WEBVTT - Episode 04 Ft. Young Dro 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:11.399 What's up is angela? Ye, and it's time for another 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:14.440 edition of lip Service. Now we're gonna try something new. 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:16.880 If you have any questions that you want the ladies 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:18.639 to wait in on. And when I say ladies, I 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:21.920 mean my girl Stephanie Santiago and my girl Gig McGuire. 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:26.040 You can always tweet us and hashtag lip service. Okay, 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:29.040 and we'll get to your question now. Today, young Drow 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:33.760 is coming through. Very entertaining guy, very candid, very blunt. 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:35.320 He's had a lot of things going on in his 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.720 life and he has some very interesting stories to tell 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:43.160 about relationships, about some mistakes that he's made. I don't 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.640 know if people call the mistakes, but I guess, uh, 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.760 some things that he did that he didn't mean to do. 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:50.479 And of course the ladies have a lot of questions 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.840 for him as well. Okay, so get ready to enjoy 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:59.080 another edition of lip service. Welcome to lip Service. Of course, 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:02.160 I got my girls at me. I'm Stephanie Santiago and 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:04.800 I'm g G maguire and I want to say thanks 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:08.600 everybody because we are number seven on the health charts. Okay, yeah, 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:14.520 healthy and it's about health. Sex is very healthy? Is healthy? 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:19.319 If you know how to go up down. Now, if 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:21.280 you don't know who that is, that is Young Joe 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:25.480 and he's a special guest for this episode of Lip Service. 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.600 Young Joe, thanks for coming, you know we're in New 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:31.520 York City, and congratulations to you. Obviously you have a 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:34.399 big song out right now. Well thank you. Yeah that 0:01:34.440 --> 0:01:36.240 thing huh? I played you last night on My Step 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:43.240 Yeah yeah and the strip club, right yeah, shout out you. 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.319 You had your birthday last night, right, yeah, happy birthday. 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:53.080 It was GI's birthday last night. Man no Gg was 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.680 saying about too young Joe that you do end up 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.320 and used to be in the strip club all the 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.720 time in Atlanta when she was there. Yeah, we did. 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.080 Why you look like you've got some memories just now. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:11.600 When I said that, everything just flash. Yeah, we have 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:14.040 one of our one of my favorite people was also 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.560 one of his favorite people. My girl Leilannie. What is 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:19.160 that supposed to mean? No? She cool, she cool, like 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:23.480 they like birthday, They share a birthday, like they a 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:26.760 part of something. My birthday January third. Yeah, you're a 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:31.960 special persons are pretty special. You didn't know will mean 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:38.240 you know, just downplayed by sis or anything. Jesus it 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:43.280 was only one other thing bigger than that than Jesus. 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:49.079 All right, all right, well let's get into it. And 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:50.760 you know, we did have some issues with the mix before, 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.360 but now everything is all good. So young Joe, Um, 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.480 there's a couple of things we want to talk about today. Now. 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:59.440 My girl GG is here. And last time I saw 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:03.120 you was when FDB was out and we talked about 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:04.959 all of that, and you know, there was some back 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:08.040 and forth because you had some issues with your baby, 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:11.560 some baby mama drama. Obviously she responded to that. I 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:13.480 think she tried to get on the show too, and 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.880 so I never got to see what she said. Oh 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:18.880 you didn't. She didn't come on the show, but she 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:20.880 had put out a statement about you or something like that. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:25.919 Ain't your chance to wait till I do? I never saw, 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:29.880 but I'm sure have you resolved things since then? Yeah, 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.440 I've seen my daughter. Knew she's kind of coming around. Well, 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.839 actually I ain't my daughter every weekend. Oh that's good. See, 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:39.120 so it all worked out right. So, but there's no 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.200 chance of no getting back together or anything. I tried, 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.600 but I knew I wouldn't go. I don't want to 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:48.280 do the body Okay, I thought she was a lesbian. 