WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Theres Something In The House!

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jewels a second d What do you do when

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<v Speaker 1>you've exhausted all options in the dating world, when plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of fish is thrown you back, and you've swiped so

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<v Speaker 1>many times you reached the end of Tinder and then

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<v Speaker 1>your phone explodes. That's what happens when you get to

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<v Speaker 1>the end of Tinder. Well, you have to call in

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<v Speaker 1>the big guns and hire a matchmaker. And that's apparently

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<v Speaker 1>what the guy on the phone for a second Date

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<v Speaker 1>update did today. He found the girl that he went

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<v Speaker 1>out with by using a matchmaker because nothing else on

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<v Speaker 1>the planet worked for him. Ethan, was that a good

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<v Speaker 1>recap of why you hired a matchmaker? I guess so.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of makes me sound pathetic. Oh that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what I was going for. I was trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>it sound like you were just using a creative method

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people don't use. That's I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make it sound pathetic at all. Well, now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just sad it makes the girl who decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you even more pathetic than you. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>well that's that's a positive. Yeah, yeah, that's something only

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<v Speaker 1>the really pathetic one to go out with me. Your

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<v Speaker 1>email said that you use the matchmaker. I'm just making

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<v Speaker 1>fun of it because I don't normally see that. Usually

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<v Speaker 1>it's like online or you meet somebody in person. But

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<v Speaker 1>why hire a matchmaker? You know? You mentioned tender and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, And I feel like, even when people

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<v Speaker 1>say they're kind of looking for relationships on those kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sites, they're really not right. And I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>over just going on dates. I want to find something serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I got all that out of my system, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to settle down. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot about matchmakers. Does that mean that the

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<v Speaker 1>girl is also paying this woman to match make her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the whole point. Yeah. They find someone who's also

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<v Speaker 1>using their service, who matches you to the best of

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<v Speaker 1>their ability, and then they get you in touch with

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<v Speaker 1>each other. How do they figure out who to match

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<v Speaker 1>you up with? You have to spill out a profile,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a lot like the dating sites online. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just that this person is more professional and they're more serious,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're good at sort of figuring out really successfully

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<v Speaker 1>who your best match is. Oh, you sound like a pitchman,

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<v Speaker 1>because obviously it wasn't too successful. She's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it worked for me. I thought I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. I thought it was awesome. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>apparently the woman you went out with didn't think it

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<v Speaker 1>was as great. What's her name? Her name's Alyssa. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do on your date when he went

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<v Speaker 1>out for lunch? Oh that's very low key. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>way this matchmaker runs it. They want to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>the first day is really easy and low key. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And what was it like when I first mat her?

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<v Speaker 1>She was so pretty? I was nervous, cute, But when

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<v Speaker 1>the matchmaker suggested this thing to kind of break the ice.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a game called first photo, First photo? And what

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<v Speaker 1>is that like you show a photo when you're a

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<v Speaker 1>kid or something. No, it's like you each just pull

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<v Speaker 1>up the first photo on your phone and show it

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<v Speaker 1>to the other person. Okay, well, I'm glad that they

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that beforehand. Prepare that could be really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I had to delete a couple before the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm that kid. So what was your first photo? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Mine was just my nephew who i'd just seen him

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<v Speaker 1>and he's a good kid. And hers was her and

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<v Speaker 1>her mom. Okay, first off, I was like Oh great,

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<v Speaker 1>she loved family too. Secondly, her mom was really hot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you end up marrying the mom. If that's what

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna age into, we're gonna be okay. And did

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<v Speaker 1>you tell her that? Did you tell her how hot

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<v Speaker 1>her mom was? Over and over? Oh no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no. So what were the awkward moments on the date? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. So we're eating. Everything's going really well,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I noticed there's like a hair on her face,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, hey, I don't want it to fall

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<v Speaker 1>into a food and be this might be a good

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<v Speaker 1>excuse to touch her, you know, weird, So like rub

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<v Speaker 1>her cheek. Yeah, like, hey, you got some on your cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't wanted to fall in your food here, and

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<v Speaker 1>I go to wipe it off. Are you hoping you

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<v Speaker 1>like go to grab the hair and then you touch

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<v Speaker 1>her cheek and time stops and then you guys make out?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you hope for it? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't gonna say that was going to happen, but if

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<v Speaker 1>it did, yeah, that would be fine. Okay, So the

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<v Speaker 1>romantic care on her face, what happened? Well, it was

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't just on her face. It was in her face.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the real hair. It was the hair coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of her face. Oh man, you plugged her hair

