Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.
Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? My people? This is Robin Dixon.
Speaker 1: Robin Dixon in the house.
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa, whoa whoa whoa?
Speaker 1: Okay, is that gonna be our new music?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: What is that? Yes? Thank you for being here with us.
Speaker 2: Yes again, once again, we so appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Shaz We love hearing from you telling us you know
Speaker 1: how you enjoy listening to the podcast and your feedback.
Speaker 1: You're reasonably shady scenarios.
Speaker 2: Yeah, questions and just because the title of this of
Speaker 2: this podcast is reasonably shady, does not mean you can
Speaker 2: be shady to us, like let us do that, okay, Pepa, okay,
Speaker 2: not being so shady?
Speaker 1: Okay? Yes, like the girl. We didn't talk about this.
Speaker 1: We briefly talked about the podcast festival, but the shady
Speaker 1: asked question that the girl.
Speaker 2: As child, she was ready, she was ready.
Speaker 1: I picked on her, she was It was my fault,
Speaker 1: so it was we were rapping up at the end. Yes,
Speaker 1: we had run out of.
Speaker 2: Time at the Black Effect Podcast Festival. In Atlanta. If
Speaker 2: there's another one gets tickets going.
Speaker 1: Yes. I we ran at the time, we were doing
Speaker 1: to ask Us Anything segments and we were asking people
Speaker 1: in the audience, you know, to you know, they can
Speaker 1: ask us anything, ask us anything, and we ran out
Speaker 1: of time and the people were still oh, oh, pick me.
Speaker 2: They was jumping up and down raising a hand, pick me.
Speaker 2: And so I picked a couple more and saw this girl.
Speaker 2: She was just she had a burning question. It was burning, burning,
Speaker 2: and I pointed at her. I said, okay, give you know,
Speaker 2: give it a mic, Give it a mic.
Speaker 1: I don't know why Robin did that. What you gotta say?
Speaker 1: She didn't go a howl about ribbing? What do you
Speaker 1: think about the pictures of vomiteds mistress in the launcher
Speaker 1: mat I just put my head down.
Speaker 2: I said, oh shit, this is how we're gonna end
Speaker 2: this podcast in this room with three thousand people. I said, shit,
Speaker 2: why anyway?
Speaker 1: So I answered a question and at this point you're
Speaker 1: gonna have to tune in to something to find out
Speaker 1: that No, okay, they're gonna give us clips so that
Speaker 1: we can potentially put it on our sites.
Speaker 2: But guess what we're not putting that part on done.
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, Lizzen, y'all, I don't care. You can keep
Speaker 1: making up shit. I don't care. All right.
Speaker 2: Anyway, we have a what's your reasonable shady moment of
Speaker 2: the week? Can I get mine? Because it's kind of
Speaker 2: like from a couple weeks ago and I forgot but
Speaker 2: I'm meant to talk about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: So while we were in Atlanta for that festival Black
Speaker 2: Effect shout out to Dolly and Charlemagne.
Speaker 1: Woop woop.
Speaker 2: There's a hotel that we stayed in. Oh yeah, which,
Speaker 2: by the way, Black Effect recommended this hotel. I'm not
Speaker 2: going to give the name of the hotel, but they
Speaker 2: were recommended this hotel that we stay.
Speaker 1: Because it was like nine minutes ten minutes from the venue. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe that's why.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, because I have my Atlanta hotels that
Speaker 2: I like. Yeah, but I decided to veer off of
Speaker 2: what I like to stay where they asked us to stay.
Speaker 1: Right, okay, And I stayed there too, and we stayed there.
Speaker 1: We want to stay in the same hotel because we
Speaker 1: were getting our makeup done by the same person, right
Speaker 1: of course.
Speaker 2: So I walk into the room and I put my
Speaker 2: bags down. I have been traveling all morning, put my
Speaker 2: bags down, and I jumped to no, no, I was
Speaker 2: actually this was like towards the evening, put my bags down,
Speaker 2: went into the bathroom and realized there's no saint in
Speaker 2: the backpack. The sink to wash your hands after you
Speaker 2: pee in the toilet is outside take a dump or
Speaker 2: or that is on the outside of the bathroom, yes,
Speaker 2: by the bed, by the bed. Yeah, so it's not
Speaker 2: connected to the bad This was the craziest setup I've
Speaker 2: ever seen in my life. It was stupid, It was shady.
Speaker 2: It was actually shady.
Speaker 1: It was idiotic.
Speaker 2: Why is the sink not in the bathroom?
Speaker 1: Right? I need the rationale for that? What is this? Maybe? Okay?
Speaker 2: And no mirror in the bathroom. The mirror was by
Speaker 2: the sink on the on the outside, right yeah right.
Speaker 1: So yeah, So the shower and the toilet are in
Speaker 1: one room with a door that you open and close,
Speaker 1: and then you have to walk out and then walk
Speaker 1: around towards the bed to wash your hands. And so
Speaker 1: for me, that's disgusting. It's problematic because now I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about all the people. First of all, when I come
Speaker 1: into a hotel room, we instantly pulled a LFE house
Speaker 1: spray out and we break everything down. Okay, so you know,
Speaker 1: I'm spraying all the handles, the doors, the toilet and stuff,
Speaker 1: and excuse me, I still have a cloth. And but
Speaker 1: when you think about it, okay, think about the people
Speaker 1: who were in that bathroom and they did their number
Speaker 1: two and they're not as cleanly as you or me, okay,
Speaker 1: and they they wipe their you know, booty thang with
Speaker 1: their hand, and they used that same hand to open
Speaker 1: the door and close the door because there's no no
Speaker 1: sink right there, right, And then they like walk out
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh shit, oh that's my favorite song,
Speaker 1: that's my favorite TV show. Let me turn the TV up.
Speaker 1: And they grabbed the remote with their duty hands, right
Speaker 1: and they grabbed the remte and they turned TV up,
Speaker 1: the volume up. All that's going and then they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to order room service. Let me pick up
Speaker 1: the phone. And then they're like, oh shit, let me
Speaker 1: go wash my hands. You know what I'm saying, Like, right,
Speaker 1: that is just disgusting, Like you literally, I didn't think.
Speaker 1: I didn't think of that. All my brain goes that.
Speaker 2: My brain did not go there right, but it's still
Speaker 2: like who designed this? Who I designed this? And then
Speaker 2: who thought this was Okay?
Speaker 1: So think about my life in that hotel because Wan
Speaker 1: traveled with us, yes, or with me and he that
Speaker 1: morning we didn't have to be Our call time for
Speaker 1: the show wasn't until like one thirty, right, and you
Speaker 1: know we were going to start hair and makeup. I
Speaker 1: probably wasn't going to start hair and makeup until what
Speaker 1: ten thirty. I think the makeup artists got to me, right, Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1: He had to leave the room at seven thirty am
Speaker 1: because he was going traveling thirty minutes out somewhere to
Speaker 1: watch a bunch of high school basketball games, So that
Speaker 1: means he woke up at six thirty ish. Think about
Speaker 1: me at that bed and I'm trying to sleep and
Speaker 1: he's brushing his teeth at the scene right next to
Speaker 1: the bed when within arm reach and the sink is loud,
Speaker 1: like the water was loud coming out, saying, I mean
Speaker 1: it was just a nightmare. This was the kicker for me.
