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Speaker 2: And this is okop where we cut the greatest stories

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Speaker 1: I'm John and Sophia is op the a hole for

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Speaker 3: It depends on what they did.

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Speaker 2: Oh what do you think they did? Uh?

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Speaker 4: If she did then yeah, no, not the a hole.

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Speaker 4: Ooh yeah, get them out of the will.

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Speaker 1: Like if you're if you're an a hole to your

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Speaker 1: If I can about, you're out of the damn. I

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Speaker 3: To the waiter, out of the will, out of the will.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's find out this comes from Mountain AD ninety

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Speaker 1: sixty five, who says, uh, am I the A hole?

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Speaker 1: I twenty two female broke up with my fiance twenty

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Speaker 3: Yeah, did the grandma boss's girlfriend? Bosses?

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Speaker 2: Grandma lost the the money?

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Speaker 3: Is the grandma so alive? I don't know, dude, presumably.

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Speaker 4: Consumably you can't be caught out of will post that's posthumously.

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Speaker 1: I don't think yeah unless you have some crazy will yeah.

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Speaker 2: But we'll see it.

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Speaker 3: Like very specific stipulations. If you break up with your girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: It's possible.

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Speaker 1: Now, this is my main account, but I just had

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Speaker 4: He's been he's been working, you know, military military, about

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Speaker 2: Work is hard, babe, work is so hard.

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Speaker 4: So Frank calls up right, hey, hey friend, what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Your military body is cheating on you. And then she

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Speaker 4: And that's the story. That's my conspiracy.

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Speaker 4: So is predicted what I said actually just right now, Well,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking, like goldfish memory, just now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it happened. No, I was like speaking words, but

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Speaker 3: But I love you. You know, that's not how you

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Speaker 4: Crazy Bunny like honestly conspiracy theory. Maybe that's how he

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Speaker 2: So like Scooby Doobe, you throw all along. Now.

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Speaker 1: I didn't put much thought into this because she was mad.

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Speaker 2: I will not be doing that.

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Speaker 1: His family is really well off and has a very

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Speaker 1: He even pride to pay me to marry him bro up.

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Speaker 4: You're right, way if you just wait, waited like Jesus

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Speaker 3: But that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to some of my friends and they

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Speaker 2: That's a righteous Yeah, that's true. And then I should forgive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're like, oh, just just put up with him

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Speaker 2: A happy ending.

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Speaker 1: Because quote unquote, I am just mad now and this

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Speaker 3: He should have thought.

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Speaker 2: About should have thought about that before you got booty. Yes,

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Speaker 2: pull up your money, that's all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know so many of my friends are saying this,

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Speaker 2: What do you think? Am I the a hole? No?

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Speaker 2: We have relevant comments.

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Speaker 4: But no, no triple no triple no doubling down on that.

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Speaker 4: That's wild and hope he needs new friends, a new partner.

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Speaker 2: All new, all new, cut them all out.

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Speaker 3: Booth across the country, find just a new circle.

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Speaker 2: Where is the accountability?

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Speaker 3: That's crazy? Everyone.

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Speaker 4: The grandma is like, you need to be with my

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Speaker 3: All so crazy? Yeah, like what about her life? I

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Speaker 1: No, she's she's getting she's getting, no business, know nothing.

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Speaker 1: Hey you know what, Now we're the same, buddy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now we're the freaking same. Also, I didn't even think

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it's like she would be.

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Speaker 1: It seems like they're passing down like he'd probably work

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Speaker 4: And yeah, but I think I would. Oh, I don't

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Speaker 4: think I could marry into like yeah, knowing that my

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Speaker 1: Dude, Well, we have some relevant comments. A nanny forty

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Speaker 1: two three five seven says, hell no, not the A. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hope you keep playing Ma John with his grandmother. Oh,

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Speaker 1: that's cute. I want to That would be great, Opie

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Speaker 1: says I do, and I've been doing it for a while,

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Speaker 1: talking about playing my job with her grandmother. I love

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Speaker 1: to be there for her too. Oh piece an angel

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Speaker 1: op on how she found out in the comments. He

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Speaker 1: reason I found out was because one of my best

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Speaker 1: them out and about together. They went on a deep

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Speaker 1: it on her social media. She was she was posting

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Speaker 1: the two of them. Yeah, like I'm almost like, does

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Speaker 1: he want to get caught?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You would think you'd be like, oh.

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Speaker 4: Like, don't post anything. She was posting stuff on social media.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, he probably bamboozed bamboozled her as well.

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Speaker 2: Sophia coming for me today, Ladies and gentlemen, No.

