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Speaker 1: to other Please, I don't join Jo. You gotta use

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Speaker 1: sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: got a radio show. Yeah, man, boy, God has been

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Speaker 1: You can't either, you know, it's all in perspective. You

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Speaker 1: really can't count all that God has done for you

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Speaker 1: if you look at every little thing. It's unbelievable the

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Speaker 1: things He's done for us. How many times you know,

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Speaker 1: He just he just blessed us with it. How many

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Speaker 1: you know? It's just it's so much that the fact

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Speaker 1: you still going to work you. You know, you live

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Speaker 1: in check the check, but but you're making it all.

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Speaker 1: You got all the plates spinning. You know, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: You got a lot of plates spinning, but you keep

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Speaker 1: a lot of people who just can't seem to mentally

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Speaker 1: isn't in a position that they wanted to be. We

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Speaker 1: angle with you to day. You know, maybe it's you.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about that? Maybe it's you. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it's no external force that's at fault, like you keep

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Speaker 1: making the excuse to be You know, so many people

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Speaker 1: I hear, well, if this hadn't have done this, if

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Speaker 1: I would have been further along. I wasted all my time,

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Speaker 1: my years with this man, and he did this, and

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Speaker 1: I could have been there. Maybe it's you. Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: not really that external force that you keep making it

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Speaker 1: Once again, I'm talking to you about something I know about.

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Speaker 1: I've done this to myself before. I've had the reason

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Speaker 1: if you don't ever let it go, it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: I was listening to Bishop td Jake's one day, and

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Speaker 1: So now instead of you enjoying the blessing of finally

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Speaker 1: has been one of the great accomplishments and joys of

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Speaker 1: for with all this oppressive moments, heartbeat, heart breaks and disappointments.

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Speaker 1: Lord have mercy. I would have never made it without soul.

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Speaker 1: can tell you the stuff I wish I could have skip. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's why you never tell He never shows you the path.

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Speaker 1: Let that spur you on too, Greatness. That's the answer

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Speaker 1: to your question today, y'all have a great day to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvard Morning Show it on and crack as it is.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, coming up at thirty two minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll run that prank back with the

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Speaker 1: Neff cher, I got them be buzz you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, let's go cat. Hello, Hello, trying to

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Speaker 1: speak to Chanie. Shee's on here right now because I

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Speaker 1: take a message. Uh, do you know when she's coming back? Nah?

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Speaker 1: Is this a business calls them? Na? No, this personal.

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Speaker 1: I need to talk to her immediately. No, you need

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Speaker 1: This is? This is Brandon? Who? Who? Who are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm earnest man. But why do you know Schnie? I

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Speaker 1: got a bit of a situation here man. Uh, And

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Speaker 1: it's basically a financial situation that I'm owed some money

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Speaker 1: Where I'm wrong a man? Where I'm wrong? I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: it was her fault. Shirley, Wait a minute, hold up,

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Speaker 1: this segment is called the clo I know this ain't

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Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. Your opinion up? What you quit? A

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Speaker 1: quick checking my answer? You know what you're gonna do?

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Speaker 1: You know what you're fitting to do? Is you fitting

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Speaker 1: to participate in the show as a Christian? And you're

427
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Speaker 1: gonna be a better Christian on this show. I'm just

428
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Speaker 1: saying how I didn't say it was her fault. I'm

429
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Speaker 1: trying to get into it could be her approach. It's

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Speaker 1: just something to think about. I can't fix him because hey,

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Speaker 1: or he ain't listening. But she wrote the letter. I'm

432
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Speaker 1: trying to help her. I'll not keep doing this with you,

433
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Speaker 1: looking on to Daniel and Charlotte. You I had to

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Speaker 1: move out of Tania, okay. Tanya says, I went to

435
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Speaker 1: brunch this weekend with my crew and I slipped in fell,

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Speaker 1: spraining my ankle. My husband picked me up and was

437
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Speaker 1: irritated because I didn't have on any panties. I didn't

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Speaker 1: want penny lines in my dress, so I didn't wear

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Speaker 1: any How can he be more concerned about my panties

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Speaker 1: instead of my sprained ankle. There ain't never been a

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Speaker 1: problem of mine. I care if you have withdrawals or not.

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Speaker 1: I'll clap for you. Give my baby back standing old, Babho,

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Speaker 1: she walked out of you. Where was they aout any pennies?

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Speaker 1: Old went to brunch? Give my baby by standing old

445
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Speaker 1: she walked out of you without any pennies. Ow, we're

446
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Speaker 1: moving on, Missy and Michigan says, I'm dating a forty

447
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Speaker 1: five year old man that uses a lot of body

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Speaker 1: sprays and cologne's. I don't like hugging on him because

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Speaker 1: I smell like him. All day. Where are men supposed

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Speaker 1: to wear cologne on their body? Where are men supposed

451
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Speaker 1: to wear cologne on their body? How do I convince

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Speaker 1: him to allow just to apply just a little bit

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Speaker 1: of it? Well, he needs coaching at this point. He

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Speaker 1: needs coaching. You know. He watches the acts commercials and

455
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Speaker 1: he spreading it on him like a teenager, thinking it's

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Speaker 1: gonna have women more attracted to him. He's basically on.

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Speaker 1: His smelling name is acute as a woman. So he

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Speaker 1: putting it on to he can smell it, and he

459
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Speaker 1: got too much on. You can sit him down and say, hey, baby,

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Speaker 1: you need to pull back on the cologne. Let me

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Speaker 1: show you how to put it on now he said,

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Speaker 1: I can't smell it. Well, it's for other people to

463
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Speaker 1: smell stupid. I mean, have you spread entertainment news? Thank

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Speaker 1: you you're listening. We have a special guest coming up

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Speaker 1: at about twenty minutes after the hour. It's comedian and

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Speaker 1: actress Miss Pat from the Miss Patch show that airs

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Speaker 1: that streams. I'm b et plus this is our first

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Speaker 1: time visiting us. Can't wait to talk to her. And uh,

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Speaker 1: she's funny, funny show, funny show, and she's really really funny. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so can't wait for that. Um. Also an entertainment news,

471
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Speaker 1: Beyonce is at the center of attention again. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: well we all know. Uh, I don't know. Have you

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Speaker 1: seen pastor? His name is Bishop pat Trick Wooten. He's

474
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Speaker 1: condemning her song, church Girl. Take a listen, Beyonce, just

475
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Speaker 1: release sacrilege. The only thing I can account for some

476
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Speaker 1: of this stuff is somebody has sold their soul to

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Speaker 1: the devil. Now, all I can said to you this,

478
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Speaker 1: when you say your soul to the devil, you get

479
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Speaker 1: the short end of the stick. Because you would You're

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Speaker 1: not gonna live but so long. And when you leave

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Speaker 1: here where you're going, you're going to be that fever.

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Speaker 1: So it's not it's not it's not a good deal.

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Speaker 1: I don't care what it gives you. But this piece

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Speaker 1: of shrash, yes, sir, that's release. And she named it

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Speaker 1: church girl? Would she? Oh? Like his voice? Though? I

486
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Speaker 1: can I say something. Yes, I've seen him as a

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Speaker 1: pastor before. Really really good guy, really really great pastor.