Speaker 2: That's the room that I got. Was that the room
Speaker 2: that I reserved. So when I got there, they were like,
Speaker 2: oh yeah, we ran out of their rooms that you reserved, wow,
Speaker 2: because it was a much larger room. And I said,
Speaker 2: how does that even work? If you reserve it? It's yours, right, people,
Speaker 2: I kind of feel like I do want to give
Speaker 2: their name, but I'm not.
Speaker 1: Let's not give their name.
Speaker 2: That's my reason that hotel. Oh yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: I agree. And for me my procrastinating as when I
Speaker 1: went to book the book the hotel, that's all that
Speaker 1: was left with those rooms. Okay, so yeah, any who, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was It's so crazy. It's like now when I'm
Speaker 1: looking for hotels, I need to ask, is the sink
Speaker 1: in the bathroom? Now?
Speaker 2: You don't because we will not reserve. This was a
Speaker 2: non trusted hotel. Okay, we won't do that again.
Speaker 1: Well, we trusted it because it was recommended.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but I have some trusty hotels in Atlanta.
Speaker 2: I just have stayed where I noticed day Yeah, yes, okay,
Speaker 2: So is that your reason to be shady moment as well?
Speaker 1: No? So my reasonably shady moment is it is now
Speaker 1: May close May yeah? Yeah, okay, So you know, unfortunately
Speaker 1: mostly you know, one was relieved of his job around March.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like seventeenth ish okay, the middle
Speaker 1: of March.
Speaker 2: Right, oh wow, okay, so it's been a minute. Time
Speaker 2: flies when you're having fun.
Speaker 1: It was in March because it was before we went
Speaker 1: to the Bahamas, and it was yeah, it was like
Speaker 1: towards the March. It was before my birthday, going by fast. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so wait a minute before you birth That means no gift.
Speaker 1: Did you not get a gift this year? The gift
Speaker 1: was not gifted? Yeah, the birthday was a little sad.
Speaker 1: Was no gift for the gift? Sad? Oopsie's next year.
Speaker 1: We have next year. So okay. So you know, he
Speaker 1: had to clean out all of his stuff, like his office.
Speaker 1: He had had a bunch of stuff from like the
Speaker 1: locker room that was like, you know, just stuff that
Speaker 1: he had purchased that belonged to him. Like so he
Speaker 1: he in, you know, towards the end of March, comes
Speaker 1: home and brings home all this stuff of a mini refrigerator,
Speaker 1: a microwave, a whole bunch of just bends plastic of stuff. Okay,
Speaker 1: and he puts it in the garage. Oh I park No,
Speaker 1: that's why you don't park in the garage. I'm still
Speaker 1: not parking in the garage. Oh no, and I am
Speaker 1: I'm like.
Speaker 2: Okay, now that is a now that will cause a divorce, yes,
Speaker 2: one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: I'm literally like, okay, I gave you your time. Yes, but
Speaker 1: it's over thirty days. It's like a month and a
Speaker 1: half now, yes, And I am still not parking in
Speaker 1: the garage.
Speaker 2: Oh no, that's got stuff.
Speaker 1: Now you can.
Speaker 2: You can leave your socks and your underwear all over
Speaker 2: the place, but you will move that ship so I
Speaker 2: can park my car in the garage.
Speaker 1: And it's getting to the point and he'll every day
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I'm gonna get to it today, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get to it to day. I'm gonna get to
Speaker 1: it today and then magically it doesn't happen. It's getting
Speaker 1: to the point where I'm gonna move the ships. Yes,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be faking angry why I move it.
Speaker 2: I'm going to be what you need to just call
Speaker 2: one a hundred jump or whatever and just have the
Speaker 2: ship thrown away.
Speaker 1: That's what I would do. That's what you say I
Speaker 1: would do. It would be going right, Okay, God, I
Speaker 1: am like so annoyed. Yeah, no, that's it.
Speaker 2: No, But now where does he park his car.
Speaker 1: Well, he's always parked his car outside the house, like
Speaker 1: we only like our cars are our garages are two
Speaker 1: car garage. We only have room for one, you know,
Speaker 1: other ship in there and stuff. And he's always understood
Speaker 1: he parks his car outside, you know, as the gentleman should,
Speaker 1: as he should. Yes, but I am through parking my
Speaker 1: car outside. Yes, I have to bear the elements. Gotta
Speaker 1: face the elements. I got it. You know it's I
Speaker 1: gotta take the kids to school in the morning. Hold
Speaker 1: the polling my car like a taxi cab. Like it's crazy.
Speaker 1: Draw up your divorce face.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's all I got to say about that, because
Speaker 2: this is horrible, right, this is probably the worst thing
Speaker 2: that wine that you've told me that wine has ever donen. Okay,
Speaker 2: for the record, use this is who now I'm angry
Speaker 2: this stuff.
Speaker 1: You should see my garage.
Speaker 2: Oh my I can't. I saw your car out of
Speaker 2: your garage. I was wondering why why now we know? Yes, Okay,
Speaker 2: something else that frightens me outside of the ship that's
Speaker 2: in your garage is scientists have discovered Robin And I
Speaker 2: know y'all think I make stuff up. I'm not making
Speaker 2: this up.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I just start really get your fact checking
Speaker 1: fingers ready.
Speaker 2: That there's a plastic eating fun guy that can break
Speaker 2: down plastic. Okay, so this is terrify. When I read this,
Speaker 2: I got terrified. Okay, it's terrifying to me that there's
Speaker 2: a bacteria out there that can destroy plastic. Uh huh
Speaker 2: do that plastic last forever? But that sounds like a
Speaker 2: good thing, though, Why would that be a good thing?
Speaker 1: Like the plastic that all of our plastic bottles that
Speaker 1: we you know, throw away and stuff like what I mean,
Speaker 1: what else does it say? That's all it says.
Speaker 2: Now listen, it bothered me because it's like plastic you
Speaker 2: feel like lasts forever. M Oh, maybe this is a
Speaker 2: good thing. It could break.
Speaker 1: Down right, the waste, the plastic waste that way.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, so in that way, nobody will bother
Speaker 2: me about me using plastic water bottles.
Speaker 1: Or oh this is a good thing.
Speaker 2: I'm not terrified anymore.
Speaker 3: Today, only a small fraction of plastic waste can be
Speaker 3: biologically degraded by microbes. Researchers are looking for more heat
Speaker 3: tolerant plastivores in the planet's most hostile environments and engineering
Speaker 3: better plastiforous enzymes in the lab. But we can't rely
Speaker 3: solely on these tiny helpers to clean up our enormous man.
Speaker 2: Okay, but what about bbls, bbls, the plastic that's in
Speaker 2: these girls booties? Those are things they should be concerned.
Speaker 1: They should and book jobs they should be Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: it might be because you know there are there are
Speaker 1: what toxic people at book jobs have had some sort
Speaker 1: of toxic response to this because some of them, yeah,
Speaker 1: some of them, not all of them, right, but that
Speaker 1: could be a thing.
Speaker 2: That could be a thing. Yeah, I'm highly concerned.
Speaker 1: Let me cancel my BBL appointment.
