Speaker 1: Second d D. We've all been out on a date
Speaker 1: and had one of those dreaded awkward moments happen. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe food gets stuck in your teeth, or
Speaker 1: you call them by the wrong names, or you're going
Speaker 1: for a kiss and miss so badly you end up
Speaker 1: tonguing their eyeball. Yeah that was still opening. Okay, But
Speaker 1: what do you do if you have multiple awkward moments
Speaker 1: on a first date and all of them are your fault? Oh?
Speaker 1: You quit, you give up, white flag surrender, you just leave.
Speaker 1: Maybe before you start waving the white flag, you can
Speaker 1: email us for a little bit of help. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: also awkward. Yeah, that's what one of our listeners, Tracy
Speaker 1: did after she went out on a questionable first date,
Speaker 1: and she's hoping to get a little bit of redemption
Speaker 1: with the second date. Update. Hey, Tracy, how you doing that?
Speaker 1: How are you? Okay? All right? Tell us about the
Speaker 1: guy that you went out with. What was his name? Okay?
Speaker 1: I actually met him on a dating app. His name
Speaker 1: is Hundy. That name just like Unrich. So my friends
Speaker 1: think about that real name? Do you know? I think so?
Speaker 1: I mean that's what he introduced him. Ask what do
Speaker 1: you guys do. So we're both not daters for whatever reason.
Speaker 1: We just don't date a lot, okay, And that's basically
Speaker 1: what we bonded over. But then he ended up in
Speaker 1: betting out to a really nice fresh turant man. I
Speaker 1: don't know, you shouldn't go to these dating apps and
Speaker 1: you're like, wow, is this person really going to look
Speaker 1: like what his pictures are or what am I gonna get?
Speaker 1: But he was indeed exactly what his picture had revealed.
Speaker 1: And he's dressed very nicely. He's very handful, did you
Speaker 1: I mean, he's handsome, he connected with you. Did you
Speaker 1: believe him that he doesn't date a lot? Because like
Speaker 1: I always feel like that's when somebody says like I
Speaker 1: don't ever do this when you know that they do
Speaker 1: it all the time, you know, Yeah, which is fine
Speaker 1: if he dates a lot, but it's just not cool
Speaker 1: if he was lying about it, you know. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: it felt genuine because it wasn't like he was talking
Speaker 1: to me. It was just very like a comfortable, friendly conversation,
Speaker 1: right all right, But okay, I mean, oh you're asking,
Speaker 1: you know, what are some awkward things that happened? And
Speaker 1: like right off the bat, the hostess and I had
Speaker 1: near identical out but dress as you down to the
Speaker 1: name tag on the outfit. Oh you know, basically like
Speaker 1: we looked so similar. I could have been hostess, right,
Speaker 1: so we're just joking her out. Okay, I'm sorry, but
Speaker 1: that's cute. Like I think when couples dress alike, it
Speaker 1: wasn't a couple, it was the hostess in her were
Speaker 1: dressed alike. Now that's embarrassing. Yeah, match the hostess and
Speaker 1: not the chef. Yeah, there's a little bit of wiggle
Speaker 1: room in there. So that was just the first bad
Speaker 1: thing that happened. What else, right, So, just to like
Speaker 1: preface everything, I'm a clumsy person. I've always been that way.
Speaker 1: I don't try to be clumsy. I don't put much
Speaker 1: effort to not be comb the eye just the way hey, um,
Speaker 1: which is something that you know, romantic comedies always make
Speaker 1: it seem like that's a good thing to be on
Speaker 1: a date, right, Yeah, I mean, but it's like allergies
Speaker 1: was like one day I'm good, the other day I'm bad.
Speaker 1: And that night was like a bad night. So when
Speaker 1: we first sat down, I tried to squeeze lemon in
Speaker 1: my water and like got shot right into my eye now,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well that's beautiful. You know, Lucy hadn't
Speaker 1: scored into his eye, so like, okay, you know, lasted
Speaker 1: it off, no big deal. But then as the night
Speaker 1: went on, like I went to go reach for my napkin,
Speaker 1: and I don't know what happened, like if the napkin
Speaker 1: was placed too close to the candle when my elbow
Speaker 1: hit it, I don't know. See the way I knocked
Speaker 1: a candle over into the table and it's hard to
Speaker 1: like set the tablecloth on fire. And I used to
Speaker 1: find out a restaurant where we had real candles and
Speaker 1: you would always try to put them out far away.
Speaker 1: Now I'm picturing her throwing like her alcohol on it
Speaker 1: and it explodes. Until honestly, this sounds like a slapstick routine.
Speaker 1: Was he what was his attitude towards this? Was he
Speaker 1: helping you? Was he laughing about it? Yeah? He helped
Speaker 1: me with the candle right away, and we laughed a
Speaker 1: little bit. But then you can count start to get
Speaker 1: progressively awkward because things continued to happen right and it
Speaker 1: was like all mess, what else could have happened? So,
Speaker 1: like I told you, I was wearing the same outfit.
