Speaker 1: I Suck At Dating with Haven Radio Podcast. Hello and
Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Help I Suck At Dating.
Speaker 1: I'm Jared Haven, joined as always by Dean Englert, and
Speaker 1: today we are joined by fashion designer and current Real
Speaker 1: Housewife of New York City. It is Leah McSweeney. Hi Leah, Hi, Jared,
Speaker 1: Hi Deen? Hi? How are you? I gotta tell you, guys,
Speaker 1: I didn't get into Bachelor Bachelorette shows until this year,
Speaker 1: and now I'm so obsessed it's insane. Are you going
Speaker 1: back and watching old seasons? I'm yeah, of course, because
Speaker 1: I just started watching this year, So now I'm watching
Speaker 1: all the old seasons and I honestly became super obsessed
Speaker 1: with with your story, Jared, and like how you're actually
Speaker 1: knew that you were the one, Like I can't believe
Speaker 1: that it had a happy ending. I'm like, I believe
Speaker 1: in love now and like women's into you know, like,
Speaker 1: don't ever call us like bitches because we know what
Speaker 1: we want and we know when she is like supposed
Speaker 1: to happen. Yeah, I obviously couldn't agree more so, Uh,
Speaker 1: I think Eastern do we even need an intro? I
Speaker 1: think hopefully that that should all be on the podcast
Speaker 1: that was so good. All right, great, so we're we're
Speaker 1: we're recording right here. Welcome to help I suck a dating? Uh.
Speaker 1: Piper James back co hosting Dean myself, and we have
Speaker 1: an incredible guest from the Real Housewives of New York City.
Speaker 1: We have Leah McSweeney or Lee McSweeney. How are you, Leah?
Speaker 1: It's les also know it's fine. I'm also fanning out
Speaker 1: that Piper's here. Oh my god, I'm fanning out that
Speaker 1: you're here exiting. Um, hey, guys, I'm I'm also here too,
Speaker 1: just in case anyone forgot I'm here. I'm here too.
Speaker 1: Do you ever get like I want to? I want
Speaker 1: to explain why misspronounced your first name because I know
Speaker 1: it's Leah. And do you ever have like I'm sure
Speaker 1: people can relate when you're a little nervous and you
Speaker 1: go to say something and you know how to pronounce it,
Speaker 1: but you second guess yourself and so you go with
Speaker 1: option B even though you know it's wrong, but you're
Speaker 1: just like, you just make a wrong decision anyway, because
Speaker 1: I'm I'm literally reading it and it's Leah McSweeney, and
Speaker 1: I go I what I do is I get nervous
Speaker 1: when I have to introduce to people that I know
Speaker 1: and like I know their names, but I'm thinking I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get up somehow. So I'm just like, here, we
Speaker 1: meet each other, and I don't like introduce them properly.
Speaker 1: It's really stupid. Uh well, Leah, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for joining us and help I start at dating. As
Speaker 1: everybody was listening, you've recently become a Bachelor fan, which
Speaker 1: is awesome. So what what made you get into Bachelor?
Speaker 1: What was the first season. I don't I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think what the first one that I watched where I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I can't believe I haven't
Speaker 1: been watching this all along. So I think it was
Speaker 1: the most recent was Clayton, and the one before that
Speaker 1: was Matt James. I didn't. I haven't seen that James.
Speaker 1: So I think what I did is I watched an
Speaker 1: old one. I think I might have watched the one
Speaker 1: with like I want to I can't remember names that well.
Speaker 1: It might have been Katie or like, okay, yeah Katie, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know Katie. She she was she was maybe like
Speaker 1: two years ago or three years ago or something like that. Right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right. Yeah, that's right. So you're pretty recent, which
Speaker 1: is pretty good exactly. So then I just started catching
Speaker 1: up and then Bachelor and Parrot Dice, like I'm like, wow,
Speaker 1: I'm so invested that it's like crazy. Um, it's funny
Speaker 1: because Kaylin is incredibly obsessed with Real Housewives. I don't
Speaker 1: know if she's seen the New York when I'm sure
Speaker 1: she has. She's in my understanding she's seen them all,
Speaker 1: uh and all. Honestly, she should probably be here right now.
