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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Lisia is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.

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Speaker 2: So in a second, we're gonna call him and see

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Speaker 2: if I'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get

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Speaker 2: her another date. But first, Lesia, how long has it

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Speaker 2: been since you heard from James.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been about a week.

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Speaker 3: And then how many times have you reached out to

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Speaker 3: him in that time?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a

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Speaker 1: great connection and you know, you know, I was we

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Speaker 1: were trying to get together, and you know I texted

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Speaker 1: a few times and you know, we had a plan.

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Speaker 1: He canceled. He felt like he needed the weekend to recover.

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Speaker 1: I offered to make him soup, which he declined, and I,

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Speaker 1: you know, and then then after that I texted him

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Speaker 1: a couple of times. You know, he's feeling and like nothing.

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Speaker 3: So, did your date happen or this was after the date?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay, but

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Speaker 1: then after that nothing happened.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, tell us about the date.

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Speaker 1: Well, we met unhinged first of all, and like we

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Speaker 1: talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out

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Speaker 1: because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.

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Speaker 1: And he's in a band and I used to sing

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Speaker 1: in a band, so we had like a lot of

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Speaker 1: great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we

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Speaker 1: like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at

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Speaker 1: this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,

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Speaker 1: we went back to his place and we were hanging

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Speaker 1: out and like cuddling and stuff, but we didn't look up,

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Speaker 1: but there was like a lot of like affection myself.

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Speaker 1: And in the morning we kissed, and like we crammed

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Speaker 1: on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So

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Speaker 1: that was the date.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything that happened on the date that could

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Speaker 2: have been awkward or something that would cause him to

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Speaker 2: not want to talk to you again?

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Speaker 1: So I talked this over a bit, and I think

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Speaker 1: there might have been which I like want to apologize for,

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Speaker 1: and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like

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Speaker 1: when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like

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Speaker 1: pulled down his phone to play me like a rough

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Speaker 1: edit of his band's new song, and I was excited

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Speaker 1: to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share

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Speaker 1: it with me, And you know, because I was on

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Speaker 1: the music background, I didn't feel like I knew to

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Speaker 1: hold back what I thought, you know, So I mean

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Speaker 1: I told him, I was like, I think this is

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Speaker 1: like a great idea for a song. I said, like

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Speaker 1: some of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,

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Speaker 1: his voice was a little pissy and certain points, and

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Speaker 1: like one of the lyrics in particular was like about

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Speaker 1: her loving like a sugar rush, eating a box of

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Speaker 1: Kristy cream or something. Okay, I like laughed at that,

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Speaker 1: and then I kept like asking him if I made

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Speaker 1: And I thought it was being funny, like I was joking,

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Speaker 1: and like I think I may have crushed him. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, maybe I took it too far. So I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean it sounds like you were being

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I was just saying, like that's how I felt,

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Speaker 1: like that's what the intention was.

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Speaker 5: Ju Will you are doing music now too, so like

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Speaker 5: think about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute, like,

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Speaker 5: you're not are you going to be offended?

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Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't be.

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Speaker 2: I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd

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Speaker 2: be like, you're right, the whole thing is craft.

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Speaker 4: I'll throw it out, you're over, I quit it all.

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Speaker 2: So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for

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Speaker 2: the honest feedback I saw.

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Speaker 5: That would also be a major turn off and problem. Also, Okay,

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Speaker 5: so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt. Maybe,

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Speaker 5: I mean it might be.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like, I don't know. I feel like

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Speaker 1: we need to get him on the phone, Like he

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Speaker 1: on the phone phone because he's just ghosting me so

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Speaker 1: like and I just want to apologize.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song and we'll come back, and then

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Speaker 2: we'll call him and see if it tellus why he's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you and maybe get you another date with Krispy

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Speaker 2: Kreme Boy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, should.

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Speaker 2: We not call him Chrispy Green Boy?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, plays, I'll come back get your first a follow

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Speaker 2: up next Right in the middle of our first date,

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Speaker 2: follow up if you're just joining us. Alesha is on

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Speaker 2: the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if you'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 4: But first, Lisha, why don't you catch us up on

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Speaker 4: your situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, I when I had a date with this guy, James,

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Speaker 1: it like went really well. We had cocktails and tacos,

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Speaker 1: and we had karaoke and all this stuff, and you know,

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Speaker 1: we bonded because he's in a band and I used

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Speaker 1: to sing in a band, and you know, we have

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Speaker 1: a lot of common interests. And I feel like and

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Speaker 1: he hasn't tested me back in a week, so and

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Speaker 1: I feel like something might have gone wrong the night

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Speaker 1: we were on the date. I feel like I might

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Speaker 1: have kind of heard his feelings making fun of one

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Speaker 1: of his lyrics which involves Krispy Kreme, which I kept

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Speaker 1: springing up. No, I don't know. I feel like I

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Speaker 1: might have sent him and I need to apologize. And

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Speaker 1: also he's ghosting me. So that's where we are.