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Speaker 1: I've noticed a trend coming from the pool pit a

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Speaker 1: lot lately, whether our pastors who are using all celebrities

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Speaker 1: as examples. Now and it's a growing trend and it's

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Speaker 1: disturbing to me because what is your messaging. And I've

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Speaker 1: listened to the lyrics to the song. I pulled them

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Speaker 1: all up and read them. Pastors, it's a miss. I

494
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Speaker 1: think it's a misassessment of what it is. I don't

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Speaker 1: think Beyonce sold her soul to the devil at all. No,

496
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Speaker 1: not at all, not Beyonce. I think what happened is

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Speaker 1: he doesn't like the fact that she called the church girl.

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Speaker 1: All the people in the church are sinners, all of them. Now.

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Speaker 1: Shed To wrote her song about this church girl that's

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Speaker 1: out there at the club, dropping it like us Hot

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Speaker 1: and Steven. It's on top of a Clark's Sister song

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Speaker 1: Center of Thy Will by the Clark's Sisters and Twinkie.

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Speaker 1: Clark thanked Beyonce for listening to her music and she

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Speaker 1: said it hoped that it blesses her soul. Here you

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Speaker 1: will it will. And then Tank, you know who also

506
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Speaker 1: grew up in church. R and B singer Tank clapped

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Speaker 1: back at the bishop saying, who are you, pastor to

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Speaker 1: question the salvation of Beyonce? He said, who gives you

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Speaker 1: the authority and that right to question what she believes

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Speaker 1: in her heart because of a song on top of

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Speaker 1: a Clark's Sisters record. So see. And and that's another

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Speaker 1: thing too that's disturbing when pastors used these examples. Geno Jennings.

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Speaker 1: Pastor Geno Jennings is like the top of the list guy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know him personally, don't know anything about him.

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Speaker 1: It's just every time I catch a clip of him,

516
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Speaker 1: he's dogging some celebrity, some famous person. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it's for eyeballs or anything. But to this pastor

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Speaker 1: that jumped on Beyonce, if if these lyrics have you

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Speaker 1: upset and you're called in this sacrilege, you must have

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Speaker 1: missed the other menas and other artists. I I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you ain't been listening over the past twenty years,

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Speaker 1: but they got some stuff out here. Boy, church girl

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Speaker 1: ain't nothing. I'm gonna tell you right now. Church girl

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Speaker 1: ain't nothing. Wow. And let's let's be clear about this though. Uh,

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Speaker 1: just so we set the record strate that deacon in

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Speaker 1: the background ain't got nothing on your deacon. Okay, I'm

527
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Speaker 1: just letting you know he ain't. He ain't got nothing

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Speaker 1: on deaf jam motime. I heard that deacon in the background.

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Speaker 1: He's amens and all that he ain't got nothing on

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Speaker 1: to talk about. Beyond says, come on here now, new record.

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Speaker 1: That's right, church good. I want to say I am

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Speaker 1: in total support or sister beyond. Yeah, I know her

533
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Speaker 1: mama and her daddy personally fine folks. Brain to beat

534
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Speaker 1: in and won't you agree with me? Deacon? I agree

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Speaker 1: whole heart? See or church girl, it's just lyrics. Let

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Speaker 1: me see here. I had it a moment ago. I

537
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Speaker 1: lost it. Oh, I lost it, But what can you

538
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Speaker 1: find it? I'm trying now. I'm warning everybody. As soon

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00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: as I get in this party, I'm gonna let go

540
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: or this body, I'm gonna love on me. Nobody can

541
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Speaker 1: judge me but me. I was born free. Finally, or

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Speaker 1: the chorus comes in and saying, drop it like a thought,

543
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Speaker 1: drop it like a thought. I saw no pop in,

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Speaker 1: lock thought it popping. Locker thought it you bad? Or

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Speaker 1: were saying no dropping? Locker thought it dropping? Locker thought

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00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: it you bad? Church girl acting loose? Bad girls? Actor?

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Speaker 1: Snota I said, snotting Proppert Locker thought because I'm a

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Speaker 1: hearted I want to say, if you're a church girl,

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00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 1: come in. You got it like that? Keep it like that?

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Speaker 1: All right? Amen? Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: comedian and actress Miss Pat will be our special guests.

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00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: We'll talk about her show, Miss Pat on b ET

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Speaker 1: Plus right after this. You're listening, everybody, as promise, we

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Speaker 1: got a special guest this morning. This is the first time,

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Speaker 1: but she's about to be family because of her style.

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Speaker 1: We like people like this Hill. I like them. I

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Speaker 1: like them when they as ignorant as I am. Our

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Speaker 1: special guest is comedian star of the Emmy nominated The

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Speaker 1: Miss Pat Show and it streams on b ET Plus.

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Speaker 1: No The Miss Pat Show, y'all is back with season two.

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Speaker 1: Pure grown folk comedy data course involves a lot of laughter, cussing,

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Speaker 1: and relatable topics. Let's find out more about the new show. Please,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show, comedian, Miss Pat. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: coming to ignant. That made my ev You know what,

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Speaker 1: you are ignorant and I'm able to call you that,

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Speaker 1: Miss Patten, because I'm ignorant myself and game. First, how

567
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: did the show come about? Whose idea wasn't Well? It

568
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: took five years, Steve, and we went through several writers.

569
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Speaker 1: I could have been on TV a little early. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, nah, that ain't funny. So after two writers,

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Speaker 1: Lee Daniel because if Lee Daniel Roun hopped the show,

572
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: we'll imagine if Lee Daniels like, I think I found

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Speaker 1: you somebody. He got a twenty six year kid was

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Speaker 1: twenty two at a time, straight out of college, and

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00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: we got together. He was just as ign as I was,

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Speaker 1: and he was like, they need to let you cus.

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00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: I was like, these white people ain't gonna never let

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Speaker 1: a big black woman like me cuse. And he was like, well,

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Speaker 1: you need to leave Fox. And we went over to

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Speaker 1: Hulu and they dropped it and B T plus and

581
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Speaker 1: say Lee, b T plus say oh there's some black stuff.

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Speaker 1: We'll take it. And we're done rock and roll with

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Speaker 1: d T plus ever since, Let's talk about this for

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Speaker 1: a minute, because you haven't been nominated for Emmy for

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Speaker 1: Best Directing the Comedy Series, and the show been making

586
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: history as the first BT show that has ever received

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00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: an Emmy nomination for a Special Series. Now, how does

588
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 1: that make you for me? Yeah? Oh, you know that

589
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: made me ask for a raise. Who know, black phone

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00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: gets something. They were like, we're gonna need I'm gonna

591
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: leave a little bit more money right there. Now, y'all

592
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: have never been on this market. I made people know that, y'all.

