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Speaker 1: What's up you guys. It is Kelly. If you are

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Speaker 1: just love to introduce you, guys to, or maybe just

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Speaker 1: out in the world, because we're all wired so differently

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Speaker 1: and we have different needs and this way you get

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Speaker 1: to decide which one speaks to you when you're on

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Speaker 1: your own seeking journey or wanting to understand why you

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Speaker 1: are here or figure out a next step direction in

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Speaker 1: your life today. The modality is human design. In short,

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Speaker 1: human design is a holistic self knowledge system. Simple, right,

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Speaker 1: But to break it down, let me just tell you guys.

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Speaker 1: Human design is a combination of astrology, physics, Meyer's Briggs,

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Speaker 1: the chakra system and even more to help you on

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Speaker 1: So it uses all those different formats combined into one.

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Speaker 1: Human design then generates an energetic blueprint that shows how

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Speaker 1: know it can sound kind of overwhelming because this one

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Speaker 1: design expert Emma Dunwoody explains human design in a simple

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Speaker 1: way that makes it so much easier to digest. This

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Speaker 1: are listening to this and any questions come to mind

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Speaker 1: while you're listening, simply just DM me at Velvet's Edge

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Speaker 1: or leave me a voicemail on the link in the

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Speaker 1: that when Emma is back. Here's our conversation.

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Speaker 2: Conversations on life, style, beauty and relationships. It's the Velvet's

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Speaker 2: Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson, Master coach.

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Speaker 1: And human behavior specialist. Emma Dunwoody is here. Hi.

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Speaker 3: Emma, Hey, nice to be here. I'm excited to talk

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Speaker 3: to you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here. We're actually here

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Speaker 1: to talk about human desig and I was telling you

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Speaker 1: I basically talk about every other avenue for people to

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Cool, let's do it. Let's pull the band aid off.

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Speaker 1: Let's rip the band aid. Okay, Well, first of all,

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Speaker 1: why don't you tell the listeners. I know you've had

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Speaker 3: to take time and feel things out over the twenty

429
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Speaker 3: eight day moon cycle. It doesn't always have to be

430
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 3: twenty eight days. It's just a way that you can

431
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 3: give yourself time. And there's a lot more detail of

432
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,919
Speaker 3: why the twenty eight days about, you know, sort of

433
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 3: tracking your chart that I won't go into, but really

434
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 3: super powerful people taking time, all about the way they

435
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 3: feel with people, places of experiences.

436
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 1: So I know we are tesked as one, but as

437
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,479
Speaker 1: you are describing, like the descriptions of each one, I

438
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 1: thought about myself and each one a little bit like

439
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: there is a little bit that resonated. So I'm like, wait,

440
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: can you have more than one? Or do we have

441
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: a little bit of a percentage or wherew does that work?

442
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 3: I love this question because one of the things with

443
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 3: the way I teach human design is a lot of

444
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: the time I'm like, type's kind of crap, and the yeah,

445
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 3: because it's actually like the initial download didn't include type.

446
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 3: Type was created to simplify the process of teaching. Now,

447
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 3: one of the challenges with type is especially today because

448
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 3: you know, human design's taken off and there's memes all

449
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 3: over the you know, the Internet or Instagram, TikTok everywhere

450
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 3: that are putting people into these type boxes. And really

451
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 3: type is just an outline of what we call definition.

452
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 3: Now we can have such different definition from person to

453
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 3: person that you know, a projector that feels like they're

454
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 3: not seen or heard or has no energy, you know,

455
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 3: in their shadow state, you know, they might resonate with

456
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 3: a lot of the the memes out there. However, if

457
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 3: you're a projector that has three of the motors, and

458
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 3: if you're a rejector that's doing this, that, and the other,

459
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 3: you're just going to be like, no, I have all

460
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 3: this energy, I've got a defined throat people listen to

461
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 3: me that doesn't resonate with me. So really that's why

462
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: I always say, like you want to know your strategy.

463
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 3: There's another thing within type called your signature theme, and

464
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 3: you're not self themed. So these are two little indicators

465
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 3: that are like I'm in alignment, I'm out of alignment.

466
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 3: I always think about it like driving down the road,

467
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 3: you know. I mean they're driving straight towards my purpose

468
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 3: or my heart or my destiny whatever, or I'm like

469
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 3: swerving all over the road. However, we have to be

470
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 3: very conscious and really pay attention when something doesn't resonate,

471
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 3: because it's going to be something deeper in the chart.