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Speaker 4: All right, are you ready for us to call?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go, Hello him, I speak to James.

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Speaker 2: Please yeah, speaking, James, how are you?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 4: My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 4: It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 3: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Cool, wonderful.

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Speaker 6: I'm doing good man, I'm getting any calls radio?

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Speaker 1: But what's up?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I have?

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard of first

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Speaker 4: date follow up before? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah I have? This is this one of.

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Speaker 4: These things, first day follow up?

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Speaker 2: You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,

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Speaker 2: they can email us and then ask us to call

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Speaker 2: you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us

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Speaker 2: about you, James, Oh boy, any idea who would be?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little

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Speaker 4: Is that someone's name?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Alicia?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well Lisia emailed us and told us about your day.

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Speaker 2: She said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can

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Speaker 2: you tell us why you're ghostinger?

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Speaker 6: I really liked.

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Speaker 1: Her, but man, she's too much.

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Speaker 7: She texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first

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Speaker 7: of all, I got sick, right, so like I got

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Speaker 7: sick a little bit afterwards, but not the RNA nothing,

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Speaker 7: but like, you know, she texted me on Saturday to

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Speaker 7: I should be taking.

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Speaker 3: Because you were sick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 6: It was like it was like a trip or a

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Speaker 6: DoorDash GNC, you know, the whole bag fall.

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Speaker 1: And and then like not soon after asking if I

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Speaker 1: missed her.

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Speaker 6: This this whole thing about like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like,

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Speaker 1: It's a joke about some stupid lyric I made, and

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Speaker 1: and and I mean just more text on and on

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Speaker 5: I'm not even giving you all that was all one day.

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Speaker 5: That happened all on the same day.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to online.

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Speaker 6: They came over, we cuddled, I mean, the sweet it

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Speaker 6: I just stopped responding because like I needed to rest

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Speaker 6: I mean, she came over, it was great. The date

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Speaker 3: I mean it sounds like she was just concerned because

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Speaker 5: Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four text messages might

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Speaker 4: Though.

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Speaker 6: No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, But

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Speaker 2: I just wanted peace, Okay, Well, speaking of Peith James,

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Speaker 2: I will let you know that Lisa's actually on the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hi, oh hi, Lisha. Do you have a problem

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Speaker 1: getting close to people? Like do you know how everyone

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Speaker 1: cares about you? Like I was just trying to show

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Speaker 1: you that I cared, And I'm like, actually a good

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Speaker 1: caretaker in like times like this. I get it.

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Speaker 6: But it's just we just had one date after a

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Speaker 6: little bit of online conversation, and I just feel Look,

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Speaker 6: you're sweet, wonderful, but I just feel that we're nowhere

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Speaker 6: close to the come over and make me soup stage

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you said on your hind that you wanted

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Speaker 1: to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I was

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Speaker 1: doing that. So I don't know what there is about

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Speaker 6: We go further than or can we have a relationship first?

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Speaker 6: Can we like have some other there's there's steps to

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, wait, I'm not ready to be in a

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Speaker 6: Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's not what I said.

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Speaker 6: It's I feel there's a little miscommunication here.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm not well, you just mentioned wanting

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Speaker 1: to have a relationship first, Like you talk about me

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Speaker 1: texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know what the problem is with my

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Speaker 1: texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now? What. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not saying right now.

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Speaker 6: It's just that I just don't want to jump into

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Speaker 6: things that just lead to anxiety. And just like already

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Speaker 6: we're checking each other's mental health. Like I'm just trying

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Speaker 6: to just go go with the vibe that we had

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Speaker 6: that was that was real good. It just felt like

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Speaker 6: this was this was just in a different place, and

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Speaker 6: I was just like, I don't want to grow with this.

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Speaker 1: You are moving away to ask James.

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Speaker 6: Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like

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Speaker 6: all those texts in the soup, but I just feel

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Speaker 6: that there's there's just a sequence to it that just

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Speaker 6: you know, rocks my boat a certain way. And and

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Speaker 6: like I'm sorry for for miss communicating or or like

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Speaker 6: you know.

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Speaker 1: Just going outside the vibe that we had.

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Speaker 6: And I just feel I just feel like we want

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Speaker 6: the wrong direction with that.

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Speaker 2: Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa? We'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it, James, I just so.

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Speaker 1: You know, I will go on another date with you,

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Speaker 1: but I just want to let you know, like I'm

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Speaker 1: you know. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing into

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Speaker 6: getting together right now. I'm sorry about the miscommunication, but

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Speaker 6: I'm willing to give this another go, just as long

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Speaker 6: as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,

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Speaker 1: Like this is just a date date, not like a

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Speaker 1: dating date.

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Speaker 6: Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wipe you up

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Speaker 6: just yet.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you want to wipe me up like this?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage.

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Speaker 2: I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I

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Speaker 2: think you guys should just go out one more day

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Speaker 2: and see how it goes again.

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Speaker 1: Ah, Okay, I'll talk right Juble's first day follow up