1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser Podcast. Oh, nik Klaser, here's Nikki. 2 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's the Nicki. 3 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: Glazer Podcast with me today. 4 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: Noah is in Arizona. Anya's in New York City. 5 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: Brian Frangie, our new permanent sidekick, is in Los Angeles. 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: How's it going everyone? 7 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 3: I'm not crying today? 8 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: What when did you cry? 9 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 3: Remember Saturday on tour? I just went for an hour 10 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 3: Saturday on tour. 11 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 1: You cried? 12 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 3: We were driving. 13 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 1: I was blacking this out. 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 3: Remember, I was like, I made a list of my 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 3: anxieties and I ate. 16 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was during the drive. I was thinking Saturday, 17 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 2: like during the show. Yeah, during Saturday on tour, which 18 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: we're on tour right now. We're in Tucson. Next weekend 19 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: in Vegas and then a lot of European cities. I 20 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: added up ten cities in fourteen days. But on we 21 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: were this weekend. We were in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania on Friday, 22 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: great show and then two shows in New Hampshire on 23 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: Saturday night. And we had to drive five and a 24 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 2: half hours, which you know with stops, ends up being 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 2: like six and a half. 26 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: And in the morning, how did we even get on 27 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: the subject. 28 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 2: I mean, we were just pulling out of town and 29 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, Anya, oh, because on you couldn't sleep. 30 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: You couldn't sleep the night before, we got terrible sleep 31 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 2: because we had a wake up so early to drive. 32 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 3: And you know, I was like, I just had a 33 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 3: list of anxieties for four hours in the middle of 34 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 3: the night. 35 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: But you made a list. 36 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: Do you find that helpful when you are Why is 37 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: that helpful to make a list for you? Because I 38 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: was guessing that's a tool you used to get out 39 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 2: of anxiety. 40 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 3: It was the last ditch effort because I was like, 41 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 3: you gotta stop, Like, if you cannot sleep and none 42 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 3: of this meditation or breathing is working, just make a 43 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: list so you can get it out right. And then 44 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: my theory was, I bet it's like four things that 45 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 3: I'm just recycling over and over. It wasn't It was 46 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 3: like twenty seven yeah, so long. I was like scared 47 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: I will have or get COVID and never be able 48 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 3: to tour Europe or get married. 49 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 4: Do you think about making an appointment to worry where 50 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 4: you write down your list and you say I'm gonna 51 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 4: worry about these at ten fifteen am tomorrow morning. 52 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: That's interesting. 53 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 2: That's because it doesn't let you off the hook of 54 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 2: like never worrying, because when you kind of put things, 55 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 2: when you go just don't think about it, you're like, well, 56 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to get to this at some point, 57 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 2: Like this requires but giving yourself a total break from 58 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: it knowing you will get to it. 59 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 3: I wish I could do that, but it feels like 60 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,959 Speaker 3: my obsession is too strong. It's like the Hulk. It's 61 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 3: like ha ha. You think you can tell a little 62 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 3: tool will work against. 63 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 4: I mean, twenty seven is a lot I can't imagine. 64 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: Well, you can't control your thoughts and everyone knows that, 65 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 2: like I hope at this point, there's no free will, 66 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: so they're just coming in. 67 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: You can't really help them. 68 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: But there are things you can do that Brian's thing. 69 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: Well, because I think the thoughts are like a stream. 70 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: You can kind of like damn them up and you 71 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 2: can direct them in different ways and like steer them 72 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 2: by doing devices like that. 73 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: But you can't just help all slow. 74 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 4: All self help things is just you have all these 75 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 4: things that you can do and then they take up 76 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 4: all your day and then they don't help at all, 77 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 4: but you do that. 78 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: You do help doing all day doing it because you're worried. 79 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: Total. 80 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 4: I spend all my days stretching and breathing, and I 81 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: feel like, oh yeah, you stretching do I have to do? 82 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: Making my bed does not improve anything for me. It's 83 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: just I have a nice looking bed, but still my 84 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: life is in shambles. 85 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: I can't get back into bed, yeah, because it's so tight. 86 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 2: My therapist recently, and we'll get to your my surpist 87 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: recently told me that she was like, what do you 88 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: what do you want to do when you feel anxiety? 89 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: And I go, I want to curl up in a ball, 90 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 2: like I want to lay I want to lay down 91 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: on my stomach and like put my hands underneath my 92 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: like I want to feel a lot intense pressure. 93 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: I want to be pressurized and. 94 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 4: Like gravity blanket. 95 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so like gravity blankets. I never liked, but I 96 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 2: kind of do. I get it because I'm trying to 97 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: do that by laying on my stomach. That's why I 98 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: lay in my stomach. I want to feel like I'm 99 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: being squished. Yeah, oh I would love that, but she 100 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 2: said she goes do it. You know, I think most 101 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: therapists would go, don't go to your room and lay 102 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: in the dark and try to fall asleep when you're 103 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: feeling anxiety. But she's like, do it if it works, 104 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: that's a soothing thing. 105 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 4: You used to get migraine headaches all the time, and 106 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 4: you would like your. 107 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: Head I take it out. Yeah. Actually, those guys. 108 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 3: Put in are too similar. 109 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: Uti has definitely got added into my vagina after the 110 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 2: there's only room for one you thing and three lettered 111 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 2: thing in my. 112 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: Puss at a time. 113 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I used to get Yeah, my IUD caused 114 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 2: me great migraines and it was so it was the 115 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 2: worst thing in my life. And then Chris would have 116 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 2: to take my head and put it into his vice 117 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 2: like grip and just push it together. And he was 118 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 2: so scared that my head was going to snap like 119 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 2: a candle ope, and I go, yes. 120 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: Please do that. 121 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 2: I would love for my head to my skull to break, 122 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 2: because that would feel better and it would relieve the tension, 123 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: you know, like you just want to break up the tension. Yeah, 124 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 2: I mean, so your anxiety list didn't help. 125 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I went to sleep afterwards, but I was 126 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 3: I was sort of shocked, like, fuck, dude, this is 127 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 3: a lot to worry about. Like this is actually real. 128 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: You know how they say read a book to fall asleep, 129 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: like yours. You wrote a book that'll make you fall 130 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 2: asleep pretty fast. There was this old lady who used 131 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: to or me. 132 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 4: He was an old man that they didn't interview on 133 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 4: because he was one hundred and fifteen years old and 134 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 4: he was still cutting hair. He was a barber, and 135 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 4: they asked him what's the secret to your longevity? And 136 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 4: he said, I don't worry about anything. 137 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. Stress when it was like one hundred and ten, 138 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 3: Remember they did that video with all the older people 139 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 3: Like she was like, the secret to life is just 140 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 3: be happy every day, every damn happy. She's like everyone 141 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 3: in life was dead. 142 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 4: The secret to a long life is to just keep 143 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 4: living for many years not worrying. 144 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: I mean, stress is it? You know? 145 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 2: Once you look at We talked about that uh doctor 146 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 2: Sarno book, The Healing Back Pain that completely transformed your 147 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: back pain, right, Brian, and you you talked. 148 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 5: To all paint what I had, all chronic pelvic pain 149 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 5: I had. It's not even just back pain. Yeah, it's 150 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 5: all pains. 151 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: And it was all in your head, right, Well, not 152 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: in a way that it was an to say, yeah, 153 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 1: and that's why people don't like all in your head. 154 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: But it shouldn't be condescending. It's not. 155 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that you're causing it. If it's in 156 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 2: your head again, you're are not your fault. So it's 157 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: still something that people can feel sorry for you because 158 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 2: it's actual pain. But it is not because there's a 159 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: like a physic a torsion, and you're groin the. 160 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 4: Check for there was no torsion. That meansion is when 161 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 4: your testicles wrap around each other and start stuffocating. 162 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 3: Each other closer. 163 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 164 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you put a rubber band around your finger 165 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 4: for long enough, it'll turn blue and it'll just fall off. Yes, 166 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 4: all right, everybody is that it? 167 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: It'll just fall off? 168 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 4: Got do it? 169 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: Just I saw a tribe that cuts off I saw 170 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 2: a thing on it Reddit and there's a tribe that 171 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: like cuts off men's fingers to test their strength and 172 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 2: if they WinCE, they keep getting their fingers cut until 173 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: they're not wincing anymore. And there's this one guy with 174 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 2: like he's just like they got to they were off 175 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 2: his toes. 176 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to see the banshees of inn Is Sharon. 177 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: No, I don't. 178 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 2: I don't think I need to see it. If it's 179 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: on that note, I don't want to see that happen. 180 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 3: It's just such a good metaphor it. I'm curious what 181 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 3: you think it's about. It is such a simple story, 182 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: but it's like so crazy to watch. Can I just 183 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 3: tell you a tiny bit of what it's about? 184 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: Sure? 185 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, spoiler alert for thee of Irishian and that no 186 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: one's saw and no one will see. 187 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 3: It was nominated for an Oscar. It's one of the 188 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 3: best comes. So Colin Farrell is a very simple man 189 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 3: and he's best friends with this guy who's like a crank, 190 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 3: a curmudgeon, and he comes by his house every day 191 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 3: and they hang out every day in this tiny town 192 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 3: where there's one bar. And one day he comes over. 193 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 3: He's like hey, and the guy's like, I don't want 194 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 3: to hang out, like he doesn't want to talk to him, 195 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 3: and Colin Farrell is just very simple. Why don't you 196 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 3: want to talk. I'm the nicest guy in town. Let's 197 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 3: hang out. You're my best friend. He's like, I'm sick 198 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 3: of you. I'm sick of what your dumb stories. And 199 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: I just don't. I don't hate you. I just want 200 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 3: to be done with this. I just want to spend 201 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 3: my life alone. I want to practice my violin, that's 202 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 3: what I love doing. And I just don't want to 203 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 3: be your friend anymore, no offense. And then he keeps 204 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 3: bugging him, and then there comes a point where he's 205 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 3: the guy's like, if you talk to me one more time, 206 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna cut off my finger and and then I 207 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: will leave it there. But the film continues, and it's 208 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 3: so insane to watch because you're like, who's more insane, 209 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 3: this crank or Colin Fair guy who kind. 210 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like the crank. I'm a crank. 211 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 1: So as anyone ever told you I don't want to 212 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: hang out with you anymore? 213 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 2: Have we ever? Has anyone here ever had a friend 214 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 2: out of the blue just kind of cut things off 215 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 2: and with under the guise of like, I don't like 216 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: you any like I don't. 217 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 4: It would be pretty bold for someone to come out 218 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 4: and straight up say I don't want to hang out 219 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 4: with you. 220 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 2: Well, you can infer that, but I guess, I guess 221 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 2: no matter what we've we were lied to. If this 222 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 2: happened to us, and it's whether or not you saw 223 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: through the lie. But most of the time a friend 224 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 2: cuts you off, it is because they just don't like 225 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 2: you anymore. 226 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I've had to do it. 227 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 4: You've had to cut people off before? Yeah, oh yeah, 228 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 4: you go straight up to them and you say we're done. 229 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: No, well, I have had to do that before. 230 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 2: I've had a girl that was pretty persistent afterwards, and 231 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,719 Speaker 2: I had to ultimately say it was right around the 232 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 2: time I quit drinking, so I had a good excuse of, like, 233 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 2: I just don't drink anymore. That was kind of our 234 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: thing and I don't have we don't have that in common, 235 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: and I just needed And she would talk really loud 236 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 2: in public spaces anytime we'd be out to eat. I 237 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: would be very embarrassed, and I'd try to like whisper 238 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 2: to kind of like do you know what to do? 239 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 2: And it would just people were staring, and I you 240 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: love to talk. 241 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 4: So imagine you're seeing someone in the corner you want 242 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 4: to shit talk about them, and she's like. 243 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: That one over there, Yes, good shit talk. And I 244 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:46,439 Speaker 1: don't mind listen. 245 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 2: I don't mind getting a little loud when I know 246 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 2: people are kind of entertained by eavesdropping on my conversation. 