Speaker 1: With said that way, you could pick your brain a
Speaker 1: little bit. But why did you even want to pick
Speaker 1: up watching Bachelor? You were just like bored one day
Speaker 1: and turned it on or what? Yeah, Like I don't
Speaker 1: I don't even know. Like it was a divine intervention,
Speaker 1: like God was like you must watch the show. It
Speaker 1: was like something deep in my soul was like trying
Speaker 1: to show out, like I just had no more shows
Speaker 1: to watch. And then I was just so happy. I
Speaker 1: was so happy that I found something that was just
Speaker 1: so awesome and dramatic and just like wow, yeah, just
Speaker 1: really intense. Do you watch reality TV? Yeah? I do,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. I do watch reality TV, But I
Speaker 1: never got into it, and I had friends like straight
Speaker 1: dudes and like all different people that were just obsessed,
Speaker 1: like people that I would never think would even watch
Speaker 1: reality TV. Loves it, but I'm like into really like
Speaker 1: really trash trash, like I love like I love that
Speaker 1: after lock Up is like one of my favorite yes,
Speaker 1: like crackheads, Like it's it's insane, it's insane. Um. But
Speaker 1: but what I love about The Bachelor and the Bachelorette,
Speaker 1: it's just like people are so open and putting themselves
Speaker 1: out there, and it's like I can't even imagine. Like
Speaker 1: I was just watching another season now, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: remember the girl's name. I just started watching it, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, if I owe her name
Speaker 1: is Andy. And oh, so you're getting introduced to our
Speaker 1: good friend Nick Vile. Yeah, oh my god, wait Nick
Speaker 1: hold on, isn't Pilot Pete also in that one? Or
Speaker 1: doing him in there? He comes later on? Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: like years down the road, confusing? Okay, so Nick, Yeah,
Speaker 1: But like the thing is, I mean I think about myself, like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what if I was a bachelorette. I'm
Speaker 1: so jaded with dating, Like every guy that came by
Speaker 1: I would be like nope, like he's a dickhead, Like
Speaker 1: people are so open and trusting. Well yeah, to show, yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta have something like throw yourself out there and
Speaker 1: be like because if yeah, as Piper said, if you don't,
Speaker 1: then you're you're going to be eliminated, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Because the Bachelor of the Bachelor, it doesn't
Speaker 1: have time for a production, doesn't have time for that.
Speaker 1: It's like, if you don't open up, then you're just
Speaker 1: gonna be like, Okay, well this isn't gonna work out
Speaker 1: for us. Where you could open up like Clayton and
Speaker 1: fall in love with three women, I mean, why not.
Speaker 1: He's dating thirty to start off with three, you know, honestly,
Speaker 1: so he only fell in love with what is that
Speaker 1: ten percent of the women? That's not so bad? So bad? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I gotta ask. So, as a reality TV fan, how
Speaker 1: did you stumble into being on Real Housewives of New
Speaker 1: York Right? Yes? So I um. I was actually casted
Speaker 1: through a woman who has already been on the show,
Speaker 1: Bethany Frankel. She followed me on Instagram, so I was
Speaker 1: somehow on her radar and at the end of the
Speaker 1: season they always asked the women, like, give us names
Speaker 1: of people you know, and even though we didn't personally
Speaker 1: know each other, she just randomly gave them my name. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like a really weird wild card for casting
Speaker 1: because I was is like a lot younger than all
Speaker 1: the women, like by like twenty to thirty years younger
Speaker 1: than all of them. Not from the Upper East like
Speaker 1: not do not hang out on the Upper East Side,
Speaker 1: not really my vibe, just like totally different. I really
Speaker 1: didn't think that I was gonna end up on it.
Speaker 1: I had no idea like how it was gonna work either.
Speaker 1: Once I got cast I'm like, how am I gonna
Speaker 1: do this? You obviously figured it out pretty well, pretty easily.
Speaker 1: I figured it out. Yeah, I mean that's just life,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like anytime someone
Speaker 1: gets because it is getting a new job, you know,
Speaker 1: being casted on the show, and I feel like so
Speaker 1: many people like whenever they apply for jobs, I've done
Speaker 1: it myself. And then you know, you really like you
Speaker 1: don't fake your resume, but you really build it up,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And then like you get
Speaker 1: the job and you're like, oh, what do I do now?
