1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and SMITHA. I'm welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: and I Never Told You a productive of iHeartRadio. And 3 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: for today's classic, we are bringing back a book club 4 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: we did on the book Pride, which so Pride and 5 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: Prejudice kind of remix that we really enjoyed. It's really good, 6 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: and you know it's February. We didn't do a lot 7 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: of Valentine's content. Hell, what did you talk about? No 8 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: terrible things, so I thought we would bring this one in. 9 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: And also, I've just been seeing it a lot. I 10 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: think maybe because the Wuthering Heights movie came out, but 11 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: I've been seeing that quote at the beginning that you 12 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: were like, this is the quote Annie, everybody, yes, yes, yes, yes, 13 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: So I learned a lot and I enjoyed this book, 14 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: so please enjoy this classic episode. Hey, this is Sanny 15 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: and Samantha and welcome to steffan Never Told You projection 16 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio, and welcome to another edition of book Club. 17 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: This month, we are reading Eb's a Boys twenty nineteen 18 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: novel Pride, a Pride and Prejudice remix which he has 19 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: us to take on Pride and prejudice in our modern 20 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: day with black and Afro LATINX characters. The author also 21 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: draws on personal experience. She grew up in Bushwick, which 22 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: is a big part for the story takes place and 23 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: has Haitian roots, like the main character. So I'm very 24 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: very excited about this because I have never read Pride 25 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: and Prejudice. I have seen did we not do Frides? 26 00:01:59,000 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 27 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: Because it was much shorter. Yeah. 28 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: Well, I'm about to back up and make you read 29 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: Pride and Prejudice. 30 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: Now I'm annoyed. I love this, and I know you 31 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: have strong opinions about like the film and TV adaption. 32 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: I do opinions, yes, So I'm very very excited. This 33 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 1: is gonna be fun because I'm gonna I'm going to 34 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: break down the plot of the book and then I'm 35 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: going to ask Samantha to tell me the comparison. I'm 36 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: very very excited. Also, I really want to read Zavoi's 37 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: other other works. We had kind of a list of 38 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: what we were choosing for this month, and she had 39 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: another one on there that I really wanted to do 40 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: because she's written a graphic novel on Octavia Butler. She's 41 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: also written for Marvel's Black Panther. She did a whole 42 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: thing about Acoyer coming to the United States, so hopefully 43 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: we can come back in the future. 44 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 2: So when we were talking about books for this month, 45 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: I forgot about this, but I had seen someone I 46 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 2: think post it talking about this book and her doing it, 47 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 2: and I was so excited. So when Annie reminded me, like, hey, 48 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: this is an optional, was like, oh, yes, immediately, yes, 49 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: we need to do this one because I love good 50 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: adaptations anyway, and I do this was a good adaptation. 51 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 2: And before we start, let's do a quote from the 52 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 2: author about the original. Yes, as we all have to 53 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: give homage to thank you to the great literary figure 54 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 2: Jane Austen for writing and publishing Pride and Prejudice in 55 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: eighteen thirteen. Amidst everything that was happening in her world 56 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: at the time, Austin gifted us with a story about 57 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: not only love, but class, expectations, and a woman's place 58 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: in the world, even as she, a woman in nineteenth 59 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: century England, had the audacity to write, observe, and speak 60 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: truth to power with such wit, humor and grace. And 61 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: that's what I have to keep telling. Like one of 62 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: my good guy friends we read this. We had a 63 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: small like three person book club, and this was I 64 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: think at the beginning of our book book club because 65 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: we had to talk about the fact that, yes, people 66 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: think of it as women's romance today and knowing that 67 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: in eighteen thirteen she was talking about being single and 68 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 2: daring to choose who to love and marry and really 69 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: like giving it back to society and having a conversation 70 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 2: about the fact that she could talk back and did 71 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 2: talk back to anyone and everyone, including you know, people 72 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 2: who were of royal heritage. 73 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:23,679 Speaker 1: So it was really lovely. 74 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: And the fact that she was such an icon in 75 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: that level that she dare speak her opinions got to 76 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: get a kudos. 77 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 3: So this book was genius. 78 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: Yes, and I believe I saw today some I've seen 79 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: it before, but like a viral post where someone was like, 80 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: just remember Jane Austen was self published and she also, 81 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,359 Speaker 1: you know, I gotta say it, she was one of 82 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: the first She had fan fiction writers of her work, 83 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: so it was a very like consequential work. And this 84 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: was a very fun update of it, even though I 85 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: haven't read the original, so I got a different experience. 86 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: But correct that I love it. I'm ready, but okay, 87 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to run through the plot of this this 88 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: book real quick. So it centers on Afro Latina teenager 89 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: and proud Bushwick resident Zuri Benitez. She grew up in 90 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: an apartment with her parents and her sisters and a 91 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: sort of matchmaker named Madrina. Zuri's extremely proud and fond 92 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: of her neighborhood. She's outspoken about any gentrification. She's also 93 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: worried excited about the possibility of attending historically black university, 94 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: Howard University in Washington, d C. So the novel begins 95 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: with the family preparing for the return of the oldest sister, Janney, 96 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: who has been away at Syracuse and is the first 97 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: in the family to go to college. So at the 98 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 1: same time, a once broken down house across the street 99 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: has gotten a massive makeover, further stoking Zuri's concerns about gentrification, 100 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,679 Speaker 1: and a rich black family with the last name Darcy 101 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: moves in and uh oh, the two black boys about 102 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: Zeri's age are hot. There are a lot the girls 103 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: go to introduce themselves just as Janay arrives and it's 104 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 1: clear Janey has a connection with Annsley, one of the 105 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: Darcy brothers. Zuri is resistant to these connections to the 106 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 1: connection between Annsley and Janey, in particular because she doesn't 107 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: want to lose what little time she has with her sister, 108 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: and thinking that these boys will never understand where they 109 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: as a family comes from. So Zuri is immediately turned 110 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: off by the closed off Darius Darcy. She's just like 111 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: this guy's no good. I don't like him. A lot 112 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: of drama