Speaker 1: I sis, it was a long dress and I had
Speaker 1: to go use the restaroom. So I stood up and
Speaker 1: walked away from the chair, and I didn't realize, like
Speaker 1: the bottom of my dress was hot on the bottom
Speaker 1: of the chair and outso a chair which is metal,
Speaker 1: and it just tore my dress like halfway up my left. Yeah,
Speaker 1: your dress just got sexual. Alexis would call that fashion.
Speaker 1: I came with it like that, so embarrassing and so loud,
Speaker 1: like the whole thing, Oh my goodness. And he didn't
Speaker 1: know what to do, so he just politely passed through
Speaker 1: my jacket that I had on and I just tied
Speaker 1: it around my waist. Oh no, at this point, did
Speaker 1: you call it quits or did you keep going on
Speaker 1: with the day. Yeah, this is getting close to the
Speaker 1: white flag, I know. But then I had to like
Speaker 1: continue to go to the bathroom. They still had to
Speaker 1: use the bathroom, right, So then I tripped on like
Speaker 1: the sleeve that I had tied around my waist. Did
Speaker 1: you fall? I fell? Oh oh, in the middle of
Speaker 1: the restaurant, right, And so I was like, great, now
Speaker 1: you probably think something drunk or something. Well, and it's
Speaker 1: like like you said, this guy doesn't date very much,
Speaker 1: and then he goes out on one day and like
Speaker 1: he obviously probably doesn't like attention, and everyone in the
Speaker 1: restaurant is staring at you. Guys. I mean, they always
Speaker 1: talk about the moment on the first day when you
Speaker 1: just knew it was right. They never talked about the
Speaker 1: moment when you just knew it probably sements that happened.
Speaker 1: We need to put you in like a safety bubble. Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: So how did this end? After the date wrapped up,
Speaker 1: We gave each other hogs said goodbye. We texted a
Speaker 1: little bit, but like really not much. And I don't know,
Speaker 1: like I had a great time to fight all of
Speaker 1: the all the hiccups, and I'm just embarrassed that I
Speaker 1: was so swoppy that night for no apparent reason, and
Speaker 1: you weren't even drunk. Yeah, I've never Well, let's play
Speaker 1: a song. We're gonna come back in the meantime. Do
Speaker 1: not move, don't put your phone down, just keep your
Speaker 1: hands up in the air, and then when we get back,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call Hundy for you and try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date. Update. Okay, if you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in for the second date update. We're on the phone
Speaker 1: with Tracy. She recently went out to a nice restaurant
Speaker 1: with a guy named Hundy. And this is rare, but
Speaker 1: we actually have audio from their first date. Let's listen.
Speaker 1: So overall, a pretty good date. Yea, that actually summed
Speaker 1: it up really well. Yeah, many mistakes were made, but
Speaker 1: if you didn't hear it. Tracy showed up wearing the
Speaker 1: same dress as the hostess. She accidentally squirted some lemon
Speaker 1: juice into her own eye, knocked over a candle and
Speaker 1: set the table on fire, tore her dress on the
Speaker 1: foot of a chair, and then tripped over her own jacket.
Speaker 1: But she says she's always been kind of a clumsy person,
Speaker 1: but this date was just the culmination of everything, like
Speaker 1: next year, Like then, she tried to say. I mean, Tracy,
Speaker 1: do you feel like it's the universe telling you that
Speaker 1: you shouldn't date this dude? Oh my gosh, I hope not.
Speaker 1: I mean, I really did enjoy having conversation with him.
Speaker 1: I really heard my time with him to sit my
Speaker 1: Devin clumpy pitfalls, huh. And some guys, you know, they
Speaker 1: like a little bit of punishment when they date a woman.
Speaker 1: Isn't that right? What, I'm a lovely partner, Thank you
Speaker 1: very much. I'm just saying, okay, Tracy, you're ready to
Speaker 1: call Hundy, and I want to say see what the
Speaker 1: problem is, see if we can get another shot. I'm
Speaker 1: glad we're calling because I feel like the phone will
Speaker 1: blow up. Yeah. Yeah, you're ready to do this? Yeah? Please? Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go and down the number right now. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm looking to speak with Hundy. My name's Jeffrey from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do
Speaker 1: you have a second to talk with us? I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: from a radio show, morning radio show. The right number. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: we do, or at least I think we do. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Are there's multiple Hundies in the world. Yeah. Sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm a little bit thrown off. I don't understand
Speaker 1: why radio station is calling me. Yeah. Well, we're doing
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards,
Speaker 1: if that person isn't calling you back, you can email
Speaker 1: our show and we'll call them for you to try
Speaker 1: and figure out the reason why. Um okay, yeah, and
Speaker 1: so the reason why we have your number is because
Speaker 1: it was given to us by a girl named Tracy. Jesus.
Speaker 1: Um no, not Jesus, it was Tracy. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know about this. I'd rather just not do this. Please,
Speaker 1: Are you not? Are you you're not interested in Tracy?
Speaker 1: You mean? Or you don't? You just don't want to
Speaker 1: be on the radio. I mean, listen, like if she
Speaker 1: don't want to go on a date with a loser,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know why we're doing this. You know,
Speaker 1: she didn't have to make a big show about it.
