1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Second, d is it possible to be too hot to 2 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: date asking for a friend? Yes, nobody in this room. Seriously, 3 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: if you look on TikTok right now, there's all these 4 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach 5 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: them because guys are too intimidated. Oh my god, my 6 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: best friend is gorgeous and she always had that problem. Yeah, 7 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: you just got to talk to him. It was all 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: part of posing his hashtag ask a hot girl out 9 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: without peeing yourself challenge. Yeah, didn't go. Yeah, that might 10 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, is 11 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: facing in her love life right now. She's worried maybe 12 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: she was too attractive during her first date. Oh my god. Okay, 13 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: we'll try not to make fun of you right out 14 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: of the gate. I don't feel sorry for you already. 15 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: We want to learn more. How are you doing? I'm sorry? 16 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,279 Speaker 1: Can I just this was a one knife phenomenon. I 17 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: am not that hot like a true hot girl. Anyway, 18 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: let's hang up on this girl. We're just joking around 19 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: with you. Tell us about the guy that you ended 20 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: up going out with. What's his name? His name is Ben. 21 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: I don't even know if you could call it. Going 22 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: out last week, I was supposed to meet up with 23 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: my friend just get some drinks or whatever. Girls nights. Yeah, 24 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: I have this thing where I like to wear these 25 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 1: one piece outfits now, like a jumper, Like a jumper 26 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you zip 27 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: up from the foot all the way to the next 28 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: I will say, I wish they had a zipper down 29 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,279 Speaker 1: the law because go to the bathroom in a jumper 30 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: is really okay, So sorry, keep going, You're you're looking good. 31 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: So I'm saying as the bar, waiting for my friend 32 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like 33 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me, like okay girl. 34 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: And there's this one guy in particular who was just 35 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he 36 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: was even wearing like the outfit my high school crush 37 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: you store it that was like my favorite outfit with 38 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt. And 39 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: he had a beard just like he was way taller 40 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: than me. It's it's cool that you got over him. 41 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: So did the approach you? Then? No? I mean I 42 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit, 43 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 1: but like I said, I was really feeling myself, so 44 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: I went up to him. Okay, as you watch all 45 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: the other boys be jealous, not cool, never been in 46 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: your situation in that? How did it go? Well? Okay, 47 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 1: here's where it gets a little bit weird because I've 48 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: never had anything like this happened to me before. So 49 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sitting with him and I'm chatting with him, 50 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: and I'm clearly into him. And the bartender comes over 51 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 1: an inch abrupts because some other guys sent me a drink. Oh, bron, 52 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: while you're talking to the guy that you wanted. Compare 53 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: did a guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you. 54 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: She walked to you, but I still got her attention 55 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: over here. Did he seem to like that, like as 56 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 1: like a challenge or did he seem to be put 57 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: off by it? I mean, he had a beard, so 58 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: it's pretty hard to tell. Was he mostly beard idea? 59 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: Like I just actually more like five o'clock shadow. That 60 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: was like a little bit awkward. So I kind of 61 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: used that as an opportunity to like show him that 62 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: I was into him. So I kind of looked at 63 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: the other guy like thanks, but what the heck? And 64 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben. 65 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: Actually feel but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again. 66 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: What whoa wa? Same dude? Like, same dude. I just 67 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: can't new different dude. Why can you send me a 68 00:03:55,240 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: link to your jumps that I had like some sort 69 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: of magical magnetism going on, and I just I just 70 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: I just like saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, captain, 71 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: and I'm thinking about setting you a drink right now. 72 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: Let me seem like the coolest place it's got Captain's 73 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: it's got Lumberjacks Brooks over in the vaccine, Like, how 74 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: do you do it? Because I'm out of your comment. 75 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did 76 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: that end? Well? I mean eventually my friend let me 77 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 1: know that she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's 78 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: actually fine. I forgot about and we hung out for 79 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: the rest of the night, had a fantastic night. He 80 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: gave me his number, I gave him my number, yes, 81 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: And I mean that's basically Ben. Did you ask him 82 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: if he was single? Like point blank? Oh my god, no, 83 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,799 Speaker 1: I have not actually this because even if he wasn't 84 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,799 Speaker 1: interested in you, the fact that you were like literally 85 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: swatting other men away in front of him and then 86 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: telling him you were so interesting like that alone would 87 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 1: make a guy just him. I've been sirizing because obviously 88 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about nothing but since and maybe he 89 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: like stalked me online and is like, Okay, she's not 90 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 1: always that hot. Oh it's like when they turn the 91 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: lights on at the end of the night of the 92 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 1: bar and you're like, oh, do you have to understand? 