WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Euro Date 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.320 Well, I definitely learned something today in our brand new 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:05.840 second date update. Yeah, we all get Jeffrey in the morning, 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:09.520 and this woman has a very unique style of dating. 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:11.720 I'm really well. 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:12.959 I don't want to get too into it because I 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:13.360 don't want. 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:13.920 To spoil it for you. 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:16.880 So let us know what you think, Yes, you think 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:20.160 or I've ever heard of it before? I mean that also, 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.040 I would like to know, especially to our international listens, 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:26.240 absolutely because we love reading your comments. 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:27.200 When you see Alexis. 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:30.800 Yeah, Brandon Martin said, currently in the hospital. My wife 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:34.159 just had our third baby. Shout out theo archer. But 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:38.120 I'm still here to get my fixed on our YouTube page. 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:40.920 What a beautiful name. 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:42.159 Three kids? 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.160 Oh wow, that is so cool. Yeah, and you're still 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:46.880 on our YouTube, Brooke and Jeffery YouTube. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:48.320 Yeah, there it is there, it is. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:52.199 Well, congratulations and make sure you give you know your 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:54.400 wife all the flowers she deserves. There's a lot of 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.720 locks there, especially the third time around. All right, let's 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:59.160 get your brand new second date updates started right now. 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:01.000 Date update. 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.520 What are the classic signs that your date is not 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:06.520 going well? 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.319 Maybe they keep forgetting your name. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:13.360 Yeah, they asked the waiter for separate checks before you 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:19.280 even order out, or they FaceTime their mom trying to 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:22.760 hook you up with her instead. I mean, you. 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:28.160 Upgrading dates. 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:29.160 They liked the show. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:30.960 May it's not as bad about I thought, But our 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:34.880 listener Noah said he saw clear signs immediately on his 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:38.720 date that things were just not going right immediately. 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.040 That means she's not even given you a chance. 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:43.480 Let's hear from him, Noah, Welcome to the show man. 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.120 Hi, Hi, thanks for having me on. 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:47.920 God immediately this is terrible. 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:54.760 Yeah, yeah, So tell us about the name of this 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:56.080 lady and how you met her. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:56.840 Yeah. 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:00.120 Yeah, So her name is Sophie, and we met on 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:03.520 a dating app. When I saw her picture, I mean, 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:08.120 she's totally my type. She's got these beautiful brown eyes, 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:11.560 long dark hair. I mean, to be honest with you, 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.040 I just felt like I was lucky that she matched 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:14.320 with me. 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:17.320 Oh that's a nice compliment. 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:22.080 Yeah, you know. 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:25.960 And we started like messaging really quickly, and the messaging 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:28.280 back and forth was good and it was natural, and 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:32.760 I got the impression that she's like a worldly. 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:34.360 Person, like she travels a lot. 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:37.360 Yeah, like she's a traveler, you know, and. 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:39.520 Like what from her pictures that she was traveling. 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:42.280 No, No, just like the way she was talking. You know, 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:45.760 she would like bring up weird facts about like countries 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:48.720 and stuff, or talk about smart, loving to go on 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:50.720 vacations and things like that, and. 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:54.600 Yeah that's cool and you like that about her obviously, Yeah. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:54.920 Sure. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.679 I mean I admit I haven't really traveled much in 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.200 my life, but I like that, you know, I like 0:03:00.240 --> 0:03:01.639 somebody to know stuff. 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:04.080 And maybe that's somebody, yeah, introduce it to you. 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:06.760 Sure, yeah, I mean it was. I was all about it. 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:09.560 And eventually it got to the point where I was like, well, 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:11.320 do you want to meet up in person? And she 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.480 said yeah, And she said she wanted to go on 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:15.720 a European date. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.240 Does that mean it dinner starts at eleven pm? 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:23.360 It was kind of weird thing, right, Like I didn't 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:24.920 exactly know what that meant. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.720 Like actually in Europe and travel there, or just a 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:30.520 European style cuisine. 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:33.880 You know, I didn't get the impression she wanted to 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.800 go to Europe. She said that European you know, go 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.440 to like a European place, and she mentioned Scandinavia. 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:40.320 That was the thing. 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:44.600 It was like Scandinavia, like the Nordic countries or something, 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:46.720 and Okay, let's go have some pickled fish. 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:49.240 Oh there's a Scanningion coffee shop here that's really good. 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:50.360 Yeah. 