WEBVTT - FRIDAY: Here's my faves

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<v Speaker 1>Hey it's Delilah. Thank you for stopping by. I have

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<v Speaker 1>put together some of my favorite radio moments here to

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<v Speaker 1>share with you on our daily podcast through Hey It's Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>Every night I talk to people from all walks of

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<v Speaker 1>life in all sorts of different situations, and today we

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<v Speaker 1>are going to mash some of those phone calls up

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<v Speaker 1>and serve them back to you on Hey It's Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Tiya, Welcome to your new year. How are you tonight?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing good.

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<v Speaker 1>What can I do to add a note of joy

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty twenty five?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Delilah, you see, I have this enemy who I've smothered,

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<v Speaker 2>who I've been wanting to be my boyfriend. And his

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<v Speaker 2>name is Gage, and I feel very sorry for what

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<v Speaker 2>I've done to him. And I wrote him an apology letter,

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<v Speaker 2>and I talked to my mom about it, and she

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<v Speaker 2>basically said, lay Low, and I just need your advice

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<v Speaker 2>on what I should. I just give him the letter

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<v Speaker 2>and just say I'm sorry, because I've told him I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sorry for a hundred times and I just don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what to do now.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you wanting to give him the letter in

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<v Speaker 1>hoping it will change his response? To you, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you've already told him, why do you need to give

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<v Speaker 1>it to him in written form?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see like if there's going to be

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<v Speaker 2>a change, like in his perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So if somebody says to you, I'm not interested

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with you, then you need to respect

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<v Speaker 1>them enough to accept that, whether you like it or not.

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<v Speaker 2>Mam, I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>And why would you call him an enemy if you

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<v Speaker 1>care about him?

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<v Speaker 2>Kuse we fought a lot and we yelled at each

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<v Speaker 2>other a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you fight a lot because he's unkind? Or did

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<v Speaker 1>you fight a lot because he was asking you to

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<v Speaker 1>give him space and you couldn't do.

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<v Speaker 2>That, he thought, because that m wasn't given him space

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<v Speaker 2>when you demanded it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and you're still doing the same thing, aren't you.

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<v Speaker 1>So stop stop and respect him and respect yourself enough

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Okay, this person wants, wants and needs space

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't respected that in the past and it

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<v Speaker 1>hurt their heart, and so I'm going to respect that

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<v Speaker 1>now and move on with my life. Really understand, honey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not love at all. Don't you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody who cherishes you and loves you? For you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you want to be with somebody who appreciates you

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<v Speaker 1>and respects you and wants to be with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>then then you need to respect him and let him

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<v Speaker 1>go and know that the person you are supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship with you won't have to ask

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<v Speaker 1>them to love you. It's all right. Let me play

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<v Speaker 1>a song for you. Hello, good evening. You've called the

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<v Speaker 1>Delilah Show. Who is this? This is Tiara ti Eira.

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<v Speaker 1>What a pretty name? Are you wearing yours tonight? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>I try to.

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<v Speaker 1>What can I do for you, my queen?

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<v Speaker 3>I have been trying to call you, miss Delilah. I've

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<v Speaker 3>been calling you, says last year. It's been so hard

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<v Speaker 3>to get through to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm glad you made it tonight. How can I

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<v Speaker 1>help to make your night even more spectacular?

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<v Speaker 3>I will like to dedicate a song to my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like one of the most important people in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me about Mama and what I can do to

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<v Speaker 1>make her night more.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a very giving person. She's very entertaining when it

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<v Speaker 3>comes to entertaining others and just entertaining me and my brothers.

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<v Speaker 3>She just really has a kind heart.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's kind, she's giving, and you're blessed to have

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<v Speaker 1>her for a mama. Yes, is there a song that

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<v Speaker 1>speaks to your heart? Or you want me to find

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<v Speaker 1>one for her? All right, I will find one that says, Mama,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad that you're a part of my life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, thank you, mister Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a great night, hi Eva, thank you for calling.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Delilah. How can I make your night a

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<v Speaker 1>little more hopeful?

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<v Speaker 4>Hiah? I was wondering if maybe you could get a

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<v Speaker 4>a song to one of my best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is your best friend? And what do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to say?

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<v Speaker 4>A name Sophia. I just want to say that she's

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<v Speaker 4>like helped me through a lot of really tough times

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<v Speaker 4>in my life, especially as of late, and I just

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<v Speaker 4>really I.

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<v Speaker 5>Love her a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>So challenge tough challenge that you're facing that you're comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>sharing with a complete stranger, And how did Sophia help

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<v Speaker 1>you over that mountain?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 4>I've had a lot of issues, especially at school, that

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<v Speaker 4>she's let me talk to her about and she's helped

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<v Speaker 4>me out with and she genuinely.

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<v Speaker 3>Means the world to me.

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<v Speaker 1>How old are you?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thirteen?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, so junior high. Yeah, that's hard. Junior high is.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know what, Eva, If somebody said to me, Delilah,

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<v Speaker 1>here is ten million dollars, it's all yours, acts free.

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<v Speaker 1>If you would just go back and be thirteen again

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<v Speaker 1>and relive like like thirteen to fifteen, I would laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, not just no, but heck no, keep

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<v Speaker 1>the money. I'd rather have a bad back and arthritis

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<v Speaker 1>than ever go through what I went through at that age.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so much harder for kids now, it really is.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many things, so much pressure, so much stress

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<v Speaker 1>that is on you, young people. And God bless you

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<v Speaker 1>for having a friend that you can talk to and

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<v Speaker 1>not just holding it all inside.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, how about this? How about I play the

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<v Speaker 1>best best friend song I can find for Sophia, and

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<v Speaker 1>how about I remind people to be kind?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad she's there for you, honey, And I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting through this. And I'm going to say a

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<v Speaker 1>prayer that God would give you comfort and give you

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<v Speaker 1>strength and change the hearts of those who are being unkind.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a good night, honey, God bless you.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you you too.

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<v Speaker 3>Good night.

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<v Speaker 1>Good night. Hi, good evening, Thank you for your patience.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this.

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<v Speaker 5>H'm Lily.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hi, Lily, welcome aboard. You sound very happy. How

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<v Speaker 1>was your night going.

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<v Speaker 5>It's going pretty good. And my mom is in the

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<v Speaker 5>kitchen making put rust and I've kind of been sitting

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<v Speaker 5>in my room in her room for the last ten

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<v Speaker 5>minutes waiting for the radio to come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm glad you made it through, Lily. What can

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<v Speaker 1>I play for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I want to dedicate a song to my mom because

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<v Speaker 5>she's just a really kind person and she's always taking

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<v Speaker 5>carriage care of me, and I just want to put

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<v Speaker 5>on a song for her that's like just a good,

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<v Speaker 5>really good song, something that shows that I care and

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<v Speaker 5>appreciate her.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's making you pot roast. Life doesn't get better

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<v Speaker 1>than that.

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<v Speaker 5>My mom's right here, say hi, Mom, Hi, Mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi. What a sweet daughter you have.

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<v Speaker 2>She's the sweetest. I love her so much.

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<v Speaker 1>If her personality is half as sweet as her voice.

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<v Speaker 1>You've done well, mama, bear.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to play a song for your whole family. Okay, awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. Thank you. You have a great night.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, Thank you you too.

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<v Speaker 1>I so hope you have enjoyed these radio moments as

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<v Speaker 1>much as I enjoy bringing them to you. I'll share

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<v Speaker 1>more with you each weekday on Hey It's Delilah.

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<v Speaker 5>Let all be happy.