Speaker 1: Second, d is it possible to be too hot to
Speaker 1: date asking for a friend? Yes, nobody in this room. Seriously,
Speaker 1: if you look on TikTok right now, there's all these
Speaker 1: videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach
Speaker 1: them because guys are too intimidated. Oh my god, my
Speaker 1: best friend is gorgeous and she always had that problem. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just got to talk to him. It was all
Speaker 1: part of posing his hashtag ask a hot girl out
Speaker 1: without peeing yourself challenge. Yeah, didn't go. Yeah, that might
Speaker 1: be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, is
Speaker 1: facing in her love life right now. She's worried maybe
Speaker 1: she was too attractive during her first date. Oh my god. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll try not to make fun of you right out
Speaker 1: of the gate. I don't feel sorry for you already.
Speaker 1: We want to learn more. How are you doing? I'm sorry?
Speaker 1: Can I just this was a one knife phenomenon. I
Speaker 1: am not that hot like a true hot girl. Anyway,
Speaker 1: let's hang up on this girl. We're just joking around
Speaker 1: with you. Tell us about the guy that you ended
Speaker 1: up going out with. What's his name? His name is Ben.
Speaker 1: I don't even know if you could call it. Going
Speaker 1: out last week, I was supposed to meet up with
Speaker 1: my friend just get some drinks or whatever. Girls nights. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have this thing where I like to wear these
Speaker 1: one piece outfits now, like a jumper, Like a jumper
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you zip
Speaker 1: up from the foot all the way to the next
Speaker 1: I will say, I wish they had a zipper down
Speaker 1: the law because go to the bathroom in a jumper
Speaker 1: is really okay, So sorry, keep going, You're you're looking good.
Speaker 1: So I'm saying as the bar, waiting for my friend
Speaker 1: and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like
Speaker 1: sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me, like okay girl.
Speaker 1: And there's this one guy in particular who was just
Speaker 1: like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he
Speaker 1: was even wearing like the outfit my high school crush
Speaker 1: you store it that was like my favorite outfit with
Speaker 1: like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt. And
Speaker 1: he had a beard just like he was way taller
Speaker 1: than me. It's it's cool that you got over him.
Speaker 1: So did the approach you? Then? No? I mean I
Speaker 1: thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit,
Speaker 1: but like I said, I was really feeling myself, so
Speaker 1: I went up to him. Okay, as you watch all
Speaker 1: the other boys be jealous, not cool, never been in
Speaker 1: your situation in that? How did it go? Well? Okay,
Speaker 1: here's where it gets a little bit weird because I've
Speaker 1: never had anything like this happened to me before. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sitting with him and I'm chatting with him,
Speaker 1: and I'm clearly into him. And the bartender comes over
Speaker 1: an inch abrupts because some other guys sent me a drink. Oh, bron,
Speaker 1: while you're talking to the guy that you wanted. Compare
Speaker 1: did a guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you.
Speaker 1: She walked to you, but I still got her attention
Speaker 1: over here. Did he seem to like that, like as
Speaker 1: like a challenge or did he seem to be put
Speaker 1: off by it? I mean, he had a beard, so
Speaker 1: it's pretty hard to tell. Was he mostly beard idea?
Speaker 1: Like I just actually more like five o'clock shadow. That
Speaker 1: was like a little bit awkward. So I kind of
Speaker 1: used that as an opportunity to like show him that
Speaker 1: I was into him. So I kind of looked at
Speaker 1: the other guy like thanks, but what the heck? And
Speaker 1: just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben.
Speaker 1: Actually feel but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again.
Speaker 1: What whoa wa? Same dude? Like, same dude. I just
Speaker 1: can't new different dude. Why can you send me a
Speaker 1: link to your jumps that I had like some sort
Speaker 1: of magical magnetism going on, and I just I just
Speaker 1: I just like saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, captain,
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking about setting you a drink right now.
Speaker 1: Let me seem like the coolest place it's got Captain's
Speaker 1: it's got Lumberjacks Brooks over in the vaccine, Like, how
Speaker 1: do you do it? Because I'm out of your comment.