Speaker 2: I mean, I was trying to figure out when you
Speaker 2: were getting that done, and now it's off the table
Speaker 2: because there's a fun guy out of it here.
Speaker 1: Yep, not plastic. I just changed my mind. But okay, but.
Speaker 2: If it if it eats plastic and destroys it, how
Speaker 2: does it destroy it?
Speaker 1: That's a good question. M it just makes it like
Speaker 1: decenter grade it might.
Speaker 2: It decomposes it. See I did not make this up.
Speaker 1: This was an action.
Speaker 2: She looked this up, curly, Yes, Carllige just looked it up,
Speaker 2: and she she concurs. Our fact checker concurs that I
Speaker 2: did not make this up.
Speaker 1: Okay, so are they? It's an experiment. Oh so this
Speaker 1: is being contained in the lab. They haven't released it yet, right, okay,
Speaker 1: so are they going to release it? And then should
Speaker 1: we worry that, like.
Speaker 2: The BBL ladies should worry Okay, they should be on
Speaker 2: notice that there might be a fun guy to chew
Speaker 2: up your booty.
Speaker 1: Okay, well notice, But should we worry that, like our
Speaker 1: plastic bends that we store stuff at home and is
Speaker 1: going to be is gonna decompose It's created it with
Speaker 1: the intention of breaking down the plastic waste.
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that, Gazelle can continue to use them, yes,
Speaker 2: but I do save the world in other ways.
Speaker 1: How I try to take shorter showers? Really? Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 1: How long are your showers?
Speaker 2: Probably I don't know what's what's a regular shower fifteen minutes?
Speaker 1: Ten? It depends on what you're doing.
Speaker 2: Oh true, if it's hair hair hair doesn't just take
Speaker 2: hair out, it's a regular, regular.
Speaker 1: Shower nothing, no shaving, noh pooing, and just.
Speaker 2: A regular shower ten minutes. Okay, A mine might be
Speaker 2: five boom saved all that water. I say, five minutes
Speaker 2: of water.
Speaker 1: Boom, Okay, how you like? Honestly, I've been around you,
Speaker 1: you know when we take trips and stuff. I think
Speaker 1: you take two minute showers. Two minutes, yes, because you'll
Speaker 1: be like in and out.
Speaker 2: I'm like dance listen, I watch all the parts, face,
Speaker 2: all the way down, everything gets washed. Yes, like an
Speaker 2: average two to three minutes is an average shower.
Speaker 1: Two to three minutes.
Speaker 2: Two to three minutes is an average shower. Do you tell us?
Speaker 2: I want people to write in and tell us how time.
Speaker 2: Then I want people to time them yourself in the shower,
Speaker 2: regular shower. Do not cheat guys, and tell us how
Speaker 2: long your shower is.
Speaker 1: I think I'm a ten minute shower.
Speaker 2: I think this is what I don't like when guys
Speaker 2: brush their freaking teeth in the shower.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay, that's a basket. I think Swan does that.
Speaker 2: It's I think because there was a couple of the
Speaker 2: basketball players I dated and they did that shit too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wand doesn't We didn't do it all the time.
Speaker 1: And I'm literally like, dude, you're not saving time by
Speaker 1: doing this because you're you're in the shower and you're
Speaker 1: still like they think they're like multitask, yeah, and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: you're in the shower. You're just standing there brushing your teeth.
Speaker 1: It's not like you're like brushing your teeth and washing
Speaker 1: your ass. Toothpaste should not be in the shower, right,
Speaker 1: I mean no, yes, I just think it's just pointless.
Speaker 1: It's like, just stand by the sink, yeah, brush teeth,
Speaker 1: get in the shower.
Speaker 2: Yes, Like, don't be in air either. Okay, moving on,
Speaker 2: we know you do that, Robbin and I'm John Daddy.
Speaker 1: You did it yesterday. Yes, I had to be really bad. Okay.
Speaker 2: I want to talk about my forever first lady, Michelle Obama. Okay,
Speaker 2: because she was named the most admired woman in the
Speaker 2: world for the third consecutive wow by.
Speaker 1: Who or where?
Speaker 2: Okay, bye, bye me damn it, No, listen, I concur
Speaker 2: I do too. And she now has like a new book,
Speaker 2: I believe, or a new something that's she's.
Speaker 1: Going on this promoting something.
Speaker 2: She's promote something with Oprah. And I'm here from Micham.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: The first thing I say in that book to young
Speaker 2: people reading it, it takes a lifetime to find your voice.
Speaker 2: We really have to focus on what we can control.
Speaker 1: Start with the things that is small. Control what you
Speaker 1: can I think. At one point, though, Oprah was one
Speaker 1: of the most admired women in the world, so she
Speaker 1: passed it off to her girlfriend.
Speaker 2: And you can tell, now what I love is like
Speaker 2: when they do their things, like when they have their
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's not a concert, but when they
Speaker 2: have their like their talks. You can tell, like their friends,
Speaker 2: which I really like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you think you'll ever become one of the
Speaker 1: most admired women in the world?
Speaker 2: I am now. Y'all just don't want to give me
Speaker 2: my roses, my flowers, my tulip y'all.
Speaker 1: Don't want to give it to me. What number on
Speaker 1: the list? Listen, there's Michelle Obama. She got it. We
Speaker 1: want to give it. Continue to give her. I'll be
Speaker 1: top five, top five.
Speaker 2: Wow, okay, fine, fine, one hundred and twenty five.
Speaker 1: That's all. That's pretty high up there. One hundred and
Speaker 1: twenty five. A lot of people in this world. Oh true, dad,
Speaker 1: I forgot about that. I mean, like, you got Kamala Harris,
Speaker 1: you got Nancy Pelosi.
Speaker 2: No, this is black woman. Oh no, it's just a woman.
Speaker 1: It's just woman.
Speaker 2: Okay. Yeah, Who's Who's second? Oprah Kama love a second?
Speaker 2: Okay second, Well.
Speaker 1: Listen, we're gonna we're gonna have Michelle rock this out
Speaker 1: for a while. Yeah, she can. She can have ten
Speaker 1: years in a row. That's but you know what, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: that's a hard title to carry for real, Like she
Speaker 1: has to be on her p's and q's. She I mean,
Speaker 1: so she is someone who probably cares. I don't know
Speaker 1: that she cares. Yeah, she cares about other people's opinions
Speaker 1: because I am sure I believe she's being herself. But
Speaker 1: I'm sure there are elements to her life and her
Speaker 1: personality that she doesn't feel that she can.
Speaker 2: Yes, but it was already tested with Donald and Millennia.
Speaker 2: I remember when they came and it was changed on
Speaker 2: the guards. You know, Michelle wanted to cuss them out, right,
Speaker 2: Michelle was.
Speaker 1: Like right, or she just didn't want to be gracious
Speaker 1: and didn't want to be there. But she was very gracious.
Speaker 1: She was very you know, just classy.
Speaker 2: Right. If I was Michelle, I'd be like, so we're
Speaker 2: going from me to you and you were naked in
Speaker 2: the magazine. We're going from me to you and you
Speaker 2: hate Christmas? Right, We're going from me to you and
Speaker 2: you don't have sex with your husband and I do
Speaker 2: so Like, there was so many things she could have said.
Speaker 1: True, and she didn't. She just kept it classy, kept
Speaker 1: it classy.
