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Speaker 1: So I really wanted to call this the Gaming Episode
Speaker 1: because I have so many men here with me. I'm
Speaker 1: very excited to tell you guys that I am in
Speaker 1: the studio with Kaz and Mr Loki the do say boys, Hello,
Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna get drags the full disclosure. Low had
Speaker 1: no idea what I was breaking him. Did you text
Speaker 1: him to name that horror with that? Yeah? I just
Speaker 1: didn't think it would be like, bro, come with you.
Speaker 1: So let me just say black shoot. Twitter is gonna
Speaker 1: drag me. I was doing a podcast earlier and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I got a dip. I'm going to
Speaker 1: do one with Kas from Flagrant and this dude Low
Speaker 1: He's like and he was like yeah, Loki. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, no, no no, no. I was talking to
Speaker 1: someone and I was saying I wasn't sure who you were,
Speaker 1: but I think it's because I don't drink. Say it's
Speaker 1: like it. So can you tell people who you are?
Speaker 1: I go first. I'm one of the official hosts for Pelosa,
Speaker 1: official hosts for Trap Karaoke, host on Beach one Radio,
Speaker 1: and new host to my own podcast called Doing Scared,
Speaker 1: which actually dropped today. So am I allowed to come on?
Speaker 1: I don't never do it? Yes, you can do nothing
Speaker 1: Scared A wide open. Okay with my booty, but training camps?
Speaker 1: Can you introduce yourself for the people who probably know
Speaker 1: but maybe don't know? Whatever? Sure, I'm kas one of
Speaker 1: the three hosts of Flicking two podcast and last week
Speaker 1: is not worth shout out to Alex is also producing
Speaker 1: this year. Sure, everybody who listens to this show exactly
Speaker 1: who he is. Yeah, you were just saying that, um
Speaker 1: when you were in l A. The people some women
Speaker 1: new hour show on your show and yeah, yeah, well
Speaker 1: I'm not really I don't be saying the same thing
Speaker 1: to me right now, like you said that outside of
Speaker 1: when do you hit recall No, he said people knew
Speaker 1: the show, Like now you did say a girl knew
Speaker 1: the show, because like, yeah, not like those those A
Speaker 1: home girl. I think I'm not gonna Homegirl, Like it
Speaker 1: wasn't even like I was meeting here for anything. It
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, she was a fan of the
Speaker 1: show and she knew your show. And I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I only brought that up because he said loudspeakers. So
Speaker 1: the reason I say that is because it's been really
Speaker 1: cool to have this little community of black pods. I'm
Speaker 1: really happy about it, even why I'm really not feeling
Speaker 1: you right now, and I don't I know people can't
Speaker 1: see you won't talking to about me and Alex you
Speaker 1: talk about about we don't need to talk about I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about you. Damn notice Science send that quick
Speaker 1: pay yet for this episode. So me and me and
Speaker 1: Alex's gotta me and Mandy bab going on right now.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like I'm about a lot before before
Speaker 1: we just larious. All y'all need to know is he's
Speaker 1: trashed and he is not working on himself. So whatever
Speaker 1: he's been telling you on the podcast, I think there's
Speaker 1: a lot you know, it's gonna sound like me and
Speaker 1: you're fucking because that's what everybody if I didn't know
Speaker 1: keep a stack before. Like I've seen y'all two together
Speaker 1: and hung out together. I thought y'a was working. Everybody does, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I always on each other's Instagram story and because
Speaker 1: we'll be working. Let me tell you how it happened.
Speaker 1: My first time recording with Alex or him recording our
Speaker 1: show UM LUPI was supposed to come on something happens,
Speaker 1: I Love Lupi, And so what happened was we had
Speaker 1: to do a random episode and we did it about breakups,
Speaker 1: and him and I were both going through a breakup,
Speaker 1: and we decided to be each other's breakup buddies. So
Speaker 1: they saw we want to be black, that's necessarily break up. Actually,
Speaker 1: this doesn't sound like it. It doesn't help, no, but
Speaker 1: we want to see lax hanpus. And so we went
Speaker 1: out together for the first time. I'm gonna call you
Speaker 1: out and you were like, yo, what is this? And
Speaker 1: is this And I'm like no, this is like a
Speaker 1: run thing. And we never talked about again and we
Speaker 1: have been friends ever since the store. It's hard to
Speaker 1: get it out the way like now we quick. And
Speaker 1: then when Alex came to the Atlanta show to film
Speaker 1: for us UM, we shared a room together and I
Speaker 1: took a ship and he looked at me after and
Speaker 1: was like, it's never gonna happen. It's definitely never gonna happen. Now, like,
Speaker 1: I've never had a girl take a ship in my present.
Speaker 1: I mean, you probably ain't know, but we was texting
Speaker 1: when I was on the toilet. He was like, Nigga,
Speaker 1: that sink ain't doing nothing. You know, when the sink
Speaker 1: is running for a long time, it's like smoking and
Speaker 1: I don't see the towers on. All right, So Low
Speaker 1: kind of mentioned that he was a little like he
Speaker 1: didn't know what he was getting into. So I'm just
Speaker 1: going to start this off with a bank no pun
Speaker 1: but pun. So I have a few questions just to
Speaker 1: kind of get to know you guys a little bit
Speaker 1: better and test your kink, all right, I got some
Speaker 1: Have you ever would you ever and would you rather?
Speaker 1: Have you ever tasted your own come accidentally after like
Speaker 1: a kiss, or tasted it on purpose maybe when you're
Speaker 1: a teenager something, just to see what it was like.
Speaker 1: Have you ever tasted it? I've never tasted it on purpose.
Speaker 1: You tasted early. I've done it accidentally. Because no, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie like I've definitely kissed the girl after. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've I've kissed the girl after she's swallowed. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I don't know what that. I guess it doesn't happen.
Speaker 1: He tastes like a salty sodium thing. I don't I
Speaker 1: wouldn't know that. I don't. I don't know what it's. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to what to look for. I
Speaker 1: don't know looks like I don't know you're talking about.
Speaker 1: Oh that's you. Ever have you ever been curious though,
Speaker 1: like as to your own taste? Seems I'm not that kinking,
Speaker 1: so not even a little bit. I mean, not saying
Speaker 1: like you're gonna taste like have you ever been like, damn,
Speaker 1: it's my ship? Like well, I mean I got what
Speaker 1: Shorty says. Like, If Shorty says like you taste good,
Speaker 1: that's all the conviction I need. So have you ever
Speaker 1: had someone to say you taste bad? No? No? No?
Speaker 1: So I ken a hunted. I was dating this dude
Speaker 1: that was taking mad crazy and is ship and when
Speaker 1: nigga got off and I'm like, yo, now, like a
Speaker 1: swallow nigga. It wasn't strong, It wasn't like it was
Speaker 1: a stink like a because to me, stink smell is
Speaker 1: like a fishiness. It was just a very strong, like
Speaker 1: like metallic, like like a manufactured advice. Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: a very strong all right. Have you ever uh fuck
Speaker 1: a friends girl? Not after, not before during? Never? No never,
Speaker 1: no no, no, you know you ain't ship so afterwards,
Speaker 1: like with conversation and context to ask you for consent,
Speaker 1: not consent, but like you know, like you know this
Speaker 1: either it's to situation fall sex. You were talking dirty
Speaker 1: at ennis girl watching I've men during I just want
Speaker 1: to see if you was trashed all right, I know
Speaker 1: even after, but just like the phone sex. Hey, bro,
Speaker 1: like months after, I'm gonna tell you, have you ever
Speaker 1: done a chat? All right? Have you ever have you
Speaker 1: guys both had anal sex with women? Have you ever
Speaker 1: seen ship on your dick or your finger after anal? Play?
Speaker 1: My finger? Yeah? One time? What? Yeah, I gave it
Speaker 1: a thumb ski one time. Wait. Now, I just want
Speaker 1: to know it at random. I mean, like, did you
Speaker 1: did you supplies her? Was she ready for it? I
Speaker 1: think she was ready for it? Like, So the reason
Speaker 1: I bring that up, I never I don't want to
Speaker 1: exaggerate like it was like a big old joint. It
Speaker 1: was just a little residue. It's nasty, but I bring
Speaker 1: it up and we normally don't read hoole male in
Speaker 1: the beginning, but I got this one. The subject is
Speaker 1: some ship. I need advice someone literally, so a guy
Speaker 1: just recently signed it up to beat my side. But
Speaker 1: we haven't had sex or anything, but he really enjoys
Speaker 1: my company for now and I know in the back
Speaker 1: of his heads he wants to funk. Not a problem.
Speaker 1: I want to suck too. But the other night we
Speaker 1: was sitting in the car. I had a dress on,
Speaker 1: no bra panties, and I attempted to get out. He
Speaker 1: grabbed me back and stuck his finger in my ass. Surprisingly,
Speaker 1: it's slipped in, no pain at all. It surprised me
Speaker 1: even more because I don't even have sex in my
Speaker 1: ass because I can't take the pain. It's been a
Speaker 1: while since I've had a finger there too. Anyway, he
Speaker 1: takes it out. We're flirting it talking and I think
Speaker 1: I smelled ship on his finger. He didn't mention anything,
Speaker 1: but now I know when we finally do have sex,
Speaker 1: he's gonna do it again. So I'm ready to figure
Speaker 1: out how to clean the inside of my booty hole
Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to get ship all over his hands.
Speaker 1: They're like, don't eat before you so help me. Please
Speaker 1: hurry with the response, Vicky, let me tell you what
Speaker 1: you do, Vicky, A lot of fiber in your diet.
