horrible.

0:43:23.480 --> 0:43:25.319
<v Speaker 1>Some of them, like when I was young, were like

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:27.920
<v Speaker 1>life size. Oh god, no, literally felt like they were

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:30.960
<v Speaker 1>like the same size as me. Hell and then otherwords, yeah,

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:33.759
<v Speaker 1>that's a WTF What in the world?

0:43:33.800 --> 0:43:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Who is your uncle? No, shade uncle, but this is weird.

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Uncle, Milton. I love you, but it's weird. And he

0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:42.920
<v Speaker 1>still collects stuff and then he turned into like you know,

0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:44.879
<v Speaker 1>then they would like sell the stuff on Ebays because

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:48.000
<v Speaker 1>other people collect dolls and collect all this stuff. Oh

0:43:48.040 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 1>my god. So I was like scarred from that ship. Yes,

0:43:51.120 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 1>me too. I don't want old nothing. I don't want nothing.

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:58.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't want I'm so I don't like junk, No, don't.

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:00.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't collect stuff. I'm telling you.

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:04.239
<v Speaker 2>I have a nice collection of nail polish. That's not

0:44:04.280 --> 0:44:06.319
<v Speaker 2>a collection I used to collect. I think I've said

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:11.120
<v Speaker 2>this on the podcast before matches. So wherever I traveled,

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:14.200
<v Speaker 2>wherever I went, any restaurant or whatever, I would ask

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:17.239
<v Speaker 2>the people for matches. And I used to have like

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:19.120
<v Speaker 2>a trillion of them in this.

0:44:19.040 --> 0:44:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Big, huge, beautiful vase. And then I threw them away

0:44:22.160 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 1>really because it's just like what am I going to do?

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:29.600
<v Speaker 2>No, because Jamal Bryant when I got married, was like

0:44:29.800 --> 0:44:32.360
<v Speaker 2>what is this and why don't we have all these matches?

0:44:32.400 --> 0:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>And this is weird? So I threw them away and

0:44:34.680 --> 0:44:36.839
<v Speaker 1>I regret it to this Oh you do, Okay.

0:44:36.560 --> 0:44:38.600
<v Speaker 2>I do, because it was like memories of like places

0:44:38.600 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 2>that I have.

0:44:39.239 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 1>You've been yeah, yeah, I almost started to start collecting

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:45.520
<v Speaker 1>like hotel keys, but now they're like.

0:44:45.560 --> 0:44:48.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know I have Okay, So this is actually

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<v Speaker 2>a funny story. I think Jason does that a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say that. I don't know if

0:44:53.480 --> 0:44:55.319
<v Speaker 1>he collects him or he just doesn't throw him away?

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<v Speaker 2>So we Right, So we were at a hotel. He

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:01.279
<v Speaker 2>and so he went like went to go open the

0:45:01.280 --> 0:45:05.359
<v Speaker 2>door before me and we couldn't get in, and I

0:45:05.400 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 2>was like, what is happening? It was the wrong It

0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:10.480
<v Speaker 2>was another hotel. It was like the last hotel where

0:45:10.480 --> 0:45:11.000
<v Speaker 2>that we were at.

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<v Speaker 1>But why is that in your wallet? That's weird? Hotel?

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody everybody got down.

0:45:17.360 --> 0:45:21.680
<v Speaker 1>Everybody calmed down. Hotel, But why do you? Why are you?

0:45:21.800 --> 0:45:24.760
<v Speaker 2>Why do you have several different hotel keys in your wallet?

0:45:24.840 --> 0:45:27.759
<v Speaker 1>That's weird? Right, Okay, yeah that is Jason. Yeah, but

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I did like when we like, for instance, like we

0:45:30.280 --> 0:45:32.839
<v Speaker 1>went to Portugal and I got home and I was like, oh,

0:45:33.200 --> 0:45:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to hold onto this hotel keep but.

0:45:35.239 --> 0:45:37.080
<v Speaker 2>It was it was the plastic thing, right, yeah, what

0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:38.000
<v Speaker 2>are you gonna do with that?

0:45:38.239 --> 0:45:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I know? Then like two years later I throw it away?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, but no do I I don't collect anything

0:45:45.200 --> 0:45:49.520
<v Speaker 1>at this point. I accumulate junk. You're keeping junk? Yes,

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:52.520
<v Speaker 1>too many shoes? Too many? You know what I mean? Like, yeah,

0:45:52.560 --> 0:45:53.880
<v Speaker 1>so no, I don't collect anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so when this took this is probably a question

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.359
<v Speaker 2>that I haven't been I haven't even thought about when

0:45:59.400 --> 0:46:01.960
<v Speaker 2>did you first feel like you were an adult?

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<v Speaker 1>Hmmm, I don't know. Adulting is hard, y'all. I think

0:46:08.320 --> 0:46:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm you know what, I don't know either because it's weird.

0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:14.840
<v Speaker 2>I think because you just wake up one day and

0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:18.880
<v Speaker 2>you're like, shit, right, my back hurts, You're like shit

0:46:19.640 --> 0:46:22.319
<v Speaker 2>my neck right? It was a wild night last night.

