1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVIFM dot com 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: it could be yours. Get up, Steve, it. 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 2: Could be yours. Bugle love and hold on time. We 9 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 2: got it for you here it is Strawberry. 10 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: Let up, you're all lounging. Thank you, nephew. Subject why 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: can't he talk around me? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm engaged 12 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: to a man that never talks on the phone around me. 13 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: He won't answer the phone in my presence and he 14 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: barely texts around me. In the beginning of our courtship, 15 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: I used to be on the phone all the time, 16 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: either facetiming my mom or scrolling on social media. He 17 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: cut all of that out and said we need to 18 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: be intentional with our time together. He used to come 19 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: over to my house and leave his phone in the 20 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: kitchen so it didn't disturb us, and I love that 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: about him. In the past few months, he switched up 22 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: his phone habits. When he gets to my house, he's 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: always on the phone. He gets off as soon as 24 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: he pulls up in my driveway. I've been outside and 25 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: seen it with my own eyes. If he takes a 26 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: call while we're out, he walks away to talk on 27 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: the phone and then hangs up before he comes back 28 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: to the table. We've spent a lot of nights together 29 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: and his phone is nowhere to be found when I'm 30 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: at his house. Like I said, I thought it was 31 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: sweet at first, but after two years of dating, it's 32 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: totally fine to be on the phone around me. His 33 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: mom is fussed at him for not taking her calls. 34 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: If I want to talk to his parents, he'll tell 35 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: me to call them on my own time. I don't 36 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: want to create drama where there is none, but you 37 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: have to admit that it's strange that my fiance gets 38 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: off the phone whenever he pulls up to my house, 39 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,919 Speaker 1: and he gets back on the phone when he's pulling 40 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: out of my driveway. It makes me think that he's 41 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: hiding something from me. I would go through his phone, 42 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: but I never know where he's hiding it. I'm also 43 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: scared of what I might find out. How can we 44 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 1: be married if he can't talk to his friends and 45 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: family around me. Yeah, Well, whoever he's talking to and 46 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: whatever they're talking about, he doesn't want you to know 47 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: or he doesn't want you to hear it. Before when 48 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: you guys, like you said, were just starting out and 49 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: all of that, he wanted you to be intentional. He 50 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: didn't want you to be on the phone, and he 51 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: didn't want to be on the phone. He left his 52 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: phone in the kitchen. So I say, yeah, he is 53 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: hiding something, which should not be the case since you 54 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: guys are engaged and you have been for two years 55 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 1: and you should be getting married soon. You already know 56 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: this is no way to start off a marriage. There 57 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: are just too many secrets going on, and this is 58 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,839 Speaker 1: one thing that you really don't like. I say, there 59 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: is something he's hiding and he doesn't care how it 60 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: makes you feel. At this point, marriage is also about trust. 61 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: You know that, and what he's doing is making you 62 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: lose trust in him. You need to really look at 63 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:07,519 Speaker 1: him and consider what your relationship and marriage is gonna 64 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: look like. If he's doing it now, he's not going 65 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: to change. He'll do it when you guys get married, 66 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: you're not gonna want your husband talking in secret around you. 67 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: So you got to think about this before you walk 68 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: down that aisle. 69 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, lady, you know I try to defend me 70 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 3: in when I can. I really do, because sometimes you 71 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: all go off on tangents that have no factual bearing 72 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 3: at all. You're going off on something that happened in 73 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 3: your past and you break that baggage into the relationship 74 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 3: and all of a sudden, every man is just like that. 75 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: And that's not the case. However, But when you. 76 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 3: Write a letter and I'm trying to find you know what, 77 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 3: let me help you. We'll always try to find the 78 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 3: redeeming quality in a man. If you don't mention any 79 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 3: redeeming qualities, then you give me nothing to fight with. 80 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 3: I want to try to help save relationships because a 81 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: lot of people break up too early. 