Speaker 1: How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did
Speaker 1: that end? Well? I mean eventually my friend let me
Speaker 1: know that she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's
Speaker 1: actually fine. I forgot about and we hung out for
Speaker 1: the rest of the night, had a fantastic night. He
Speaker 1: gave me his number, I gave him my number, yes,
Speaker 1: And I mean that's basically Ben. Did you ask him
Speaker 1: if he was single? Like point blank? Oh my god, no,
Speaker 1: I have not actually this because even if he wasn't
Speaker 1: interested in you, the fact that you were like literally
Speaker 1: swatting other men away in front of him and then
Speaker 1: telling him you were so interesting like that alone would
Speaker 1: make a guy just him. I've been sirizing because obviously
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about nothing but since and maybe he
Speaker 1: like stalked me online and is like, Okay, she's not
Speaker 1: always that hot. Oh it's like when they turn the
Speaker 1: lights on at the end of the night of the
Speaker 1: bar and you're like, oh, do you have to understand?
Speaker 1: Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is,
Speaker 1: I don't have to put an outfit together. It's like
Speaker 1: no effort. They're really so it's like I don't want
Speaker 1: to make up. Yeah, that's true. I'm with you. Okay,
Speaker 1: you and your magic onesie. Hold on, we're gonna play
Speaker 1: a song. We'll we'll call Ben for you, and we'll
Speaker 1: try and get your second date update. Okay, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: suddenly feeling very selfconscious. Hold one date. You're in the
Speaker 1: middle of a second day update update, and we're gonna
Speaker 1: find out how the couple is doing right after you
Speaker 1: here part two. Hey, if you're just joining us, it's
Speaker 1: the sequel to Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream
Speaker 1: listen and the magic dude attracting one link because she
Speaker 1: went out and wore there's one specific jumper that made
Speaker 1: her look real fine that night. So guys at the
Speaker 1: bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing,
Speaker 1: except it was happening while she was sitting down with
Speaker 1: the one dude that she really wanted to be with,
Speaker 1: a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard
Speaker 1: than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all that attention
Speaker 1: from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben
Speaker 1: and it could have scared him away. How could a
Speaker 1: guy with a beard like that be intimidated. I don't
Speaker 1: know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so
Speaker 1: I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe his beard got caught on the door and he shot.
Speaker 1: He can't get home to make the call to you,
Speaker 1: so let's find out here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds right. Hey is this Ben the beard? What
Speaker 1: I mean? Ben? Ben with a beard? Uh? This Ben?
Speaker 1: Who is He's not? Sorry? He sounded exactly like I thought.
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, Ben just flustered everyone in the road.
Speaker 1: Then Sorry, my name is Jeff Um, I also have
Speaker 1: a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I
Speaker 1: host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a
Speaker 1: little bit. Uh. You can also hear us on podcast too,
Speaker 1: if you want to look us up on like Spotify,
Speaker 1: any of that. We're there. Uh all right, cool, that's
Speaker 1: all we wanted to say. Thanks for your time. Then, no,
Speaker 1: we're really calling because we're doing something called a second
Speaker 1: Date Update and we're trying to help one of our
Speaker 1: listeners get ahold of you. Okay. Her name's Kristen. You
Speaker 1: met her out at the bar the other night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it wasn't really at first date. Yeah, uh I don't know.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a
Speaker 1: really cute jumper one. Most guys don't recognize that stuff. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I do know. I know who that
Speaker 1: girl is. Yeah, to talk to her, she sounded awesome,
Speaker 1: like funny. She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's really fun. Yeah, she's super fun. She's great. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry she told you that we hung out or something.
Speaker 1: She told a radio station that we hung out she
Speaker 1: said that she met you out at the bar the
Speaker 1: other night and was having a really nice time, and
Speaker 1: then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold of you,
Speaker 1: and she's curious, why, Wow, this is this is so crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but
Speaker 1: we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener.
Speaker 1: Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just
Speaker 1: kind of messed up. What did she do something to you?
Speaker 1: I don't know, I was the situation was like I
Speaker 1: saw her at a bar and like she came over
Speaker 1: to me and we started chatting and she was really funny.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, she got like a drink from another guy.