Speaker 1: And then you just figure it out. Yeah, that's so true. Um,
Speaker 1: even in my casting, like when they were doing my
Speaker 1: tape or whatever, I said I was anti socialite, and
Speaker 1: I was like, once I that I'm antisocialite, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: they're never gonna pick me, likethesis. But that's because I
Speaker 1: went to school on the Upperast Side and like was
Speaker 1: from like downtown, and I just like I didn't like
Speaker 1: that like scene, you know, So I basically was going
Speaker 1: back into my like early adolescence all over again, like
Speaker 1: at age thirty seven or however old. I was thirty
Speaker 1: eight when I did it. Lee. I see here in
Speaker 1: my notes too that you stayed sober the whole time
Speaker 1: on the show, which I'm sure you were an anomaly
Speaker 1: in that case. I you know, I haven't seen much
Speaker 1: of the Real House Lives show, but it seems like
Speaker 1: they're always like out of you, Like you're saying, like
Speaker 1: socialite socializing and drinking and stuff. Was that like a
Speaker 1: weird thing for you two? Not weird, but like was
Speaker 1: it challenging? I guess so, like I actually had I
Speaker 1: hadn't like drank in like nine years. I was sober
Speaker 1: and then before I even knew that I was going
Speaker 1: to be on the know, I started drinking because like
Speaker 1: it had been so long, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: think I can, like you know, I'm in a different
Speaker 1: place in my life. And then it was like boom,
Speaker 1: You're gonna be on the show. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: better stop because I know how I am when I
Speaker 1: get drunk, you know. But I didn't stop. So for
Speaker 1: the first season I drank, and then the second season
Speaker 1: I didn't drink, and I still haven't had a drink,
Speaker 1: thank god. But the second season was it hard to
Speaker 1: not drink? You don't. I think I had so much
Speaker 1: like reference from not drinking for almost a decade that
Speaker 1: it was kind of easy for me to get back,
Speaker 1: you know, like getting back on a bike kind of thing, luckily,
Speaker 1: because it's obviously very hard to stop drinking. Well, yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: In your book Chaos there you talk about getting sober,
Speaker 1: and I think for a lot of people out there,
Speaker 1: when getting sober, they can't go back because their addiction
Speaker 1: is so bad where it's like I if I have
Speaker 1: a sip of a drink, it's all going downhill. So
Speaker 1: when you started drinking again and then you were able
Speaker 1: to stop again, was that stopping the second time, or
Speaker 1: saying like I'm not gonna have a drink, And was
Speaker 1: that more difficult than the first time or No, it
Speaker 1: was a totally different experience because I think the first time,
Speaker 1: I was like in such a desperate, like pressed, dark place,
Speaker 1: and it really came from like I actually had a
Speaker 1: death premonition and that's like when I stopped drinking. And
Speaker 1: then this second time around, it was more like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm about to be a public figure. I'm about to
Speaker 1: like you know, there's a there's a pandemic. Um, I'm
Speaker 1: stuck in a house with like my ex and my
Speaker 1: kid and my sister and her kid, and I can't
Speaker 1: stop drinking, like I actually have to. I didn't really
Speaker 1: want to stop, but I was like I'm making a
Speaker 1: good decision by stopping and luckily, but it was all
Speaker 1: but my drinking had gotten bad. Like it was like
Speaker 1: I was drinking and like once I drink, I want
Speaker 1: to like push up my nose and like that was happening,
Speaker 1: and I mean that's just what happens, you know, And
Speaker 1: like I was like I can't go back to that.
Speaker 1: That's what I was doing in my past life, Like
Speaker 1: I can't and go do that again, Like I don't
Speaker 1: want to be like a story in the New York Post,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I go there in
Speaker 1: my head like god forbid, Like you think you're like
Speaker 1: doing a little having a little party favor and it's
Speaker 1: spent at all. I mean, I don't know, it's just
Speaker 1: like it was just it was it was gonna get
Speaker 1: dark and ugly. So I was like, I just gotta stop.
Speaker 1: It's interesting to consider because we you know, when we're
Speaker 1: on when we're filming The Bachelor, any of the Bachelor's shows,
Speaker 1: it's not like we're at our uh you know, in
Speaker 1: our town, at our house with our friends, um, filming stuff.
