WEBVTT - Level Up Your Money with Gamification #155

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I'm Matts,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're discussing how to level up your money

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<v Speaker 1>with gamification. Yep, man, we're gonna talk about gamification. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>every time I see that word written out, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say gammafication like a Gamma ray. Yeah, like Gamma

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<v Speaker 1>rays exactly, because that sounds more fun and games are fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, well, gamification in and of itself is fun. Rights,

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<v Speaker 1>so can we play games of our finances to do better?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we're gonna get into. That's what we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. Man. Before we do that, we came across

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<v Speaker 1>this article about all these new mattress companies and the

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<v Speaker 1>return policy. You want to dive into it a little bit, sure, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So instead of gamification, what people are doing is gaming

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<v Speaker 1>the system of these mattress companies. And there are these beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful free a hundred night or more trials that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of these new mattress companies offered. These bed in

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<v Speaker 1>the box. They ship it to your house and you

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<v Speaker 1>test it out and you see whether you like it

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<v Speaker 1>or not. Like Casper was at the forefront of this, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there are all sorts of companies out there

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<v Speaker 1>now that will ship you a needle. Yeah, there's Avocado,

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<v Speaker 1>aren't they like one of the primo ones they are? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. I can't show up for that, dude, right, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But the cool thing is because people are like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know you, I'm not sat on your bed, like

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell whether it's good or not. These companies,

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<v Speaker 1>in order to build confidence and for people to actually

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<v Speaker 1>make the purchase and give it a try, well, they

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<v Speaker 1>needed to have a great return policy. And I love

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<v Speaker 1>that that exists, Like, that's such a nice way to

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<v Speaker 1>buy something with that peace of mind. Certainly. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect solution to a problem when you have an

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<v Speaker 1>online retail model, right, And so specifically, if you are

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<v Speaker 1>looking to buy a mattress and you're genuinely wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>try it out, support the one month free trial or

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<v Speaker 1>three months free trial or even one year. There there's

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<v Speaker 1>one example where this one company has a full sixty

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<v Speaker 1>five day return policy. Is incredible, very incredible, so incredible

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<v Speaker 1>that people are completely taking advantage of that situation sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>on the bed for free for anywhere between a month

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<v Speaker 1>and a full year and sending that junk back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people think about that. What people quoted

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<v Speaker 1>in the article said, you never have to buy mattress again.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically what you do is you just get a new

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<v Speaker 1>one every three months by returning the one and just

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<v Speaker 1>saying that you you didn't like it or wasn't up

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<v Speaker 1>to your standards or whatever. And I think what's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>happen is is that these generous return policies, these generous

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<v Speaker 1>trials are going to end because of the people that

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<v Speaker 1>are gaming the system. And it's unfortunate because it's a

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<v Speaker 1>great new business model. It's a great way to get

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<v Speaker 1>a bed, and there are some great companies out there

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<v Speaker 1>with great customer service that are trying to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of people that actually want to buy a new bed.

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<v Speaker 1>And these people are going to ruin it for everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna ruin that free trial period. It's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't Costco have to like kind of go back on

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<v Speaker 1>their return policy where they they said they would take anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but then folks started bringing back ridiculous stuff. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>Costco still has an amazing return policy. The thing they

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<v Speaker 1>had to tweak was how they accepted electronics returns because

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<v Speaker 1>people would come back and say, I'm returning this desktop

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<v Speaker 1>computer from two thousand and five because because you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>not because it's it's bad. I got my use out

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<v Speaker 1>of it, it's been great, but it turns out they're

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<v Speaker 1>way way cheaper now and way way better, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to return my money back. Yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 1>the five thousand dollars I spent on this desktop computer,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna buy a four one now and so

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<v Speaker 1>that that's five times faster. Again, that's that's an example

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<v Speaker 1>of people gaming the system, not using it for what

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<v Speaker 1>it's supposed to be used for. And so I have

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<v Speaker 1>no problem if someone returning a mattress because they say

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't great, but I genuinely wanted to give it

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<v Speaker 1>a try. I really thought I might actually keep it.

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<v Speaker 1>And the same thing with something like Costco. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to buy something and return it because it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>up the snuff for you had a problem, that's totally fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But gaming the system like that is just in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cheap. That's not frugal. Yeah, this is a great

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<v Speaker 1>example of frugal versus cheap, which, dude, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to do more frugal verse cheaps. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we've kind of fallen off the wagon a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe maybe this year we can revitalize that a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. But yeah, I feel like this is a

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<v Speaker 1>perfect example of someone being cheap, not frugal, and specifically,

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<v Speaker 1>I think a big part of that is obviously folks

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<v Speaker 1>are not being perfectly honest as well, right, but just

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<v Speaker 1>all the waste that's involved as well, Like, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest thing that kind of bothers me is that there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of states where they're not allowed or they

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<v Speaker 1>don't allow themselves to resell these you know, quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>used mattresses or even give them away, like they have

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<v Speaker 1>to be thrown in the trash. And it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>shame because that's a lot of waste. These barely used

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<v Speaker 1>mattresses would would be great in serving uh folks in

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<v Speaker 1>in areas that where there's a lot of poverty, where

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<v Speaker 1>where the homeless shelters lots of application. There could be

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<v Speaker 1>so many great uses for these gently used mattresses, but

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of these guidelines and understandable, right, there could

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<v Speaker 1>be bed bugs or something like that, Like mattresses are

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<v Speaker 1>kind of one of those items that buying used. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to be aware, so I understand the rules, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a shame. And I think this makes

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<v Speaker 1>it even more of a shame because we know a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of those mattresses are going in the landfills, which

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<v Speaker 1>totally sucks man, exactly. That's like, that's the epitome of

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<v Speaker 1>being cheap, when you're putting your cheapness upon somebody else,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is a perfect example of that. Like this

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<v Speaker 1>is going into a landfill, and you know, not only

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<v Speaker 1>are you reaping a financial benefit from that, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're displacing the cost of that onto not only everyone

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<v Speaker 1>around you, but the earth as well. And we're not

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<v Speaker 1>even talking about like the what the wasted resources and

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<v Speaker 1>like the carbon footprint that it took to create that

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<v Speaker 1>mattress as well, which and the shipping and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>It totally kind of bums me out. So if that's you,

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<v Speaker 1>I think twice yeah, And we love to know your

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on this too. I think it's an interesting topic,

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<v Speaker 1>like the frugal versus cheap like when is it too far?

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<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, maybe in the Facebook group if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to let your thoughts be known, we'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>hear from you just go to Facebook and search how

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<v Speaker 1>the Money in the search bar, you'll find our group

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<v Speaker 1>and we'd love to kind of hear your thoughts on

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<v Speaker 1>that because it is an interesting topic. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>create a fake account and go in there and say

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm all for it and see what happens. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna start a ruckus in there. We'll get lampooned.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you might well see Yeah, all right, Matt. We

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<v Speaker 1>gotta mention the beer that we're having on the show today,

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<v Speaker 1>astral Prism by Modern Times Beer. Big thanks to my

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<v Speaker 1>buddy Craig who brews out there from Honor Time sending

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<v Speaker 1>this one our away. Yeah. So I'm looking forward to

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<v Speaker 1>enjoying this one, man, and getting your thoughts as well

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of this episode. All right, man, sounds good,

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<v Speaker 1>But now onto the subject at hand. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>leveling up your money game with gamification, with gamification, not gammification,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. But the reason, Matt, I think for this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think it's a perfect, you know, early January

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<v Speaker 1>episode to do because a lot of us were really

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out we're we're super intentional oftentimes in

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<v Speaker 1>January and the beginning of January. How are we going

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<v Speaker 1>to get our money game straight? How are we going

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<v Speaker 1>to do better than we did in twenty nineteen? And

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<v Speaker 1>tons of Americans have a real difficult to getting their

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<v Speaker 1>personal finances together. Right there, There's a lot of folks

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<v Speaker 1>out there, for many different reasons that have a hard

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<v Speaker 1>time saving any money, investing any money, building wealth. And

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what the show is about. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>help people in all sorts of different walks of life

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<v Speaker 1>achieve a modicum of financial independence in their lives. But

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<v Speaker 1>they have a hard time making that progress with their

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<v Speaker 1>different money goals that they're loosely trying to achieve. And

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<v Speaker 1>I say loosely because mostly those goals are aspirational. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no rubber meeting the road. And also there's this problem

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<v Speaker 1>that achieving financial goals can be hard and boring. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like people are like snooze fest, let me let me