unfolds. Zuri's family throws regular block parties for 113 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: the community, and Darius seems to look down his nose 114 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: at the whole thing. Zuri pretty much chaperone's a date 115 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: with Janey and Annsley, still not approving of this match, 116 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: but ends up with Darius after the two go their 117 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: own way and they spar about their differences class and experience, 118 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: with Zuri informing him you can never understand. And through this, 119 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: she meets a guy named Warren, who she views as 120 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: more hood and goes with him in a seeming attempt 121 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: to prove a point and perhaps make Darius jealous. Zuri 122 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: agrees to chill with Warren, refraining from saying that they 123 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: are going on dates. Warren tells her that he and 124 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: Darius used to be friends and implies that Darius sort 125 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: of romanticized hood life. Warren won a scholarship as a 126 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: child to a fancy private school where Darius was going, 127 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: but eventually he grew bored of it and it got 128 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: him suspended somehow. The story's kind of murky, and this 129 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: only solidifies Zuri's opinions of Darius, like, okay, I knew it. 130 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: Then the Benita's family is invited to the Darcis for 131 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: a fancy cocktail party, and at this party, Darius overhears 132 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: Zuri's younger sister basically joking about wanting to bag a 133 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: Brinch fan. And then Darius goes to speak with his 134 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: brother Annsley, who then breaks up with Janey, leaving her heartbroken, 135 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: which only further enrages Zuri. She and Warren have another 136 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: chill hangout thing, something she is pretty much trying to 137 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: hide from her very very nosy family. Very when you're 138 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: going to get a man family, and they're texting regularly 139 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: by this point her and Warren. Zuri admits to Janey 140 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: she's worried about her future about leaving Bushwick for Howard 141 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: what if she doesn't like it? So Janey purchases her 142 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: around trip ticket on a bus so she can visit 143 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: the campus. Zuri immediately loves it there and is unashamed 144 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: of how much she wants to get in. When she 145 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: learns one of the professors performs at a local place 146 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: called Busboy and Poets, she goes and performs one of 147 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: her poems. The whole book is kind of interspersed with 148 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: her poems. Only, surprise, surprise, Darius is there with his 149 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: younger sister and his up type friend, Carrie, who Zuri 150 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: believes he is dating. Georgia convinces Zuri to come with 151 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: them to get chili dogs, and then Darius offers her 152 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: ride back to Bushwick that night. Zuri reluctantly agrees, since 153 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: she has now missed her return bus. However, this means 154 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: a Losstter dinner with the paternal Darcy grandmother, who interrogates 155 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: Zuri and judges her and her neighborhood. Zuri like fights 156 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: right back and furiously calls her out and decides to 157 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: take the later bus instead of going back with Darius, 158 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: but he basically forgets to drive her to the bus stop. 159 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: They argue about music. He tells her that he was 160 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: glad she stood up to his grandmother and Eventually they 161 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: stop to get a bite to eat, or he tells 162 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: her he is very impressed with her, and one thing 163 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: leads to another and they kiss. Zuri is feeling more 164 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: laid back with Darius until they get closer to Bushwick 165 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: and Darius judges Warren and feeling like he once again 166 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: proved her right, Zuri agrees to meet with Warren the 167 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: next day, only to get a frantic string of texts 168 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 1: from Darius telling her that Warren had taken sexy pictures 169 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: of his sister when she was underage and ruined her 170 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: reputation basically, which is why she was living with her grandmother. So, 171 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: once again furious, Zuri ends it with Warren then in 172 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: there and agrees to start over with Darius. So she 173 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: and Darius go on a kind of a not date 174 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: where they talk about everything and anything generally have a 175 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: good time, good enough, but she agrees to go on 176 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: a real date with him to a party. However, Zuri 177 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: feels out of place and abandoned at this party. It's 178 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: mostly rich white people and she doesn't like how Darius 179 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: acts around them. She has an argument with him and 180 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: then they agree to leave, only to turn back after 181 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 1: she sees a picture of her younger sister on social 182 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: media at the party with Warren, so they immediately turn 183 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: around and find her sister wasted, but okay. Carrie had 184 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 1: made sure that the same thing that had happened to 185 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: Dari's sister didn't happen to Zuri's sister. After a confrontation 186 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: with Warren, Darius fighting like a real fight, Zuri yelling, 187 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: they go back to the Darcy households so Zuri's younger 188 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: sister can sober up. Before they return home, Darius shows 189 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: her around, They have some heart to hearts about judgment 190 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: and being wrong about each other, and then they kiss again. 191 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: Sirens across the street break the moment. The woman who 192 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: lived on the lower floor, Madrina, who Zuri often went 193 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: to for advice, had died, and with her gone, Zuri's 194 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: father agrees to sell the apartment, much to Zuri's heartbreak, 195 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: so they moved to a place with more space, but 196 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: it is more quiet, it's not as neighborly. Janney gets 197 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: back with Annsley. Darius revealed he had been the one 198 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: to convince him that he should break up with Janney, 199 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: and it's implied he's the one that convince him he 200 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: was wrong about the whole thing. Zuri keeps dating Darius 201 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: and visits him in her old neighborhood, where he the 202 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 1: artist that he is, has put their initials in the concrete, 203 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: saying that they'll be forever. She finishes her college essay, 204 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: and that's about the end. 205 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 4: Nicely done, thank you, Yes, so Samantha, Yes, tell me 206 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 4: give me some comparison notes. 207 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 2: She did great. She followed along with it perfectly. Now, 208 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 2: when it's a new rendition, I don't expect it to 209 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 2: be the same. If you're telling me you're taking a 210 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: movie from the book, and then there's already an amazing movie, 211 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 2: and then you puck up the movie, I'm gonna be pissed. 212 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 2: AKA the version with Cara Knightley. Hate it, hate it 213 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 2: to this day, hate it always. But it's okay whatever. 214 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 2: But when you have new renditions, now, I've never read that. 215 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 2: I think we had a long conversation when we were 216 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 2: talking about Pride Prejudice in general. I didn't read Pride 217 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 2: and Prejudice and Zombies. I was told that I should 218 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 2: read that. So I think we may have to do 219 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 2: like some features on both. Maybe we should do Pine 220 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: prejuice and zombies for like spooky season. 