472
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 3: You either have something defined or undefined, you know, like

473
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 3: for example, like if you let's say you resonate and

474
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 3: I can't see your chart, but I know the top

475
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 3: level stuff. But let's say you have this gate thirty

476
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 3: four in your chart and as a generator, it's going

477
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,959
Speaker 3: to be activated. So when I talk about it manifesting generator,

478
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 3: you're going to be like, yeah, I really resonate with that.

479
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 3: Like I'm multi passionate. I like to do a bunch

480
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 3: of different things. And that's because you have the thirty four,

481
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 3: you just don't have the whole chat. Oh okay, so

482
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 3: a lot of the deeper nuances. That's why we want

483
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 3: to take our time. Don't get overwhelmed, but just take

484
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 3: our time to go slowly deeper and deeper and deeper,

485
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 3: because that's where the real authenticity sits.

486
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: You've mentioned strategy and authority a couple times, So what

487
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: are those pieces of this story.

488
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 3: So your strategy is the way the universe speaks to

489
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 3: you and guides you, and then your authority is your

490
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 3: internal guidance system. So I imagine that these two are

491
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 3: like this communication loop that are constantly working together to

492
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 3: guide you to where your soul wants to go in

493
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 3: this life, or the manifestation that you want to create,

494
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 3: or the relationship that your heart desires. So with strategy,

495
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 3: it's that I actually mentioned each strategy with each type,

496
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 3: So if you're listening to this, you can go back

497
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 3: and check out your strategy, and then each individual will

498
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 3: have their own authority. You and I are both emotional authorities,

499
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 3: which is almost half the global population, meaning that we

500
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 3: make decisions through over time. We need to wait for

501
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: emotional clarity. So our sake calls might go, yes, I've

502
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 3: got energy for that, but we just if we're in

503
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 3: an emotional wave, which we're always in, which is really

504
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 3: important to understand from a behavioral perspective because a lot

505
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 3: of behavioral work that we do, or transformative work or

506
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 3: mindset work, you know, a lot of Tony Robin stuff

507
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 3: things like that we're going to be constantly focused on,

508
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 3: you know, like physiology is everything. So if we don't

509
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,719
Speaker 3: feel great, if we change our physiology, then we're going

510
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 3: to feel better. Then we can change our mindset, then

511
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 3: we can change our language. Dad with an emotional being,

512
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 3: you're always in this mechanical wave always, it's always, always,

513
00:27:56,440 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: always there. So you have to re you know, rediscover

514
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 3: a new meaning. You've got to create a better meaning

515
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 3: for the highs and the lows and not make decisions

516
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 3: in the highs and the lows because you know the

517
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 3: next day you're going to wake up and go, damn it.

518
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 3: I actually that wasn't correct for me. So then there's

519
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 3: a number. There's sacral authority, which is a really simple

520
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 3: uh huh uh huh. Yes, I've got energy. No, I

521
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 3: don't have energy for it. Then we've got splenik, which

522
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 3: is all about intuition, so it's the subtle energy guiding

523
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 3: us to make our decisions. And then we've got some

524
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 3: of the smaller as in population wise, we've got ego authority,

525
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 3: self directed and mental and the lunar authority, which is

526
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 3: the reflector, and all of these are a form of

527
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 3: learning to feel into the body, depending on your definition,

528
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 3: noticing what comes out of your mouth, speaking things out

529
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 3: and making decisions through a process of allowing yourself to

530
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 3: speak something you know, whether it's what you want to desire,

531
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 3: whether it's your direction, whether it's your thinking into a

532
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 3: moment of oh, that's it, a moment of knowing. So

533
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 3: we all have different authorities.

534
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: It's so interesting because as an instinct, I'm a generator,

535
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: as we talked about, or I don't know if we

536
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: mentioned that yet, I'm a generator, but you just mentioned

537
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: my authority is emotional. And the way that I have

538
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: always operated in life is that when I'm supposed to

539
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: do something, like I just know. And I never have

540
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: known how to explain that, but it's very clear to me.

541
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: People can be like that makes no sense, but for

542
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: whatever reason, I know that's the road to go down.

543
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: But there have been a lot of times in my

544
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: adult life where I don't know, and so I will

545
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: either feel the need before I knew about this human

546
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: design stuff, I would feel the need to like either

547
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: figure it out or force my way into something or

548
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: push push, push push, and it never felt right. Or

549
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,719
Speaker 1: I would make decisions that would end up blowing up

550
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: in my face because they weren't the right thing for me.

551
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: And so it's just interesting the where I'm learning about this,

552
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that was why I couldn't actually make

553
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: that decision. Because I'm a generator. Things are supposed to

554
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: come to me, like I'm supposed to attract it in.

555
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: And the emotional piece, like if I don't have the clarity,

556
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: then I should not be acting.