Speaker 2: And she did say the other day because you know,
Speaker 2: we joke about her saying when she goes high, when
Speaker 2: they go low, you go high. Yeah, she said, you
Speaker 2: can go high, but just think about the low.
Speaker 1: Don't let the load come out your out. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I gotta remind myself that kicking a loa.
Speaker 2: Let's get to Tyree's really quickly, okay, because he's AnGR
Speaker 2: to me a bit.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: The judge had to tell him now because he didn't
Speaker 2: come up with this on his own. The judge had
Speaker 2: to tell him to pay your ex wife six hundred
Speaker 2: and thirty six thousand dollars in child support in legal fees. Now,
Speaker 2: why did judge have to tell Tyrese that? Why couldn't
Speaker 2: you come up with that on your own?
Speaker 1: Sir?
Speaker 2: Why did you have to put your wife, your ex
Speaker 2: wife through this?
Speaker 1: Right? And how long has this been going on a minute?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been going on for a good minute because
Speaker 2: he's been with the other of the new girl, Right,
Speaker 2: they had been broken up four times, so I had together,
Speaker 2: like he's been with her for a minute.
Speaker 1: Right, I'm getting confused, and I'm mixing Tyree's up with Neo. Right,
Speaker 1: Tyrese is the fast in the furious Yeah, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I know what he Yeah, I can picture, and I'm
Speaker 1: mix mixing their scenarios up. Yeah, because Neo, you know, divorce,
Speaker 1: got back together, blah blah blah, all that type of stuff. Okay,
Speaker 1: So tyres has been ordered to pay six hundred and
Speaker 1: thirty six thousand dollars and that's that's just like a
Speaker 1: lump sum. I guess.
Speaker 2: Well, it's divided by backpay, is divided in child support,
Speaker 2: and then legal fees.
Speaker 1: It's divided. Yeah, I don't understand why they like someone
Speaker 1: like Tyrese, who we know has made a ton of money. Gazillion. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like why do they fight? Why do they fight that?
Speaker 2: Just first of all, let's talk about the child support
Speaker 2: part of it. This is for your child, right or children?
Speaker 2: I think they have too maybe, but you know, I.
Speaker 1: Think a lot of men think that that money is
Speaker 1: not going towards the child's benefit, and so they try
Speaker 1: to prove, you know, why they don't need that money.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I did meet his ex wife. She's very beautiful, by
Speaker 2: the way. I don't know her by no means. However,
Speaker 2: she doesn't seem like the woman that is going to
Speaker 2: the mall shopping till she drops. She doesn't look like
Speaker 2: Gucci Louis Prada. She seems like she's going to be
Speaker 2: taking the money and using it for her right now,
Speaker 2: that is a huge assumption, but I'm running with it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so yeah, but I mean, I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: that that's what goes through their heads. That's what the
Speaker 1: lawyers are probably fighting for. I don't know, I mean,
Speaker 1: but still like, you should never let it get to
Speaker 1: that point. No, that's crazy.
Speaker 2: No, okay, And this is in Dion Sanders news. I
Speaker 2: am highly impressed. But I was on the Instagram again. Okay,
Speaker 2: and this is not I pray to God. This is
Speaker 2: not like somebody has put a side by side together
Speaker 2: of pictures and it's a lie. Okay. So they showed
Speaker 2: the stands the football stand Oh yeah. Before Dion got
Speaker 2: to be the head coach of the University of Colorado
Speaker 2: to now yeah, okay, so it was like it was
Speaker 2: like twenty twenty two, which was last year. I can
Speaker 2: count the number of people in this picture that were
Speaker 2: in and it was maybe forty five. Okay, So now
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty three, there is not room in the end, right,
Speaker 2: packed and sought out package insane.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: If whatever his contract is, he needs to go back
Speaker 2: and renegotiate, Dion, I'm here for you.
Speaker 1: Get your money, sir. Now do we know how the
Speaker 1: team performed? Oh no, it's a spring game, so I
Speaker 1: think that's that. That's like a scrimmage a month between them.
Speaker 1: So the people just wanted to be in the building
Speaker 1: with Dion. Yes, however, that's great and everything. Imagine the
Speaker 1: pressure now, oh yeah, pressures on the expectations, yes, that
Speaker 1: that are on him to have a successful program. And
Speaker 1: they went from like maybe I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: like an O and twelve team, like a very the
Speaker 1: record before it was like probably one and twelve something
Speaker 1: really bad, and these people are going to expect a
Speaker 1: great season, right oh yeah, oh yeah, So he's got
Speaker 1: to manage that. He's got to manage the pressure of
Speaker 1: the expectations. He also I heard has a lot of players,
Speaker 1: like a lot of Colorado players from you know, last year,
Speaker 1: the year before, who are now being told that they
Speaker 1: should transfer because I guess he's telling them they're not
Speaker 1: going to play because he's recruiting.
Speaker 2: Other players and always getting out the old yeah and
Speaker 2: with the new yeah.
Speaker 1: And I think that's causing that's ruffling a little bit
Speaker 1: of feathers on probably yeah, those players and their parents
Speaker 1: and the you know, these kids are student athletes who
Speaker 1: are depending on their scholarship and now you're coming in
Speaker 1: and saying nope, all y'all got to go. But that's
Speaker 1: the name of the game. It's like it's reevaluate you,
Speaker 1: and they see that you aren't in their mind, talented
Speaker 1: enough to play. I think the respectful thing. I think
Speaker 1: what he's doing is trying to give those kids an
Speaker 1: opportunity to go somewhere else to play, right, because he's
Speaker 1: pretty much telling them like, look, you ain't gonna play,
Speaker 1: You're not going to play.
Speaker 4: This is a total commitment effort of unification to win.
Speaker 1: It's not just us on the field.
Speaker 4: Everybody in this darned building got to understand that we're winners.
Speaker 4: Change has to be provoked and that's why we're here.
Speaker 4: But we're trying to check every durned box. If it
Speaker 4: was great, I wouldn't be here.
Speaker 2: Wow, it's pressure.
Speaker 1: It's all eyes on him, and I feel.
Speaker 2: Like, listen, whether they win or lose, just the money
Speaker 2: that he's generating right now is worth contract negotiating.
Speaker 1: The money, the attention and the excitement. Yes, I see
Speaker 1: he still got the cameras.
Speaker 2: Following him everywhere where every where. That's yeah, okay, speaking
Speaker 2: of I don't believe anything you say news Kylie Jenner.
Speaker 2: Can we get into Kylie Jenner really quickly? Because she
Speaker 2: decided to say that. I mean, people think I had
Speaker 2: all this plastic surgery, but I like didn't. I mean, okay, fine,
Speaker 2: I got my lips done.
Speaker 1: But that's it. I mean, what are we surprised? You
Speaker 1: know who her family is?
Speaker 2: Okay, but like, if there's a side by side that
Speaker 2: drastically different, why are you gonna lie about it?
Speaker 1: But but the thing is, I think it's like semantics
Speaker 1: because I think she's trying to say what she did
Speaker 1: is not plastic surgery. Oh, it's just an a lot
Speaker 1: of fillers. But I think when you look at her,
Speaker 1: you can see there's been some sort of browlift, but
Speaker 1: I guess that can I don't see, I don't I
Speaker 1: don't know how it works. She's like a totally different person.