Speaker 1: I guess, Okay, she mentioned that to us a little bit.
Speaker 1: Is that something that intimidated you? I mean not really
Speaker 1: not at first. I mean I thought it was kind
Speaker 1: of funny that a dude was doing that. But when
Speaker 1: it happened again, because it happened like a second time,
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I don't know, this is ridiculous. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but how are you How are you blaming her? It's
Speaker 1: not her thought. So like the situation that happened was
Speaker 1: like she had to leave for a hot second to
Speaker 1: step out to like talk to her friends, because against
Speaker 1: the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I
Speaker 1: like walked over to the guy who had set the drinks. Oh.
Speaker 1: It was like, hey, do you mind not doing that?
Speaker 1: Oh I'm talking to the squirrel right now. And it
Speaker 1: kind of what makes me look a little bad, or
Speaker 1: it feels like you're being competitive, which is like so
Speaker 1: childlike that's not bad to go talk man to man
Speaker 1: real quick and to say, hey, rod, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: you know you're not causing a scene, right you want
Speaker 1: to rustle beards over me if he's like, back off,
Speaker 1: but if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: talk with her, and you know, I think she's interested
Speaker 1: in me. So what did he say? He said he
Speaker 1: didn't send it. What Oh, so then you just obviously
Speaker 1: got the wrong dude, Yeah, like it was somebody else.
Speaker 1: The bartender said it wrong. No, because it's like the
Speaker 1: bartender pointed to the guy out, Oh yeah, because here
Speaker 1: across the room. So the bartender was like, from him,
Speaker 1: So you went to the bartender. So I walked over
Speaker 1: the bartender and I had the bartender and he was
Speaker 1: like I can't really disclose that. What I thought he
Speaker 1: just pointed the dude out just to start a fight
Speaker 1: or something, was what did you say? It was just
Speaker 1: weird that he was being coy and I called that out.
Speaker 1: I was like, why do you carry you literally pointed
Speaker 1: the guy out before, And that's when he told me,
Speaker 1: which is that I guess this is something that she
Speaker 1: does that Kristen does. She pays the bartender to like
Speaker 1: send a drink to herself from some random guy every Like, Oh, really,
Speaker 1: do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this? I
Speaker 1: don't think that works. Okay, you think that's true? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Because the second he like admitted it, he was like,
Speaker 1: don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes
Speaker 1: in and does this every month or so. Who's this?
Speaker 1: Like he he didn't for like a few months. Heard though,
Speaker 1: that's kind of nice. Yeah, yeah, so you think that's
Speaker 1: a red flag? You don't think it's just kind of funny.
Speaker 1: That's so justful. It's so weird that I feel like
Speaker 1: it's just trying to pump up her own confidence that
Speaker 1: some people need that, especially if they're going to go
Speaker 1: approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to
Speaker 1: do as a woman. True, it's I mean, it sounds
Speaker 1: so outland as you guys are all believing it. I'm
Speaker 1: still not sure if this is actually true. Okay, I
Speaker 1: think you should just ask Kristen directly. Kristen, did you
Speaker 1: pay the bartender to send you drakes? Of course not,
Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. Oh, christ Ben, I forgot to tell you, Chris,
Speaker 1: since on the other line listening, she wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. This is so embarrassing. I'm embarrassed, but this
Speaker 1: is embarrassing for everyone, honest. Okay, first of all, that
Speaker 1: is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would never
Speaker 1: do that. But let's say theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious.
Speaker 1: I don't believe. I was listening and Ben's all like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's messed up, And I'm like, have you never seen
Speaker 1: the movie Clueless? Remember she sends herself chocoless and flowers. Yea,
Speaker 1: they were in high school. I don't think they could
Speaker 1: be in a year for somebody that's denying it. You
Speaker 1: sure do know a lot about this system. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you guys the magician never reveals their secrets. Is it
Speaker 1: not even that cute, then I'm trying to like, I
Speaker 1: mean that here's the thing doesn't even matter, Like who cares?
