1 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 1: It's that time, time, time, time, luck and load. The 2 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,159 Speaker 1: Michael Verie Show is on the air. How long to 3 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: chompulize feel Take. 4 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: A few moments to get them coordinates from the NAPA. 5 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: Traveling through hyperspace and my dust and cross boy cop 6 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 3: precise calculation, pat fly right through a star to close 7 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 3: with super and open and that an injured certain real 8 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: quick with. 9 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: I sugg how much I hate. 10 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 3: You can put this next segment into the burgeoning. 11 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: File you have in your mind. 12 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 3: Of do it today because tomorrow is not promised. Live 13 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 3: your life with purpose and intention, not just being bounced 14 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 3: around like a pinball, because it will be over before 15 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: you know it. Hug them tight while you got him. 16 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 3: I received an email from a fellow that said, years ago, 17 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 3: your show assisted us in the death of our marine son, 18 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 3: Corporal Joseph Joey Logan. I recently released a book, Fishing 19 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 3: with Joey, which details our three month cross country fishing 20 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 3: trip before Joey was deployed to Afghanistan. During the trip, 21 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 3: we covered sixteen thousand miles together. It was every father's 22 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 3: dream and little did I know that it would be 23 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 3: our last. Would your show be interested in featuring a 24 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 3: brief interview regarding the book and my experiences in becoming 25 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 3: a gold Star family member. Thank you for considering this 26 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 3: and of course for your previous assistance with our family situation. Sincerely, 27 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 3: Palm Logan, Willis, Texas. Welcome to the program. 28 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 4: Tom, Thank you very much and an honor. And you 29 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 4: wouldn't believe emotions right now, It's amazing, yep. 30 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: I would believe them. 31 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 3: I just can't understand them, and that is because I 32 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 3: haven't felt what you felt. I can only imagine, and 33 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: I suspect that what I imagine is one percent or 34 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 3: less is an exponential explosion of grief that you have 35 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 3: to have losing your son. We're not supposed to bury 36 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: our children. It's just not supposed to happen. No, it isn't, 37 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 3: but it happens, you know, war is Warren. The book 38 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 3: is called Fishing with Joey, And let's take it in 39 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 3: a timeline slowly, he's by piece. Let's talk about your son, Joey. 40 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 3: Tell me about him as a kid, when he was 41 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 3: a little fellow. 42 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 4: Joey was always that a personality. He had the opinion 43 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 4: about everything, just like his dad. And we had to 44 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 4: follow him back several times. You can imagine he was 45 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 4: actor even when he was younger. If he saw something 46 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 4: not right or wrong, or somebody's getting picked on, he 47 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 4: would step in and he got in trouble for a 48 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 4: few fights. But he was he was the He was 49 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 4: the person that people respected and they didn't mess with. 50 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 4: And that followed on through his whole life. You know, 51 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 4: even in high school. I remember one time that the 52 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 4: new kid came into school and the regular thugs were 53 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 4: picking on him, and Joyce's come here, sit with me 54 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:29,399 Speaker 4: at lunch, and they're not going to bother you again. 55 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 4: And they left him alone. So he hadn't He had 56 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 4: a presence all the time, which is great. 57 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: And how did you come to find out that he 58 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: was going to join the Marines? Was this a surprise? 59 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: Is something he had talked about? 60 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 4: No, it wasn't really surprised because just a brief story 61 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 4: of our family history, there were so many members in 62 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 4: our family that served in the military, probably on both 63 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 4: sides of the family. I mean, even going back to 64 00:03:56,480 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 4: the Civil War. My grandfather on the Italian side immigrated 65 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 4: from Italy prior to World War One. 66 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: He wanted to be. 67 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 4: A citizen so bad that he enlisted in the Army 68 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 4: and went back to France and fought into battles and 69 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: the trenches. And then after that, dads, my dads and 70 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,559 Speaker 4: uncles and his brothers and their brothers and everybody else 71 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 4: served him World War two, had uncles and relatives in Korea. 72 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 4: Mabby and I are Vietnam era veterans, and we had 73 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 4: three children involved in the golf wurs when Joey passed away. 74 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 4: Was Joey, Tommy, my oldest son, who was in the Navy, 75 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 4: and Andy, my youngest daughter, was in the Marine Corps. 