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Speaker 1: Looking jewels a second d What do you do when

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Speaker 1: many times you reached the end of Tinder and then

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Speaker 1: the end of Tinder. Well, you have to call in

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Speaker 1: the big guns and hire a matchmaker. And that's apparently

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Speaker 1: what the guy on the phone for a second Date

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Speaker 1: update did today. He found the girl that he went

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Speaker 1: out with by using a matchmaker because nothing else on

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Speaker 1: the planet worked for him. Ethan, was that a good

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Speaker 1: recap of why you hired a matchmaker? I guess so.

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Speaker 1: It kind of makes me sound pathetic. Oh that's not

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Speaker 1: what I was going for. I was trying to make

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Speaker 1: that a lot of people don't use. That's I wasn't

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Speaker 1: trying to make it sound pathetic at all. Well, now

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Speaker 1: I'm just sad it makes the girl who decided to

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Speaker 1: well that's that's a positive. Yeah, yeah, that's something only

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Speaker 1: the really pathetic one to go out with me. Your

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Speaker 1: fun of it because I don't normally see that. Usually

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Speaker 1: why hire a matchmaker? You know? You mentioned tender and

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Speaker 1: stuff like that, And I feel like, even when people

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Speaker 1: that's the whole point. Yeah. They find someone who's also

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Speaker 1: each other. How do they figure out who to match

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Speaker 1: and it's a lot like the dating sites online. It's

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Speaker 1: because obviously it wasn't too successful. She's not calling you back.

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Speaker 1: I mean it worked for me. I thought I thought

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Speaker 1: And what was it like when I first mat her?

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Speaker 1: She was so pretty? I was nervous, cute, But when

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Speaker 1: It's a game called first photo, First photo? And what

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Speaker 1: I'm that kid. So what was your first photo? Then?

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Speaker 1: Mine was just my nephew who i'd just seen him

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Speaker 1: And I'm actually really surprised about it because he took

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Speaker 1: It went out to lunch and then he plucked her

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Speaker 1: Ethan paid good money for that. You should have maybe

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Speaker 1: the date ended with a nice hug. And it's been

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Speaker 1: about four or five days since she hasn't been responding

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Speaker 1: In just a second, in retrospect, Ethan, do you wish

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Speaker 1: just mad that you took her hair and never gave

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Speaker 1: it back. Yeah, big jerk. All right, Well, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: all right man, here we go. Hello, Hi, speak to Alissa,

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Speaker 1: please doci. Hey, what's up, Alissa? How are you? This

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm good,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Who is this Jewbil from Brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning the radio show. You're from a radio show.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why you're calling me. Yes, I am

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Speaker 1: from a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning, and I'm calling you today because we got

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Speaker 1: an email from one of our listeners about you. What. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: can you think of any reason somebody would email our

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Speaker 1: show to get a hold of you. Did they nominate

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Speaker 1: me for like a makeover? As over? That sweet? No?

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Speaker 1: I wish that was the case for you. We don't

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Speaker 1: really do stuff like that, so no, no makeover. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand wh would someone email you about me? Then?

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Speaker 1: Because you guys went out on a date and now

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Speaker 1: you're not calling him back? What ye sighting right? His

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Speaker 1: I totally remember that. Okay, Well, Ethan emailed us because

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Speaker 1: wondering why I just I don't want to say him.

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Speaker 1: Is it? Is it because he plucked a hair out

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Speaker 1: of your chin? We just went straight for it, did we?

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Speaker 1: He told you that, Yeah, he did. He said, that's

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Speaker 1: because he plucked one of your hairs on the date.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, so embarrassing. I don't don't be embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: We all get a straight hair from now and again.

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Speaker 1: station there's an email you about it? Well for him,

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Speaker 1: only thing he could come up with, because he said,

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Speaker 1: you guys had a really good time other than that. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you didn't have a good time other than that. We did.

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Speaker 1: But there's just one thing that's putting me out. And

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Speaker 1: it wasn't that he was collecting your hairs one by one. Wait,

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Speaker 1: hold on, did he tell you he was collecting my hair? No?

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Speaker 1: I was joking, joke, because of the one hair that

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Speaker 1: he pulled up. Oh my god, my heart skipped be No,

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Speaker 1: but that's not what it was at all. No, So

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Speaker 1: there's more to it than that. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: if I should talk about it. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: put his business out there. Well, he wants his business

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Speaker 1: put out there, like he actually asked us to do

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Speaker 1: this so that his business could be out in the streets.

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Speaker 1: So he said he's willing to hear whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: So if it's on him, then do you mind just

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Speaker 1: about the d Well? He told us that you guys

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Speaker 1: met through a matchmaker, went to lunch, and you play

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Speaker 1: a game where you show each other like the last

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