593
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: But overall it made me feel great because of what

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00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,280
Speaker 1: this show went through and how people try to change

595
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: me in the beginning. And I told him, I said,

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Speaker 1: I'm no Claire Huxable. Why don't y'all put a real

597
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: mum on TV? Or convicted Felling? I convicted Fellings. I

598
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 1: used to for its check. Why don't it's real mother's

599
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Speaker 1: out there? That won't make me bad because I used

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Speaker 1: to white write white people check. See that means I

601
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: needed money at the time. Yeah, so so people just

602
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 1: want to see real stuff, real topics about the black

603
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Speaker 1: immunity and not water down. You know, all fat girls

604
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Speaker 1: don't get loved that big old black man on that

605
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: TV show loved me because my real husband and life

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00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 1: loved me, and they never show that. They always show

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Speaker 1: up to my old mama who looked like she jogging,

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Speaker 1: eat healthy, Tyler, my teeth late. Hang on, hey, stay

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Speaker 1: right there, hang on, We're gonna come back with more,

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Speaker 1: Miss pat right after this. Don't go nowhere. You're listening show,

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Speaker 1: all right, y'all were Back and I special guests this

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Speaker 1: morning is a comedian and the star of the Emmy

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Speaker 1: nominated The Miss Pat Show. This is the first time

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Speaker 1: d et has ever had a series that's been Emmy

615
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Speaker 1: nominated ever ever. It's groundbreaking, y'all, it's groundbreaking. This is

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Speaker 1: the first I'm telling you. And she's a bad girl.

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Speaker 1: I've been looking at these clips. Man, this this this woman.

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Speaker 1: I hear flat out ass funny. And I love the

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Speaker 1: fact that you told me Miss Pat last break that

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Speaker 1: you wrote forged checks. And I just wanted to say

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Speaker 1: congratulations because we have that in coming. I can't tell

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Speaker 1: you hermy him. You don't have to tell everything. No,

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Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I passed the statue of limitations. I

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Speaker 1: know when I can talk either one. I'm running for presidentially.

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Speaker 1: It's okay. Yeah, but congratulations, you know. Hey, hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: miss Patten. Now you got an interesting cast here because

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Speaker 1: you yeah, I don't know, how did you pick Tammy Roman?

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Speaker 1: Was that a decision of the network. Did you come

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Speaker 1: up with it? Because because it seems like such a

630
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Speaker 1: perfect fit for the show. You know, the the co

631
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Speaker 1: creator when I when I got with him and we

632
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: wrote the pilot behind Fox Back and gave it to

633
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Speaker 1: him and he just pulled out. He said, I know

634
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: who the daddy is and I know who the suos.

635
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: And I looked at Tammy Roman on her Bunney cronnies

636
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 1: and I was like, this girl crazy. I don't want her.

637
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: I had no idea. She was a reality star, unchilled,

638
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: she did shit and I was like, no, reality stars

639
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: can't act, and he's like, she can act, and let

640
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I did not want her. I

641
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: told this story a hundred times when I tell you

642
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: she came in and tucked that role. She tucked that role,

643
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 1: and it's history. We got were like Luci and Elsa, Yeah,

644
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: you are good, very good together. When you're doing the show,

645
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: miss pat, what do you want people? What do you

646
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: want to take away to be? I mean, you know,

647
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,760
Speaker 1: I don't have to be nothing, no viviting or anything.

648
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: But when the person watches your show, what what do

649
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 1: you want them to to have or take away when

650
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: they watch it? You know, it's My show is a

651
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: lot about healing. It's every episode is something that I

652
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: went through. Like this season was all healing. It was

653
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: like chime molestation. It was about role versus way abortion

654
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 1: that I had back when I was young. It's about family,

655
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: So I want them to take away no matter what

656
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: you've been through in your life, you can laugh about it.

657
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 1: When you can laugh about it, you got control of it.

658
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: That's why I put my life out there on display.

659
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: I'm not the only person I've been molested. I did

660
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: a whole whole episode on molestation black hair, how my

661
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: mama told me bid nappy head and I was ugly.

662
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 1: The trauma a little black girl started early. I never

663
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: called my daughter hair because my mom always told me

664
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: my hair was nappy. So I took my daughter to

665
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 1: the beauty part and immediately primed her half because of

666
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 1: what I was talking. So I want people to take

667
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: away healing. It's okay to put your darkest things out

668
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: there and talk about it. Wow. Very nice. Yeah, what

669
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: a little cursing now we talk see this? Try I

670
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: don't see see. I've never seen this in a sitcom before,

671
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: especially Beet. I know I wasn't gonna see it on Fox,

672
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: and Fox was a little more daring than everybody else

673
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: over the years, but never to that extent. I would

674
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: love to do a project like that itself. Um, what

675
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: you want to cuss on family to you, what are

676
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: you trying to call me? Steve? I got some? My deal,

677
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 1: just call me that got some. You know that's my

678
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: vocabulary custom right now. My husband hate to hear me

679
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: say to Pete words, he says, I'm making this custom. Hey, hey,

680
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: if we got two season two coming up, Miss Pat?

681
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: What can we expect on season two? Oh? Like I said,

682
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: black hair from a less station, to my family getting

683
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: wrong everything, that's what true to me. That by me

684
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 1: living in this all white neighborhood and all the trauma

685
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: that I went through. It's a it's a heavy it's

686
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: a heavy season, but it's a funny season. It's a

687
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: funny I guarantee you that. And if you don't believe me,

688
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: just look at Twitter. They ain't stop talking yet me

689
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: For season three, everybody, go to b et plus today

690
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: and make it a habit and start streaming the Miss

691
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: Pat Show. I guarantee you won't be disappointed. This girl

692
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: is funny and above all else, her ass is ignorant

693
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: and that I appreciate more than anything. I appreciate that

694
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: y'all give it up for the Miss Pat. Miss Pratt,

695
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: You're listening show coming up at the top of the hour.

696
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for

697
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: today and the subject is get this guy's he's never

698
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: ever pleased ever No U. We'll find out what that's

699
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: all about in just a minute, but right now the

700
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What you

701
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: got for us? Now? I don't know yet. I'm trying

702
00:44:55,040 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: to go through my archives here, Sharlene and something. Uh

703
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: that old school roller decks, aren't you? Yeah? Yeah, that's

704
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: that's all my stuff written day to day. Ain't nothing online, nothing, junior, Right,

705
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: this is all filed. This is like library. Yeah, these

706
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: pranks are a file. You know what I'm saying. This

707
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: is when you when you go to the what's that

708
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:31,800
Speaker 1: thing you used to go to in the library in

709
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:38,439
Speaker 1: the Oh my god, what is that call? Yeah? Called catalog? Yeah,

710
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: pull it up and it's a screen. That first time

711
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: we was really looking at a screen right there. That's

712
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:50,760
Speaker 1: that right there. But anyway, it's those kind of our caives. Okay, yes, okay,

713
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: it's those kind of our caves. But anyway, this is

714
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: right here is church parking lot, Church parking lot. I'm

715
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 1: looking at the right here in the files Church parking lot. Okay,

716
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,280
Speaker 1: it's written in pencil with a number two pencils church boxes.

717
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: They were represents from Trump. Understand he got a plank

718
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: in here? What is he doing with a prank in now?

719
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: Church parking lot? Let's go cat down. H yeah, Brendan, Hey,

720
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach you. How you doing, uh, Brita.

721
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: I don't want to make sure I got the right person.

722
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: You're the person that uh you work at the at

723
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: the first of all, I go to uh, my name,

724
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: my name, Calvin Brother, Calvin Brother. I go to Saint

725
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 1: Missionary Baptist Church where you yeah, so yeah, so everything,

726
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: everything's fine. Well, I got a little issue and I'm

727
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: trying to get to the bottom of it. Now. You

728
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: work in the full service. Start, you work in the

729
00:46:55,960 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: parking lot one and you tell people where the park

730
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 1: and stuff right right right? Were you looking for some employment?

731
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: You want to you want to join us? Nah? Nah? Nah?