76 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 4: And plus my son. 77 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: In law was in the Army. 78 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 4: And then my daughter Andy's husband was also in the 79 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:49,039 Speaker 4: Marine Corps. So we've been we've been up there on 80 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 4: the front lines quite a bit. 81 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 3: And all of those entered the Marine Corps before Joey did. 82 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 4: They were all about the same time. Tommy and Joey 83 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 4: were in a race to join the marine for army. Yeah, 84 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 4: it was. It was the wars were going on. It 85 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 4: was it was, it was active. Everything was going on 86 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 4: in Iraq and aghainstand. 87 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: And what was going to do. Sorry, I'm sorry. 88 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 4: They knew what was going on, they knew what was there. 89 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 3: You know, what was going on in his life personally 90 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 3: when he makes the decision to join the Marines. Is 91 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: he working, is he home from school? Is he figuring 92 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 3: it out? 93 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 4: He had just graduated high school. And I guess you 94 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 4: don't realize that your children listen to you and emulate 95 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 4: you their whole life, but you don't think they're paying attention. 96 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 4: But he saw what my wife and I did. We 97 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 4: you know, we we listed there the Vietnam War and 98 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 4: both of us served for the Houston Police Department. I 99 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 4: did twenty one years, twenty eight years, w twenty one years. 100 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,799 Speaker 4: So he was he was he was looking at something 101 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 4: to serve. He wanted to help, and and all of 102 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 4: a sudden he starts going to the recruiters that the 103 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 4: he depends. He decided, I'm gonna go on the Rine Corps. 104 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: All right. Tom Logan is our guest. The book is 105 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: called Fishing with Joey. 106 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 4: Where I can't believe he just said that happens to 107 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 4: Michael Arry Show. 108 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: Tom Logan is our guest. His son, Green Corporal Joey Logan. 109 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:28,799 Speaker 3: Was deployed to Afghanistan, where he died in a helicopter crash. 110 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 3: Prior to that, for three months, Tom Logan traveled across 111 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 3: the country, spending father sontime. He wrote a book about 112 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 3: what that time meant to him, called Fishing with Joey. 113 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 3: And he is our guest. Tom ray Hunt tells me 114 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 3: that many years ago y'all rode together. 115 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: Y'all were partners at HPD. 116 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, night shift on the West Side. We had 117 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 4: some rowdy timestand man, wow. 118 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 3: I said, I said, tell me some interesting things about it, 119 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: and he said, he's just a calm transplant from some 120 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 3: Yankee state. I can't recall which one. I think we 121 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 3: rode T two O G eighties beat? 122 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: Is that right? G eighties? How do you say that? 123 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 4: Yep? Yeah, yeah, twenty Georgia, yup, north end of of 124 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 4: this city up there, Yeah where west time Mari area, 125 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 4: all the way out to the city limits back then? 126 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, how about that? 127 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 3: Oh oh no, no, no, that's a different He's told 128 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 3: me about different areas that he worked over the years. 129 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 3: So you go on this trip with your son three months, 130 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 3: you know, nobody thinks to do that. What most people 131 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 3: would have said is when you get back, you'll have 132 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 3: some great stories to tell me. So when you get back, 133 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 3: let's let's take some time how did you have three months? 134 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: Had you retired by that time? 135 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? 136 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 4: I had just retired in two thousand and eight. I 137 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 4: went into work one day and it looked around he 138 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 4: had twenty eight years with HPD, and I'm like, I'm done. 139 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: You get to the point, you know, when you've had enough. 140 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: And you know, at that many years, we were settled. 141 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 4: DeBie and I had a house up here and Willis 142 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 4: and she had retired already, and the kids are getting older. 143 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, Joe was not eighteen nineteen then, 144 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 4: and I says, we lost a lot of time with 145 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 4: our kids because we worked so much. So you know, 146 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 4: you can't make it up, but you could do with them, 147 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 4: but you can't. And that's what happened with the decision 148 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 4: trip with Joe. He was the only one out of 149 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 4: five kids that really loved the outdoors like I did, 150 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 4: and we decided after he graduated from high school, I 151 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 4: was going to go fishing for the first year. I 152 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 4: told my wife. She said, well, you're a fisher, Hollis, 153 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 4: just go, but you're taking him with you. I'm like, yeah, 154 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 4: I know so. But he had herself pretty bad falling 155 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 4: out a piece of glass way prior to that, and 156 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 4: he had severed his arterytendance, nerves and everything in his hand. 157 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 4: And he called me, you know his dad, Dad, my 158 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 4: wrist is cutting, blet is square. I got my wrist, 159 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 4: I said, Joe, get your friends to put a tourniquet 160 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 4: out there and rush you to the emergency room. So 161 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 4: that was the beginning of his rehab and his journey. 