Speaker 1: She looks like a totally different person.
Speaker 2: And I'm not mad at it, do you boob, but
Speaker 2: just about it.
Speaker 1: But also like, yeah, share your secrets, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because what if somebody else It's like I
Speaker 1: want to do that to myself too? What did you do?
Speaker 1: And what did you? Should I get a brow lift?
Speaker 1: Should I get a jaw lift or should I, you know,
Speaker 1: a jaw left? What is that? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know either, but you know what I'm saying. Let's
Speaker 1: just be honest. Should I work what should I work on?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 2: And if your whole, if your family, if the business
Speaker 2: of the family.
Speaker 1: Is we're she needs to down the list. There's that.
Speaker 2: But if the business of the families kind of like,
Speaker 2: look at me, beauty, we look beautiful, then just say
Speaker 2: it exactly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, because you didn't. Yeah, it's like old
Speaker 1: is so when Kylie when she was like she was
Speaker 1: like a teenager, she.
Speaker 2: Looks pretty by the way, I mean, no, sh you
Speaker 2: look beautiful.
Speaker 1: I just know that if you looked at a picture
Speaker 1: of me as a teenager, and then if you looked
Speaker 1: at a picture of me as a as a I
Speaker 1: don't know, twenty five, twenty six year old, you're not
Speaker 1: going to be like, damn, what kind of work did
Speaker 1: have done? No? You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: No, But now that's what we say.
Speaker 1: Now. I'm like, God, damn, but I'm saying when you
Speaker 1: look at Kylie Jenner, it's like, wow, what does she do?
Speaker 1: What is different here? And it's just so it's just
Speaker 1: absurd just for them just not to just be like,
Speaker 1: just be honest this, I do this. I do this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all look great. I just said I do this, and
Speaker 1: it cost this amount of money, right, you know, just
Speaker 1: to keep the expectations realistic and all of that.
Speaker 2: So it's weird. Okay, now this is what I didn't know. Okay,
Speaker 2: So Red Table Talk got canceled. I thought I thought
Speaker 2: that that show was like on their own, meaning like
Speaker 2: Jada was like, I put a red table in my
Speaker 2: in my living room, y'all sit down, we're gonna tape it,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna throw it on Facebook.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: I didn't think it was a Facebook deal.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I know what
Speaker 1: you're saying.
Speaker 2: So I was like, how could they get canceled?
Speaker 1: Canceled?
Speaker 2: This is if they can, Yeah, but apparently it's not right.
Speaker 1: So it was like a Facebook initiative, I guess, or
Speaker 1: it So this is this Facebook or YouTube versus Facebook
Speaker 1: because so it was called Facebook Watch, I believe.
Speaker 2: And so they clearly had a contract with Facebook, which
Speaker 2: makes sense because well because I mean, obviously Facebook wanted
Speaker 2: a piece of a pie. Yeah. But yeah, so because
Speaker 2: I was I was like kind of like gonna call
Speaker 2: our show Purple Table Talk.
Speaker 1: We were going to do it, but I guess we can't.
Speaker 1: We can't. You can't just like pick it up and
Speaker 1: PLoP it. I guess. Think about it, like Facebook is
Speaker 1: a platform with how many users? Undred hundreds of millions
Speaker 1: of users and stuff, and so Facebook probably put a
Speaker 1: lot behind promoting it and pushing it out to their users.
Speaker 1: And you know, you're if you're scrolling on Facebook, all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, red Table Talk pops up because Facebook
Speaker 1: is pushing it. So and apparently they canceled all of
Speaker 1: their programming.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder why.
Speaker 1: I'm sure they're making money. But are they making They're
Speaker 1: like cutting staff crazy like they're making They're making a
Speaker 1: lot of changes, okay, a lot of changes, a lot
Speaker 1: of cuts, yeah to staff.
Speaker 2: I oh they fired twenty thousand people.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, oh wow. Yeah, that's so. I think
Speaker 1: think they're feeling, you know, the need to just scale back. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know. And maybe whatever, maybe whatever they put
Speaker 1: into this original programming wasn't translating because for me, it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't think of going to Facebook to watch well,
Speaker 1: I don't open Facebook to be honest, but I don't
Speaker 1: think of Facebook to go to watch anything. I think
Speaker 1: it's the I think it might be hard for them
Speaker 1: to compete with YouTube. Yeah, of course all the streaming services,
Speaker 1: the netflixes, the Hulu and the Peacock all of that.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think it was just too much Amazon Prime.
Speaker 2: Okay, but Jada can take her red table and just
Speaker 2: do it from Livero and just put up the rain light.
Speaker 1: Right and then okay, and then what and then put
Speaker 1: it on YouTube and then okay, and then just get
Speaker 1: the money from YouTube, like the from the downloads.
Speaker 2: Okay, she don't need the money just going and put
Speaker 2: out the content.
Speaker 1: Shouldn't it. I mean, shure, don't they need the money?
Speaker 1: But I feel like most people, they're not going to
Speaker 1: do shit for free? True, do you know what I mean? True?
Speaker 2: So okay, now this is this is the last thing.
Speaker 1: This is some ridiculous news. Okay. So Stevie J.
Speaker 2: You know, I like me some Stevie J just because
Speaker 2: he's entertaining me.
Speaker 1: He's comedy. Yes, stee J used to be.
Speaker 2: He's one of the hit boys or whatever. He's a
Speaker 2: producer and he was on love and hip Hop.
Speaker 1: And he married Faith Evans.
Speaker 2: Now they're getting a divorce.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so a messy one at that, right, A.
Speaker 2: MESSI wantedt that. So now that they're in the process
Speaker 2: of getting a divorce, he was over the house, she
Speaker 2: fell asleep. He took the keys to her car, and
Speaker 2: he went. She thought, to Coachella. He said he didn't
Speaker 2: go to Coachella. He said, if he was going to Coachella,
Speaker 2: he would have got a jet. Damn it.
Speaker 1: If you go get a jet to go to Coachella.
Speaker 2: Why couldn't you get a jet to go to the
Speaker 2: grocery store wherever you were going?
Speaker 1: But you can't take her car from So they live
Speaker 1: was this in California? I think so? Okay, So.
Speaker 2: Yeah she said she I think she reported the car stolen.
Speaker 2: She was like, he'd bring back them keys. And see,
Speaker 2: it's not a girl you to around with. In my mind,
Speaker 2: like I will never fall with fate, no, because I
Speaker 2: feel like if she says she's gonna knock you out,
Speaker 2: she's gonna knock you out right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not the girl to play. It probably doesn't
Speaker 1: take much to set her off. Now.
Speaker 2: So you and if you're going through divorce, yeah, why
Speaker 2: are you causing trouble?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Just mind your p's and cues.
Speaker 1: That's because they that sounds like some toxic mess, right,
Speaker 1: Like why is he even there? Why is he even
Speaker 1: have the.
Speaker 2: It might have been, but it might have been he
Speaker 2: might have been he might have been coming home to
Speaker 2: like slide in it.
Speaker 1: Really why doesn't he have a car? Why does he
Speaker 1: have his own up? Many whys? But do you think he.
Speaker 2: Came to you know, be romantical for a minute, and.