732
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 1: To see the issue I got, Man, I've been dealing

733
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,959
Speaker 1: with this probably about the last two months. Nine. Okay,

734
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 1: hold on, I'm trying to take So the problem is

735
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: when I come to the church. Last couple of months, man,

736
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: I've been I've been coming like my my my my

737
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: regular card and broke down on me. So I had

738
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: I got an old van that I've been about that. Yeah, yeah,

739
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: you know, I got an old van and I've been

740
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: using to get around in so Nah, for the last

741
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 1: two months, I've been riding in it when I come

742
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: to the church. You know you and I find out

743
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 1: who you were. But you keep sending me to the

744
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: back of the parking lot. And then but you know

745
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 1: I noticed now nah, bro no on the reel, so

746
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 1: you're sending me to the back, and I'm noticing when

747
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: I see cars as like two thousand and ten, two

748
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: thousand and fifteen cars. We'll listen. We don't have new

749
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 1: uh set place where we're putt car. You know, I

750
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: just I just direct the traffic. Brother, Okay, So so

751
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: you're trying to tell me for the last two months

752
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: you just direct traffic, but you got but you directed

753
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: me to the back every time. But a car behind

754
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: me or car in front of me, he'll be going

755
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 1: to the front. NA. Where you getting this information from me?

756
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: I just I didn't seen you man or send people

757
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: to the front to park. I haven't seen you do no. No,

758
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: I just I just put you know, the bigger vehicles

759
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: in the in the back. And uh certain you know

760
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: it's really no sketter. If if you come in, I

761
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: just I just direct you to the right the left.

762
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: It's really nothing to it. Really, so you're not trying

763
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 1: to say so. So my my band being a raggedy

764
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: ain't the reason why I'm being No bro, no bro, no, no, no,

765
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: I no, that's not what we're about. Na, Okay, I'm

766
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: sorry you feel that way. I mean, so, I guess

767
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: this Sunday. Let me me. I'm gonna tell you about

768
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: this Sunday. Make no, no, let me tell you right

769
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,919
Speaker 1: now when my van pull up there Sunday. I'm gonna

770
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 1: tell you right now, if I get sent to the back,

771
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna be gonna no,

772
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem if I get sent to

773
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: the back. Now, you don't have to cust to. Just

774
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: just calm down. It's it's not it's not that serious. No,

775
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: it is that serious, because see what's I don't know.

776
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: I know I got a ragged ass band. I know that.

777
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: I know that, but I see that's the reason why

778
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: I'm getting sent to the back. And I know it

779
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: because the car I had before y'all were sending me

780
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: up front, so already. No, I'm just saying. I'm telling

781
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now, it's

782
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: gonna be a problem if I get sent to the back. Brother.

783
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: You just singled me out. And no, no, you know

784
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 1: I didn't single you out. You You are the person

785
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: that has been sending me to the back, dude, No, No,

786
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: I haven't. Hey, man, why are you keep Why why

787
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: are you sending why? Why are you accusing me? I

788
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 1: ain't got because I hadn't seen it. No you are.

789
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: You're calling me. You're calling me out of the blue,

790
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 1: and you're accused me of something that I'm not doing. No, no,

791
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: you just sent my ragged ass vand to the back.

792
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: You didn't done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,

793
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 1: you have done it, heaven, Yes you know I haven't. Yes,

794
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 1: you haven't. You send all the pretty cards up front,

795
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: that's what you're doing. But I tell you what comes

796
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: suddenly gonna be a problem. Now you're threatening me. I

797
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: mean now, now, listen, we can meet up at it.

798
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: We can meet up at it before any cards get there.

799
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: How about that I don't care how you want to

800
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: do it. Brendan, you actually do know how you want

801
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 1: to do it, So bring it then. Okay, I'm letting

802
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: you know my card. Yeah, my van gonna be front

803
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: comes give give ban. It's me and you. How about

804
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: that you want you want? You want to talk tough

805
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 1: tony stuff? Oh oh okay, so you are. You're sweating

806
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: all up now you're all right, so so good down

807
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: like you already did. So I guess I'm matching you. Okay, well,

808
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:43,479
Speaker 1: no problem, I'm listen brother, Brother, listen, You're not gonna

809
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 1: call my phone and threaten me and tell me what

810
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: you what you think I did when I didn't do it.

811
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: I've told you, man, you've been sending me to the

812
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: damn back man as we passed what you thought. Okay,

813
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: what it is? No, it's what I know. It's what

814
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: I know, Brendan, it's what I know. Okay, you didn't

815
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:01,959
Speaker 1: you didn't see it with you at right now? Okay,

816
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: well you know you know where you got working. You

817
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 1: know what. I'll tell you what you now come Sunday.

818
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: That's your dam brand No no, no, no, no, no,

819
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: nobo what you're doing right now what you mean when

820
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm doing right now. I'm at work right now. Oh

821
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: oh so you at work calling me about some bulls

822
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 1: parking spot? Oh okay, oh look at the custom Christian.

823
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: Now look at you. No, look at the custom you no, no, no,

824
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 1: matter of fact you Okay, if you want to do something,

825
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: let's do it now, parking lot. I don't, I don't care.

826
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: We'll be at okay. Okay. That's one thing you're not

827
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: gonna do is disrespect me. I'm telling you that right now. Brother, Calvin,

828
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 1: you bring you, I am gonna fold you like a

829
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: wet piece of paper. You don't know who you're fucking with. Okay,

830
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 1: I hadn't been locked up six seven years. I'm just

831
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 1: in the check try and get my life together. And

832
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: you think you're just gonna talk to me. You got

833
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: another thing coming, brother, I'm gonna tell you that right now.

834
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: So if you want to get it off, meet me

835
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,759
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836
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837
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839
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845
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849
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865
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884
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject He's never ever pleased.

885
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty four years old and I

886
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: own a hair salon in a strip mall. I've been

887
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: hanging out with a thirty eight year old dentist who

888
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: works directly above my salon. I need your advice on

889
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: how to deal with him. He is never ever pleased

890
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: with anything, and the first time we met, he came

891
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: down to my salon and told me to turn my

892
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 1: music down. I told him to relax, and he got mad.

893
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 1: A few days after that, he came back down and

894
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: asked if he could get ado over. He told me

895
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 1: he was very accomplished and listed all the things he

896
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: owned and said he is single because he knows what

897
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 1: he likes and won't settle for less. I was intrigued

898
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: and asked him to go see a movie with me.

899
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: He was displeased with the theater and he said the

900
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: popcorn was burnt. I wore a sun dress and sneakers,

901
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 1: and he said he prefers that women wear their toes out.

902
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: He picked me up and he commented that I live

903
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 1: in a transitioning neighborhood, which to me meant that I

904
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: live in a ghetto. I told him I would let

905
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 1: us comment and slide so we would not argue. We

906
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:06,320
Speaker 1: still hang out, and he's always complaining. He tells me

907
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 1: what I should do with my hair or what I

908
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: should wear when we're hanging out. But the most irritating

909
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 1: thing about him is the sex. Don't get me wrong,

910
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: He's really good in bed, but he told me that

911
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: I fall short of pleasing him the way he is

912
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: used to getting pleased. I do my best, but he

913
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: critiques every sexual encounter we have and tells me what

914
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 1: I need to work on. I have never been told

915
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: that I can't please a man. I love a challenge,

916
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: but I feel like this is his way of controlling me.