162 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 4: Also because he was already pre enlisted in the Marine 163 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 4: Corps and he figured, I'm done. I'm going to be 164 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 4: a cripple my whole life. Because the wound was severe 165 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 4: or terrible. And the surgeon that put his hand back together, 166 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 4: how can there be a microsurgeon on call at four 167 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning, And so this poor kids handback together, nurves, paries, tendons, 168 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 4: ligaments and everything. And there was actually no record in 169 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 4: the books of who the surgeon was. So I look 170 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 4: at it. I look at it as an angel putting 171 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 4: that kid's hand back together and given a chance in life. 172 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 4: It was amazing. 173 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 3: I would love to find out who that hand surgeon was. 174 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 3: When would this have been and where this was. 175 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 4: See graduated high school in two thousand and eight, so it'd 176 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 4: be two thousand and eight, and it would be about 177 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 4: six months prior to us going fishing. We started fishing 178 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 4: in the May June, so that would be, uh, that 179 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 4: be timeline. 180 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 3: Hold on, so that's May June of nine. Has he 181 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: graduated because he's graduated at that point. 182 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 4: He graduated on eight. Okay, so you got to back up, 183 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 4: back up about six months, seven months prior to that, 184 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 4: so it would be beginning of the beginning of eight. 185 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: And where was the surgeon? Where was the surgery performed? 186 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 4: From my knowledge, they took them to Ben Tob and 187 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 4: from there we're we're in panic mode. I didn't couldn't 188 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 4: even tell you. I've got I've got the medical record. 189 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: So okay, well there's your answer. 190 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: You know, doctors have told me when you have a 191 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 3: severe trauma like that Ben Tobb is because they're doing 192 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,839 Speaker 3: that all night long. I mean, if you've I've been 193 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 3: down there in the middle of the night's gunshots, knife things, 194 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 3: it's it's it's rough. 195 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I worked the ben Top night shift route there. 196 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: Then you know better than I do. 197 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 3: Those guys are adrenaline junkies, and those guys, those triosh 198 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 3: guys are amazing. I mean to think, what a toll 199 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 3: that takes on you. But you know that's there. That's 200 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 3: kind of their super Bowl. They're they're good at it. 201 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:17,679 Speaker 3: They're amazing a professional reward. All right, So y'all start 202 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 3: the fishing trip. Tell me about that. 203 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 4: Well, prior to that, he had to go through rehab 204 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 4: because his hand was so messed up. So he had 205 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 4: to go to physical therapy and he had just a 206 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 4: wonderful nurse and I think he sort of fell in 207 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 4: love with her too, but that's a. 208 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: Whole nother story. 209 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 4: And it got to the point that his hand was working, 210 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 4: but it wasn't working properly. So I decided I was 211 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 4: going to go fishing anyway, and Debbie and I decided 212 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 4: he's going to go. So I told him, get your 213 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 4: fishing rod, get your fly rod, get out in the backyard. 214 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 4: Let me see you cast it. And he was whining 215 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 4: about it. I'm like, I don't think I can't. I'm 216 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 4: gonna do it. You know, I don't play with my kids. 217 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 4: They get their hardcore. And he started doing it. He 218 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 4: started doing it. I said, okay, we're going load the 219 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 4: truck with everything he got and fishing, camping gear, Coleman stoves, 220 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 4: you know, all the fly rods and spinning rods and 221 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 4: everything you could imagine to go on a fishing trip. 222 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 4: But he had no idea that we're going to stay 223 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 4: gone from god Juneto. We got back mid October. It 224 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 4: was almost four months by the time we got back, 225 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 4: and the first thing he says, where are we going 226 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 4: to go? Arkansas? I'm like, we're going to start there. 227 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 4: So we used to fight fish the White River in 228 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 4: Arkansas for trout and it was, you know, an amazing 229 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 4: place to fish because anybody can catch a fish there. 