221 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 222 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 2: And then have another comparison because essentially a friend of 223 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 2: mine who we read the books together, he was like, no, 224 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 2: you should read it. 225 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: I think you'll enjoy it. This goofy's good. 226 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, okay, and I think it turned 227 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 2: into a movie, but I'm scared of that anyway. But 228 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: for the comparison, yes, she of course had the dar 229 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 2: season there she asked, had the Bennetts, but the switching 230 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: of the last name. She did have, of course, several 231 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 2: of the key characters. And there we've got Georgiana, which 232 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: is Georgia here she's a lovely sister. We have Colin, 233 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 2: who is the cousin in the book, and he comes 234 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 2: to try to marry one of the sisters to keep 235 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 2: the inheritance essentially in the home and the estate, and 236 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 2: he's an awful person and everybody trus to their void. 237 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 2: We have the best friend who ends up with Colin. 238 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 2: So the flip here is that he is related to 239 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 2: the mentor Madrina figure who you it's not that way, 240 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 2: And she kind of splits two characters because the grandmother 241 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 2: in the book and Madrina, I think represent kind of 242 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 2: one character like several characters rather but have like overlapping, 243 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 2: which is to be expected. I loved her portrayal of 244 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 2: the parents in this one because the parents in the 245 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 2: Pride and Prejudice. 246 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 3: Are really kind of like like. 247 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 2: The very beginning is how they how Elizabeth talks about 248 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: the fact that the marriage is awful, it is pretense, 249 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 2: and not to marry someone you don't like. Uh, that's 250 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: kind of the lesson she learns from her parents. So 251 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 2: in this one she flips in and I really adore it. 252 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 2: The relationship with the father is right on with all 253 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 2: the books, and like loving her daughter, loving his daughter, 254 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 2: wanted to protect his daughter, rite on love that the grandmother, 255 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 2: and this character would have been the aunt who's trying 256 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 2: to match make her sickly daughter to Darcy, but you know, 257 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 2: everything flips so she They do a great job with that. 258 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 2: The girlfriend that's not the girlfriend to Darcy is obviously 259 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 2: one of the sisters that are awful in the book, 260 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 2: so great with that. I think I was wondering how 261 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 2: they were going to take that whole bad guy Wickham, 262 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 2: which is Warren here is the bad dude who lies 263 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 2: and tries to slander people. But in the actual book, 264 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 2: in the Jane Austen's book, he actually runs away with 265 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: the youngest sister, causing a whole scandal because they have 266 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: obviously spent the night together, that's the implication, and if 267 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 2: they don't get married, it's a huge scandal. They will 268 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 2: all be ostracized, which is the fear of that's point 269 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 2: in time. But Darcy makes them get married, essentially about 270 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: promising the money and all this stuff. So I was 271 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 2: wondering how they handled that situation because obviously for a 272 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: modern day novel, to have thirteen year old girl run 273 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 2: away with like an eighteen year old boy not so great. 274 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: So I like the way she flipped that. 275 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 2: I like the way they she because I was wondering 276 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 2: as the story began and Warren was introduced him, like 277 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 2: how are they How is she going to do this, 278 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 2: because that's gonna be a real, real sketch. But the 279 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 2: fact that he did the whole photos, which is so 280 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 2: like on point with today in modern technology, I was like, Yes, 281 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: good job, great job, great telling of the story, makes 282 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 2: it new, made it interesting. I love the text because 283 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 2: in again the book, Darcy writes a letter to defend 284 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 2: himself and his actions against Wickham so like, and she 285 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 2: Readson all these things, so it's it's obviously a play 286 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 2: on that, which is which was brilliant in itself. The fighting. 287 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 2: Of course, it also made that same sense. So yeah, 288 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 2: I think the book did a great job. I love 289 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 2: the new interpretations. I really was wanting to see the 290 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: after word, I guess after I thought of the I 291 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: wanted her to be in college. I wanted to know 292 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 2: she made to Howard. I needed to know she was 293 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:04,719 Speaker 2: at Howard because it kind of just left it as is. 294 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 2: But I think it's fantastic. Again, this is taking an 295 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 2: adult idea because obviously all this was the societal idea 296 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 2: that you had to be married before twenty and if 297 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 2: you're not your old spinster, because in the book, the 298 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 2: Elizabeth is twenty five. So having them being teenagers and 299 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 2: flipping out like that was very interesting. Having them sell 300 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 2: the house that was obviously very different and trying to 301 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 2: raise their situation up very different as well. But of 302 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 2: course it's on par with the conversations about gentrification in 303 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 2: general and just having to adjust to society as it 304 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 2: is and what that looks like, especially if something's being 305 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 2: sold as the building was being sold. It is implied 306 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 2: that eventually that the Bennetts and Pride and Prejudice would 307 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 2: have to move when the father dies, So maybe that 308 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: was just kind of a step ahead. But yeah, I 309 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 2: think she did an amazing job with this book. She 310 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 2: gave it all of its like flowers and giving us 311 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 2: so much credit to Jade Austen's characters that were developed, 312 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 2: but put on great spin and originality to it that 313 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: I'm like ready to see this as a. 314 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 3: Movie in itself. 