247 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: I won't be super loud, but I can tell when 248 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: people are kind of like this is a fun like 249 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: in an uber. If I'm talking about something, If I'm like, 250 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: gossip about some celebrity I know dirt on, and I 251 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 2: know this person probably knows that celebrity too, I will 252 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 2: get louder. I did this recently on a girl's trip. 253 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: We had a I was just. 254 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: Come in, yeah, and I was mouthing off about a 255 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 2: celebrity that I know some dirt on. I know a 256 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 2: lot of shit on. I was shit talking literally, and 257 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 2: I'll tell you later. Brian and and I could tell 258 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 2: everyone was kind of like we should and I'm like, no, 259 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: let it out. I want to get this out because 260 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: anyone he tells Nicki Glazer was saying this about this person, 261 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: I can always deny it, you know, like I'll just 262 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 2: fucking deny I said it, you know. But also I 263 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 2: was reading things I found on Reddit about this person 264 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 2: as well that backed it up. And I'd only heard 265 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 2: this through stories, and then I saw this whole Reddit 266 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 2: thread where it was like, no, these are stories that 267 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: about this person. I was like, it's it's subsistantiated a 268 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 2: word corroborated. Yeah, I know so, but yeah, I can 269 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:01,479 Speaker 2: sense when I'm being entertaining with my with the octavet 270 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 2: which or the volume with which I'm speaking, and then 271 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 2: I can tell some people Chris doesn't, my boyfriend doesn't 272 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 2: love how loud I can be in public sometimes and 273 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: I can't be too loud. I grew up getting shushed 274 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 2: a lot in restaurants and stuff because I'm just a 275 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 2: loud person. Haven't been in a while, but I think 276 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: that's more of a power thing now, like people are 277 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 2: too scared to shush me, so I should probably keep 278 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: it down, is what I'm. 279 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 4: I love that. I love giving people a story to tell. 280 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 4: I used to do that. Yes, walking through the streets 281 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 4: of New York, you always walk past so many strangers, 282 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 4: and a game I used to play was called give 283 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 4: them a Story. I didn't call it that, but NI 284 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 4: explains it pretty well. So what I do. I'd be 285 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 4: by myself usually, or i'd be with a person I 286 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 4: don't have to be alone, and I'd be walking and 287 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 4: I would go I would just try to say something 288 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 4: that they would overhear that then there'd be a story 289 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 4: for them, like I'd go, like I'd be on my 290 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 4: phone and I'd go I told them only two meatballs 291 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 4: or something like that, and they'd go to their friend 292 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 4: at Starbucks. Like this guy was like flipping out about meatballs. 293 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 2: Yes, you end up in a John mullaney joke, Like 294 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 2: John Lady has so many jokes where he's. 295 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: Like eat ass, sell drugs. 296 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 2: Educt Like there's always like a weird person saying something. 297 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 2: I realized this this week and we were listening to 298 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 2: John Mulaney in the car, which is great inspiration. Like, 299 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 2: I forget how much how good it is for me 300 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 2: to listen to comedians I love because it's just their style. 301 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 2: I absorb some of their things that I like about them, 302 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 2: and then thus I become better by using some of 303 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 2: the things that I already gravitate towards. Naturally, I'm not 304 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 2: doing it because I'm like people like John Laney. I'll 305 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 2: do what he does. But I'm like, oh, I like 306 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 2: the way he You know, I've realized something. He's a 307 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 2: fantastic writer, no question about it. I talk about him 308 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 2: all the time as one of the best standup comics 309 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: out there. 310 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: We all know it. But the way that he talks 311 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: and the way he'll change his the dynamics of his 312 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: voice to emphasize things is very is a lot of 313 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: what makes him so enjoyable. And I go, well, I 314 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: can do that, like I'm just talking like a normal person. 315 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: I sometimes have fun with going like but I was 316 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: doing it a lot more this weekend and it was 317 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: so much fun, and it really like colored in. It's 318 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: like having a coloring book and you're like, oh, those 319 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 1: are good drawings, and then you color it in with 320 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: the vocal intonations and stuff. Tools. 321 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 4: They're just tools in your tool belt. I mean, yeah, 322 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 4: that's why I started smashing watermelons on stage. 323 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 6: Because well, I'm finding myself to be a little sexist here, 324 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 6: because I do hate when female comics do this mugging 325 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 6: after a joke that I've made compilations of, Like I've 326 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 6: been so bored with my life and so annoyed by 327 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 6: some trends in comedy that I've literally made, Like. 328 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 4: What is it? 329 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: It's okay? 330 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 3: Oh They'll say a punchline and then go, yeah, you 331 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 3: can't see the video. 332 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: Yeah I'm looking okay. 333 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 2: If you if you watch Succession Ship, Roy is always 334 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: going she's her, she's tucking. 335 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 3: Her head back and then looking to. 336 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: The side like, hmm, I think it's that. 337 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 4: I think. 338 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 2: Amy did invent it. Thank you Amy, Like that's I love. 339 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 2: Amy invented a lot of things that you know, I 340 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: don't think she gets credit for. And I think that 341 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 2: she gets thrown under the bus now because she you know, 342 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: people just get tired of seeing someone too much and 343 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 2: then they have to that's what happens. Like, that's why 344 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: I don't want to be too famous, because they'll turn 345 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: on you eventually. But she was, yeah, she was you 346 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 2: were friends with Amy, right, Brian. 347 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I did her website for seven years. That's right. 348 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 1: She's like, we need to we need tory my website 349 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: through go Daddy. 350 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 4: She's so loyal, like there was there was no indication 351 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 4: that she was ever going to drop me. And then 352 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 4: when train Wreck came out, huh, I had to call 353 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 4: her and say, I can't do your website anymore. I'm 354 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 4: just a guy, like you need a company to do this. 355 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 4: And then she was like that makes sense, and then 356 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 4: that was it. Wow, Yeah I got there. 357 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 2: Yeah she but yeah, she definitely doesn't she would do 358 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 2: the thing where she goes. 359 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she kind of does like an um afterwards. Hmmm, 360 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: like there is that. Yes, there are other female comics 361 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: that do it too. I do it like. 362 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: They are definitely Amy mannerisms I've picked up. There's there's 363 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 2: just anyone I watch. I'll pick up something that they 364 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 2: do and you could accuse me of stealing or whatever, 365 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: but it's not conscious. But this mugging thing is taking 366 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: up twenty five percent of these comics act and I 367 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 2: don't see men doing it. I could see John going 368 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 2: what huh huh like and at least he doesn't overuse 369 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 2: it though I don't feel but maybe I'm being sexist 370 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: here and I'm just like more jealous of women. 371 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 4: And I compare an I have a man, one, you 372 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 4: have a man? Please tell I do it all the 373 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 4: time because I love it, and I think I started doing. 374 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: The mugging too and it works, and I'm like, I'm 375 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: disgusted why this works because the audience does love like 376 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 1: a close up of like a confused woman. Okay, what works? 377 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 4: Well? My favorite comic is probably Norm MacDonald and he's 378 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 4: probably the one who I got this from. And I 379 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 4: think a lot of comics where you just lean into 380 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 4: a punchline and you go says, punchline, my punchline. 381 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: You do talk like that? 382 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 4: That works? 383 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: That works, It totally works. I don't. 384 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 2: I don't think it works. It gives it a little boost, 385 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 2: but you gotta be willing. It's gotta be funny already, 386 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 2: and you can't rely on it too much. So I 387 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 2: don't fault you for throwing that in. 388 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 4: I just my whole set is I just do this 389 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 4: over and over. 390 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 2: No, you have actually funny jokes. But yes, I've been 391 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 2: watching a lot of Norm recently. Did you see his 392 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 2: SNL monologue when he hosted SNL a year and a 393 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:51,959 Speaker 2: half after being fired. No, Oh my god, you have 394 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 2: to see You have to watch it again. It's on 395 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 2: It was on Reddit. I saw it the other day. 396 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 2: He pretty much says, they fired me from the show. 397 00:17:58,240 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 2: And he goes, it's been a year and a half. 398 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 2: He goes, they fired me because I'm not funny. What 399 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: happened the past year and a half and now I'm funny? 400 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 2: He was like, you know what, He goes, nothing's changed. 401 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 2: I haven't gotten funnier. The only thing that's happened is 402 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 2: this show has gotten less funny. 403 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 1: This show sucks so now, and he pretty much is like, 404 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 1: and then instead of saying at the end, he goes, 405 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: you know how they always go, it's gonna be a 406 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 1: great show, he goes, it's gonna be a terrible show. 407 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: Tonight We've got Snoop Dogg. He was so good. 408 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,679 Speaker 2: But you can hear the writers booing. I watched it 409 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 2: because it said listen to Noram McDonald's SML monologue, and 410 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: the writers are booing because he pretty much says it's 411 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 2: a terrible show. 412 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: Wow, it's the only thing that could have happened. But 413 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: he gets to it in a way that you can't deny. 414 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: It's like he hasn't changed in a year and a half. 415 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 2: Why is this guy that was fired for not being 416 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 2: funny suddenly left back on The only logical answer is 417 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 2: is that the bar has been lowered. It's so good 418 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 2: and you can't hate him for it because he's just 419 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 2: so damn lovable. All Right, We've got a lot of 420 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 2: show ahead of us. We're here with Brian, Noah and 421 00:18:56,160 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 2: Anya will be back right after this. We're back. I 422 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 2: got to say this weekend met a lot of besties 423 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,880 Speaker 2: and haven't had this kind of response to something new 424 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 2: on the podcast in a while. 425 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: But people are on board with Brian Frangie. 426 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 2: They excited. I got a lot of side comments. I'm 427 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 2: just like, I'm a bestie. We hug and everything, and 428 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 2: then we're while we're taking a picture, They're just like, 429 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 2: I really love Ryan, you know, like through their smile. 430 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 2: It's so good. Ryan's the heart of the show. So 431 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 2: they are fucking on board, dude. And I'm not lying. 432 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 2: It was at least two to I would say three 433 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 2: people probably. 434 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 4: That's how many people I venmo to do that. 435 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: Well, it was good. 436 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 2: It was well well spent because it made me feel like, Okay, 437 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 2: I made the right choice. I'm taking all credit for 438 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 2: people liking you. It's no, it was. It was an 439 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: easy choice to make because, yeah, I was just thinking 440 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 2: about you doing your little game of like give them 441 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 2: a story or whatever that game was called on the 442 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 2: street in New York. I once, I think our friendship 443 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 2: re uped because I ran into you on Eighth Avenue 444 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 2: after I was either on my way to get froyo 445 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 2: during my froyo addiction of two thousand and I'll say fourteen. 446 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was many. 447 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 4: Years, it is. I was so fascinating that you remember that. 448 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: Thirteen handles, thirteen handles. Yeah, talking about New York like 449 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 2: ten years sixteen handles, thank you. Ten years ago in 450 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 2: New York on the street. We were on eighth Avenue. 451 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: You were walking south. I was on yours. 452 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. 453 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: Living with Anya. So I was like, you know, I'm 454 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 2: headed back to my apartment. I'm daancing because I was 455 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 2: coming up from seventeenth was walking. 456 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 4: Back from UCB. So that UCB was at twenty sixth Street. 457 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 1: So you were walking downtown. 458 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,479 Speaker 2: I was walking up and then you were with a 459 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 2: girl that you were dating at the time. 460 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 5: Oh my god, yeah, oh my god, Now I remember this, 461 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 5: this is you. Remember Now I'm questioning my choice. 462 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 4: I ran into you twice then, because there was one 463 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 4: time I was leaving UCB and it was on my 464 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 4: twenty sixth Street and I was like. 465 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god on UCB. Yes, yes, and I think 466 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: they're just us. 467 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 4: The fact that we ran into each other previously and 468 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 4: you asked me about this girl. 469 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 2: Oh that's it. And then we walked for a little 470 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: bit together. 471 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 4: No, yeah, wow, yeah, I think so. I think so too. 472 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 2: And that was that was before I even got the 473 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 2: show Not Safe, which then I hired Brian my boyfriend 474 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 2: and I hired Brian. I told my boyfriend about Brian. 475 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 2: I was like, I think we got a guy to 476 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 2: do our digital stuff. He's run Amy Schumer's website until 477 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: she was doing train Wreck because and then he quit 478 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 2: out of just like you know, realizing his here. And 479 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 2: so Chris had one call with you and was like, 480 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 2: I love this guy. And he's not someone who I 481 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 2: I often have to be kind of careful about, like 482 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 2: you're gonna love this person. He's kind of like, let 483 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 2: me decide, you know what I mean, Like he doesn't 484 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 2: want to be told who he's gonna like, which I 485 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 2: totally get because I will say that when Chris Convey 486 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 2: and I first met the night before we met, my 487 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 2: friend who hired Chris and who also was my showrunner, 488 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 2: was like, you're really gonna like this Chris guy. I 489 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,239 Speaker 2: think there's gonna be a thing with you too. And 490 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 2: I was like, don't you tell me who I'm going 491 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 2: to like. I don't like a setup. I don't like expectations. 492 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 2: I don't like anyone like kind of watching me meet 493 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 2: someone and being like. 494 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 495 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 2: And so I at first was very reluctant to give 496 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 2: him a chance because I didn't want Kim Gamble to 497 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: win and to like be like I told you so 498 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 2: and take credit for my crush. 499 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 1: But and then cut to two months later, crying in 500 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: her office. I love him. He doesn't talk to me. 501 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 2: She's like, you don't talk to him? Okay, So Brian, 502 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 2: we then you flew out to La and you did 503 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 2: you move to La? 504 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 4: It was a great text. I was, well. I also 505 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 4: remember when I first started talking to Chris on the phone. 506 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 4: He called me and I was in the supermarket buying 507 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 4: bread and meats for a barbecue, and I was talking 508 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 4: to him while I was like, listen, this is like, 509 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 4: you know, in my perspective, this is not Chris Convey. 510 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,479 Speaker 4: This is a potential boss calling you to interview you. 511 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 4: And so I had to pick up. I picked up 512 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 4: and I was like, hello, I'd love to talk about 513 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 4: I'm buying bread and meats and I'm about to go 514 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 4: to a barbecue. And then he loved this. He's like okay. 515 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 4: It was like should I keep you on the phone 516 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 4: or should I call you back? And he said keep 517 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 4: me on the phone. 518 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: And then there was the friendship that was set in stone, like. 519 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, he he probably loved your honesty and he likes 520 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 2: a little He likes a trip to the store. 521 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, get trip to the store through the phone. 522 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 3: Anyway, who meets you? Got to be friends? 