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Speaker 1: Oh my god? What Calm Down?

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Speaker 2: With Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: Oh a little pregame action for those of you new.

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Speaker 1: Welcome you guys ask questions and we answer them to

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Speaker 1: the best of our ability. We also love an anonymous question.

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Speaker 1: We have three anonymous in this. Afore anonymous in this.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is exciting. First up, C M. Craiger.

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Speaker 1: I'm sixty and people ask why I never remarried all

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Speaker 1: the time. Is it wrong that I like being alone? No,

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Speaker 1: it is not wrong at all. Girlfriend. It's somebody who

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Speaker 1: get asked, gets asked all the time when I'm going

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Speaker 1: to marry Steve. I have been very vocal, especially on

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Speaker 1: this podcast, about my my desire not to marry again,

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Speaker 1: not because I don't love Steve, not because I so

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Speaker 1: what was that? It's all the episodes that's somewhere there's

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Speaker 2: If I hadn't met Steve, it was actually gonna be

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Speaker 2: a problem because I like being I would.

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Speaker 1: Be with you, I would I like being alone so much,

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Speaker 1: like I can get so much done. I have a

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Speaker 1: knowing what works for your life. Now, I will say this,

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Speaker 1: being alone, then more power to you. Get some animals.

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Speaker 1: Those are good companions. I don't think that you should

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Speaker 1: so somebody new something that's wrong. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: so then that creates a whole other situation.

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Speaker 2: Just come and check on me. Okay, Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: What this is what happens when you watch too much

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Speaker 1: You stop it? No, it's not you have mac. Mac

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Speaker 1: I'm going to dialogue. Doesn't know my name. Stop it.

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Speaker 1: He's not going to check on me. He thinks his

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Speaker 1: nanny's his mom. You're crazy?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Anonymous, a coworker you're friends with loses their shiit

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Speaker 2: on you. Now they are giving you the cold shoulder?

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Speaker 1: What should I do? Talk to God? What happened? It

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Speaker 1: seems like someone I know, uh, give them the cold shoulder?

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Speaker 1: What should you do? Well? I need more information. The

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Speaker 1: this week by the way, Oh good luck, And now

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Speaker 1: Because if there's merit to the tantrum. Then you guys

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Speaker 1: my new motto, I go right to it. I go

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Speaker 2: Oh Gina, Hey girl, how do you shut out the

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Speaker 2: noise people say, the RUDEUS crap?

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Speaker 1: How do you rise above?

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Speaker 1: Gina? Step into our office. I stopped looking at comments

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Speaker 1: My nose is too big, I have a terrible voice.

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Speaker 1: Make up another, get get another, divorce? Uh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm bored. I always look at their avatar on Twitter

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Speaker 1: or Man, you're a whole and you're like, oh really,

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Speaker 1: get them Jim from Iowa. We're so on FaZe you

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Speaker 1: Say nothing. When the person ghosts you, it will kill

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Speaker 2: Gotta make game day fun at home for significant other,

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Speaker 2: You could also do like kind of like themes with Drass, say,

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