230 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 4: And that's how we started. And I had the whole 231 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 4: route planned out a year ahead of time for myself 232 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 4: with the trout magazines of Fishing magazine, so I had 233 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 4: got the all the you know it itinerary to go 234 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 4: and I highlighted every place we're going to go. And 235 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 4: then while we were on our way, we loaded the 236 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 4: truck and left and Debbie waved goodbye to see you 237 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 4: guys later. And I don't think she knew how long 238 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 4: we're gonna stay gone. 239 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 1: So tell me about that trip. 240 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 4: Well, it's like I said, it started in Arkansas and 241 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 4: we fished nine states, most of them west of the Mississippi. 242 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:15,119 Speaker 4: There was Arkansas, Naturally, Missouri, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Colorado, Night, Arizona, 243 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 4: I'm not done yet, Arizona, Wyoming, British Columbia, and Saskatchewan. 244 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: And we drove. 245 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 4: I drove most of the time of sixteen thousand miles. 246 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 4: Are you familiar with the Lewis and Clark expedition? 247 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: Of course, just do well. 248 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 4: They only traveled eight thousand miles and. 249 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: We doubled their Yeah, we doubled their. 250 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 3: Expedition, but they weren't doing it at eighty miles an hour. 251 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 4: I know. 252 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: Hold on just a second. The book is called Fishing 253 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: with Joey. We're talking to a gold Star that Tom 254 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 1: Logan were. 255 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 3: Coming on the most dangerous places between Sheila Jackson Lee 256 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 3: and the camp and the Triple Crown weave is, you know, 257 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 3: tilted to the side, the leaning. 258 00:13:58,679 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 1: Tower of wea them. 259 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 3: A retired HBD All spent three months with his son 260 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 3: Joey Logan before Joey would go off to serve in Afghanistan, 261 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 3: where he was deployed as a marine. That trip would 262 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 3: be the last. He wrote a book about it after 263 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 3: his son Joey Logan died in Afghanistan and. 264 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: The book is called Fishing with Joey. You can find it. 265 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 3: Wherever you buy your books, online, bookstores, you name it. 266 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: So, Tom Logan, tell me. 267 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 3: About the day and we'll come back to the trip itself. 268 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 3: But tell me about the day that you get the 269 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 3: awful news about your son. 270 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's riveting. 271 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 4: It's all. Like I say, we were at home the 272 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 4: ten thirty at night. But prior to that, in the morning, 273 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 4: Joe had called us from Afghanistan and he says, Hey, 274 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 4: I'm coming home in twenty eight days. I'm going to 275 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 4: take a truck and do all kinds of stuff. And 276 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 4: the main thing he said he was focused on, I'm 277 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 4: going to go visit every living relative I have, from 278 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 4: grandparents to babies. And I'm like, Joe, that's impossible. You 279 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 4: can't do it in thirty days. See, I'm going to 280 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 4: do it. And the ironic thing that happened is every 281 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 4: living family member that we had at ten at his funeral. 282 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 4: How does that happen? I mean, it's impossible, But they came, came, 283 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 4: he came home, and they came home to send him 284 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 4: to heaven, you know, And you know you just talked 285 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 4: to him that morning. Hey I'm coming home I can't wait. 286 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 4: You know, we're going to go fishing again. We got 287 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 4: all kinds of stuff to do. I hope. I was 288 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 4: planning on as I got older, him taking me somewhere, 289 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 4: you know, and that was our plan and never never 290 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 4: became tuition. So we get to knock on the door 291 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 4: ten thirty at night and Debbie's looking out the window. 292 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 4: It's just there's two marines out there, and one looks 293 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 4: like Joey. I said, death. There's no way that can 294 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 4: be joe We just talked to him in Afghanistan. And 295 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 4: then the reality set him and we opened the door 296 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 4: and they, you know, they presented themselves and they presented 297 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 4: a paperwork and said Joey had been killed in the 298 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 4: helicopter crash, and everything went spiraling downhill. From there. You're 299 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 4: in disbelief. You have no clue what your mind goes 300 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 4: through and where your senses go. It was just it 301 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 4: was devastating. You know. At that time, we had three 302 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 4: kids deployed. Tommy was in the Persian golf, Andy was 303 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 4: marine course, she was flying drone somewhere, and Joey was 304 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 4: in combat find finding helicopters. So at first we didn't 305 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 4: know what happened to any of them, And then they 306 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 4: told us about joe. 307 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: What happened. 