523 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 4: It was multiple meats, But I'm A text I got 524 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 4: from you was one of the best texts of my life. 525 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: What did it say? 526 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 4: I remember this. I was also walking to the store, 527 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 4: like not, I was walking the Whole Foods on uhl 528 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 4: foods on your Oh my god, I have to say 529 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 4: something about Arawan. I'm sure you have lots of opinions 530 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 4: about arawuon. 531 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we've talked about Arawon. 532 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, But but first the text. I was walking 533 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 4: the Whole Foods and I just got a text and 534 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 4: it said it was from you, and it'd be weird 535 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 4: for was it? It said, Brian? Would you will? It 536 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 4: was an Ember alert, and I said, I got to 537 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 4: get out of town. It was from you and it said, Brian, 538 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 4: would you be willing to move to LA for a job? 539 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 4: And I was like, of course I would? Are you 540 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 4: kidding me? I also just had a recent series of 541 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 4: calamities that made me really want to get out of 542 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 4: New York. This is perfect. 543 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, what were those calamities? Do you have your list of. 544 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 3: It didn't work out with a girl on Eighth Avenue. 545 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, yep, we did break up and I had to 546 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 4: move back. I didn't have to. I prefer to move 547 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 4: back to Long Island and live with my dad. But oh, 548 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 4: it's well, first, I love. Yeah, it's too long of 549 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 4: a story, but I I. The first thing that happened 550 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 4: was I was out. I was going out for a job. 551 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,640 Speaker 4: I was. I was very far along in the process 552 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,120 Speaker 4: of being a writer for the Daily Show. And then 553 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 4: one of my arch nemesis is it was between me 554 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 4: and another person. And this is also a blind packet submission. 555 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 4: So I got really far in the process and they 556 00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,159 Speaker 4: told me in the interview I was down. It was 557 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 4: down to you and one of the person. And then 558 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 4: I didn't get it. My arch nemesis did, and I was, oh, my. 559 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: God, I'm dying to know who this arch nemesis was. Well, 560 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 2: I was still around. Are you still kicking around? 561 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: No? 562 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 4: They've had a fall from Grace that was greater than Hitler. 563 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: Uh. 564 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 4: I was devastated. And then long story short, I was robbed. 565 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 4: I got into a car accident. I broke my wrist 566 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 4: all in like the same day, and uh, then you 567 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 4: texted me day but I did a very long story. 568 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 2: You robbed, a car accident, broke wrist. Were any of 569 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 2: those connected? 570 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 4: Well? I was playing football in Brooklyn. I had a 571 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 4: Zog sports football team. 572 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:52,120 Speaker 2: And a group I almost joined one for soccer once. Yeah, 573 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,120 Speaker 2: it's just like a meet up group kind of thing 574 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 2: for sports. 575 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 4: And now Zog is an anti Semitic slur, but oh geez, yeah, 576 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 4: or is it zog? Yeah? Anyway, I was playing I 577 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:07,359 Speaker 4: was playing football, and your list is that is that 578 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 4: one of the anxiety of things on your list? Ong, 579 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 4: I was, I had my car parked and I had 580 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 4: it was Halloween weekend. I had slept over my friend's 581 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 4: house who had a Halloween party, and so I had 582 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 4: a bunch of shit in my car. I had a 583 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 4: laptop in my car, a phone in my car, and 584 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 4: I just I had to park the car out out 585 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 4: in front of the football field because I had nowhere 586 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 4: else to put it. And while I was playing football, 587 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 4: someone threw a brick through my car window, shattering it 588 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 4: and they stole five thousand dollars worth of stuff, which 589 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 4: is a great which is grand larceny. And I, uh, 590 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 4: when we got back to the car. I called the 591 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 4: police and like, it's it's so fast. 592 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: As supposed to larseny. They're like, this is grass like. 593 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 4: Grand they said that's yeah. 594 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,400 Speaker 1: They said that, uh that is interesting. 595 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 2: Okay, grand larceny, yeah, which what does that mean to you? 596 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 2: That just means that if you catch the criminal, that's 597 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,200 Speaker 2: a bigger. 598 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 4: But bigger offense because they stole over five. 599 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 5: It just you get to brag that you were grand. Yes, 600 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 5: it's a better crime to brag a bag. 601 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: Ye, yes, yes, okay, So you broke your wrist while playing. 602 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 4: Well, so I didn't even know my wrist hurt a 603 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,199 Speaker 4: little bit, but they they broke into the car. I 604 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 4: called the police, and the police like, do not give 605 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 4: a shit about robbery. They will not come out. They 606 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 4: don't care. But I told them I had a tracking 607 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 4: device on my phone that on my phone, and so 608 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 4: I used my friend's phone. I had find my iPhone 609 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 4: and I said, I know where they are. I literally 610 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 4: have their location, the person who robbed me. I have 611 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 4: their location. And then they said okay, okay, fine, and 612 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 4: they they took me into the squad car and they 613 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 4: drove me away. And while they drove me away, my 614 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 4: friends were sitting with my car with the broken window, 615 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,639 Speaker 4: and I had placed my my gym bag with my 616 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 4: iPod Mini and my clothes next to the car, and 617 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,199 Speaker 4: we drove off in pursuit of this criminal and we 618 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 4: got to his literal apartment building. We knew the apartment 619 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 4: building he was in, and the police were like, there 620 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,239 Speaker 4: are known purps in that building, and so I was like, well, 621 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 4: this plays a purp, and so we went in there. 622 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 4: They knocked on one person's door and they said did 623 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 4: did someone just come in here with a bag? And 624 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 4: they said no. And then the police were like, well, 625 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 4: that's it. We can't do anything more for you. I'm like, 626 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 4: he's literally in this fucking building with five thousand dollars 627 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 4: worth of stuff. So they said, we can't help you. 628 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 4: They drive me back to my jeep, while not my geep, 629 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 4: my car. 630 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: While I was gone, well. 631 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 4: While I was gone, a totally separate person came and 632 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 4: stole my gym bagh your car with my two friends 633 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 4: next to the car, and I said, I got to 634 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 4: go with the cops. I was distress. It was on 635 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 4: the ground. Oh my god. Okay, well they that's another thing. 636 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 4: They went. They sat in the car to wait, and 637 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 4: they didn't realize the gym bags out there. Some guy 638 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 4: pulled up and just stole the gym bag. It's all 639 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 4: wrong in the same. 640 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 2: Fucking day and broke your wrist and not knowing, And 641 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 2: then I'm guessing your wrist pain might have been psychological, 642 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 2: if we're getting back to that risk. 643 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 4: And then I I was like, you know what, my 644 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 4: wrist hurts a lot. And so the next day or 645 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 4: a couple of days later, I have my dad drive 646 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 4: me to the doctor. They do an x ray and 647 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 4: my wrist. My wrist is broken from what I dove 648 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 4: for an interception and landed. Yeah, I dove for an interception. 649 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 4: I didn't intercept it. Nothing good happened. 650 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 2: We were to make friends at this, Like you do 651 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 2: a lot of things to make friends. Were you trying 652 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 2: to make friends with zog. 653 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,719 Speaker 5: Sports back in the back? In my not judging it 654 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 5: back then, I was not trying to make friends. You're 655 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 5: just trying to have some fun. 656 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 4: I had a couple of friends. I had two friends. 657 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: Uh was telling me about a time in his life 658 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,959 Speaker 1: in la where he had no friends. 659 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Like this was. 660 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: Like no, because I had left town, like me Chris 661 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 1: and Tim had all moved away, and he had no friends, 662 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: and he was just going to like lantern lightings. 663 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 4: I was so desperate for friends. 664 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: Like an Echo park, Like there's like Chinese lantern lightings 665 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 1: so much that's adorable. 666 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 4: Well, just to finish the story, yeah, sorry, sorry, So 667 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 4: they said we got to send you for an X ray. 668 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 4: I had my car back, although the window was broken. 669 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 4: I did that thing that you know poor people do 670 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 4: when they duct tape a piece of plastic over the window. 671 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 4: While I'm driving to get my wrist X ray, somebody 672 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 4: rear ends me. Oh, somebody rear ends me. 673 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 1: This is all within a couple of days. 674 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 4: This is all within less than a week from each other. 675 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 4: And someone rear ends me. And then it's one of 676 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 4: those guys who rear ends you and then immediately gets 677 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 4: out of the car, and it's like, what the hell's happening? 678 00:30:58,800 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 4: He gets out of the car. 679 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 1: You, yeah, he's mad at the situation. 680 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,479 Speaker 2: Break Oh god, it was on Sunrin insurance. You've got 681 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 2: a fucking trash bag. 682 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 3: And he gets broken wrist. 683 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 4: You're like, you're already one of those people who is 684 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 4: in despair. And he gets out of the car and 685 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 4: he goes, this is my mom's car. You gotta help 686 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 4: me out. You can't. Please? Can we not call the police? Please? 687 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 4: He starts doing that they where he like rubs the 688 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 4: spot on the car that he hit. He's like, it's okay, 689 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 4: it's okay. And I was like, you know what, it's fine. 690 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 4: I don't, I can't. I just let it go. I 691 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 4: get to the doctor and I realized that I really 692 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 4: did get injured in that car accident. I have like 693 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 4: my my back hurts, but it didn't last very long, 694 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 4: so it was totally fine. That guy was fine. 695 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 1: And then you get a text for me how much 696 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 1: sooner after. 697 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 4: Like four or five days. 698 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 3: Oh, that's great, amazing. 699 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 4: Four or five days. 700 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: I was a little premature on asking you if you'd moved. 701 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 1: Text is important? Why is it important? 702 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 3: What you mean? 703 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: Is that text important to you? 704 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 3: Brian? 705 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 4: Oh? Well, it was my first job. It was my 706 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 4: first ever job in the industry. I didn't work for 707 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 4: anybody before that. I got I got close to the 708 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 4: Daily Show, I didn't get it. And then other than that, 709 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 4: I was just a piece of shit. 710 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 1: No, And that's why that's why he gets the job. 711 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 2: That's why I thought to give him the job not 712 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 2: only because he's talented, but because he's a nice person. 713 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 2: And I think that's what, like, you know, talent can 714 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 2: take you so far, but like it, I don't know, 715 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 2: I wouldn't. I wouldn't have hired someone who I thought 716 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 2: was more talented than Brian if they were more of 717 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 2: an ass, Like. 718 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: He's just a good, good guy. 719 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 3: So had you guys done any work together or were 720 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 3: you just friendly? 721 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: What did you done? Had you done anything website? 722 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 4: Was I was the host for you? Uh multiple times 723 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 4: at the Comedy Addict, right, Okay, I think it was 724 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 4: your first if I'm not mistaken. Is that where your 725 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 4: first headlining gig? 726 00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah it was. 727 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 4: I hosted your first ever headlining and you had like 728 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 4: a special like memory of like, oh, well you were 729 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 4: the first person. 730 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: Yeah you were so nice and we hung out there 731 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 2: backstage and stuff. Yeah you were just a Yeah, you 732 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 2: were so And I think it was this show that 733 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 2: we were doing because it was like Chris and I 734 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 2: and then we had we were just trying to fill 735 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 2: it with our friends, you know, like that's you have 736 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 2: these opportunities you just want to give and you know, 737 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 2: I remember hearing that story of your life and being like, oh, 738 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 2: this is so exciting to give someone who's so down 739 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 2: and out like a cool thing that other aside from 740 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 2: someone who's not going to appreciate it, Like you just 741 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 2: want people to appreciate things. 742 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: Then you moved to l a given lest we. 743 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 4: Left, and then you abandoned. 744 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: To these events. 745 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 2: Where did you find events to go to to make friends? 746 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 2: Because I think we have a lot of listeners. Who 747 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 2: would you know? And even me, I've moved to new 748 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 2: towns and sometimes you just don't have friends. How do 749 00:33:58,880 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 2: you make friends? 750 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean when you were alone in a new town, 751 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 4: it's it's sheer desperation, which is looking back on it now, 752 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 4: I was like so stupid. All I had to do 753 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 4: was just go to open mics, you know, go to 754 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 4: the improv and I would have made I would have 755 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 4: made some friends. But it was just so disheartening for 756 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 4: me to start over on the open mic scene after 757 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 4: doing New York for whatever. 758 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 2: If you could, you would scene. There's no way you 759 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 2: were going to do that. It just wasn't the right 760 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 2: thing for you at the time. It would have been 761 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,720 Speaker 2: demoralizing in a different way than going to a lantern lighting. 762 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 4: Yes, so I went on different apps. There's like there 763 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 4: was a bunch of different apps. There was meet up groups, 764 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 4: and I would just look at like the events of 765 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 4: the city and be like, maybe I'll meet someone. Literally, 766 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 4: I went to like a Chinese lantern lighting thing hard exhibit, 767 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 4: and I go there and I'm like, I wonder if 768 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 4: I'll talk to anybody while I'm here, and I'm just 769 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 4: looking at like beautiful. 770 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: I had one friend who did it? Can you say that? 771 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 1: Can you say? 772 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 5: Was there one person rat friend? 773 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 4: I had my rat friend to me the other day 774 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 4: at breakfast. 775 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 1: He was like, and I had one rat friend talking about. 776 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 3: An actual rat? 777 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 4: No? No, no, no, well that would be better actually 778 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 4: animal figurative rat. He's not really a rat he was. 779 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 4: I just like calling him a rat fan, because. 780 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 2: Like each other is what my point was, Like each other, 781 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 2: You just it was out of necessity. 