Speaker 1: Me down, hold, let you down. This isn't about calling
Speaker 1: out losers or anything. She had a really good time
Speaker 1: with you when she went out to the restaurant. So
Speaker 1: she told you about the whole date, like all the
Speaker 1: things that happened on the date. Yeah, oh my god,
Speaker 1: she's so embarrassed. Yeah, train Brow, I'm sorry. I'm really confused.
Speaker 1: She admits that she is a little bit clumsy, and
Speaker 1: she feels really bad about how the night went. To me,
Speaker 1: it's very obvious that she faked all of that stuff
Speaker 1: to get out of the date. It's clearly an excuse. Right. Wait,
Speaker 1: you think that that was all like made up? Like
Speaker 1: she squirted lemon into her own eye and ripped her
Speaker 1: own dress and fell and embarrassed herself in front of
Speaker 1: her restaurant on purpose. Listen, there's no logical way anyone
Speaker 1: is that at clumsy? No way, there's way easier ways
Speaker 1: to get out of dates. Yeah, that's a public humiliation. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't understand why she reached out to you guys.
Speaker 1: I mean just thinking about it, like like a cartoon character.
Speaker 1: I mean, no one is here. Why would you think
Speaker 1: that she would want to get out of the date
Speaker 1: that badly? I don't know. I mean, maybe she just
Speaker 1: wasn't into it. People have the reasons. I just felt
Speaker 1: like it was obnoxious, and for me, it seems very
Speaker 1: fake and obvious that she wasn't feeling it. I mean,
Speaker 1: come on, all the things happened back. Don't think she
Speaker 1: told us that she's just a clumsy person and these
Speaker 1: sort of things happen. But you know, I know it
Speaker 1: probably doesn't mean like anything coming from us. Maybe it
Speaker 1: would mean more coming directly from her, because I need
Speaker 1: to tell you she's been on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and she wants to talk to you. Oh he's got
Speaker 1: to be kidding me, right now? Oh, they to me,
Speaker 1: why are you doing this, Tim Tracy, Oh gosh, listen,
Speaker 1: it was none of that was an act or done intentionally.
Speaker 1: Once I started cheering up, it just kept happening, and
Speaker 1: I just didn't know what to dare, So I just
Speaker 1: I don't know. I tried to brush it off as
Speaker 1: it wasn't a big deal, but I'm sorry I didn't.
Speaker 1: I don't know, do you still think that I don't listen? Like,
Speaker 1: I know, you know people there are people out there
Speaker 1: who have like but her fingers, and it definitely happened
Speaker 1: for the best of us. But like the candle is lemon,
Speaker 1: Like it's really hard for me to believe, Like, and
Speaker 1: you seriously trip to your jacket have to be tied
Speaker 1: or your ways, how is that even possible? Like I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to do here, I'm just saying I was
Speaker 1: trying not to trip on the dress that was torn,
Speaker 1: and then I didn't over look like the sweed, and
Speaker 1: then I, I don't know, I'm kind of used to
Speaker 1: it because since it's just the way I am. So wait, honey, Hondy,
Speaker 1: she called us to like get you back on the phone,
Speaker 1: like she obviously didn't want to end the day she
Speaker 1: was enjoying herself. If she wasn't exactly, that's for our Hell,
Speaker 1: why would she contact a radio station if she was
Speaker 1: just faking it? That's true? No, I mean yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: of course that makes sense. But up until this point,
Speaker 1: I thought it was one hundred percent true that she
Speaker 1: was faking it to get out of seeing me again. Actually, yeah,
Speaker 1: thin his perspective totally. But like you've heard of Murphy's law,
Speaker 1: everything that can go wrong will, and maybe they'll they
Speaker 1: should change it to Tracy's law. What are you thinking that, Tracy?
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, it did seem like it was an
Speaker 1: act out of like Seinfield. It was ridiculous, but I
Speaker 1: was embarrassed, and I just hope it didn't blow a
Speaker 1: chance at us getting to know each other and maybe
Speaker 1: can see her maybe without Campbell. Yeah, oh, wear pants
Speaker 1: and out of dress. Like I don't know, these are
Speaker 1: all good options for you, Tracy. I like it you're
Speaker 1: learning from this experience now that you know that you
Speaker 1: know it wasn't intentional. This is genuinely how she is.
Speaker 1: Would you be willing to give her another shot and
Speaker 1: go on a second date with her? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it. I mean, she seems like a really sweet
Speaker 1: person and just has a little bit of a bad
Speaker 1: luck street. It's probably funny to watch her fall. I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: how can you say no? Yeah, I think I'd go
Speaker 1: back out just because you know, she went through all
Speaker 1: the trouble of calling you guys and getting in touch
Speaker 1: with me. It seems, you know, it's very obvious that
Speaker 1: she's interested, and so yeah, yeah, I'll do it definitely.
Speaker 1: So yes, there you go, Tracy. Thank you for I
Speaker 1: heard something pop? Did something pop out of its socket? No,
Speaker 1: I'm fine. I didn't fall off a chair or anything.
Speaker 1: I will say, Hundy, if you guys end up getting married,
Speaker 1: definitely take out a life insurance called Day on her
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,