557
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 3: Exactly exactly like you. And that's the piece, you know,

558
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: like especially with emotional authority. And I know this will

559
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 3: sound you know this is going a little bit deeper,

560
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: but it's an awareness center, meaning that oftentimes the emotional authority,

561
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 3: especially when you've got to define cycle like you do

562
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 3: like I do, You're like the body is like yep,

563
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 3: we've got energy for this, but you just know it's

564
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 3: not correct yet, Like it's not the green light is

565
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 3: not there. And often that's just because the emotional authority

566
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 3: is an awareness center. Same with the splinic authority. It's

567
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 3: an awareness center. So what it's saying is maybe not yet,

568
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 3: you know, it's looking for divine timing. Maybe there's a

569
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 3: piece missing, so it's waiting for that other piece. Maybe

570
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 3: you need something that you know it knows you need,

571
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: thing that you don't know you need yet. So it's

572
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 3: that ability to just wait, to just ride out the

573
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 3: emotional wave until you get to this place where you're like, oh,

574
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 3: it's obviously this, you know that knowing it's just clear,

575
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 3: it feels easy. There isn't a huge emotional attachment, whether

576
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 3: it's high or low. It's just like, yes, the green light.

577
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: For me, I always talk about it just feels like

578
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 3: a green light, like a no brain, no brainer, do

579
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 3: it now?

580
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

581
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 3: Yeah?

582
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: What would be the other things that people could look for,

583
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: like with human design? I guess my question is what

584
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: insight to yourself do you really feel which is so

585
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: overwhelming that it changed your life? Like, what did you

586
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: really learn about yourself by really getting into this human design?

587
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 3: Well, honestly everything, I think one of the things that

588
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 3: is super important for everyone's profile. So I'm going to

589
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 3: come back to that and I'll share my story. But ultimately,

590
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 3: I think the biggest piece for me and for you know,

591
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 3: I've worked with thousands of people now is the permissions

592
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 3: is that all of us have that knowing inside of

593
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 3: us that you know, we want to do this thing,

594
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 3: or we have greatness, or we've got something to give,

595
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 3: or we've got more to give. Or something bigger to be,

596
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 3: or we just don't want to be doing. We know

597
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 3: what we're doing isn't correct for us. And ultimately, human

598
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 3: design gives you that permission slip because when you start

599
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 3: to dive into your design, you're like, oh my god,

600
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 3: I just thought I was making this stuff up. I

601
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 3: you know, didn't realize and that I actually am here

602
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 3: to do this work. It's not just me saying, oh,

603
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: I just like to do this thing because that would

604
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 3: make me happy. It's like, oh my goodness, this is

605
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 3: the purpose this soul came in for, Like, I better

606
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 3: get onto getting it done, you know. And I think

607
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: for me, like even right at the beginning, the being

608
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 3: a manifesting generator and discovering that I was a nonlinear

609
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 3: being that instantly set me free. The fact that I

610
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 3: was meant to break things. I wasn't meant to walk

611
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 3: anybody else's path. I need to sort of you know.

612
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: I tend to be a little bit I want to

613
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: pull things apart and then put them back together. So

614
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 3: all of that really resonated for me. Profile was another

615
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 3: place that was really big, and at first I didn't

616
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 3: like it because I'm an aligned three I'm a three, five,

617
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 3: And the old school language about around being aligned three

618
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: is you know, it's all trial and error. So they

619
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 3: would say, well, basically, you're screwed because your entire life

620
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 3: you're just going to fall down and fail and then

621
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 3: you'll get up again, and then you'll fall down.

622
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: I was like, that's not terrible, you know, yeah.

623
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 3: That's not you know, and again like, I'm a behavioral coach.

624
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: I know that that's not true unless I believe it's true. However,

625
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 3: once I brought the behavioral coaching part to it, I'm like,

626
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm an alchemist. I get to you know,

627
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 3: literally get my hands dirty. I can throw myself at

628
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 3: all these different experiences because that's actually what I love

629
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 3: to do. And you know, I'm always winning or learning,

630
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 3: that's it two of my favorite things, or learning, like

631
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 3: bring it on. So a lot of you know, human design,

632
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 3: especially the old school language, is very disempowering, whereas when

633
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 3: we take the time to make it empowering, like what

634
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 3: else could it mean, we start to really see the

635
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 3: potential that lies within us. So profile it's going to

636
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 3: be two numbers. So you'll see on your chart there's

637
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 3: two numbers. As I said, I'm a three five, you're

638
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 3: a four six. And this is kind of we call

639
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 3: it in human design, the costume of your purpose. What

640
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 3: it really means is how it's your how how you learn,

641
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 3: how you serve, how you move through life. You know,

642
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 3: the significant themes that are going to turn up, how

643
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 3: you behave in relationships, all these sort of things. It's

644
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 3: a really powerful overarching theme that is going to help

645
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 3: you navigate life. So do you want me to go

646
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 3: through each line number and then people can put their

647
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 3: own profiles together.

