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Speaker 1: live to you. We are also recording to this see

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Speaker 1: this little microphone. And today on Katie's Crib, we have

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Speaker 1: probably my most special guests I've ever had, the the

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Speaker 1: most most specialists of all guests I have ever had

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Speaker 1: onys GRIBI true, but we have the one, the only,

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Speaker 1: my husband, mister Adam Mark Shape. I go hello, hello

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Speaker 1: in the podcast world, Hello out there in the in

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Speaker 1: the real live world. Yes, we're just warming up. It's

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Speaker 1: an honor to be on Katie's crib. I thought you'd

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Speaker 1: never asked. I've been outside that door for like two years.

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Speaker 1: We're coming to you like you want. Do you want

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Speaker 1: my side of the story? Okay, cool, No, just nobody

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Speaker 1: cares about your side. We care. I got a lot

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Speaker 1: of guests here though, you get a lot of guests.

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Speaker 1: See had a lot of guests. Water When Roger is

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Speaker 1: really going all out, he gives Roger a bone, puts

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Speaker 1: him in a room so that he doesn't really the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Take care. Yeah, make sure this is live live, This

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Speaker 1: is live, and this is where Adam and I hang out,

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Speaker 1: usually later in the day with wine with our son

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Speaker 1: Albi who is playing in this room? Yeah, playing the

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Speaker 1: tent and so the tent, the couch. These are lovely.

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Speaker 1: We had some friends over for Super Bowl that had

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Speaker 1: some older kids here and they made a lovely sign

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Speaker 1: called camp Friendy. That's for Friendly Moon. Yes, that's our

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Speaker 1: annual weekend with our friends. It's called Friendly Moon. It's

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Speaker 1: where friends become better friends. It's the best. And there's

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Speaker 1: the friend news about this was we got runner up

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Speaker 1: friends crushing in life. There were three people that won

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Speaker 1: the awards. The technically were fourth place. But the older

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Speaker 1: kids came and hang out in this room on Sunday

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Speaker 1: and they asked their nursery school teacher, like, what events

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Speaker 1: hanging out. And what was great was all of the

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Speaker 1: kids got pink I That would turned out to be

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Speaker 1: for you moms out there listening and watching, we've had

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Speaker 1: our first about now with pink eye. Pink eye, which

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Speaker 1: Albi was up with one hundred and two fever and change.

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Speaker 1: So I'm on very little sleep. But this is just

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Speaker 1: the new normal. See, everyone else in the world thinks

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Speaker 1: the super Bowl was just about Adam Levine taking his

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Speaker 1: shirt off. No, it was. It was about pink eye

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Speaker 1: in this house, truly true. That was literally I think

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Speaker 1: seven kids got pink eye right here in this room. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: are you scared. No, we've disinfected the whole place. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have Welcome to the pink Eye Room. That should

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Speaker 1: be the name of this podcast. Adam, Have you ever

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Speaker 1: had pink guy the pink Eye Room? No, Remember we've

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Speaker 1: been a oother thirteen years. You've never had been guy.

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Speaker 1: We thought I had a pink guy a couple of

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Speaker 1: What was it was like? Dry? Dry? My eye was dry, Adam,

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Speaker 1: I get a lot of stuff. You should really go

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Speaker 1: over one of those commercials, the dry eye that'd be made.

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Speaker 1: I would like I would love to go out, yeah,

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Speaker 1: going to be answering them from our from our ve,

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Speaker 1: our experience. Yes, we are in no way shape form

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Speaker 1: feel like there's gonna be some questions that are even

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Speaker 1: like just that's Katie's Crib is just it's just real talk.

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Speaker 1: So Adam, if you're ready to just get real, I

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Speaker 1: want to go into our Instagram check out that we're

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Speaker 1: gonna check out the questions. Okay, thank you guys so

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Speaker 1: much tuning in live. Thank you for especially West Coasters

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Speaker 1: so thank you guys. Last week we were with the

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Speaker 1: that number one Family Rights Kim Family and Kids, Family

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Speaker 1: and Kids that includes Dad's too. You're included, Adam, Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right. First question comes from Cam's More and it's

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Speaker 1: on to something else, But at least it's not Greatest

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Speaker 1: go as hard as I could in the mom zone.