Speaker 1: She really, yeah, he's probably not trying to let go
Speaker 1: or probably yes, that's me. That's a whole mass, you say, STEVIEJ.
Speaker 1: And I'm just think mess, Okay, Rob automatically was like,
Speaker 1: oh Lord, what is it?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: What now? All right?
Speaker 2: So we want to hold on. We have a couple
Speaker 2: of emails to read, guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I need to read this email because I
Speaker 1: messed up, y'all. I gotta clarify something. So I read
Speaker 1: an email a few weeks ago. It was a question
Speaker 1: about someone who was dating a married man, and you know,
Speaker 1: the man would said he would break up with the
Speaker 1: wife and doesn't or something. Oh and the wife doesn't
Speaker 1: want him to leave, and blah blah blah, all this stuff.
Speaker 1: What to do? And because of the person's name, I
Speaker 1: assumed it was a man, okay.
Speaker 2: And I asked for clarity, right, I.
Speaker 1: Asked for clarity. The name is Brett. When I read
Speaker 1: that this was from Brett, I'm instantly assuming it was
Speaker 1: a man. So Brett emailed us, OMG, y'all turn my
Speaker 1: email into a whole soap opera of my leaf and
Speaker 1: my ass off. I was dying with laughter. I didn't
Speaker 1: want y'all to use my name, but y'all switched it up.
Speaker 1: Nobody's going to know it was me, so funny. First
Speaker 1: of all, I Brett am a female and the guy
Speaker 1: is nowhere nearbisexual, very very manly man lol. But something
Speaker 1: Gizelle said hit hard about karma. I believe in that
Speaker 1: and will take that advice to heart. What was what
Speaker 1: was the advice I gave? She was a chick on
Speaker 1: the side.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh wow. And then now there they've ended things.
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna take hopefully she says she's gonna
Speaker 1: take your advice.
Speaker 2: Okay, girl, let me tell you something about mine. I
Speaker 2: don't I can't remember what the advice I gave, but
Speaker 2: let me just say this. They have so many girlfriends
Speaker 2: that have I've given advice to over the years, and
Speaker 2: they always come back. They were like Gaseelle, the advices
Speaker 2: you gave was amazing. Now I don't remember what the
Speaker 2: hell I said, right, but they always give me credit
Speaker 2: for my advice.
Speaker 1: I give some good advice. Oh good. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I might not take my own advice, but I give
Speaker 2: it and it's good.
Speaker 1: Right. So so Bressa, thanks for the advice. Signed Sneaky Links.
Speaker 2: Oh and Brett is a woman not a man.
Speaker 1: Yes, all right? Oh god, I hope I'm not putting
Speaker 1: you at your blast, but well, yeah, it's there's there
Speaker 1: are many female breads in this world that.
Speaker 2: Yes, there are a lady who is making my jewelry
Speaker 2: when I'm I thought she was a man because her
Speaker 2: name is Brent. Well, I didn't think she was a man,
Speaker 2: but I would think that, Yeah, her name is Brent,
Speaker 2: and it's a woman really yeah, like a woman that
Speaker 2: you would never look at and be like, your name's Brent.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I would think she would always
Speaker 1: have to clarify that, like you know, people putting there,
Speaker 1: some people putting their e mail signature like she her whatever,
Speaker 1: like I would if my name was Brent, I would
Speaker 1: absolutely have to do that. Yes, yeah, even shit. Well,
Speaker 1: I think because I'm robbing with the why, it's clear
Speaker 1: to know that I'm a female. But I've never seen
Speaker 1: a male spelled Robin with the Y. But I have
Speaker 1: seen many of men name spelled Robin with the I. Okay,
Speaker 1: Robin Williams. My old trainer's name was Robin, So yeah,
Speaker 1: I would that issue too thick. Yeah, there you go. Okay,
Speaker 1: but I think the why makes it like you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's clear, it's clear.
Speaker 2: Okay, So here we go. Hi Robin and Gizelle and Carly. Carly,
Speaker 2: you got a shout out Carly loves her shoutout, guys,
Speaker 2: I hope you're all having a beautiful day. I'm writing
Speaker 2: about the reasonable or shady email you got about the
Speaker 2: friends splitting the twenty dollars wedding gifts.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: So, by the way, did we talk about it on
Speaker 2: the podcast.
Speaker 1: The twenty dollars Wedding Gift? Yeah? Yeah. People have been
Speaker 1: dm and me like, that's so shady. Okay.
Speaker 2: So this is a follow up to that splitting the
Speaker 2: twenty dollars wedding gift, and it reminded me that of
Speaker 2: the shady behavior many of my friends at the time
Speaker 2: exhibited at my own wedding. I have roughly fifteen people
Speaker 2: out of one hundred and ten flat out not give
Speaker 2: a gift or even a card, including coworkers, one aunt,
Speaker 2: and several of my college in childhood friends.
Speaker 1: Lord, she putting them all, right, Okay, she put them.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say your name is counting.
Speaker 2: Yes, she said it was shady af one hundred and
Speaker 2: fifty dollars per plate. That's what she paid for for
Speaker 2: the food, and you can't even write a card wishing
Speaker 2: us well.
Speaker 1: Shady.
Speaker 2: Ask for a question, do you think it is reasonable
Speaker 2: a shady for a couple not to send a thank
Speaker 2: you note for gifts they did receive. You guys said
Speaker 2: a thank you not if you received a gift, right, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: that would be nice standard.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yes, I sent my cousin's wife a bridal shower gift
Speaker 2: even though I didn't attend a shower, and then obviously
Speaker 2: gave the couple a very generous cash gift for the
Speaker 2: wedding which I did attend and never received any sort
Speaker 2: of acknowledgment or thank you. I also think that's shady,
Speaker 2: But I was wondering about your thoughts.
Speaker 1: What did we think? So we got multiple things? Okay,
Speaker 1: first of all, yes, is it shady for I reflect
Speaker 1: back on my own wedding. Four hundred people there, and
Speaker 1: I think because one was in the NBA, people thought
Speaker 1: that was a reason to not give us a gift.
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Because they were like, y'all have everything already, yes, and millions.
Speaker 1: I promise you out of those four hundred, we probably
Speaker 1: got gifts from like one hundred people.
Speaker 2: Oh but did you want really want for a hun gifts?
Speaker 1: Well, I mean we had a registry, so you know,
Speaker 1: people bought gifts from the registry and you know, or
Speaker 1: some people gave cash. But literally it was still it's
Speaker 1: still like just it doesn't matter who the people are
Speaker 1: unless they specifically say, you know, no, we don't want
Speaker 1: a gift. Yeah, yeah, I would. I need to go
Speaker 1: find you know, I keep a lot of stuff. I
Speaker 1: need to go find my old foul. Because you need
Speaker 1: to write everyone, put their name down, put what they
Speaker 1: wrote you so you could send them to thank you note. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Probably out of those four hundred people, we probably literally
Speaker 1: got gifts from like one hundred.
Speaker 2: And so a lot of his the people that were
Speaker 2: there were they his basketball friends.
Speaker 1: They also yeah, you know we didn't we No, we
Speaker 1: didn't invite like a lot of it's like teammates and stuff.