648
00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do.

649
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 3: So. The line one is the energy of someone who

650
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 3: wants to get to the bottom of things. There's someone

651
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 3: who wants to research, they want to learn. It's called

652
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 3: the investigator. They will be someone who Originally we used

653
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 3: to talk a lot about being book learners, but I

654
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 3: think now as learning is really evolving, it's not just

655
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 3: book learning. It's just someone who has an absolute thirst

656
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 3: for knowledge and they want to get to the bottom

657
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 3: of things. They're gonna answer, They're gonna have all the

658
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 3: answers to all the questions, and over time they become

659
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 3: the authority because people know they can rely on them

660
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 3: for the information, for the knowledge. So yeah, the one

661
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 3: thing that a line one needs to be conscious of

662
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 3: is they can self sabotage themselves by not taking action

663
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 3: because they think they don't have enough information. Not true.

664
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 3: If your strategy and authority says it's time to take

665
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 3: action on something and do it, just do it. Don't

666
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 3: let fear jump in and say I don't have enough.

667
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 3: Because the line one, in its fear, in its shadow,

668
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 3: will never have enough. It's like shadow, strategy and authority

669
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 3: will keep you moving forward. Then we have the line too,

670
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 3: and the line two is the natural. This is the

671
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 3: gifted child. It's called the hermit. So they do love

672
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 3: to have their own time, and their own time is

673
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 3: really about developing their skills. They will tend to not

674
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 3: like authority, they don't like being told what to do,

675
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 3: and they will be really good at things. They will

676
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 3: find the things that they're meant to do easy. So,

677
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 3: for example, my youngest son is a line too, and

678
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 3: he loves music. And for many years he had guitar

679
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 3: lessons and flute lessons and if they kind of never

680
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 3: went anywhere. So he says to me, probably a couple

681
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 3: of yearsgo now, Mum, can I have a piano? And

682
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 3: I just said sure, how do you want to learn

683
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 3: instead of going to the authority type teacher, he said,

684
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 3: there's this app? Can you get me this app? And

685
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 3: basically he taught himself fifty plus songs. He actually taught

686
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 3: himself to play the Harry Potter tune without any help,

687
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 3: just using his ear. So this is a line too.

688
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 3: They have to be allowed to really develop their own

689
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 3: learn in their own way, doing their own thing. Then

690
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 3: the line three, this is it's called the martyr. You know,

691
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 3: in our shadow we can be a little bit martie

692
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 3: because we are the ones that learn through life through

693
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 3: trial and error, through I always say, like scuffing our

694
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 3: knees and bruising our elbows. However, we are also the

695
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 3: great experimenters. We're the ones that will be tend to

696
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 3: be more resilient, will tend to be more willing to

697
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 3: take risks. We we love to live a less ordinary life.

698
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 3: You know, we want to move and change and you know,

699
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 3: give lots of things to go and in that place

700
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 3: we call out what doesn't work and we share what does.

701
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 3: And they tend to be people that others have very

702
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 3: drawn to because they feel like, wow, you've walked in

703
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 3: my shoes. Because there's a lot of experiences that are

704
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 3: Ligne three will have. Then we go to the line four,

705
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 3: which is one of your lines, and the line four

706
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 3: is you know, it's what we call one of the

707
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: foundational lines. The line one is the other foundational line

708
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 3: and your foundation. So your safety and security in life

709
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 3: is going to come from the relationships you have, from

710
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 3: the family you have, from the community you have, from

711
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 3: the network you have. You know, everything from job opportunities

712
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 3: to intimate partners, to best friends to where to go

713
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 3: on holiday, all of that is going to come through

714
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 3: your relationships. You know, one of my dear friends and

715
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 3: one of the teachers in my membership community, she talks

716
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 3: about from the marketing perspective, it's like, you don't need

717
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 3: to market out there because you just need to hang

718
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 3: out with your people. And when you hang out with

719
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 3: your people, they're going to do the marketing for you.

720
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 3: And it's really important for the line force to have

721
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 3: really solid boundaries around their relationships. If a relationship isn't

722
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: serving you, if it's toxic, if you know it's not

723
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 3: correct for you, you have to be courageous enough to

724
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 3: leave that relationship because so much of your life is

725
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 3: about or the quality of your life will be reflected

726
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 3: in the quality of your relationships. Does that resonate with.