Speaker 1: You're just like kind of like secluded and you don't
Speaker 1: really have access to anything. Uh. And it got to
Speaker 1: the point where, by my very last season of Bachelor
Speaker 1: that I record that we filmed, I didn't drink it
Speaker 1: all either, because I was sick of like blacking out
Speaker 1: and then watching myself on TV not having a single
Speaker 1: clue what I was gonna say or do. Um. But
Speaker 1: I can't imagine what it was, what it must have
Speaker 1: been like to like be like be like, I can't
Speaker 1: imagine if we had a film career, like following, um
Speaker 1: me around in Los Angeles with my friends, because I
Speaker 1: feel like that's when it's not like bad decisions per se.
Speaker 1: It's it's just you're a lot more like loose decisions mostly,
Speaker 1: you know, you're a lot more comfortable, and so yeah,
Speaker 1: you make bad decisions. Um, although like you know, obviously
Speaker 1: Batchler's got their special formula where their isolation is kind
Speaker 1: of what drives people crazy and makes them do crazy things.
Speaker 1: So there's like pick your poison sort of thing. But
Speaker 1: you know, it's super interesting to hear, especially you've had
Speaker 1: both sides of it. You said season one you drank
Speaker 1: and then season two you hadn't, So is there I
Speaker 1: mean obviously you I would say you probably would prefer
Speaker 1: that not drinking because you're way more control, right, Like
Speaker 1: that's that's gotta be. I mean, look, I'm actually like
Speaker 1: a really fun like drunk, like I I like really
Speaker 1: like I am. I mean, I'm not gonna lie like
Speaker 1: it's fun until it's not, you know. So, like I
Speaker 1: think people really enjoyed watching me like while out, but
Speaker 1: like I can't do that just because the audience maybe
Speaker 1: thinks that's more entertaining because like I have a life
Speaker 1: and a child and things like that. So you know,
Speaker 1: I think I think I'm fun like also without booze,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't drink for many years and it never
Speaker 1: stopped me from doing anything. If anything, I was able
Speaker 1: to do so much more, you know, like actually like
Speaker 1: kind of oh my god, there was that one guy
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor in Paradise who was like so drunk
Speaker 1: and he got like asked to leave. That was really bad. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I keep Oh my god, that was hard to watch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: guy's a loser. Um, I gotta ask is because you
Speaker 1: you have brought it up and I think I remember
Speaker 1: hearing you mentioned that you, um are not in a
Speaker 1: relationship with your fats anymore. Would you ever consider going
Speaker 1: on the Bachelor? Um? Well, like I said, I think
Speaker 1: I'm just so like jaded. I don't think that I
Speaker 1: could ever, Like I don't know if I could really trust. Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, everybody's hot on the show, so like that
Speaker 1: part is awesome because they're already picking hot dudes, So
Speaker 1: that part would be great. You know, I don't have
Speaker 1: to like shift through you know, a bunch of like
Speaker 1: ugly dudes. But like I would just not like I'm
Speaker 1: just I mean, I stuck at dating. That's why I'm
Speaker 1: on this podcast. I suck at it, Like I'm not
Speaker 1: good at it. My daughter had me like, my daughter
Speaker 1: makes so much fun of me. She she actually had
Speaker 1: me call this one guy who I matched on Hinge with.
Speaker 1: She's like, you know, I'm like, Okay, I have to
Speaker 1: go talk to him. I'm going to go in the
Speaker 1: other room. She's like, no, stay here and put him
Speaker 1: on speaker because I want to hear everything. You're in
Speaker 1: the middle of the get my daughter's savage. In the
Speaker 1: middle of the conversation, She's looking at me, going, mom,
Speaker 1: there's no connection. Hang up on him. This guy is
Speaker 1: a dork, you know. And I'm like, no, maybe I
Speaker 1: should like go to lunch with him. She's like, why
Speaker 1: he's boring. He didn't make you laugh. There's no connection.
Speaker 1: It's total with the time. I mean, maybe I shouldn't
Speaker 1: be listening to my fifteen year old. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you need to go on Paradise. Maybe
Speaker 1: they make a non pre bachelor exception for you, because
Speaker 1: at least you had options in that scenario, so you
Speaker 1: can mesh with different personalities and everyone's so hot, so
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't like that because there's too much competition. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like a that's like my worst nightmare when I
Speaker 1: watched people cry and Tammy was crying and all these
Speaker 1: people are crying and everyone's feelings are getting hurt, and
Speaker 1: like people are left and right like bringing each other's hearts.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I could not deal with
Speaker 1: bat room paradise. It sounds like you and Rob's have
Speaker 1: a good relationship. Would you ever consider getting back with him?