782 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 4: To friendship, of convenience. 783 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: And did he have a rat? Is am I like 784 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 1: remembering that wrong? Did he have a pet rat or something? No? 785 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 4: No, he's just he just was a little weasely. 786 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:40,240 Speaker 2: And you you have been you would like not actively 787 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 2: not want to hang out with this person, but then 788 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 2: you would just would because. 789 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 4: When you're so lonely, you have no options, And yeah, 790 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 4: I mean it's either that. And then I joined a 791 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 4: dodgeball league and I would just go. Nobody at the 792 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 4: dodgeball league wanted to be friends with me because I 793 00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 4: wasn't uh dedicated enough to the craft of fucking the balls. 794 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 4: And I got pelted like crazy. I hurt my arm. 795 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 4: People would hit me in the face, they laugh at me, 796 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 4: they'd point, they go because people in La they are 797 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 4: obsessed with dodgeball. It's like pickleball. Now in Florida, It's yeah, no, 798 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 4: they are. They are intense. They can throw the ball 799 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 4: like fifty miles an hour. And I would just get 800 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,839 Speaker 4: the crap beaten out of me and then we'd get 801 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 4: go get drinks after. 802 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 2: Pilly admire you for just going to these things solo. 803 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: It takes a lot. 804 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 3: Of hard to make friends in adulthood, bravery to just 805 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:31,720 Speaker 3: go to stuff alone. 806 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of stuff I've gone to alone. 807 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 2: I know I've done it before. I'm not Taylor Swift parties, 808 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Taylor Swift stuff, even the Taylor Swift concert. 809 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 2: I mean I was meeting a busty there. But yeah, 810 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 2: and I'm going alone actually this Saturday, and in Houston, 811 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 2: I'm going one hundred percent alone. 812 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 1: But that's that. 813 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,399 Speaker 2: I guess that's a similar thing, even though I'm going 814 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 2: to be entertained the whole time, so I don't really 815 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 2: have to talk to anyone. So it's like that fear 816 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 2: of oh, no one's good, but. 817 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 4: Great for you. You're gonna have a cathartic experience that 818 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 4: would be much greater than if you're with someone else 819 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 4: you could do it with. You could have no qualms 820 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 4: about going nuts. 821 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:09,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. 822 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 4: I do. 823 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 1: I wonder how it'll be. 824 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,799 Speaker 2: And then the next night I go with my mom 825 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 2: and we're front row, and so that's going to be 826 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 2: extremely special. And so I'm very excited about this weekend. 827 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 2: And we're also I'm flying to La tomorrow. I'm filming 828 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 2: a couple game shows, including Family Feud, and my family 829 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 2: is all coming out. And today we're going to a 830 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 2: fitting because we don't No one knows what to wear, 831 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 2: And of course I got a stylist for myself and 832 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 2: ask them, do you want a stylist? No, no, no, 833 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 2: And then two days before it's happening, they're like. 834 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what to wear. Nikki like, this isn't fair. 835 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,480 Speaker 2: I mean, it was exactly like that, but it's like 836 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 2: there's panic mode now, and so I go, okay, And 837 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 2: so we're all going to a fitting later today. 838 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: Are you left to say which family? Which family? My family? 839 00:37:58,960 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 4: I know? 840 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,359 Speaker 1: But like, is everyone like Lauren and Matt? 841 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so so my mom, my dad and Lauren 842 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 2: and Matt are all going to be on it. I 843 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 2: just post a picture of his family at the taping, 844 00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 2: so I'm like, yeah, then I'm allowed to say that 845 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,879 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tape this, yes, Steve Harvey. And then we're 846 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,960 Speaker 2: playing against another family, and I won't say who that is, 847 00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 2: but it's a famous guy from a band where their 848 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 2: tongues are out all the time. 849 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so that'll be maybe. So you don't know that 850 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:25,759 Speaker 1: a lot of bands do that? 851 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I bet the Killers one time were like 852 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 2: ah but yeah, so Anya, back to your anxieties. You 853 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 2: went through this list and then I made Matt say 854 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 2: all of his anxieties and that I said all of mine, 855 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 2: and I do feel like we got somewhere through it. 856 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 2: And then we played a question game where I was 857 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:50,800 Speaker 2: just asking questions about I just pulled up like deep 858 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 2: questions to get to know each other, and we just 859 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 2: all were answering questions. 860 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 3: Was so fun. 861 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:57,879 Speaker 2: It was so fun, and Anya was like, how did 862 00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 2: you even come up with that? I'm like, I just go, 863 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,799 Speaker 2: just go questions if you're ever bored and you want 864 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 2: to get to know people, because people don't like to 865 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 2: talk about real stuff, but if you're prompted with a question, 866 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 2: you kind of get into some some real stuff. 867 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 3: I was wondering if you were asking the thirty three 868 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 3: questions that the New York Times was asking, or saying, 869 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 3: will help you fall in love? 870 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 1: Right or no idea? I was kind of looking for 871 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 1: that at first, but I forgot the number. 872 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,359 Speaker 2: I knew it was like a specific number of questions. So, yeah, 873 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 2: there's thirty three questions. I guess that you should ask 874 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 2: your partner and then you stare deeply into each other's 875 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 2: eyes for like four uninterrupted minutes, and then you're supposed 876 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,880 Speaker 2: to definitely fall in love with them. But did you 877 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,160 Speaker 2: learn anything about Matt or about yourself during that question game? 878 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? I definitely. I was like shocked multiple times with 879 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 3: the stuff he was telling you, But as always, I 880 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 3: black out and I can't remember what it was now 881 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 3: that you ask, I know we were. 882 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 2: I mean, it was a long day and then we 883 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 2: had two shows that night. And I will say I 884 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,720 Speaker 2: was gifted by one of our besties with the Taylor 885 00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,360 Speaker 2: Swift Midnight's album that as. 886 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 1: A signed. 887 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 2: Uh picture of her inside of it. It's my favorite Wait, 888 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 2: well that's not it. It's my favorite picture of her. 889 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 2: I know she this this Midnight stuff has done the 890 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,200 Speaker 2: best of any of her art stuff, but it's a 891 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 2: picture of her on the couch that I'm obsessed with, 892 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 2: and she signed it smell it. 893 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: And but it was this really nice fan. 894 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 2: I forget his name right now, but I've tagged him 895 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,080 Speaker 2: on the photos on Instagram that I put this up on. 896 00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 2: But he he and his I guess, I think his boyfriend. 897 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 2: Maybe his friend came up and were like and I 898 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 2: saw them holding this Midnight's album and they go, do 899 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:38,320 Speaker 2: you have And I go no, and they go Taylor 900 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 2: Swift's autograph And my answer is, yes, I do have 901 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 2: Taylor's autograph, but I said no, and they go and 902 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:45,759 Speaker 2: they thought I was saying no to her autograph, but 903 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 2: I met, like, I don't have this album, so I 904 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 2: said no, I don't and they go, well, now you do, 905 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,759 Speaker 2: and so I just want to say to that fan, 906 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 2: I did lie to you unintentionally. I do have her autograph, 907 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 2: but I don't have this album, and I certainly don't 908 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 2: have her autograph this big, and I don't have it 909 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:00,799 Speaker 2: on my favorite picture of her ever. All I have 910 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 2: it on is a bunch of Folklore CDs, and those 911 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 2: are kind of a diamond dozen because she did so 912 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,399 Speaker 2: many of them. Even though I'm grateful for everyone who's 913 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 2: given me one of those, but this is a very 914 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 2: special gift. And I was also given a friendship bracelet 915 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 2: that's a good Girl on it because of the Good 916 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,839 Speaker 2: Girl tour. I was given a collage with a really 917 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 2: nice message on the back. I was given a card. 918 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:26,480 Speaker 2: It was such nice gifts, one slightly better than the rest, 919 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 2: but you know, I know they were I appreciate any 920 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 2: little trinket, any little card, any thing. 921 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,360 Speaker 3: They were so nice. I met them, those. 922 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 1: Guys, Yeah, they were so cute. 923 00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 3: And there were so many cute tours that came to 924 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 3: the Merch Withootoo there, like asking me how to get 925 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 3: out of their own way and become better songwriters and 926 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 3: how to succeed in music and I was just like, 927 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:51,760 Speaker 3: I don't. 928 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 1: I think you just have. 929 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 3: To write songs that you love to hear, and then 930 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 3: you just have to be a nice person and get 931 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 3: out in the world and like make relationships. Like you 932 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:04,319 Speaker 3: guys are talking about it's so underrated to just like 933 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 3: pick up the phone when you're buying meats and be 934 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 3: nice to someone that you've been nice, like hang out 935 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,839 Speaker 3: hung out with in the past, and like say yes 936 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:14,879 Speaker 3: to this. 937 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: Well. 938 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 2: I like that thing of writing songs that you want 939 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,920 Speaker 2: to hear or that some I read somewhere that's some 940 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 2: art is best when you think about what is not 941 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,160 Speaker 2: in the world that I want to consume, What what 942 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 2: is something I need right now that hasn't been done? 943 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:30,759 Speaker 1: How can I make that? 944 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,439 Speaker 2: That's a great place to start, no matter what you're 945 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 2: you're doing. And I listen to you know who Rick 946 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 2: Ross is? Rick Rubin, not Rick Ross, Sorry, but yes, 947 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,200 Speaker 2: Rick Ross is and also a music producer. But Rick Rubin, 948 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:48,800 Speaker 2: I always get them confused. I wonder why and Rick Rubin. 949 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,359 Speaker 1: Legendary music producer, but he's kind of he doesn't you know. 950 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 1: All these videos are going around, like viral videos of 951 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 1: him saying like I don't play musical instrument. 952 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 2: I don't know how to work a soundboard. I just 953 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 2: know I have taste, and artist trust me based on 954 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 2: my taste of what I like and what I don't like. 955 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 2: And he's not even a snob about his taste. I 956 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 2: kind of felt bad after listening to this interview with 957 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 2: him because she was asking about, like, does he have 958 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 2: better taste than other people? He's like, no, I don't 959 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:20,240 Speaker 2: have better that. You can't you can't be You can't 960 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 2: say that a Rihanna album is better than a Beyonce album. 961 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 2: You can't compare the two. Rihanna is making a Rihanna 962 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 2: album and Beyonce is making a Beyonce album. Is Beyonce 963 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,960 Speaker 2: making a better Rihanna album than Rihanna could make? No, 964 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,760 Speaker 2: she's making a better It's apples to oranges. The idea 965 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 2: of any album being better than another one is ridiculous 966 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,439 Speaker 2: because that artist couldn't have made that Rihanna album because 967 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,600 Speaker 2: they're not Rihanna, so it's not even there. You wouldn't 968 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 2: want them to make a Rihanna album because it wouldn't 969 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,759 Speaker 2: sound like them. And I liked it too, And I'm 970 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,759 Speaker 2: not completely paraphrasing it right so the podcast is called 971 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 2: Honestly with Barry Weiss w E I S. S. 972 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 1: Barry b A R. I. If you want to listen 973 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 1: to the Rick Rubin because it's all about creativity. It 974 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:06,799 Speaker 1: was just the way he speaks is so soothing too. 975 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,840 Speaker 2: I mean, he has a great voice and he's just chill, 976 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 2: and I like the way he looks at creativity as 977 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 2: something that you can tap into. And he said, you know, 978 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 2: the best way to tap into it is to clear 979 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,239 Speaker 2: the thoughts, and the best way to clear your thoughts 980 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 2: is meditation, like get closer to your real self. And 981 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,880 Speaker 2: it goes back to it harkens back to the thing 982 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 2: I was talking about. 983 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,240 Speaker 1: I probably talked. 984 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 2: About before the podcast because I talk about it all 985 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,080 Speaker 2: the time because I'm learning it. My voice lessons is 986 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 2: like I'm He's always like, you're trying to sound like 987 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift and I can't help it, Like I've just 988 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,799 Speaker 2: I've only heard Taylor Swift sing these songs that I'm 989 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 2: trying to sing. I don't know another way to sing them. 990 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 2: It doesn't even make sense for me to sing them 991 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 2: in a different way. I don't know. I'm just following 992 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 2: what I know. And he's like, well, that's what it 993 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 2: would be good for you to cover a song that 994 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 2: you've never heard before, which I wouldn't want to do 995 00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,919 Speaker 2: that though, because I don't want I to cover songs 996 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 2: because I like the song already right, like, so it's 997 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:06,320 Speaker 2: really hard to figure out how to sing it best 998 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 2: for me, And then that's going to be the best 999 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,720 Speaker 2: not to sound exactly like Taylor Swift. 1000 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:12,760 Speaker 1: And I think I've. 1001 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 2: Always known that, you know, like mimicking an artist is 1002 00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:18,759 Speaker 2: not going to be the right way to go, but 1003 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 2: I never I guess let it in that I could 1004 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 2: be the only way to get good, because close to 1005 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 2: good is Taylor Swift. Is not to ever sound like her. 1006 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 2: It's to sound like the best version of me, which 1007 00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 2: might be a completely different voice, completely different skill set, 1008 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 2: but whatever gets my soul to come out, whether it's 1009 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 2: like garbled and like sounds terrible, sounds like you know, 1010 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 2: a lawn mower going over some rocks, Like if that's 1011 00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 2: what's truly my soul and conveys the meaning behind the 1012 00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 2: feel the feeling that I'm trying to give you, and 1013 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,239 Speaker 2: you get that feeling from the song, then I've done 1014 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,360 Speaker 2: the job. So like your voice is just a tool 1015 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 2: to get the feeling through. It doesn't matter if it 1016 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 2: sounds pitch perfect or not, because we can all think 1017 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 2: of Because she was talking, she goes, what's the difference 1018 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:12,000 Speaker 2: between a wedding singer who has the great greatest trained 1019 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 2: vote like musically trained voice, like knows all how to 1020 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 2: do every kind of sound, and the difference between someone 1021 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:22,200 Speaker 2: who and Adele? And he's like, well, Adele is able 1022 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,439 Speaker 2: to and sure there are wedding singers that are able 1023 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,880 Speaker 2: to do this, but Adele is able to convey a 1024 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 2: feeling through her voice. And let's not even talk about Adele. 1025 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 2: Let's talk about anyone who you really like that doesn't 1026 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,720 Speaker 2: have the greatest voice, perfection. 