727
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: You one hundred percent? Yes, I mean it's it's interesting

728
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 1: that you say that because so often and I think

729
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: I've said this recently, but especially if my romantic relationships,

730
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: like the rest of my life could be great, you know,

731
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: like jobs could be going well, everything seems on paper

732
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 1: like it should be good. But if my romantic relationship

733
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: is not, it can take me completely out. Like it's

734
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: like it's just like I can't function no matter what

735
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: else is happening, and it really kind of starts to

736
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: trickle over into everything. Yeah. So yeah, that's so fascinating

737
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 1: that that, And that's a lot thought, you know, and.

738
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 3: Like the old school, let's say, even from a coaching perspective,

739
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 3: what would we do well, we'd help you make really

740
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 3: solid boundaries around that so the intimate relationship doesn't leak

741
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 3: into the other areas, whereas when we put human design

742
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,919
Speaker 3: with it, we say, nope, you actually need to put

743
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 3: this intimate relationship like this needs to be a priority

744
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 3: for you right up here on the pedestal. So if

745
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 3: that's not one hundred percent, then it's got to go.

746
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 3: You've got to have such good boundaries around that because

747
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 3: you're designed to have those relationships affect you in every

748
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 3: area because and just as much as the bad the good,

749
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 3: you know. So it's like exactly right, So heal your stuff,

750
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 3: raise your consciousness, put your boundaries in place, and make

751
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 3: sure you're really honest about the people in your life,

752
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 3: and then all areas of your life are going to

753
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 3: go really well.

754
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I can also have the positive like you

755
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: were just saying, where it's like I'm feeding off the

756
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: positive energy of those relationships so much though that it's like,

757
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: especially being the generator or whatever. I think I've become

758
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: more magnetic that way. And it's just like if I'm

759
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: in that late just walking around happy and free and feelings,

760
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: I think what you said about the security and safety

761
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 1: is the biggest piece for me. When I feel that,

762
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 1: then all of these things start flying in. It's crazy.

763
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 3: Exactly wow, exactly exactly, So I love that.

764
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

765
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 3: Then we go to the line five, and the line

766
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 3: five is the heretic, and we as line five. I'm

767
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 3: under line five myself. These are people who they're often healers.

768
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: They have to heal themselves first and then hear the

769
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 3: other they have this real dance with power because the

770
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 3: line five in merit many areas of the chart really

771
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 3: talks about leadership and power. Ultimately, the line five with

772
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 3: the solutions. Okay, so if you have a line five

773
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 3: in your life, then they are probably the ones that

774
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 3: hold space for you, that help you solve your problems,

775
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 3: that you know, think out of the box, that you

776
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,879
Speaker 3: know really support you. If you have a line five

777
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 3: in your life, please support them, because in most cases

778
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: people don't return the favor, so we wander around until

779
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 3: we find ourselves another line five and go, Okay, now

780
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 3: someone's going to help me and hold space for me.

781
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 3: But they're very practical, they're very solutions based, and yeah,

782
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 3: they're the ones that want to have a big impact

783
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 3: on the planet. Then we have the line six, which

784
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 3: is you, and the line six is the role model.

785
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 3: And if the first thing that I say to every

786
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,760
Speaker 3: line six is one of the themes of your life

787
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: is going to be patients because you are going to

788
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 3: as we all do, but even more so for you,

789
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 3: that your real gift to the planet is going to

790
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 3: take time because it's going to be so brilliant. The

791
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 3: line six is always looking for something special, whether that's

792
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 3: in a relationship, whether that's the work that they do,

793
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 3: whether that's you know, even the things that they have

794
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 3: in their life. They're looking for something special. These are

795
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 3: the visionaries. These are the people who can see the

796
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 3: potential around the corner for planet Earth that they can see.

797
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 3: Like one of my favorite metaphors is like with the

798
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 3: line six, there's some areas in the chart that you

799
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 3: can kind of look at money and wealth and prosperity,

800
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 3: and if you have a line six in my certain area,

801
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 3: then you're this person that could see a world without

802
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 3: money because it's this whole visionary place where, yeah, what

803
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 3: if we didn't need money, What if we just did

804
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 3: what we loved and then we just shared what we

805
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 3: loved and it all just went around like perfect right, right, So,

806
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 3: as a line six, you have this real visionary ability

807
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 3: and you really are although we are very unique, the

808
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 3: line six has this extra level of uniqueness, like because

809
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 3: a lot of your purpose is to be authentically you,

810
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 3: and when you're being authentically you, you give everyone else

811
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 3: permission to do the same. So a lot of your

812
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 3: journey and the line six is are what we call

813
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 3: triphasic so it's almost like you have your one version

814
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 3: of you up until the age of thirty. Then you're

815
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 3: a different version of you between thirty and fifty, and

816
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 3: then you really step into this role model piece after

817
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 3: fifty where everyone just wants to sit and listen to

818
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 3: you speak like you're you know, Yoda sitting on a

819
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 3: cushion or something like that. So so yeah, then wait

820
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 3: for it, it'll come.