Speaker 1: I think we just had the episode with um mr
Speaker 1: fuck this bussy open e pray thoughts a boy, so
Speaker 1: he said, fiber helps um also fleet, So that's what
Speaker 1: the gay is called. Douche in their ass, totty much,
Speaker 1: stick something up your ass, get the water in there
Speaker 1: to like clean it out. Also, before I know, the
Speaker 1: dude's gonna stick his finger in my ass after I shower,
Speaker 1: I stick my own finger in there, just double check. Wow. Wow,
Speaker 1: I'm learning a lot of cast your own asshole bit.
Speaker 1: All right back to the would you ever? Would you
Speaker 1: ever get a tongue or a finger any and if so,
Speaker 1: are they what I ever? I'm not gonna lie. I
Speaker 1: had I had a thumb my ass when I stopped it.
Speaker 1: Why because the girl was way older, girls like six
Speaker 1: years older than me, and she was waiting at the time,
Speaker 1: well at the time I was. I was like, it
Speaker 1: was like a couple of years ago this wait wait
Speaker 1: wait wait wait set the scene. Set the scene alright,
Speaker 1: So how what happened. Then she was like she's, um,
Speaker 1: she's sucking my you know, she's giving me a head
Speaker 1: or whatever, and she just like for her thumb, no
Speaker 1: my ask she did it. I was like, yo, like no,
Speaker 1: I guess like the tip of it. But because like that, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm very comfortable with myself and my sexuality. But like
Speaker 1: because she's she was older, so like she's done that before,
Speaker 1: Like I can tell how press it was like just
Speaker 1: like it wasn't a jab, but it was just like
Speaker 1: it was an uppercut. It was like like like she
Speaker 1: knew what she was doing, Like it wasn't a sudden movement,
Speaker 1: so she knew what she was doing. So did it
Speaker 1: feel okay? But my response was a sudden movement like
Speaker 1: my name, what you're doing? And she was like, don't worry,
Speaker 1: don't worry. If I'm curious. Did she ever licked down
Speaker 1: there like she like the gooch like you know, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: now for y'all gooches the skin between your balls and
Speaker 1: your ass. Yeah, she did that, like and I had
Speaker 1: no problem with that ship, but like she apparently has
Speaker 1: done this before, and I thought I was another crash
Speaker 1: than me running in that ass so I don't like,
Speaker 1: maybe all got the high like it has happened. It
Speaker 1: has happened. I think that a lot of men that
Speaker 1: are like willing to try it will experience because I mean, look,
Speaker 1: there's not all these gay niggas sucking in the ask
Speaker 1: for nothing. It feels good, right, there's a cross state stimulation.
Speaker 1: But I believe the cross state is way deeper than
Speaker 1: a finger, which is why I think a lot of
Speaker 1: men can't or don't experience that pleasure because you've got
Speaker 1: to get higher up and and it's a little more
Speaker 1: of a curve. So like niggas that have had a finger,
Speaker 1: they might be like oh and then feel like nothing
Speaker 1: or it was okay. It's because they haven't hit that
Speaker 1: spot yet. But that's why you never seen the movie,
Speaker 1: um the ship fun what movies that oh my god,
Speaker 1: broke back man? Uh, that's what the time green dude,
Speaker 1: you trip, No, not your old trip road trip, road trip.
Speaker 1: And remember they went to the doctor and the nurse
Speaker 1: fucked Stifler, the stiffer dude from yes yeah, and she
Speaker 1: with two years with two fingers, and he felt it
Speaker 1: was like going to a prostate or like some price
Speaker 1: state ship. No, I think he was some price state ship,
Speaker 1: you know what it was. He was money. And then
Speaker 1: the bad the bad nurse came out and she did
Speaker 1: and he's thinking he's gonna, you know, the movie, and
Speaker 1: then the movie like I don't. I don't feel like
Speaker 1: I feel like you need consent before you put even
Speaker 1: in my ass. Dude, I was sucking for months, have
Speaker 1: asked me, like, yo, can I still? I mean, mainly
Speaker 1: that's what your cleanliness though I don't don't. I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't. That's not a preference from me when I'm
Speaker 1: sucking a girl to the funker in her ass. It's
Speaker 1: just like that, it's too much work, and it's just
Speaker 1: like that's not you might have a big duke. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know I have one, but it's not I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you what one of my boys to me. One
Speaker 1: of my boys, um, he told me like listen, I
Speaker 1: sucking my girls and ask and I know it's called
Speaker 1: my dick. Probably a debate, you know, like you see
Speaker 1: how she hears one of these like somebody we know,
Speaker 1: somebody he knows, act like there's not a camera directly,
Speaker 1: but you do the editing somebody alright. Just it's not enjoyable.
Speaker 1: By the way, I want to say, I appreciate you
Speaker 1: all for having that dialogue. Um, A lot of our
Speaker 1: listeners come from brillion idiots and a lot of niggas
Speaker 1: was on. You're like, oh, y'all just had energy wax,
Speaker 1: and now you got this gay nigga this week. Listen,
Speaker 1: I'm putting the gay niggas on here to give y'all
Speaker 1: some fucking T too ship. Enjoy the combo, Enjoy this.
Speaker 1: I know the previous I'm sorry to last week like
Speaker 1: so now it's been brilliant, y'all haven't and listening with
Speaker 1: a lot the previous episode before y'all seven days and
Speaker 1: honestly it was one of our funniest episodes that it
Speaker 1: was hilarious. Remember what Mandy told that story about the
Speaker 1: dude with his wife and kids. He said, bit it
Speaker 1: ain't judgment, it's amazement. He was awesome and that people
Speaker 1: I can't handle this, and I'm like, I don't get it.
Speaker 1: So I just want to let know we are going
Speaker 1: to always switch it up like that. Now we've got
Speaker 1: some real heterosist ship going on. Next week, I don't know,
Speaker 1: we might have a t girl. But when you kill
Speaker 1: it yourself. It's like you can listen to whatever, because
Speaker 1: I listened to the read and like, like we all
Speaker 1: do what we do, like it ain't gonna make me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Just don't break it this way. But like, dude, you'll
Speaker 1: put it in my ask but take your tale, all right?
Speaker 1: And our hour inevitable question we always asked to everybody
Speaker 1: is would you rather he asked our suck toos? Like
Speaker 1: I like you, I like treach ask for It's like
Speaker 1: keep your toes away from I don't know what is
Speaker 1: because here's the thing I know. I know you wash
Speaker 1: your ass. I don't know if you watch your feet.
Speaker 1: Who said that? That's what I'm saying because an argument
Speaker 1: is like, oh, will you ship out of your ass?
Speaker 1: You out of your feet, and it's wipe that ship
Speaker 1: to the point where it's like it feels clean. It
Speaker 1: is clean, like you don't you ain't wiping the bottom
Speaker 1: of your feet and most of the shower. Yeah, a
Speaker 1: lot of it's not doing that. A lot of toad
Speaker 1: sucking most of the time and not suck toes. That's
Speaker 1: not a thing. But a lot of times, like the
Speaker 1: asaton is more pleasurable. It's there's a preparation for it
Speaker 1: because most of the time it's like right after the shower,
Speaker 1: now when you have suck toes. Was it requested? No,
Speaker 1: I was just I was drunking drunk, Yeah, I was.
Speaker 1: I have to be drunk toes like I'm not talking
Speaker 1: your toes over what what is it about? I just
Speaker 1: don't like I don't like feet. I'm not a fe
Speaker 1: so I don't If I'm doing it, I'm doing it
Speaker 1: because I'm off the ships. I was using a strap
Speaker 1: on once s with not who you think? But anyway,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You want to give a lot of clues.
Speaker 1: I don't right listen to this episode and she maybe
Speaker 1: now she is. She wasn't listening for me before. God,
Speaker 1: we're not gonna find we can talk about it. So
Speaker 1: we can two too many. Let's keep it one day.
Speaker 1: I said, Now you ain't blowing them tonight, all right?
Speaker 1: So the end of this episode, we didn't get you
Speaker 1: told about this, people listen to it. Got to deal
Speaker 1: with them. Show got that, man, I was just sitting
Speaker 1: the back show. I love that watching everybody go through.
Speaker 1: I go in a group chat my man, I got
Speaker 1: Alex had to interject a few times. Me and maybe
Speaker 1: about to come from table and good, I'm sure I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have some. So we do a to the week
Speaker 1: every week and it's basically when we talk about different
Speaker 1: philias and different fetishes. And this week I could not
Speaker 1: find the like super long word that I can't pronounce
Speaker 1: for it. But there's something that I keep seeing porn
Speaker 1: and it's under the hashtag come gusling and it's specifically
Speaker 1: when it's like funneled into the mouth, but like normally
Speaker 1: boot cocky, you nasty name with the funnel with the funnel,
Speaker 1: like an actual funnel girls that like yeah, okay, no,
Speaker 1: so like I like to watch Bookocky, right, it's when
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people in the room they come
Speaker 1: on base okay. But the weird thing is like now
Speaker 1: when I click on BOOKCOCKI sometimes they bring out this
Speaker 1: weird ship right to like like feed them come with
Speaker 1: spoons or like putting it in the thing and the
Speaker 1: drinking it out of the glass, which I really don't
Speaker 1: like because like it like I've seen that when I
Speaker 1: was really young, I was watching like real sex on HBO,
Speaker 1: and I think they were like they were like freezing
Speaker 1: Colm and it was putting in like sereal there was
Speaker 1: some girl who like restored it and Bob, that's so
Speaker 1: much like a little Kim had to get a stomach pot. Well,
Speaker 1: I was that like a real story was that it dissolved.
Speaker 1: But how would you know to get food pumps? I was.