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<v Speaker 1>on her face right out. How big was his hair?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it was big enough for me to

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<v Speaker 1>see it across the table. Where was the hair? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it like chin area or mustache? Aerike on the side

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<v Speaker 1>of her chin? D Oh? Wow? Was she embarrassed? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think we were both a little dary. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say anything. She just kind of stared at me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of wiped my hand on the neapkin,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was just like so anyway, he just plugged through. Huh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I didn't know what else to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you were able to recover. Yes. We went

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere else for dessert. The rest of the day went

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<v Speaker 1>really well, and I hugged her goodbye, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice hug. It was one of those you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of lingered for a few seconds. Okay, And was

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<v Speaker 1>it you lingering or her? I think it was both

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<v Speaker 1>of us. You didn't feel her like pushing you away

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<v Speaker 1>and you're still holding on. Yeah, I know, nothing like

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<v Speaker 1>to test And how long has it vin since you

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<v Speaker 1>heard from her? Took two or five days, four or

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<v Speaker 1>five days, and have you tried to get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of her. I've called, I've texted, and I have not

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything. I have not brought up the hair good

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<v Speaker 1>good idea. I thought, yeah, I thought things were going great.

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<v Speaker 1>She seemed to really have a good time, So I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly don't know why she wouldn't respond to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. All right, I really appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Yeah, no problem, hang on brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second, if you're just tuning in for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, Ethan is on the phone and he's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back from a girl named Alyssa.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm actually really surprised about it because he took

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<v Speaker 1>her out on a beautiful spa day for their first date.

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<v Speaker 1>It went out to lunch and then he plucked her

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<v Speaker 1>hair from her face. You know a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan paid good money for that. You should have maybe

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<v Speaker 1>even grabbed some cucumbers at the restaurant and threw him

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<v Speaker 1>on her eyes and just act like hey, spondee, out

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<v Speaker 1>of the blue, Well, like we can get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of her. Maybe I'll tell her that, right, Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed the first part, Ethan thinks he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>to call back because while they were eating lunch, he

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<v Speaker 1>reached over to remove what he thought was a stray

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<v Speaker 1>hair from her chin, and the hair was attached and

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up plucking a hair from her face and

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<v Speaker 1>it was awkward for a while. But he does say

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<v Speaker 1>the date ended with a nice hug. And it's been

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<v Speaker 1>about four or five days since she hasn't been responding

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<v Speaker 1>to him, So we're gonna call and find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>In just a second, in retrospect, Ethan, do you wish

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<v Speaker 1>you would have apologized or made a statement about the

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<v Speaker 1>hair like he'll maybe, you know, maybe that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>did wrong. Maybe I'm in like not bringing it up

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to be polite actually made it worse. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Yeah, maybe she's just embarrassed, or maybe she's

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<v Speaker 1>just mad that you took her hair and never gave

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<v Speaker 1>it back. Yeah, big jerk. All right, Well, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dollar phone number right now and if we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why she's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>all right man, here we go. Hello, Hi, speak to Alissa,

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<v Speaker 1>please doci. Hey, what's up, Alissa? How are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm good,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Who is this Jewbil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning the radio show. You're from a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why you're calling me. Yes, I am

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<v Speaker 1>from a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, and I'm calling you today because we got

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<v Speaker 1>an email from one of our listeners about you. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>can you think of any reason somebody would email our

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<v Speaker 1>show to get a hold of you. Did they nominate

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<v Speaker 1>me for like a makeover? As over? That sweet? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that was the case for you. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>really do stuff like that, so no, no makeover. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand wh would someone email you about me? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you guys went out on a date and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling him back? What ye sighting right? His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Ethan? Oh my god? Do you remember going

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with Ethan? Yeah? That that I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I totally remember that. Okay, Well, Ethan emailed us because

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<v Speaker 1>he said he really enjoyed going out with you. But

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<v Speaker 1>ever since your date, he's been trying to call you,

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<v Speaker 1>and now you're not responding to anything. So he was

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why I just I don't want to say him.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? Is it because he plucked a hair out

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<v Speaker 1>of your chin? We just went straight for it, did we?