821
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: You guys are missing me sitting on my mountain top

822
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 1: burning message, just come listen to me.

823
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 3: Exactly right, I love it.

824
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: So as that air is there only six?

825
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, there's only six, and then the two come together.

826
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 3: So everyone will have two numbers, like I'm a three five,

827
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 3: you're a four six. You could be a one three

828
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 3: or two four, So the two numbers will come together.

829
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: So why do we have two? And then how do

830
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: they work together?

831
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 3: Great question? So we have two because we have the

832
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 3: first number comes from the conscious side of our chart,

833
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 3: or the person side of our chart, and then the

834
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 3: second number comes from the body or the unconscious part

835
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 3: of our chart. So there's these two readings that we

836
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 3: get the time of birth and the approximately three months

837
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 3: before we're born. So they're the two numbers that come together,

838
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 3: and how they work together is that with the second number,

839
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 3: we have to It's almost like we have to align

840
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:28,280
Speaker 3: to that first because that's the body, that's the vehicle,

841
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 3: that's the soul's purpose that side of the chart. However,

842
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 3: it's so innate, it's also called unconscious that sometimes we're

843
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 3: not aware of it. So with human design, it helps

844
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 3: us bring it to the conscious awareness, meaning that we

845
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 3: can do something about it, meaning we can lean into it,

846
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 3: we can let go over the fears of it, we

847
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 3: can stop expressing the shadow of it and start expressing

848
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: the high potential of it. And then the second number

849
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,280
Speaker 3: is our Sorry, the first number from the personality side

850
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 3: then shines brighter. So I'll give you an example. I'm

851
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,760
Speaker 3: a three to five, So a lot of my work

852
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 3: in the world came from my healing journey. As a

853
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 3: line five, then as a line five, I heal myself,

854
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 3: I have all these experiences. Three, I'm having all these experiences,

855
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 3: and I'm healing my self, experience healing my self, experience

856
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 3: healing myself. Then my line five goes right. I want

857
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Speaker 3: to universalize this, meaning the line fives want to take

858
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 3: it all out into the world. They want to teach everyone,

859
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 3: share it with everyone. But I have to do that

860
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 3: for me first. Now the third part of the third

861
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 3: about the third, but the next part for your profile

862
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 3: that's very important is if you have the big number

863
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 3: or the small number first. So again let me give

864
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 3: you an example. I have the small number first, you

865
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 3: have the small number. First, we're both personal profiles, meaning

866
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,240
Speaker 3: that your focus needs to be on your personal journey.

867
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 3: If you focus too much on the other, then you

868
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 3: will get out of alignment. Okay, you need to be

869
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 3: focused on your journey and then especially being aligned for like,

870
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 3: all you're going to want to do is share it

871
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 3: with your network. However, you have to have your journey first.

872
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 3: For me, the same like I have to heal me first,

873
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 3: have my experiences first, then I take it out to

874
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 3: the world. Now, if you have the big number first,

875
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 3: you need to be more focused on the other than yourself.

876
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 3: Now that doesn't mean that you neglect yourself, don't nurture yourself,

877
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 3: don't have your own self care, all those things. It's

878
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 3: that if you get into a place where you are

879
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 3: thinking so much about yourself and your own journey, that's

880
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 3: going to be really, really disempowering for you. You're going

881
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 3: to feel lost, stuck, you know, probably anxious, maybe depressed,

882
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 3: sad at the like, this sort of stuff's going to

883
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 3: start to play out. So you have to then focus

884
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Speaker 3: on the other. So let me just give you a

885
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 3: really simple metaphor that I often use. As I said,

886
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Speaker 3: twenty years ago, I was diagnosed with depression, which I'm

887
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 3: completely healed of, and I was the one who went

888
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 3: through that journey. When I was diagnosed, I hit the books,

889
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 3: I did the learning, I ran the experiments, I did

890
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 3: all the things. Then I went out in the world

891
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 3: and shared what I learned with others. Now, if you

892
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 3: have the big number, maybe you're a six to two,

893
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:15,879
Speaker 3: maybe you're a five two, maybe you're a five to one.