Speaker 1: I believe that, I believe anything. So you've seen it
Speaker 1: and like what you made a smiling face when you
Speaker 1: thought it was the girl bubbling it up? Yeah, I like,
Speaker 1: I like that. That's beautiful to me. Right, Like, once
Speaker 1: it's not in the face or mouth, I'm good. Like
Speaker 1: I don't need to see you put it in a
Speaker 1: gas like you don't have to teaspoon it. You don't
Speaker 1: have to put it in the measuring cup, Like I
Speaker 1: don't want you mixing it up with macaroni and cheese
Speaker 1: and then freezing it and then cooking it like just
Speaker 1: swallowing dog. Let it drip down, you shin. I think
Speaker 1: the weirdest thing I have ever been requested of. I
Speaker 1: actually want to show you this picture. I was fucking
Speaker 1: a dude. It's my dumb that I used to fun
Speaker 1: and he's like really into some crazy shit. He had
Speaker 1: a fetish for wanting me to wear gloves and licking
Speaker 1: the come off of the gloves. But there's something specific
Speaker 1: he wants me to wear, like long black leg text
Speaker 1: gloves hold my hands like this him clok, well, they
Speaker 1: looked like clean gloves in the gloves. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: find the picture of the girl that get pictures. I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm prepared for. But he's like, you're not.
Speaker 1: It's you're calm, it's a girl. You're you're gonna So
Speaker 1: he used to want me to like hold my hands open, okay,
Speaker 1: and like with the gloves on and like lick it
Speaker 1: off like a cat. Now it was milk, like it
Speaker 1: was like milk in your hands, and yes, So I
Speaker 1: bought the gloves, and then every time he came over,
Speaker 1: I kept saying I couldn't find them because I was scared,
Speaker 1: and I kept feeling like this is like here, I
Speaker 1: don't know where the funk they are, and he was like,
Speaker 1: yes you do, and I'm like, no, idea, it would
Speaker 1: have been nice if you had the picture ready, dude,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find it um scrolling through. And I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about like what is the fetish with like
Speaker 1: seeing your semen and somebody, Oh god, is it so
Speaker 1: this girl this is in a threesome. Okay, we can't
Speaker 1: put this on YouTube, hunh, but let me describe it.
Speaker 1: Let me show you. So this girl put on a
Speaker 1: hood that he was sucking. You see the leash, So
Speaker 1: the key came on this girl's face on the hood,
Speaker 1: and the other girl licked it off. So that's the
Speaker 1: girl with the hood on. And then she and then
Speaker 1: she licked it off. Someone else looked it off the
Speaker 1: hood another girl that he was with, Yo, what the fun?
Speaker 1: Fun up ship? So he said this to me because
Speaker 1: he said, hey, this is a girl. He's like, I
Speaker 1: have a girl that I want you to dominate with.
Speaker 1: That's the girls hood. So he was like, I have
Speaker 1: a girl that I want you to dominate with me.
Speaker 1: And he used to be my dumb right, like I'd
Speaker 1: have to ask him what I was allowed to put
Speaker 1: on a night everything. So he's I don't want you
Speaker 1: to do this with me. And then once he sent
Speaker 1: me the hood picture, I was like, she literally just
Speaker 1: to describe me on this picture. She is wearing a
Speaker 1: black stocking cap looking thing would come all over it.
Speaker 1: Yeah like that. It's just I'm not turned on by that.
Speaker 1: I don't go front. That looks fun so much for me,
Speaker 1: like if I was there with the girls, but maybe
Speaker 1: like premeditating like the so on. You know, you're just
Speaker 1: gonna put it on your face and then she's at
Speaker 1: your face and then Kelly over here, she's gonna look
Speaker 1: at all right, because it was like a very classy
Speaker 1: way of like sounds like Piers Morgan. Yeah, I love it,
Speaker 1: so I on it. I feel like uk mother's and
Speaker 1: they sound like anything they say sounds classy. Just because
Speaker 1: I was having a reason with him and this girl.
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry because I remember thinking in my head
Speaker 1: at the moment, so like he said to me, like
Speaker 1: you know what I wanted to do. It was like
Speaker 1: tell me, and he's like, I would really like for
Speaker 1: you to stand right there, come and let aushole and
Speaker 1: wants you to look at out of there. He said,
Speaker 1: he's gonna come to her asshole. He wants her to
Speaker 1: look at out of it. Yeah. Now, I for some
Speaker 1: reason I felt like it was just like too far.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, absolutely not. He was like that
Speaker 1: was too far. I don't know what got me there.
Speaker 1: It was just like I was worried about it, like
Speaker 1: squeezing out of her ass. That's a cream pie, right,
Speaker 1: I'll graph with the cream pie out of the pussy
Speaker 1: because for me like thinking then like it might be
Speaker 1: mixed with something else from earlier. Like I'm good, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I can do booty hole surface right, but you know,
Speaker 1: like you're not. You're not waiting for it to come
Speaker 1: back out right, like it's the exit already. So I'm good.
Speaker 1: Just keep keep it there, keep it um. So let's
Speaker 1: get a little vanilla for a second. Our segment Vanilla ship,
Speaker 1: where is where we try to Vanilla is something that's
Speaker 1: not kinky? Okay? Okay, what we like? Where's this thummy? Okaya?
Speaker 1: Rue time? You're not stay on the island? Which one Manhattan?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, trust me, I lived there too. But you
Speaker 1: know we're here. Let's spang it out, don't not. Queen's
Speaker 1: a We can even get dominoes over here. So what
Speaker 1: we got slice? All right? So something that just came up.
Speaker 1: I have this thing five things you should know from
Speaker 1: the n N every day, and one of the things
Speaker 1: they had last week is that um sex sex addiction
Speaker 1: two days ago was classified as a mental illness for
Speaker 1: the first time. Sex addiction with the treatment plan so
Speaker 1: it says compulsive sexual behavior is a mental illness. The
Speaker 1: World Health Organization says in a landmark move that can
Speaker 1: mean two to four percent of UK's population, with three
Speaker 1: of the U s s population is addicted to sex.
Speaker 1: It's a behavior that tends to be hidden as it's
Speaker 1: shameful and sex addicts don't come forward. Um. People that
Speaker 1: are suffering with the problem aren't unsure on how to
Speaker 1: seek help. It's persistent. It's failure to control the intense,
Speaker 1: repetitive impulses. UM. It's the central focus of someone's life
Speaker 1: where they neglect health, personal care, or interests and responsibilities. Um.
Speaker 1: The behavior should be clear for six months and cause distress,
Speaker 1: which is kind of ironic because fucking makes me feel great.
Speaker 1: But it's like point addiction and mental issue. I think
Speaker 1: all I think all addictions is a mental Well, they've
Speaker 1: never classified it a mental illness, and so like they did.
Speaker 1: The only thing in here is that it doesn't describe
Speaker 1: how much is too much. But it said something about
Speaker 1: like not taking care of responsibilities, and to me, I
Speaker 1: was like, I sucked a lot of ancient niggas back
Speaker 1: in the day. Yeah, well that could have been It
Speaker 1: is that not taking care of responsibilities, just making bachelors. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I think I think what you're trying to get at
Speaker 1: is like, you know, neglecting life. Yeah, like if you're
Speaker 1: having I've called that a work for dick, that like
Speaker 1: you're forgetting to fucking pay bills, right, Like have y'all
Speaker 1: ever gone through a phase of your life where you
Speaker 1: were like, I gotta stop, stop, like I'm doing something
Speaker 1: I had. I had a couple of periods I had
Speaker 1: to stop where you were like sucking back to back,
Speaker 1: like maybe fucking let's say this, maybe you're dating a
Speaker 1: few girls at the same time, you've had two or
Speaker 1: three of them in the same day. I haven't done that.
Speaker 1: I've never done that, but I was definitely, I guess
Speaker 1: as like too many people ondn't know. That's the part
Speaker 1: that makes it like an illness, because you're taking these
Speaker 1: two women who probably know nothing about each other, and
Speaker 1: like one day you're this person, the next night there's
Speaker 1: somebody else for that person, and like that's kind of
Speaker 1: sucked up. But you know this, I don't know. I've
Speaker 1: never gotten to that point, but it was definitely a
Speaker 1: point like after I had like a bad breakup shortly
Speaker 1: after college. Oh boy, I don't think I've come across
Speaker 1: the point where I have to say, like, I gotta
Speaker 1: stop this. So my first threesome was that way. I
Speaker 1: had a threesome the next day well after a breakup. Wow,
Speaker 1: I went through a breakup. My first threesome was with
Speaker 1: But even that's not bad. This is why I should
Speaker 1: never try to outfund your ex. That's my that's my
Speaker 1: golden rule. Like what do you break up with somebody?
Speaker 1: Don't even look what they do. Talk toon they'll do nothing.
Speaker 1: And if you're trying to out like you know, when
Speaker 1: you get on social media, you're trying to show that
Speaker 1: you do it. Oh I'm cried after like, damn, I
Speaker 1: miss him up this one. But I don't think there's
Speaker 1: a problem. Like you break up with someone, you have
Speaker 1: a three from the next day. I just thin like,
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, I didn't explain it. Well, So,
Speaker 1: like I had my first reasome and it was so
Speaker 1: amazing that the very next day I wanted another one.
Speaker 1: So I called the dude and was like, yo, you
Speaker 1: know anybody we could suck and he was like yeah,
Speaker 1: I went. So it's kind of funny because they started
Speaker 1: at Blue Martini in Florida. First one was in Tampa
Speaker 1: Blue Martini. My homegirl turned me out. She was like, listen,
Speaker 1: you're gonna suck my little man's and you're gonna like it.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh yeah, I was young in them.