308 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 4: As far as the helicopter crash. You're saying, well, this 309 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 4: always controversy about that kind of stuff, you know. And 310 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 4: they're flying a resupply mission to a fob out in 311 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 4: the the on the desert out there, and the unit 312 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 4: that was out there was running along supplies. They had 313 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 4: didn't have hard to any food of water, and they 314 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 4: could not come back in by road because the i 315 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 4: Eds and the Taliban were really intense out there. So 316 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 4: Joey and his crew it was a second second resupply 317 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 4: that night, flew out. The second time they drop off 318 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 4: supplies to them, and it was just a random, random resupply. 319 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 4: They'd done it hundreds of times. And there were two 320 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 4: helicopters went out. They go on pairs, and I talked 321 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 4: to the other crew of the other helicopter and all 322 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 4: they said they saw a flash and then the helicopter 323 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 4: started coming out of the sky, hit the ground, exploded 324 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 4: and caught on fire. And that's that's that's the crash. 325 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 4: And we don't know if it was mechanical or enemy fire. 326 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 4: But Joey always talked about the golden bullet. It says, 327 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 4: all you need is the right bullet in the right place, 328 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,640 Speaker 4: then you've got problems mechanically. And he said that as 329 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:08,479 Speaker 4: soon as we left base, there a Camp Leather at 330 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 4: Camp Bastion. We're catching ground fire from the time we 331 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 4: flew out to the time and came back, So anything 332 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 4: could have happened. And the Marine Corps, the Department of 333 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 4: Navy sent us a redacted a report of everything. And 334 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 4: I have not read the whole thing yet because it's 335 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,719 Speaker 4: too it's too intense, because you could imagine what happens 336 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 4: when you fall from four thousand feet and hit the 337 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 4: ground and explode, catching on fire, you know, So that 338 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 4: memory is forever in my mind. It's not going to 339 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 4: go away, you know. And six good marine died that night, 340 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:41,640 Speaker 4: you know. And there was it was not just Joe, 341 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 4: It's there was you know, the pilot which is Daniel 342 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 4: Bartle and Nathan McCone was a con pilot of both captains. 343 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 4: Master Sergeant Travis Riddick, he was master sergeant, had twenty 344 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 4: years he could have retired, he went back to Afghanistan. 345 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,479 Speaker 4: Jesse Sipes was a corporal. Kevin Reinhert was a corporal 346 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 4: and Joe was a corporal and they love what they're doing. 347 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 4: Joey called me one time from Afghanistan, Dad, guess what 348 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 4: I got the greatest job in the world. I'm like, 349 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 4: tell me what. Come on? And he says, I get 350 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 4: to fly around helicopters all day and all night, shoot 351 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 4: big guns and get paid for it. I might sink, Joe, 352 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 4: just get home. It's just enough. Is enough? You've fought 353 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,439 Speaker 4: enough wars out there. In that last deployment, he was 354 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 4: the most flown observer aerial observer, which means he was 355 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 4: on a fifty cal machine gun with two other corporals 356 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 4: giving ground support to the troops on the ground. And 357 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 4: he was awarded two Airwing Medals with Strike Flight, which 358 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 4: means he flew in that deployment seven months over forty 359 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 4: two combat missions. So he was running a gun and 360 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,719 Speaker 4: that many times, and god knows how many other missions. 361 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 4: He flew resupplies and they had special ops. I've talked 362 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 4: to some Marines and MARSAC guys. Yeah, those guys were 363 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 4: flying us all over the place. So those men, those 364 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 4: Marines were really intense, dedicated individuals, called Superman. They were heroes, 365 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 4: you know. So That's that's what it was all about. 366 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 4: They they stepped forward there there was the less than 367 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 4: one percent of this country, and they said, I'm going 368 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,400 Speaker 4: to do this for our country, our flag, our nation, 369 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 4: people of population here, and I wish more people would 370 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 4: understand that, you know, and show these guys some respect 371 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 4: and honor they deserve. 372 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: Yah. 373 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And that's what I that's I think, that's 374 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 2: what the main reason for writing this book was because 375 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 2: there was a divine intervention with me because I'm not 376 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:41,880 Speaker 2: that bright. 377 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 4: I might sound like I got a brain half the time, 378 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 4: is you know, a turn off. But I started journaling 379 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 4: from the first day, writing notes and journaling and remembering 380 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 4: stuff and you know, his military experiences, the fishing trip 381 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 4: and everything else. And to some of the wonderful people 382 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 4: over the last thirteen years, they have come into our 383 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 4: lives and they still are helping, which is amazing that 384 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 4: there's so many great patriots, are so many great individuals 385 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 4: in this country that really care. And then that really 386 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 4: makes me feel good. Every day I wake up, I'm like, 387 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 4: what's the next email, who's the next phone call? I 388 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 4: call them miracles. 