Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Sydney is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her
Speaker 2: boyfriend Matt for seven months, and now she thinks something
Speaker 2: might be going on. So let's see if we can
Speaker 2: figure it out. For Sydney, thank you for your email.
Speaker 2: So it's tough to come on the show like this,
Speaker 2: but tell us what's going on with Matt.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you for guys having me. It's been a
Speaker 3: really tough situation for me lately. So I'm together with
Speaker 3: my boyfriend.
Speaker 4: His name's Matt. We've been together for about like.
Speaker 3: Seven months, okay, and we just started dating long distance,
Speaker 3: which really sucks because he has to move away from work. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 3: Anyway, I noticed the change, you know, And I'm pretty
Speaker 3: I feel vibes in person, and I feel vibes even
Speaker 3: if far away, right, And so I definitely noticed the
Speaker 3: change in him, Okay, and I feel like he might
Speaker 3: be cheating, to be honest, I just get this gut feeling.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So when he moved, did you guys agree that you
Speaker 5: were going to continue to stay exclusive?
Speaker 3: Yeah? So he definitely and I we had that conversation
Speaker 3: and we got first. We were good about it. We
Speaker 3: were facetiming every day, and our relationship was still the same.
Speaker 3: I felt really happy. We always, you know, talked about
Speaker 3: three or four times a day. Nothing really has changed
Speaker 3: except we weren't physically in front of each other. Yeah,
Speaker 3: then things started to shift a little bit. So then
Speaker 3: eventually I would get things from him like, oh, you know,
Speaker 3: it's so late, call me later, call me tomorrow. I
Speaker 3: was like, okay, And then sometimes.
Speaker 4: I would call and he'd.
Speaker 3: Be like, hey, you know, I'm already out with my boys.
Speaker 3: I can't talk right now, and I'm like, wow, well
Speaker 3: you didn't even tell me you were going out. Good
Speaker 3: things to know your partying. And then most of the
Speaker 3: time he doesn't even answer, and I'll get like one
Speaker 3: of those like automated, sorry, I can't talk right now,
Speaker 3: which really bugged me because this is my boyfriend. I
Speaker 3: shouldn't be getting that.
Speaker 1: That pushed that button for me right out of all people,
Speaker 1: right right. How often do you guys see each other now?
Speaker 3: We haven't in a very long time, and I mean
Speaker 3: we try to make like a visit every like every
Speaker 3: at the end of the month, maybe, but it started
Speaker 3: to get longer and longer spaced out. Yeah, or is
Speaker 3: our relationship and I feel something happening.
Speaker 6: I do want to play Devil's advocate for a minute
Speaker 6: and say, what if he's just trying to like make friends.
Speaker 6: They know, like when you're in a new city, like
Speaker 6: it's hard to make friends, and so especially if you
Speaker 6: are on a time difference like going out.
Speaker 5: And you're gonna hate me for this. Oh, this is
Speaker 5: all red flag up and down. Especially when he's new
Speaker 5: in a new city, he would be more attached to her.
Speaker 5: And usually what happens is more and more time goes on,
Speaker 5: I start to wonder, even if he's not actually physically
Speaker 5: cheating on you, there's a really good chance that there's
Speaker 5: people or something that is speeding is egom to spending
Speaker 5: time with. Obviously, I speak from a lot of experience.
Speaker 5: I've done this more than one and always was hopeful, always, always, always,
Speaker 5: And when I started to feel like you're feeling right now,
Speaker 5: something was off? Really yeah, And I'm sorry and I
Speaker 5: hate saying that, but I.
Speaker 3: Did ask him. I was very upfront the other time
Speaker 3: we talked to said, Hey, hey, what's the girls situation over there?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was like, you say he was honest.
Speaker 3: He was like, I made a few friends. They're not
Speaker 3: all born. There're some girls in there too, and that
Speaker 3: I shouldn't be worried. And he was like trying to
Speaker 3: joke about it. He was like, you know, they're not
Speaker 3: they're not even looking for that with me. They're just friends.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, kay, until they give him attention. I'm serious.
Speaker 1: I know it's real.
Speaker 4: Okay, it is real.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know it is real. Well, I'm sorry that
Speaker 5: stresses me out for you, but it's better to know exactly.
Speaker 2: Well hopefully hopefully that's not that, but you know, it
Speaker 2: is better to know. So play a song, come back,
Speaker 2: and then we'll call him. And you already told us
Speaker 2: what grocery store he shops at, so we'll call from
Speaker 2: the grocery store and say that every single month, which
Speaker 2: she was one rewards card man at random who gets
Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see
Speaker 2: if he sends them to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, pleas I'll come back and make our phone
Speaker 2: call with to catch a tater next right in the
Speaker 2: middle of to catch a teeter if you're just joining us.