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:52.320 How did you try to get I wasn't really, that 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:59.920 was just being quick her boodoo looking be issues office high. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.839 I don't know. Do you think that that you could 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:07.080 go from becoming a lesbian to going back straight again? 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:11.400 I mean, I don't. I don't understand how women can 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:14.600 be lesbians. I think men are so amazing. It's just 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:18.960 weird to me. I don't know. I can't answer that question. Yes, 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:22.960 we know you've dibbled in, dabble with women, you know. Honestly, 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:28.080 I think that if it's going to direction, you know, 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:30.600 I think you know, if you're if you're if you're 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:34.160 born gay, then you're born GAYE like turning, you know, 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.120 going back and forth. But you don't consider yourself gay. 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:47.320 I'm not gay, right, But if a guy does that, 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:51.440 he's gay. Hell. Yeah. It's the same catch ty two 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.080 as if a girl funk a lot, she hold and 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:54.960 if a guy fork at the man. If a girl 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:56.560 for a girl, she's a freak. If a guy for 0:04:56.680 --> 0:05:01.159 a guy, he's gay. Yeah. It's like to see in 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:04.760 the ocean two different parts. How many women have you 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.960 been at one time? And the most you're not going 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.880 to speak on that. There must be a large number. 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:18.880 I would lose everything. I have everything, you have your endorsements. Women. Okay, 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.400 so you know, you know I got some pieces. You 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:25.000 know what I'm saying to give them up, as you 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:29.839 know I heard burning everything. No, but I would say this. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.040 I don't think that women hold stuff like that against you. 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:35.240 They do for me. Really. Yeah, every time I get 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:37.480 a new girl. You can't see your job this week. 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.280 It fakes me. All right, now, let me ask you this. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:44.040 We're talking about this earlier. What makes you decide to 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:46.680 take the condom off? When is it time for you 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:51.799 to say, okay, takes to you said, nobody does takes 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:53.360 it off? Who does that? No one puts it on. 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:58.920 It's what you're saying that count taken off in a grade. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:03.680 Let's try this thing. You didn't even battery, so you 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.400 said you so people just don't use condoms period. I mean, 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.480 if you got when you're using, you don't put it off. 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:11.320 So no, I think I mean decided to stop using 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:14.400 them having sex with the girl you're using the condom. 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:15.680 When do you decide that you don't have to use 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:21.479 a condom anymore? Uh m hmm. Okay, up. Ye. Look 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:24.520 at the friends go to your house. You know what 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:32.560 I mean? Look at the cabinet. There's no medication in 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.120 this student teasi is a cough loan. If there's a loan, 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:46.080 cough keeping my nose constantly runs keep comdom on any ship, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.640 you know what I mean. I don't trust people that 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:50.800 are sickle all the time. I've said that on this show, 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:56.240 something's going to show. Something's gonna show, like, what did 0:06:56.240 --> 0:07:00.520 you just do? It could be allergies or something? Why 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:11.160 are you sticking your code? Girl? Forgot? But for lady Stephanie, 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:12.800 g is it weird to you if you're the first 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.240 time you have sex with a guy he doesn't even 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:18.200 try to use a condom? I'm done. Oh no, that 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:21.400 is the biggest turn off. That is the biggest turn off. 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:24.600 Don't try to don't try to come to me. You said, 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:39.080 who trying? Come on? You would do it? Get out? 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:45.840 And you know what, I'm sure at some point you've 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:47.440 had sex with a guy the first time with the 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:50.880 econdom I have. But you know, at this age, at 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.120 this time in my life, if a guy tries to 0:07:53.160 --> 0:07:55.239 have sex with me the first time, raw, I'm looking 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:59.120 at him like you're doing this with everybody. I agree, 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.360 you don't know what I'm doing. Even if you speak 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.800 every day, it doesn't matter. You don't know what I'm doing. 