1027 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 1: Wise, and you like them and you don't know why. 1028 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 2: It's because they are able through their shitty voice to 1029 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,440 Speaker 2: give you the feeling that this song is meant to convey, 1030 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,440 Speaker 2: oh yeah, better than someone who could do it in 1031 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 2: a really perfect way. And it allows you when you 1032 00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 2: hear that, it allows you to like, Okay, well, let 1033 00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 2: me like loosen up these rules I have for myself 1034 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:59,440 Speaker 2: to sound perfect, because that's actually impeding the message I 1035 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 2: want to to convey. 1036 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think it's like Bob Dylan. I mean 1037 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 4: Bob Dylan sounds like you know is He's like screeching 1038 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:11,359 Speaker 4: through a vent and yeah, somebody. 1039 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:18,560 Speaker 1: It's always AM radio. Yeah. 1040 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:20,400 Speaker 3: I was listening to a band over the weekend on 1041 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 3: the radio and I was like, what is this? Like 1042 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 3: it's it was this. I'm not going to say who 1043 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 3: they are, but they're very big right now. Maybe you 1044 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,360 Speaker 3: won't know them, but I mentioned them to Matt and 1045 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 3: he was like, these guys are like in the top 1046 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:36,640 Speaker 3: ten of Americano music or some I'll find out. I 1047 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 3: forgot but anyway, her I was like, is this from 1048 00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 3: nineteen thirty five? Like her voice was like ah, and 1049 00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:44,880 Speaker 3: I was just like hating it. But I listened to 1050 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,839 Speaker 3: the whole song and then I was like, I get it. 1051 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,840 Speaker 3: She's really conveying a feeling. I don't want to listen 1052 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,040 Speaker 3: to her this voice necessarily, but I'm getting this story. 1053 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,280 Speaker 1: Yes, you got the feeling. You don't need that feeling 1054 00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,440 Speaker 1: in your life. I think we're drawn to things because 1055 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 1: we either that feeling resonates with us or we're void 1056 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 1: of that feeling and we need to feel it. 1057 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 2: And it needs So you just weren't. You weren't in 1058 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,239 Speaker 2: the mood for that. There are some people's voices yeah 1059 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 2: that really aren't for me. And maybe that's because they're 1060 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,720 Speaker 2: not doing a good job of achieving delivering the feeling. 1061 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:19,360 Speaker 3: Or maybe it's a formula. 1062 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 7: Maybe what Anya was sensing is that because this song 1063 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 7: is in the top ten or whatever, it is just 1064 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 7: following a formula and it goes against what Anya was 1065 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 7: saying previously about staying true to her own voice, what 1066 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 7: reck Rubin was saying, what Nikki, you have said about 1067 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 7: your own comedy performance and being authentic on stage. It's 1068 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,400 Speaker 7: like when you're not author and with what you were saying, Nikki, 1069 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 7: like that is creativity when you can just be so 1070 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,440 Speaker 7: authentic and not care about outside influence and you put 1071 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 7: that into the world and people receive it. 1072 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 2: Not giving people what you think they want because you 1073 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,879 Speaker 2: can't you can't possibly predict. You think you can because 1074 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 2: you see what goes well on TikTok, you see what 1075 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 2: you admire, people that you like, and you go if 1076 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 2: I do that, I think that's why the mannerisms that 1077 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 2: are you know, poisoning female stand up comedy of this 1078 00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,080 Speaker 2: like kind of like these faces of like. 1079 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:13,319 Speaker 1: What these little mugs after the joke. 1080 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:17,839 Speaker 2: Those bug me not because they don't work or because 1081 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 2: they're not funny. 1082 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: They seem insincere to me. 1083 00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,439 Speaker 2: If we come back to anything that bugs me about 1084 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:27,120 Speaker 2: stand up comedy, it's insincerity, and I think it's just 1085 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,799 Speaker 2: performative and I don't like it because it's something that 1086 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 2: you had planned to do, which is not a problem. 1087 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 1: We all plan our. 1088 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:36,200 Speaker 2: Sets, but it it comes from a place of I'm 1089 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 2: gonna do this thing because I've seen it work for 1090 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 2: other people, and that's what I don't like. 1091 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 1: And it's not that I don't like that they do it. 1092 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 1: I don't like when I do it, and I'm projecting 1093 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: onto them. So please don't write these people and say 1094 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 1: I'm talking shit about you, because you'll be able to 1095 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 1: start seeing this in every female comic, including myself. It's 1096 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: you won't sub sing, it's it's it's everywhere these mugs. 1097 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 1: After that they land their joke, then they. 1098 00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 3: Go, oh yeah, why don't they look at it both 1099 00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 3: to the side, like when Amy does it or did 1100 00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,040 Speaker 3: it or you know, continues to do it or whatever. 1101 00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,360 Speaker 3: It's funny, but it's not the punchline. And with a 1102 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,720 Speaker 3: lot of these jokes I've seen the things you're talking about, 1103 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,719 Speaker 3: that's the punchline. So they're like set up, set up, 1104 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,719 Speaker 3: set up. This guy said this crazy thing to me, 1105 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 3: and then this mug and then it's like big laugh 1106 00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:19,520 Speaker 3: and then they move on to the next joke, whereas 1107 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 3: Amy would be like mug, hmm okay, and then she 1108 00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 3: goes on to deliver the punchline or make it. 1109 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 2: You know, Amy's was a space for the audience to 1110 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 2: laugh where she didn't have to talk. It was giving 1111 00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:34,719 Speaker 2: her something to do for the laugh to come out, 1112 00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 2: but still giving them something. So as they're laughing, she's 1113 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 2: making the face and you're right on you. I think 1114 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 2: that although a lot of these girls do have great 1115 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,600 Speaker 2: punchlines and they are good comics, that's why it makes 1116 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 2: me mad. 1117 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,279 Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't need this shit. 1118 00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 2: You're adding these like tags, and I do stuff all 1119 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 2: the time that is so annoying in stand up and 1120 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 2: stuff that I've done that I could roll my eyes at. 1121 00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 2: So these are probably younger comics, so I should be nicer. 1122 00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,279 Speaker 2: But I'm just calling out things that i'm noticing that 1123 00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 2: annoy me, and I'm saying that I've done them before. 1124 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,160 Speaker 2: Please don't come after these girls don't say Nicki Glazer's 1125 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,000 Speaker 2: talking shit about you. I'm just calling out a thing 1126 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,160 Speaker 2: I'm noticing. I've done it before too. We all make 1127 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:15,319 Speaker 2: mistakes as artists. It is it's yeah, it's inherently not 1128 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 2: funny itself, and it's I get doing it. If you're 1129 00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 2: doing crowd work, if someone says what their job is 1130 00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,440 Speaker 2: and it's something weird, and you need a beat to 1131 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:27,000 Speaker 2: think about what you're gonna say next, because you need 1132 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,240 Speaker 2: to crowd work, you need a little bit of thinking space. 1133 00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,040 Speaker 2: Generally a couple seconds a mug, A mug to the 1134 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,560 Speaker 2: left and the right buys you that. But if you're 1135 00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 2: if your actual act is that you should have a 1136 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,799 Speaker 2: plan already for what to do, and you can use 1137 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 2: it once or twice. 1138 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 1: I don't mind it. 1139 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,880 Speaker 2: But with every joke, I mean, I've saw a clip 1140 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 2: recently and I counted ten times that this little face 1141 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,480 Speaker 2: was made and it's. 1142 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 3: Just creuch for sure. And maybe it's also a trend. 1143 00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,920 Speaker 3: And that's annoying to me when when when you see 1144 00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,960 Speaker 3: the trend throughout, like in music, when everybody's was for 1145 00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 3: a while they're doing what is that called? I forgot 1146 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:07,880 Speaker 3: the term for ah behad the queeze my baby voice, 1147 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:11,319 Speaker 3: like weird baby voice, but like not enunciating like queisme. 1148 00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 3: And then it stopped, like it's not as pervasive. And 1149 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,320 Speaker 3: then I was listening to like an older Taylor Swift 1150 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 3: song from maybe like seven eight years ago, and she 1151 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 3: was doing a lot of this like cool melodic thing. 1152 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 3: Maybe it wasn't Taylor, but a lot of songs at 1153 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 3: the time seven eight years ago, we're doing like tons 1154 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:36,879 Speaker 3: of like larpeggiated melodies. I'll think of examples and bring 1155 00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 3: them in. But that doesn't happen as much anymore. So 1156 00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 3: there are all these. 1157 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 2: Dramaturgically, it didn't work for you. What's the word that 1158 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,520 Speaker 2: I Meanturgically it didn't work for you. Okay, well we 1159 00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 2: will talk about more and uh after this, and we 1160 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 2: we're gonna do reddit dump I think our first time 1161 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:56,520 Speaker 2: doing that with Brian and uh so stay here, we'll 1162 00:52:56,520 --> 00:53:01,560 Speaker 2: be right by, all right, So let's get to reddit 1163 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 2: dump before I forget. 1164 00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,600 Speaker 4: While you're looking up that reddit dump. One thing that 1165 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:11,239 Speaker 4: men do in songs is they go, uh oh like. 1166 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 3: That, yes was the thing I was thinking of, Oh 1167 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,600 Speaker 3: like that. 1168 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:19,800 Speaker 4: To be done. 1169 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 2: Oh, there's also a trend where in pop songs there 1170 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:24,880 Speaker 2: was this it sounds like a group of guys and 1171 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 2: an Alley going, hey, hey, that's even in a Taylor's 1172 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 2: recent Tailor Shows song. And I like that she used 1173 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,400 Speaker 2: it because she's kind of like, I feel like she 1174 00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 2: has to know that that's being overused, but she was like, 1175 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:37,760 Speaker 2: let's throw it anyway. 1176 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, if you start listening. 1177 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,799 Speaker 2: There also is a YouTube video where I learned about that, 1178 00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,839 Speaker 2: where it's like, if you listen to every pop song 1179 00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 2: from like twenty fifteen on. 1180 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,240 Speaker 1: You hear hey, hey, I hate it's just like sounds 1181 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 1: like a group of guys walking down the street like 1182 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 1: in lockstep like Nazis. 1183 00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,680 Speaker 2: To me, it really yeah, it's not great. Okay, Reddit 1184 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:00,720 Speaker 2: dump makes me sick. 1185 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:05,799 Speaker 1: This is your redit dumb all right. 1186 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:11,360 Speaker 2: So this one is actually apropos because I'm about to 1187 00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,279 Speaker 2: go do family Feud with my fan and we are 1188 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 2: trying to prepare for it, and I've been playing family 1189 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 2: Feud on my phone. I've been playing it with my parents. 1190 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,200 Speaker 2: We're not good at it. But the key to being 1191 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 2: good at family Feud is not being good at the game. 1192 00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 2: The show is a comedy show, so it's being funny 1193 00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,640 Speaker 2: saying funny answers, giving things for Steve Harvey to do 1194 00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,799 Speaker 2: this new female comic thing, which is look to the left, 1195 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:35,360 Speaker 2: look to the right, look baffled like that is Steve 1196 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 2: Harvey's like, you know, number one move. And the funniest 1197 00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 2: thing is when he's reacting to crazy answers. And this 1198 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:43,800 Speaker 2: was one that I sent to my whole family to say, 1199 00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,799 Speaker 2: this is what I want out of you? Is this 1200 00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 2: kind of random shit? So this isn't like the I 1201 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 2: don't know, the final round, you know, where they have 1202 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,759 Speaker 2: to like, you know, answer very quickly. And this is 1203 00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:54,560 Speaker 2: what this guy said. 1204 00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 7: Noah, hit it, man, I'm something a burglar would not 1205 00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:58,919 Speaker 7: want to see when he breaks into a house. 1206 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:09,920 Speaker 1: Naked grandma, What speak grandma? It was the second answer. 1207 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:13,359 Speaker 1: It was just like, uh, naked, What did you say? 1208 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,040 Speaker 3: I didn't really say naked grandma? 1209 00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,919 Speaker 4: His face is yeah, na stretched it for that one. 1210 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:21,880 Speaker 4: They give you naked grandma as occupant. 1211 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just naked grandma. 1212 00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 2: And I said Matt, because Matt is the one in 1213 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 2: our family that can probably say the weirdest thing. My 1214 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,120 Speaker 2: mom actually is going to do the lightning round or 1215 00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:33,920 Speaker 2: whatever it is. Because they tell you, like, who do 1216 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 2: you want to do that for your family? So it's 1217 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,720 Speaker 2: gonna be lyrius, But that is That is the example 1218 00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:41,480 Speaker 2: I gave, Like I need you guys to be this 1219 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 2: random and this weird and this irreverent. Okay, let me 1220 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,879 Speaker 2: look at a fun word one. Okay, Oh, this one 1221 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:54,080 Speaker 2: I wanted to bring up because it was We've talked 1222 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,880 Speaker 2: about it on the podcast recently. Okay, this is dating 1223 00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:01,360 Speaker 2: underscore advice is the subreddit? Is it too much to 1224 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 2: bake the guy's favorite dessert for the second date. I 1225 00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,319 Speaker 2: just had a very nice first date yesterday and we 1226 00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 2: already and he already asked me if I was free 1227 00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 2: to go out for dinner on Saturday. This girl is 1228 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 2: twenty nine. He's thirty one. He was really nice and 1229 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:15,799 Speaker 2: sweet and a sweet guy. And he also insisted on 1230 00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,959 Speaker 2: paying for our drinks, even though I kept offering as well. 1231 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,800 Speaker 2: Mistake then when he saw it was raining, to keep offering, 1232 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:26,000 Speaker 2: just offer once and then stop it. Then, when he 1233 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 2: saw it was raining, he offered to walk to his 1234 00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:31,799 Speaker 2: place that was closed. He offered to walk to his 1235 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,120 Speaker 2: place that was closed. We grabbed an umbrella and he 1236 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,960 Speaker 2: walked me home. I am the kind of person that 1237 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:39,680 Speaker 2: loves giving, and my main love languages are acts of 1238 00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:43,480 Speaker 2: service and gifting. That doesn't mean, wait, you can't say 1239 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,799 Speaker 2: what your love language is the thing you like to do. 1240 00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:49,319 Speaker 2: And I do want to also show that I appreciate him, 1241 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,480 Speaker 2: so I was thinking of baking him as favorite dessert 1242 00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:54,600 Speaker 2: and this girl's from Canada because it's fav ret dessert 1243 00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:57,479 Speaker 2: to give it to him on Saturday. I'm a bit scared, however, 1244 00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 2: and unsure as I don't want to come off as 1245 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 2: too much any opinion opinions, thank you, and then oh oh. 1246 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,680 Speaker 1: Let me just say that I am. 1247 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm scrolling down to read the comments to be like, 1248 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:11,400 Speaker 2: surely they told this woman, do not. 1249 00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 1: Do this disaster bad idea. You had a good day. 1250 00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:19,520 Speaker 2: No gifts for the guy he can't yet, don't. 1251 00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 1: Literally. 1252 00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 2: I was just texting with Spade this morning because we 1253 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 2: had to do this Las Vegas interview when we were 1254 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,480 Speaker 2: both on Katla and it was really funny, but we 1255 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:30,040 Speaker 2: were talking about girls when they're like He's like, he 1256 00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 2: was talking about girls saying like not getting back to 1257 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:34,800 Speaker 2: him and being and just one girl wrote back like 1258 00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 2: he's like, hey, you want to go to dinner night 1259 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 2: and she just wrote Coachella, and like we're talking and 1260 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 2: he has a joke that says, and by the way, 1261 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 2: Spade and I are going to be in Vegas next 1262 00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:45,040 Speaker 2: Saturday at the Venetian. 