WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper

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<v Speaker 1>Second, d is it possible to be too hot to

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<v Speaker 1>date asking for a friend? Yes, nobody in this room. Seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>if you look on TikTok right now, there's all these

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<v Speaker 1>videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach

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<v Speaker 1>them because guys are too intimidated. Oh my god, my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend is gorgeous and she always had that problem. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just got to talk to him. It was all

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<v Speaker 1>part of posing his hashtag ask a hot girl out

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<v Speaker 1>without peeing yourself challenge. Yeah, didn't go. Yeah, that might

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<v Speaker 1>be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, is

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<v Speaker 1>facing in her love life right now. She's worried maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she was too attractive during her first date. Oh my god. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll try not to make fun of you right out

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<v Speaker 1>of the gate. I don't feel sorry for you already.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to learn more. How are you doing? I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just this was a one knife phenomenon. I

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<v Speaker 1>am not that hot like a true hot girl. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>let's hang up on this girl. We're just joking around

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Tell us about the guy that you ended

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<v Speaker 1>up going out with. What's his name? His name is Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if you could call it. Going

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<v Speaker 1>out last week, I was supposed to meet up with

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<v Speaker 1>my friend just get some drinks or whatever. Girls nights. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have this thing where I like to wear these

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<v Speaker 1>one piece outfits now, like a jumper, Like a jumper

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<v Speaker 1>yeah yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you zip

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<v Speaker 1>up from the foot all the way to the next

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I wish they had a zipper down

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<v Speaker 1>the law because go to the bathroom in a jumper

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<v Speaker 1>is really okay, So sorry, keep going, You're you're looking good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm saying as the bar, waiting for my friend

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<v Speaker 1>and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like

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<v Speaker 1>sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me, like okay girl.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's this one guy in particular who was just

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<v Speaker 1>like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he

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<v Speaker 1>was even wearing like the outfit my high school crush

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<v Speaker 1>you store it that was like my favorite outfit with

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<v Speaker 1>like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt. And

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<v Speaker 1>he had a beard just like he was way taller

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<v Speaker 1>than me. It's it's cool that you got over him.

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<v Speaker 1>So did the approach you? Then? No? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I said, I was really feeling myself, so

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<v Speaker 1>I went up to him. Okay, as you watch all

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<v Speaker 1>the other boys be jealous, not cool, never been in

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<v Speaker 1>your situation in that? How did it go? Well? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's where it gets a little bit weird because I've

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<v Speaker 1>never had anything like this happened to me before. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm sitting with him and I'm chatting with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm clearly into him. And the bartender comes over

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<v Speaker 1>an inch abrupts because some other guys sent me a drink. Oh, bron,

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<v Speaker 1>while you're talking to the guy that you wanted. Compare

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<v Speaker 1>did a guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you.

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<v Speaker 1>She walked to you, but I still got her attention

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<v Speaker 1>over here. Did he seem to like that, like as

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<v Speaker 1>like a challenge or did he seem to be put

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<v Speaker 1>off by it? I mean, he had a beard, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty hard to tell. Was he mostly beard idea?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just actually more like five o'clock shadow. That

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<v Speaker 1>was like a little bit awkward. So I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>used that as an opportunity to like show him that

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<v Speaker 1>I was into him. So I kind of looked at

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<v Speaker 1>the other guy like thanks, but what the heck? And

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<v Speaker 1>just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually feel but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again.

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<v Speaker 1>What whoa wa? Same dude? Like, same dude. I just

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<v Speaker 1>can't new different dude. Why can you send me a

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<v Speaker 1>link to your jumps that I had like some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of magical magnetism going on, and I just I just

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<v Speaker 1>I just like saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, captain,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking about setting you a drink right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me seem like the coolest place it's got Captain's

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<v Speaker 1>it's got Lumberjacks Brooks over in the vaccine, Like, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you do it? Because I'm out of your comment.

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<v Speaker 1>How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did

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<v Speaker 1>that end? Well? I mean eventually my friend let me

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<v Speaker 1>know that she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually fine. I forgot about and we hung out for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the night, had a fantastic night. He

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<v Speaker 1>gave me his number, I gave him my number, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean that's basically Ben. Did you ask him

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<v Speaker 1>if he was single? Like point blank? Oh my god, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I have not actually this because even if he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>interested in you, the fact that you were like literally

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<v Speaker 1>swatting other men away in front of him and then

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<v Speaker 1>telling him you were so interesting like that alone would

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<v Speaker 1>make a guy just him. I've been sirizing because obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking about nothing but since and maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>like stalked me online and is like, Okay, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>always that hot. Oh it's like when they turn the

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<v Speaker 1>lights on at the end of the night of the

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<v Speaker 1>bar and you're like, oh, do you have to understand?