426
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: But like I just I love those scandal nights. That

427
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 1: just meant me and Albi were just gonna be throwing

428
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: pasta in each other's face to that. So that's sort

429
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 1: of what I'm thinking at the moment. I don't think

430
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: you can ever do too well at one time. I

431
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 1: think you do or for at one time. I think

432
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 1: you have to really delicate quantity over quantity and delicate

433
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 1: delegate quantity over delicate hashtag delegate plenished. So you don't

434
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:29,679
Speaker 1: have mom brain. We'll call back to the Troyan episode. Seriously,

435
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: if you haven't listened to Troying episode, go back listen.

436
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: It was two episodes two one one Yeah, okay, uh.

437
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 1: Holly Adams seven twenty says, can't think of a question,

438
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: but I just really love your podcast. Thank you, Holli, Holly,

439
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 1: we love you, thank you, thank you. Courtney says, what

440
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: childhood memories of your own do you pass down to

441
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: your son. I mean for me, it's it's it's it's

442
00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: like ninety eight percent ice cream relates most of my

443
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: My husband is not lactose intolerant. Yeah, no, it's actually

444
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: it's actually shocked you'd thinking with everything else. Yes, for me,

445
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 1: let's see, we do hard We've done hardcore Christmas the

446
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: past two years with my granny Pat, who lives in

447
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: part hardcore Christmas. Hardcore Christmas. I just mean like when

448
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: you go to when you go to Aunt Jones's house

449
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,719
Speaker 1: on Christmas Eve, it's hardcore. It's hardcore. So those traditions

450
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: are being are wonderful, and I love my Jewish tradition.

451
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: So we've like given him those Nica and pass over

452
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: all that fun stuff, and that involves like a big meal. Yes,

453
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the child's memories. I mean, we haven't

454
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: taken him to his first shows yet, but I imagine

455
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: we're going to be bawling. Cannot wait to take him

456
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 1: to his first musical like that. He's probably gonna hate it,

457
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: which would be great. That's why I want to wait

458
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 1: as long as I don't want to like do too

459
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 1: early where he's like, I think my mom waited until

460
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 1: I was like eleven and took me to a nice

461
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 1: starter musical, Joseph and the Technical Jay. Because you can

462
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 1: love that musical on different levels. I feel like as

463
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 1: a kid, you're just like writing on the wall. How

464
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: are we gonna choose when his first musical is anyway?

465
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: It's big? But yeah, now we have Hamilton, which is

466
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: such a great music. I mean, could you imagine having

467
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: to get to see Hamilton for for your first I

468
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 1: don't know what I mean. I don't know if that's

469
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: a good idea. He's gonna be like everything, Yeah, we're

470
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: gonna He's like, why aren't they fucking rap this? I know,

471
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,959
Speaker 1: like they didn't wrap during the French Revolution And then

472
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like in the Civil War, I mean

473
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: the Revolutionary before it was about one hundred years later. Guys,

474
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: it is real, though, do you that's a question I

475
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: have for you off of this situation. How do you

476
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: feel like, No, do you notice my mom brain since

477
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: being a mom? And do you think you any Yes?

478
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: And not really it's true, but I'm glad you asked

479
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: the way I feel you are being like you have

480
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 1: the burden. I mean, you know, there's something like even

481
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 1: though I cut that umbilical cord, which I didn't even

482
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: see that, Yeah, you were, you were really spaced out.

483
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 1: I was like, bump bum. You guys who are listening

484
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: can see he's singing and also making scissor scissor motions. Yeah,

485
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: but cut that. But there is still some sort of

486
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: tether between you and Albe. And like if he goes

487
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: like in the middle of the night, you're like waking

488
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: up and checking the monitor and I can just sleep

489
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 1: through that. And I think that's like basically the number

490
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: one calls a bomb brain is just like lack of

491
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: likely not just sleep, but just like deep sleep. I

492
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: think you're so right. Like last night, an hour I

493
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 1: was up, he was screaming for twenty minutes. I went

494
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 1: in there. I slept through that. Motrin rocked him down.