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<v Speaker 1>He told you that, Yeah, he did. He said, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason he thinks you're not calling him back is

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<v Speaker 1>because he plucked one of your hairs on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, so embarrassing. I don't don't be embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>We all get a straight hair from now and again.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so. But why would he tell a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station there's an email you about it? Well for him,

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed us because he wants to get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of you. And we asked him why he thinks you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to see him again, and that was the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing he could come up with, because he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a really good time other than that. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have a good time other than that. We did.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's just one thing that's putting me out. And

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that he was collecting your hairs one by one. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, did he tell you he was collecting my hair? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I was joking, joke, because of the one hair that

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<v Speaker 1>he pulled up. Oh my god, my heart skipped be No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't tell us that he was collecting all of

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<v Speaker 1>your hairs. He just thinks that's the one reason you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to see him. I mean, it was completely embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's not what it was at all. No, So

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<v Speaker 1>there's more to it than that. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if I should talk about it. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>put his business out there. Well, he wants his business

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<v Speaker 1>put out there, like he actually asked us to do

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<v Speaker 1>this so that his business could be out in the streets.

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<v Speaker 1>So he said he's willing to hear whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>So if it's on him, then do you mind just

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<v Speaker 1>telling us? Well, okay, so what did he tell you

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<v Speaker 1>about the d Well? He told us that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>met through a matchmaker, went to lunch, and you play

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<v Speaker 1>a game where you show each other like the last

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<v Speaker 1>photo you took on your phone to try to break

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<v Speaker 1>the ice. Okay, yes, the first photo yeah, and and

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<v Speaker 1>and we did that, and he showed me a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of his nephew. Okay, and is that a problem? Is

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<v Speaker 1>this was his nephew kind of ugly? No, No one's

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<v Speaker 1>never he was cute though. Deal breaker for me. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>I makes my jeans with that line. Nobody kept going

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<v Speaker 1>on for the next thirty minute. He just kept talking

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<v Speaker 1>about having babies and kids like he wants he wants

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<v Speaker 1>kids like now, Yes, he's completely obsessed with having a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I got from it, really, Like, what did

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<v Speaker 1>he talk about? Well, he said it was a dream

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<v Speaker 1>of his. Anytime he's out and he sees something that

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<v Speaker 1>he likes, his baby clothes, he buys it. Yet, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he has a stash need help with baby clothes? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding? He's a single, single bachelor that has a

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<v Speaker 1>baby clothes stash, That's what he said. He even knows

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<v Speaker 1>the room that he's going to convert to the baby room.

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<v Speaker 1>He's already like nesting like a pregnant woman, like getting

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<v Speaker 1>everything ready at the house. Yes he is. He told

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<v Speaker 1>me he can't wait to hear baby footsteps coming down

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<v Speaker 1>the hallway, like so baby that was like a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit too much to share. But I don't know, is it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it refreshing to you to find a guy who's

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<v Speaker 1>interested obviously in family life or is that something you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want? Yes, refreshing to know that a guy wants

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<v Speaker 1>to have a family some day I do too, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's creepy day. It's collecting baby clothes. He doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. I know, I'd be aware for a single

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<v Speaker 1>girl even to that. True, Like if you went over

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<v Speaker 1>to his house after your day and you open up

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<v Speaker 1>the closet, you just see a bunch of baby clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not sexy. What was your response to him? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean my response was just to sit there and so

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<v Speaker 1>listen to him. I mean he talks still talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how you can't wait to hear his baby, say dad,

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<v Speaker 1>at hang on, that's not fair. Who's it? Oh that's Ethan.

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan's actually on the other line listening and also talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Hey, Lesa. Apparently he couldn't wait any longer

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<v Speaker 1>and had to pipe in. No man has been wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with one. They have a baby. You've been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this the whole time? Yeah, because you wouldn't return my

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<v Speaker 1>calls or my text or anything. So you call radio stations.

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<v Speaker 1>They haven't called me and list Well. I really liked you,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently you thought I was weird. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was really weird talking about a baby that you don't have.

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<v Speaker 1>But thirty minutes? What was that supposed to say to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, is it that weird that you would think

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<v Speaker 1>about the baby you might have someday for thirty thirty minutes?

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<v Speaker 1>That long to talk about baby? It was I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date. Even if I if I were

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<v Speaker 1>out with a woman and she was like talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the baby that she wanted so badly, that would scare me.

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<v Speaker 1>It wouldn't I mean, obviously wouldn't scare you, Ethan, but

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<v Speaker 1>it would scare a lot of dude. Yeah, But like

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<v Speaker 1>the matchmaker already found somebody that I knew was like

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<v Speaker 1>really serious and wanting a commitment to, so I just

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<v Speaker 1>figured it wouldn't scare that person off. Well that's me, Ethan.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think everyone agrees that it's sweet that

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<v Speaker 1>you're excited about fatherhood. I just but the collection of

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<v Speaker 1>the baby baby clothes? Do you bring that up often

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date? I mean, first off, to call

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<v Speaker 1>it a collection is kind of going a little overboard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a collection. It's not like I have a

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<v Speaker 1>room full of the stuff. Okay, so how many items?