Speaker 1: I mean it was literally like my parents' friends is
Speaker 1: a really big family. So his family, we both went
Speaker 1: to Maryland to our Maryland friends. Definitely, I probably got
Speaker 1: more gifts from like my parents friends, yes, than like
Speaker 1: older people anybody else.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So but if you if you're not even invited
Speaker 2: to like the shower, and you still send a gift,
Speaker 2: like that's for that's the gift that I'm going to remember.
Speaker 1: That's what that's I don't think she's saying she wasn't invited.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just couldn't go.
Speaker 2: She didn't go, right, Yeah, yeah, she was probably invited.
Speaker 2: But I mean, like, yeah, that's the gift I'm going
Speaker 2: to remember. Because the person wasn't even there and you
Speaker 2: still sent a gift. That's really nice, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: So onto the second part of her question, like something
Speaker 1: etiquette and has gone out the window.
Speaker 2: Trash can. It is in the trash can, out the window.
Speaker 1: I can't tell you the last time I have received
Speaker 1: a thank you gift thank you note from someone for
Speaker 1: giving them a gift. Now, I don't really expect a
Speaker 1: thank you note for like a birthday gift, you know,
Speaker 1: if it's a friend's birthday whatver, like, you know, you
Speaker 1: give them a birthday gift. I don't really expect a note.
Speaker 1: But when they send them that's nice. It is. But
Speaker 1: like something for a bridal shower and a wedding or
Speaker 1: a baby shower. Yeah oh yes, like that shit should
Speaker 1: not be have gone out the window, but that has
Speaker 1: gone out of the window. I can't receive. I cannot
Speaker 1: remember the last thank you no I've received, neither have
Speaker 1: I but you know, and I made short and I'm
Speaker 1: sorry to cut you off. When we got married. The
Speaker 1: first time I made sure. I was like, I'm not
Speaker 1: letting this hang over my head because they say, oh,
Speaker 1: you have a year to send the thank you note.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, I'm not letting this hang over
Speaker 1: my head. I'm sending these things out like right away. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying. I'm trying to think of the last
Speaker 2: thank you note that I've gotten.
Speaker 1: Do you remember you? Can you recall yours? It might
Speaker 1: have been from like, you know, like a cousin or
Speaker 1: something who may be graduated. Yeah, and I sent money
Speaker 1: to or something.
Speaker 2: Okay, mine was from Andy Cohen. Oh, he's say to
Speaker 2: thank you for I sent a gift for Lucy and
Speaker 2: I sent a gift for Ben.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: And he's he wrote, hand wrote and put it in
Speaker 2: the mailbox.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's people put it in there, but like, yeah.
Speaker 2: That's what you're supposed to do. Like, and I might
Speaker 2: be at fault.
Speaker 1: Have I thank people?
Speaker 2: Don't give me nothing? I'm of my no, I'll give
Speaker 2: me nothing. I mean, I know I know I have.
Speaker 2: I slipped a little bit, but on something like That's
Speaker 2: why I just feel like for sure.
Speaker 1: On like, you don't have to send a thank you
Speaker 1: note for Christmas gifts right now, but yes, but I
Speaker 1: think for you sending a gift to Andy for his baby, yeah,
Speaker 1: just similar to a that's like baby shower power gift. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's appropriate. Yeah, you guys, thank you for sure? For sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, So in this getting to know you, people are
Speaker 2: getting to know me and Robin so well. So that
Speaker 2: you collect.
Speaker 1: Anything that you collect, well, I talk about this before.
Speaker 1: I collect nail polish.
Speaker 2: You don't collect nail polish. That's not a collection of
Speaker 2: nail polish.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's see. No, all right, I collect
Speaker 1: nail polish. I really do so as far as like
Speaker 1: artifacts or items or things when it's like oh I
Speaker 1: gotta go get yeah something or something magnet, yeah, every yeah. No,
Speaker 1: you know what I think. I think I have been
Speaker 1: scarred from collector items because why because growing up, like
Speaker 1: my brother would collect baseball cards and comic books and
Speaker 1: they'd just be like oh really all over the place.
Speaker 1: And then my uncle collected dolls and that shit was creepy.
Speaker 1: What yeah what got dolls? Like I got you just
Speaker 1: picture of me and my brother holding this doll's like
Speaker 1: a ventriloquist doll, like any type of doll. Like he Okay,
Speaker 1: so my my uncle lives in Missouri, and whenever he
Speaker 1: would come visit, Uh huh, I feel like I was
Speaker 1: dragged to every thrift shop like to look for dolls.
Speaker 1: What are those things called flea market? This is a
Speaker 1: bad movie. Yeah, Like he and my mom would go
Speaker 1: to all these antique shops and he would just buy
Speaker 1: all these weird dolls. Why and then in his house
Speaker 1: he just has like walls and walls of.
Speaker 2: Doll that's a horror movie. That's a horror that we
Speaker 2: are and that's horrible.
Speaker 1: Some of them, like when I was young, were like
Speaker 1: life size. Oh god, no, literally felt like they were
Speaker 1: like the same size as me. Hell and then otherwords, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a WTF What in the world?
Speaker 2: Who is your uncle? No, shade uncle, but this is weird.
Speaker 1: Uncle, Milton. I love you, but it's weird. And he
Speaker 1: still collects stuff and then he turned into like you know,
Speaker 1: then they would like sell the stuff on Ebays because
Speaker 1: other people collect dolls and collect all this stuff. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. So I was like scarred from that ship. Yes,
Speaker 1: me too. I don't want old nothing. I don't want nothing.
Speaker 1: I don't want I'm so I don't like junk, No, don't.
Speaker 1: I don't collect stuff. I'm telling you.
Speaker 2: I have a nice collection of nail polish. That's not
Speaker 2: a collection I used to collect. I think I've said
Speaker 2: this on the podcast before matches. So wherever I traveled,
Speaker 2: wherever I went, any restaurant or whatever, I would ask
Speaker 2: the people for matches. And I used to have like
Speaker 2: a trillion of them in this.
Speaker 1: Big, huge, beautiful vase. And then I threw them away
Speaker 1: really because it's just like what am I going to do?
Speaker 2: No, because Jamal Bryant when I got married, was like
Speaker 2: what is this and why don't we have all these matches?
Speaker 1: And this is weird? So I threw them away and
Speaker 1: I regret it to this Oh you do, Okay.
Speaker 2: I do, because it was like memories of like places
Speaker 2: that I have.
Speaker 1: You've been yeah, yeah, I almost started to start collecting
Speaker 1: like hotel keys, but now they're like.
Speaker 2: I don't know I have Okay, So this is actually
Speaker 2: a funny story. I think Jason does that a little bit.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say that. I don't know if
Speaker 1: he collects him or he just doesn't throw him away?
Speaker 2: So we Right, So we were at a hotel. He
Speaker 2: and so he went like went to go open the
Speaker 2: door before me and we couldn't get in, and I
Speaker 2: was like, what is happening? It was the wrong It
Speaker 2: was another hotel. It was like the last hotel where
Speaker 2: that we were at.
Speaker 1: But why is that in your wallet? That's weird? Hotel?
Speaker 2: Nobody everybody got down.
Speaker 1: Everybody calmed down. Hotel, But why do you? Why are you?
Speaker 2: Why do you have several different hotel keys in your wallet?