389 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 3: Hold on just a moment, Hold on, just a moment. 390 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 3: Tom Logan is our guest. The book is called Fishing 391 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 3: with Joey. 392 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: This is not a war story. 393 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 3: This is a story about grief and dealing with it 394 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 3: and making the most memories and will take. 395 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: It to that level coming up. 396 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 3: Joy and the girls all get pretty closing time when 397 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,880 Speaker 3: you're listening to the Michael Berry Show. 398 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: Make memories, folks, and you still can. You just don't know. 399 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: We're not promised tomorrow. 400 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 3: HPD officer Tom Logan had retired after twenty eight years 401 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 3: on the department. His wife twenty one retired to Willis, Texas. 402 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 3: His son, Joseph Joey Logan had just graduated in Willis, 403 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 3: Texas and signed up. 404 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 1: For the Marines. 405 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 3: He's headed off his dad and he go on a 406 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 3: three month cross country fishing trip across multiple states and countries, 407 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:25,479 Speaker 3: and they made memories. His son would pass in a 408 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 3: helicopter crash in Afghanistan, and he began journaling about those 409 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 3: what he called divine coincidences to deal with his grief, 410 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 3: and out of that came the book Fishing with Joey. 411 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 3: You can find it on Amazon or at any bookstore 412 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 3: or wherever else you buy your books. 413 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: Is there a website for this. 414 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 4: Book, Tom, Yeah, it's on Amazon. You see quick on 415 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 4: it and you just put in fishing for Joey and 416 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 4: it comes up for sale there in Amazon. I like 417 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 4: to say something about Amazon too. The book is in 418 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 4: the pretty much religious spiritual Christian book and Death and 419 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 4: Death and Grief this category and right now is sitting 420 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 4: at number one as far as Amazon, and it's rated 421 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 4: at five stars. So I was, that's good, right, that 422 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 4: is amazing and nothing. It's a five star in this world, buddy, 423 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 4: it's always four and three eighths or whatever else or 424 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 4: a two. 425 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 3: You are you are a five star gold star Dad. 426 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: I think it's fantastic that out of this grief you 427 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 3: managed to channel that into something that can help other people. 428 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 3: And and that's a very selfless act. Hard, I think 429 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 3: for some people to realize that. But I know you 430 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: know that as as a law enforcement officer from a 431 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 3: family of service. I read that you're that you created 432 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 3: a Montana Mountain retreat out of this. Tell me about that. 433 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 4: Oh that was that's that's another miracle. I mean, Joey 434 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 4: and I fished so many places and after we came 435 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 4: out of British Columbia, we dropped down into Montana and 436 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 4: Libby Montana, and that's when I think he fell in 437 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 4: love with Montana and he just talked about it, talked 438 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 4: about a matter of fact, Daniel Borrow, the pilot, was 439 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 4: from Montana, so I think they both had conversations about 440 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 4: Montana while they're flying and hanging out together. So Joey's 441 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 4: last phone call home that morning I was telling you 442 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 4: about earlier was all about buying property in Montana, building 443 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 4: cabins for his Marine Corps buds to come back and 444 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 4: just decompress and relax and enjoy the enjoy the wilderness. 445 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 4: And then you know, that night, we got the call 446 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 4: and Debbie, my wife, said we need to do this 447 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 4: for Joey. That's his legacy. I'm like, Dad, it's really 448 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 4: hard for me to go back and retrace all those 449 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 4: places and all the memories were well up, and she said, oh, 450 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 4: we're doing it. So we ended up getting into We 451 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 4: went in a Toyota Corolla and drove all the way 452 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 4: back to Montana, talked to a couple of real estate 453 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 4: agents and we finally found this beautiful piece of Montana wilderness, 454 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 4: one hundred and sixty five acres four miles up on 455 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 4: a mountain road in the middle of Lolo National Forest 456 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,360 Speaker 4: and Lolo National Force. Surrounding our property is three thousand, 457 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 4: one hundred and fifty square miles of Montana Idaho wilderness. 