Speaker 1: Then the next day I loved it so much. I
Speaker 1: wanted it to I wanted to do it with a
Speaker 1: guy I had had sex with before and loved it again.
Speaker 1: So it was literally like four people in two days,
Speaker 1: and it was a lot, and like it didn't hit
Speaker 1: me until after. I was like, oh my god, I'm
Speaker 1: having so much fun. And then it was like two women,
Speaker 1: two guys. It was like it was there like a
Speaker 1: wake up call that happened or you just like mentally
Speaker 1: you were like OK. So at first I was excited
Speaker 1: about it, calling my gaze. I'm like, let me think
Speaker 1: like that. And then when I was like, damn bit
Speaker 1: you fuck yeah, like what and I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Like my body count just went from a
Speaker 1: body count went from three to seven. Let that so
Speaker 1: on Instagram asked me my body count. I was like, nigga,
Speaker 1: I lost count. I lost count. Wonder I LOSEU. I
Speaker 1: stick at the count. Do you have a note I
Speaker 1: having because I started late. I used to have a
Speaker 1: sex twenty Oh wow, I started late. You travel with
Speaker 1: these dudes, a pellousa dudes, And I'm not sure were
Speaker 1: you in a relationship this whole time, when this whole
Speaker 1: run with song, I'm pretty sure. No, Like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: was getting it in. I mean we've been doing it
Speaker 1: for five years, so that's not a horrible decision. By
Speaker 1: the way, it's called pussy paluser, so we could jump
Speaker 1: right in at my I just don't remember what happened. No,
Speaker 1: I mean we've had we've had tour stops where it's
Speaker 1: gotten crazy, but then there's a lot of tour stops
Speaker 1: where like she just don't like, we get drunk with
Speaker 1: bitches and then we go how are you a part
Speaker 1: of it? How did this started? We started back in
Speaker 1: hallm Um at the Founders House. His name is you know,
Speaker 1: Camera mcclor, and it was on on the east side
Speaker 1: of Harlem. And one night we had a game night
Speaker 1: two thousands in the two thousands, twelve December. Um, we
Speaker 1: couldn't afford to go to the club, were colding the
Speaker 1: four bottles, so we just told our friends, like you'll
Speaker 1: bring Hennessey and Chick into the crib, like that's the
Speaker 1: only requirement. And we had people come over. We had
Speaker 1: a game night and it was his idea to move
Speaker 1: like the tables the space tables do. It was Cat's idea.
Speaker 1: And then we had Austin Um I think it was
Speaker 1: Austin and Genius DJ and and then we turned the
Speaker 1: lights out and then they just just started dancing and
Speaker 1: having fun. Next morning we woke up there was like
Speaker 1: eighty five bottles and Hannessey behind the bar, me Cam
Speaker 1: and my other guy Fox. We're like, yeah, we have something.
Speaker 1: And then Fox told us to look online and the
Speaker 1: hashtag Hendy pellots and everybody was crazy like what is
Speaker 1: Henny Bluza? How much does it cost to get in that?
Speaker 1: So on and so forth, And then we did another
Speaker 1: one and so hold. We did another one at Timmany Hall.
Speaker 1: We did another one in d C and just kept
Speaker 1: going because I was going to ask you who came first,
Speaker 1: say it's all you. It's all the same brand. It's
Speaker 1: all the same brand. We just switched. We just switched liquors.
Speaker 1: So we had Chris styles on. I wasn't here for
Speaker 1: the episode, but he does it with Chris came in.
Speaker 1: Chris came in like two thousand and he became the
Speaker 1: cost still five years ago. So what are these parties
Speaker 1: like in terms of it's everything you think it is.
Speaker 1: It's open bar, literally everything you think it is. It's
Speaker 1: open bar, Hennis's Obar Doo say. It's five or six
Speaker 1: hours of dobass music, drunk acid, nigga's ambitious and people
Speaker 1: dancing and then some people get strange in the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Some people get stranged in So when I got invited
Speaker 1: to my first party, right, this is how it happened.
Speaker 1: Something invited me. When I first moved to New York.
Speaker 1: I told my homegirl who's from New York, and she
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, don't go what you're trying to get fucked.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, it's okay. So she's like, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I ain't able to take you there. But you are
Speaker 1: classic Typho. You ain't about to go out there. So
Speaker 1: then I'm like, all right, I skip it. Next the
Speaker 1: next year, one of my friends from work, he was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: you gotta call me to this ship some other black
Speaker 1: girl in the office, like you're trying to wear sneakers
Speaker 1: to the cloud because that's what you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: put on. And I'm like, what goes on this ship?
Speaker 1: You know, it's like it's a toolar opposite of going
Speaker 1: to like a one of the avenue. Like you put
Speaker 1: on sneakers, you put on leggings, you put on shorts,
Speaker 1: you put on something that's comfortable. Because we promote the
Speaker 1: fact that you're not standing around. Everybody's equal. There's no
Speaker 1: real v I P where really like and if there
Speaker 1: is upstairs where you can see everybody like it's it's
Speaker 1: kind of like an anti that's fine, Yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: it was born out of. Not so you can't have
Speaker 1: a table? What do you mean that that's dope? Everybody?
Speaker 1: So I went I went in l A. This venue
Speaker 1: was packed, like you can barely move. The biggest thing
Speaker 1: I was surprised about was that I didn't see one
Speaker 1: altercation free liquor. Everybody's drunk, everybody's having a niggers on
Speaker 1: dark liquor. Somebody's getting clapped, somebody's getting jumped. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's like a science to it those because like the
Speaker 1: price point kind of makes you not one of them,
Speaker 1: you know what it could be like if people are
Speaker 1: there for a purpose, like you said, to have a
Speaker 1: good time and everyone's equal. I think about white people
Speaker 1: in music festivals. They always say nobody's fighting, they're there
Speaker 1: for a purpose to enjoy themselves, to have a good time.
Speaker 1: Like I ain't no flexing, And it sounds like they
Speaker 1: say like that flexing at all. Like if there's there's
Speaker 1: special guests, they'll either like come on stage with us
Speaker 1: or they'll be like the little raft watching like there's nobody.
Speaker 1: There's no bottle wars going on, there's no table ship,
Speaker 1: So how big is the douce all crew. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's me, It's me, Am you five, Rorry Benner, Raven Bruno, Austin,
Speaker 1: Dwayne and carlm So And we said, pussy, oh, ye're
Speaker 1: all some good friends. You know nothing. Why would it
Speaker 1: be you? Because you like one stuff like light eyes,
Speaker 1: the face of the bread, like don't try to back.
Speaker 1: And now that's the reason why I would think that
Speaker 1: humble and modest as possible. But it's like you know,
Speaker 1: like Low and Chris and andys like those guys are
Speaker 1: the faces of the party. Like you go to do Seluci,
Speaker 1: you might not see Cam you might see me if
Speaker 1: I haven't water going around, So people like bitches are
Speaker 1: really wanting to suck the Pellusa dude, like like is it?
Speaker 1: What is it? Like? Do you have a Twitter status?
Speaker 1: Is a status? Are you there about? I'm not? I'm not. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But the thing about here's how it goes when you're
Speaker 1: in a city where you're not known. When you're in
Speaker 1: a city you're not from your new your new blood
Speaker 1: in the water, right, So it's like, who's this nigger
Speaker 1: from New York or New Jersey wherever you from? Like,
Speaker 1: who's that guy? And why is he on Why is
Speaker 1: he on stage? Why does he have to mike? Why
Speaker 1: is he controlling the crowd? That's attractive to women that
Speaker 1: you don't know? Like power, it's power, Like look at
Speaker 1: the power that this guy has and who is he?
Speaker 1: Why am I not sucking power? The dude? The only
Speaker 1: do we interviewed about a groupie sex was real Timmy,
Speaker 1: and he told us about them stories And to me,
Speaker 1: that's like TV kind of right kind of fame. But
Speaker 1: there's something different with your fame because it's like the community.
Speaker 1: You're accessible, but you're not so like have you ever
Speaker 1: fucked a girl? That like was bragging on home pussy
Speaker 1: about you after I never heard that. I never heard.
Speaker 1: I've never heard that, and I'm glad I haven't. I
Speaker 1: guess the women I have indulged with have just kept
Speaker 1: it quiet and just kept it moving. Would you say
Speaker 1: that you're sucking the I don't know upper level groupies
Speaker 1: is that I wouldn't even liked of things like. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't call them groupies because like they're just girls, like
Speaker 1: wore like the fun more than we do. I was
Speaker 1: ware they act at these parties. Okay, so we'll not
Speaker 1: call them groupies. I'm saying groupies as is a vague term.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's just me not wanting to call people of
Speaker 1: the show fans. There's definitely something that's That's what I'm saying. Okay,
Speaker 1: we can use another word. He won't. He won't say
Speaker 1: it because you know he's still smashing. No. I'm just
Speaker 1: I don't look the I'm not that person to have
Speaker 1: a groupie, that is all I'm saying. Okay, So what
Speaker 1: do you call somebody who who follows you from town
Speaker 1: to town, who is not from that town, who knows
Speaker 1: where you're gonna be at, who knows you're the host
Speaker 1: who knows your name. Stalk that's what you call them,
Speaker 1: a stalker. I'm gonna tell you right now, like I'm groupie,
Speaker 1: they know where your hotel is, that they know what
Speaker 1: they want to get back. It's not a stalker because
Speaker 1: I know there's something that he said that groupies are
Speaker 1: fans of air crafts. Like I'm gonna give you pussy
Speaker 1: off who you are their supportive throw a name out
Speaker 1: there because I'm gonna give you one of them. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't do that. I can't. I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't lame my idea to think that these women
Speaker 1: that we see and that these women that come to
Speaker 1: our parties are grouppies, because you know that does one
Speaker 1: guy STOs off. There's a lot of women to go there.