82 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 2: It's just really a factual fact. 83 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 3: Now, because it's Instagram, instant coffee, instant relationships, I get 84 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 3: on this app and I'll find somebody. Oh no, you're 85 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 3: not know you not all right? So let me try 86 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 3: to help. Why can't he talk around me? Let me 87 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 3: just answer that question first, because he don't want you 88 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 3: to hear what he said. That's why there are conversations 89 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 3: I cannot have around Marjorie. 90 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 2: I just can't because. 91 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 3: There's some stuff I'm saying to my dudes that she 92 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 3: really don't need to hear. Because as dudes, we have 93 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 3: a certain way we talk around each other, and it's 94 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 3: acceptable and politically correct in our circle, but in the 95 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: general public, I could get canceled for now every conversation 96 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 3: I ever had with my dudes that I grew up with, 97 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 3: because we don't have a cancelation culture. From one hundred 98 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 3: and twelfth Street. We boys, We them boys, and that's 99 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 3: how we talk. So I've gotten that out the way. 100 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 3: I can't say this one I'm talking about my relationship 101 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 3: me and my friends because I can't hear. I can't 102 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 3: say he won't answer the phone in my prison. He 103 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 3: badly texts around me. In the beginning of our courtship, 104 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 3: I used to be on the phone all the time, 105 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 3: and he said we had to be more intentional with 106 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 3: our time together. He used to come over to my 107 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 3: house and leave his phone in the kitchen so it 108 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 3: didn't disturb us, and I loved that about him. The 109 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 3: past few months, though, he just switched up these habits. 110 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 2: He gets to my house, he's always on the phone. 111 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 3: He gets off soon as he pull up in my 112 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: driveway and I'm outside, I'd have seen it with my 113 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 3: own eyes. 114 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: If you take a. 115 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,559 Speaker 3: Car while we out, he'll walk away, talk on the phone, 116 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 3: then hang up for he come back to the table. 117 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: We just spend a whole lot of nights together and 118 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 3: his phone is nowhere to be found when I'm at 119 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 3: his house. That means you have looked for it. Nowhere 120 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 3: to be fine, But where is this phone at? I 121 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 3: think it's outside in the truck, That's. 122 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: What I think it is. 123 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 3: Hangu been out to the garage. Have you checked the 124 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 3: back of the toolbox. 125 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 126 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour today. 127 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: Under behind the paper times. 128 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,679 Speaker 1: Why can't he talk around me? We'll get back into 129 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: it right after this. 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Rocket Mortgage LLC license in fifty states, 139 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 4: n MLS Consumer Access dot Org number thirty thirty. 140 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: Come on Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject 141 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: is why can he talk around me? 142 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 3: Here's the problem with this whole letter. They have been 143 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 3: dating for two years. She says she is his fiance, 144 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 3: and why can't he talk around me? Number one cause 145 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 3: you don't need to hear what he's saying. Number two, 146 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 3: he's having conversations that you may not approve of. 147 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: Number three. This isn't the hard one for women. 148 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 3: This is number three, ladies, It ain't your business. 149 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 2: That's a hard one. 150 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 3: That's a hard one, hard hard one. So now let's 151 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 3: move on. When he used to come over to the house, 152 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 3: he would leave his phone in the kitchen, said, our 153 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 3: time with each other needs to be more intentional. He 154 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 3: stopped you from social media, talking on the phone and 155 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 3: going on Instagram, and you love that about him. 156 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: Well, he has switched. 157 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 3: Up now when he come over to your house, you 158 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 3: see him on the phone. You be in the driveway. 159 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 3: He get off the phone soon as he get there. 160 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 3: Y'all spend a lot of nights together, and you can't 161 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,359 Speaker 3: find his phone nowhere. 162 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: Something is on this phone. 