Speaker 1: The hell no, weed for a reason exactly. And we
Speaker 1: have a good relationship because we're not romantically involved. Because
Speaker 1: once you're romantically involved with each other, there's expectations, there's this,
Speaker 1: there's that, it's very complicated. Like, I don't have any
Speaker 1: expectations Rob, He's not my man, he's my friend, he's
Speaker 1: my family. That's fair. So is that was that what
Speaker 1: your secret tip would be to anyone that's going through breakup?
Speaker 1: To remove I mean obviously, like if you and be
Speaker 1: mature enough about it, removed the romantic component about it,
Speaker 1: and just like do your best to be friends? Is
Speaker 1: that your advice or what would you say to like
Speaker 1: stay in good on good terms with them? If you
Speaker 1: have a kid, Yeah, because you kind of have to
Speaker 1: stay on good terms personally. I don't speak to any
Speaker 1: of my other ex is. I don't have kids with them.
Speaker 1: They were all mistakes. Why would I talk to them.
Speaker 1: I hate all of them. So yeah, so um no,
Speaker 1: I just I wouldn't even say to stay friends in
Speaker 1: the nex unless you have to. How is it dating
Speaker 1: with a child in New York? Um, it's kind of like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's great because on one hand, I'm thirty
Speaker 1: nine about I have a fifteen year old. I don't
Speaker 1: have that that like pressure of like you better find
Speaker 1: someone now, kid, because your clock is running out. So
Speaker 1: I'm blessed, you know, I got knocked that's up at
Speaker 1: age twenty four, thank god. So I don't have to
Speaker 1: be in a relationship, like I have everything I need,
Speaker 1: you know. But at the other at the other end
Speaker 1: of it, it's like I don't really want to like
Speaker 1: be in a relationship because I want to give all
Speaker 1: my time to my daughter. Of course, now she's getting
Speaker 1: older and I'm realizing that and I'm like, damn, she's
Speaker 1: going to be like in college in a few years,
Speaker 1: so I should probably start opening myself up to dating soon.
Speaker 1: So I do need to start dating against soon. I
Speaker 1: just don't know where to meet guys. And honestly they're
Speaker 1: all pieces of ship. Yeah that yeah, New York dating.
Speaker 1: All my friends that are doing it are like, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: It's not for me. I always say outsourced because long
Speaker 1: distance is better. You're so right, paper, And it's also like, okay,
Speaker 1: my age like demographic, like guys like are like dating
Speaker 1: younger than me, right, So what am I gonna like
Speaker 1: fifty year old want like twenty year olds, you know
Speaker 1: or whatever? Like, So what do I have to date
Speaker 1: like a sixty year old or a seventy year old?
Speaker 1: I personally and I'm attracted to like twenty six year olds,
Speaker 1: That's what I find. So I think I gotta start
Speaker 1: dating and kind of turned into the cougar at some
Speaker 1: point soon reversingary to do it. That's certainly realistic, Thank you.
Speaker 1: I think so too. Yeah, um, I want you to.
Speaker 1: Could you give some advice to Jared Si. Jared's got
Speaker 1: a three month old at home, just had her him.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Jared not too long ago and you said
Speaker 1: Jared girl is fifteen now, So with with all that perspective,
Speaker 1: can you give Jared any parenting advice. Oh my god, Jared,
Speaker 1: I know it's I know you're probably exhausted, and yes,
Speaker 1: I know you're exhausted and all that good stuff, but dude,
Speaker 1: you have to. This is what I would say to anybody, like,
Speaker 1: you have to. I wish that I had done this,
Speaker 1: Like it's my regret of not like holding onto those
Speaker 1: moments more and like just like basking in them. I
Speaker 1: was so worried about like this or that, or do
Speaker 1: I have the right Diaperginie, and you know this, like
Speaker 1: oh my god, Like she's like is she gonna talk soon?