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Speaker 1: On op playing ma jong with two players and not

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Speaker 1: four controversy. You can't play with two players. It's just

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Speaker 1: different tools and you can set up two racks instead

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Speaker 1: of four. Okay, so let the controversy. Okay, the two

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Speaker 1: versus four players spoken? All right, let her live and

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Speaker 1: now onto the update. Thanks to everyone who's been giving

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Speaker 1: a lot of you ask for an update, So here

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Speaker 1: it is. First thing, I talked to his grandma. I

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Speaker 1: told her I will not be marrying her grandson, that

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Speaker 1: I did not feel comfortable with that being a requirement

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Speaker 1: for him to get back in the will, which.

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Speaker 3: Wow, she's being too nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I also told her that I would be available to

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Speaker 1: but I will not be coming over when he is there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she was good with this arrange. When we were talking,

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Speaker 1: she told me that just because he cheated, that was

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Speaker 1: not the only reason why he was cut out of

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Speaker 4: Okay, my Grandma's like, don't worry, it wasn't you.

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Speaker 1: I got a I got a. Oh what do I

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Speaker 1: think here? I think that he was trying to juice

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Speaker 1: as much out of the will as possible, and he

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Speaker 1: started he was lying about cheating. He started free feeding

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Speaker 1: Grandma lies about Hey, brother Billy. I heard that he

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Speaker 1: was a you know, doing some doing some nasty stuff Grandma,

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Speaker 1: And uh, I don't think he should be. He's, you know,

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Speaker 1: doing that stuff. He can't be running the company, you know,

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Speaker 1: he can't be.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I think he was planting, sowing seeds of doubt to

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Speaker 1: why was he Yeah, we don't know the reason.

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Speaker 4: I also think that if if they like the grandma

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Speaker 4: being making the stipulation that Op needs to marry the

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Speaker 4: ex like so that he can get the money. It

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Speaker 4: seems like she just wants to give Ope the money,

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Speaker 4: you know, oh, Like she's like, I just really want

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Speaker 4: to give you the money, and like if you marry

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Speaker 4: them and I can give you the money, right, because

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Speaker 4: it seems like everyone in their family likes O people more.

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Speaker 2: Then Yeah, you're right, everyone's like you op, you're great.

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Speaker 5: Our actual like son relatives are their families. Let us

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Speaker 5: know if you have a family like this where you

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Speaker 5: had like a brother, a sister or someone, but like

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Speaker 5: their significant other was so involved in your family that

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Speaker 5: you kicked that they were significant other.

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Speaker 2: Know that's the thing. Yeah, we've definitely read the stories

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Speaker 2: of that before.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember reading the story.

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Speaker 1: Like that, especially when there's children involved, because then it's like, hey, you're.

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Speaker 2: Not only like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that especially happens like

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Speaker 1: later on having kids all of that.

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Speaker 2: Job.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's get back to reality. She said that she

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Speaker 1: was sorry for telling him that that it was just

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Speaker 1: the cheating that got him cut.

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Speaker 3: Off the wall.

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Speaker 1: But even if he did end up marrying me, he

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Speaker 1: would still not be in the will instead, I would.

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Speaker 3: I knew it.

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Speaker 4: Because yes, because if there was like if there were

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Speaker 4: other reasons for the grandma not wanting him in the

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Speaker 4: will and the it's I think it's less like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I don't know how to say this, Like it's less

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Speaker 4: that she was gonna give him, like like OP was

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Speaker 4: the reason that he was not going to be in

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Speaker 4: the will. It's more like you only get it if Op.

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Speaker 4: He's there giving it to Op. If you're a part

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Speaker 4: of if you're on the ride with Op, then you'll

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Speaker 4: just be there for Op. Yeah. Yeah, they are jumping

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Speaker 4: on the other.

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Speaker 2: None said she was what a baby, little.

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Speaker 3: Kid, and they're like, she deserves the money.

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Speaker 2: That's basically family at that point, you like raise that.

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Speaker 3: I hope she does get the money, but I'm not

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Speaker 3: sure how legally. Yeah, they'll upset upset. I feel like

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Speaker 3: you can give money anyone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you can be given money to anyone.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's possible.

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Speaker 2: Hey, here's some money.