315 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, show me this as a Netflix special 316 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 2: for teen dramas, let's go. 317 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: I love it. I love that we had such a 318 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 1: different experience because you know, I was just like and 319 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:29,640 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed it, but I didn't have the same 320 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: like ooh who is this? How can I compare them 321 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: to this? Yeah? 322 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 2: It was a beautiful was like, oh look at that, 323 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 2: Look at this, because like the aunt in the book 324 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: would have been again the mentor here and like having 325 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 2: that different types of religion and like coming through it 326 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, I like this, come on. 327 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah it was really good. And like you said, I too. 328 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 1: When I got to the end, I was like, oh no, wait, 329 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: what happened? Sort of just kind of like implied she's 330 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,439 Speaker 1: gonna try to like make this relationship work and hopefully 331 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: she'll get into Howard, but it does end before you know, 332 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: and she's in this new neighborhood, so it's it's a 333 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: lot of like nebulous, like let's try it and see 334 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: if this works, right, and it does. Once again, I 335 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: kind of hate this, but it's true. A lot of 336 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: times we do have to pick shorter books because our 337 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: schedules so packed. But it packs a lot in in 338 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: those like three hundred pages, right, and it's told really well. 339 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: And by the way, if you listen to the audio version, 340 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 2: which I did, the author gave a lot of kudos 341 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 2: to the voice actor because she felt like she hit 342 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 2: it right on the head. At one point, I will say, 343 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 2: my partner was like, is this Cardi B? And I 344 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: was like, well, she does have that bronx New York 345 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 2: Latino accent, so I hear what you're saying, but no, 346 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 2: this is not Cardi B. 347 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: Calm down. Whoever the voice actor was, the narrator was, 348 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: she did a great gues They like Cardi B. 349 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 3: It's pretty good. 350 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: So there are a couple of key themes in this 351 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 1: but when I was going back over this outline, a 352 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: lot of them intersect, which it was true for most 353 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 1: of our book clubs. But I was just reading this 354 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, that could fit here, and 355 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: that could fit here. So just keep that in mind. 356 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 1: But one of the big ones is gentrification. It starts 357 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: out with kind of the author the narrator's thoughts on gentrification. 358 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: Here's a quote. It's a truth universally acknowledged that when 359 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: rich people move into the hood where it's a little 360 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 1: bit broken and a little bit forgotten, the first thing 361 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 1: they want to do is clean it up. But it's 362 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: not just the junkie stuff they'll get rid of. People 363 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: can be thrown away too, like last night's trash left 364 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: out on sidewalks, or push the edge of wherever all 365 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 1: broken things go. What those rich people do I don't 366 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 1: always know is that broken and forgot neighborhoods were first 367 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: built out of love. I just can't stress enough, like 368 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 1: how important this neighborhood is tossuri and how big a 369 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 1: part it is. Right of the book, right it has culture. 370 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 2: But I just wanted to put a note that first line, 371 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 2: as the truth universally acknowledge is a Jane Austin line. 372 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 1: Oh so sheep that up. Yeah. See, I love this, 373 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm learning more. I love it. And here's another quote 374 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 1: that I thought was really pretty. Anybody who's been in 375 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,359 Speaker 1: Bushwick long enough is like a musician, and when they leave, 376 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: we lose the sound. So it's kind of a lot 377 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: of the build up what makes the neighborhood the people, 378 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 1: the like Bodega's and what they sell and all of 379 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: that stuff, and so a part of that is also 380 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: the community. So they have like these big block parties 381 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 1: that all the neighbors know each other like. It's a 382 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: very communal connected area neighborhood. So when the Darcys come in, 383 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: they kind of disrupt that way in Zuri's mind, especially 384 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 1: when Darius seems to be like, I don't like this 385 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 1: bt Dubs. 386 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 2: In the book, they have a lot of balls and dances, 387 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 2: and this is in his comparison. So when they have 388 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: the cocktail party scene, that is when Bingley is a 389 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 2: rich family that comes in. So in the original version, 390 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 2: Darcy is a friend of Bingley and Bingley is the 391 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 2: one that's moving in with all the money, which is 392 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 2: the one that loves the older sister. But here we 393 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 2: have those siblings instead, so there's no Bingley, but Bingley 394 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 2: finally hosts the party. It's so over the top fancy that, 395 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: but it's that same level of like embarrassment, exact. 396 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 3: Same scene the cocktail party. 397 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was very awkward. Indeed. I'll also say 398 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: like there was a lot of stuff around food in 399 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: this that I really enjoyed a lot of descriptions of 400 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 1: making food, of sharing food. Especially the mother of the 401 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 1: Benita's family would just make a ton of food for 402 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: these parties and it was very It's like, oh that 403 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: sounds delicious. Yeah. 404 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: The Haitian plus uh Dominican mm hmm culture. She's like, 405 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 2: I blend both of Like, yes, I want that is 406 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 2: that every Saturday? 407 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 1: Pretty much? 408 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 3: Please someone give me this. 409 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 1: So here's another quote, kind of going off that first one. 410 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: My neighborhood is made of love, but it's money and 411 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 1: buildings and food and jobs that keep it alive. And 412 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: even I have to admit that the new people moving 413 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: in with their extra money and dreams can sometimes make 414 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,639 Speaker 1: things better. We'll have to figure out a way to 415 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: make both sides of Bushwick work so throughout, like I said, 416 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 1: she's doing Zuri's writing these poems and she's trying to 417 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: figure out her essay she's going to submit to get 418 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: into Howard, and a lot of it has to do 419 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,719 Speaker 1: with her thoughts on the neighborhood, on gentrifrication, and then 420 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: like on the dudes in her life also family. But 421 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,679 Speaker 1: it's like you get to see her work through her 422 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: thoughts through these like maybe I'll she yeah. At one 423 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: point she even suggests like I'll just send in a 424 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: bunch of poems to Howard, and her sister is like no, 425 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: Janey is like I don't know. But it is a 426 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 1: cool like narrative device where we get to kind of 427 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:29,640 Speaker 1: see her raw thoughts. Yeah. 428 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 2: Of course another thing is family, coming of age and 429 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 2: all the changes. Here's quote. I recognize that look. It's 430 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 2: that same look people used to give us when Mama 431 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 2: would get on a crowded train with a double stroller 432 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,640 Speaker 2: holding the twins me, Mansoul and Janet, with our messy hair, 433 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 2: running noses, and each with a bag of chips to 434 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 2: keep us occupied while Mama quieted down the babies. It's 435 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 2: the look that assumes that Mama is a single mother, 436 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 2: that she's on government assistance, that she beats us when 437 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 2: she's tired, that we all have different fathers, that we 438 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 2: live in the projects and that ghetto. Everybody used to 439 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,159 Speaker 2: look at us like that, white black, other mothers with 440 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 2: kids who thought they were being responsible by only having 441 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 2: two or three. I'd look back at them with defiance 442 