495
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: He's screaming the monitors next to both of our heads.

496
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 1: Adam didn't hear one minute of that. No, And I's

497
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 1: a daisy today. This one over here, I think if if,

498
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: But like the times that you've been gone and I've

499
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: needed to, like I do wake up, it's just like

500
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: there's something like she's got it. When the two of

501
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: us are there, there's something inside you that's like I

502
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: have to be ready at any moment to go in there. Yeah,

503
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: And I don't feel that way like you feel that way,

504
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: And it's just it's what it is. I've I've offered

505
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: a thousand times. Of course, I'll do it. When I

506
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: do it, when he wakes up, I'll do it. And

507
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: when he was an infant, I did it all the time. Yes,

508
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: for the Katie's Crib record, you are very involved and

509
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 1: we are very very But I'm just saying, there's like

510
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: a piece of you that is just naturally like uh,

511
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: really tied into him. And I think it gives you

512
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 1: sleep that's not as great as the sleep I think.

513
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: I haven't slept since I got pregnant, Like I'm so

514
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: fucking tired. I think that I don't know how you

515
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: moms watching and listening who have like multiple kids or

516
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 1: are doing this on your own, or are like working

517
00:27:56,040 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: night shifts at hospitals, Like, holy, this is so fucking real.

518
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: That was real. That was the memories of childhood questions. Yes, yeah,

519
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: so Jasmine says, how are you handling career? Baby family?

520
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: And that can be hard? So we talked about that.

521
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: But thank you, Jasmine, I just said sure. Hashtag another

522
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: word I just made up, hashtag sures, hashtag diplanet dipleanish.

523
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: What was it like juggling parenthood and being on waitress,

524
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: That's what Gabby says. We kind of answered that before,

525
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: but it was really really hard. It was the dumbest

526
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: thing we've ever done. It was like, let's get the

527
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: same job, the same hours with a seven month old,

528
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: moved to a new city in four days, Let's have

529
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: those hours exactly during bathtime and bedtime. It was so

530
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: fucking hard. And I was also still breastfeed but we

531
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: could not do it because it was it was Broadways browsing. God,

532
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: but it was so hard. I'm not gonna lie. I

533
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: cried a lot. My hormones were all over the place.

534
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: It was awesome. Handing my baby off to get put

535
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: to bed by someone else six nights a week was

536
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: just like tough on me. And then also pumping at

537
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: every single intermission was really fucking hard. Was he away.

538
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: I would exit stage right and then I would have

539
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: to go backstage left to get to my dressing room.

540
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: But it was intermission, so I would just like take

541
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: off the costume and go hang out with Katie pumped. Yeah,

542
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: you know, it was exhausting. It was awesome, but you know,

543
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: I felt like I really felt like a mom beast.

544
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: The other crazy thing about it was that you can't

545
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: people who get sick on Broadway, you guys. First of all,

546
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: Broadway actors are literally the Olympic Athletes of actors, and

547
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: so when they get sick, When you get sick on Broadway,

548
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: you can go to like a special Broadway doctor who

549
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: will give you steroids and things like that so that

550
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: you can sing through the shows that night or weekend

551
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: and you can make it through. If you are breastfeeding,

552
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: you cannot take shit. You can't even take freaking night

553
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: will robotuscin diamond tap like anything. And I was living

554
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: on stuff like that. So I went to like this,

555
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: I lost my voice. I got really sick. I missed

556
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: five shows. People had all flown in book hotel rooms,

557
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: paid for flights, and I wasn't going to be in

558
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: the show. And I went to the vocal doctor, who

559
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know what to tell you. For

560
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: twenty five years, I've worked on every Broadway voice. I've

561
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: never worked on a nursing mother and I can't give

562
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: you anything. And I was like, holy shit, I think

563
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do too much. Yeah, meanwhile, I'm kissing

564
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: your understudy. How was that? It was? It was fantastic.