Speaker 1: Shut up. The high majority of women that go to
Speaker 1: parties aren't groupies. But to act like that, aren't groupies
Speaker 1: that follow us on tour because you might have sex
Speaker 1: with a girl that's not pressed for you, and that's
Speaker 1: probably the one that you really want to funk, but
Speaker 1: I mean, you ain't able to sit here and those
Speaker 1: are the women that you have sex with, the ones
Speaker 1: that aren't pressed. The ones that you actually got sucking
Speaker 1: the girls are pressed. That's like so much more fun.
Speaker 1: So I want you all to a couple of years, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're gas because like, oh my god, these girls, I
Speaker 1: get that. That's like the second year thirty and just
Speaker 1: like you said two tho twelve, right, we start traveling
Speaker 1: to the second Yeah. One of the craziest to stay
Speaker 1: parties are handy blues the parties and if I don't
Speaker 1: know if you'll have the same one in mine, but
Speaker 1: I want you to tell me in terms of something
Speaker 1: that's relevant to the show, something sex related. What's the
Speaker 1: craziest thing you have seen at a party? Don't don't
Speaker 1: use the name right set the scene? Where were you?
Speaker 1: When was it? Don't use that name? You know who
Speaker 1: it is obviously do in d C. Yeah when you disappear, Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: so I it was I know the person about wait
Speaker 1: is she like I Bob, Like we know? So, I
Speaker 1: mean this is what we were still kind of like
Speaker 1: getting our bearings as like a full production, right Like,
Speaker 1: So it was just like the first couple of years
Speaker 1: you was just kind of like flying by the seat
Speaker 1: of my pants. It's just like you know we in town.
Speaker 1: We're still getting drunk. We're still treating it like it's
Speaker 1: a big gas house party, but obviously it's not going
Speaker 1: to something else. How many people? How many people showed up?
Speaker 1: This is a this is had to be like people, so, um,
Speaker 1: you know, before before like the party even gets like
Speaker 1: really super rocking like that, it's like Loki is wrecked,
Speaker 1: like contacts provided I want to school on DC University
Speaker 1: that day that we do it. It's like the tailgate. Okay,
Speaker 1: so we're at tailgate like fucked up, and then the
Speaker 1: parties at like five o'clock and loads, so the party popping,
Speaker 1: and like usually in the beginning, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: when people are still kind of filing in and you
Speaker 1: know it's not as like rammed yet. You know, you
Speaker 1: could let the DJ play a little bit. You can
Speaker 1: still kind of walk around. I'll be walking around with
Speaker 1: the water gun, shooting girls with handing in the mount
Speaker 1: or do say now and then mount just kind of
Speaker 1: get people warmed up, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: we're doing that and then um we're just looking around
Speaker 1: and and and loads nowhere to be and at this sign,
Speaker 1: like the party's packed and this at this point, like
Speaker 1: we need to get on stage and do what Low does,
Speaker 1: right so that the hype. So, um, you know, we
Speaker 1: can't find him. I guess somebody found I wasn't the
Speaker 1: one who found him. But let we see a curtain
Speaker 1: and the curtains just going back and forth on the
Speaker 1: stage like this was like the same is like they're
Speaker 1: like and it's just like engulfed by a curtas curtains
Speaker 1: right here, Oh my god, like a theater trash the
Speaker 1: curtain going back and they're like no, no, so um,
Speaker 1: you know we find Low. Camp was none too pleased.
Speaker 1: Uh this man was not only smacked, but smacking something
Speaker 1: on Now was everyone looking or was this just you
Speaker 1: who noticed it? Was? It was angling the way that
Speaker 1: the crowd probably had no idea, but like if you're
Speaker 1: on the stage, like with the staff and just walking around,
Speaker 1: you would see like there's either back to it was
Speaker 1: a ladder. We found Low, Like Low, you're you're offer
Speaker 1: you found him? That is what happened. So like they
Speaker 1: found me found you like so like my parents down
Speaker 1: and me and short of you know, doing I forgot
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, tell me who it was. I'll tell you.
Speaker 1: I like my parts down and I think we were
Speaker 1: doing something like this was something that I was not
Speaker 1: supposed to be doing on stage, and our guy Benner
Speaker 1: had found me and he was like, Yo, what the
Speaker 1: funk are you doing? Like what the like? Get from
Speaker 1: behind there? So they wait, were you inside of her?
Speaker 1: While he was saying this series, I think I was
Speaker 1: just really really worried, but so he played. He gets
Speaker 1: me from behind the curtain. I get on the mic
Speaker 1: at this point like I'm just sucking trashed. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm wasted, and I get on the mic. I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: we ran out of Hennessey. It's seven o'clock party for
Speaker 1: another two and a half hours. No, yo, we ran
Speaker 1: out of HENNESSEYO, thank you for coming out, Hey, Pusa
Speaker 1: D home Coming. I've never seen cam Be line it
Speaker 1: to me as fast as he did he because he
Speaker 1: had people present him. He was like, Yo, what the funk?
Speaker 1: How Henessey ran out? We just got here up cam
Speaker 1: boo lines and took me snatches and my He's like,
Speaker 1: go the funk home, literally says it's like, give me
Speaker 1: the mike. You're funked up to wait why did you
Speaker 1: say that? Because I was sucked up because Peter was over.
Speaker 1: It was over. Mike says, to go home. So I
Speaker 1: took that opportunity to finish the job, I said. Backstage,
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, yea, we're going back to
Speaker 1: the Airbnb. Yeah, okay, okay, took him back to the Airbnb. Classic,
Speaker 1: get back to the Airbnb. It's raining, it's pouring that
Speaker 1: she doesn't have a key. You don't have the key.
Speaker 1: So now no, I mean, so now we we we're
Speaker 1: on the doorstep, we under this little thing, this little
Speaker 1: protector from the rain, and we're kissing, were going at it,
Speaker 1: and I think Raven pulls up and it's just looking
Speaker 1: at me like, you're so you're so disgusting, so disgusting. Low,
Speaker 1: So we you're disgusting. So we're getting the house. We're
Speaker 1: get in the house. Um take her upstairs and we
Speaker 1: do our business. Um she leaves, I think, and I
Speaker 1: think one of them came into the room and I
Speaker 1: was sprawled out but ass naked, and Nigga was like, yo,
Speaker 1: that room smell like sew. You know what it was like? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I know what it is, but
Speaker 1: remember yeah, like we were like because it was raining,
Speaker 1: we were sweating like it was niggas was drunk like
Speaker 1: so all that you could smell like sweat and pussy
Speaker 1: and look like kind of you probably one with Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe you fucking ladder while you oh day, you thought
Speaker 1: the party was over your backstage, you put one off
Speaker 1: then you left show. You know what. I don't want
Speaker 1: to make you lye so anyway, but thanks you did.
Speaker 1: This is like, ye give us another precursor to the tailgate.
Speaker 1: This is you know. One of my homeboys called me
Speaker 1: after he was drunking ship and he said he had
Speaker 1: a three some of these girls. He plays ball, he said,
Speaker 1: niggd I said, he used economy said, I just rolled
Speaker 1: down the skin of my dick to make sure what
Speaker 1: that was. That was my most craziest um. Do you
Speaker 1: have any guys the party, a any of like someone
Speaker 1: that it is the past? You can talk about it
Speaker 1: is the past. I'm gonna change man now, I'm joking.
Speaker 1: I don't like isn't they like yeah, like you'll you'll
Speaker 1: you'll have sex with a certain women on the road,
Speaker 1: But like I don't have. I don't have the same
Speaker 1: type of like glow that this thing gets. Because he's
Speaker 1: on stage like he's the host. One you have is
Speaker 1: a lit no. Alright, so alright, so nothing know if
Speaker 1: my memory. So I'm gonna tell you all start how
Speaker 1: this ni it didn't take one for the fucking team.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, you can start to share that ship. You know.
Speaker 1: I was so mad at you threw me the whack
Speaker 1: is joy? Just make up, just make out the whack
Speaker 1: is joy? Five for she was just like, out of
Speaker 1: six to do was just make her outword. Just do
Speaker 1: something to give me together, like twin bads, I'm just
Speaker 1: twin bad. Like somebody just give me thirty. Like she's
Speaker 1: ready to go. She was ready to go and sure
Speaker 1: that her friend popped on this sniggle back was hopping
Speaker 1: on the ste because she had a opportunity to good looking.
Speaker 1: So I'm just like I'm meeting her getting in and
Speaker 1: then her friend was like, I'm ready to go. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I look a cass He's sitting on the bed. I'm
Speaker 1: like Clare in New York, Bros. Couldn't do it. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I have standards. I'm taking plenty for the team. But
Speaker 1: here's the thing. Taking one of the team is like, okay,
Speaker 1: if you have an eight, you gotta throw me at
Speaker 1: least a six or a seven. She was, let's just
Speaker 1: make out with her, bro, Why didn't she look like anytime,
Speaker 1: any time you take over the team, like the average
Speaker 1: is not too far off. Like you're telling me that
Speaker 1: the girl was so bad looking? At you question? She was,
Speaker 1: I want to occupied her. Okay, I'll let me say this.
Speaker 1: Then it must have been bad, thank you. So how
Speaker 1: was he supposed to acquify? You could kissing his words?