93 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 1: Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is, 94 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: I don't have to put an outfit together. It's like 95 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: no effort. They're really so it's like I don't want 96 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: to make up. Yeah, that's true. I'm with you. Okay, 97 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: you and your magic onesie. Hold on, we're gonna play 98 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: a song. We'll we'll call Ben for you, and we'll 99 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: try and get your second date update. Okay, okay, I'm 100 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: suddenly feeling very selfconscious. Hold one date. You're in the 101 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: middle of a second day update update, and we're gonna 102 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: find out how the couple is doing right after you 103 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: here part two. Hey, if you're just joining us, it's 104 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: the sequel to Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream 105 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: listen and the magic dude attracting one link because she 106 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: went out and wore there's one specific jumper that made 107 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: her look real fine that night. So guys at the 108 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing, 109 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: except it was happening while she was sitting down with 110 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: the one dude that she really wanted to be with, 111 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard 112 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all that attention 113 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben 114 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: and it could have scared him away. How could a 115 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: guy with a beard like that be intimidated. I don't 116 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so 117 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. Okay, 118 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: maybe his beard got caught on the door and he shot. 119 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: He can't get home to make the call to you, 120 00:06:48,120 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: so let's find out here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah, 121 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: it sounds right. Hey is this Ben the beard? What 122 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: I mean? Ben? Ben with a beard? Uh? This Ben? 123 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: Who is He's not? Sorry? He sounded exactly like I thought. 124 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, Ben just flustered everyone in the road. 125 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: Then Sorry, my name is Jeff Um, I also have 126 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I 127 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in 128 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a 129 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: little bit. Uh. You can also hear us on podcast too, 130 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: if you want to look us up on like Spotify, 131 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: any of that. We're there. Uh all right, cool, that's 132 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: all we wanted to say. Thanks for your time. Then, no, 133 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: we're really calling because we're doing something called a second 134 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: Date Update and we're trying to help one of our 135 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: listeners get ahold of you. Okay. Her name's Kristen. You 136 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: met her out at the bar the other night. Yeah, 137 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: it wasn't really at first date. Yeah, uh I don't know. 138 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a 139 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: really cute jumper one. Most guys don't recognize that stuff. Yeah. No, 140 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I do know. I know who that 141 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: girl is. Yeah, to talk to her, she sounded awesome, 142 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: like funny. She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah, 143 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: it's really fun. Yeah, she's super fun. She's great. Okay, 144 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry she told you that we hung out or something. 145 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: She told a radio station that we hung out she 146 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: said that she met you out at the bar the 147 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: other night and was having a really nice time, and 148 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold of you, 149 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: and she's curious, why, Wow, this is this is so crazy. Yeah, 150 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: I know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but 151 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener. 152 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just 153 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: kind of messed up. What did she do something to you? 154 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, I was the situation was like I 155 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: saw her at a bar and like she came over 156 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: to me and we started chatting and she was really funny. 157 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 1: But I'm like, she got like a drink from another guy. 158 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: I guess, Okay, she mentioned that to us a little bit. 159 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: Is that something that intimidated you? I mean not really 160 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:11,959 Speaker 1: not at first. I mean I thought it was kind 161 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: of funny that a dude was doing that. But when 162 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: it happened again, because it happened like a second time, 163 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I don't know, this is ridiculous. Yeah, 164 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: but how are you How are you blaming her? It's 165 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: not her thought. So like the situation that happened was 166 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: like she had to leave for a hot second to 167 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: step out to like talk to her friends, because against 168 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I 169 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 1: like walked over to the guy who had set the drinks. Oh. 170 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: It was like, hey, do you mind not doing that? 171 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh I'm talking to the squirrel right now. And it 172 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: kind of what makes me look a little bad, or 173 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: it feels like you're being competitive, which is like so 174 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: childlike that's not bad to go talk man to man 175 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: real quick and to say, hey, rod, yeah, you know, 176 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 1: you know you're not causing a scene, right you want 177 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: to rustle beards over me if he's like, back off, 178 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 1: but if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to 179 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: talk with her, and you know, I think she's interested 180 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 1: in me. So what did he say? He said he 181 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 1: didn't send it. What Oh, so then you just obviously 182 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 1: got the wrong dude, Yeah, like it was somebody else. 183 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: The bartender said it wrong. No, because it's like the 184 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 1: bartender pointed to the guy out, Oh yeah, because here 185 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 1: across the room. So the bartender was like, from him, 186 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: So you went to the bartender. So I walked over 187 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: the bartender and I had the bartender and he was 188 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: like I can't really disclose that. What I thought he 189 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 1: just pointed the dude out just to start a fight 190 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: or something, was what did you say? It was just 191 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: weird that he was being coy and I called that out. 192 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: I was like, why do you carry you literally pointed 193 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: the guy out before, And that's when he told me, 194 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: which is that I guess this is something that she 195 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: does that Kristen does. She pays the bartender to like 196 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: send a drink to herself from some random guy every Like, Oh, really, 197 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,599 Speaker 1: do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this? I 198 00:10:56,600 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: don't think that works. Okay, you think that's true? Yeah, 199 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 1: Because the second he like admitted it, he was like, 200 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes 201 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 1: in and does this every month or so. Who's this? 202 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 1: Like he he didn't for like a few months. Heard though, 203 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: that's kind of nice. Yeah, yeah, so you think that's 204 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 1: a red flag? You don't think it's just kind of funny. 