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:07.680 And guys you'd be surprised most of them try to 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:14.920 go go overall. Most of that just nasty. I don't 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:16.960 agree because you have to the fact that this guy 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.840 doesn't carry your ound rubbers, right, So guy should care 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:21.760 if you see me with a bag rolls in the 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:27.560 back this thing. Yeah, but at least I know your 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.760 clean and you taking care of yourself and you have 0:08:30.840 --> 0:08:33.800 respect for your dick. It is weird though, Okay, that's 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:38.400 when times comes in. Stop hitting on the first, Nate, Well, 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:40.480 maybe you'll been talking for a while, you met on 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:44.760 match dot com or something, You've been FaceTime. Come get 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:47.319 me and can't let me see your house? Where is 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:51.800 your daughter? How did your mom look? Well? So for you, 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:55.400 young Joe, the first time? You always have cons with you? No, 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.400 al right, so you don't. You're not a condom type 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.839 of guy I'm shaming about. Hey, look, put one in 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:08.720 the parct only trying niff. Is it weird if a 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:10.880 guy just has a condom on him, does that mean 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:13.760 he came to smash. I mean, I don't think that. 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.600 I think God should have condoms on What if girls 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:18.240 have condoms? What if you're about to have sex with 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:21.640 a girl and she pulls out a condom, that's j says, 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:25.480 she'll do it. You gotta talk to I'm gonna pull 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.080 out a condom. I'm gonna have a condom just in 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:34.120 case you don't. Safety first. What were you thinking? Safety first? 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:36.800 That's what I was thinking. I don't have any condoms. 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:39.079 I never carry them around. I can't even have them 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:43.400 in my house, but I have them. Is it wrong? Okay? 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:45.200 What about if you dated a guy and he left 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:46.960 some condoms at your house? Is it wrong to use 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:51.880 those condoms? Just let him know you use them. You 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:58.160 gotta replace them before he comes back. Listen, I have 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.600 a friend who used to check the series numbers on 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:03.600 her boy. I got the best from the story. Everybody 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:08.040 that because you can't. You have to tell us a story. 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:11.080 You might not invite me back happen. You gotta tell 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:14.640 us a condom story. Short, Come on, if it's the 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:18.079 best condom to filthy ship, ever, don't tell me you 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:19.360 guys said to the girl, and there was a condom 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:24.600 in huh so cool man man, I invite my girl 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:28.080 though we're having drinks. I'm only you know, I'm saying, 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:32.520 we clsaying cooling. Whatever shout leaves you know what I'm saying. 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:37.319 Other girl called and she just got here yet. But 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:40.600 don't forget I smashed the first time. Well yeah, bow 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:42.520 man man. So she had to the crib we get 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:44.960 you know what I mean, start kissing, bumping the hit, 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:52.760 put the calls down, clumbing still on with the nut 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.440 inside of it. Yeah, I could to the ship to 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:59.720 the clinic and got twenty three dollars and you forgot 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.600 to take to con him up. That's dirty. But but 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:04.440 I was just hidden and just got up. I really 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:09.000 didn't try it. Who doesn't take that? I have a 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:16.320 huge I forgot so well, so clumfy, you know, and 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:18.319 then when you get limp, doesn't it come off? I 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.800 don't get live that's big enough to hold the coat? 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:26.840 Wise ring baby. So what happened is she? When she so, 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.439 I was like, give me a minute, let me She like, 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:40.080 but who cares? I ain't already got my eyes. You 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:42.360 could you could have had the other window listen, and 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:48.320 that one would have been better. Lagging run Yeah. The 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:50.319 most surprising part of that story though, to me is 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:52.760 that you were kissing her. So are you a kiss her? 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:56.440 I love you do, And you know you can't blame 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:58.680 anybody long as you brush your teeth and what's your 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:04.640 up at the second time? My lips because I always here. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:06.319 A lot of guys say that they feel like kissing 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:10.040 is more personal than sex. Yeah, I think. I think 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:14.320 kissing is a part. Chemistry is a great part of 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:17.400 the important part. But you've had sex with people and 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:20.560 not kiss them, I'm sure you haven't. You gotta kiss 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:28.800 me and yellow every blue gum, yellow teeth, green, green tongue, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:32.760 green pone. All right, well that was a very interesting 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:36.160 condom story. Now let's talk about Instagram for a second. 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.160 All right. Now, obviously, on Instagram, we try to put 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:40.760 things out there that we don't want to get in 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:42.960 trouble for. And you can tell a lot about a 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:45.480 person from their Instagram. You can tell you know where 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:48.920 they're at, if they're dating somebody, supposedly, if they're vacation, 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:51.160 if they're getting presents, so on and so forth. How 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.160 careful are you about what you put on your Instagram? 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:58.720 Don't care at all? Um, Everything is not for everybody. 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.680 But I'm a very off on Instagram, very open and 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:04.679 honest person, so I don't really hide too much. But 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:06.520 sometimes you put things on Instagram when you're in the 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:10.599 middle of something very emotional because I'm emotional. I am. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.400 I am very emotional, and sometimes I let my emotions 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:17.240 take over my post. Yes, I am guilty. I hate 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:22.120 when people put on Instagram when they're like, says their 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:31.559 uncle's down to cancer in yeah what happened? No funeral selfies, 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:41.959 no hospital selfie. You don't not right when you're really 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:45.280 warning and you know you're really hurt, like you don't 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:49.040 want to post, you know what I mean. I feel 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:52.840 like people are really attention horse in the midst of death, 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:55.560 and yeah, even they want to touch and they want 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:59.160 people to apologize to them. They want people, you know, 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:12.480 to feel and reach out. And I was like, I 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.760 always think that Instagram and Twitter is more of a 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.800 like positive fun place and it's not supposed to be, 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.680 you know, anything, right, unless it's like a you know, 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:25.560 dedication alright, something like that. But I do feel like 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.120 it is more of a fun like, Okay, this is 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:31.280 great type of space. Now have you ever been booed 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.400 up and posted something on Instagram and felt like, man, 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:35.840 I got to delete that because now that's too many guys. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:38.320 That's what I was gonna say, you know, like I, um, 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:41.520 I post up according to my life. Like if um, 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:44.600 if I'm dating somebody and I'm not cheating on them, 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:49.720 I'll probably post them up. If I got a couple, 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:52.200 if I got a couple of guys, I'm not gonna 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:57.960 post anybody up. I'm just gonna play single. If I 0:14:58.080 --> 0:15:04.880 did the girl, I want to see who you're gonna post. Okay, David, 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:08.240 So if you're dating a girl, you're fine with her 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:17.920 seeing other people if it's not your girl flying first 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:21.600 week and then when I'm bowed up, but we're gonna 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:24.000 end and I'm saying all the type of stuff and 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.960 we have with me everywhere. Okay, So that's something that 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:28.720 you want, though, you would like to be in a 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:32.720 boot up relationship that you could publicly show everybody like women. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:35.680 But I'll take a book, I'll take a boom. But 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:38.840 you know that's that's the He's a Southern gentleman, and 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.880 Southern gentleman they like to show off their lady. When 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.160 I first moved to Atlanta. I was sold my first 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.720 week there. First guy I met, we're going on a date. 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:48.440 We went to the club, we went to a g 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:51.040 Z party and at one twelve or some ship, what 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:52.920 a date? And that was there was a date. And 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:55.040 I was so surprised. But that's what people like, and 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:56.880 that's that's what they do. They show off their women. 