565
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: It was a hard job. I love her. Okay, so

566
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: that was waitress. All that being said, it was amazing.

567
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,719
Speaker 1: It was amazing. It was like my favorite thing I've

568
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: ever done in my life. It was amazing. How did

569
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: you introduce Roger to Albi? Okay, this is a huge question,

570
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: and guys, I do want to maybe not even answer

571
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,479
Speaker 1: this question fully because we were going to do an

572
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: episode on this with the amazing dog trainer. My dog

573
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: has a shit ton of issues. If I could, like

574
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: he is. He is a crotchety curudgeon of an old

575
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: dog and I love him with all my heart, Roger.

576
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks.

577
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: That is our dog, our dog. You can't teach any tricks,

578
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: no tricks. So anyway, the dog intro to a baby,

579
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: to a child is a Actually it's a very big

580
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: deal and I was very nervous about it, and I

581
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: thank god had this awesome dog trainer who had been

582
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: working with Roger and his issues already for months who

583
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: helped and guided us through him this whole situation. And

584
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: since then, we've passed on the information to a lot

585
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: of friends who are similarly nervous. So we're going to

586
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: do an episode. But we're gonna do an episode. But

587
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: I'll just say this, it's really exciting. It's like all

588
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: these like steps you can do, and like we had

589
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: to get her brother involved and there was a run

590
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: from the hospital with a sheet. Yeah, just to give

591
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,719
Speaker 1: you a little little little taste, the baby has been

592
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: wrapped up in the too much information to get excited about,

593
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: all right, was covered with the baby stuff. No, okay's okay,

594
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: We're going to do an episode. Okay, it's brilliant. Brazil

595
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: loves scandal. We love the Brazil. Do you want me

596
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: and Adam and Albi to come visit figure it out?

597
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: Is there a scandal convention in Brazil? We would love

598
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: to come to that. Let's need everybody, Yeah, or a

599
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: sense I know there's a sensate convention and I was

600
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: on like six episodes were invited. They don't care about

601
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: my character. Has these gorgeous sexy guys that take their shirts,

602
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: that take their shirts off on that show. Great, not

603
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: on that show. I just got shot in the middle

604
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,719
Speaker 1: of the forehead. Okay, how do you guys manage to

605
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: do it all? It's it looks like that on Instagram.

606
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: It's not true. Yeah, that is very true. Let's talk

607
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: about that. But when things look like one thing on

608
00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: Instagram and why Katie's crow is important, it's like, oh yeah,

609
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: just just the the whole thing, the whole like I

610
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: guess from our social media it would look like we've

611
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: got it all going on. That's not true. That literally

612
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: gave me a can you speak to that? Like, well, look,

613
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: I would say, yes, we are. And why we've been

614
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: together so long thirteen years is I think we are.

615
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,959
Speaker 1: We are glass half full optimistic people. We are we

616
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: enjoy life. That does not mean to say we do

617
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: not have our down moments or have not had some

618
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: seriously depressed months where we have been. I mean, I don't.

619
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: I don't like inst story those moments, but like maybe

620
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: I'm picking up my anti depressed filter should but like, no,

621
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: I mental health. It's a real fucking Maybe maybe I'll

622
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: end the story that maybe you guys will enjoy. It's

623
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: not the Walgreens it would be a fun instance story. Yeah,

624
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: but no, I think or like when I had my

625
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: first meltdown as a mom and I cried and I

626
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: was dealing with postpartum depression and post part of anxiety,

627
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: and I was remember this moment where I was laugh

628
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 1: crying so hard that I picked myself off off the

629
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: chair that was nursing Albie ran over to a wood

630
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: piece of floor because I don't like mess, and I

631
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: just peed all over the floor. Yeah, and hold it

632
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: in and then you clean up my pee, yea. And

633
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: then I cleaned up your pen. I was like like that,

634
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: just like a really deep breath. And anyway, we don't

635
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: have it all. We don't have it all going on.