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Speaker 1: She was telling me that this was the last straw,

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Speaker 1: so that is why he got cut out. And he

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Speaker 1: did a lot of other stuff before, just stuff that

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Speaker 1: I don't know about, but her and the rest of

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Speaker 1: the family did. I was talking about it, and I

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Speaker 1: asked her, why did I not know about this when

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Speaker 1: I was with him? That's a good question. Nobody warned

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Speaker 1: you basically apparently they thought that I knew. She did

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Speaker 1: tell me that there was a way for him to

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Speaker 1: get back in the will without marrying me, but it

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Speaker 1: money or something like that. We finished up our talk

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Speaker 1: and then scheduled some time to play. I know some

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Speaker 1: people will say that I should cut ties with the family,

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Speaker 1: but I've known them for so long that i consider

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Speaker 1: Grandma and being there for his sister.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I don't think you should have to cut ties.

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Speaker 4: As long as they aren't like pressing you to do

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Speaker 4: then don't cut ties with them.

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Speaker 1: The vibes are good, Yeah, vibes are good. And it

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Speaker 1: seems like they want to give you money. Like in

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Speaker 1: the beginning, it seems like almost the grandma was almost

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Speaker 1: trying to like coerce their marriage.

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Speaker 2: But now we have it's like, oh no, no, I just.

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Speaker 3: Really wanted to give you money.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, so that's what I'm reading it, Yeah, because

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Speaker 4: it did sound more like coercion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I'm on the same page with you.

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Speaker 2: I think that's going on.

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Speaker 1: Next, what happened was I talked to some of my

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Speaker 1: that stuff. Yeah, well one of them thought that if

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Speaker 1: help her pay off her college loans.

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Speaker 3: Oh she sucks. This is the friend.

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Speaker 2: This is one of the friends that called her the

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Speaker 2: a hole.

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Speaker 3: Why would you ever tell.

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Speaker 2: Bruh.

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Speaker 1: Then a couple of others, apparently my ex talked to them.

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Speaker 1: Apparently they were all promised to spot in the company

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Speaker 1: or their boyfriends were when he took over, and if

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Speaker 1: I didn't marry him, then that wasn't going to happen.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Horrible.

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Speaker 1: They're like accepting a bribe. Yeah, they're like forced Opie

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Speaker 1: to like feel like an a hole, but ultimately guilt

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Speaker 1: her into burying him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because just for their own benefit.

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Speaker 1: Well that at least explains why, because you're like, who

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Speaker 1: on earth ye say this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, horrible people.

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Speaker 2: Wow, So it boiled down greed.

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Speaker 1: I told them that they are not true friends of mine,

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Speaker 1: They did not care about me and my feelings, and

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Speaker 1: that I never wanted to talk to them again.

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Speaker 2: Opie, Hey, you know what green flag you are? The

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Speaker 2: green flag? Ope? Yes, that is right.

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Speaker 1: If they wanted me to marry him so bad, they

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Speaker 1: should just marry him themselves.

450
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, get his money if you can.

451
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 2: Right. At this point, I was just mad, and I

452
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 2: ended up yelling at them.

453
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: I left and blocked all the numbers and blocked all

454
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: of them on the social media platforms that I have.

455
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: Thank you everyone who's telling me to drop them as friends,

456
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 1: because I ended up doing just that nice.

457
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 2: One of them.

458
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: One of the only bright sides of this was I

459
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 1: got to see who my real friends really were.

460
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 2: Now it was time I talked to my ex. Oh boy,

461
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: here we go. He called me asking to meet up

462
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:04,160
Speaker 2: for lunch.

463
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 1: I decided to go because I figured at least I

464
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: could get a free meal out of it and get

465
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: some closure for the relationship. As the side, I added

466
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 1: that last part. He let me choose the place. I

467
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: chose a little restaurant that one of my good friends

468
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 1: works at. And I know if and I know them

469
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: if I need to reach out to them for help.

470
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 2: That is very smart.

471
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 1: Lunch came and he was talking to me about the

472
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:33,880
Speaker 1: will and getting married still honest. He was asking if

473
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: we could get married. Oh no, oh, no, god, but

474
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 1: I see you.

475
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,120
Speaker 3: In the comments because I see where this is going

476
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 3: and I see you.

477
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: He asked if we could get married and have an

478
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: open relationship and he would.

479
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

480
00:23:54,760 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: He he went from like, hey, I'm going into the

481
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: agreement of you know, both of us not having sex

482
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: before marriage to hey, let's just like both sleep with

483
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: other people.

484
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 3: Let me continue cheating on you, right, witch.

485
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,959
Speaker 1: I do have to say if they had both uh

486
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 1: stayed true to their original pack they both like you know,

487
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: didn't didn't cheat or or sleep with each other before marriage,

488
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: and then.

489
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 2: They got there, then they could have opened it up.

490
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 3: Like he literally this was a waiting game, dude.