Speaker 1: She sounds awesome. I mean you can kind of hear
Speaker 1: what she's saying right now. She's making it like it's
Speaker 1: not that big of a deal, but she's like not
Speaker 1: owning up to it. But she kind of is owning
Speaker 1: up to it. If you're starting off on the wrong
Speaker 1: foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or
Speaker 1: maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that
Speaker 1: right off the bat, so um, you are, like, I
Speaker 1: feel like you're taking this really really seriously, considering we
Speaker 1: were a couple of random strangers that met in the
Speaker 1: bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to
Speaker 1: know you all right, Well, then if you think that
Speaker 1: I'm taking it too seriously, then just own up to it.
Speaker 1: Then I'll ask you again, did you do it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Of course I did. Yeah, I love it. Though it's
Speaker 1: like all of us and said she didn't do it.
Speaker 1: It works. It's what Dane is. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make
Speaker 1: yourself look the best. She just used a different method. Why, well,
Speaker 1: I'm Sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I
Speaker 1: do need to let Ben know that there's another woman
Speaker 1: who wants to send you a gift card to go
Speaker 1: on a date. Would you like that gift card? Ben?
Speaker 1: Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go
Speaker 1: out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that.
Speaker 1: Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, one up. But you
Speaker 1: have one strike against you right now. You know when
Speaker 1: you want a warning? Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah, okay. Agree.
Speaker 1: You know I have never ever cheated or anything like
Speaker 1: that any ever my life. You have to insist that
Speaker 1: no one asked. Starting to worry Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: It's been a few months since we did that second date,
Speaker 1: and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back
Speaker 1: on with us today to get an update on their situation.
Speaker 1: But we don't. Only Ben agree, Kristen actually sent us
Speaker 1: an email calling Ben a bunch of names. I don't
Speaker 1: know why, but Ben, can you shed some light on
Speaker 1: the situation? Tell us what happened? Would you do? Maybe
Speaker 1: they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling sweetheart and babe.
Speaker 1: That's not what happened, dude. I mean, I absolutely know
Speaker 1: why she refuses to be on the phone. Um, it's
Speaker 1: because we went to some sort of bar, but it
Speaker 1: was a different one then we went to on the
Speaker 1: first tape obviously for obvious. Yeah, yeah, we gave you
Speaker 1: a gift certificate. So what happened? Yeah, yeah, yeah no.
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, I thought it would
Speaker 1: be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect, it
Speaker 1: was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny,
Speaker 1: which is I decided to pull the same joke that
Speaker 1: she pulled on me. Over you had you had pretend
Speaker 1: women sending you drinks exactly, That's it. I got there
Speaker 1: early and I told the bartender. I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm going to sit over there. Just's my credit card
Speaker 1: and you'll see when my date comes in. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: maybe you wait like five minutes, and then can you
Speaker 1: bring me a vodka soda and sit like point to
Speaker 1: the cutest girl in the bar like say it's from her.
Speaker 1: Do you mind that? That's exactly what she did. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right, But
Speaker 1: then when the burstender did it, she was furious. Why
Speaker 1: why was she so mad? Did she think you were
Speaker 1: making fun of her or I don't think that she
Speaker 1: really got the joke at first, and I didn't really
Speaker 1: have much of the time to kind of explain it
Speaker 1: because she just marched right over to the woman. Oh no,
Speaker 1: So I had to kind of play damage control, and
Speaker 1: I like rushed up as well, and I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, like it was a joke, and then
Speaker 1: she like got in my face for a hot second. Whoa,
Speaker 1: she was the one that came up with this joke.
Speaker 1: It's not as funny when a guy does it. She
Speaker 1: seems so cool, not so unstable. That's what happens with
Speaker 1: all those cool girls. They're cold nightmares the next bunny.
Speaker 1: So it was at the end, well yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess she just got a little bit of her
Speaker 1: own medicine and she's not really returning my calls, so
Speaker 1: obviously she really was doing it because she had kind
Speaker 1: of maybe some self esteem. Okay, poor thing is dang it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was a bummer, but whatever. Yeah, did you get
Speaker 1: that woman's number that sent me the drink? If I
Speaker 1: can get it, will you guys help me out with
Speaker 1: the second date update? Oh for sure. It obviously went
Speaker 1: so well the first time jeffre in the morning,