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:58.640 That's how they flof. I look at my bit, she bad, 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:00.400 she got that ship, look at it. You want to 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:05.400 know she mind? They do that in Atlanta. So yeah, 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:08.560 I was so surprised when I find it out. I 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:11.600 just I just feel like, you know, um, I feel 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:13.720 like when you when you want to show it off, 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:17.960 you will men and women, you know, you show yeah, exactly. 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.520 But you know, if there's a couple, if you're dating 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:23.000 more than one person and you're not committed to somebody, 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.640 you can't you can't post up and you can't be 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:28.240 running around. But you can't because you don't have no 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:33.200 obligation to anybody. That's true, but that's potential with every 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:37.120 relationship wants to post you know, because some of these 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:38.880 guys might not go for it and he might be 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:42.520 a guy for you, right, But also guys are competitive 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:44.120 like you said, it wouldn't really bother you. Like if 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:45.640 you see a check that you're messing with and she 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:48.160 would have DoD that fresher than you, don't that make 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:52.840 you feel competitive? Like now I gotta call okay, right? Cool? 0:16:52.920 --> 0:17:00.280 He cools though a lot of players around anything like that, right? 0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:03.120 I mean? I do think sometimes that's how you can 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.560 lock a guy in when he running around doing him 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:07.440 Like what is it that makes you say, okay, that's 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:09.560 my girl, Because sometimes it's hard for guys to be 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:11.840 like I want to lock in and settle down, but 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:15.199 the threat of another man locking down your chick might 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:19.960 do it. M M. A guy needs security. If I 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:23.760 can trust you and said I'm good. If I think 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:27.440 you're gonna do something, I'm going to do something, you'd 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:30.840 be surprised. Like being you know, video vixing, you know, 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:34.400 popular on the internet. Guys are like, are you gonna 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:41.600 post me up? Post this picture of me so that 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:45.800 it's not cool? It's not cool? I agree, I totally agree. 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:51.240 I'm looking on you like, no, you really look mean 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.000 you're gonna do this? I want you to put this 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:57.639 on the ground him be surprised. Oh my god, guys, 0:17:58.040 --> 0:18:01.360 oh I know you're not a claiming me on the internet. 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:07.840 So this internet, like we're living right now. This why 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:10.320 relationships don't work out like that. They don't. I just 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:12.560 told my check out like, look, if you can't him 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:16.040 with these people dishing out, I'm gonna hurt you later. 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:19.040 I mean, because they're gonna hit to some boomerangs, a 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:21.720 couple of breaks sticks, you know what I mean, You're 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:23.960 gonna call me on every one of them. Look at this, 0:18:24.119 --> 0:18:27.800 somebody daring me and what baby got fifteen hunter later on? 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:31.800 I'd be built for that. It's hard, though, a lot 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:33.200 of people are not felt for that. Like a lot 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:35.359 of times we think we know what's going on because 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:37.200 we're finally on who's like in your pictures? Were seeing 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:40.320 whose pictures you're liking? Who's leaving comments? People are saying 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:44.000 slick stuff all the time. It is hard be boring people. 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:47.360 These people are sitting at home typing board. Right, this 0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:51.320 person have anything and he's just tapping buttons and he's 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:54.119 ruining your life. But what kind of women do you like? 0:18:54.200 --> 0:19:03.040 Young Joe Up? I mean, I like, I like a 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:06.560 smart girl. I've always attracted a girl that was in 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:09.920 school square. I need to I don't need to amuse, 0:19:10.920 --> 0:19:12.520 you know what I mean? I need somebody's in a 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:15.840 totally different direction like my last XP and say she 0:19:16.000 --> 0:19:20.040 thought we was tobacco in the insideitude. Look I got 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.480 you something at home. It's gonna be so special, baby, 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:24.760 I got answer, baby, this is the inside of a 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:30.000 bud like yeah, yeah, go ahead and study baby. I 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:34.200 see him. But then she can't party with you like that. 0:19:34.359 --> 0:19:40.600 She can't because alcoholics for girls. Everything I tried to 0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:48.280 break my head. I gotta season. Ahol is for you, dude, 0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:52.600 like the side guy too flat for that? If I was, 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:57.159 I got one day and it's over. No pictures please. 