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 2: and a little pride, a look that says that I 443 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 2: love my family, and we may be messy and loud, 444 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 2: but we're all together and we love each other. That's 445 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 2: when I've perfected my Bushwick mean mug. 446 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, her kind of resistance to change I think a 447 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: lot of us can relate to. Because she was scared 448 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 1: of it. She was scared like what if I don't 449 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: like Howard? What if I don't? 450 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 4: You know? 451 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 1: She because of these moments where she had been so 452 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:42,120 Speaker 1: proud and so protective and rightfully so, she had formed 453 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: this like, well, we can't mess that up, we can't 454 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,639 Speaker 1: break that up, Like what will that mean? And you know, 455 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: she does go to Howard and she loves it, but 456 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:54,160 Speaker 1: it's still kind of frightening. It's still like, well then 457 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 1: what will happen if so long I've kind of divined 458 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: myself through this, you're like protecting this. So I thought 459 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 1: that was a great through line throughout. Here's another quote. 460 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,719 Speaker 1: He lets go with me and shakes his head. I 461 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: don't know yet, but we'll find somewhere. This is what 462 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: happens in life. You take the good with the bad. 463 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: This money is good, us leaving is bad, or taking 464 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,479 Speaker 1: it because it's a blessing. So this is what her 465 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 1: father says when they have to move out and she's 466 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: so upset. Which that whole I mean that moving is terrible. 467 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: Moving is terrible in general, if you're moving from a 468 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: neighborhood that is so important to you, and that you 469 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: have these strong neighborly connections and thoughts about gentrification. And 470 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: now you've got the guy across the street, which, by 471 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: the way, that happened to me once when I was young, 472 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 1: not like this. We never worked out, but there was 473 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 1: a hot guy. 474 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,360 Speaker 3: That moved across the street. 475 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, maybe this is my whole future. 476 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 3: You had a fantasy about this, Huh? 477 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: I did? He played? He would be outside playing basketball 478 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh my god, that was nothing. 479 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 1: So did you have like it was really far. 480 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 3: I lived in the woods. 481 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 2: I still live in the woods technically, like there's suburbs 482 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 2: around me, but you can't see each other. We're not 483 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,479 Speaker 2: We're not walking on the street to go get sugar 484 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 2: from each other because it's like a two lane road 485 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 2: in the. 486 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 3: Woods with no lights. Don't go there. 487 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 1: Well, when I first moved to my place, my home 488 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 1: that I mostly grew up in, there was nothing. It 489 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: was like gravel road nothing, and I wouldn't say it gentrified, 490 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 1: but it got like much more crowded. The roads got paved, 491 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: and so this guy moving across the street was pretty 492 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 1: like late in my time having been there, it was 493 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 1: marked change. Pretty sure he was a jerk, So I'm 494 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: glad it didn't work out anyway. End the story. That's 495 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:06,439 Speaker 1: all you needed, I'm pretty sure. But then again, who knows. 496 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 1: Given a story, I could have been being judgmental where 497 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have been. 498 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 3: You would have a prejudice. 499 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: That's right. Here's another quote. I have always thought of 500 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: Bushwick as home, but in that moment, I realized that 501 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: home is where the people I love are, wherever that is. Yeah, 502 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: which I just loved. 503 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good line. And another one. 504 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 2: This college is a lifeboat and a lifeline, But my 505 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 2: neighborhood is not flooding or splitting in half. It's being 506 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 2: cleaned up and wiped out. It's being polished and a race. 507 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 2: So where do I reach back and pull out memories 508 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: as if they've been safely tucked away into a trunk 509 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 2: or an attic like the people on TV who have 510 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 2: enough time and too much space. Where do I call home? 511 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 2: Where can I place a layer of brick to use 512 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 2: as my platform and hold my head up high to 513 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 2: raise my voice and my fist. Sometimes love is not 514 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 2: enough to keep a community together. There needs to be 515 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 2: something more tangible, like fair housing, opportunities and access to resources. 516 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 2: Life Boats and lifelines are not supposed to just be 517 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 2: away for us to get out. They should be ways 518 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 2: to let us state and survive and thrive. 519 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: Well that was a great quot too, Yeah, of like 520 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 1: not using it to get out, but using it to stay. Also, 521 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 1: sisterhood is pretty important throughout this. She does have a 522 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: lot of sisters. Here's a quote. If Madrina's basement is 523 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: where the timboras, loso spiritos and old ancestral memories live, 524 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: then the roof is where wind chimes, dreams and possibilities 525 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,239 Speaker 1: float with the stars, where Jenna and I share our 526 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: secrets and plan to travel all over the world, Haiti 527 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: and the Dominican Republic being our first stop. So yeah, 528 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: her and Janee have a really close bond. And again, 529 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: I really did appreciate kind of the because I totally 530 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 1: get it too. And we've talked about this. When you 531 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: have a friend, a really close friend or a sister 532 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: who is crushing really hard on someone, you have that 533 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: fear of like, oh, okay, well our relationship is going 534 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: to change, I'm not gonna see you as much. But 535 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: her and have a lot of moments where they are 536 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: on this roof and they just are talking about life 537 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: and what they want to do, their fears. Then later 538 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: you find out the Darcy's they have kind of an 539 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: other rooftop situation where they could see what was going 540 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: on over there, which I love because at one point 541 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: there's a thrown meatball that was funny. Yeah that was 542 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: because he broke up with her. How rude. I mean, okay, 543 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 1: that was pretty bad. That was pretty bad, and their 544 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: relationship was so sweet. 545 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:47,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, how it goes again in the book as well. 546 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm loving the name comparisons too, because 547 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: I don't know Bingsley and that's pretty. 548 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's just references Darcy Bingsley is references Bingsley 549 00:30:58,560 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 2: the entire time. 550 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 3: You don't know their first name. 551 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 2: There's a Fitzgerald who is his cousin that has the 552 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 2: sergeant that comes into play. Uh yeah, and then even 553 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,239 Speaker 2: mister Bennett who is the father, is just known as 554 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 2: mister Bennett. 