636
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: It's a fucking mess, And honestly, we should probably post

637
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: more of that. All right, we'll post more. We'll post

638
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 1: more of the of the moments where we're not having

639
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: at all. And I think that's probably important. I did,

640
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 1: and I hope on Katie's crib that you can get

641
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: the sense that that is what's going on, that it's

642
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: just awesome and incredible and highs and lows and the

643
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: whole thing. Ye why we're doing this. Okay, thanks for

644
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: the pelvic floor episode by the way, Oh yeah, you

645
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: want to talk about that. No, I just feel like

646
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: if you want to do another pelvic floor episode, I

647
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: could you know men have pelvic floor issues too. I'm

648
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: just saying from experience secifically. Also, she has a baby

649
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: and I go to the pelt for physical therapy. Oh yeah,

650
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: by the way, like Adam had, there is something you

651
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: can speak to this having being one of our first

652
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: We've had a few dudes on the podcast, but here

653
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 1: maybe our third or fourth. I think I'm the third doctor.

654
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, Carp and then we had the adoption lawyer,

655
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: Harvey Carp and then got fourth fourth, So can you

656
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: speak to did you gain baby weight while we were pregnant?

657
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: Did you feel any postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety? Did you

658
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: feel pelvic floor problems? Why don't you raise us through

659
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: those answers real quick to the dad's out there. It

660
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: was the first one. Did I gain weight during your pregnancy? Yeah,

661
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: that's the thing, guys, because she I have like sympathy. Wait, well,

662
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 1: I have no self control at all, just at all,

663
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:52,280
Speaker 1: cannot control myself. That's self control, right. I eat whatever's

664
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: in front of me. So that's why we keep we

665
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: try to keep orias out of the house and just

666
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 1: eat them on special occasions or something. But when k

667
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: was pregnant and she had all this fun food in

668
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: the house, I was like, she was like, let's do

669
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: spaghetti for dinner. I'm liked for dinner and I'm just

670
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: like pounding spaghetti. And so you did gain pregnancy? Way, then,

671
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 1: how did you some depression? Zero? In fact, I kind

672
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: of went the opposite way. I was like, I literally

673
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: felt like I was on ecstasy for like five weeks.

674
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 1: But did you find it hard in juxtaposition to how

675
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: my experience was that you did you feel like you

676
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: had to curb your happiness because I was so fucked up? No?

677
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 1: In fact, I almost felt like there was like some

678
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 1: sort of weird chemical reaction between you and me where

679
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: I could sense you not feeling that way, and so

680
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,919
Speaker 1: like I made up for it, and like I think

681
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: that was a good thing. You know, I didn't feel

682
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: like I needed to curb it for you, But I

683
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: also felt like I needed to do all of the things,

684
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: the dishes, the thing clean up, get the albie go,

685
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: you know, like I kind of hot too because I

686
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: realized you weren't you remember when you said I started

687
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: to really take some serious fucking notes because I thought

688
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: Katie was going to get on a plane and leave us.

689
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because we had a we had a night

690
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: nurse for a couple of nights and she came in

691
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 1: and you were out of the room, and I was like,

692
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: so what time should I do this and this and

693
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: what do you suggest for the thing? And she's like, well,

694
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: I'll wait for Katie to come in so I can

695
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: tell both of you. And I was like, I think

696
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: you should probably give me that information. She's not ready

697
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: to listen right now and like and that's and I realized, like,

698
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,959
Speaker 1: I'm going to need to like actually take a lead

699
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: on things right now while she's feeling the way she's feeling.

700
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: And so I'm glad that I picked up on that,

701
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: but it wasn't happening consciously. I was just really freaking

702
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: happy and I was like in love with the little baby,

703
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: and I was just what I was super super jazzed.

704
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: And then the other thing you said was wait for

705
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: and then the pelic four thing, well, the peblic fourth

706
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: thing is a whole nother story, but I will just

707
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: say that, like men have pelvic floor issues, but we

708
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: ignore them because we're men, and most people don't even

709
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: know what the pelic floor is or where it is. Sure,

710
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: but a lot of public floor issues come from anxiety

711
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: and stress, which comes from being a new dad. So

712
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm just going to look out for it for new dads.