Speaker 2: Sidney is on the phone, and Sydney thinks that our
Speaker 2: boyfriend of seven months, Matt, might be cheating on hers.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and pretend to be
Speaker 2: from the grocery store that he shops at and say
Speaker 2: that every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member
Speaker 2: at random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral
Speaker 2: department to anybody in the entire universe, and we'll see
Speaker 2: if he sends them to his girlfriend, Sidney or to
Speaker 2: somebody else. But before we do that, Sidney, whyt he
Speaker 2: you were fresh air, Butody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So, been dating my boyfriends for seven months. He moved
Speaker 3: away from work. It's been a long distance relationship. Everything
Speaker 3: was good at first, but then after some fantasts, he
Speaker 3: stopped calling me. He's not taking my calls. I found
Speaker 3: out he is making new friends, which is good, but
Speaker 3: some of them are girls, and I'm starting to suspect
Speaker 3: that he has a different love interest at this point.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hell up, Hi is this map?
Speaker 1: Who's a Rewards Card member?
Speaker 4: Yes? This is how's it going?
Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling with some exciting news. You're this month's
Speaker 2: big winner. Thank you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 4: What did I win?
Speaker 2: Every single month we choose one Rewar's card member, totally random,
Speaker 2: who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department. We're
Speaker 2: doing delivery now, and you've won thirty six long stim
Speaker 2: red roses, a box of chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered anywhere within the fifty United States. Absolutely free.
Speaker 2: It's a four and twelve dollars value. Actually it's very expensive.
Speaker 4: Oh jeez wow. And you said I can send them
Speaker 4: any like anywhere in the world, Like I can do
Speaker 4: you guys shift the other state?
Speaker 1: Yeah, anywhere in the United States is absolutely free.
Speaker 4: I have a girlfriend in another state. But like, can
Speaker 4: I shift other than flowers? Because when if they die?
Speaker 1: Oh no, it doesn't come straight from the store. We deliver.
Speaker 1: We can do delivery, Oh perfectly.
Speaker 4: Okay, if you.
Speaker 2: Know the name of the person you want to send
Speaker 2: them to right now, I can take that information over
Speaker 2: the phone in just a matter of minutes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, I can give it to you, probably
Speaker 4: over the phone.
Speaker 2: I guess I'll need the first and last name of
Speaker 2: the person you want to send them to, and then
Speaker 2: whatever you want to put on a card, and then
Speaker 2: I'll get the address.
Speaker 4: All right, sure, Yeah, let's send them to Sidney.
Speaker 2: And I should ask is this a romantic type situation?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, it's my girlfriend. She's I recently moved away
Speaker 4: from her, so nice.
Speaker 2: Well that's got to be tough, it is. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: bet I've been on had a situation before and it
Speaker 2: was tough, you know what. No judgment for me, honestly, okay,
Speaker 2: but just gut a guy here.
Speaker 1: If there is.
Speaker 2: Also somebody local that you might want to send them to,
Speaker 2: I can do both things.
Speaker 4: Somebody local, you know what, Let's maybe send some to Meredith.
Speaker 4: I mean she's like a friend, I guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's get the Meredith information here in a second.
Speaker 2: So your girlfriend and the out of state one is Sydney, correct, Yeah, Sydney.
Speaker 2: I should also let you know that Sydney is actually
Speaker 2: on the phone listening. And this is the Jubal Show.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show and this is to catch a Cheater,
Speaker 2: where we try to see if someone's cheating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so who's Meredith?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Hello, hello, Matt. Who is Meredith.
Speaker 1: What hello? Get him?
Speaker 4: Who is this? What is going on?
Speaker 1: This is the Jubile Show and it's a radio show.
Speaker 2: We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where
Speaker 2: if you think your significant others cheating, see you, they
Speaker 2: send flowers to and that's why Sidney is on the phone.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are you doing? What's going on? Sydney?
Speaker 3: Stop trying to change the conversation, Matt. At that point,
Speaker 3: I asked you who is Meredith?
Speaker 4: This is We've had this conversation multiple times. Well, that's crazy.
Speaker 3: You never mentioned any girl named Meredith. Why are you
Speaker 3: lying and why would you I'm not Are you guys
Speaker 3: in a relationship?