555 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 1: And missus Bennett. 556 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 3: So that's how we talk to about them. 557 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 2: We know about William Collins who is the cousin, and 558 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 2: then George Wickham. We do know that it's George Wickham, 559 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 2: but he goes by Wickham the entire time. So it's 560 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 2: kind of like the women we know Miss Elizabeth, uh, 561 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:36,719 Speaker 2: miss Mary, who is Marisol miss Lydia. So yeah, so 562 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 2: we have all of those characters as well. But it's 563 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 2: quite funny. 564 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 3: But yeah, there she keeps them pretty close in point 565 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 3: mm hmmm. 566 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: I'll have to pick your brain about that later. I'm 567 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 1: curious if the is it Lydia has the kind of 568 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: same like sloppy yes, night out, Yes, sort of. 569 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 2: She makes an embarrassment of herself, it is flirting, and 570 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 2: then she mos away with him, so we don't see 571 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 2: that through the comparison is that they actually just run 572 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 2: away as where uh and then you find that later 573 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 2: and they're in compromising situations. To me, they're just in 574 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 2: a hotel together. They don't find them in any real 575 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 2: Oh maybe they do. It's not the implication, but but yeah, 576 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 2: but like essentially is that. And then she comes back 577 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 2: bragging about landing a husband, essentially being the first girl 578 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 2: to land a husband, which is the big feet, and 579 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 2: then being upset a little bit that she didn't have 580 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 2: a big wedding, and everybody's like, because we had to 581 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 2: get your married in secret, or we're all going to 582 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 2: be like cast out of society, which means none of 583 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 2: us could get married. Yeah, okay, it's a little different. 584 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 2: The consequences you're much worse for Jane Austin's book. 585 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: Wow, this is I can't wait to check this out. 586 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: All right, I'm still devastating though, Oh absolutely absolutely. I'm 587 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: glad it worked out how it did in the book, right, yes. 588 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 2: Uh. 589 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: Another scene I wanted to touch on is kind of 590 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: the theme of education, Janee being the first in her 591 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: family to go to college, Zuri being so into reading 592 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: books and writing and poetry. And now I know that 593 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 1: was a theme in the original Jane Austen work, but 594 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: that was something that she shared with her father. 595 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, so like the reading, the love of reading. 596 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 2: So he and Jane Austen. Mister Bennett would say that 597 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 2: he had the young girls and they had heads among them, 598 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 2: but like that they were the silliest girls that they 599 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 2: have he had ever known, because they all battled about. 600 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 2: Pratt told ye, I said it about men and boys, 601 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 2: and that was it. And the only ones that he 602 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 2: could stand that had any good sins, as he would say, 603 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 2: was the two oldest. But Jane was too kind and 604 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: Elizabeth was at least, you know, sarcastic, and he enjoyed that. 605 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 2: But we don't see that farrotism in the book, which 606 00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 2: I do appreciate. But yeah, so here's a piece read 607 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 2: to travel. Papa always said, every book is a different hood, 608 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,400 Speaker 2: a different country, a different world. Reading is how I 609 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,879 Speaker 2: visit places in people and ideas. And when something rings true, 610 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 2: or if I still have a question, I outline it 611 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 2: with a bright yellow highlighter so that it's lit up 612 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,160 Speaker 2: in my mind like a light bulb or a torch 613 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,319 Speaker 2: leading the way to somewhere new. It's usually enough to 614 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 2: make me forget I've barely left Bushwick. 615 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I thought that was really interesting because 616 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: there was this piece where Jane and Zuri's father were 617 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, it is great here, but 618 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 1: there are other things, and Zuri kind of being resistant 619 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,280 Speaker 1: to it because again, she's really protective of this neighborhood. 620 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: She loves this neighborhood. She's afraid of how it will 621 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 1: change when she leaves. She's afraid of gentrification, rightfully so. 622 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: But her family is kind of like, well, go see, 623 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: just go see, there's other things, which again is like 624 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: that coming of age story of that. I feel like 625 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: that's really relatable. Another thing that is a big theme 626 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: in the book is class. This is definitely throughout her 627 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: interactions series interactions with the Darcy family. I particularly was 628 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 1: shocked with what happened with the grandmother when she met her, 629 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,320 Speaker 1: because it kept implying like maybe it would go fine, 630 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 1: and then it really didn't. Okay. 631 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 2: I was literally to you without the same thing with that, 632 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 2: with no perspective of pride and prejudice, because I was 633 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 2: waiting for it to get better thinking that she was, 634 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,879 Speaker 2: especially when there was mentioned of Howard maybe she wasn't 635 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 2: an alumni and was gonna. 636 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: Like really get you know, get in with. 637 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 2: Her for the Nope, nope, but it was no so 638 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 2: she she truly was the AUNTI character who was judgmental 639 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: and doesn't and kept bringing up the other girl, Carrie Yes, 640 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 2: which again that's not like I guess. Carrie represented three 641 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 2: characters and one from the original, between the sickly daughter 642 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 2: who she wanted Darcy to end up with, or the 643 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 2: sisters who are mean. Bingley's sisters who are mean to 644 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,799 Speaker 2: all of them just kind of stood like Jane a 645 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 2: little bit because Grandmother really preferred Carrie. So like I 646 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,239 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, Grandmother, that's not a good guy. I 647 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 2: really thought she was going to be better than this. 648 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,719 Speaker 1: But I was wrong. Okay, cool, cool cool because even in. 649 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,319 Speaker 2: The book, the aunt who is rooting for Darcy to 650 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 2: marry someone else for a while Elizabeth to the point 651 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 2: that she wants her to stick around, but then she 652 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,839 Speaker 2: hates Elizabeth when she finds out that Darcy was thinking 653 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 2: about marrying her. So but yeah, so I was not expecting. 654 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 2: I was expecting to turn around too, just because of 655 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 2: the book, not necessarily because of the writing. 656 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: I was kind of expecting because Georgia seemed to be 657 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: such a genuine character, which yeah, I, which I get, like, 658 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 1: now that I've read it, I'm like, okay, I don't 659 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,799 Speaker 1: I wouldn't call her naive, but I think she was 660 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:16,879 Speaker 1: just like hopeful and it didn't go that way right, 661 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: but she they because of her and Darius like less 662 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 1: or so, but they were both like, no, it'll be cool, 663 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,280 Speaker 1: it'll be cool, right, and I kind of was trusting, 664 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 1: like they wouldn't eat her astray, which maybe is just 665 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: another example of class where they just in their heads 666 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:38,960 Speaker 1: it's not as big of a deal. Yes, exactly, exactly. 