713
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: If you start feeling like why do I feel like

714
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: I have to piece six thousand times a day? How

715
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: did you feel? And I hope this is helping any

716
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,439
Speaker 1: of the moms who are listening at their significant others

717
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: are going through any of this. How Adam beautifully demanded

718
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: a paternity leave where he was like, I'm gonna do

719
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 1: three months with my son. Technically I demanded it to

720
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: no one. I was stopped taking auditions, stopped right, you

721
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: stopped demanded it up myself. Yes, well that was just important,

722
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: I guess, and you felt correct me if I'm wrong.

723
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: You were actually depressed when it was over, which a

724
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: lot of moms feel like, not ready to go back

725
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: to work, You don't want to face the world. Why

726
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: is this time over? Your honeymoon kind of period with

727
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: your son and sort of nest. That's where your depression is.

728
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: My first day after like two and a half months

729
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: or three months of that paternity leave, I went back

730
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: to shooting and I was pretty vummed about it. Sucked. Yeah,

731
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: how did you help yourself to get over that? Started? Well?

732
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: During that paternal leave, I didn't have to schedule Alba

733
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: time and I didn't have to think about Albi time.

734
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: I just knew it was going to happen and I

735
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 1: was going to have time with the baby. And then

736
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: now I have to like really think about it, like

737
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: put stuff like that, Like you know, you never put

738
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 1: home stuff in the calendar, like, and now we're going

739
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: to hang out. Same with us having a date. It's

740
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: like you got to you have to actually put that

741
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 1: stuff in the calendar. Can you talk to them about

742
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: what we had? We discussed that you weren't going to

743
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: go below the curtain when I pushed Albi out and

744
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 1: did you go down there? Yeah? I was like, I

745
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 1: don't want to see anything. I'm going to hang up

746
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: on the top with Katie. But then like they were like, hey,

747
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 1: can you go grab something? And I grabbed it. I

748
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: don't know what it was. I have no idea why

749
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: they would ask you to grab shit, but all right,

750
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: maybe they were telling me to turn the sonas down

751
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: and I had to go, you know what I mean,

752
00:39:55,760 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 1: can you grab this the the yeah, the the machine

753
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: that's projecting laser stars. Were we both scared. Why we

754
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: made the decision was that you would, like never want

755
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: to have sex with me again, because you would you

756
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: were worried about you weren't. No. And then I was

757
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: down there and then I caught a glimpse and I

758
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I was like like liked and like,

759
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: you know, I was just like and I looked and

760
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: I saw the whole thing. I saw him come out.

761
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: It was crazy. You're like Optimist Prime, like you transformed

762
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: into a different shape. That's awesome. He's pretty great. It's amazing.

763
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: Even when I'm doubting myself and I feel like shit,

764
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: he will tell me the story again, which I make

765
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: you say, and he calls me the Optimus Prime, and

766
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: it makes me feel very powerful good. I'm glad it

767
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: doesn't make you feel like like, oh, I just feel

768
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: like a fucking badass motherfucker. I love it. But I

769
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: hope people don't mind that I'm not asking all the

770
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 1: audience question just I think these are important thing since

771
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: you're one of our dudes. On the shop. I think

772
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 1: I was glad that I saw it happen. And I

773
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: always thought to myself, like, how physically does it happen?

774
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: There's no way a baby is gonna be able to fit.

775
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: And the reason you think that is because it's true,

776
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,439
Speaker 1: a baby can't fit down. What you think is the

777
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: that pelvic area of the of the woman, the way

778
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 1: that it is you. It has to dramatically change shift

779
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: this crazy thing that happened to nature. It was amazing.

780
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm glad that I saw it. Are you

781
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: glad you saw it? Yeah? Jen Otem jen otems Otem. Oh,

782
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: so we should bring it down Yeah, you guys were

783
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: going to bring it down to an I'll be napping volume, okay.