491
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 2: He fumbled.

492
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 3: He couldn't wait. He bumbled the bag, so the literal bag.

493
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 2: Yes.

494
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: And he also said that he wouldn't care if I

495
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: slept with someone else.

496
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: He literally just wants some money. This is the most

497
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 3: greedy man I've ever so.

498
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: I told him, no, y, yeah, he did not know

499
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: that I talked to his grandma before and that I

500
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 1: know also what had happened, which we still we still

501
00:24:58,200 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: haven't figured out.

502
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, then you know what happened.

503
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 2: We want to know that, he do.

504
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: He was vague.

505
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: Hopefully there's more like updates than breakdowns of it in

506
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: the future. I laid into him and told him that's

507
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: not what I believe in, and that he broke my

508
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: trust in my heart, and that he was not treating

509
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: me like a human being good. I was about to

510
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: leave without eating any food, but my best friend packaged

511
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: my lunch up, gave it to me and let me leap.

512
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 2: A friend coming and clutch a.

513
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 4: Real friend, real friend friend, not with.

514
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: A fake bribe friends the other fair weather friends. Where's

515
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: of a fleather together?

516
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? I tried fathers. How you say that?

517
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 3: Yep?

518
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 1: When he tried following me to continue talking, Oh no,

519
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: even though I was done, uh and my friend ended

520
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: up blocking his path so he couldn't follow me anymore.

521
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 2: When I left, he kept calling me and I blocked him.

522
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: Before I blocked him, I told him to never talk

523
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 1: to me again, and I am done with him.

524
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my goodness, there we go.

525
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: I plan to finish my degree and maybe go traveling

526
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 1: and leave town for a little bit, and maybe in

527
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: a few years I will find someone better. I will

528
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 1: also take this time to think about my religion, like

529
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,239
Speaker 1: how a lot of people were saying to do, and

530
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: figure out what my next step is. Thank you everyone

531
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 1: for your advice. I don't know if this is how

532
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: you saw it.

533
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 2: Going or not.

534
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: A lot has happened in such a short amount of time.

535
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: I will update you if anything else happens. I hope not.

536
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: And there's no more updates.

537
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 2: Well, no more updates.

538
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 3: We never even know what else he did.

539
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: We never figured out what else he did all the shower.

540
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 1: But let's let's yeah, we're gonna We're going to see

541
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: if there's any other updates. But means so, if you're

542
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: going to break this down to me.

543
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, break down down, I think much.

544
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: Like the hearts on Sophia's socks, the love was broken,

545
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,479
Speaker 1: love was broken, trust was broken, Russ was broken.

546
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I just don't know what he expected. He

547
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 4: was like, I want to keep I cheated on you. Also,

548
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 4: I want to keep cheating on you just because I

549
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 4: want the money.

550
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: He just wanted to keep it.

551
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: So, yeah, he wanted to have his cake and eat

552
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: his side chick too, like it's just.

553
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 3: He wanted the whole pie and also another pie.

554
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: Was there any path, like if he donated all his

555
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 1: money to charity and did everything else, is there is

556
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: there is there any path?

557
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 3: Because I don't think he actually loves her at all.

558
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 4: I think he truly just wants the money, and so

559
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 4: I can't see him doing that.

560
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, because yeah, do we know because earlier, like let's say,

561
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 1: like around the time we were engaged, before before any

562
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: of this happened, we don't know one hundred percent if

563
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: all the money was going to OPE and he was

564
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: along for the ride at that point, right, Oh.

565
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think he cheated, yes, yeah, yes, but I

566
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 4: think at some point what I'm saying is like he

567
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 4: was not in love or like not really in love

568
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 4: with her, yes, and was just so focused on the money.

569
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 4: And then when he was like was faced with not

570
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 4: getting it, like he was like, this is a mean,

571
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 4: you like, op is a means to the end? Yeah,

572
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 4: and yeah you can't come back from that.

573
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

574
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: And it's so crazy how even still with everything on

575
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: the line, he still was like, hey, we can have

576
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: an open rule.

577
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 3: No, it doesn't even try to make it better.

578
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 4: Also, just to say that to someone who is obviously

579
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 4: very religious, Yes, and has made it clear that they

580
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 4: don't want have sex before marriage. And then to be like, well,

581
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 4: the solution, of course is an open marriage or sex

582
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 4: and more people, Oh my god, Yeah, don't you don't

583
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 4: know your partner at all?

584
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: My man cannot pick up context clues. That's sad, but

585
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: you know it's not sad this next story.

586
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: Yes's right, we'll get into it.