917
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 1: Will I ever be able to please him? Probably not?

918
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: But who cares? Are you kidding me right now? Just

919
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: you know this guy, it only matters what you think

920
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 1: of you okay, And most importantly, you still have to

921
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: be yourself. You still have to love yourself. I do

922
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 1: agree with you. I think he is control. His words

923
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: are just full of put downs. You don't need to

924
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: be controlled. You need to be appreciated and respected, And

925
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: according to you, he only criticizes and complaints to you

926
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: and about you. I don't like this guy. I don't

927
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: like him for you, and I hate the fact that

928
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: you think you need to please him. You don't. You

929
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: obviously have things going on for yourself. You must be attractive,

930
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: or he wouldn't have gone out of his way to

931
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: go out with you in the first place. Remember he

932
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: came back down there and asked you for a do over.

933
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: I think you're smart. You have to be smart. You're

934
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: a business owner. You must have to have somewhat of

935
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: a personality because in your business you do have to

936
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: deal with the crazy public, you know, So don't let

937
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: this guy keep putting you down, treating you this way.

938
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: I mean, who does he think he is? Just because he's,

939
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: in his words, a very accomplished dentist, that doesn't mean

940
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: that he knows how to deal with women. I think

941
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: a real man in this case, a gentleman who cares

942
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: about you, would be trying to get to know you,

943
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: would be supportive of you. This guy, I don't think

944
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: he's worth your time. I mean, you may like him,

945
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: but can you imagine being in a relationship or a

946
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: marriage with him. He's he's not gonna change. Okay. He

947
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: is who he is because he doesn't think anything is

948
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: wrong with how he is. And so that's where you,

949
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: I think, should tell him what you're telling us in

950
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 1: this letter. You know about how he criticizes you and

951
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: all that. He's not gonna like it. He's not gonna

952
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: expect this from you because you haven't been letting him

953
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: know how you feel, and you've been letting him get

954
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: away with this. But only you can stop him. So

955
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: you know, until you do that, I say, don't go

956
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: any further with him. Steve, Wow, you know I thought

957
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: this letter wasn't going here, and then the letter with there,

958
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: and then the letter turned back around. He's never ever pleased.

959
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: I think that's the key to this whole thing. This

960
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: thirty four year old woman that owns his hair salon

961
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 1: in a strip mall. You've been hanging out with a

962
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: thirty eight year old dentist who works directly above your salon,

963
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: and now she needs our advice on how to deal

964
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: with him. And she says, point blank, he has never

965
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: ever pleased with anything. And the first time we met,

966
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 1: he came down to the salon and told me to

967
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: turn my music down. I told him to relax. He

968
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: got mad. Then after that he came back downstairs and

969
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: asked if he could do a duover. See what happened

970
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: was he knew who you were. He went downstairs to complain.

971
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 1: That was just the move to come downstairs. But I

972
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: can understand because you got a dentist office upstairs. But

973
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: you handled it perfectly. You told him, hey, look just relax,

974
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: it's no problem. I can turn it down. So you

975
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: did what he needed. And then after that he came

976
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: back and he found out he was wrong, so he said,

977
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: let me do a due over now. When he was

978
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: down there, he was assessing he's a man. He looked around.

979
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: He said, okay, she owns the salon. She fine, hold up,

980
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm tripping. Let me start this over now. After that,

981
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: when we come back, I'm gonna show you what this

982
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 1: whole thing went wrong and how it's gonna stay wrong. Okay, okay,

983
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: all right, sounds good. All right, Steve, hang on. Part

984
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: two of your response is coming up at twenty three

985
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter. Subject He's never

986
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: ever pleased. We'll get back into it right after this.

987
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:49,920
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's

988
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject he's never ever pleased? Well thirty

989
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: four yeall hair salon owner. Obviously a nice looking woman. Attractive,

990
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 1: we'll well put together in terms of ownership. No, having

991
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 1: her life together and everything ownership. Thirty eight year old

992
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 1: dentist upstairs, she has the music up. He comes down

993
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: to complain to the music too lives. He tells them

994
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: to relax, chaves. He turns her music down. He felt

995
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: bad about it. After assessing her song, how fine she was.

996
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: He bought his ass back down there and said, hey,

997
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: can I get a do over my bad? I came

998
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: down here wroung. I ain't know he used on her

999
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 1: my bad. I thought it was the other. Yeah, And

1000
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 1: so anyway he came back and so he told me

1001
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: he was very accomplished, and listed all the things he owned,

1002
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: and said he is single because he knows what he

1003
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:44,439
Speaker 1: likes and he won't settle for lesson. No, no, no, no, no, Doc.

1004
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:48,479
Speaker 1: You're thirty eight year old dentist. You're single because there's

1005
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: something wrong with you. You're single because you ain't found

1006
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: nobody to tolerate you yet. Do you know how many

1007
01:01:56,120 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: good women is looking for good men out here you?

1008
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 1: And it ain't hard to find a good woman man.

1009
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 1: It's a bunch of them, and once they leave that

1010
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 1: baggage at the back door, they can be real good.

1011
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: But now here you come because you say you single,

1012
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: because he knows what he likes and he won't settle

1013
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 1: for less. This is a setup move. Lady. You were

1014
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: intrigued and you asked him to go see a movie

1015
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: with you. He was displeased with the theater. He said

1016
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:28,160
Speaker 1: the popcorn was burnt. Okay, so he's a whiner and complainer.

1017
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,439
Speaker 1: I wore a sun dress and sneakers, and he said

1018
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 1: he prefers to women where they toes out. I understand that.

1019
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm there way too though. You got on a sun dress.

1020
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: I think you should have them toes out. I agree

1021
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: with that one hundred percent, but I'm not gonna tell

1022
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 1: that to a woman on the first date. We're gonna

1023
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 1: work on round to that. But right now, I don't

1024
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: have a right to tell you what I want because

1025
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: you don't belong to me and I don't belong to you.

1026
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: So I can't tell this woman nothing. I got to

1027
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: just deal with it. And he picked me up, and

1028
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 1: he commented that you live in a transitioning neighborhood, which

1029
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: to me meant that I live in together. Well, a

1030
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 1: transitioning neighborhood. You know what that is, and so you

1031
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: read it right, But that's where you live. So so

1032
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 1: a lot of diamonds in the rub. I told him

1033
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 1: I would let his comment slide so we would not argue.

1034
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: We still hang out, and he's always complaining. I just

1035
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: told you he was a complainer. He tells me what

1036
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: I should do with my hair or what I should

1037
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: wear when we're hanging out. See, you're not telling us

1038
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: that you all have already had sex, see this departure.

1039
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: You're not telling us, lady. You keep saying when we

1040
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: hanging out, but you're actually seeing him. And obviously he's

1041
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: a controlling guy and he likes to, you know, implement

1042
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:54,880
Speaker 1: what he wanted at all times. It regardless us to

1043
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: what you want, But the most irritating thing about him

1044
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: is the sex. Here we now we find out this

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01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: hanging out is sex. Don't get me wrong, he's really

1046
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,479
Speaker 1: good in bed, but he told me that I fall

1047
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: short and pleasing him the way he's used to getting pleased. Yeah,

1048
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:12,919
Speaker 1: and let me tell you something. This ain't the first

1049
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: time he'd said this. This is why he's single, because

1050
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: everybody got to please him. I do my best. Okay, okay, okay,

1051
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 1: So you didn't been on debait his whole thing? You

1052
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 1: remember up top, he says, because I know what I

1053
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 1: like and I won't settle for less that intrigued. You

1054
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: see what I mean? So now what a woman started

1055
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: doing is trying to prove that. Like when a man

1056
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: meets you and he tells you why he broke up

1057
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: with his ex, he's trying to get that from you.