1263 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,800 Speaker 1: But he said that he has a bit. 1264 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,360 Speaker 2: That I've heard before, but I want him to do 1265 00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:51,680 Speaker 2: it again about how girls will say they're bad at texting, 1266 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 2: and then he gets around them and they're like, like 1267 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,400 Speaker 2: the whole time they're they're like, I'm. 1268 00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,120 Speaker 1: Bad at texting. Sorry, they'll get back to you. 1269 00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:58,840 Speaker 2: And I was telling him about a friend I had 1270 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,080 Speaker 2: who convinced herself that the sky was in a train 1271 00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 2: accident and that maybe she needed to like me. 1272 00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: I love it. So Anya went on a date with 1273 00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:10,560 Speaker 1: the guy. 1274 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:15,960 Speaker 3: It went well, which makes it more embarrassing. 1275 00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:16,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1276 00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 2: It's kind of like Franzi's thing of like getting that 1277 00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:20,320 Speaker 2: the guy who got the job at the Daily Show. 1278 00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,600 Speaker 1: This person was really killing it at the time. 1279 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:26,560 Speaker 2: They quite a fall from grace since then still killing 1280 00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 2: it because like cancel culture is not real. 1281 00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,960 Speaker 3: End up getting nominated for an Oscar I think for something. 1282 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 2: So Anya has a polite kiss on the cheek with 1283 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 2: this guy like after the date. Then he heads off 1284 00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 2: she goes back down to the subway. They don't really 1285 00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:41,680 Speaker 2: hear from each other. I think you probably send him 1286 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,280 Speaker 2: an email afterwards, just saying like this was before getting 1287 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,080 Speaker 2: to I do the book that changed everything for all 1288 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:50,280 Speaker 2: of us. And so then a few days later, there 1289 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:54,000 Speaker 2: was like an amtrak derailment, like I don't know, in 1290 00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,600 Speaker 2: Connecticut or something, and she had heard he was going 1291 00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:57,840 Speaker 2: to Connecticut. 1292 00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, he was filming there, and so she goes, 1293 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,280 Speaker 1: I think I want to reach out to see like 1294 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:04,680 Speaker 1: if he's okay, And I'm like, first of all, what 1295 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,760 Speaker 1: are you gonna do if he's like pinned underneath the 1296 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 1: beverage cart, what are you going to do? First of all, 1297 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:14,800 Speaker 1: thank god Audio reached out this girl I went on 1298 00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 1: a date with five days ago. And then also Nikki. 1299 00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:24,240 Speaker 3: Go babe, you'll hear about it on the news. 1300 00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:24,600 Speaker 4: Definite. 1301 00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,920 Speaker 2: Yes, he's the type of famous that, yes, he would 1302 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 2: absolutely be. 1303 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:33,560 Speaker 1: It would be like, oh my god, this guy was killed. 1304 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:35,800 Speaker 3: I just could his face that he was never gonna 1305 00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:36,640 Speaker 3: text me again. 1306 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:42,240 Speaker 2: Yes, So anyway, anyone, everyone in this comment section is like, dude, 1307 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,040 Speaker 2: if a girl bakes me my favorite dessert on the 1308 00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,439 Speaker 2: second date, she's gonna be my girlfriend after that, because 1309 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:47,600 Speaker 2: she's clearly the one for me. 1310 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:49,640 Speaker 1: These fucking sad losers are. 1311 00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 2: Just imagining this girlfriend there is Sorry to call them 1312 00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:53,200 Speaker 2: sad losers. 1313 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 1: I don't mean that. 1314 00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,840 Speaker 2: I just mean these guys don't know how they work psychologically. 1315 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,600 Speaker 1: You are not or you're. 1316 00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,840 Speaker 2: Maybe uh the the female energy, which is not me 1317 01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 2: calling you a simple loser. It's me saying like, you 1318 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 2: don't want a mess, you want a masculine energy woman, 1319 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 2: because a masculine energy woman is gonna get gift the 1320 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 2: shit out of you and you're gonna love it. But 1321 01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,520 Speaker 2: most men are not. But all these men think they 1322 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 2: would want that. That's the thing, Like you think that 1323 01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 2: you would want this? Yeah, you're Because then Spade said 1324 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,680 Speaker 2: the funniest thing I just got. I want to just 1325 01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,640 Speaker 2: read it because he goes, oh he was talking about 1326 01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:26,360 Speaker 2: I was. I told him the story about Anya with 1327 01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 2: the train. I didn't say Anya, but I told him 1328 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,080 Speaker 2: about the celebrity because it was like it was funny, 1329 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,840 Speaker 2: and he was like, oh my god, her saying I'm 1330 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,439 Speaker 2: worried about you. He goes any woman because he said 1331 01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:37,240 Speaker 2: an example of a guy in his life who also 1332 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:38,440 Speaker 2: was like, I want to reach out to her, I'm 1333 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:40,640 Speaker 2: worried about her, and he goes, that is gonna make 1334 01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 2: her hate you so much more. There's nothing women hate 1335 01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,240 Speaker 2: more than being worried about It's just so funny that 1336 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,400 Speaker 2: the only way to get a girl that Darnie doesn't 1337 01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:49,800 Speaker 2: like you, to get her like you less, is to 1338 01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,840 Speaker 2: say I'm worried about you and like what I care? 1339 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:56,600 Speaker 3: And we're just like, ugh, yeah, I was gonna say, 1340 01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 3: read about the AMPTPR draft. 1341 01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:04,920 Speaker 1: Heard about the Amtrak thing? Are you okay? 1342 01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:05,760 Speaker 4: No? 1343 01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,680 Speaker 1: Is it in your drafts? Is it in your drafts? 1344 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 3: She also is more embarrassing. He told me that he 1345 01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:16,200 Speaker 3: had a little daughter. He told me that his daughter 1346 01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,400 Speaker 3: was gluten free and had Celiac or some bullshit. And 1347 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,960 Speaker 3: in our stupid date. During our date, I had told him, Oh, 1348 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,959 Speaker 3: there's this really cool frozen yogurt. She was allergic to dairy. 1349 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, there's a fruit frozen yogurt place in New York. 1350 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 3: It's in the Union Square. It's all fruit. And he 1351 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,400 Speaker 3: was like, Oh, really, that's really cool. I'd love to 1352 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,880 Speaker 3: take her there where he seemed a little interested after 1353 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,480 Speaker 3: the am trip. The real name where he lived and 1354 01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,000 Speaker 3: I never wrote out to him. I was like, maybe 1355 01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,600 Speaker 3: he doesn't have my number, and I'm looking really cute 1356 01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 3: today and I'm going to that place anyway. I spent 1357 01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 3: twenty minutes taking selfies of me holding this fruit froio, 1358 01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:56,840 Speaker 3: and then I sent it to him and was like like, 1359 01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 3: maybe even without Nikki is dying, right, okay? 1360 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 2: Like I honestly, I am disassociating. I literally stopped listening 1361 01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:09,000 Speaker 2: because I can't handle how embarrassing the system. 1362 01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:11,320 Speaker 3: We never rought me back. I sent the cutest selfie 1363 01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 3: of me with this. 1364 01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 4: Fruit cup and I was like, oh, was that before 1365 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 4: or after the train derailment? 1366 01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,400 Speaker 1: Oh? It was after because I talked her out of 1367 01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:21,320 Speaker 1: the train derailment. And I go, just wait and. 1368 01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:27,840 Speaker 4: Since, be honest, what if he was in the train 1369 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,120 Speaker 4: derailment and he's dying and then he gets this picture 1370 01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,280 Speaker 4: of you with the frozen yogurt, just. 1371 01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 1: Reminding him of the daughter he's leaving behind as he 1372 01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 1: bleeds out, I've done this before to set like sexual 1373 01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 1: self like just like cute selfies, like is that that? 1374 01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:43,480 Speaker 5: Like? 1375 01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:45,200 Speaker 3: Remember the frozen yogurt? 1376 01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:45,800 Speaker 1: Your daughter? 1377 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:50,840 Speaker 3: Here's my tit with that, here's me rubbing my nipple 1378 01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 3: in this. 1379 01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 2: I have never I mean, I hope to never have 1380 01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:58,920 Speaker 2: to do this kind of shit again, where it's just 1381 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 2: so desperate and sad. I mean I said something to 1382 01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,640 Speaker 2: Chris over the weekend that really he didn't write back to, 1383 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,120 Speaker 2: and I was kind of like, what the fuck, Like 1384 01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:08,080 Speaker 2: I put effort into it. So we watched the show alone, 1385 01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:09,760 Speaker 2: you know, where people dropped in the wilderness and they 1386 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 2: have to like fend for themselves. And there was this 1387 01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:13,840 Speaker 2: one character that always would go hey bear every time 1388 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:15,560 Speaker 2: I saw a bear, Hey bear, because that's what you're 1389 01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:16,920 Speaker 2: supposed to say to bears. I guess there's an a 1390 01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:18,960 Speaker 2: Pargazzi joke about it too, but he would always go, 1391 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 2: hey bear, Hey bear. His name's Colton. So I saw 1392 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,680 Speaker 2: a bike, you know, like a bike rental thing, you know, 1393 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,440 Speaker 2: like limescooters, but it was called hey bike, and so 1394 01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:29,040 Speaker 2: I took a picture of the bike, and I was like, 1395 01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,080 Speaker 2: and then I just put a picture of Colton next 1396 01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:33,880 Speaker 2: to the bike picture, and was obviously it's just like 1397 01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 2: him going hey bike. And Chris never wrote back, and 1398 01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:38,760 Speaker 2: I was just so embarre. And then last night I go, 1399 01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:40,520 Speaker 2: why didn't you write back to that? And he was like, 1400 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,960 Speaker 2: I didn't understand it. I looked at it for so long. 1401 01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,200 Speaker 2: I go, why is this mountain man next to a bike? 1402 01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:48,920 Speaker 2: Like maybe it's a mountain bike and he's a mountain man. 1403 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,840 Speaker 2: I go, that's Colton from the show. And then he 1404 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 2: kept going like yeah, I just didn't get it. I go, well, now, 1405 01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,600 Speaker 2: will you acknowledge it now that it's very funny? And 1406 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:57,480 Speaker 2: he's like, yes, it was very good. But I'm like, 1407 01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 2: don't you ever let something like they're going good? Okay, 1408 01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 2: So back to this comment girls are writing or another 1409 01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,240 Speaker 2: guy goes, if you did this for me, I'd want 1410 01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:05,720 Speaker 2: to marry you. 1411 01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 7: Lmao. 1412 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:08,840 Speaker 1: Yes, do it in parentheses. 1413 01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,400 Speaker 2: A guy like me would immediately fall ahead over heels 1414 01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 2: for such a sweet thing. Another guy guy here, I 1415 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,560 Speaker 2: would appreciate it and find this incredibly sweet. It would 1416 01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:18,280 Speaker 2: be weird if you brought like a random thing. But 1417 01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:21,840 Speaker 2: presumably his favorite came up in conversations, So this is love. 1418 01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 1: I think these are all bots. 1419 01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:28,000 Speaker 4: These yes want to bang her exactly. 1420 01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: These are lonely, horny men that are just like, oh 1421 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:32,920 Speaker 1: my god, the way to my heart is through my stomach. 1422 01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:34,000 Speaker 1: Like this kind of bullshit. 1423 01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,160 Speaker 2: Now, let me just see what she wrote back because 1424 01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,960 Speaker 2: so she wrote back to one of these comments, and 1425 01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:40,520 Speaker 2: I want to share it with you. She had a 1426 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 2: little so she read all the comments, which I'm guessed 1427 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 2: these are just the top ones. Are people most in 1428 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,600 Speaker 2: dating advice. It's very it's a positive flace on Reddit, 1429 01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:51,000 Speaker 2: and they're always kind of like lifting people up because 1430 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 2: it's so sad out there. So I think further beneath 1431 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:56,479 Speaker 2: there have to be some negative comments that say don't 1432 01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,320 Speaker 2: do this. She goes, you guys are too kind. I 1433 01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:01,040 Speaker 2: just went through all the comments and the feelings are mixed. However, 1434 01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,280 Speaker 2: I guess that if it's not well received, he's not 1435 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:03,920 Speaker 2: the right person. 1436 01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 1: I just don't want to spook him out. Okay. Then 1437 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:09,439 Speaker 1: someone said the right person doesn't run when spooked. She said, 1438 01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:12,600 Speaker 1: fair enough. So what do you think? Noah, I want 1439 01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:14,120 Speaker 1: to hear your thought on this, because you always have 1440 01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 1: just such mindful and like you've memorized the getting too. 1441 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:21,120 Speaker 1: I do book. You kind of know the rules, do 1442 01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,479 Speaker 1: you think? Because the girls will use this argument quite 1443 01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:26,480 Speaker 1: often and also to give advice to their friends, we 1444 01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,760 Speaker 1: all say like, well, if he doesn't like it, then 1445 01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:32,360 Speaker 1: he's not the right man for you. Where where do 1446 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 1: you land? On that, like, where do you land on 1447 01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,000 Speaker 1: not being who you truly are, which is to bake 1448 01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,360 Speaker 1: a guy a cake on the second date, just like 1449 01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 1: Bliss did. She ended up getting second placed on the 1450 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:42,760 Speaker 1: show Love is Blind, but now she's married to him, 1451 01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:44,120 Speaker 1: so it worked out for her in the end. After 1452 01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:45,880 Speaker 1: Irena turned out to be a Russian snake. 1453 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,200 Speaker 3: No need to say Russian in there. 1454 01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,400 Speaker 2: Last time I said Russian stake. I wanted to say 1455 01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:52,960 Speaker 2: they had nothing to do with each other. I'm just 1456 01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:56,080 Speaker 2: saying she's Russian and a snake, a sleepy Russian snake. Okay, 1457 01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,400 Speaker 2: So where do you land Noah? 1458 01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 7: Okay, I would tell her, do not bake anything until 1459 01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:07,120 Speaker 7: you guys are in a relationship. That's like commitment level. 1460 01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:09,920 Speaker 2: Well what if she's like, but I this is so 1461 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:12,200 Speaker 2: who I am to bake a guy. I want a 1462 01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 2: guy who is going to accept a cake on a 1463 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,120 Speaker 2: first a second date. I want to be able to 1464 01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:19,200 Speaker 2: bake a guy who I had a great connection with. Okay, well, 1465 01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:22,000 Speaker 2: favorite thing. Here's that's who I am. Here's what I 1466 01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:26,320 Speaker 2: think about dating and what I hope. Well, because you're 1467 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:28,400 Speaker 2: just saying what you think, you're in your I'm being 1468 01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,080 Speaker 2: in my masculine right now, And I hope. 1469 01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 1: He's not anywhere in the room because you should be 1470 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:33,960 Speaker 1: talking from I feel if he's overhearing this. 1471 01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 7: Okay, I hope this is helpful when you're going out 1472 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:39,720 Speaker 7: on dates. Think of it as like collecting information. You're 1473 01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 7: collecting information about this person so that you can make 1474 01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,760 Speaker 7: a wise decision down the road whether or not you 1475 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:48,080 Speaker 7: want to spend a lot of your time and openness 1476 01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:52,120 Speaker 7: and vulnerability with this person. So right now you're just 1477 01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 7: kind of like in that phase of collecting information and 1478 01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 7: it's not you don't want to be so giving because 1479 01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:01,400 Speaker 7: you're opening yourself up to getting walked all over. And 1480 01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:05,000 Speaker 7: I think if that's a good advice for when you're dating, 1481 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,400 Speaker 7: when you're starting to make new friends. We've all been there. 1482 01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:12,520 Speaker 7: We've shown our kindness and people interpreted it as weakness. 1483 01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:18,480 Speaker 1: So we're okay, just see it. We're setting cool, but. 1484 01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:22,280 Speaker 3: We're setting the tone. Also, this is for the ladies. 1485 01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:26,240 Speaker 3: You're setting the tone for the relationship. So if you're 1486 01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:30,040 Speaker 3: you will have so much time to bake if you 1487 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,120 Speaker 3: guys get married or you will have your life to 1488 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:37,240 Speaker 3: bake and be yourself, get really honest about your motives 1489 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:38,800 Speaker 3: really honest. 