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<v Speaker 1>If we're talking about just anything happened to do with babies?

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<v Speaker 1>I've got like fifteen things, but like they're not all

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<v Speaker 1>like seven of them are onesies. I'm thinking it's like

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<v Speaker 1>everybody thinks this is a big Joe kaha ho. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really funny, But I'm actually prepared for a fatherhood. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's great. I just think it's great when

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<v Speaker 1>you find out, maybe like two months into a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>that you're that into it. Ethan. You even told me

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<v Speaker 1>on a date that you already picked up the names

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<v Speaker 1>for your kids already. How long have you been planning this, Ethan?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you guys think this is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been dreaming about having kids since I was a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>What are the What are the names of your kids

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't have yet? If I can ask? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is that a secret? Well? I mean I want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a boy and a girl, obviously, obviously, Yeah, and

0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.559
<v Speaker 1>you get to choose, obviously. He said for a boy

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<v Speaker 1>would be Ken, and you would name this girl Sanctuary,

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<v Speaker 1>Sanctuary and Ken. Yeah. The Ken kind of throws me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is when you come up with Sanctuary. Where does

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<v Speaker 1>you know? You guys get saying whatever you want to say.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm probably the only guy in this room on

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<v Speaker 1>this phone. That's actually preparing for a childhood. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed about that. I'm not ashamed about that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that people should should reject me because of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I actually agree with what you're saying. I

0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:46.920
<v Speaker 1>do eat in it. I mean, he knows what he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>He maybe gave you way too much information on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date, and that's his bad for oversharing. But I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't play on having a girl named Sanctuary. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>one you need to negotiate for sure. Well we could talk. Well, Alyssa,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Ethan on another date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. I don't know about all

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<v Speaker 1>this done the thing? Where do you all it's crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>It's creepy. No, not at all, like every dude that

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<v Speaker 1>I've known when we were kids, Like we would just

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<v Speaker 1>sit around the playground and talk about the kids we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to have one day and do they collect clothing? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, it's a totally normal dude thing. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little overwhelming, but I don't think that it's creepy. I mean, Alyssa,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're not giving me a chance. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we should go out again because I have

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<v Speaker 1>proven to you that I'm an honest, straightforward guy and

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<v Speaker 1>that I have a long term plan. And his clock

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<v Speaker 1>is ticking, Alyssa, he doesn't have as much time. I guess, well,

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<v Speaker 1>one more date wouldn't hurt. Oh, so you'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll go out with Ethan one more time. I said, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't ask me again before chase on mind. Congratulations Ethan, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you so much. I'm so excited, and

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<v Speaker 1>thank you Alyssa for giving me another chance. And we

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<v Speaker 1>can talk about thank you, worried. Well, we'll discuss names later.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding. I'm not going to talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>kids again. Well, good luck you guys. Keep us updated. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys, and Alyssa. Yes, if he says he's

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<v Speaker 1>on the pill, don't believe him in the morning. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta say, I'm really surprised at the responses on the

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<v Speaker 1>text message board at seven eighty five to nine two

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<v Speaker 1>about today's second date update. Here's a text, I love

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan and it's not weird at all that he's collecting

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<v Speaker 1>baby stuff. I don't think that's true. And then there's

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<v Speaker 1>another one that said that guy's a freak. He probably

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<v Speaker 1>wears a diaper if you miss a day's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan wanted to call Alyssa. She wasn't calling back after

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<v Speaker 1>their date. We got her on the phone and found

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<v Speaker 1>out why. It's because he revealed to her that he

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<v Speaker 1>collects baby clothes and has like a whole room already

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<v Speaker 1>set up for when he has a baby. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a baby, he just wants to be a dad

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<v Speaker 1>really really bad, and he's already started planning everything, including

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<v Speaker 1>baby names and so on. And she was like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a little strange, and she didn't want to call him back.

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<v Speaker 1>But a lot of people texting in at seven eight

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<v Speaker 1>five to nine two say, it's not weird at all. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, being excited about parenthood awesome. Revealing on

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<v Speaker 1>the first date that you have all of these things

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<v Speaker 1>already planned out totally strange. Yeah, that'd be like, as

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<v Speaker 1>a woman, you have some weird bridal like collection that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been hoarding and you bring it with you on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. We actually got a text from someone

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five and nine two said I am

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<v Speaker 1>a woman and I have baby clothes and all that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, but I wouldn't bring it up on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. So that's I guess that's the weird part. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second dight up date,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back