Speaker 1: All right? To be fair, you could have took her
Speaker 1: downstairs then talk y'all. Let's get a quick bite, like say,
Speaker 1: everybody has the right idea. You know what. I went
Speaker 1: to Thailand with my home girl and she had this
Speaker 1: fine ass nigger. Was a group of Italians that she knew.
Speaker 1: The friend was ugly, and she was like, listen, it
Speaker 1: was three of us to our rooms, and then it
Speaker 1: was the two of them. She was like, wheezy, please,
Speaker 1: I gotta be you. I'm like, bit so I said, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sept my phone time a bit. I wanna
Speaker 1: go downstairs with the thing that we're gonna get it
Speaker 1: your I swear to God when you go off on
Speaker 1: banging on the door, She's like, thank you. So we
Speaker 1: go downstairs. After about ten minutes, he's like, so this
Speaker 1: is because you don't you don't like you are being
Speaker 1: nice night. You know, I didn't know. I didn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't be in my life ever tost you anything less
Speaker 1: than no. If it was if it was something where
Speaker 1: like we've never put me. He's put me in positions
Speaker 1: to like bag something dope or vice versas. I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, cool, I'll take one for the team this time.
Speaker 1: There's never been a chip. There's never been a time
Speaker 1: ever that I've thrown you alive that was whacked. I'm
Speaker 1: never I'm not. I'm not saying that you ever thrown
Speaker 1: me a whack live. What I'm saying is in the
Speaker 1: fucking situation that we were in, all I needed was
Speaker 1: thirty fucking minutes. Bro. Did you say to him like, yo,
Speaker 1: can you? I hoped at him like bro, and I
Speaker 1: never knew that, But I I don't know to take
Speaker 1: you take a stand, you take a standing, fucking San Francisco.
Speaker 1: I got a fucking nine and a half in the bed.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't talked him for four ye hours
Speaker 1: after that. Perfect How's purpose is correct? Super smacked? Like wait,
Speaker 1: that's worried. That's worse. You know what, I'm gonna believe
Speaker 1: that girl was fine. His health because you getting upset again.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I love how was that? This was like
Speaker 1: what RUC's in. It was like six seventeen six. It's
Speaker 1: probably just don't put years two years ago. You're still hot.
Speaker 1: She was fine? Well she was so bad. Did you
Speaker 1: ever see her again? No? No, I wonder beauty. She
Speaker 1: never called me. None of that ship. You know what.
Speaker 1: I think we transferred the energy, but that should give
Speaker 1: me hot. So I think about that ship because I've
Speaker 1: thrown this man so many, understand that, so many, all
Speaker 1: of these joints. Well, I can just Texas, just do
Speaker 1: the next day, like yeah, yeah, I'm over right now.
Speaker 1: She's still tell trigger you've punched your hand at times.
Speaker 1: I've got this man to the mountaintop. I brought water
Speaker 1: to the fun as well being all I need to do.
Speaker 1: All I needed him to do was l yeah, this
Speaker 1: is all she was trying to eat and I got
Speaker 1: it too. That's what afod to have. That's not a wind.
Speaker 1: But tell me really quick though, he said, the girl
Speaker 1: was on top of you and like doing all this
Speaker 1: ship like what were you saying to get her? Like
Speaker 1: she was already at dick and like what was you doing?
Speaker 1: He just wasn't doing anything. I was just like that
Speaker 1: and I could hear him. I'm like, he's not into it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all did going down because I'm so mad and just
Speaker 1: said I'm like, he's gonna suck it up. And sure enough,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna said it, girl, I'm ready to go. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what I love about this is how they started so humble,
Speaker 1: like no, we don't really be taken down gross on
Speaker 1: the water the ship and I was like, yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: passed you that. You get no comfortable, you can't with
Speaker 1: us a little dollar, right, Yeah, it's always it's always
Speaker 1: the towns that you never expand we did one and
Speaker 1: they got a lot of et opening joints out there.
Speaker 1: Have you guys ever had like a orgy or no, no, no,
Speaker 1: have you guys ever smashed the girl together or ran
Speaker 1: a train? There's a story, my story. You tell it
Speaker 1: and you don't say the names. There's a story. The guys,
Speaker 1: where was that at l in l A. This don't
Speaker 1: even you don't even say that it was. It was
Speaker 1: fairly recently not it was, So what happened was threesome
Speaker 1: poursom pops deep. I don't feel like I was somehow
Speaker 1: directly involved with the story. I tell her, you don't
Speaker 1: even saying it's you who, don't say who it is,
Speaker 1: just tell us the story. Yeah you, I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 1: I want to hear this ship when you get off,
Speaker 1: all right, I want to get to some questions. Um,
Speaker 1: we have a question for a guy. We actually had
Speaker 1: this director towards me and many, but I feel like
Speaker 1: y'all might be good for this question. Um, so this
Speaker 1: is our wholemale segment. Good afternoon. Anonymous is my middle name,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go by black Thunder. That was what
Speaker 1: you came you could have said, Greg. I recently found
Speaker 1: your podcast and I've been a fan ever since. Love
Speaker 1: listening in hearing female perspective on things, as well as
Speaker 1: working things out in my relationship. After about a week
Speaker 1: or two of listening on on episode seventeen, I've come
Speaker 1: to realize that a lot of girls that have come
Speaker 1: on the show or even you Tube have a similar
Speaker 1: mindset or a goal in mind when you talk to guys.
Speaker 1: Here's my question, is money really a big deal for
Speaker 1: women is not having enough money. And deal breaker is
Speaker 1: money more important than sex. I know Mandy mentioned she
Speaker 1: has a guy that pays for a wint rent, wheezy
Speaker 1: dates for and white guys that fly her out everywhere.
Speaker 1: It seems like that's all you guys stress in your talks.
Speaker 1: Other than Dick, I'm a younger man twenty three, very frugal.
Speaker 1: I'd rather save it to travel than spend it on
Speaker 1: a girl. I'll talk to you for two months and
Speaker 1: stop talking to again. For example, on first dates, I'll
Speaker 1: ask to go to a coffee at Starbucks or take
Speaker 1: a walk in the part because I feel like money
Speaker 1: doesn't mean need to be spent. Am I being cheap
Speaker 1: or smart? Best? Black Thunder? Tell me what you guys
Speaker 1: think about your year old self, my twenty three yeardself.
Speaker 1: I was well when I was broke. Yeah, um, so
Speaker 1: I was just sucking my coworkers because it was all broke.
Speaker 1: Where were you working at? I was working especially single.
Speaker 1: So this is my this is my like leigitism whole phase. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna double shall tell. And I was messing with
Speaker 1: my boss. I was messing with my coworker and I
Speaker 1: was messing with my supervisor a couple like five or
Speaker 1: six months spend you must have um and now it
Speaker 1: was just fun Like I was when I was broke
Speaker 1: and I didn't give a funk and I was just
Speaker 1: fresh out of college. I didn't care. I was just
Speaker 1: making dirt money living with my parents and I was
Speaker 1: just walling out. That's when I started really drink. So
Speaker 1: because see, I don't know what this dude is like,
Speaker 1: are you trying to just trying to imply either? Are
Speaker 1: you trying to? So I'm gonna be honest with you.
Speaker 1: You have to remember me and Mandy are women that
Speaker 1: are making a lot of money, and we're living in
Speaker 1: New York and we're older than you are. Now is
Speaker 1: is that all we talked about with men? No, But
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, if the conquest for men
Speaker 1: is pussy and that's the thing that they flaunt, then
Speaker 1: the conquest for women is money. Right, And I'm not
Speaker 1: talking in terms of something serious. But men love to
Speaker 1: this switch I suck this, so we'd be like, oh
Speaker 1: this and he did this. That's how it goes. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Remember this is a lot of like the locker room
Speaker 1: talk for women, so to speak, beauty shop talk if
Speaker 1: you want to say that. But it's money really a
Speaker 1: big deal for women, I would say it depends what
Speaker 1: age you're at, it depends where you're going at, and
Speaker 1: it depends where you live. To Like, I think women
Speaker 1: value money differently in different cities, in different regions. Yes,
Speaker 1: I think it's way yeah, Like l A. Women look
Speaker 1: at money differently than women in New York, and different
Speaker 1: than than women in Atlanta, and differently, And it depends
Speaker 1: what you have, for example, in New York without a card.
Speaker 1: But and I was just gonna say, I don't need
Speaker 1: a car, so they don't have to have a car.
Speaker 1: But when I was living in Florida, like they do
Speaker 1: with car, like a girl, like a girl in l
Speaker 1: A is not going to date and they go without
Speaker 1: a car. Yeah no, I mean, like not to sound
Speaker 1: like shallow, but like money isn't it's not like money
Speaker 1: is the important thing, but money allowed. Money just allows freedom,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like it gives you options,
Speaker 1: and women love everybody, you know the best. He was like,
Speaker 1: women progress sexually and men progress non sexually. And when
Speaker 1: men progressing lifestyle, she was like, if I did it
Speaker 1: a nigger that had apartment, and then I didn't even
Speaker 1: with the car, and then I didn't go with his
Speaker 1: own apartment. I can never go back and like the
Speaker 1: nigga's like I did. If I did a bitch, I
Speaker 1: suck my dick and and swallowed, then I did the
Speaker 1: everything that was great I'll tell you about though. For me,
Speaker 1: what changed is the things that I was able to
Speaker 1: afford myself. When I was able to fly myself out,
Speaker 1: when I was able to get myself this and that
Speaker 1: in my own apartment and buy my own back, it
Speaker 1: got very hard to then date men that weren't on
Speaker 1: my level. Now I have to the theory of Chris Rock.