1490 01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:39,520 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. 1491 01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:41,760 Speaker 2: I think the motive here is he'll like me more 1492 01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:44,200 Speaker 2: if I do This is not scrape for. 1493 01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:47,720 Speaker 1: It's not her being her. That's so it. 1494 01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:50,760 Speaker 4: And you got to remember at the beginning, you're trying 1495 01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,600 Speaker 4: to attract each other. You're not in a relationship yet, 1496 01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,320 Speaker 4: so you got to do things that will continue the 1497 01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:59,240 Speaker 4: attraction because at that stage people could be dating that 1498 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,680 Speaker 4: you're in competition with all the other daters. 1499 01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 3: That really knows this one thing she's doing. She's like, 1500 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:07,320 Speaker 3: I'm trying to attract him. Will this attract him? And 1501 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:08,240 Speaker 3: all the dudes are. 1502 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:12,360 Speaker 4: Like attracting these dudes on Reddit. 1503 01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:14,840 Speaker 2: It is, but there they don't even know how much 1504 01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,200 Speaker 2: they would be unattracted to it if it were actually happening, 1505 01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 2: if they knew that they had this woman on the 1506 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,679 Speaker 2: hook and that there wasn't any chase. She's not only 1507 01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:24,680 Speaker 2: she's not only totally on board for you. This is 1508 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:26,840 Speaker 2: also by the way cake on the second date can 1509 01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 2: or baking him a dessert can also represent sex. Giving 1510 01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:32,439 Speaker 2: him something that you put a lot of effort into 1511 01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:34,840 Speaker 2: that is something that you give your someone that you 1512 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:37,680 Speaker 2: should love, like wait for the cake and wait for 1513 01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:41,240 Speaker 2: the pussy until you're in love and until. 1514 01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,519 Speaker 3: He loves to him that you hope that you're in 1515 01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,639 Speaker 3: you hope he likes you. And that's not what dating 1516 01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:51,160 Speaker 3: is about. Like Noah said that in the beginning, he's 1517 01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 3: courting you. I think, I know that's an antiquated idea 1518 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 3: and maybe no. 1519 01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:57,800 Speaker 2: But if you're the feminine energy in the relationship, which 1520 01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,760 Speaker 2: you have to determine what you're going to be, If 1521 01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:02,920 Speaker 2: you're masculine energy woman, you're courting him, probably right, wouldn't 1522 01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:03,280 Speaker 2: you say? 1523 01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:08,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? But you are both gathering data about each other, 1524 01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:11,760 Speaker 3: like Noah said, So he's going to gather about you, like, Oh, 1525 01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:14,840 Speaker 3: she's very uh giving, and she's going to bake me 1526 01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:16,040 Speaker 3: stuff and she's kind. 1527 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,040 Speaker 2: Of trying to them in an energy man would like 1528 01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:19,800 Speaker 2: a cake being baked for him, and that would be 1529 01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:22,200 Speaker 2: a good move to do if you were the second date, 1530 01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,760 Speaker 2: I think, well, I think what about a man doing 1531 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,559 Speaker 2: that for a woman, let's say, buying her a baking I. 1532 01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 1: Wouldn't like that. That would be like two over the top. 1533 01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:33,320 Speaker 4: I've done that before. I haven't made the cake, but 1534 01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:38,200 Speaker 4: I've done done early absolute disaster. What she should do 1535 01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:40,040 Speaker 4: is she should buy all the ingredients for the cake, 1536 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:42,320 Speaker 4: and then she should bake the cake, and then she 1537 01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:44,840 Speaker 4: should cancel the date and eat the cake, and then 1538 01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:46,320 Speaker 4: the next day she should be like, oh, I ate 1539 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,479 Speaker 4: this cake and like that's my favorite dessert. And she's like, oh, really, 1540 01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:50,120 Speaker 4: I didn't realize that's it. 1541 01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:51,320 Speaker 1: That's it. 1542 01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:54,640 Speaker 3: You want to know more masculine energy women, Nikki, Do 1543 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:55,960 Speaker 3: you think you are that? 1544 01:09:57,120 --> 01:09:57,400 Speaker 1: Yes? 1545 01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:00,160 Speaker 2: I do in many ways, but I also think that 1546 01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:03,320 Speaker 2: I'm feminine energy in a relationship. 1547 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:07,520 Speaker 1: In the bedroom, I think. 1548 01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:09,200 Speaker 7: He is masculine, but in a relationships. 1549 01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:12,000 Speaker 3: Susculine energy woman in a relationship wouldn't get her feelings 1550 01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 3: short about like not hearing from a guy or not 1551 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:17,920 Speaker 3: being cherished, not being wooed. And I don't know that woman. 1552 01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:19,960 Speaker 3: I want to meet her. I would love to meet 1553 01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:24,080 Speaker 3: like a truly mass My sister in law is definitely masculine. 1554 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:29,000 Speaker 2: Energy and in a relationship too, Satie and I didn't 1555 01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:31,920 Speaker 2: hear in a relationship as well, Like she's masculine energy 1556 01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:35,000 Speaker 2: throughout the whole. Like in the romantic thing, I I 1557 01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,920 Speaker 2: will say that I don't really respond to flowers and 1558 01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:41,439 Speaker 2: stuff the way that I'm almost perf I appreciate them 1559 01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,360 Speaker 2: because it means efforts. 1560 01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: I guess it means they thought of me, but I don't. 1561 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,160 Speaker 3: I sometimes but that don't think it was. 1562 01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's like a gift, like whether or not you 1563 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:54,320 Speaker 7: like receiving gifts. 1564 01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,360 Speaker 3: That's just like your love language. Or you just don't 1565 01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:56,800 Speaker 3: like flower. 1566 01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:59,599 Speaker 1: You don't, You're not so are you? In your energy? Woman? 1567 01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:00,880 Speaker 1: You're your sister in law. 1568 01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,640 Speaker 2: Would not need to hear like, would not need a 1569 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:04,599 Speaker 2: guy to text her back. 1570 01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 7: She wouldn't need to have her feelings acknowledge like that 1571 01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:09,920 Speaker 7: wouldn't be something that sets her off. 1572 01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:11,599 Speaker 1: But she would need like. 1573 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:17,320 Speaker 7: To be respected and all of her work and stuff 1574 01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:18,639 Speaker 7: like appreciated and all that. 1575 01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 3: So maybe if she was into baking. 1576 01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:22,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd get away with I don't care if Chris 1577 01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:25,920 Speaker 1: respects my thoughts like because I just I really don't 1578 01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:27,360 Speaker 1: because I know that he does. 1579 01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:28,960 Speaker 2: I know that he thinks I'm funny. I know that 1580 01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:31,760 Speaker 2: he thinks I'm smart. He often says I'm smarter than him. 1581 01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:34,280 Speaker 2: I get that. I'm solid in that. I don't even 1582 01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:36,360 Speaker 2: need to hear that because I don't think I'm smarter 1583 01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:42,160 Speaker 2: than him. But I I'm confident in my thoughts being like, 1584 01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:44,639 Speaker 2: I don't I don't need that, but I do need 1585 01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:46,800 Speaker 2: when I'm sad someone to be like, it's okay to 1586 01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:50,040 Speaker 2: feel this way. Oh you're sad, like I do like that? Okay, 1587 01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:54,040 Speaker 2: moving on. This is from those subreddit cool guides, and 1588 01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:59,720 Speaker 2: this is how much musicians make from streams streaming payouts. Okay, Spotify, 1589 01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:03,360 Speaker 2: what do you think you're you're making perse stream of 1590 01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:04,240 Speaker 2: your songs? Anya? 1591 01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:04,760 Speaker 7: Oh? 1592 01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,519 Speaker 3: God, like nothing, It's like what like for one song? 1593 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:11,759 Speaker 3: Fifteen hundred streams is something? Isn't it like a dollar? 1594 01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:13,439 Speaker 3: I don't even know. I really don't know. 1595 01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:17,920 Speaker 1: All right, Well, it is point zero zero four cents, 1596 01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:22,080 Speaker 1: so in order to make a dollar, what is that? Brian? 1597 01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:25,880 Speaker 2: Are you good at math? Point zero zero four? So 1598 01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:28,800 Speaker 2: that's gonna need too. It goes to eight cents, So 1599 01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,439 Speaker 2: two streams would make you eight Sorry, with two streams 1600 01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,880 Speaker 2: would make you one nearly one cent? 1601 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:37,080 Speaker 1: Okay, three streams is going to make you two. 1602 01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:40,920 Speaker 4: Hundred and fifty streams makes you a dollar? Really, I 1603 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:41,760 Speaker 4: think so I just did. 1604 01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:45,200 Speaker 2: I'll say three streams make you one cent, so three 1605 01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:48,559 Speaker 2: times that is one dollar or one hundred times, so 1606 01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 2: three hundred streams will make you a dollar. I final thought, 1607 01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:57,520 Speaker 2: I encourage everyone today to stream on your Marina songs 1608 01:12:57,720 --> 01:12:58,679 Speaker 2: three hundred times. 1609 01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:02,760 Speaker 1: That's like, I'll make it, give me just leave it 1610 01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:03,479 Speaker 1: on loop. 1611 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that could work. 1612 01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:05,760 Speaker 1: Do people do that? 1613 01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:06,800 Speaker 3: I think? 1614 01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:06,960 Speaker 6: So? 1615 01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:09,160 Speaker 4: What if you did it? Anya? What if you just 1616 01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:12,720 Speaker 4: had like several computers running all day long looping your 1617 01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 4: own music. 1618 01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,240 Speaker 1: By the end of the week, you can buy yourself 1619 01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:17,559 Speaker 1: a Starbucks at all. 1620 01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,080 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm hoping for that. Honestly pays me more than 1621 01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,000 Speaker 3: Spotify because I have points. 1622 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,479 Speaker 1: It's so weird. I just wanted to. 1623 01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:29,559 Speaker 2: Like Taylor Swift, they've recently released the numbers of like 1624 01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:32,400 Speaker 2: her streams like on Spotify every day they're being like, 1625 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,679 Speaker 2: you know, eighty billion plays or whatever, and you could 1626 01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:37,200 Speaker 2: you can kind of figure out what they're making from 1627 01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:41,479 Speaker 2: that and it'll make you sick. Okay, this is from 1628 01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 2: me I r L And it's just a tweet. It's 1629 01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,639 Speaker 2: two tweets, actually, one person responding to the other. First 1630 01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,080 Speaker 2: person says, being new at a job is so embarrassing 1631 01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:50,000 Speaker 2: for no reason. 1632 01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,960 Speaker 1: You just don't know what you can Always their hands 1633 01:13:57,960 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 1: are always like at their sides. 1634 01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:02,519 Speaker 4: Kind of I'm always over dressed whenever I have a 1635 01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:05,479 Speaker 4: new job. I'm always wearing like a tuxedo in the 1636 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,280 Speaker 4: office and everyone's like, this is casual. 1637 01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:08,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1638 01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,360 Speaker 2: And the girl responded said, someone said, it feels like 1639 01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:13,160 Speaker 2: you're a new character on season five. 1640 01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:17,439 Speaker 1: And the great news is. 1641 01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:19,519 Speaker 2: Is that once you get once you learn the ropes, 1642 01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:21,559 Speaker 2: and you're there for like a month and a half, 1643 01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:26,120 Speaker 2: you're the fucking top dog. Like there's a great Like 1644 01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:30,599 Speaker 2: I do envy and I miss that feeling of like 1645 01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:33,000 Speaker 2: training someone new and being like, oh my god, I've 1646 01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 2: come so far. I used to be in this position 1647 01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,760 Speaker 2: and not know where the aprons were, or where the 1648 01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,760 Speaker 2: checks went, or how to write in a peta order 1649 01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,000 Speaker 2: or whatever it was whenever a restaurant I was working. 1650 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,280 Speaker 2: It feels really good when you can do it and 1651 01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:47,840 Speaker 2: not think about it and not have to worry about 1652 01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:49,960 Speaker 2: every step. And like I would get such anxiety going 1653 01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:53,360 Speaker 2: into work when I had first started a job, memorizing 1654 01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:56,200 Speaker 2: the menu, like approaching the table, like I have to 1655 01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,160 Speaker 2: say waitresses and waiters. 1656 01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:02,760 Speaker 1: That is a really like talk about stage fright. 1657 01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:05,920 Speaker 2: I think that is so much more scary than doing 1658 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,760 Speaker 2: open mic comedy. Like I don't think I've ever been 1659 01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:11,840 Speaker 2: so nervous in my life as I was being a 1660 01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:14,280 Speaker 2: waitress and having to be like, hey, guys, how are 1661 01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,679 Speaker 2: you tonight? So we've got some deals on Sam Adams tonight. 1662 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:20,559 Speaker 2: If you guys are looking at a real thirsty also 1663 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,720 Speaker 2: our special tonight is like it's a lot. 1664 01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:24,639 Speaker 4: More desperate than trying to get laughs. 1665 01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:27,240 Speaker 1: Oh, it's so embarrassing and I used to get so 1666 01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:29,479 Speaker 1: I can't even believe I did it, like even thinking 1667 01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:30,960 Speaker 1: about it. So I just want to give a shout 1668 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:32,920 Speaker 1: out to everyone who's a waiter or waitress out there, 1669 01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:35,400 Speaker 1: Like it is a performance that you don't get a 1670 01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:38,400 Speaker 1: lot of credit for that most people could not do. 1671 01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:41,280 Speaker 1: Most people would never work in the restaurant industry because 1672 01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:44,439 Speaker 1: it would be too They just can't take that much. 1673 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,800 Speaker 1: I'm guessing Noah is not someone who could ever would 1674 01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:47,599 Speaker 1: ever be a waitress. 1675 01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:49,800 Speaker 7: I was just gonna say, I have never been a 1676 01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:51,240 Speaker 7: waitress or anything. 1677 01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:53,240 Speaker 1: That Is that a reason? Maybe because it is a 1678 01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:55,680 Speaker 1: great job? And is that a reason because you want 1679 01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:56,679 Speaker 1: to talk to the table. 1680 01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:59,000 Speaker 7: I always wanted to be like the kind of person 1681 01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:01,360 Speaker 7: who could have that tub and do that job. 1682 01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:05,600 Speaker 2: But you know what, because I know that waiters and 1683 01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:09,719 Speaker 2: waitresses are not treated great, and maybe you just feel 1684 01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:12,200 Speaker 2: like it's just soul sucking and just such hellish work. 1685 01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:14,599 Speaker 2: Have a little bit of pride in what you do 1686 01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:18,000 Speaker 2: because it's so hard for most people to do that job. 1687 01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:22,240 Speaker 2: It really is public speaking on a very small like 1688 01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,320 Speaker 2: performing for four people at a four top like that 1689 01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:29,200 Speaker 2: is that is way harder than performing for thousands of people. 1690 01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:31,639 Speaker 2: Based on someone who performs with thousands of people, it's 1691 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:34,600 Speaker 2: way harder to perform for smaller amounts of people in 1692 01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:36,280 Speaker 2: a room where you can see all their faces and 1693 01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:40,200 Speaker 2: they're looking at you. It's hell and where your performance 1694 01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:44,000 Speaker 2: is going to be either rewarded or not at the end, 1695 01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:46,880 Speaker 2: Like I get paid the same amount no matter what. 1696 01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:48,880 Speaker 2: And I know there are some fixed places that just 1697 01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:52,240 Speaker 2: have fixed tips, but yeah, I just want to give 1698 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:53,240 Speaker 2: you my situation. 1699 01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:55,360 Speaker 4: Worse if you're a comedian, and that is, if you 1700 01:16:55,400 --> 01:17:00,160 Speaker 4: do comedy at a restaurant, especially if they're not expecting common. 1701 01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:03,280 Speaker 1: That is. 1702 01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:06,599 Speaker 2: Man, there's this guy Kurt Ryan Comedy who does these 1703 01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:11,919 Speaker 2: hilarious memes on Instagram, and whether or not you're a comedian, 1704 01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,400 Speaker 2: especially if you're a comedian, you'll really appreciate them. I'm 1705 01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 2: just gonna read some of them now that it's on 1706 01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:20,080 Speaker 2: my mind. Uh, Brian, you have to follow him because 1707 01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:22,800 Speaker 2: it's just it's all like inside baseball comedy stuff, but 1708 01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:23,439 Speaker 2: it's also. 1709 01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:24,680 Speaker 1: I think other people can appreciate it. 1710 01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:29,160 Speaker 2: There's a there's one guy that's like climbing a set 1711 01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:31,679 Speaker 2: of stairs and his leg is super long to reach 1712 01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,439 Speaker 2: the top step and he's on the bottom step, but 1713 01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:35,599 Speaker 2: his leg looks extended, and it says. 1714 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:38,240 Speaker 1: Open my comic is the guy is the guy? 1715 01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:40,160 Speaker 2: It says, like, open my comic on this guy's back, 1716 01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:42,559 Speaker 2: And then each step has a different thing. It says 1717 01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 2: hard work, strong, joke writing, paying dues, being social and 1718 01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:49,559 Speaker 2: building connections, message booker and harass him for spot like 1719 01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 2: all these. 