163 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 5: Something is being said into the mouthpiece of his phone 164 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 5: and coming out the ear hole on this phone that 165 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 5: you cannot be privy to. 166 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: Period. So we have this letter that has. 167 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 3: A question, why can't he talk around Well, lady, why 168 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: you think he's talking on you? You say, but after two 169 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 3: years of dating, it's totally fine to be on the 170 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 3: phone around me. His mam has fusted him for not 171 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 3: taking her calls. Now let me let me now, let's 172 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 3: let's take that line right there. His mama and fussed 173 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: at him for not taking her calls. Now, let's go 174 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 3: down to the bottom of the line, bottom of the house. 175 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 3: You said, how can we be married if he can't 176 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 3: talk to his friends and his family around me? Let 177 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 3: me just put it to you out here, point blake, 178 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 3: Because he ain't talking to his friends and he already 179 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 3: don't take his mama calls? Who don't take that mama call? 180 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 3: What man don't take his mama's call. That's the call 181 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:08,839 Speaker 3: you got to take because something could be wrong. He 182 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 3: ain't taking his mama's call. Your question is if he 183 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 3: can't talk to his friends and family around me. Well, 184 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 3: because he ain't talking to his friends and his family. 185 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: Mama that says she don't. He don't even take her call. 186 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 3: So who is he talking to? You can't say he 187 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 3: talking to his mama. She don't take his call. I 188 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 3: can't help this man. He talking to some women. He 189 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 3: talking to some women. And what he's saying to this 190 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 3: woman you can't hear. And when his phone rang, when 191 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: y'all out, he get up and walk away because he 192 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 3: taking calls from nimbus women trying to make it like 193 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 3: he got a regular life. 194 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 2: Now, y'all fin to get married. 195 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 3: You're going to be married to a man that has 196 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 3: a lot of secret phone calls. 197 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 2: Hey, baby, let me apes, Hey, let me hit you back, 198 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 2: let me hit you back. Busy here, he's here. I 199 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 2: can't talk right now, you. 200 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: Should, that's okay. So any questions, ladies, anybody questions. I 201 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 3: can't help this. I can't help him. I can't help Let. 202 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: Me ask you this me. It sounds like, of course 203 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: he yes, he is talking to to other women, but 204 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: why would he be doing that and he's engaged? Just 205 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: a basic question, why would he be doing that? He's 206 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: been engaged for two years. What is going on? 207 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 2: Why would he be talking to another woman and he engaged? 208 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just want just a basic question. 209 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 2: Well, how else is he gonna have a chick on 210 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 2: the side. 211 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: But you know, some people pop we are like, dang, 212 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: we're engaged. Why would he you know, right, why would 213 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: he be talking to someone else? They've been engaged for 214 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: two years and he's changed so much. I mean at 215 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: first he didn't. He said, let's be intentional about our relationship. 216 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: Let's leave our phones and. 217 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 3: Now right, you know, now today don't got intentional or 218 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 3: he learned all he needed to learn. He needs somebody else. 219 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 6: Wow, yes, junior, h okay, I say he talked to 220 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:31,599 Speaker 6: the chic onside. But can you tell us where he 221 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 6: taking all these phone calls at? 222 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 4: And is house? 223 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 6: Where's he been taking these phone calls at? Because he 224 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 6: can't talk in front of where is he? A? Yeah, 225 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 6: he go outside. He in the backyard. He on the 226 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 6: other side of the tree in the. 227 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: Backyard, so he's hiding and talking. 228 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 2: He on the other side of the tree. I can't 229 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 2: see him. 230 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: He's just talking. 231 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 3: He done went outside, got in the car and started it, 232 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 3: sitting there increasing the rpm. 233 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 2: So you can't hear. 234 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: Stay with this guy. 235 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 3: She shouldn't follow her intuition. She know what's happening. You 236 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 3: know what's happening, but your heart, your heart don't want 237 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 3: to believe it. 238 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 2: But your mind. My mind keeps telling. 239 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 3: Me, Yeah, you gotta go with your mind. 240 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 2: Sometimes I can't say your. 241 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 242 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram. 243 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 2: She can't find his phone nowhere. 244 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free iHeartRadio app. 245 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: Free Never Sounded So good. You can download it Today 246 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.