667 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:44,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say Carrie's character, even though she was 668 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 2: a snob, didn't end as bad as I thought it would, 669 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,880 Speaker 2: so I was like, yeah, so bad. Yeah, she's not 670 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 2: so bad. She's jealous and I can see why she's jealous, 671 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 2: but huh. 672 00:37:55,560 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 1: I was. I was kind of confused while she was around, 673 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 1: but I did like because she goes from being like 674 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,840 Speaker 1: a very jealous not nice at all too. I wouldn't 675 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 1: say like nice, but she did watch out for Zuri's sister. 676 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,759 Speaker 2: She did kind of except for why was she then? 677 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 2: Why she letting warn alone with him? 678 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,399 Speaker 1: But her? 679 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,799 Speaker 2: But like okay, but like she wasn't trying to mess 680 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 2: anything up or purposely trying to do anything bad. 681 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: No, she was just not happy with She made it clear. 682 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 1: So here's a quote I wanted to read. So this 683 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 1: is kind of a a back and forth that happens 684 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:53,320 Speaker 1: between Zuri and Darius. You know, Zuri, sometimes I'm baffled 685 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 1: by how judgmental you are. Darius is taking one hand 686 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 1: off the steering wheel. I side eyed him, baffled. I 687 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,280 Speaker 1: should be the one who's baffled, and you, Darius Darcy, 688 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 1: are the walking definition of judgmental. I'm not judgmental. I'm 689 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: just an excellent judge of character. You fall short in 690 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 1: that department character. So you judge my sister's character, Yes, 691 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 1: I did, and she's cool. He says. If you need 692 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 1: some tips on how to accurately judge a person's character, 693 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: just let me know who back and forth. 694 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 3: Oh my, this is a similar conversation in Prejudice. 695 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good because, like halfway through, it's interesting 696 00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: when you're reading something from one person's point of view 697 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: and you're like yeah, yeah, and then halfway through I 698 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,800 Speaker 1: was like, wait a minute, she's kind of being judge 699 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:49,920 Speaker 1: you too, all right, And then I get it. Totally 700 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: makes sense. Why she is. But it's just funny because 701 00:39:53,120 --> 00:40:00,879 Speaker 1: I think it was like halfway in and I was like, wait, which, yes, 702 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,880 Speaker 1: kind of related. Another big theme is reputation in this book. 703 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 1: Here's a quote I want to say the same thing 704 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,759 Speaker 1: that I don't care about my reputation, but I do 705 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,279 Speaker 1: because they already have one, all my sisters do. We 706 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: have to be careful about who we fall for, especially 707 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 1: me and Jenay, just because guys from around the way 708 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,720 Speaker 1: like us. Even if we don't give them no play, 709 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 1: it's still easy for them to talk about us. Poppy 710 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 1: is watching us, but so is the rest of the neighborhood. 711 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,040 Speaker 1: And then later, don't let your pride get in the way. 712 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 1: I thought this was interesting because I think it did 713 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,719 Speaker 1: a really good job of examining reputation on a lot 714 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 1: of levels, like reputation in your neighborhood, like representing your 715 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: neighborhood and what you think that is, and then reputation 716 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: and like your family. There's just a lot of layers 717 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 1: of reputation that was looked at. I thought that was 718 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: really good. And then finally, this is kind of we've 719 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:56,479 Speaker 1: been talking about all this stuff all along, but love 720 00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:00,520 Speaker 1: and money, Love and money again, I did think the 721 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,840 Speaker 1: like hot neighbor moving in that was really funny in 722 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,000 Speaker 1: the beginning, where all of the girls were like, let's 723 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: go meet them. Here is a quote, and there are 724 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 1: two ways to examine the institution of marriage. Marisol begins 725 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 1: in the whole room size because she's about to spill 726 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 1: out a series of facts, numbers, and statistics that all 727 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 1: have to do with the things she loves most in 728 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 1: the world. Money. It can either mean that marriage is 729 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,320 Speaker 1: the false notion that love is forever and a woman 730 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 1: is left to depend on her husband for financial support, 731 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,920 Speaker 1: or that two incomes are better than one loves. Abstract 732 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 1: money is not. And I thought like, even when I 733 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:40,920 Speaker 1: was reading this, I was like, this is such an 734 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 1: interesting take on what I bet happened in Jane Alston version. 735 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 2: So in Jane Austen it is about religion. Oh, and 736 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 2: she is very scholarly and does not care for frivolous 737 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 2: things Mary because she is also all about quotes and books, 738 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 2: and but she does a lot of biblical And when 739 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 2: I say biblical, I'm gonna go like very Protestant, very 740 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 2: uh learned book, you know, biblical level of that. So 741 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,759 Speaker 2: she's very into religion. In that term. She actually has 742 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 2: a crush on Colin, the cousin, and she was the 743 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 2: only one of all of them who wanted to get married. 744 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:22,200 Speaker 3: But she's was seen as dowdy. I guess it's somewhat boring. 745 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 1: I feel like there was a character like that in Persuasions, 746 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: wasn't there? Yes? 747 00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:31,720 Speaker 2: But she also like plays the piano in uh Brian 748 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 2: prejud and she doesn't play it well, but she thinks 749 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 2: she's amazing at it, and so she'll try to perform 750 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 2: and everybody's. 751 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,800 Speaker 1: Like, you're really wishing she would stop. 752 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 2: Essentially, so she's a scholarly one, I guess, like but 753 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 2: just really boring, but always speaks up to tell facts 754 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 2: or like to correct a situation or something. 755 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 3: She's kind of the sad sack of the bunch. 756 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 1: Ah, I see, I see. I just thought it was 757 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 1: interesting kind of this like the breaking down of the 758 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:01,920 Speaker 1: love and the money. 759 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,319 Speaker 2: Like she's not wrong, but she kind of does that 760 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 2: in every way, Like when she's talking about the fact 761 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,440 Speaker 2: that Lydia is ruined and then she brings into back 762 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 2: how we're all ruined and she's done this and of 763 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,240 Speaker 2: course we're gonna be like they're like, can you stop. 764 00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: Hold on, now, we get we get it. We're screwed. 