Speaker 1: I'm not going back in lifestyle. Yes, now he asked
Speaker 1: a question about a Starbucks first date. Um, that's swag,
Speaker 1: that's not wagon. Can get away with that. So it's
Speaker 1: funny the personality comes. I don't think like this is
Speaker 1: what my homegirl does. This one of my homegirl to Josie.
Speaker 1: She is a director for mac Makeup, making a Hello
Speaker 1: bank in the Caribbean three times, I mean three days
Speaker 1: out the week, like every single week, traveling for work.
Speaker 1: And she does coffee dates because she feels like they're
Speaker 1: an easier exit, Like if it's not going well, so right,
Speaker 1: so you can do you can play the coffee things
Speaker 1: your advantage. I'm gonna be honest with you. I do
Speaker 1: think the coffee data man ask me for coffee is
Speaker 1: kind of tacky. But maybe you could say something like hey,
Speaker 1: I've that could also turn into something else. I can
Speaker 1: but I would say, like say someone, hey, I have
Speaker 1: a few hours. I'd love to meet you. I've had
Speaker 1: a busy week, but what about this Saturday, Like do
Speaker 1: you have time to meet at this cafe? Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: That's the way to kind of play into the money thing.
Speaker 1: And if the date goes good enough, maybe the next
Speaker 1: time you can offer to like or just don't stop
Speaker 1: the date that they can continue. Oh let's go get
Speaker 1: some dreams. But it's not like you can't go like
Speaker 1: that for him, A lot of men make the mistake
Speaker 1: of doing is leading with money. And if you money,
Speaker 1: if that's the first thing that you're coming out with,
Speaker 1: that's what if you take the dude took you on
Speaker 1: the coffee date and like, you know, just um, you
Speaker 1: know you want to meet tomaw al right, cool, Like
Speaker 1: let's um, I'll only grab some coffee real quick, I bet,
Speaker 1: and then after the coffee you go and do some
Speaker 1: other ship and then and by like quickly realized. I
Speaker 1: don't know if he's in the position to do that,
Speaker 1: but I will tell you one thing. I think. It's
Speaker 1: the episode number forty eight. One of my best friends,
Speaker 1: Anthony Um gets more pussy in women than anyone I know.
Speaker 1: And he said something about only being rich for the
Speaker 1: first three dates. He said, that's all you gotta do.
Speaker 1: Be rich enough for three days, get through three dates,
Speaker 1: and you'll be fine. What are you going through the
Speaker 1: notes from Anthony, I'm reminding myself to blanket, please stop
Speaker 1: saying his name, because he doesn't want to name up there.
Speaker 1: He said his name on the show. We didn't damn
Speaker 1: we said Anthony on the show. Now I gotta blank
Speaker 1: three times. What do you mean on his episode? Okay okaya? Anyway, No,
Speaker 1: I think I think that makes sense, like be rich
Speaker 1: for the first three days, because now you've got her hooked,
Speaker 1: so like, now you can prove it, you can take
Speaker 1: care of her, and you can provide for her. Now
Speaker 1: it's to you as a man's maintaining. So his theory
Speaker 1: was just like be rich for the first three days.
Speaker 1: By the third day you'll smash and then you out
Speaker 1: of there, okay, because it's like it's like acting like
Speaker 1: you have more money than you have. So like you
Speaker 1: on the first day, but super open. I don't know
Speaker 1: what you do for a living. But when I was
Speaker 1: dating a year old, I didn't expect much from them,
Speaker 1: So that's also a good point, Like dating year old
Speaker 1: unless he works on Wall Street, unless he has an
Speaker 1: executive Like, you're not giving me much for probably dick
Speaker 1: and bubble gums, so don't. I mean, I'm getting men
Speaker 1: that are established. I'm gonna say thirty thirty one to
Speaker 1: thirty eight. That's like my range of demand of dating.
Speaker 1: So I'm sorry they can't be out here taking me
Speaker 1: to Starbucks. No, absolutely not thirty old man telling me
Speaker 1: they won't take me the Starbucks stucks. Continue on the
Speaker 1: other things, like let's go get some coffee real quickly,
Speaker 1: as sometimes the dude is trying to test their personality
Speaker 1: to like sometimes can't have a good conversation with I
Speaker 1: don't want to deal with you temperature. Let what if
Speaker 1: you met a girl, let's take it. I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: internet internet dating out because internet dating, you got to
Speaker 1: meet someone for the first time because you haven't seen
Speaker 1: each other yet. What if you met someone at a bar,
Speaker 1: would you the next time you meet them ask them
Speaker 1: taking the Starbucks? Because this is no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's not true. That's not true because if you meet
Speaker 1: a girl at the bar, you're meeting her representation one.
Speaker 1: You don't know if she's drunk or not to you
Speaker 1: can't really have a conversation in a bar to begin
Speaker 1: with depends which bar. Yeah, but you vibed a little
Speaker 1: bit more than you have if you just wipe somebody, right,
Speaker 1: I ain't. I ain't with the whole like first day
Speaker 1: at the bar, Like okay, I could bother her, Like no,
Speaker 1: let's let's meet somewhere where we can actually have this course,
Speaker 1: she said, Like you guys met at the box. I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about Internet. So here's what I'm saying. Coffee
Speaker 1: is cool if you swipe someone right, right, So the
Speaker 1: next day can't be coffee because you're already You've already
Speaker 1: connected in some way. The point of the Colts internet
Speaker 1: dating it's premeditated to text. So I got to meet
Speaker 1: you to know if it's gonna be good. You may
Speaker 1: not be good looking in person or whatever. That's why
Speaker 1: I can understand the coffee thing for internet meet ups.
Speaker 1: But if we've met at a bar and chatted a
Speaker 1: little bit and got each other's number, I'm sorry, I
Speaker 1: think coffee is like what, that's cool and I understand that,
Speaker 1: but like I want to really sit with you and
Speaker 1: have a conversation like it's only But why you can't
Speaker 1: do that over food? Well, I mean you can do
Speaker 1: that in Starbucks, Like I'm not wasting my money, like
Speaker 1: for food. You don't have a good personality, you're dud, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you can beat the ball? Are you talking about? This
Speaker 1: is Black Thunder's twenty three year olds offer you right now?
Speaker 1: Well you right now. I can take a girl to Starbucks.
Speaker 1: I can take you a gir to Carbone, like it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me, Like I'm good for both. But
Speaker 1: I feel like it's less awkward at Starbucks because like
Speaker 1: we're really genuinely not forcing the versation and if it
Speaker 1: don't work, my nig, we can get the fun out.
Speaker 1: I got to sit there with you. I am drying
Speaker 1: the funk up, Like the pressure is off. If you like,
Speaker 1: if you have something, if you if you had a
Speaker 1: lower risk type of dates. You got an easy way
Speaker 1: to put it. I'm gonna give you a budget of
Speaker 1: forty bucks, all right, and I'm gonna tell you right
Speaker 1: now you need to find an happy hour. I don't
Speaker 1: know where you live, happy hour that got four dollars
Speaker 1: or six dollar drinks and do a quick happy hour
Speaker 1: and just find your way out of there. But I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I start just talking to I'm going home with three
Speaker 1: days and I'm thinking the range is either or from me,
Speaker 1: I can do either or, but I choose to like
Speaker 1: vibe and fill you out in a place that's not
Speaker 1: that fucking like. Well, I have to sit there with
Speaker 1: you if there's free wifiing people coming to right and essay,
Speaker 1: I'm good. So here's the next one. We got this
Speaker 1: We're coming from an anonymous person still having sex with
Speaker 1: The next is the subject high ladies. I love this
Speaker 1: problem cast been binge listening. Thankful for my homeboy. You
Speaker 1: put me on too. You guys, I feel like I
Speaker 1: have so much more confidence in talking about sex from
Speaker 1: all the advice and knowledge. With all this being said,
Speaker 1: I have a question. Not sure if this is something
Speaker 1: you would discuss. But here we go me and my
Speaker 1: boy from broke up, but we're still in a sex
Speaker 1: now that we're broken up, the sex has been amazing,
Speaker 1: like it feels like brand new dick. The problem is
Speaker 1: we fall back into the relationship pattern and then the
Speaker 1: sex starts to suck again. Has this ever happened to you? Guys?
Speaker 1: Should we just call it quits? We broke up because
Speaker 1: of mutual reason. We don't get along and we're completely different.
Speaker 1: People have a lot of love for him, but I
Speaker 1: don't see a future with m. Say straight up, she's
Speaker 1: annoying any exactly? Why if the sex is good and
Speaker 1: there's no pressure to to have anything more than that,
Speaker 1: and then they lead into relationships ship and like the
Speaker 1: sex gets whacker. It's because of her, because she's born
Speaker 1: she's annoying, like she doesn't you don't know's something that's
Speaker 1: There's something that's mentally turning him off. I was going
Speaker 1: to say that too. It must be something one more
Speaker 1: or the other one gets too attached to get their intense.
Speaker 1: It doesn't even have to be attachment. It just could
Speaker 1: be personality. Just don't I think it's attached because she
Speaker 1: still feels entitled in to him, Like because you start
Speaker 1: going down that road up the hunt. I mean, she's
Speaker 1: say it's her fault. But if you're going back into
Speaker 1: the consistency routine of oh, we're having sex again, Oh
Speaker 1: we're gonna you know, just saying that my crib. Oh
Speaker 1: we're waking up together like cat out of work, and
Speaker 1: then that's just something happened, and it's like, man like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to go back down this path. We
Speaker 1: had sex, we had good sex, and we left each
Speaker 1: other at that. I didn't bother you after that. When
Speaker 1: you was honting again, you called me and that was that.