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01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: She didn't do nothing for me, She didn't take care

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01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: of me, she didn't love me the way I need it.

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01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 1: Now here you go, well, I'm going to love you

1061
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: the way you need to. It's a setup move so

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01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: he can keep getting what he wants. But you haven't

1063
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: told us anything about what he's doing for you. Right,

1064
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: He's done nothing for you. You just keep trying to

1065
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: prove yourself as someone to be someone he likes and

1066
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: that he don't have to settle no more. I do

1067
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 1: my best, but he critiques every sexual encounter and he

1068
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: tells me what I need to work on. I've never

1069
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 1: been told that I can't please a man. I love

1070
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 1: a challenge. Oh, now here you go. Now you fin

1071
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: to prove him wrong. So now you find the sex

1072
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: are or now you up in here doing some stuff?

1073
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: You really you? You you above and beyond. But I

1074
01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 1: feel like this is the way of controlling me. Will

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01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 1: I ever be able to please him? All right, let's

1076
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 1: answer this left. No, you will not be able to

1077
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: please him ever, because you know why, because he's a manipulator,

1078
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 1: and men who are manipulators do things to manipulate. So,

1079
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: simply put, he always has you trying to prove yourself

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01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: to him, when he, in turn, does nothing to prove

1081
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 1: himself to you. He's selfish, he's controlling, he's self centered,

1082
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: he's overbearing, he's arrogant. All his accomplishments and where you

1083
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 1: live and all this here, y'all, he on top of

1084
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: your stove, y'all in the same damn strip mall. If

1085
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: you're making all that money, why your ass y'all stands

1086
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:31,440
Speaker 1: at the strip mall? You ain't even stole front? All right?

1087
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: Thank you? Steve comments as today Stubert at Steve Harvey

1088
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast.

1089
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: Why you at a strip mall? Why your ass ain't

1090
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 1: in a medical build? Coming up at forty six minutes

1091
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 1: after the hour at Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this,

1092
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:56,920
Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show. All right, here we are. It

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01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: is that time for Junior and Sports Talk. What you

1094
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 1: got Junior? All right, Shirley, But first let me let

1095
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 1: him know. Huntsville, Alabama. You ask fun me when here

1096
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 1: I come Stand Up Live September First, go get your

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Speaker 1: tickets at stand up Live dot com. Your favorite play

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Speaker 1: Couther Finn to come back of food. That's all I

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01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 1: can tell you. If you ain't seen it, you finish

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01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 1: see it now, September one, Huntsville Live, Stand Up Live, Huntsville, Alabama.

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Speaker 1: There it is all right, uncan here we go. The

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01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 1: NBA is set to retire the number six to honor

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01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: Bill Russell. That mean no team, no team will have

1104
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 1: the number six in honor of Bill Russell. H that

1105
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: is that's a very huge accomplish before a brother who

1106
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 1: meant a lot to the NBA. So congratulations to the

1107
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 1: Russell family. Also, UNC, your boy Antonio Brown is back

1108
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 1: in the news. God dog this boy Antonio Browse. Come on,

1109
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: come on, interested in playing for the Cowboys. Tell Jerry

1110
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 1: Jones to call me. Not the way you left Tampa.

1111
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 1: He not. He didn't forgot this whole video. Yeah, I didn't.

1112
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: He didn't forgot all of this appen, not the way

1113
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: you left there, not that the part of you throwing

1114
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 1: the end zone, not the running around the stadium in

1115
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 1: New York. Did a whole flipping end zone. I thought

1116
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 1: I thought he was the president of don the Sports don't. Yeah,

1117
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 1: he said it. Ain't tell Jerry Chelse to call me,

1118
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 1: Jerry Jones to call you. Go. You feel to be

1119
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: playing for one hundred and twelve thousand a year, ain't

1120
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: no fight? Man, must one hundred and twelve thousand a year.

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01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 1: Your ass gonna get paid per route? Random, Yeah, she

1122
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 1: s per route. That mean in the season, your ass

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01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 1: gonna be moving blocking plays don't count. Also, man, my boy,

1124
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: prime time, Man, what prime is funny to me? Man

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01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 1: Dan saying this man Dan said to say, the Hall

1126
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:04,600
Speaker 1: of Fame is enshrined it now, good players. Man, you

1127
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:07,800
Speaker 1: saw that. Man then said he want his bust of

1128
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 1: himself to be put on a hot to being put

1129
01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,439
Speaker 1: on a high plane. He don't want to be on

1130
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 1: the same level as everybody because they're only in the shrine.

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01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 1: Good players. Now, I don't know how they gonna do that,

1132
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: But Prime won't hear is to be elevated because he's

1133
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 1: a Hall of famer. He's not a good player. Don't

1134
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 1: put me on the same level at the people coming in. Now,

1135
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 1: that's what I know. Man and last man Brittany Grinder's

1136
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:38,599
Speaker 1: defensive team thousand appeal of conviction for nine years today

1137
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 1: yesterday in court and Russia. Now here's an interesting thing

1138
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 1: about that. They're pilling it. We knew they would. But

1139
01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: normal time giving for the crime that she committed for

1140
01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 1: other people is five years, with a third of them

1141
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 1: getting parole. And she may be used as a political

1142
01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:58,519
Speaker 1: pawn right now, yea, everybody that's getting five So what's see?

1143
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:02,200
Speaker 1: What else happening? All right, junior? Thank you. Coming up next,

1144
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 1: we'll talk about Steve's recent golf trip. Right after this.

1145
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:13,760
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve. You know how much we

1146
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 1: love to hear about your trip and you had a

1147
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:21,640
Speaker 1: golf trip to Florida because well, but you know, for

1148
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 1: the first time, I went somewhere by myself. What huh,

1149
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 1: no security, what I ain't going no friends. I went

1150
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:39,000
Speaker 1: by myself, and I'm gonna do it more often because man, yourself,

1151
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,560
Speaker 1: you like hanging out with I like me. Uh, you know,

1152
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm really a cool person. Man. Yeah, you know me

1153
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 1: and me and me and me, we like the same thing, right,

1154
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 1: you know me and you know you don't argue with me. Yeah,

1155
01:10:55,520 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 1: you know, me and myself will't ever fall out. Myself.

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01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:02,560
Speaker 1: Elf usually like to do the same thing that I

1157
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: like to do. You know, you know I was. I

1158
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: was telling myself the other every morning where I wanted

1159
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: to eat, and myself wanted to go to the same place.

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01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:16,879
Speaker 1: What you know, then, me, I told, I told myself,

1161
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 1: I said myself. He said, yeah, me. I said, I'm

1162
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: gonna have the guy bring me up just a bowl

1163
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:27,720
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna eat CeAl this morning, myself said Cyril. Man,

1164
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: me too. I ain't had seal in a long time.