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<v Speaker 1>kick off the how of money guys and go listen

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<v Speaker 1>to some like murder Mystery Show or something like that. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I understand like those might be more funds, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>sounds a little bit more fun. We're fun though, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we have a beer because we wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>make personal finances a little more approachable and like, and

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<v Speaker 1>that has a lot to do with our show, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think gamification is just a perfect episode for us

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<v Speaker 1>to cover. Yeah, so, so, really, how do we take

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<v Speaker 1>these hopes and these dreams and turn them into this

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<v Speaker 1>debt slaying, wealth building reality. Well, the fact is gamification, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're talking about here. When we can gamify

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<v Speaker 1>our personal finances, that can help us to actually achieve

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<v Speaker 1>some of those goals like paying down debt, like saving

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<v Speaker 1>and investing more of our money when it would otherwise

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<v Speaker 1>be something that we wouldn't do at all. Right, It

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<v Speaker 1>will also likely make the entire process more speedy and

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<v Speaker 1>fun as well. Gamification triggers our emotions, and it can

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<v Speaker 1>lock us into a course of action that would be

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<v Speaker 1>harder for us to pursue were it not for the

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<v Speaker 1>implementation of these game like elements. Yeah, I think for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us, a goal for is a great

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<v Speaker 1>aim for this year is for to have a better

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with money in general. And one thing that can

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<v Speaker 1>help you achieve that is to modify your approach and

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<v Speaker 1>think about money more like a game. Gamification helps us

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<v Speaker 1>reframe this difficult subject and turn it into something that

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<v Speaker 1>we can be a little more curious and experimental with.

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes, Matt, that curiosity, that experimentation, when we're

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<v Speaker 1>able to approach money from that angle as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>this like hard nosed Excel kind of angle, it can

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<v Speaker 1>really give us a lot more leeway to jump in

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<v Speaker 1>with both feet and to kind of get excited about

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<v Speaker 1>seeing some move some changes with our finances. Yeah, that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's fun, right, And here's the thing. We like fun,

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, it's not the end goal, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a means to an end. Hopefully over time,

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<v Speaker 1>by the repeated action of doing the smart thing because

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<v Speaker 1>it happens to be fun, that can transform the way

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<v Speaker 1>that we actually view that action. So when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to our money, we don't necessarily care that something is fun,

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<v Speaker 1>only that it leads to improved behavior when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to your money, that it gets you doing whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>is that you should be doing. I think there's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of a warning in this as well, where we need

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that we're not getting sucked into the

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<v Speaker 1>game itself, because sometimes we can kind of lose sight

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<v Speaker 1>of the larger goals, right. I'm specifically thinking of coupons

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<v Speaker 1>because people they see the coupon and they think that's

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<v Speaker 1>such a great deal. Well cool, would you have purchased

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<v Speaker 1>that overpriced you know, cheese? Otherwise maybe not? And so

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<v Speaker 1>in that case you're taking advantage of maybe a specific deal,

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<v Speaker 1>but the big picture is you spent more on that

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<v Speaker 1>fancy cheese. Well, you know what I hate more than

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<v Speaker 1>anything over price cheese. I'm glad you brought up that example,

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<v Speaker 1>because that is a thorn in my side. My friend, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're just joking, and I would actually love

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<v Speaker 1>it if we had a beer in cheese paring. That

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<v Speaker 1>sounds nice. Would that be? Oh my gosh, we'd be

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<v Speaker 1>a fancy show then. But you know what, we couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. All They has some pretty nice cheeses, though

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<v Speaker 1>at a reasonable price. I will say, yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 1>all the cheese. All right, Matt. Since we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>gamification quickly, I gotta know, like, do you have like

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<v Speaker 1>a favorite game, current or past? Maybe? Well, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>one that comes to mind is have I ever told

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<v Speaker 1>you about what I affectionately used to call dt D. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a desktop tower defense. Was this like back in

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<v Speaker 1>the Prince of Persia days? Where you playing. That's also

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<v Speaker 1>another fantastic game back in the speaking of computers from

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<v Speaker 1>oh five, and I was like computers from ninety five, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Uh No, it was this little flash game on this

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<v Speaker 1>website and a very highly addictive simple game. But I

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<v Speaker 1>spent way too many of my lunch breaks at my

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<v Speaker 1>former advertising job playing that dumb game. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>before we had kids as well. So I would come

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<v Speaker 1>home and I would play it at home sometimes too, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>would hear the music playing the little sound effects, and

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<v Speaker 1>she would roll her eyes, you know, like she's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to convince me to stop wasting my time on this

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<v Speaker 1>on the silly game, because I really really liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't look it up, by the way, because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even kidding you would totally all right, I'll avoid it

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<v Speaker 1>them like the Plague. It's really good, I think so,

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<v Speaker 1>but probably my favorite, yeah what about you video game

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time. I mean, I played a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of NBA Jam back in the day. That's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>Physical wise, I like spike Ball and disc golf a lot, right,

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<v Speaker 1>those are my two favorite games. If if you're listening

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<v Speaker 1>to Mike Ball, you and me last time we played,

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<v Speaker 1>you mean we teamed up. We did. We tore it

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<v Speaker 1>up completely dominated nice little deal. They were like little

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<v Speaker 1>nas and uh Billy ray Ciris something like that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure which one is which I'm little a little nas,

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<v Speaker 1>Okay on the minority. I'll take that. I'll take that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And for folks listening who haven't played spike ball, get

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<v Speaker 1>on it. It's a great sport. It's fun. But we

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<v Speaker 1>typically play games because there are a ton of fun

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<v Speaker 1>and we enjoy them, right, and if we received some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like side benefit from the game, well it's

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<v Speaker 1>just just a bone. This and strategy board games will

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<v Speaker 1>They get us thinking and they keep us sharp and

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<v Speaker 1>it makes you think about Matt Episode five, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about nerdy board games. We love nerdy board games as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Also playing in like a Rex soccer league, well that

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<v Speaker 1>can help keep us fit. But the fact the games

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<v Speaker 1>are fun is at the root of why we played them.

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<v Speaker 1>And depending on who you ask, they'll give you different

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<v Speaker 1>reasons why games are fun. Maybe it's a competition that

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<v Speaker 1>you're drawn to, or the prize at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the game or at the end of the season, the

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<v Speaker 1>trophy that you get. Maybe, but there are aspects of

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<v Speaker 1>a game that make it fun, and that's what we're

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on in this episode. Yeah, when we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what it is about a particular game that we

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<v Speaker 1>love and that we're drawn to, well, then we can

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<v Speaker 1>bridge that gap between a game that we love and

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<v Speaker 1>our personal finances. That's what we believe here. We can

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<v Speaker 1>take those principles from something we find naturally appealing and

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<v Speaker 1>apply them to something that most folks financially boring, like

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<v Speaker 1>saving and investing our money. So will budgeting ever be

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<v Speaker 1>as fun as playing candy Crush or playing Fortnite? Probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>But if we can bring even a action of the

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<v Speaker 1>excitement to our personal finances that we have towards the

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<v Speaker 1>games that we play, I think we'll all likely see

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<v Speaker 1>our money in better places. In Yeah, So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go over kind of some of the things that make

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<v Speaker 1>gaming fun and the way we can translate that to

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<v Speaker 1>how we handle our money, and then a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>really good examples I think that we've got we throughout

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<v Speaker 1>this episode that you're going to be able to apply

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<v Speaker 1>to your life. Now that you can change the way

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<v Speaker 1>you handle your money, you can gamify it, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know what it's going to have a massive impact on

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<v Speaker 1>how your personal finances are handled. In like it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to help you make real changes in

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<v Speaker 1>your life. And we'll get to some of that stuff

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<v Speaker 1>right after the break. All right, Joel, we are back

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<v Speaker 1>from the break, and let's talk now about what makes

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<v Speaker 1>games fun. Right the rest of this episode, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to try and figure out what it is about games

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<v Speaker 1>that we enjoy and they we're gonna apply those things

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<v Speaker 1>to our personal finances. Man, I honestly think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little ironic that we're analyzing what it is that makes

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<v Speaker 1>games fun, because it kind of sounds like one of

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<v Speaker 1>the nerdiest, at least fun things that we've ever discussed. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sort of like if you were to take a

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<v Speaker 1>college course on how to do stand up, Like you're

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<v Speaker 1>analyzing a joke that's not really how it's supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be enjoyed. But at the same time, I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is really important because I think there really are principles

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<v Speaker 1>about games, and if we think about them in the

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<v Speaker 1>right light, well, then we can take these principles and

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<v Speaker 1>apply them to any problem that we're faced with, any

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<v Speaker 1>sort of personal finance challenge, to find a way to

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<v Speaker 1>make it stickier, to make it something that we will

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<v Speaker 1>actually accomplish over time instead of kind of just kicking

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<v Speaker 1>it to the side after that New Year's resolution kind

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<v Speaker 1>of phase kind of wears off. Yeah. Yeah, a quick goal.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easy to throw out a quick couple of financial goals,

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<v Speaker 1>But implementation is where it gets hard, right, That's where

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<v Speaker 1>it becomes more difficult. The stick tuitiveness, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes gamification can help us stick to it. And so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's one of the major reasons we like games, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>one of them is competition. We like watching our favorite

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<v Speaker 1>sports team beat up the rival cross town sports team.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is as old as America itself, right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>so many of the best sports and games out in

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<v Speaker 1>the world today are ones that involve playing against our

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<v Speaker 1>beating an opponent. Anytime you can bring some competition in

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<v Speaker 1>the picture, things are bound to get more fun. Even

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not playing directly against a friend, you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to beat the final boss, the final level, You're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to put a nail in the coffin of that game.