784
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: Jen Odem says she misses tweeting and chatting and hope

785
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: that everyone. I love you, I hope you're well. Thank

786
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: you so much for everything always, And is the project

787
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 1: Nanny's still happening? Possibly? I don't think so. Yeah, I

788
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: don't think sothing with projects, they kind of come, they go,

789
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:11,919
Speaker 1: they get hot, they get cold. It was a show

790
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: that we were washing and best Wall wrote it and

791
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: with Shonda and we we had we had great script

792
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: and everything, but it just didn't fit in the lineup

793
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: at ABC the year that we had it, and then

794
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: all the people at ABC shifted and changed, and then

795
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: so the project kind of goes with those people, and uh,

796
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 1: I don't know. I still think that at some point

797
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: of future there's going to be a TV show about

798
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: our experience meeting as nanny's of different families and kind

799
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: of our relationship. Weird does it know that we have

800
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: nanny It's the weirdest, It's crazy, but like, yeah, we

801
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: were nanny's for different families. Why when we started dating,

802
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: we were like we were like just thrust into this

803
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: kind of domesticity where we're like just started dating, but

804
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: we're hanging out with all these little kids and like

805
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: having sleepovers. It was pretty hilarious. Will you sing something

806
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: for us? Already? Did that? What was the biggest transition

807
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 1: moving from New York back to La the Pizza? When

808
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:17,720
Speaker 1: is Harry getting on Kay's Crib? Who said that? Jen? Well?

809
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: Who said it? Jen? Scott Carrie? And I Carrie is

810
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 1: a huge advocate and supporter of Katie's Crib, which is amazing.

811
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Kerry Washington. As we all know

812
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: and respect and love. Carry Washington is very private about

813
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: her personal life, and so she keeps up that way

814
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: more importantly than her being on Katy's crib. She's in

815
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: Katie's crib like she's like our number one mom and

816
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: is literally outfitted in Carrie Washington's son's clothes. And most

817
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: of the way we're even talking about parenting from any

818
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 1: place of knowing what we're talking about is a result

819
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: of our relationship with Carry Washington. So she's always on

820
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: Katie's crib always. Uh, do you see a lot of

821
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 1: yourself in Albie? Oh my god, it's shocking. Guys. When

822
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,720
Speaker 1: I was pregnant with Ali, I had really said to myself,

823
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: it's cool, Like, I'm very well aware that I'm just

824
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: making another Adam Shapiro to be in the world, and

825
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: I love Adam Sapiro so much so that is totally

826
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: a okay with me, and that he's gonna come out

827
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: and he's gonna look act sound like Adam Spiro. And

828
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: basically he came out and I looked, and what I

829
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: was not prepared for was that he looks like me,

830
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: like you too. Well. He didn't get all this until

831
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 1: his bar Metzvill. You know, what I mean, you didn't

832
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: even just born with this right now. What's shocking is

833
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: this area which you guys listening. It's his eyes that

834
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: look exactly like me and mine, and it's so fucking weird.

835
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: It's bizarre, though, It's like he's your kids are just

836
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 1: however you get your kids, whether you adopt them, burd

837
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: them vaginally through C section, whether you surrogate, whatever, however

838
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: you become a mom. I just like, your kid is

839
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: really here to teach you shit. And like, I was

840
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: so blown away that, like a lot of times when

841
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm very conscious my patient is being so challenged, it's

842
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 1: so weird that it's like I'm trying to help guide

843
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 1: someone that like looks like me. It's bizarre, it's crazy.

844
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I'd have an easier time of it

845
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: if he looked like you. I love like when he

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Speaker 1: not only does things that I would do, but he

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Speaker 1: does things that I don't do but want to do.

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Speaker 1: Like when somebody puts food in front of me that

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Speaker 1: I don't want, I just want to slap it away.

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Speaker 1: I don't want that, and he does it. He does that.

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Speaker 1: He's like my hero. We're gonna do one more question, man,

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Speaker 1: there's so many questions. I'm watching it next day. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. And also, you guys, if you like

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Speaker 1: this sort of thing, we can absolutely do this again.

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Speaker 1: I know exactly where Adam Shapiro sleeps and lives. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can always do this. We can do live ones

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Speaker 1: if you guys really like this and faindus informative or

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Speaker 1: Adam's point of view informative which I don't include on

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Speaker 1: the no, but just like follow Katie's grip whatever, and

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Speaker 1: then you could write these questions at any point answer.