894
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 3: If you were in the same boat as me and

895
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 3: you would diagnosed with depression, the best thing for you

896
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 3: to do would be find someone else that has depression

897
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 3: and focus on helping them heal. And if you focus

898
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 3: on helping them heal their mental health, you will heal

899
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 3: your mental health in that process. So it's just like

900
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 3: this different kind of focal point.

901
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you're talking too, I was just thinking, are

902
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: there certain numbers that would be more compatible with others,

903
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 1: because I have a ton of three fives in my life,

904
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,799
Speaker 1: and I don't know if that's because we're supposed to

905
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,479
Speaker 1: work well together, if we like feed off each other,

906
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: or is that just coincidence, Like, are there certain numbers

907
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: that work better with each other? Or is this just

908
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,240
Speaker 1: to help us understand maybe motivations of each person.

909
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I love this. This is such a great question. So, yes,

910
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 3: we do have harmonic some harmonic profiles, and for you

911
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 3: it would be you would be like the one three

912
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,720
Speaker 3: would be your harmonic profile.

913
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, for.

914
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 3: Me it's the six two. However, what we do find is,

915
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,439
Speaker 3: and this is kind of going back to the behavioral

916
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 3: thing you know, we know in behavioral science, let's just

917
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Speaker 3: call it that, we know that we will attract partners

918
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 3: and friendships that are similar behaviorally to our parents. With

919
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 3: human design, we find the exact same thing. So if

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00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 3: you maybe your parents were three fives, maybe your best

921
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 3: friend growing up was a three five, Maybe you had

922
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 3: a lot of three five energy when you're in that

923
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 3: imprint stage zero to seven, so you'll tend to call

924
00:49:55,960 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 3: more three fives in now the three five profile. It

925
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 3: is also the most personable, like it's the one that

926
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Speaker 3: people are the most drawn to because they just feel

927
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,919
Speaker 3: very down to earth, like they get people and they

928
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Speaker 3: have that five. That's like I can help you because

929
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Speaker 3: the five can be very you know, superhero savior that

930
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 3: kind of energy, so it could be a bunch of

931
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 3: different things. And the way we would really hone in

932
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 3: on that is you would have a look at your chart,

933
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 3: your friends charts or these primary relationships charts, and then

934
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 3: look at your parents' charts and say, okay, cool, well

935
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 3: you were conditioned by three to five, so that energy

936
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 3: is going to feel really good to you. And then

937
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,439
Speaker 3: if you find their relationships that come and go, then

938
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 3: you want to pay attention to the nuance of the

939
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 3: design that's coming and going because it's there to teach

940
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 3: you something. And I know we probably won't get time

941
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 3: to go into incarnation crosses, but this is a place

942
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 3: in human design that is really great for this because

943
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Speaker 3: each incarnation cross has a friend of mine, Brenda Magison,

944
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Speaker 3: who's written a brilliant book on incarnation crosses. She has

945
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 3: a dinner party question for each incarnation cross. So when

946
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 3: you meet someone, you can ask yourself the question that

947
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 3: that cross brings. So for example, you've called me in today,

948
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 3: and my cross is the cross of planning. So the

949
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 3: question that you need to go away and journal on

950
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 3: is what does your community need? Because you've called in

951
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 3: my energy.

952
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: Okay, well you know I'm going to do this right sooner. Exactly.

953
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 3: I love it.

954
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: I do it as a community need. Okay, that is

955
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 1: so interesting. So explain what the incarnation cross means?

956
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 3: What is that? Yes, so we call the incarnation cross.

957
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: It's the job description of your aura. So the and

958
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 3: this is kind of what ra who is the guy

959
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 3: that channeled all of this information in rah Uu who

960
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 3: He talked about it this way and in a way

961
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 3: that it's just it's kind of happening. We've got to

962
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 3: make sure we don't try and interfere too much. The

963
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 3: only thing we need to do is raise our consciousness.

964
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,760
Speaker 3: So what does that mean? Identify our fear and shadow,

965
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 3: accept it, acknowledge it, integrate it, and then access the

966
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 3: gift and the higher potentials that lie within these energies. Now,

967
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 3: our incarnation cross, it's what our aura is doing all

968
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 3: the time and depending on some other nuances deep down,

969
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 3: like some people have what we call a high workload

970
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 3: incarnation Cross like I do, meaning that every single person

971
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 3: that comes into Aura with me, they've called in the

972
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 3: cross of planning. So they have this like what does

973
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 3: my community need? Some people don't have such a high

974
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 3: workload cross, and it'll depend on all their definition. But

975
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 3: the incarnation Cross is this piece that it's always operating.