205 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 1: That's so justful. It's so weird that I feel like 206 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: it's just trying to pump up her own confidence that 207 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: some people need that, especially if they're going to go 208 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to 209 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: do as a woman. True, it's I mean, it sounds 210 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 1: so outland as you guys are all believing it. I'm 211 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 1: still not sure if this is actually true. Okay, I 212 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: think you should just ask Kristen directly. Kristen, did you 213 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: pay the bartender to send you drakes? Of course not, 214 00:11:53,600 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. Oh, christ Ben, I forgot to tell you, Chris, 215 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: since on the other line listening, she wants to talk 216 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: to you. This is so embarrassing. I'm embarrassed, but this 217 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 1: is embarrassing for everyone, honest. Okay, first of all, that 218 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would never 219 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:18,359 Speaker 1: do that. But let's say theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious. 220 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: I don't believe. I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, 221 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: she's messed up, And I'm like, have you never seen 222 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: the movie Clueless? Remember she sends herself chocoless and flowers. Yea, 223 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: they were in high school. I don't think they could 224 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: be in a year for somebody that's denying it. You 225 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: sure do know a lot about this system. Oh my god, 226 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: you guys the magician never reveals their secrets. Is it 227 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: not even that cute, then I'm trying to like, I 228 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: mean that here's the thing doesn't even matter, Like who cares? 229 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: She sounds awesome. I mean you can kind of hear 230 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: what she's saying right now. She's making it like it's 231 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: not that big of a deal, but she's like not 232 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: owning up to it. But she kind of is owning 233 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: up to it. If you're starting off on the wrong 234 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or 235 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that 236 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: right off the bat, so um, you are, like, I 237 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 1: feel like you're taking this really really seriously, considering we 238 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: were a couple of random strangers that met in the 239 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to 240 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: know you all right, Well, then if you think that 241 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: I'm taking it too seriously, then just own up to it. 242 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: Then I'll ask you again, did you do it? Yeah? 243 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: Of course I did. Yeah, I love it. Though it's 244 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: like all of us and said she didn't do it. 245 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: It works. It's what Dane is. It's like, you know, 246 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make 247 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: yourself look the best. She just used a different method. Why, well, 248 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: I'm Sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I 249 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: do need to let Ben know that there's another woman 250 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: who wants to send you a gift card to go 251 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: on a date. Would you like that gift card? Ben? 252 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,439 Speaker 1: Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go 253 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 1: out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that. 254 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, one up. But you 255 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: have one strike against you right now. You know when 256 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: you want a warning? Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah, okay. Agree. 257 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: You know I have never ever cheated or anything like 258 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: that any ever my life. You have to insist that 259 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: no one asked. Starting to worry Jeffrey in the morning. 260 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: It's been a few months since we did that second date, 261 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back 262 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: on with us today to get an update on their situation. 263 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: But we don't. Only Ben agree, Kristen actually sent us 264 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: an email calling Ben a bunch of names. I don't 265 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: know why, but Ben, can you shed some light on 266 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: the situation? Tell us what happened? Would you do? Maybe 267 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling sweetheart and babe. 268 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: That's not what happened, dude. I mean, I absolutely know 269 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 1: why she refuses to be on the phone. Um, it's 270 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: because we went to some sort of bar, but it 271 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: was a different one then we went to on the 272 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: first tape obviously for obvious. Yeah, yeah, we gave you 273 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: a gift certificate. So what happened? Yeah, yeah, yeah no. 274 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, I thought it would 275 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect, it 276 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny, 277 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: which is I decided to pull the same joke that 278 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: she pulled on me. Over you had you had pretend 279 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: women sending you drinks exactly, That's it. I got there 280 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: early and I told the bartender. I was like, hey, 281 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to sit over there. Just's my credit card 282 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: and you'll see when my date comes in. Yeah, and 283 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: maybe you wait like five minutes, and then can you 284 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: bring me a vodka soda and sit like point to 285 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: the cutest girl in the bar like say it's from her. 286 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: Do you mind that? That's exactly what she did. Yeah. 287 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right, But 288 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: then when the burstender did it, she was furious. Why 289 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: why was she so mad? Did she think you were 290 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: making fun of her or I don't think that she 291 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 1: really got the joke at first, and I didn't really 292 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: have much of the time to kind of explain it 293 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: because she just marched right over to the woman. Oh no, 294 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: So I had to kind of play damage control, and 295 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: I like rushed up as well, and I was like, hey, 296 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, like it was a joke, and then 297 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: she like got in my face for a hot second. Whoa, 298 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: she was the one that came up with this joke. 299 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: It's not as funny when a guy does it. She 300 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: seems so cool, not so unstable. That's what happens with 301 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: all those cool girls. They're cold nightmares the next bunny. 302 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: So it was at the end, well yeah, I mean, 303 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: I guess she just got a little bit of her 304 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 1: own medicine and she's not really returning my calls, so 305 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 1: obviously she really was doing it because she had kind 306 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: of maybe some self esteem. Okay, poor thing is dang it. Yeah, 307 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: I was a bummer, but whatever. Yeah, did you get 308 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: that woman's number that sent me the drink? If I 309 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: can get it, will you guys help me out with 310 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: the second date update? Oh for sure. It obviously went 311 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 1: so well the first time jeffre in the morning,