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<v Speaker 1>You're trying to be done with it, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to beat that game exactly. Have those braggen rights, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so Matt. Let me give you a quick example.

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<v Speaker 1>So my my boss, Christa, she had this spin class

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<v Speaker 1>birthday party and I brought my bike to work, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, cool, it's gonna be fun. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really do spin class, never done it before actually until

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<v Speaker 1>this party. But I ride to work every day some boss,

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll see how this goes. I will say I

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<v Speaker 1>was not up to her level because she's like a

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<v Speaker 1>spin class master. But different than running a bike. It

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<v Speaker 1>is different. It is different. Yeah, I mean it's they're

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<v Speaker 1>definitely obviously you're using some of your hands instead of

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<v Speaker 1>your legs. Yeah, exactly, That's what I was doing when

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<v Speaker 1>I was down on all four been doggy paddle class.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you didn't tell me that, but like they had

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<v Speaker 1>this pumped up music and instructors that were super excited

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<v Speaker 1>and getting us motivated. And then also on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing for me that had the leaderboard, and the

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<v Speaker 1>leaderboard was what motivated me to go even harder. So

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes on my on my bike to work or home,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take it. I'll take it nice and leisurely, like

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<v Speaker 1>I won't go super hard because who's it benefiting if

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<v Speaker 1>I go harder? It's just me right, it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>my health. It's good for me. But ultimately I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>competing against anyone. But when I had that leaderboard in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me, man, it made me like go twice

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<v Speaker 1>as hard. I saw people were rising and falling second

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<v Speaker 1>by second, and so you're like, oh, man, I just

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<v Speaker 1>dropped down at number six or seven, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be top five. So I started going harder and harder.

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<v Speaker 1>And so obviously it's different riding a spin class bike

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<v Speaker 1>and and competing with other people on the leaderboard versus

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<v Speaker 1>just my normal ride into work. Ultimately, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>like my ride into work a little bit better. Like

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<v Speaker 1>but that is one of those things that off times

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<v Speaker 1>we're drawn to when it comes to games. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>high level of competition that we can experience. Sure, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>quick question to Crystal win because it was her birthday party, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we should have let her win. I don't remember. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember who wanted. Months back. I don't think she wanted,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think she's like top three, she's really good. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never done that. Maybe I will someday. Well, competition,

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<v Speaker 1>right in your example, it's very clear what the point

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<v Speaker 1>of that class was like they've got the leaderboard up there.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to win, You want to you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be at the top of the heap. When it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to our money, the point isn't always super clear and straightforward, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so because of that, I think we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>default to what comes easiest and the most natural to us,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's to compete with those around you, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>with your friends and co workers. Just like you do

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<v Speaker 1>with any sort of game that you play or any

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<v Speaker 1>sort of competition that you enter your you typically compete

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<v Speaker 1>against other people. When you think about it, I think

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<v Speaker 1>this can be a really unhealthy view of competition when

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<v Speaker 1>you are looking at it through the lens of your

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<v Speaker 1>personal finances, right when you're thinking about your money. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking at it that way, if it's always the competition,

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<v Speaker 1>this can lead to sort of that keeping up with

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<v Speaker 1>the Joneses mentality of spending way more than you should.

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<v Speaker 1>With this view, and if you kind of approach your

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<v Speaker 1>personal finances with that in mind, you're sort of entering

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<v Speaker 1>the arena with that scarcity mindset, right jel Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you hear people talking about like not focusing on getting

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<v Speaker 1>your slize of the pie, but let's work on growing

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<v Speaker 1>the pie. And I think that's completely true when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to our money. When it comes to our personal

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<v Speaker 1>finances in the real world, your money has very little

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<v Speaker 1>to do with my money. If you max out your

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<v Speaker 1>four own k or your roth ira A, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean I have less money to max out my

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<v Speaker 1>rath ire. No, there's very little impact if your personal

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<v Speaker 1>finances online, we're not actually competing. Yeah, I think to

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<v Speaker 1>what we can see on the surface is completely different

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<v Speaker 1>than what reality looks like when when we're talking about money.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's take for example, uh, like what percentage of

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<v Speaker 1>NFL players go bankrupt once their career is over. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's something astronomical. It's like eight eventually file for bankruptcy.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a terrible statistic. But those people have earned

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<v Speaker 1>oftentimes more money in one year than most of us

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<v Speaker 1>will see in a whole entire lifetime. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>look at somebody like Warren Buffett who's lived in the

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<v Speaker 1>same house for thirty or forty years and eats at

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<v Speaker 1>McDonald's every single morning. I mean, it's this sort of

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<v Speaker 1>man because it's so good, right and healthy for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's one of those things that sometimes having money

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<v Speaker 1>it's not reflective on the surface. And actually, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you dig in deeper an old school book, something

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<v Speaker 1>like the Millionaire next Door, and you see that the

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<v Speaker 1>way that millionaires live, actually it's pretty hard to tell

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<v Speaker 1>that they're millionaires. And so I think sometimes that's where

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<v Speaker 1>we get hung up is we see other people living

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<v Speaker 1>a lifestyle that reflects having money. But ultimately the people

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<v Speaker 1>that are living a lifestyle where it looks like they

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<v Speaker 1>have money, oftentimes they don't have that much money and

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<v Speaker 1>they haven't been handling their money well. And there's credit

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<v Speaker 1>card debt funding that lifestyle that we just don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about that's not apparent on the surface. Yeah, dude, so true,

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<v Speaker 1>Like so much of personal finance is hidden, right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>all that's visible is maybe that big house or that

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<v Speaker 1>new car. Really, though, the true challenge and the true

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<v Speaker 1>competition will vary for each person depending on where they

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<v Speaker 1>are life, like maybe it might be to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of debt or to save up enough money for a

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<v Speaker 1>down payment on a home. What we need to do

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<v Speaker 1>is just to make sure that we have clearly identified

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<v Speaker 1>what game it is that we want to play and

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<v Speaker 1>what our specific challenge will be. This is so vital

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<v Speaker 1>to making progress with our money because dude, after all,

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<v Speaker 1>like who cares to win a game that they wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even naturally choose. Yeah, yeah, that's a good point. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's give an example to kind of help

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<v Speaker 1>connect the dots. So I think, when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>our money, you're not competing with those around you. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's really really important to remember. Even though competition is

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<v Speaker 1>these one one of these main elements in gaming and

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<v Speaker 1>the things that we enjoy about gaming, Well, when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to money, with take a different approach. You're competing

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<v Speaker 1>with yourself. It's not who has the nicest car, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the You have to think more along the lines of

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<v Speaker 1>I have a dumb car payment and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>pay it off as quickly as possible. Right, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to reframe things, and so how do you do that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you do that by potentially gamifying the way you make payments,

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<v Speaker 1>and so, like, one way to do that is to

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<v Speaker 1>round up your payments. So let's say your car payment

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<v Speaker 1>every month is bucks. Well, if you can round it

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<v Speaker 1>up to a solid even number of four hundred bucks,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to pay it off more quickly. You're going

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<v Speaker 1>to avoid some of those interest payments, and ultimately you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to own your car much more quickly than you

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<v Speaker 1>would have had you stuck to just the normal payment amount.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think it's important to note that there are

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<v Speaker 1>different ways that you can implement this into your life.