0:46:22.400 --> 0:46:23.520
<v Speaker 2>Don't have a bounce back.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I do feel like, however, I do feel

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<v Speaker 1>like an adult now versus like even when I was saying,

0:46:31.800 --> 0:46:33.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, when why and I like lost all our

0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:36.240
<v Speaker 1>money and like we were trying to like get things

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<v Speaker 1>back on track, I didn't feel like an adult then. Yes,

0:46:39.600 --> 0:46:43.360
<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel like an adult when why and I?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I've shared this before. Like one was

0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:47.880
<v Speaker 1>when mom was like twenty four twenty three in the NBA.

0:46:48.480 --> 0:46:50.759
<v Speaker 1>We let his younger brother and younger cousin, who were

0:46:50.760 --> 0:46:53.160
<v Speaker 1>in high school at the time move in with us. Oh. Yeah,

0:46:53.280 --> 0:46:55.839
<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel like an adult then. I'm like, really, like,

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:59.000
<v Speaker 1>why am I raising teenagers? You know what I'm saying.

0:46:59.040 --> 0:47:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I can't believe, but these teenagers are living

0:47:01.120 --> 0:47:03.920
<v Speaker 1>in my house and like I'm responsible for them, although

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:05.880
<v Speaker 1>that was a very adult thing to do, Like, I

0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:08.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't feel like an adult. So I'm like, I really

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:11.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know when the transition happened. I don't know either,

0:47:11.920 --> 0:47:13.400
<v Speaker 1>but I do feel like one now.

0:47:13.760 --> 0:47:17.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh I feel like an adult, I think. And even

0:47:17.360 --> 0:47:20.759
<v Speaker 2>when I had Grace, I don't think I was like, oh,

0:47:20.840 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm an adult, no, because I just truth be told,

0:47:25.200 --> 0:47:27.959
<v Speaker 2>Like her diaper was probably the first diaper I ever changed.

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:30.799
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know what the hell I was doing, so

0:47:31.080 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 2>I clearly didn't feel adult.

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<v Speaker 1>In that space. I don't know. Maybe maybe when my

0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:39.560
<v Speaker 1>bank account started looking better. Maybe I think for me,

0:47:39.640 --> 0:47:42.320
<v Speaker 1>it's just like I think when you just hit forty,

0:47:42.440 --> 0:47:46.080
<v Speaker 1>you're just like, okay, I can't deny this shit. No, yeah,

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:49.120
<v Speaker 1>there's no turning back. I can't deny this shit anymore.

0:47:49.239 --> 0:47:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I am old. I'm an adult. Like, so whatever my

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 1>life circumstance is, whether I'm broke, rich, you know, in

0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:57.640
<v Speaker 1>the middle, I'm an adult. I'm forty.

0:47:57.920 --> 0:48:01.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you know you did you have a fortieth party?

0:48:01.400 --> 0:48:01.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you did. No, we just went to dinner. I

0:48:04.160 --> 0:48:07.040
<v Speaker 1>went so forty. I went to the Bahamas, yes, and

0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 1>then we just had like dinner like a little small

0:48:09.000 --> 0:48:11.359
<v Speaker 1>dinner party, right, but I'm saying you you did something

0:48:11.400 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 1>yet away?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, yes, yeah, adult but adulting is not.

0:48:16.920 --> 0:48:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Not a game.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would I prefer being adult, I think more

0:48:21.040 --> 0:48:22.680
<v Speaker 2>so than like a teenager and a kid.

0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:25.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I asked Carter recently. I was like, because I

0:48:25.320 --> 0:48:26.960
<v Speaker 1>remember when I was a kid, I couldn't wait to,

0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, be an adult drive and be owned to whatever.

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I said, Carter, do you want to be an adult?

0:48:31.880 --> 0:48:35.239
<v Speaker 1>He was like no, like.

0:48:35.360 --> 0:48:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Y'all made it too good for him, right, y'all got

0:48:38.520 --> 0:48:40.000
<v Speaker 2>to put some stipulations on.

0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:44.399
<v Speaker 1>It, like, oh no, because my girls.

0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:46.680
<v Speaker 2>The girls really want to drive, because I think for

0:48:46.800 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 2>them that's like doing something independent. So for me, I'm like, okay,

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:54.719
<v Speaker 2>I see that they want to be on their own,

0:48:54.760 --> 0:48:56.680
<v Speaker 2>they want to do their own things. But yeah, they

0:48:56.680 --> 0:48:57.720
<v Speaker 2>still enjoy my pocket.

0:48:57.880 --> 0:49:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes absolutely. But I remember being teenage and I

0:49:04.400 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 1>couldn't wait to make my own money because like I

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:08.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't I was tired of like asking my parents for money, right,

0:49:08.680 --> 0:49:11.200
<v Speaker 1>and I think I like automatically received allowance and all that,

0:49:11.239 --> 0:49:14.160
<v Speaker 1>but like I couldn't wait to like make my own

0:49:14.160 --> 0:49:15.759
<v Speaker 1>money so I could like really just buy what I

0:49:15.800 --> 0:49:16.279
<v Speaker 1>wanted to buy.