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Speaker 1: We'll answer them in the comment. Yeah, we can answer

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Speaker 1: them in the comment. Can we be besties? From missus

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Speaker 1: mother Runner? Done? Mother Runner? Oh? I got to check

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Speaker 1: out her instagram because I like running with Albi in

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Speaker 1: her running with the baby and the three yearl stroller.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty cool. How did you guys meet and how

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Speaker 1: did you find a mutual love for oreos? That's I

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Speaker 1: mean we met through a friend, Lindsey Kraft three mutual

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Speaker 1: friend and then I thirteen years ago she said we're

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Speaker 1: gonna get married and spen the rest of our lives together.

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Speaker 1: We met we did not feel that way, but slowly

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Speaker 1: over time, after keeping on, keeping on and meeting on

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Speaker 1: each other. It was so long, I thought it was

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Speaker 1: so And then how did we find our mutual love

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Speaker 1: for oreos? I think it was right after the first

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Speaker 1: time we had coitus. I offer you a sleeve of oreos.

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Speaker 1: That's not true. That's not true, but that would have

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Speaker 1: been money if I did that. What made you decide

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Speaker 1: to try baby led weaning? Yeah, you know, I I

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Speaker 1: don't even know what that means. So my best friend

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Speaker 1: Amy rose Off Davis, who's been on the podcast, she's

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Speaker 1: six months. It's always awesome if you can have a

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Speaker 1: friend who has like a baby that's six months ahead

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Speaker 1: of you, because you basically just like stop thinking for yourself. No,

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Speaker 1: but when you're so tired you don't know what the

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Speaker 1: fuck you're doing, you can at least send a text

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Speaker 1: to someone who's been through it before. And that goes

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Speaker 1: for like any age. But it's great because she's six months,

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Speaker 1: so she still remembers it. My problem now at a

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Speaker 1: year and a half is some people will text me

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Speaker 1: newborn questions and I'm like, guys, I honestly don't even remember,

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Speaker 1: like it's hard. You're so focused on the right here

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Speaker 1: and right now day to day. So she's six months

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Speaker 1: ahead of me, and so I asked her and she

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Speaker 1: did baby led weaning turned me on. She was like,

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Speaker 1: I read this book. I found it to be very helpful,

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Speaker 1: and like, honestly, that was the reason why I did it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's why you did it, just like you're just taking

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Speaker 1: advice from friends. Last question, SKW. Bradley says, most important

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Speaker 1: advice you'd have for somebody who's expecting their first one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was going to say yes. And to that end, Adam,

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Speaker 1: if you had any advice for my biggest piece of advice,

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Speaker 1: if you're expecting your first one, sure go on Amazon

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Speaker 1: get these like long iPhone cables. They're like really long. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when you're in the hospital giving birth to the baby,

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Speaker 1: you don't necessarily know where the plug is going to be,

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Speaker 1: and you're on your phone a lot because you're calling

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Speaker 1: parents and you're like videotaping and all that stuff. So

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Speaker 1: just get a really long iPhone cable. Other than that,

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Speaker 1: you're just gonna have to figure it out because everybody's

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Speaker 1: experience is totally different. But soaking as much knowledge as

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Speaker 1: you can, then you're gonna forget it all, and then

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Speaker 1: once the baby comes out, you're going to start to

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Speaker 1: read more and go, oh, I remember I learned that.

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Speaker 1: I remember. Oh, that's going to be really useful now,

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Speaker 1: and you'll have like a little bit of a foundation.

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Speaker 1: I want to say thank you so much for being

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Speaker 1: on Katie's Crib. Thank you Live, version, cast version, thanks

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Speaker 1: for having me on this. I love you, Thank you

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Speaker 1: for being I love you Instagram. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for listening and for all of your amazing feedback and

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Speaker 1: tweets and messages and reviews, and for sharing Katie's Crib

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Speaker 1: with all your friends and your family. It means so

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Speaker 1: much to me. Please keep it coming. Check us out

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