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<v Speaker 1>Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to put an outfit together. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>no effort. They're really so it's like I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to make up. Yeah, that's true. I'm with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you and your magic onesie. Hold on, we're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song. We'll we'll call Ben for you, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>try and get your second date update. Okay, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly feeling very selfconscious. Hold one date. You're in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second day update update, and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>find out how the couple is doing right after you

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<v Speaker 1>here part two. Hey, if you're just joining us, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the sequel to Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream

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<v Speaker 1>listen and the magic dude attracting one link because she

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<v Speaker 1>went out and wore there's one specific jumper that made

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<v Speaker 1>her look real fine that night. So guys at the

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<v Speaker 1>bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing,

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<v Speaker 1>except it was happening while she was sitting down with

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<v Speaker 1>the one dude that she really wanted to be with,

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<v Speaker 1>a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard

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<v Speaker 1>than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all that attention

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<v Speaker 1>from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben

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<v Speaker 1>and it could have scared him away. How could a

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<v Speaker 1>guy with a beard like that be intimidated. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe his beard got caught on the door and he shot.

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<v Speaker 1>He can't get home to make the call to you,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's find out here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds right. Hey is this Ben the beard? What

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? Ben? Ben with a beard? Uh? This Ben?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is He's not? Sorry? He sounded exactly like I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, Yeah, Ben just flustered everyone in the road.

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<v Speaker 1>Then Sorry, my name is Jeff Um, I also have

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<v Speaker 1>a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I

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<v Speaker 1>host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Uh. You can also hear us on podcast too,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to look us up on like Spotify,

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<v Speaker 1>any of that. We're there. Uh all right, cool, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all we wanted to say. Thanks for your time. Then, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're really calling because we're doing something called a second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update and we're trying to help one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners get ahold of you. Okay. Her name's Kristen. You

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<v Speaker 1>met her out at the bar the other night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't really at first date. Yeah, uh I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a

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<v Speaker 1>really cute jumper one. Most guys don't recognize that stuff. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I do know. I know who that

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<v Speaker 1>girl is. Yeah, to talk to her, she sounded awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>like funny. She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really fun. Yeah, she's super fun. She's great. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry she told you that we hung out or something.

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<v Speaker 1>She told a radio station that we hung out she

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<v Speaker 1>said that she met you out at the bar the

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<v Speaker 1>other night and was having a really nice time, and

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<v Speaker 1>then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's curious, why, Wow, this is this is so crazy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener.

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<v Speaker 1>Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of messed up. What did she do something to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I was the situation was like I

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<v Speaker 1>saw her at a bar and like she came over

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<v Speaker 1>to me and we started chatting and she was really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, she got like a drink from another guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, Okay, she mentioned that to us a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that something that intimidated you? I mean not really

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<v Speaker 1>not at first. I mean I thought it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of funny that a dude was doing that. But when

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<v Speaker 1>it happened again, because it happened like a second time,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh, I don't know, this is ridiculous. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but how are you How are you blaming her? It's

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<v Speaker 1>not her thought. So like the situation that happened was

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<v Speaker 1>like she had to leave for a hot second to

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<v Speaker 1>step out to like talk to her friends, because against

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<v Speaker 1>the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I

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<v Speaker 1>like walked over to the guy who had set the drinks. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, hey, do you mind not doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm talking to the squirrel right now. And it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what makes me look a little bad, or

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like you're being competitive, which is like so

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<v Speaker 1>childlike that's not bad to go talk man to man

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<v Speaker 1>real quick and to say, hey, rod, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're not causing a scene, right you want

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<v Speaker 1>to rustle beards over me if he's like, back off,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>talk with her, and you know, I think she's interested

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<v Speaker 1>in me. So what did he say? He said he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't send it. What Oh, so then you just obviously

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<v Speaker 1>got the wrong dude, Yeah, like it was somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>The bartender said it wrong. No, because it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>bartender pointed to the guy out, Oh yeah, because here

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<v Speaker 1>across the room. So the bartender was like, from him,

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<v Speaker 1>So you went to the bartender. So I walked over

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<v Speaker 1>the bartender and I had the bartender and he was

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't really disclose that. What I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>just pointed the dude out just to start a fight

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<v Speaker 1>or something, was what did you say? It was just

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<v Speaker 1>weird that he was being coy and I called that out.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, why do you carry you literally pointed

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<v Speaker 1>the guy out before, And that's when he told me,

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<v Speaker 1>which is that I guess this is something that she

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<v Speaker 1>does that Kristen does. She pays the bartender to like

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<v Speaker 1>send a drink to herself from some random guy every Like, Oh, really,

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<v Speaker 1>do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that works. Okay, you think that's true? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Because the second he like admitted it, he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes

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<v Speaker 1>in and does this every month or so. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Like he he didn't for like a few months. Heard though,

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of nice. Yeah, yeah, so you think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a red flag? You don't think it's just kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so justful. It's so weird that I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's just trying to pump up her own confidence that