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<v Speaker 1>But more than anything, you have to realize that the

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<v Speaker 1>competition is not with the people around you, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you do that, that is when, like you said, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be this keeping up with the Jones mentality,

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<v Speaker 1>because really, more than anything, it's a competition with yourself

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<v Speaker 1>as you're striving after your goals for your future. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Another example I'm thinking of two is you know how,

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of utilities have budget billing like that

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<v Speaker 1>as an option where it's really even and it's the

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<v Speaker 1>same every month. But what they do is that they

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<v Speaker 1>build in the fact that they know that there's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be some months that are really low and there's also

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be some months that are really high, and so

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna make sure that they cover all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>And so instead, one of the things that you and

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<v Speaker 1>I both like to do is make sure that we

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<v Speaker 1>are receiving our bills delivered to us where we have

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<v Speaker 1>to pay it manually. And this kind of goes against

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the advice out there as far as

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<v Speaker 1>automating your bills. But you and I both are in

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<v Speaker 1>a position where you know, we can afford a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of time to pay bills manually. And when you're

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<v Speaker 1>faced with that bill and you see the cost of

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<v Speaker 1>your power, you see the cost of your electricity, or

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<v Speaker 1>you see your water bill. Like for me, like, if

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<v Speaker 1>I can keep my water bill at six and if

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot let it jump up to that next tier

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<v Speaker 1>of eighty eight bucks, that's a win for Me've won.

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<v Speaker 1>I've won exactly. But when I see it go up

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<v Speaker 1>to that eighty eight bucks, I think, oh, you win

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<v Speaker 1>this time, Watershed of Atlanta. But I'm coming for you

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<v Speaker 1>next month. Right, Yeah, we're all about automating your finances.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think that's you know, that's something we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk about soon. Automation is key to our success when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to our finances. But but one of the

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<v Speaker 1>ways that you can gamify things. I like to look

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<v Speaker 1>at every bill in the face every month, and one

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<v Speaker 1>of those things that I don't sign up for his

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<v Speaker 1>budget billing, and that's because I want to get the bill.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get my heating bill in the winner

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<v Speaker 1>in January or February, and I want to see, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how much did I spend this month? And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if I spent more than I like when I see

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<v Speaker 1>the bill and it gives me that tiny bit of

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<v Speaker 1>bill shock, it makes me want to lower the thermostat.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me want to make a behavioral change. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes if you choose the budget billing and

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<v Speaker 1>it's a constant bill every single month for the whole year,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't force you to kind of come to grips

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<v Speaker 1>with reality and then make it behavioral change based on

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<v Speaker 1>what you've seen. And so I mean, everybody can make

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<v Speaker 1>their own decision on this, but I think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good way of helping you kind of gamify things, is

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<v Speaker 1>by looking those bills in the face every single month

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<v Speaker 1>and then being forced to make on the fly behavioral

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<v Speaker 1>changes in order to to help you lower those expenses,

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<v Speaker 1>lower those bills. Yeah, that's right, Like this is an

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<v Speaker 1>instance where it's good to feel that hurt, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like like you don't want to be on a constant

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<v Speaker 1>drip of morphine where you don't feel the pain. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna feel the consequences of your actions. Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Joe. So we're talking about other people, right,

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about how the competition are not the people

0:23:54.440 --> 0:23:57.040
<v Speaker 1>who are around us. But when you're playing a game,

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<v Speaker 1>there are times when the people around you can actually

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<v Speaker 1>help help you in a positive and affirming way, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you're on the same side. Working together is

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<v Speaker 1>crucial for any team sport out there, and aside from

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<v Speaker 1>team sports, is even crucial for like some nerdy your

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<v Speaker 1>board games like Pandemic or even Dungeons and Dragons, which,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, did you ever played Dungeons D and

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<v Speaker 1>D as a kid? Never played it? But uh and

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<v Speaker 1>I always thought it was kind of like super nerdy.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think I don't know. I've heard some good

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<v Speaker 1>stuff about it, and I think I'd give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is at the core of working together on

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<v Speaker 1>a team is communicating and working together to achieve that

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<v Speaker 1>shared goal, that common goal. Yeah for sure. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>teamwork is is huge and and that's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things we love about games, right. I love watching soccer.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the way a team can pass the ball.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, honestly, that's the first thing that attracted me

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<v Speaker 1>to soccer was the incredible passing abilities of some of

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<v Speaker 1>the guys on the field, and it was like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a really neat team sport. Uh. And so yeah, money.

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<v Speaker 1>When it comes to our money, the same can be true.

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<v Speaker 1>Teamwork can have a major impact. Step one is to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about our finances and how we're spending, saving, and investing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Matt, we're big advocates for people opening their mouths

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<v Speaker 1>with their friends and family and talking about money more

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<v Speaker 1>and making it less of a taboo topic. But let's

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<v Speaker 1>take it to the next level. Think about how much

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<v Speaker 1>we'd be able to help each other out by asking

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<v Speaker 1>more questions, by giving specific advice, and supporting each other

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<v Speaker 1>when times are tough. Connecting with your partner or a

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<v Speaker 1>good friend in real life, I mean, that's ideal, that's perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>that's amazing. And if you're both able to set some

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<v Speaker 1>shared goals like paying down student loans or saving up

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<v Speaker 1>enough for a great trip for some travel, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>much more impactful is that When you have a teammate

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<v Speaker 1>on your side. It feels like you're fulfilling this even

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<v Speaker 1>bigger goal and you're doing it with someone else. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>And Matt We've mentioned a couple of apps before that

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<v Speaker 1>make it even more helpful. Like we're talking about gamification,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes apps and websites are really helpful on our road

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<v Speaker 1>to UH gamifying our personal finance life. The Twine app

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<v Speaker 1>is great for helping couples safer goals together, and Zeta

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<v Speaker 1>is another really good one. Will link to both of

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<v Speaker 1>those in the show notes. UH and finding online communities

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<v Speaker 1>is clutched as well. Our Facebook group is a great

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<v Speaker 1>place where we're individuals are working together as this kind

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<v Speaker 1>of massive hive mind to help each other out. I

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<v Speaker 1>love seeing that, man. I love that people are able

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of spur each other on, encourage each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and then also answer questions. I think collaboration allows this

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<v Speaker 1>potential for outside success. We can kind of accomplish more

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 1>together than we can apart. Yeah, it's so great about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're sharing knowledge, but there's that accountability as well, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's just such a key component of getting stuff done.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna talk about some more of the different

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<v Speaker 1>addictive components that make games so fun, and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get to those right after the break. All right, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>we're back to the break. We're talking about gamification. We're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about what makes games fun and how we can

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<v Speaker 1>apply those principles to our personal finances. And you just

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned a really interesting word right before the break you

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<v Speaker 1>what did I say? You said, addicted? And it's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in an age where people are a did to

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<v Speaker 1>certain games. Like I think about Fortnite. I thought, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call me out with my desktop Tower defense because

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<v Speaker 1>there was a period where I think I would have

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<v Speaker 1>qualified as addicted to that thing. Well, I don't think

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>you're playing it still to this day, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>to admit that in quote unquote researching for this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, I wonder if that thing is still up. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, and you played it for a few hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I sat down to it for about thirty minutes. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just remember a shame to say, but remember

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<v Speaker 1>when Words with Friends was hot like that that was

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, people were addicted to it. They were pulling

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<v Speaker 1>it out in the bathroom, they were pulling it out

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<v Speaker 1>at the dinner table, they were pulling it out all

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<v Speaker 1>over the place, and and so yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>think games can have this addictive component, and I think

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:41.359
<v Speaker 1>we can take some of those best elements of the

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<v Speaker 1>addictive component of games and apply that to our money

0:27:44.840 --> 0:27:48.520
<v Speaker 1>where it's healthy and not destructive exactly exactly and not

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<v Speaker 1>being used in a terrible way that actually ruins us.

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<v Speaker 1>And Yeah, one of those major things that games do

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<v Speaker 1>for us is is this achievability element. There are levels

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<v Speaker 1>to a game for a reason. Right there. It's breaking

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<v Speaker 1>up these larger goals. There are many bosses along the

0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:05.840
<v Speaker 1>way that you get to beat up until you get

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<v Speaker 1>to the big boss. Nobody wants to play something that

0:28:08.720 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 1>they're never going to win, that game that they're never

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<v Speaker 1>gonna win, that's too hard. Well, you just mentioned soccer

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<v Speaker 1>a second ago. This makes me think of America and soccer,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've heard that that's one of the big arguments

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<v Speaker 1>why people think that soccer is not going to take

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 1>in the US and why basically hasn't taken up until

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<v Speaker 1>maybe recently. But like, who wants to play a sport

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<v Speaker 1>that you can't win or that you're not very good at? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, they tied at the end. What that's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember thinking that that's not American, right. I

0:28:34.359 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 1>remember thinking the exact same thing, you know, when I

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.480
<v Speaker 1>first got introduced to soccer. I was like, that's stupid.