765 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 3: Stop this. 766 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: Oh how interesting. Yes, there's also a lot of themes 767 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: of jealousy throughout, which I thought I really appreciated it 768 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 1: in terms of, you know, in our modern times with 769 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 1: like the texting and he hasn't texted back, or we're like, wait, 770 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 1: what what does this mean? And kind of like making 771 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 1: Darius jealous with Warren like that kind of being in 772 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:48,520 Speaker 1: the back of Surrey's mind anyway, So that was definitely 773 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:54,319 Speaker 1: present in their messy courtship, I guess I'll call it, 774 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,359 Speaker 1: but definitely throughout. Also, yeah, the pressure to find a 775 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 1: man her family, I would say, like they wouldn't they 776 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 1: would They kind of would be like, get a move on. 777 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 1: But it was more that they were like, she wouldn't 778 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:14,480 Speaker 1: bring Warren to her like stoop, Yeah, because she didn't 779 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:20,160 Speaker 1: want her whole family to know. It'll be real nosy. Yes, 780 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 1: And then when she was coming back with Darius in 781 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: the car from Washington. 782 00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:23,840 Speaker 4: D C. 783 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,320 Speaker 1: She had to tell them and they were very nosy 784 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,720 Speaker 1: and all the question right. Yeah. 785 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,280 Speaker 2: So in the book, obviously the mother is all about 786 00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,399 Speaker 2: getting all the children off married and getting she's she's 787 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:41,319 Speaker 2: also ridiculous of a character, very very made to be 788 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,919 Speaker 2: that way. But the way that the mother in this one, 789 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,200 Speaker 2: obviously she's much loved, more loving, and like a little 790 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 2: more fierce and independent, and not so much about that, 791 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 2: but the whole like little smiling and trying to get 792 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 2: them together or trying to get them alone and allow 793 00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,760 Speaker 2: them to be alone was definitely like a ploy. Also 794 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,400 Speaker 2: the book, so like, she does a great job in 795 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 2: representing I think she did a great job in representing 796 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 2: these characters but not making them look caricaturish, Unlike, like, 797 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 2: even though Prime Prejudice was an old, like ridiculously big classic, 798 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 2: it still made the characters look caricaturish in a way 799 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,840 Speaker 2: that you were like, yeah, the mom's if there was 800 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 2: a villain, mom would not be a villain, but she's 801 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 2: the foil. 802 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: You're right, that makes sense. 803 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 2: But I'm glad that that wasn't the case for this 804 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,000 Speaker 2: one because it's so over the top of you just. 805 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 1: Like, how much do you dislike your mother? Yeah? Well yeah, 806 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:43,280 Speaker 1: And I feel like most of the characters were very likable, 807 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,319 Speaker 1: like yeah, and the ones you weren't supposed to like, 808 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 1: I didn't really hate. I just was right, So I 809 00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 1: liked that, and I did. We didn't really go into 810 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 1: it much, but I did like at the kind of 811 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: the clash of cultures at the cocktail party when the 812 00:45:56,000 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: mother shows up with all of those foods. Yeah, the 813 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 1: darcies are clearly like catering essentially. 814 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 4: If it was a. 815 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:13,000 Speaker 1: Really it was a really enjoyable read. I think, you know, 816 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,480 Speaker 1: even for me who hasn't read it, I enjoyed it. 817 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 1: I've loved hearing the comparisons. I can't wait to read 818 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,759 Speaker 1: the original. Yeah, I'm gonna make you read the Regiournal soon. 819 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,279 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's a great stand alone You don't need 820 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:29,480 Speaker 1: it is though it is kind of a homage to 821 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 1: the Pride and Prejudice, and it is a retailing it's 822 00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 1: it is a great standalone book. 823 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 2: It has a lot of great quotes. The poetry is 824 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 2: quite lovely as well. I really did enjoy all of that. 825 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 2: I was like, this is good. Sometimes I wonder when 826 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 2: people write things like this, I'm like, did you do 827 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:45,840 Speaker 2: the poetry first, And you're like, I'm gonna do a 828 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 2: book with this because I've thought about that. I'm like, 829 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,240 Speaker 2: you know, sometimes because they are great stand alone poems 830 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 2: as is as well, so yes, book ten out of 831 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,319 Speaker 2: ten everybody should read. 832 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 1: I love that. I thought it was great, highly recommends, 833 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:10,240 Speaker 1: and I'm looking forward to maybe an. 834 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a whole thing. You're gonna have to 835 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,360 Speaker 2: watch the new book. I don't want to, but the 836 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,879 Speaker 2: new one, and I'm gonna make you watch the BBC series. 837 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 3: For doing it. 838 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: I am into it. You don't have. 839 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:20,840 Speaker 2: To again, like come back to Bridget Jones Diary as well, 840 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 2: because that is also a rendition of that. 841 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:26,879 Speaker 3: Oh no, did you not know that? 842 00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 1: You didn't know that girl? 843 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,799 Speaker 3: Okay, yes, that's why Darcy is in there. 844 00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 1: And his name is. 845 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:39,840 Speaker 2: Publishing, which is Wickham. 846 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: Oh dear, I have a lot to learn. Oh no. 847 00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:47,319 Speaker 2: The guy who plays Bingsley is a very like has 848 00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,000 Speaker 2: a minor character, like he has one line and he's 849 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:50,279 Speaker 2: in there. 850 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 1: I was like, Baisley, what are you doing here? 851 00:47:54,560 --> 00:48:02,560 Speaker 4: I probably was just like, yeah, I'd had to have 852 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 4: given you all the like tidbits to that because there's 853 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:06,360 Speaker 4: no way I want to let you go. 854 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:10,440 Speaker 1: I feel like you definitely told me about calling first, 855 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: and yeah, there's no way I would to let you go. 856 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 2: On would like throw out be like this is this, 857 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,880 Speaker 2: this is this, this is this, and it also starts 858 00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 2: with the line is the truth universally acknowledged? 859 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 1: It starts with that line as well. Hmmm, well, now 860 00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,240 Speaker 1: I know you know you're opening my world. 861 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 3: We can try this. 862 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: I'm coming back, We're coming back the classics. Excited too, 863 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: I think it'd be great. Well, this was super fun. 864 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 1: This was a great pick. Definitely checking out listeners and 865 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 1: I would love I really do want to check out 866 00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,919 Speaker 1: some of this author's other works. I think that they 867 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 1: sound fascinating. We have to, yeah, But in the meantime, 868 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 1: if you have any thoughts about this or any suggestions, 869 00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,320 Speaker 1: you can email Ustephania mom Stuff at iHeartMedia dot com. 870 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 1: You can find us on Twitter at Mom's teff podcast, 871 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,839 Speaker 1: or on Instagram and TikTok at stuff I've Never told You. 872 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,360 Speaker 1: We have Teapublic store, and we have a book wherever 873 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 1: you get your books. Thanks as always to our super 874 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: juicy Christina are Excited producer Maya and our contruder Joey. 875 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,120 Speaker 1: Thank you and thanks to you for listening. Steffan Never 876 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,719 Speaker 1: Told You his production of by Heart Radio. 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