976
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 3: It makes up you know, in the gene Keys, Richard

977
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 3: Rudd calls it our activation sequence. It's our genius, it's

978
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 3: our most prominent energies, it's our Sun Earth energies. On

979
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 3: both sides, so they're going to be really big players,

980
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,879
Speaker 3: really big energies for who you feel you are and

981
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 3: how you serve in the world. They're very aligned to

982
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 3: your purpose. You like your life's work, what drives you

983
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 3: to do the work that you do. It's also about

984
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 3: how you feel really fulfilled. It's also how you access

985
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 3: like the greatest vitality within you. And you know, even

986
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 3: within these gates, we can go deeper and really understand

987
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:32,320
Speaker 3: the way we take in life, the environment, we thrive

988
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 3: in the way we perceive life, because we all have

989
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 3: our own very unique filters and you know what motivates us.

990
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 3: So within these top two on each side, so it's

991
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 3: top four what we call gates in the Sun and

992
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 3: the Earth. There is just so much going on about

993
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,240
Speaker 3: really who we hear, who we are, and why we here.

994
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 1: Okay, gosh, I feel like I could ask you questions

995
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: all day, so we just may have to have you back.

996
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: We need to talk about gene keys and then down

997
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: this human design stuff even more. But if you are

998
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: listening and you've gotten a little bit excited about human

999
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: design as I have, Emma has her own podcast. It's

1000
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: called The Human Design Podcast with Emma Dunwoodie. I actually

1001
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: recently listened to the Generator podcast and one of the

1002
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: main things that really helped me was just because you

1003
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: can doesn't mean you should. That was like, oh, you

1004
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: would thake my head popped off my body because it

1005
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: doesn't sound that like crazy to say, but for a

1006
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 1: person like me, I'm like, sure I can do that,

1007
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: Sure I can do that, Sure I can do that.

1008
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: Sure I can do that until I am literally like

1009
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: crippled on the floor because I can't do anymore and

1010
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: I'm doing things for other people that should be doing

1011
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: it for themselves too often. So that that was a

1012
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: freeing statement and I got that from the podcast what

1013
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: else can people find on your podcast.

1014
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 3: Well, they can find all sorts of things obviously I

1015
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 3: go through. In fact, if you go way back, you

1016
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,879
Speaker 3: can literally start at the beginning and unpack your chat.

1017
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 3: You can get out free chot from the website and

1018
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 3: it will point you to the episodes to help you

1019
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 3: unpack your own chart. But I also love like, I'm

1020
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:10,439
Speaker 3: really into purpose. I'm really into the work. Of course,

1021
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 3: I'm an MG, the work that we're here to do

1022
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 3: on the planet, so we love to focus on that.

1023
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:20,240
Speaker 3: We also love to have heart centered, high consciousness business

1024
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 3: owners that are also doing their purpose their work in

1025
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 3: the world. So yeah, it's just I love it. It's

1026
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 3: also again it's in my design like this in my

1027
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 3: line number, in my purpose sphere, sure enough to use

1028
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 3: my voice. So my podcast really is just my heart.

1029
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 3: I love it.

1030
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: And if people wanted to work with you in a

1031
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: session or learn more about their own chart, where would

1032
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,800
Speaker 1: they find that information, Well, you.

1033
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 3: Can jump onto the website. Everything you need is on

1034
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 3: the website. There's links to we I have an entire

1035
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 3: coaching team that I encourage everyone to get on there

1036
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: and intuitively pick you want to work with. They're all exceptional.

1037
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,439
Speaker 3: They coach everyone in my membership. I've got a huge

1038
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 3: membership community that is just and community is in my

1039
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 3: personality son, So it's one of the things that I'm

1040
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 3: really good at. Yet I do nothing. I do nothing

1041
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 3: to create these amazing communities other than set the intention

1042
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 3: and turn up. And we have this amazing community there

1043
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 3: which our coaches are always in there as well. So

1044
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,240
Speaker 3: there's plenty of ways that you can work with us

1045
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 3: or with me, and you'll find on the website.

1046
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Speaker 1: That's Emma Dunwoody dot com. I'll put it in the

1047
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 1: description of this podcast. Thank you so much for being here.

1048
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: I love this stuff, so, I mean all the listeners know,

1049
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: I geek out over it. This is like my Christmas

1050
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: to get to talk about this. So thank you so

1051
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: much for being here and for sharing all that information

1052
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 1: with us.

1053
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 3: Oh you're so welcome. Thank you so much for having me,

1054
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 3: and yeah, I'd love to be back, and yeah, just

1055
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 3: let me know what you want me to talk about

1056
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 3: and I'll be here with bells on deal.

1057
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Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening.

1058
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1059
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:01,560
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1060
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,760
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