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>In America, we win or we lose, right, Yeah, so true, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of people are not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to get excited about something that they're

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 1>not going to be able to win at. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think when we're talking about personal finances, this is a

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:53.960
<v Speaker 1>game that all of us can win in one degree

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 1>or another. Like we can all do better with our

0:28:56.560 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>personal finances, and that's what makes this I think we

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:03.320
<v Speaker 1>can use this kind of these gamification elements to give

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<v Speaker 1>us small winds along the way that lead to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of this ability to achieve something even bigger. Yeah, we

0:29:09.280 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 1>want to win, or like we at least want to

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<v Speaker 1>see some progress, like like some of those baby steps.

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<v Speaker 1>If you can see progress, like a lot of times,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all that it takes. But in regards to our money,

0:29:18.040 --> 0:29:21.520
<v Speaker 1>we have to balance that challenge of a particular money

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<v Speaker 1>goal with the likelihood of us actually being able to

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<v Speaker 1>achieve that goal. We need to be realistic and actually

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<v Speaker 1>ask ourselves, like, is this even doable? Can I own

0:29:29.880 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>six testlas? Uh? Maybe it just depends gonna take a while,

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:36.240
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I'll not know. Like you might want to

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 1>become a billionaire, But really, what are the chances of

0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:42.120
<v Speaker 1>that actually happening? And while that's important to consider, even

0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>a modest goal like saving up enough money to pay

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:48.240
<v Speaker 1>for a new car, just a new use car that's

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:52.040
<v Speaker 1>not a Tesla in cash, like, even that can feel insurmountable.

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:55.040
<v Speaker 1>But the trick is to actually break it up into

0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:58.360
<v Speaker 1>smaller steps that you can actually make some progress on.

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<v Speaker 1>This actually makes me think of Joe My. We're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about soccer here. The US is going to be hosting

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<v Speaker 1>the World Cup in right, and I looked up last year.

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I looked up some of the average ticket prices of

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<v Speaker 1>what the World Cup tickets were going for in Russia,

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<v Speaker 1>and I figured that it might cost our family if

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to go to just like a standard match,

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<v Speaker 1>like one of the I don't know, maybe one of

0:30:18.720 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 1>the group matches or maybe one of the semis. It

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>might cost our family about three thousand dollars to go

0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>to a single soccer game, which sounds pretty dumb, right, Like,

0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 1>that sounds pretty ludicrous and that sounds totally overwhelming, Like

0:30:33.720 --> 0:30:36.200
<v Speaker 1>how can you justify that? But be how do you

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 1>actually save that much money? That's also kind of a

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 1>once in a lifetime thing, right, Like I remember when

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:43.240
<v Speaker 1>the Olympics were in Atlanta. I got to go to

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:45.920
<v Speaker 1>one basketball games and it was so cool. Like the

0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 1>fact that I got to go to an Olympic that's

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>pretty cool. Sporting event is one of those things that

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:52.800
<v Speaker 1>almost nobody gets to do. It's so cool to think

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:55.880
<v Speaker 1>that that happens. So it's really expensive, but it's also

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:58.959
<v Speaker 1>something that might be on somebody's like bucket list. Understandable exactly.

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 1>If that's something you value, then you want to make

0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:02.280
<v Speaker 1>sure that you're taking the steps to make that a

0:31:02.320 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 1>priority in your life. But the fact is it doesn't

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 1>matter who you are. Well, I guess it does matter

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:08.360
<v Speaker 1>who you are, But if you're a normal person like us,

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 1>three thousand dollars to take your family to a match

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 1>seems ridiculous a single match, But if you do the math,

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 1>we'll have a little over six years before the World

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Cup is upon us. And if you break that out

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:21.880
<v Speaker 1>to how much we would need to set aside every month,

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 1>it's about thirty five bucks And that sounds doable, exactly,

0:31:25.760 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 1>Like that's what's so crazy is that this massive, audacious

0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>goal of saving three thousand dollars to go to the

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:34.560
<v Speaker 1>World Cup. Well, all of a sudden, it seems like nothing.

0:31:34.680 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Thirty five bucks is totally doable, and at the same time,

0:31:37.680 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 1>it's not something that feels overwhelming to me. I feel

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 1>that that's something I can actually make progress on. I

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 1>can handle all those little levels of adding thirty five

0:31:45.920 --> 0:31:48.720
<v Speaker 1>bucks to that pot, you know, month after month. But

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 1>if all of a sudden I had to show out

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:52.520
<v Speaker 1>three grand, it's probably not gonna happen, or it's just

0:31:52.560 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna really stress me out. Yeah, it's a good point. Yeah,

0:31:54.800 --> 0:31:58.920
<v Speaker 1>breaking up that larger goal into smaller chunks is gamifying

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 1>the process. That makes it so much more feasible and

0:32:02.000 --> 0:32:04.000
<v Speaker 1>so much more fun too, to be like, you know what,

0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I can do it and and to start actually going

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>for it. And Matt, it makes me think too about

0:32:09.360 --> 0:32:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Back in the episode, we talked to our friend j

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:14.120
<v Speaker 1>d Roth, who writes at the site Get Rich Slowly,

0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 1>and we talked for a little bit about the stages

0:32:16.760 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 1>of financial independence and if we think about those stages

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 1>as levels in a game, well, they can help our

0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:25.600
<v Speaker 1>approach and accelerate our ability to move more quickly through

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:29.360
<v Speaker 1>those stages. And the question then is how well mental

0:32:29.360 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 1>shifts are so huge in helping us actually create change

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.719
<v Speaker 1>in our lives. So if we're thinking of our personal

0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:39.959
<v Speaker 1>finances in a more gamelike fashion, it will make a

0:32:39.960 --> 0:32:43.400
<v Speaker 1>big difference in how we handle our money. In those

0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 1>stages are so helpful in visualizing our future and what

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:49.920
<v Speaker 1>it can look like. If we think about financial independence

0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:52.640
<v Speaker 1>on kind of this long extended timeline, and that we're

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 1>achieving a little bit more of it over time as

0:32:55.920 --> 0:32:58.640
<v Speaker 1>we put more aside for the future and we invest

0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:01.800
<v Speaker 1>more in our retirement accounts and we're just generally doing

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:05.600
<v Speaker 1>better with our money. That's so much easier to comprehend

0:33:05.920 --> 0:33:08.640
<v Speaker 1>than this zero to one overnight kind of thing. Right,

0:33:09.680 --> 0:33:11.720
<v Speaker 1>It's the exact same thing as saving up for that

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.400
<v Speaker 1>World Cup match. That thirty five dollars a month feels

0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 1>so different than a three thousand dollar bill that hits

0:33:17.320 --> 0:33:19.800
<v Speaker 1>you right then and there. And so yeah, I think stages,

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 1>process goals being broken up over time are huge and

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:26.160
<v Speaker 1>helping us handle money better. Yeah, it's a much easier

0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:28.760
<v Speaker 1>pill to swallow. And man, that's something that stuck with

0:33:28.800 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 1>me as well when j D was talking about those

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>different stages well, becoming financially independent, that sounds like this

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 1>huge thing that I would never be able to accomplish.

0:33:36.880 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>Like it sounds like climbing kill him and jarro or

0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:40.720
<v Speaker 1>something like that, doesn't it like with your eyes clothes

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>or something like, you know, like it just seems so impossible.