0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but and my girls are like that too. But

0:49:18.880 --> 0:49:22.799
<v Speaker 2>then they realized, like so if it's something, it's expensive. Yeah,

0:49:22.840 --> 0:49:24.759
<v Speaker 2>they're like, oh, can we send you a link?

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:26.880
<v Speaker 1>Right? If a kid ever says can I send you

0:49:26.920 --> 0:49:30.680
<v Speaker 1>a link? Don't open it? You know you're an adult. Okay.

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:33.000
<v Speaker 2>That's when, well, no, you gott to open it. But

0:49:33.080 --> 0:49:35.080
<v Speaker 2>you're an adult when they say can I send you

0:49:35.120 --> 0:49:37.080
<v Speaker 2>a link? Or when Grace is like, man, do you

0:49:37.080 --> 0:49:40.879
<v Speaker 2>have any gas money? Gas money? I don't drop this car,

0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:45.160
<v Speaker 2>and y'all work, they all have jobs, so yeah, no,

0:49:45.520 --> 0:49:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I guess we are adults. Adults at

0:49:48.560 --> 0:49:50.920
<v Speaker 2>this point. Okay, we got one more.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'll ask you this. Yeah, what do you

0:49:56.480 --> 0:50:00.239
<v Speaker 1>wish more people understand about you? Oh?

0:50:00.360 --> 0:50:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Gosh, because clearly both of us are misunderstood. Okay, we

0:50:07.120 --> 0:50:09.399
<v Speaker 2>had the most misunderstood women walk out.

0:50:11.640 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 1>That's a devil. I'm actually it's so funny.

0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:18.640
<v Speaker 2>And you get this all time too, and you probably

0:50:18.640 --> 0:50:20.239
<v Speaker 2>get it more than me when you meet people and

0:50:20.239 --> 0:50:23.040
<v Speaker 2>they're like, oh my god, you're so nice. Right, uh,

0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:29.360
<v Speaker 2>what did you want me to do? Check out my axe?

0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:34.480
<v Speaker 2>And like shop you like insane? Let me run you

0:50:34.480 --> 0:50:38.040
<v Speaker 2>over with my car, right, Like, it's ridiculous. So, I mean,

0:50:38.040 --> 0:50:39.839
<v Speaker 2>I would like for my people to understand that, like,

0:50:39.920 --> 0:50:43.759
<v Speaker 2>on a daily basis, I'm very nice. I do not

0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:49.239
<v Speaker 2>take myself seriously, right and yeah, and you know I'm

0:50:49.239 --> 0:50:50.719
<v Speaker 2>just here to like live my life and raise my

0:50:50.800 --> 0:50:51.560
<v Speaker 2>kids and have fun.

0:50:52.000 --> 0:50:53.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Absolutely.

0:50:53.160 --> 0:50:53.320
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:50:53.360 --> 0:50:56.560
<v Speaker 1>It's funny when what people say to me the most

0:50:56.600 --> 0:50:59.360
<v Speaker 1>when they see me is oh my gosh, you're so

0:50:59.480 --> 0:51:01.879
<v Speaker 1>pretty and person. Yes, there's so much prettier in person.

0:51:01.880 --> 0:51:05.160
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, I think I look like myself on

0:51:05.719 --> 0:51:06.280
<v Speaker 1>on camera.

0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:09.719
<v Speaker 2>No, camera's hard. TV is hard on all of us. Really, Yes,

0:51:10.080 --> 0:51:13.880
<v Speaker 2>it's just I mean, yes, you you are prettier in person.

0:51:14.280 --> 0:51:17.920
<v Speaker 2>The lighting on TV is the whole HD situation is whatever.

0:51:18.440 --> 0:51:22.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, the lighting is an issue and I'm not complaining,

0:51:22.880 --> 0:51:25.319
<v Speaker 1>but no, I mean right, but I guess when I

0:51:25.320 --> 0:51:27.799
<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's definitely sometimes when I see things and

0:51:27.840 --> 0:51:30.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, that's not a good picture or whatever.

0:51:30.600 --> 0:51:32.560
<v Speaker 1>But I don't look at the screen and be like

0:51:32.640 --> 0:51:35.719
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't look like me, right, But I guess I

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:37.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know how you want people to know that you're

0:51:37.480 --> 0:51:39.080
<v Speaker 1>prettier in person. Is that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just asking for clearing.

0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:48.879
<v Speaker 1>When you said when people say to you yes when

0:51:48.920 --> 0:51:51.080
<v Speaker 1>they meet you, and I'm like, no, what I hear

0:51:51.239 --> 0:51:53.719
<v Speaker 1>most of the time when they meet me.

0:51:54.360 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Guys, Robin is prettier in person. And actually that is

0:51:58.480 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 2>our episode We got to Shallow.

0:52:00.520 --> 0:52:03.920
<v Speaker 1>That's what I want you to know. I'm not shallow, no, okay,

0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:07.000
<v Speaker 1>And I am a goofball yes, and don't take myself

0:52:07.000 --> 0:52:09.200
<v Speaker 1>seriously right, and don't ever forget to live your life either,

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