1165
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 1: So on the way back from Florida. You know, I

1166
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: drove and I just I said, you know what I

1167
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:41,080
Speaker 1: want myself and myself said what me? And I said,

1168
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 1: I want to stop at five house. So and I

1169
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: stopped and I bought the meat ball and I bought

1170
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:52,600
Speaker 1: the fire engine. Y'all bought both of them so I

1171
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: could make sure I did they taste right, one for

1172
01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:59,000
Speaker 1: yourself and one for your meat. Yeah. Me had the

1173
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 1: meatball and myself had the fire engine, and everyone's just

1174
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 1: an incredible moment, man, I said. Man. And then so

1175
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna invite ie h next time we go, because

1176
01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: I didn't take I just took me and myself. But

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01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take me, myself and Eye next time. And

1178
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 1: because I was pissed off, I said them, they asked

1179
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:25,560
Speaker 1: me to go, and I said no, and me and

1180
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: myself was just sitting over the aven good ass time

1181
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:31,600
Speaker 1: because I sometimes I think he the boss, you know,

1182
01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 1: And so we didn't want to take Eye ass with

1183
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 1: us this time because I'd be out the pocket and

1184
01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 1: I had a third uh huh yeah, what what did

1185
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 1: what did you guys talk about it? In the car

1186
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 1: and the drive man, you know, we was watching Netflix.

1187
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 1: He drove No, I didn't drive. I was ride. Oh

1188
01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 1: I got a sprinter, so I was watching Netflix. Uh,

1189
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 1: but it was a grueling ass drive back because my

1190
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:05,680
Speaker 1: AD wasn't working right in the back room. Ain't for you, Huh.

1191
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 1: I was back there rassling, tossing and turning like I

1192
01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 1: was in a bad dream. That so then I had, Oh, yeah,

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01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 1: it's it's it's made. This last trip, ain't damn my ass.

1194
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna care after damn compressor come home or night.

1195
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 1: But I enjoyed myself. Man, I was a lone. Yeah, man,

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01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't play one round the golf. No, no, man,

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01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:36,040
Speaker 1: I just took lessons. Oh, because it was a golf trip,

1198
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 1: you took lessons? Yeah, I just I gotta I gotta

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01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:42,040
Speaker 1: change some things. Man, I don't play enough golf, he said,

1200
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 1: So what do you want to do? I said, I

1201
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 1: want to change my golf swing? He said why? I said, Well,

1202
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:49,160
Speaker 1: here on the one I got ain't one for damn,

1203
01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 1: Why would I keep it? Why we keep fixing that one?

1204
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 1: That one obviously not working. So give me another one

1205
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:58,760
Speaker 1: something I could do something with. And then you know,

1206
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 1: so that's it. It's hard to change your golf swing.

1207
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:04,000
Speaker 1: You've been golfing as long as me and I've done

1208
01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 1: so many wrong things. Man. When this guy showed me

1209
01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: the way you really swing a golf club, I went,

1210
01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 1: what really, dog, I said, do this, dude, I understand

1211
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: the sport I'm trying to play. I never knew. So

1212
01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: now I have a lot of drills. I got to

1213
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 1: get myself together. But you know, we'll see. I had

1214
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 1: a great time though, man. I really enjoyed myself, and

1215
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:26,600
Speaker 1: I suggest to people, if you really want to have

1216
01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:30,080
Speaker 1: a good time, just take me and myself with you.

1217
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: Don't take I me myself and I I I want this.

1218
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 1: I said that, then you have trouble. Just take me

1219
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:45,679
Speaker 1: and myself and y'all have a good time. All right, Steve,

1220
01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:50,760
Speaker 1: thank you. We'll have more show. Yeah, but don't take

1221
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 1: idle at twenty minutes after you're listening. All right. We

1222
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: don't hear these two often, but here we go. Here's

1223
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:07,280
Speaker 1: a bad mom story. A worker inside an Ohio convenience

1224
01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 1: store says she saw a six year old boy walk

1225
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: into the store while drinking a bottle of a malt

1226
01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,639
Speaker 1: liquor drink. She was shocked an ass a little boy

1227
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: if he knew what he was drinking. He told her, Yep,

1228
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 1: this is me and my mommy's favorite beer. We drink

1229
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:28,080
Speaker 1: it all the time. What, Junior, I should have had

1230
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 1: you do that part? Man? Oh yeah, yep, this is

1231
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 1: me and my mommy's favorite beer. We drink it all

1232
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:40,880
Speaker 1: the time. Say that, Junior. Yep, just me and my

1233
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: mommy favorite beer. The worker. The worker then called the

1234
01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:50,640
Speaker 1: police and told him to buy whatever he wants. He

1235
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 1: picked out some candy. The little boy did a package

1236
01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:56,840
Speaker 1: of doughnuts and toothpaste and a bottle of mouthwash. Now,

1237
01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:59,560
Speaker 1: when the police arrived, the mom told them it was

1238
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 1: all an accident and she was allowed to go home

1239
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 1: with the boy. Later, the police went to the home

1240
01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 1: to check on the boy and found him riding a

1241
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 1: scooter while drinking another malt liquor drink. This time, the

1242
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 1: cops arrested the mother and charged her with child in

1243
01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 1: endangering and contributing to the delinquency of a child. So good,

1244
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:24,759
Speaker 1: they only sail malt liquor in two places, the hood

1245
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 1: and trailer parks. Okay, so give me your thoughts. What

1246
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 1: was this one? App This sound like ye trailer Paul?

1247
01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 1: This guy trailer Park wrote on it all right, coming

1248
01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 1: up with thirty three minutes after we'll play a round

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Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this you're listening to guys,

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Speaker 1: it is time now for a round of would you rather?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather if you were in this position, use

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Speaker 1: a dating app? Or go on a blind date? Dating

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Speaker 1: app or blind date? Let me do the day now,

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Speaker 1: I at least see what I'm going to do now. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I go on the blind date of Drake picking him. Hey,

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Speaker 1: uncle Steve, I got one for you. Okay, break I

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Speaker 1: track that boy. Don't met Yeah, only if it's Drake

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Speaker 1: that's setting up the blind date? Who? I don't know

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Speaker 1: that out don't know Drake? What? I ain't never met him? Wow? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that. You knew everybody? All right? Would

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Speaker 1: you rather be happy, wealthy? Or healthy? Would you rather

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Speaker 1: but healthy? Wealthy? Them? Free? Gotta pick one? Would you

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Speaker 1: rather be one of one of these? If I'm wealthy,

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Speaker 1: I'm healthy, I promise you. If you three, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: take that wealthy Steve. Now I'm gonna take healthy. Huh.

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Speaker 1: I could work from there. I could work it from there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you ain't, man, Let me tell you something you're wealthy

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Speaker 1: and you ain't and you ain't healthy. You you give

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Speaker 1: all your money up to be healthy. Huh. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go with this healthy. I'm gonna get a shot. Though

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Speaker 1: it's wealthy as beyond rich. I'm gonna get out a shot.

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Speaker 1: I ain't wealthy and unhealthy now, hell you're talking about

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Speaker 1: I got to go with this wealthy going a good one?

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Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather be on an airplane between

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Speaker 1: two arguing paths and you're in that middle seat between

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Speaker 1: two arguing path passengers, or would you rather sit next

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Speaker 1: to a screaming baby. I'm gonna take that baby, because

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Speaker 1: because at that middle seat something else I can't. I ain't.