0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 1>And I know we're not alone. I think for a

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:47.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of folks, it really does just seem like this

0:33:47.680 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 1>insurmountable obstacle, this this challenge that's just too big, and

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>when that happens, they can shut us down and it

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>keeps us from moving forward at all. And so, yeah,

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 1>just kind of breaking it up into these smaller, bite

0:33:58.280 --> 0:34:01.640
<v Speaker 1>sized chunks will allow us to make progress. And when

0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:04.480
<v Speaker 1>we make progress, we see that traction, we see that progress,

0:34:04.720 --> 0:34:06.680
<v Speaker 1>and it allows us to continue on and fight that

0:34:06.680 --> 0:34:09.880
<v Speaker 1>good fight. Yeah. So there's this guy named James Clear

0:34:09.960 --> 0:34:12.280
<v Speaker 1>and he writes about habits, and one thing he says

0:34:12.440 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 1>is that getting one percent better every day is kind

0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 1>of his goal. And he talks about how just getting

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:23.239
<v Speaker 1>one percent better in a day like that seems like

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:26.880
<v Speaker 1>it's not that important, but when you compound a getting

0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 1>one percent better over sixty five days of that year,

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:33.239
<v Speaker 1>if you do it every day, then ultimately the end,

0:34:33.680 --> 0:34:35.799
<v Speaker 1>you're so much better off than if you had never

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>taken that action in the first place. And so I

0:34:37.719 --> 0:34:39.719
<v Speaker 1>think sometimes when we when we're able to kind of

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:42.840
<v Speaker 1>think about it like that, these small changes over a

0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:45.760
<v Speaker 1>long period of time, that they make a really huge difference.

0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Seeing a little progress in a game, it just reinforces

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:53.319
<v Speaker 1>our desire to participate in that game. Seeing your debt

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:56.319
<v Speaker 1>level drop because you're rounding up your payments is a

0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:59.319
<v Speaker 1>great reinforcement too, and it kind of almost, Matt, I think,

0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:02.839
<v Speaker 1>becomes this like self fulfilling prophecy. And so I think

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 1>one thing that we can do a specific kind of

0:35:05.800 --> 0:35:08.280
<v Speaker 1>method of gamification that we can adopt in our financial

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:10.719
<v Speaker 1>life is to create a list of I call them

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>like level ups and attempting to do one a month.

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>When when you say level up, I hear like the

0:35:16.160 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>sound of when you get the mushroom and Mario Brothers

0:35:19.040 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 1>or you or no, you like and when you hit

0:35:21.120 --> 0:35:25.600
<v Speaker 1>the flag and you slide down the flagpole like yeah.

0:35:25.640 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 1>But I think, yeah, if we can do these level ups,

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:31.160
<v Speaker 1>these are the even bigger things that we can accomplish.

0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:34.400
<v Speaker 1>And if we set ourselves up for success by choosing

0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 1>to tackle one a month, right, that's not that's not

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:39.920
<v Speaker 1>too much, that's not overkill. Well, then I think that

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:42.520
<v Speaker 1>it's going to have a massive impact. So one month,

0:35:42.680 --> 0:35:45.560
<v Speaker 1>let's say January, you designed to switch self Hope providers

0:35:45.640 --> 0:35:47.960
<v Speaker 1>and and find a much cheaper service and save yourself

0:35:48.120 --> 0:35:50.880
<v Speaker 1>a hundred plus dollars a month. That's a great level up, Like,

0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:53.320
<v Speaker 1>that's a big difference that you can make in your life.

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>In February, if you haven't opened an I ra A yet,

0:35:56.080 --> 0:35:58.720
<v Speaker 1>well that's the next thing to do. And so opening

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:01.399
<v Speaker 1>up an account with the Guard Fidelity or in one

0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 1>gets you motivated and you start to to see the

0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:06.960
<v Speaker 1>progress of that hundred dollars a month that you're starting

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:09.800
<v Speaker 1>to put in there a crew and make a bigger difference.

0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:12.840
<v Speaker 1>You're starting to see the progress while seeing your balance

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:16.560
<v Speaker 1>build only increases your motivation level and it really does

0:36:16.600 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 1>become this thing that just kind of continues to feed

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 1>on itself. Yeah, something else that folks can do is

0:36:21.080 --> 0:36:24.480
<v Speaker 1>instituting a no spend month. Something like that can jump

0:36:24.520 --> 0:36:28.200
<v Speaker 1>start or even supercharge your savings and curb some of

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:32.000
<v Speaker 1>that unnecessary spending. The reason for this is because like

0:36:32.080 --> 0:36:34.399
<v Speaker 1>it's it's hard, or it's it's even unrealistic, to make

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 1>cuts like that for an entire year, right, Like, who's

0:36:37.719 --> 0:36:40.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to do that? Just not really possible.

0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:42.319
<v Speaker 1>But if you try to do that for a single month,

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:46.400
<v Speaker 1>well man, that is totally achievable. In these smaller achievable

0:36:46.560 --> 0:36:50.319
<v Speaker 1>winds can also help us to feel more optimistic. So

0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:52.759
<v Speaker 1>you could even apply that to like one area of

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:55.120
<v Speaker 1>spending in your life. If you've had trouble spending too

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 1>much eating out. You're spending two or fifty bucks a

0:36:57.680 --> 0:36:59.359
<v Speaker 1>month eating out, and you're like, man, we gotta curb

0:36:59.440 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 1>this something that we like, but we really want to

0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:04.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of curb that spending in our life. Well, you

0:37:04.520 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 1>know it, take February. Uh, it's a shorter month, which

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:11.760
<v Speaker 1>makes it just a little bit easier to three days easier. Yeah, exactly,

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:13.560
<v Speaker 1>And so you know what, you say, We're not gonna

0:37:13.560 --> 0:37:15.719
<v Speaker 1>eat out for all of February. We're gonna save that

0:37:15.719 --> 0:37:18.320
<v Speaker 1>two or fifty bucks and we're gonna bank it towards

0:37:18.320 --> 0:37:21.200
<v Speaker 1>something that we we really want to save for, or

0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 1>even open that investment account that we haven't opened yet.

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I think a no spend month in a particular category

0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:31.040
<v Speaker 1>or kind of overall, not spending anything online or whatever.

0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:34.239
<v Speaker 1>These are the kind of challenges that probably aren't sustainable

0:37:34.280 --> 0:37:35.839
<v Speaker 1>over a long period of time, but they can be

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:38.239
<v Speaker 1>kind of that jump start, like that game Genie to

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:41.319
<v Speaker 1>kind of help us get going right, because that game

0:37:41.400 --> 0:37:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Gennie was the worst to kind of forbe like sucked

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:45.279
<v Speaker 1>all the fun of it because there was no there's

0:37:45.280 --> 0:37:48.680
<v Speaker 1>no more challenge, right, Okay, maybe it's the Mario Star

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:50.520
<v Speaker 1>when you get the Star and like you can't get

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:53.920
<v Speaker 1>shells can't hit you. Yeah, you can run through the

0:37:53.920 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 1>whole level without getting hit for at least a period

0:37:56.080 --> 0:37:59.200
<v Speaker 1>of time, exactly. All right, Let's talk about an aspect

0:37:59.320 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>of games make them fun that everyone's pretty much aware of,

0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:06.200
<v Speaker 1>which is the reward, the goal or the prize at

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:07.879
<v Speaker 1>the end of the game. Part of what makes any

0:38:07.920 --> 0:38:10.000
<v Speaker 1>game so fun in addictive is the fact that there's

0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:12.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna be some sort of fantastic price at the end

0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:14.160
<v Speaker 1>of the slock. You know, we're talking about Mario Brothers here,

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>thinking about beating Bowser at the end of Mario Brothers three.

0:38:17.000 --> 0:38:19.880
<v Speaker 1>Can you feel the fireballs like it wasn't passion? Is

0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:22.359
<v Speaker 1>your heart pounding because you're afraid you're gonna die? Yeah?

0:38:22.400 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 1>The Cortisol is pumping through my blood. You know, we

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:28.560
<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't play any game if there wasn't a final

0:38:28.600 --> 0:38:31.720
<v Speaker 1>reward or a feeling of accomplishment that came with beating

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 1>the game. And so when it comes to our personal finances,

0:38:34.400 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 1>the final reward might be, you know, a massive down

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:41.120
<v Speaker 1>payment for a house, or maybe paying off your student loans,

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:44.120
<v Speaker 1>or maybe even the ultimate goal, which is achieving financial independence.

0:38:44.640 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 1>But we often don't celebrate these smaller wins and these milestones.

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:51.040
<v Speaker 1>And I'm thinking of things like just maybe paying off

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:53.520
<v Speaker 1>a specific credit card debt or even setting up a

0:38:53.520 --> 0:38:57.600
<v Speaker 1>basic emergency fund. These are wins that we achieve, but

0:38:57.800 --> 0:39:00.719
<v Speaker 1>we don't necessarily recognize them like we do when you

0:39:00.760 --> 0:39:02.920
<v Speaker 1>hit financial independence, or maybe when you buy that house,

0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:04.759
<v Speaker 1>because when you buy that house, you throw up, you know,

0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:07.000
<v Speaker 1>a housewarming party, and it feels like you've accomplished something.