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<v Speaker 1>some people need that, especially if they're going to go

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<v Speaker 1>approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to

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<v Speaker 1>do as a woman. True, it's I mean, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>so outland as you guys are all believing it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still not sure if this is actually true. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you should just ask Kristen directly. Kristen, did you

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<v Speaker 1>pay the bartender to send you drakes? Of course not,

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<v Speaker 1>that's ridiculous. Oh, christ Ben, I forgot to tell you, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>since on the other line listening, she wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. This is so embarrassing. I'm embarrassed, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is embarrassing for everyone, honest. Okay, first of all, that

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<v Speaker 1>is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would never

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<v Speaker 1>do that. But let's say theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe. I was listening and Ben's all like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's messed up, And I'm like, have you never seen

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<v Speaker 1>the movie Clueless? Remember she sends herself chocoless and flowers. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>they were in high school. I don't think they could

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<v Speaker 1>be in a year for somebody that's denying it. You

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<v Speaker 1>sure do know a lot about this system. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys the magician never reveals their secrets. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>not even that cute, then I'm trying to like, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that here's the thing doesn't even matter, Like who cares?

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<v Speaker 1>She sounds awesome. I mean you can kind of hear

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<v Speaker 1>what she's saying right now. She's making it like it's

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<v Speaker 1>not that big of a deal, but she's like not

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<v Speaker 1>owning up to it. But she kind of is owning

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<v Speaker 1>up to it. If you're starting off on the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that

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<v Speaker 1>right off the bat, so um, you are, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're taking this really really seriously, considering we

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<v Speaker 1>were a couple of random strangers that met in the

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<v Speaker 1>bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>know you all right, Well, then if you think that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking it too seriously, then just own up to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'll ask you again, did you do it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course I did. Yeah, I love it. Though it's

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<v Speaker 1>like all of us and said she didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It works. It's what Dane is. It's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>yourself look the best. She just used a different method. Why, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do need to let Ben know that there's another woman

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<v Speaker 1>who wants to send you a gift card to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. Would you like that gift card? Ben?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, one up. But you

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<v Speaker 1>have one strike against you right now. You know when

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<v Speaker 1>you want a warning? Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah, okay. Agree.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I have never ever cheated or anything like

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<v Speaker 1>that any ever my life. You have to insist that

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<v Speaker 1>no one asked. Starting to worry Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a few months since we did that second date,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back

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<v Speaker 1>on with us today to get an update on their situation.

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<v Speaker 1>But we don't. Only Ben agree, Kristen actually sent us

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<v Speaker 1>an email calling Ben a bunch of names. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why, but Ben, can you shed some light on

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<v Speaker 1>the situation? Tell us what happened? Would you do? Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling sweetheart and babe.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what happened, dude. I mean, I absolutely know

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<v Speaker 1>why she refuses to be on the phone. Um, it's

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<v Speaker 1>because we went to some sort of bar, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was a different one then we went to on the

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<v Speaker 1>first tape obviously for obvious. Yeah, yeah, we gave you

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<v Speaker 1>a gift certificate. So what happened? Yeah, yeah, yeah no.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, you know, I thought it would

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<v Speaker 1>be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect, it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny,

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<v Speaker 1>which is I decided to pull the same joke that

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<v Speaker 1>she pulled on me. Over you had you had pretend

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<v Speaker 1>women sending you drinks exactly, That's it. I got there

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<v Speaker 1>early and I told the bartender. I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to sit over there. Just's my credit card

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll see when my date comes in. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you wait like five minutes, and then can you

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<v Speaker 1>bring me a vodka soda and sit like point to

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<v Speaker 1>the cutest girl in the bar like say it's from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mind that? That's exactly what she did. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right, But

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<v Speaker 1>then when the burstender did it, she was furious. Why

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<v Speaker 1>why was she so mad? Did she think you were

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<v Speaker 1>making fun of her or I don't think that she

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<v Speaker 1>really got the joke at first, and I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>have much of the time to kind of explain it

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<v Speaker 1>because she just marched right over to the woman. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to kind of play damage control, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like rushed up as well, and I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, like it was a joke, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she like got in my face for a hot second. Whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>she was the one that came up with this joke.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not as funny when a guy does it. She

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<v Speaker 1>seems so cool, not so unstable. That's what happens with

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<v Speaker 1>all those cool girls. They're cold nightmares the next bunny.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was at the end, well yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she just got a little bit of her

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<v Speaker 1>own medicine and she's not really returning my calls, so

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she really was doing it because she had kind

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<v Speaker 1>of maybe some self esteem. Okay, poor thing is dang it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a bummer, but whatever. Yeah, did you get

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<v Speaker 1>that woman's number that sent me the drink? If I

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<v Speaker 1>can get it, will you guys help me out with

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update? Oh for sure. It obviously went

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<v Speaker 1>so well the first time jeffre in the morning,