Speaker 4: No, I'm in a relationship with you. But if you
Speaker 4: can't trust me in.
Speaker 3: A relationship, huh okay, there's something going on with you
Speaker 3: and this Meredith, So you had to spend her a
Speaker 3: nice yes, Matt, tell me the truth.
Speaker 4: Are you with her?
Speaker 7: No, she's a girl who's been showing me around. She's
Speaker 7: been showing me around the area, like along with that
Speaker 7: other guy that I was talking about and the girl.
Speaker 7: Because we're all new around here, and you know, I
Speaker 7: tried sending I tried sending something to you first, but
Speaker 7: who was the grocery store? Who I thought was the
Speaker 7: grocery store also said he can give me a second one, So.
Speaker 4: I said, all right, let's give it some Matt.
Speaker 3: Listen, I was on the phone this entire conversation with you,
Speaker 3: trying to get these flowers over to quote unquote me.
Speaker 3: And then after he said to you, is there somebody else?
Speaker 3: You said yet, so You're like, let's go ahead and
Speaker 3: send it to this girl, Meredith.
Speaker 4: You don't listen to me. I don't know what you know.
Speaker 4: I've talked about Meredith before. You don't listen to me.
Speaker 4: I did not say that there's somebody else on the side.
Speaker 4: I just thought it would be a nice gesture as
Speaker 4: a thank you to Meredith, okay, for showing us around
Speaker 4: and taking the time to make us feel make me
Speaker 4: and the other people feel comfortable. Okay, Matt. But I
Speaker 4: wouldn't be feeling this way.
Speaker 3: I think wouldn't have changed between us if you would
Speaker 3: take my call, if you would actually talk to me
Speaker 3: on the phone, if we used to. I feel like
Speaker 3: we're not even together anymore.
Speaker 4: We are, and I tried to make time. Our schedules
Speaker 4: are very different. We knew this was going to be hard.
Speaker 4: I know you're always like, why are you well, I'm
Speaker 4: out because it's eleven o'clock here, it's a layer here.
Speaker 4: And then during the week, I've just started the new job.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to work as hard as I can and
Speaker 4: this is impeding that, this is hurting my work. Why
Speaker 4: did you get a radio station to call me to
Speaker 4: ask me if I'm cheating?
Speaker 3: Well, you know what, Matt, is just better to know.
Speaker 3: And I feel even though you're not giving me a
Speaker 3: street answer, I feel like I have my answer. So
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Well you give me the answer. Why you don't trust.
Speaker 3: Me because of this reason that you can't give me
Speaker 3: a legit reason why you can't better our relationship. Why
Speaker 3: you can't make it stronger. Why aren't you calling me
Speaker 3: in the morning. Why aren't you calling me before you
Speaker 3: go out? Why aren't you calling me at all? If
Speaker 3: I call you at nine am, it's like four am.
Speaker 4: At your time. So what do you do want to
Speaker 4: talk four o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 3: It's the effort, Matt, it's the actual seeing you try
Speaker 3: to communicate with me and try to hold a relationship
Speaker 3: with me. Send me a text, send me a picture
Speaker 3: anything at this point.
Speaker 4: Send me an every time we talk it's evolves into
Speaker 4: this of you not trusting me in some way.
Speaker 3: You're just avoiding telling me the truth because you're a coward. Okay,
Speaker 3: I said more coward. Yeah. I really think I've moved on,
Speaker 3: and I think it's fair enough to me to just
Speaker 3: let I mean the truth so I can move on.
Speaker 4: That is not true, Sydney. I have a meeting in
Speaker 4: a little bit and I have to prepare for it,
Speaker 4: so you know, I have to go back to work.
Speaker 4: We can talk about this later. It's not what you
Speaker 4: think it is at all, Sydney. Well do you see, guys?
Speaker 3: There he goes again, not ever having any time for me.
Speaker 5: It's tough because I feel like I kind of want
Speaker 5: to believe him, even though I really didn't in the beginning,
Speaker 5: just because he sounded really adamant about not cheating.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you're going through that. You know what you're
Speaker 1: gonna do.
Speaker 3: I'm probably gonna just let him see that littee. If
Speaker 3: he reached up to me, let him do the work,
Speaker 3: and if he doesn't, then it sizzles out and that's it.
Speaker 1: Let us know. If you didn't help with anything, Okay.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much you guys, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 5: We got a role by Meredith's house, Victoria will do it?
Speaker 1: Wait what right away? The Jewel shows to catch a
Speaker 1: cheater