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:10.560
<v Speaker 1>These smaller goals and these smaller rewards along the way,

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I think are so crucial. So rewarding ourselves in small

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:16.040
<v Speaker 1>ways along the way, it's so important as we continue

0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:19.440
<v Speaker 1>up the mountain towards whatever larger financial goals that we

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 1>might have. So for example, Man, sometimes it's just the

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:25.640
<v Speaker 1>small things like Sometimes those rewards are huge, and those

0:39:25.680 --> 0:39:27.919
<v Speaker 1>are the things that are impactful, like winning a super Bowl.

0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:29.920
<v Speaker 1>But for me, sometimes it's the small things that they

0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.600
<v Speaker 1>go a long way. Every time I up the percentage,

0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:34.960
<v Speaker 1>for instance, in in my company four oh one K

0:39:35.480 --> 0:39:38.719
<v Speaker 1>on the Vanguard website, streamers fly and it says like

0:39:38.719 --> 0:39:42.520
<v Speaker 1>the big congratulations and then they send me an email afterwards. Yeah,

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 1>it makes me feel so good man, I'm like, all right,

0:39:44.719 --> 0:39:46.879
<v Speaker 1>I did I did something great. Yeah. It's it's it's

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 1>like a little dopamine release. What you're doing there is

0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 1>you're realizing it emotionally. You know in your head cognitively

0:39:53.239 --> 0:39:56.240
<v Speaker 1>that that's what you're supposed to do. But by having

0:39:56.320 --> 0:39:58.360
<v Speaker 1>that little reward, like the little streamers that kind of

0:39:58.400 --> 0:40:00.759
<v Speaker 1>flash across and like the con eddie that drips down

0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:03.680
<v Speaker 1>your screen, like you're feeling that in a very small

0:40:03.719 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 1>and digital way, but you're still feeling it emotionally. And

0:40:06.600 --> 0:40:08.880
<v Speaker 1>that's I think what's so important. And that's what celebrating

0:40:08.920 --> 0:40:11.760
<v Speaker 1>things is all about. Right. It's it's not saying that cool,

0:40:11.840 --> 0:40:13.759
<v Speaker 1>you did a good job. It's like, well I know that.

0:40:14.239 --> 0:40:17.440
<v Speaker 1>But a celebration or a party or a small reward,

0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:19.239
<v Speaker 1>we're not talking about going out and blowing all the

0:40:19.239 --> 0:40:23.200
<v Speaker 1>money that you've saved, but that connects it to you emotionally.

0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:26.000
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's kind of what's missing in our

0:40:26.040 --> 0:40:28.240
<v Speaker 1>world today, right, Like we live in such a culture

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:31.719
<v Speaker 1>that is so focused on performance and hitting goals and

0:40:31.800 --> 0:40:34.239
<v Speaker 1>quotas and things like that. But the thing is, as

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:36.480
<v Speaker 1>soon as we hit those things, what happens we set

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:39.320
<v Speaker 1>the next one exactly Like typically the bar gets raised,

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:41.520
<v Speaker 1>and we don't often spend a lot of time celebrating.

0:40:41.520 --> 0:40:43.080
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not saying we need to sit around patting

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:45.720
<v Speaker 1>ourselves on the back all the time, but I think

0:40:45.880 --> 0:40:49.239
<v Speaker 1>if we can actually recognize that, man, something significant was

0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:52.920
<v Speaker 1>accomplished here, that's we're celebrating, and those little rewards along

0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:56.040
<v Speaker 1>the way can help us to achieve those larger financial goals.

0:40:56.040 --> 0:40:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I think when you don't celebrate those little financial wins,

0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:00.759
<v Speaker 1>I think that's when people get burned out. Right. If

0:41:00.760 --> 0:41:03.799
<v Speaker 1>you're constantly just on this march and you're not really

0:41:03.840 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 1>looking up, you're just got your nose to the grindstone,

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:08.799
<v Speaker 1>you're just working hard, well, I think someone has a

0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 1>better chance of burning out in that kind of situation

0:41:11.239 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 1>and then ultimately not actually achieving the financial goals that

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 1>they've set out to achieve. Thrown in the towel completely,

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, man, it's amazing to me for some reason

0:41:20.120 --> 0:41:24.240
<v Speaker 1>that this little Vanguard stream I mean, it's their websites. Honestly,

0:41:24.239 --> 0:41:27.160
<v Speaker 1>it's very terrible. It's not very usual friendly, and the

0:41:27.239 --> 0:41:30.240
<v Speaker 1>streamers are kind of They're still a fantastic company. Yeah, yeah,

0:41:30.280 --> 0:41:33.320
<v Speaker 1>and we recommend them completely. They're great, but the streamers

0:41:33.320 --> 0:41:35.839
<v Speaker 1>are so like two thousand three at the graphics are

0:41:35.880 --> 0:41:38.360
<v Speaker 1>not good. But it's amazing that that sticks out in

0:41:38.360 --> 0:41:40.440
<v Speaker 1>my mind that they kind of encourage me in that

0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 1>way and that it is important, Like it is important

0:41:43.440 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 1>how they do that, and these little behavioral things that

0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:49.880
<v Speaker 1>do connect to you, and on a deeper level, these small,

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:54.960
<v Speaker 1>small rewards that are seemingly insignificant can be super meaningful

0:41:55.280 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 1>in just kind of helping us to continue moving forward. Man,

0:41:58.160 --> 0:42:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, it makes me wonder if I hit

0:42:00.719 --> 0:42:03.439
<v Speaker 1>some sort of like let's say I completely max out

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:06.400
<v Speaker 1>my four one K, or I hit like a certain percentage,

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:08.919
<v Speaker 1>if they've got these like streamers that I haven't seen

0:42:09.000 --> 0:42:11.799
<v Speaker 1>yet that are even better, right, Like they're they're only

0:42:11.800 --> 0:42:14.560
<v Speaker 1>giving me the basic ones now for for being like

0:42:14.640 --> 0:42:17.200
<v Speaker 1>a solid saver. But you know what, if you hit

0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:21.640
<v Speaker 1>the complete nineteen max, maybe they've got these like super

0:42:21.680 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 1>dope streamers. Yeah, like the batalic confetti, so like shines

0:42:24.680 --> 0:42:26.520
<v Speaker 1>a little extra on your screen there. I mean, I

0:42:26.600 --> 0:42:29.440
<v Speaker 1>think they they're holding something back once I hit that point. Well, So,

0:42:29.600 --> 0:42:31.880
<v Speaker 1>like we're talking about the different aspects that the different

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:34.920
<v Speaker 1>elements that make games fun, that make them addictive, like

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:37.000
<v Speaker 1>we said earlier, and we think this is really important

0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:40.080
<v Speaker 1>that if we can identify these things and kind of

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:42.720
<v Speaker 1>bridge the gap a little bit between these fun games,

0:42:42.760 --> 0:42:44.840
<v Speaker 1>the things that we find enjoyable and our money in

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:47.560
<v Speaker 1>our personal finances, that we can also make our personal

0:42:47.600 --> 0:42:50.399
<v Speaker 1>finances more enjoyable and something that we will give more

0:42:50.440 --> 0:42:53.480
<v Speaker 1>attention to. But it's also important to note that gamification

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:56.440
<v Speaker 1>can only get you so far. Right, maybe due to

0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:59.759
<v Speaker 1>your personality type, you're really into games and you can

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>get austin the fun of it. But for a lot

0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:04.960
<v Speaker 1>of folks, maybe the novelty will weigh at times or

0:43:05.000 --> 0:43:08.080
<v Speaker 1>even completely wear off. And so when this happens, it's

0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 1>really important to have an overarching mission statement. Joel, you

0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:13.440
<v Speaker 1>know you kind of mentioned the why behind your money.

0:43:13.480 --> 0:43:15.840
<v Speaker 1>That is a really important thing to have. Having that

0:43:15.880 --> 0:43:20.319
<v Speaker 1>storyline that transcends the elements of simple gamification that you've

0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:23.360
<v Speaker 1>been able to work in your personal finances, that storyline

0:43:23.400 --> 0:43:25.680
<v Speaker 1>that will help to revitalize you when you're filling down

0:43:25.840 --> 0:43:27.800
<v Speaker 1>or maybe when you feel like that you're not winning

0:43:27.800 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to your money. Yeah, of course, Matt

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:33.480
<v Speaker 1>it it is essential for us to go back and

0:43:33.760 --> 0:43:37.360
<v Speaker 1>think about the underlying things, that the goals, that ultimate

0:43:37.360 --> 0:43:40.440
<v Speaker 1>goals that we have, the ultimate why behind our money,

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:43.799
<v Speaker 1>the mission statement that we want to live our lives by.