458 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 4: So's it's it's unbelievable that that happened. There's no there's 459 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 4: no possible way unless the hand of God just guided 460 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 4: is right to the place. And from there, we started 461 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 4: building six cabins and one in honor of each of 462 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,919 Speaker 4: our fallen marines, and we've got five out of six 463 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 4: up and running. We've got one more to put up, 464 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 4: and our goal is to get our combat veterans and 465 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 4: disabled veterans up there and let them enjoy what Joey 466 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 4: and I enjoyed and what we love and beautifuls off 467 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 4: the grid. A lot of times there's no cell phone 468 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,959 Speaker 4: or internet reception, so you've got to enjoy your surroundings. 469 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,919 Speaker 4: You can't be on the phone round the laptop, you know, 470 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,880 Speaker 4: connecting with the real world. And that's what it's all about. 471 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 4: Disconnect and relax and look at the stars at night, 472 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 4: look at the wilderness, go on a height. The Clark 473 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 4: Fork River is right down the mountain below us, and 474 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 4: there's fishing there kayaking, canoeing, all kinds outdoor activity. So 475 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 4: if you love the outdoors, it's a perfect place to 476 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 4: bring yourself, your fellow Marines, soldiers, Navy, and your families 477 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 4: because we want to have a family orient because when 478 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 4: guys come back from the deployment, they're disconnected. They never 479 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 4: leave the war, and their families suffer. Their kids suffer, 480 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 4: their wife suffer. People don't understand the PTSD and everything 481 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 4: else that is wrapped up in their minds, plus the 482 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,440 Speaker 4: physical physical injuries. It's a really hard road to tow. 483 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 4: Matter of fact, I'm going to a PTSD meeting every 484 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 4: Tuesday at the Messodist Church in the Woodlands strictly for 485 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:58,440 Speaker 4: combat PTSD veterans, and I guess I got grief. Grief 486 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 4: and PTSD tomet same things because all we do is 487 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 4: think about what happened. It's hard, it's hard to hard 488 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 4: to process. So that's why we're up there in Montana 489 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 4: and we do it seasonally from end of May until 490 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 4: October before the snow starts hitting again. That we're back 491 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 4: to Texas working and stuff. 492 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 2: Here. 493 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 3: I'm involved with a group called the PTSD Foundation of 494 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 3: America and residential facility called Camp Hope. 495 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 4: And that's yeah, that's that's where these guys come from. 496 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 4: Camp Hope. Yeah, And I'm gonna I'm gonna go probably 497 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 4: hopefully this week or actually do a tour with them 498 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 4: and talk to their management up there and see if 499 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 4: they can figure out how to send a group of 500 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 4: guys up there. 501 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 3: Just a just a that's what I think. That's what 502 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 3: I was thinking. What a neat deal. One hundred and 503 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 3: sixty four acres next to the Lolo National Forest in 504 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 3: Montana and soon to be six cabins five so far. 505 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 3: That's uh, you know that that is really that's incredible. 506 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 3: That y'all have been able to pull that off is incredible. 507 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:15,159 Speaker 3: Two police officers and able to make this a reality. 508 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 1: Is man, It's just. 509 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 3: It's it really is amazing. 510 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 1: I have about a minute left. 511 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 3: Why don't you share with us how you deal with 512 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 3: what has to be crippling. 513 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 1: Grief? Have you learned some things that you can share 514 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: on that? 515 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that I think that's the basic reason for 516 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 4: the book. I want to share what I do and 517 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 4: with other gold Star families all over the country, all 518 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 4: over the world, and it's finding something positive every day, 519 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 4: something that makes you happy. Relive the good memories and 520 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 4: bad memories will always be there. But take it upon 521 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 4: yourself to enjoy every minute of your life. Enjoy your family, 522 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 4: your children, and the people that surround you that are 523 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 4: good people, and make it a celebration of their lives. 524 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 4: And that's that's what it's all about, as far as 525 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 4: I'm concerned, And every every day I get up, I've 526 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 4: got so many hobbies with the outdoors and hunting and 527 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 4: fishing and stuff like that. And I was working with 528 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 4: Healing Water for a while, helping them build fly rods 529 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 4: or disabled vets and fishing and stuff like that. So 530 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 4: I always get involved with a like minded group and 531 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 4: people that they love their kids as much as we 532 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 4: love ours. 533 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 3: Thank you for telling your story. Thank you for your 534 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 3: family service. The book is called Fishing with Joey