0:19:57.760 --> 0:19:59.840 That side got stuff turning, you know what I mean? 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:01.560 Make your husband. I saw you on the pinch with 0:20:01.600 --> 0:20:03.520 the one that he was holding it plumb me on 0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:06.440 as so inside I got ship over. I know he 0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:08.600 hid it right. Well yeah, but went from being inside, 0:20:08.600 --> 0:20:10.159 I got to be in the main. Guy. Would you 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:16.040 trust a girl? No? He said no, you wouldn't because 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:17.760 sometimes you could be getting out of a situation and 0:20:17.880 --> 0:20:19.960 that's not so great. You know, you come in save 0:20:20.040 --> 0:20:22.000 the day on the type of got You're gonna lie 0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:25.159 too because you're respecting me. So that's not But she 0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:29.080 could be being honest with you, but she didn't know him. 0:20:28.720 --> 0:20:34.480 She's still a liar. But I'm sure you've lied to Yeah, 0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:40.639 I lied, But you know it's necessariizing unnecessary life if 0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:43.080 you tell an unnecessary life and don't put no kind 0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:45.119 of you know what I'm saying. If a girl like me, 0:20:45.160 --> 0:20:47.320 I like for you to think about it, you know, 0:20:47.760 --> 0:20:50.280 making a turn into a movie. So when I do 0:20:50.400 --> 0:20:52.320 find out it was lasted, what you did? Write a 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:54.480 novel just for you know what I mean? It's gonna 0:20:54.520 --> 0:20:58.000 give your effort and good the good work. But you 0:20:58.000 --> 0:21:00.679 know what I mean, you come in me with like, 0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:03.199 you know what, get out? You didn't even try to 0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:05.040 work on that? What about a girl started off as 0:21:05.040 --> 0:21:12.440 your side check? Could that becomes your main Yeah, she's 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:15.080 allowing me to do something that I wouldn't allow girl 0:21:15.080 --> 0:21:17.400 to do. I agree with that for a guy who 0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:28.320 uses the same kind of one who checks you like, 0:21:33.280 --> 0:21:35.080 but what about you? What do you think about what 0:21:35.119 --> 0:21:36.760 are the benefits of being a side check? Because we 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:38.680 always talk about this, you know, they always say that 0:21:38.960 --> 0:21:41.679 being a side check this the perks for the for 0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:43.680 the women, and that what would you say, you ain't 0:21:43.680 --> 0:21:46.960 got to deal with all the extracurricular headaches when it's 0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.600 just all about keeping it physical and keeping it moving. 0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:52.199 That's right, even like the way you said that, And 0:21:52.240 --> 0:21:54.600 it's not a side check, it's something that somebody made up. 0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:57.760 I just deal with him, right. But if he hasn't, 0:21:57.760 --> 0:22:00.520 because look, you've been the main check, right, does that 0:22:00.560 --> 0:22:03.680 make you feel differently about being a side chick? Well, 0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:06.800 I was a side chick before I was the main chick, 0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:10.320 and I believe in karma, so I just know one 0:22:10.320 --> 0:22:13.280 of these days aready, Okay, Yeah, I got that bad. 0:22:15.040 --> 0:22:17.359 You know, everything full circle will come back around. I 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:19.080 did my third so you can only expect to get 0:22:19.080 --> 0:22:28.840 it back now. I feel like I feel like, um, 0:22:29.080 --> 0:22:32.120 it depends on the time frame. Like if you deal 0:22:32.160 --> 0:22:34.959 with somebody and then a couple of years go by 0:22:35.040 --> 0:22:36.919 and you know you were the side person and then 0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:40.359 y'all are single. Now you know, I think it's okay, 0:22:40.480 --> 0:22:42.680 but you can't. You can't really trust a guy who 0:22:42.720 --> 0:22:46.639 had you as a side person. Advice persa. You know 0:22:46.680 --> 0:22:51.520 what I mean. It's a cheater like me. You didn't 0:22:52.920 --> 0:22:56.520 know I have I haven't cheated on anyone in years. Man, 0:22:56.720 --> 0:22:59.600 but they killed me for being honest about it. I'm honest. 0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:04.040 I was cheating on my father. You know I was honest. 0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:06.159 You know, my son's father and I went together for 0:23:06.200 --> 0:23:08.679 seven and a half years, and I was honest about it. 0:23:08.720 --> 0:23:10.560 You know publicly that I did cheat on him and 0:23:10.560 --> 0:23:13.960 that's why our relationship didn't work out. But people kill 0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:18.119 me for that. So cheater, I'm just owning it. A 0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:22.280 girl's would cheat. It's so dramatic. Not me. I don't 0:23:22.320 --> 0:23:29.000 care if I ain't. Women, when you cheat, always you 0:23:29.040 --> 0:23:31.960 gotta go. And I want to kill your mom, please. 0:23:32.000 --> 0:23:35.080 And I caught my son's father running around a couple 0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.040 of times, and I never left him the first time 0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:40.359 he called me cheat and it was over. That's a fact. 0:23:40.400 --> 0:23:43.480 But it's it's it's stuff been here since before we 0:23:43.520 --> 0:23:46.600 got here. But what do you take it? What have 0:23:46.720 --> 0:23:49.320 you cheated right and got caught? And a couple of 0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:51.639 times can you forgive a girl for cheating on YouTube? 0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:58.639 Because maybe she came out wasn't feeling him? You know, 0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:01.120 I mean every time we we can work it out 0:24:01.560 --> 0:24:05.120 and move on. Ten years. You know what I'm saying, 0:24:05.160 --> 0:24:10.400 you did sleep. I've been waiting to do this continue. 0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:13.240 I never forgave you anyway. Let me just let you go. 0:24:14.440 --> 0:24:16.960