0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:46.799
<v Speaker 1>But the reason that gamification is important is that it

0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:49.799
<v Speaker 1>can really meet us at the level of implementation, and

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:52.800
<v Speaker 1>gamification can be this massive boon to our ability to

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:56.279
<v Speaker 1>stick to those goals of saving more and eliminating debt.

0:43:56.560 --> 0:43:58.680
<v Speaker 1>And it can also just help money stuff in general

0:43:59.000 --> 0:44:01.839
<v Speaker 1>feel less frustrating. These small ways in which we can

0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:05.719
<v Speaker 1>amend our behavior or change our approach can help us

0:44:05.760 --> 0:44:09.320
<v Speaker 1>make really big money moves this year that we otherwise

0:44:09.400 --> 0:44:11.359
<v Speaker 1>might not have been able to do. So, Yeah, I'm

0:44:11.400 --> 0:44:15.040
<v Speaker 1>interested to hear how other people gamify their money, like

0:44:15.080 --> 0:44:17.840
<v Speaker 1>the the tools that they're using and the ways that

0:44:17.880 --> 0:44:20.799
<v Speaker 1>they're adapting their behavior. And so, yeah, if you have

0:44:20.880 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>some specific ways that you're gamifying your money in a

0:44:23.680 --> 0:44:25.600
<v Speaker 1>really massive way, or that you've been able to make

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:29.680
<v Speaker 1>massive changes through kind of some gamification techniques, please share

0:44:29.680 --> 0:44:31.560
<v Speaker 1>those in the Facebook group for all of us to see,

0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:33.960
<v Speaker 1>because that kind of stuff is so helpful. Matt and

0:44:34.000 --> 0:44:35.680
<v Speaker 1>I we don't know at all. We don't know all

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:37.520
<v Speaker 1>the ways to gamify our money, but but we do

0:44:37.640 --> 0:44:40.319
<v Speaker 1>know that it's an important method for us to consider. Yeah,

0:44:40.320 --> 0:44:42.759
<v Speaker 1>and different methods work for different people as well. So

0:44:42.840 --> 0:44:45.440
<v Speaker 1>something that might work for one person, like rounding up

0:44:45.440 --> 0:44:47.600
<v Speaker 1>their car payment, well that sounds like a fantastic idea

0:44:47.640 --> 0:44:49.319
<v Speaker 1>to somebody, right, they're gonna be able to get another

0:44:49.320 --> 0:44:51.320
<v Speaker 1>couple of payments in and pay that car off early.

0:44:51.520 --> 0:44:53.600
<v Speaker 1>But to somebody else that may not resonate as well.

0:44:53.640 --> 0:44:55.719
<v Speaker 1>So for that person, that's who we want to hear from.

0:44:56.120 --> 0:44:57.799
<v Speaker 1>We want to hear some of those other tricks. Yeah,

0:44:57.800 --> 0:45:00.200
<v Speaker 1>for sure. All right, let's get back to the year

0:45:00.200 --> 0:45:02.480
<v Speaker 1>that we had on the show today. We had a

0:45:02.560 --> 0:45:05.880
<v Speaker 1>lovely beer from modern times called astral Prism. This is

0:45:05.920 --> 0:45:08.239
<v Speaker 1>a double I p A sent to us by my

0:45:08.239 --> 0:45:10.120
<v Speaker 1>buddy Craig, who's a brewer out there, Matt, what were

0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:11.840
<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on this beer? Well, Joel, I have to

0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:14.920
<v Speaker 1>say that I am a massive fan of this beer.

0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:17.600
<v Speaker 1>Monern Times man, they've just got my number. The way

0:45:17.640 --> 0:45:20.719
<v Speaker 1>that they make their beers completely and totally resonate with me.

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:24.239
<v Speaker 1>This double I PA to me is really good. It

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:27.120
<v Speaker 1>has this massive hot presence, but it's not this this

0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 1>happiness that leads to bitterness. It's pretty sweet. But the

0:45:30.920 --> 0:45:34.319
<v Speaker 1>hops they make themselves known with the pungent nature, you know,

0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:36.800
<v Speaker 1>like the herbally nous. But this is a really fantastic

0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:39.120
<v Speaker 1>beer poured nice and hazy. This is the type of

0:45:39.160 --> 0:45:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I PA for mama that's just completely in my wheelhouse.

0:45:41.680 --> 0:45:44.080
<v Speaker 1>How about you? What were your thoughts on this beer? Yeah?

0:45:44.160 --> 0:45:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I thought for a double I PA, it was pretty

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:49.080
<v Speaker 1>mellow in like a really good way. Like it definitely

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:54.000
<v Speaker 1>tons of hot presence, but it was so nicely balanced

0:45:54.239 --> 0:45:56.719
<v Speaker 1>that it wasn't like punching me in the mouth in

0:45:56.719 --> 0:45:59.879
<v Speaker 1>any sort of crazy ways. And it had some notes

0:45:59.880 --> 0:46:02.880
<v Speaker 1>of guava. Obviously we have a lot of i pas

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:06.239
<v Speaker 1>on the show. I thought this one was super tasty.

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I love what Modern Times is doing. They make a

0:46:08.600 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 1>ton of I p a s I don't know if

0:46:10.080 --> 0:46:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you'd even be possible in our lifetime to drink them all.

0:46:12.040 --> 0:46:14.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that's a little bit of an overtatement.

0:46:14.280 --> 0:46:16.880
<v Speaker 1>But but but they make that many. I mean, you

0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:19.520
<v Speaker 1>just wait there, dedicated to the craft of making tons

0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 1>of great i pas, and this one was just a

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 1>really good representation of what they're really really good at

0:46:25.280 --> 0:46:29.320
<v Speaker 1>of making something that is like juicy but mellow, tasty,

0:46:29.480 --> 0:46:32.879
<v Speaker 1>a little sweet, and just incredibly appetizing. So yeah, I

0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:35.920
<v Speaker 1>really appreciated this beer astral prism for modern times. Yeah,

0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:37.640
<v Speaker 1>you and I were lucky enough to swing by the

0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Dankness Dojo and that what their what their spaces called

0:46:41.160 --> 0:46:44.040
<v Speaker 1>down there in downtown l A. We're out there last year,

0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:46.200
<v Speaker 1>and uh yeah, we're a big fan of what they're doing.

0:46:46.320 --> 0:46:48.919
<v Speaker 1>And you mentioned aguava. That's that's pretty astute. I feel

0:46:48.920 --> 0:46:50.759
<v Speaker 1>like I totally can't pick up on some like some

0:46:50.760 --> 0:46:54.120
<v Speaker 1>more tropical fruit flavor notes there. I totally dig that. Yeah,

0:46:54.160 --> 0:46:57.080
<v Speaker 1>don't mess with my palette, bro. All right, that's gonna

0:46:57.120 --> 0:47:00.400
<v Speaker 1>be it for this episode. Really fun Matt talk about

0:47:00.400 --> 0:47:03.400
<v Speaker 1>gamification with you, and we'll have links to some of

0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:05.160
<v Speaker 1>the apps and some of the sites that we mentioned

0:47:05.640 --> 0:47:09.759
<v Speaker 1>up on our website at how to money dot com. Yeah, Juel.

0:47:09.840 --> 0:47:12.120
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of the website, we've got that credit card article

0:47:12.160 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>up there talking about the best credit cards to use

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:17.600
<v Speaker 1>depending on how you spend your money. We recently updated

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:19.840
<v Speaker 1>that and so we'd recommend for folks to check that

0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:22.839
<v Speaker 1>out if you're considering getting a new credit card. We're

0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 1>hoping to be able to provide more helpful information on

0:47:25.480 --> 0:47:27.840
<v Speaker 1>the website this year, and a lot of the cards

0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:31.160
<v Speaker 1>that we discussed there, they've got some great sign up bonuses,

0:47:31.200 --> 0:47:32.880
<v Speaker 1>and so if you were to sign up for a

0:47:32.920 --> 0:47:35.279
<v Speaker 1>credit card via that article and via those links, it

0:47:35.320 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 1>helps out the show. At the same time, everybody that's

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:40.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna be it for this episode is that it? That's it,

0:47:40.120 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 1>all right, until next time, best Friends as Friends Out