Speaker 1: That's weird? Right, Okay, yeah that is Jason. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I did like when we like, for instance, like we
Speaker 1: went to Portugal and I got home and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm going to hold onto this hotel keep but.
Speaker 2: It was it was the plastic thing, right, yeah, what
Speaker 2: are you gonna do with that?
Speaker 1: I know? Then like two years later I throw it away?
Speaker 1: But yeah, but no do I I don't collect anything
Speaker 1: at this point. I accumulate junk. You're keeping junk? Yes,
Speaker 1: too many shoes? Too many? You know what I mean? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so no, I don't collect anything.
Speaker 2: Okay, so when this took this is probably a question
Speaker 2: that I haven't been I haven't even thought about when
Speaker 2: did you first feel like you were an adult?
Speaker 1: Hmmm, I don't know. Adulting is hard, y'all. I think
Speaker 1: I'm you know what, I don't know either because it's weird.
Speaker 2: I think because you just wake up one day and
Speaker 2: you're like, shit, right, my back hurts, You're like shit
Speaker 2: my neck right? It was a wild night last night.
Speaker 2: Don't have a bounce back.
Speaker 1: I know, I do feel like, however, I do feel
Speaker 1: like an adult now versus like even when I was saying,
Speaker 1: you know, when why and I like lost all our
Speaker 1: money and like we were trying to like get things
Speaker 1: back on track, I didn't feel like an adult then. Yes,
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like an adult when why and I?
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've shared this before. Like one was
Speaker 1: when mom was like twenty four twenty three in the NBA.
Speaker 1: We let his younger brother and younger cousin, who were
Speaker 1: in high school at the time move in with us. Oh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like an adult then. I'm like, really, like,
Speaker 1: why am I raising teenagers? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't believe, but these teenagers are living
Speaker 1: in my house and like I'm responsible for them, although
Speaker 1: that was a very adult thing to do, Like, I
Speaker 1: didn't feel like an adult. So I'm like, I really
Speaker 1: don't know when the transition happened. I don't know either,
Speaker 1: but I do feel like one now.
Speaker 2: Oh I feel like an adult, I think. And even
Speaker 2: when I had Grace, I don't think I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm an adult, no, because I just truth be told,
Speaker 2: Like her diaper was probably the first diaper I ever changed.
Speaker 2: I didn't know what the hell I was doing, so
Speaker 2: I clearly didn't feel adult.
Speaker 1: In that space. I don't know. Maybe maybe when my
Speaker 1: bank account started looking better. Maybe I think for me,
Speaker 1: it's just like I think when you just hit forty,
Speaker 1: you're just like, okay, I can't deny this shit. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's no turning back. I can't deny this shit anymore.
Speaker 1: I am old. I'm an adult. Like, so whatever my
Speaker 1: life circumstance is, whether I'm broke, rich, you know, in
Speaker 1: the middle, I'm an adult. I'm forty.
Speaker 2: Yeah you know you did you have a fortieth party?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah you did. No, we just went to dinner. I
Speaker 1: went so forty. I went to the Bahamas, yes, and
Speaker 1: then we just had like dinner like a little small
Speaker 1: dinner party, right, but I'm saying you you did something
Speaker 1: yet away?
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yeah, adult but adulting is not.
Speaker 1: Not a game.
Speaker 2: But I would I prefer being adult, I think more
Speaker 2: so than like a teenager and a kid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I asked Carter recently. I was like, because I
Speaker 1: remember when I was a kid, I couldn't wait to,
Speaker 1: you know, be an adult drive and be owned to whatever.
Speaker 1: I said, Carter, do you want to be an adult?
Speaker 1: He was like no, like.
Speaker 2: Y'all made it too good for him, right, y'all got
Speaker 2: to put some stipulations on.
Speaker 1: It, like, oh no, because my girls.
Speaker 2: The girls really want to drive, because I think for
Speaker 2: them that's like doing something independent. So for me, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: I see that they want to be on their own,
Speaker 2: they want to do their own things. But yeah, they
Speaker 2: still enjoy my pocket.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes absolutely. But I remember being teenage and I
Speaker 1: couldn't wait to make my own money because like I
Speaker 1: didn't I was tired of like asking my parents for money, right,
Speaker 1: and I think I like automatically received allowance and all that,
Speaker 1: but like I couldn't wait to like make my own
Speaker 1: money so I could like really just buy what I
Speaker 1: wanted to buy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but and my girls are like that too. But
Speaker 2: then they realized, like so if it's something, it's expensive. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, can we send you a link?
Speaker 1: Right? If a kid ever says can I send you
Speaker 1: a link? Don't open it? You know you're an adult. Okay.
Speaker 2: That's when, well, no, you gott to open it. But
Speaker 2: you're an adult when they say can I send you
Speaker 2: a link? Or when Grace is like, man, do you
Speaker 2: have any gas money? Gas money? I don't drop this car,
Speaker 2: and y'all work, they all have jobs, so yeah, no,
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I guess we are adults. Adults at
Speaker 2: this point. Okay, we got one more.
Speaker 1: All right, I'll ask you this. Yeah, what do you
Speaker 1: wish more people understand about you? Oh?
Speaker 2: Gosh, because clearly both of us are misunderstood. Okay, we
Speaker 2: had the most misunderstood women walk out.
Speaker 1: That's a devil. I'm actually it's so funny.
Speaker 2: And you get this all time too, and you probably
Speaker 2: get it more than me when you meet people and
Speaker 2: they're like, oh my god, you're so nice. Right, uh,
Speaker 2: what did you want me to do? Check out my axe?
Speaker 2: And like shop you like insane? Let me run you
Speaker 2: over with my car, right, Like, it's ridiculous. So, I mean,
Speaker 2: I would like for my people to understand that, like,
Speaker 2: on a daily basis, I'm very nice. I do not
Speaker 2: take myself seriously, right and yeah, and you know I'm
Speaker 2: just here to like live my life and raise my
Speaker 2: kids and have fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: It's funny when what people say to me the most
Speaker 1: when they see me is oh my gosh, you're so
Speaker 1: pretty and person. Yes, there's so much prettier in person.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I think I look like myself on
Speaker 1: on camera.
Speaker 2: No, camera's hard. TV is hard on all of us. Really, Yes,
Speaker 2: it's just I mean, yes, you you are prettier in person.
Speaker 2: The lighting on TV is the whole HD situation is whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, the lighting is an issue and I'm not complaining,
Speaker 1: but no, I mean right, but I guess when I
Speaker 1: I mean, there's definitely sometimes when I see things and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's not a good picture or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I don't look at the screen and be like
Speaker 1: that doesn't look like me, right, But I guess I
Speaker 1: don't know how you want people to know that you're
Speaker 1: prettier in person. Is that.
Speaker 2: I'm just asking for clearing.
Speaker 1: When you said when people say to you yes when
Speaker 1: they meet you, and I'm like, no, what I hear
Speaker 1: most of the time when they meet me.
Speaker 2: Guys, Robin is prettier in person. And actually that is
Speaker 2: our episode We got to Shallow.
Speaker 1: That's what I want you to know. I'm not shallow, no, okay,
Speaker 1: And I am a goofball yes, and don't take myself
Speaker 1: seriously right, and don't ever forget to live your life either,
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