Speaker 1: Like what's happening? But I just like and I didn't, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't, I don't. I feel like
Speaker 1: I just took those moments in enough and then it
Speaker 1: goes by so quick, Lee, and then that they're gone,
Speaker 1: like they're not babies anymore and they're not toddlers anymore,
Speaker 1: and it's over. It's like super sad kind of No.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, and I couldn't agree more. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to soak in every moment with him as possible because
Speaker 1: he's just changing so much, even from day to day,
Speaker 1: and uh, it's it's wonderful, obviously, but it's also quite
Speaker 1: sad to know that it's just gonna be over uh,
Speaker 1: and that it's already getting to that point because I
Speaker 1: love him so much as a baby. Uh. The the
Speaker 1: idea that he's going to grow up to be like
Speaker 1: me makes me so sad. I'm like, bro, yeah, so
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're so you You're so much better. Don't
Speaker 1: be like no, like, just stay a baby. You deserve
Speaker 1: so much more. Um, But well, thank you. I appreciate
Speaker 1: a piece of advice. And before you go, I didn't
Speaker 1: want to ask you a question because obviously you're dating
Speaker 1: in New York. You know, you talk about I'm not
Speaker 1: saying you're gonna be on the Bachelor, but you know, hey,
Speaker 1: who knows. But I wanted to know if there was
Speaker 1: one celebrity out there that you could go on a
Speaker 1: date with, or like if you were the bachelorette and
Speaker 1: you had your pick, like, who's your celebrity crush that
Speaker 1: you'd want to see walk out of the limo? Um? Okay,
Speaker 1: it would be Okay, it's two guys, but one is married,
Speaker 1: so he'd have to get divorced. Okay, we can make
Speaker 1: that happen. Okay, it would be definitely Joe Rogan. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold on who Joe Rogan and Eminem? Yeah so yeah,
Speaker 1: slim Shady Marshall Mathers, Matt Marshall, Mathers, h Marshall. Wait,
Speaker 1: so do you like Eminem more with the blonde or
Speaker 1: the dark hair? I mean, I would make him go
Speaker 1: back to blonde. Yeah, really, you're simply each honey. And
Speaker 1: then Joe Rogan, Yeah, I mean the guy is like
Speaker 1: so rich now too, and also he's just he's cool.
Speaker 1: It's how I know he's controversial, but like he's dope,
Speaker 1: Like I love him. No, I listened to his podcast too.
Speaker 1: He yea. I guess I've never seen him as like
Speaker 1: a ladies man though, so it's hard for me to
Speaker 1: be like, oh, yeah, what a stud I guess he's
Speaker 1: a handsome man. He's he's listening. He's kind of short
Speaker 1: and like he's a bit bulky and all that, but
Speaker 1: like he's super into health. You know, he's super he's
Speaker 1: a super like he's intellectual but also cool, and I
Speaker 1: feel like we would have like dope conversations. Obviously, he
Speaker 1: he does have a wife and has a family, so
Speaker 1: I think he is a family. He's a family that's important. Listen,
Speaker 1: this is not this is me saying if him, you know,
Speaker 1: if he was single, I'm saying, like me, I try
Speaker 1: to be like anybody's mistress or anything like that. Do
Speaker 1: we know if Eminem is single? Is Eminem? It's got
Speaker 1: to be my only fear with him and also with
Speaker 1: Joe Rogan, because I feel like Joe Rogan has taken
Speaker 1: a lot of steroids. I'm afraid it's shriveled his stick
Speaker 1: and then and also has has made fun of himself
Speaker 1: for having a small dick and I can't have that.
Speaker 1: So but they could get dick. Yeah, I've heard that's
Speaker 1: the thing I've heard that's coming onto the market for people. Well, Leah,
Speaker 1: it was. I love Deean's reaction. Yeah, so that we
Speaker 1: consider u. Leah, thank you so much for coming the podcast.
Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. Oh my god, of course, sorry
Speaker 1: that he was my video. Please don't think I'm rude.
Speaker 1: It's just you know, we just we totally get it.
Speaker 1: And once again, you've been so raw and real on
Speaker 1: this podcast. We really appreciate that. And you're very raw
Speaker 1: and really in your book as well. We talked about
Speaker 1: not only getting sober like we talked about, but your
Speaker 1: early days in New York and founding your company married
Speaker 1: to the mob, which is a wild success, having children
Speaker 1: dating um, So you can check that out Chaos Theory.
Speaker 1: You can buy that anywhere where you get your books.
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