Speaker 1: Now it seems like she's going back into I miss you,
Speaker 1: stay over. Let's cook said that nigga could be doing
Speaker 1: that too. Niggas listen, niggas be frying on a dicks.
Speaker 1: Maybe up this girl. That's the two one t Kiki
Speaker 1: and all that. Do you say, I'm not saying, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying we don't. I'm saying that that doesn't her
Speaker 1: not of provided context. We're saying it is her fault
Speaker 1: at this point, I don't know the one side and
Speaker 1: from maybe you shouldn't. Maybe you should keep it someone
Speaker 1: too emotional and honestly, if you guys broke up and
Speaker 1: just sucking each other because you have no one else
Speaker 1: to funk right now, that's not a good idea either. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is toxic and that word is very underrated. But
Speaker 1: I'm serious, like when you find that, I mean, if
Speaker 1: do it again in six months, see if you feel
Speaker 1: away in three months, you know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: chances are you going to meet someone else in three months.
Speaker 1: So I want to read one more question just because
Speaker 1: I read depression and I feel like, um, it'll be
Speaker 1: nice to give this to this advice. And it's a
Speaker 1: question for a man. I feel like, um, I'm a veteran.
Speaker 1: If that helps, I seriously am reaching out as it
Speaker 1: a ton because I need help. I am twenty nine.
Speaker 1: I'm from Columbus, Ohio. I've been single for seven years.
Speaker 1: My last relationship ended as usual young love does. We
Speaker 1: were together very young. We had a baby while I
Speaker 1: was deployed to Iraq, and I didn't get to witness
Speaker 1: the baby come into this world. When I got my
Speaker 1: son back, I was here when I got my When
Speaker 1: I got back, my son was here and had a family.
Speaker 1: I cheated, I got caught multiple times, which led to
Speaker 1: a breakup. Since we haven't had much communication unless it's
Speaker 1: for our son. She has no interest in me. I
Speaker 1: still love her and off that and my son, I
Speaker 1: would still try to make your work. To this day,
Speaker 1: I almost feel like that's the one. She's gone, so
Speaker 1: now here I am years later. I've dated nothing, I've dated,
Speaker 1: but nothing serious. Now I'm in a place where young
Speaker 1: girls are too young and inexperienced, and women are my
Speaker 1: age or in a relationship, have one they won't get over.
Speaker 1: Three more kids hurt and stuck in their ways. My
Speaker 1: friends and I have already dealt with them, or just
Speaker 1: doesn't work. I'm young and I think attractive, he put
Speaker 1: his Instagram. I have a job, one son, my own place,
Speaker 1: newer car. My credit is going up, but I'm having
Speaker 1: no luck in this single game. I go out, I
Speaker 1: get talked too often with women. They're either too booge
Speaker 1: and it doesn't work. For social media, I slowed down.
Speaker 1: I'm not with posting pictures. I just feel over it
Speaker 1: and I'm not sure of being active is the way
Speaker 1: to do it, because it's ipossible to find someone. I'm
Speaker 1: not perfect. I'm only five eight and skinny, and I
Speaker 1: think that's solely the reason I can't find anyone. It's
Speaker 1: depressing and I'm alone. I don't have one person to
Speaker 1: talk to her confide in. Um, I don't have any
Speaker 1: kind of intimate relationship. I need help or a suggestion.
Speaker 1: I hope you can offer advice and please gauge my
Speaker 1: social I'm losing it over here. She's know. The fucking
Speaker 1: problem is you lost your confidence. Is she's very attractive
Speaker 1: and I don't know what then I know he's not.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you he lost his confidence. And he
Speaker 1: lost his confidence when he lost the girl that he
Speaker 1: sucked over, and everything that happened to him he deserved.
Speaker 1: That was called karma. So well he's going through right
Speaker 1: now is a bunch of fucking karma. You sucked over
Speaker 1: a girl that you had a kid with, and now
Speaker 1: you're looking at the world like, what was me? You
Speaker 1: gotta get through this patch. It's nobody else fault but shorts.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, like I feel like I was. I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to kick him while her ship. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of that. Calibility is a fucking like that'll set
Speaker 1: you free in more ways than you'll ever imagine. So,
Speaker 1: my nigga, strap your boots up. I understand that you've
Speaker 1: sucked up, and the next person that comes in your life,
Speaker 1: don't funk it up like it's really very simple and
Speaker 1: ask for advice. I would I would get on like
Speaker 1: one of those dating sites, dating Action. I wouldn't even
Speaker 1: I don't think he's ready to go on dating. You're
Speaker 1: only gonna You're only gonna set yourself up for failure
Speaker 1: if you're just gonna be like and women and tell
Speaker 1: me if I'm wrong, Like women can smell that shirt
Speaker 1: on you if you're acting confident, we can spell on
Speaker 1: desperation and we can. And I feel like I've even
Speaker 1: had not tay to me like who do you think of? You?
Speaker 1: Do you think on those you on that? And honestly,
Speaker 1: if you're upper ass a little too much or you're
Speaker 1: too you know, good morning thinking about you go we
Speaker 1: like it really pushes women away. I don't tell you
Speaker 1: what we need to know that you have another interest
Speaker 1: besides us, you know, so I can tell you what
Speaker 1: I've done to help me through breakups and me Alice
Speaker 1: is going through it together, getting hobbies, going out like
Speaker 1: that's working out. I mean, if you too, skinny sport,
Speaker 1: develop a routine like my nigga, Like it'll come to
Speaker 1: you at some point. There are too many women in
Speaker 1: the city of Columbus is a big city right in
Speaker 1: Columbus or in the world period for you to be
Speaker 1: just stached over one like it's kind of the biggest thing,
Speaker 1: as big as it is. I feel like, if you're
Speaker 1: getting depressed, you need to start. It's not stenched over
Speaker 1: one girl that's the mother of his kids. Like yeah,
Speaker 1: but suck it up several times. If he's the presson
Speaker 1: over that makes sense. About the same time, my empathy
Speaker 1: for his depression is very low because if he repeated,
Speaker 1: he was a repeated defender understood. All I'm saying is
Speaker 1: if you suck that once, she didn't want to suk
Speaker 1: with you after that person, I get you, Like everybody
Speaker 1: makes mistakes. Understand that several times. I understand that. To
Speaker 1: acknowledge that, that's the next step. He's gonna sit there
Speaker 1: and say, I said, you have to game your commidence back.
Speaker 1: The same time, if he's sitting there just like oh man,
Speaker 1: like keep beating it over your head, like yeah, this
Speaker 1: naked sun up. You funked up. It's your fault, your fault.
Speaker 1: After a while, like yeah, the Nike clearly knows it,
Speaker 1: but somebody. Sometimes you can say it to yourself all
Speaker 1: the time, but until someone says it to you or
Speaker 1: writes it down, you may not actually get it. He
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Speaker 1: working with it. That might be when you get so
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Speaker 1: like to put it like this, he's writing it. He's
Speaker 1: writing into a show because there's something he's not getting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's not writing it because you know, he's depressing, Like
Speaker 1: there's something he's just not registering in his head. So
Speaker 1: he wants an Obviously, your confidence is low, but I
Speaker 1: think that you just are too obsessed with this idea.
Speaker 1: So like I'm serious, Like I would start slow, Go
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Speaker 1: coach or something like that. Hopefully you've got some good
Speaker 1: insurance with the military. You can get a great therapist
Speaker 1: for yourself. I would get to be accountable for your bullshit. Therapist, therapy,
Speaker 1: the gym and Jim gives you those endorphins back. The
Speaker 1: only reason why, and that's the confidence he needs. The
Speaker 1: only reason why. I mentioned Dayton because it's almost like
Speaker 1: dating is like a muscle, like you need to work
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Speaker 1: give you the instant gratification of feeling better looking, that's
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Speaker 1: even I don't you don't bumble, right, But like even
Speaker 1: with that, I still don't think he has that component
Speaker 1: to even go to that route yet. I think there's
Speaker 1: something I'm low on this one, Huh. I think he
Speaker 1: needs to As much as I am offered rebound dating,
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like he's not there, not there,
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why when you're already depressed,
Speaker 1: because I've been there. You know that I was thinking
Speaker 1: about taking out in life. I was depressed and just
Speaker 1: dating to cover that. I went on a bad date
Speaker 1: and it was like, oh my god, I really want
Speaker 1: to kill myself because I'm never going to find that.
Speaker 1: You're building that because it gets your shoulders from the
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Speaker 1: want to date me be obsessed with yourself right now?
Speaker 1: Start reading books. Books really help you like kind of
Speaker 1: get out of that thinking space and think about your
Speaker 1: X and think about it like that. But eventually you
Speaker 1: got to do time hells on and you will get
Speaker 1: over it. And I would love for him to find
Speaker 1: somebody maybe get back with whatever it is. But before
Speaker 1: you fix any problem outside money, like fix all that
Speaker 1: ship up one side first, before you go with as
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Speaker 1: But if you don't set dates with yourself, and I'll
Speaker 1: let mean that in the corny way, but like things
Speaker 1: to do, you're gonna be miserable. I'll go to the
Speaker 1: movies by myself. I'll go bowling by myself just to
Speaker 1: clear my head. Just you have to just to get right.
Speaker 1: And then whatever situation I'm dealing with, I have a
Speaker 1: different perspective, like, oh, you know, I was thinking about
Speaker 1: this while I was out right. I understand where you're
Speaker 1: coming from. Instead of just trying to force yourself and
Speaker 1: now you're wrong. You're wrong. Here's why you're wrong. Like
Speaker 1: all that is it's toxic that he got to get
Speaker 1: out of that, that whole mindset, and when he does.
Speaker 1: I think that was that was actually really great advice.
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