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Speaker 1: I'm one of them licks gonna hit me. I got

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Speaker 1: to get this baby. They're just arguing. No see, but

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna be agging cross meeting because all this

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Speaker 1: fitting to stop. I'm gonna gonna take that screaming baby

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Speaker 1: because all this go, all this agging over me gonna

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Speaker 1: result in a fight, all right. Last one, would you

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Speaker 1: rather have unlimited pizza for life or unlimited tacos for life? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Unlimited pizza pizza? All right? That's today's brown meat and

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Speaker 1: cheese be real coming up next, it's our last break

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Speaker 1: of the day and at forty nine minutes after some

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Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening here, we are guys, our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day. Before we get to your closing Steve,

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Speaker 1: we want to say thank you so much to miss

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Speaker 1: Pat from the Mispatch Show. Yeah, streaming right now. What

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Speaker 1: a great guest and yeah she comes better than you.

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Speaker 1: Can't pay for it too, no problem, congratulations. Hey listen,

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Speaker 1: I have some closing remarks. After spending some time last

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Speaker 1: week with myself, I came away with some great takeaways

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Speaker 1: and it's a it's really really hard, I know, for

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Speaker 1: the average person to take time today's self. It's really

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Speaker 1: really hard for me because I have so many things

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Speaker 1: attached to my life. I have such a huge life

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Speaker 1: and I and I realized it, and I do realize

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Speaker 1: it when I try to set this life down sometimes

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Speaker 1: and just give it a rest. Everybody needs a rest,

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Speaker 1: everybody needs a break, everybody needs some time today's self.

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Speaker 1: But my team did the best they could without bothering

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Speaker 1: me with stuff that was the day to day. They

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Speaker 1: only text me if it was pressing and they had

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Speaker 1: to have a response, and I'm the only one that

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Speaker 1: can give them a response, so they played it. So

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Speaker 1: I wasn't bombarded with a lot of stuff last week.

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Speaker 1: I was still a lot of request was coming in,

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Speaker 1: but not the usual amount. And even though what I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you, I know it's difficult to do. It's difficult

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Speaker 1: to just take some time for yourself, but it's imperative.

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Speaker 1: And I discovered that I really have to do it more,

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Speaker 1: and I really really have to discover that I have

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Speaker 1: to just do more more things for me. I do

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Speaker 1: so much, and a lot of women can relate to this,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of men. You do so much for

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Speaker 1: other people that you look up at the end of

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Speaker 1: the day and you ain't done nothing for yourself. You

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Speaker 1: take care to kids, you take care of the house,

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Speaker 1: You take care of your man, You take care of

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Speaker 1: your wife, You take care to kids. You go to work,

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Speaker 1: you take care of bills. You come home, you take

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Speaker 1: care of the yard. Something happening with the car, you

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Speaker 1: gotta go see about that. Something happening up at the school,

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Speaker 1: you gotta go see that. Then, if you got a child,

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Speaker 1: it's got some extra curriculum activities. Now you gotta support

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Speaker 1: that because that's your job, because your child can't get

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Speaker 1: that unless you take them that. And it's just it

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Speaker 1: gets to be a lot. But you can't forget about

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Speaker 1: you because without you, this whole thing don't really work.

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Speaker 1: So every now and then, I can't tell you how often,

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Speaker 1: or I can't tell you how to make it happen,

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Speaker 1: but you've got to take some time to get with

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Speaker 1: just yourself. And you know what it does, like, it's

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Speaker 1: sort of refreshing me because you get to reintroduce yourself

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Speaker 1: to yourself. You know, it's kind of good to get

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Speaker 1: to know yourself. Think your thoughts, respond the way you

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Speaker 1: want to respond to respond, Sit where you want to sit,

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Speaker 1: look out the window, look out at the water, look

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Speaker 1: out at the park, look out in your backyard, and

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Speaker 1: just have your own thoughts. That is such a cool

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Speaker 1: thing to do. You don't spend a lot of time

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Speaker 1: meditating and praying. You know, I finally took me a

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Speaker 1: long time, but I just learned this a couple of

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Speaker 1: years ago. The difference between meditation and prayer. Prayer is

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Speaker 1: talking to God. Prayer is talking to God, putting in

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Speaker 1: request of God, telling God about your gratitude, your thoughts,

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Speaker 1: your dreams, your ambitions, your goals. It's saying thank you, prayers,

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01:23:50,520 --> 01:23:56,919
Speaker 1: talking to God. But meditating is different. Meditating is listening

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Speaker 1: to God. Get yourself somewhere in the old place and

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Speaker 1: be quiet and ask God and ask his spirit to

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Speaker 1: just talk to you, to calm you, to give you peace,

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Speaker 1: to keep you enclosed in the right mind, to just

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Speaker 1: give you, to help you with your decisions, you know,

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Speaker 1: to just sit there and listen to what He has

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Speaker 1: to say. Bishop Kenneth Olmer out in Los Angeles taught

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Speaker 1: me one of the most valuable lessons I've ever heard.

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Speaker 1: You know how you have people come up to you

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Speaker 1: and they may say God told me to tell you this,

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Speaker 1: or God told me to tell you that. You've ever

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Speaker 1: heard people come up to you like that. I'm always

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Speaker 1: literally when people come up to me and say, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad I met you, because God wanted me to

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Speaker 1: tell you this. You know what he told me that

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Speaker 1: rings true. I was asking, I said, man, how do

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Speaker 1: you know it's God that's telling you something. Bishop Kenneth

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Speaker 1: Olmer said, because God's voice has no sin in it.

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Speaker 1: Because I've heard people say I'm gonna go down there

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Speaker 1: and tell him. The Lord talk to me, and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go down there and tell them what's on my mind. God,

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Speaker 1: they never told you to go down there and telling

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Speaker 1: people off. God ain't never told you to go down

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Speaker 1: there and show them who the boss is. God don't

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Speaker 1: tell you to go down there and bust out no

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Speaker 1: car window. God. God ain't told you to post something

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Speaker 1: wrong about a person. God ain't never told you the

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Speaker 1: secret revenge. God ain never told you to go down

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Speaker 1: there and show nobody up, embarrass nobody. God's voice has

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01:25:34,080 --> 01:25:37,160
Speaker 1: no sin in it. So when people come up to

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Speaker 1: you and they talk to you, and they saying that

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Speaker 1: God told me to tell you this, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: always interesting. Because I talk to God every day. I

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Speaker 1: hardly ever miss a day. So when a person comes

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Speaker 1: up to me and tell me what God told him,

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Speaker 1: he didn't even tell me that I would be talking

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Speaker 1: to you today. And now some people do have messages,

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Speaker 1: but a lot of them don't, So be conscious of it.

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Speaker 1: Take some time out for yourself, don't forget to pray, meditate,

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Speaker 1: spend some time alone, get to know yourself and remember

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Speaker 1: something about prayer. Prayer works. So don't forget to pray,

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Speaker 1: don't be ashamed to pray, and don't ever be too

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Speaker 1: proud to pray, because prayer, prayer changes things. Okay, those

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Speaker 1: are my closing remarks today. Hey, look, talk to God today, y'all.

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Speaker 1: He'd love to hear from you. He's hot for all.

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Speaker 1: Steve Every contests no purchase necessary, avoid where prohibited. Participants

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