1720 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:50,639 Speaker 1: Things you have to do. 1721 01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:56,639 Speaker 2: Then there's one of there's people just like vomiting into 1722 01:17:56,680 --> 01:18:00,479 Speaker 2: different like almost getty images of people like about to 1723 01:18:00,600 --> 01:18:05,280 Speaker 2: vomit into toilets, and on the top of it just says, 1724 01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 2: when I'm on state, I like that. And then there's 1725 01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:12,880 Speaker 2: one of like Winnie the Pooh and it's like his 1726 01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:14,719 Speaker 2: face is calm and it says jokes. 1727 01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:16,760 Speaker 1: And then it's the one that's kind of like and 1728 01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:19,120 Speaker 1: it says bits and then one of the ends, so 1729 01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:21,760 Speaker 1: like it looks like a really deranged in bred who 1730 01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:22,920 Speaker 1: it says little skits. 1731 01:18:23,320 --> 01:18:26,519 Speaker 2: That's just based on what people call what you do comedy. 1732 01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,280 Speaker 2: Like when you start comedy, your aunt will be like, 1733 01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:30,040 Speaker 2: how are your little bits doing? 1734 01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:34,639 Speaker 4: You know it's changing, it's changing, gen z TikTokers. There's 1735 01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,960 Speaker 4: skits now, they're all skits. That's the cool thing to 1736 01:18:38,000 --> 01:18:40,800 Speaker 4: say is y, yes, it's well. I couldn't believe it 1737 01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:41,599 Speaker 4: when it was happening. 1738 01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:44,120 Speaker 1: Instead of saying bits like I'm working on this new skit. 1739 01:18:44,520 --> 01:18:47,960 Speaker 4: It skits now it's all skits out. If you're especially 1740 01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:50,960 Speaker 4: if you're a social media person, it's like, I've got 1741 01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:53,200 Speaker 4: these new skits I'm working on. I'm doing these skits 1742 01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:55,040 Speaker 4: and that's cool. They don't know what a bit is. 1743 01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:56,839 Speaker 4: I don't even think, oh. 1744 01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:57,400 Speaker 1: There's another one. 1745 01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:00,320 Speaker 2: It's like, uh, it's a guy with a face the 1746 01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:02,720 Speaker 2: emoji of a guy going like oh, face palming. And 1747 01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:04,960 Speaker 2: at the top it's like has little arrows after each 1748 01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:06,080 Speaker 2: word it says I meet someone. 1749 01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:07,479 Speaker 1: Then the next arrow we talk. 1750 01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:10,040 Speaker 2: Next arrow they say, put that in your little skits 1751 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,840 Speaker 2: and the next thing is die inside. So it's just 1752 01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:16,960 Speaker 2: like little things like this, and uh. 1753 01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:19,080 Speaker 4: Our classic ant thing is like have you ever tried 1754 01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:22,520 Speaker 4: writing for snl oh? Like the same thing as little. 1755 01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:25,080 Speaker 2: Skits I mean and classically I mean, these are all 1756 01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,320 Speaker 2: so tired for Brian and I because we've heard a 1757 01:19:27,360 --> 01:19:29,000 Speaker 2: million times. But I don't know if everyone else knows 1758 01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:31,240 Speaker 2: that we deal with this as like you know, obviously 1759 01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:33,400 Speaker 2: your comedian tell me a joke, or like you should 1760 01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:34,800 Speaker 2: hang out with me a little bit. You'll get a 1761 01:19:34,880 --> 01:19:37,360 Speaker 2: lot of material lining it out with us. Please never 1762 01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:40,160 Speaker 2: say any of these things to a comedian. You you might, 1763 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:42,240 Speaker 2: I wouldn't know it unless I was a comedian. I 1764 01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:44,400 Speaker 2: would probably do the same thing to people. Wait, Anya, 1765 01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:47,920 Speaker 2: didn't you recently tell someone like we had this disc 1766 01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:48,639 Speaker 2: what happened? 1767 01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:50,280 Speaker 1: Do you remember those circumstances? Well? 1768 01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:52,400 Speaker 3: I was gonna say two things. One is, people will 1769 01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:55,280 Speaker 3: sometimes come up to me and be like, well you 1770 01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:57,479 Speaker 3: I have some jokes for Naki while you give them 1771 01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,479 Speaker 3: to her. And the people are always like, I have 1772 01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:02,120 Speaker 3: these lyrics, do you want them for your songs? 1773 01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,519 Speaker 1: I'm like, God, are you holding me? 1774 01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:04,960 Speaker 5: No? 1775 01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:06,160 Speaker 3: What happens all the time? 1776 01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:09,000 Speaker 4: You'd think people would understand, at least not lyrics. 1777 01:20:09,400 --> 01:20:11,759 Speaker 2: Well, you know what they don't because they're watching shows 1778 01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:13,479 Speaker 2: like Daisy Jones in the Six. 1779 01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:16,719 Speaker 1: And I've got a problem with Daisy Jones in the six. Okay, 1780 01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:20,240 Speaker 1: I am so sick. There's nothing special about the show 1781 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:23,120 Speaker 1: that is not exactly what happens on every other fucking 1782 01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:25,880 Speaker 1: show or movie about music. It happened in A Star 1783 01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:28,479 Speaker 1: is Born, where a woman writes some lyrics in her 1784 01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:30,880 Speaker 1: little journal and she writes a song. Then a man 1785 01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:33,760 Speaker 1: puts some guitar behind it, and suddenly he makes a 1786 01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:37,160 Speaker 1: full song out of her little scribbly lyrics that she's 1787 01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:39,839 Speaker 1: written down in a notebook that he shouldn't even be reading. 1788 01:20:40,160 --> 01:20:42,240 Speaker 1: And then suddenly this woman is going to be a 1789 01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:45,280 Speaker 1: famous singer now because this man helped. Like in A 1790 01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:48,080 Speaker 1: Star is Born, she like tells Bradley Cooper like an 1791 01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:50,439 Speaker 1: idea for a song, and then the next night he's 1792 01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:52,680 Speaker 1: on stage and performs the entire song that he has 1793 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:55,000 Speaker 1: written like a bridge to, and then she comes out 1794 01:20:55,000 --> 01:20:57,280 Speaker 1: and sings it and somehow knows it. It doesn't make 1795 01:20:57,400 --> 01:21:01,200 Speaker 1: any fucking sense. Daisy Jones in the Sick sucks. If 1796 01:21:01,240 --> 01:21:03,320 Speaker 1: you like it, you should probably stop listening to this 1797 01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 1: podcast because we have nothing in common. I will actually 1798 01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:07,840 Speaker 1: tell me why you like it. Maybe he's trying to 1799 01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:09,600 Speaker 1: sell me on it. We Chris and I watched the 1800 01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:12,719 Speaker 1: first episode, and I said, should we do the second episode? 1801 01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:14,080 Speaker 1: Just because I wanted to keep making fun of it 1802 01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:15,840 Speaker 1: because it was so fucking. 1803 01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:18,479 Speaker 2: Bad and it was just every It's a show that 1804 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:22,000 Speaker 2: makes you that already thinks you care about the characters, 1805 01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:23,759 Speaker 2: even though none of them are famous. 1806 01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,679 Speaker 1: I don't know any of them. I don't have nothing. 1807 01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 2: Like sometimes a show you can almost care about a 1808 01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,200 Speaker 2: character early because you know this actor, and you're like, oh, 1809 01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:33,559 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be invested in this because none of these 1810 01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:37,719 Speaker 2: people you recognize. There's nothing about them that is likable. 1811 01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:40,679 Speaker 2: About any of them. You see them aged like twenty 1812 01:21:40,800 --> 01:21:43,280 Speaker 2: years ahead. They look younger than they do in the 1813 01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 2: scene where they're young. The guy, the main guy, is 1814 01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:46,720 Speaker 2: too thin. 1815 01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:48,920 Speaker 1: He looks like he should be on The Walking Dead 1816 01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:51,439 Speaker 1: as not a person that's like survived, but one of 1817 01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:55,240 Speaker 1: the Walkers. He looks he's too disturbingly corpsey. He keeps 1818 01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:57,559 Speaker 1: looking like a corpse. To me, that's no shade. He's 1819 01:21:57,600 --> 01:21:59,320 Speaker 1: a beautiful man now he's put on a little weight. 1820 01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:01,240 Speaker 1: But I don't I I don't get the attraction. I 1821 01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:03,479 Speaker 1: don't get holl He's like, Billy is the cool guy 1822 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:06,599 Speaker 1: around town. I hate that this woman who has never 1823 01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,600 Speaker 1: once we haven't heard her sing except one time in 1824 01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:11,680 Speaker 1: the shower, she goes to concerts. Oh, this is the 1825 01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:13,639 Speaker 1: fable that we all convince ourselves about. 1826 01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:18,640 Speaker 2: This is what we want to believe about musicians, is 1827 01:22:18,640 --> 01:22:22,439 Speaker 2: that if you like music enough, you can make it. 1828 01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:24,800 Speaker 2: So this girl goes to shows and she's in the 1829 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,519 Speaker 2: audience and she's always just like feeling the music. And 1830 01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:30,080 Speaker 2: then she meets these musicians that she's been going to 1831 01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:31,920 Speaker 2: see and they're like, I've seen you in the crowd. 1832 01:22:32,320 --> 01:22:34,439 Speaker 2: You're not there for the band members, you're there for 1833 01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:35,040 Speaker 2: the music. 1834 01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:37,320 Speaker 1: And she's like, you get me. And then this girl 1835 01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:40,320 Speaker 1: who has never sang is only scribbled some fucking lyrics 1836 01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 1: in a notebook and took piano lessons when she was 1837 01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:45,320 Speaker 1: a kid, which we haven't seen any evidence of. She's 1838 01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:48,800 Speaker 1: walking by a place and it says like, uh, it says. 1839 01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:52,280 Speaker 2: A loan piano, a lone piano or something. It says 1840 01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:55,000 Speaker 2: two words like lone piano on this board. And she 1841 01:22:55,040 --> 01:22:55,360 Speaker 2: walks in. 1842 01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:56,880 Speaker 1: She kind of looks in the window. It's like I 1843 01:22:56,960 --> 01:22:59,360 Speaker 1: wish I could someday. I wonder if she's good. By 1844 01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:02,120 Speaker 1: the end of the son, of course, she walks in 1845 01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:04,400 Speaker 1: because her boyfriend has just told her that he's the 1846 01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:06,120 Speaker 1: main guy and she's never gonna be nothing. And she 1847 01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:08,559 Speaker 1: pushes this and says, I'm the main thing. 1848 01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm a star, and he goes, okay, WEIRDO, I've never 1849 01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:14,320 Speaker 2: heard you sing, so this is weird that you suddenly 1850 01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:15,080 Speaker 2: want to be a star. 1851 01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:16,640 Speaker 1: How am I supposed to glean that? 1852 01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,200 Speaker 2: I was trying to bring you into my songwriting process 1853 01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:21,320 Speaker 2: because I do know that you're talented in writing, but 1854 01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:22,519 Speaker 2: you've never sang before. 1855 01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:24,360 Speaker 1: So then she goes into this place, and of course 1856 01:23:24,360 --> 01:23:24,880 Speaker 1: she goes to the. 1857 01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:27,920 Speaker 2: Mic, and she has a perfect voice, perfectly trained or 1858 01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:30,960 Speaker 2: and plays with meano. It's so good, and I'm just 1859 01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:33,960 Speaker 2: tired of it. That's not how anything works. It's giving 1860 01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:37,799 Speaker 2: people false expectations. It's giving girls a dream that cannot 1861 01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:38,560 Speaker 2: be realized. 1862 01:23:38,560 --> 01:23:41,439 Speaker 1: That way. It says nothing of any hard work. It 1863 01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:43,840 Speaker 1: just shows if you like music enough, you can be 1864 01:23:43,880 --> 01:23:47,000 Speaker 1: a musician. It's so bad. I need you to watch it. 1865 01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:48,360 Speaker 1: I need to keep watching it. 1866 01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:50,400 Speaker 2: But I will say that Chris said to me he goes, 1867 01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:52,640 Speaker 2: we're not watching episode two. He goes, this show is 1868 01:23:52,680 --> 01:23:54,760 Speaker 2: so bad that if you told me you watched the 1869 01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:56,320 Speaker 2: rest of the season and it was the best show 1870 01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,040 Speaker 2: you had ever seen and it completely turned around, I. 1871 01:23:58,720 --> 01:24:02,080 Speaker 1: Still wouldn't watch it because it is. It is not good. 1872 01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:05,360 Speaker 2: There's no redemption after this first episode. Now, if you 1873 01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:07,439 Speaker 2: like the show, I want to hear why, and I 1874 01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:10,240 Speaker 2: hope it. I am open to it. I'm open to 1875 01:24:10,360 --> 01:24:11,880 Speaker 2: why this is something you like. 1876 01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:15,320 Speaker 4: Anybody they like the show after that, they're insane. 1877 01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:19,320 Speaker 2: I mean, but some people like the sacram shit, and 1878 01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:22,000 Speaker 2: I don't like some people like to be Oh, I 1879 01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:22,799 Speaker 2: went Kirsten. 1880 01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:26,439 Speaker 3: Kirsten's like, here's my impression of J. C. Jones. Oh, 1881 01:24:26,479 --> 01:24:29,320 Speaker 3: she said, And she's like, hey, guys, you want to 1882 01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:31,800 Speaker 3: hear a story. Are you ready for it? 1883 01:24:32,160 --> 01:24:34,559 Speaker 1: I don't know if you all right? 1884 01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,000 Speaker 3: I'll tell you if you guys think you can handle it. 1885 01:24:37,120 --> 01:24:39,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I gotta keep watching it. I have 1886 01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:39,920 Speaker 1: to keep watching it. 1887 01:24:40,360 --> 01:24:41,160 Speaker 4: Watch I haven't. 1888 01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:44,160 Speaker 1: It's like kind of yeah, this energy coming out of me. 1889 01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:47,679 Speaker 3: Feels sounds good to watch. 1890 01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:50,439 Speaker 4: I want to sign you a show or I want 1891 01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:52,240 Speaker 4: to assign you a show or a movie. So that 1892 01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:54,000 Speaker 4: you can just tell me how much it sucks. Like 1893 01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:57,519 Speaker 4: Dungeons and Dragons, everybody seems to like and I watched it. 1894 01:24:57,560 --> 01:24:59,960 Speaker 4: I could not stop laughing in the theater because I thought, part, 1895 01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:01,880 Speaker 4: if it were so bad, I would love for you 1896 01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:03,599 Speaker 4: to see that and give me your take. 1897 01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:07,080 Speaker 1: Let's start watching things we hate that will that people. 1898 01:25:07,160 --> 01:25:09,120 Speaker 1: But it has to be things that people like that 1899 01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:11,920 Speaker 1: we go, how are they liking this? Horrible Bosses for 1900 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:13,599 Speaker 1: Me was another one. I walked out of the theater. 1901 01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:16,679 Speaker 2: I don't understand how anyone, Oh, I have one lied 1902 01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:18,200 Speaker 2: to that much about you? 1903 01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:21,200 Speaker 1: Everybody rad it was. 1904 01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:25,000 Speaker 2: That the preview for that looked good, but I didn't 1905 01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:27,360 Speaker 2: believe that Anna Joy Taylor eats, so I wasn't able 1906 01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:28,439 Speaker 2: to watch it. 1907 01:25:28,600 --> 01:25:31,200 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm this premise is already out of 1908 01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:33,240 Speaker 1: the boiler alert. 1909 01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:35,360 Speaker 4: But the way that they solved the problem is, by 1910 01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:40,080 Speaker 4: the way, did you remember that you liked cheeseburgers? That's 1911 01:25:40,120 --> 01:25:41,800 Speaker 4: the how they solve the problem in the movie. 1912 01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:44,360 Speaker 1: I oh, I don't know. Okay, you've seen the boiler alert, 1913 01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:45,800 Speaker 1: I spoiler alert. 1914 01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:47,920 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I definitely am going to watch more Daisy 1915 01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:49,760 Speaker 2: Jones than the Six because I just realized I need 1916 01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:51,160 Speaker 2: more things to make fun of because. 1917 01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:55,760 Speaker 1: It's so different. Sorry, Okay, let's keep watching Daisy Jones 1918 01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:57,200 Speaker 1: in the six Everyone. You need to watch the first 1919 01:25:57,240 --> 01:25:58,960 Speaker 1: episode see if you agree with me, and if you 1920 01:25:59,080 --> 01:26:00,760 Speaker 1: like the show, tell me what to like about it, 1921 01:26:00,840 --> 01:26:03,400 Speaker 1: because I'm actually gonna try and I'm not gonna completely 1922 01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:05,320 Speaker 1: write it off like I do most things, even though 1923 01:26:05,360 --> 01:26:06,240 Speaker 1: I am in sense. 1924 01:26:06,439 --> 01:26:08,000 Speaker 2: And if you did like it, I still would be 1925 01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:09,639 Speaker 2: friends with you. I didn't mean to say don't listen 1926 01:26:09,640 --> 01:26:10,680 Speaker 2: to the podcast. I still like you. 1927 01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:12,360 Speaker 1: There's tons of things I like that you would hate. 1928 01:26:12,479 --> 01:26:15,240 Speaker 1: I eat a Columbine book that I signed this weekend. 1929 01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:17,840 Speaker 1: By the way, someone brought a Columbine book to the 1930 01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:21,040 Speaker 1: Meet and greet, a tattered book called Columbine that I've 1931 01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:24,519 Speaker 1: recommended by David Cullen, and I got to sign a 1932 01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:27,000 Speaker 1: Columbine book. The rest of the people in the line 1933 01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:31,360 Speaker 1: were deeply confused. Most people do not listen to the podcast, 1934 01:26:31,479 --> 01:26:34,320 Speaker 1: had no idea why I was signing a book called Columbine. 1935 01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:36,559 Speaker 1: But I did write in the book it was meant 1936 01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:39,880 Speaker 1: to be a bombing love Nikki and so and I 1937 01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:41,479 Speaker 1: stood for a while thinking like, what can I write 1938 01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:43,120 Speaker 1: in this book anyway. Thank you guys so much for 1939 01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:45,120 Speaker 1: listening to the podcasts. We'll be back tomorrow with Brian, 1940 01:26:45,240 --> 01:26:50,080 Speaker 1: Anya and Noah. Don't Bika and just give Daisy Jones 1941 01:26:50,160 --> 01:26:51,559 Speaker 1: one episode a chance.