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.640 Or maybe she wanted to go Dutch, meaning she wants 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:57.160 to split it equally. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:59.480 And I didn't want to like ask anything, because they 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.320 didn't want to be like dumb, you know. I didn't 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:02.480 want to seem like I didn't know what she was 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:06.560 talking about. I just sort of pretended that I knew 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:07.840 what she was talking about. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.080 Wait, and you're going to have to plan a date 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:12.120 without knowing what she wants, Like. 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:13.920 Yeah, I mean I had a history of this. I 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:15.480 mean in college, I took a girl out and she 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.440 said she had a gluten allergy, and so I didn't 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:18.640 know what that meant. So I took her to an 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:19.600 Italian restaurant. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:24.360 We can't go to German because that glug. 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:27.400 Yeah, okay, I better to ask forgiveness and permission. 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:28.320 I guess I don't know. 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:31.760 This is okay, And so I just rolled the dice 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:34.600 and I made her reservation at a couple of different places, 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:39.120 and I just figured I'd let her pick, you know. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:42.400 And I was even worried, like my car's a Japanese car, Like, 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.279 should I rent a European car? 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:47.400 Taking this too much? 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:48.520 But she'd move there. 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.760 You're like way up in your own head before you've 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:55.640 even actually met her in person. Did you eventually meet her? 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:57.640 I did, so. She wanted me to pick her up 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.159 at her apartment, and she looked just like a pick. 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:01.600 Okay, time okay? 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:03.320 And then where does it go bad? Because you said 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.360 it went you got bad signs immediately. 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.000 Well, so this is where it started to get weird. 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:09.920 So while I was at her place, I told her 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:13.880 that I made some dinner reservations at European restaurants and 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:16.000 she said, I don't know if we should do that. 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:19.680 This kind of a weird thing to say, right, So 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:24.599 I said, well, should I cancel the reservation? Well, like, 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:25.760 what do you want to do? And she was just 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:29.760 sort of noncommittal, you know, she said she was pretty tired. 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:33.560 Oh didn't that annoy you? I'm sorry, but like you 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.159 went through all this trouble and she's being kind of 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:37.760 rude about it in her house. 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:41.559 Well, it was less annoying and more just weird because 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:45.279 she had confirmed a half hour before this, and she 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:47.799 said that she was like ready to go to bed 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:48.599 and you're. 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:51.920 A night's over, Like Alexi said, you're inside her apartment 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:54.480 and she's canceling the date in Yeah. 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.400 Yeah, So I was starting to get worried that maybe 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:02.799 I didn't look like my pictures or something like did. 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:04.200 I accidentally catfish this woman? 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:04.640 Yes? 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:08.400 Right, I didn't think I missrepresented myself, but I just 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:08.840 didn't know. 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:09.560 What was going on. 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:13.279 Or maybe she has a certain standard of European restaurant 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:14.960 that she wants to go to and the ones that 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:16.680 you chose weren't up to that level. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:18.760 Or maybe she was asking you to go to bed 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:19.760 with her immediately. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:24.680 Bro, that's just how works. Maybe you were so sexy 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:27.359 that you walked in and she's like, cool, I am tired. 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:28.159 It's the dinner. 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:32.440 Yeah, I was lying If I said that thought didn't 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.800 briefly pass through my head, but that was not the 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:35.320 vibe I. 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:35.880 Was doing it all. 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:40.360 Okay, So did you end up going out to eat anywhere? 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:41.040 No? 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:43.960 I only spent like fifteen minutes there at her apartment, 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:46.360 and eventually I said, you know, I'll just go, and 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.159 so I left and I've been texting her but she 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:52.120 hasn't been responding, and I really want to go out 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:55.839 with her, but I figured, like maybe I screwed up somehow, 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:57.560 and I just don't know how. 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:00.960 Well, obviously you did, but I just don't know what 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:04.160 it is. It's our fault, for sure. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:07.040 It's hard to think that you should even give this 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:09.920 girl any more time because of the way she treated you. 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.640 But at the same time, it sounds like he wants 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.360 to know what the reason was before he finally moves on. 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:16.000 Well, and it. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.600 Also sounds like she's really hot, so he'll put up 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:20.320 with a lot really hot. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:21.960 Yeah. 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:24.640 Okay, Well, we're going to come back. We'll call Sophie 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:27.320 and try to get her to agree to I mean, 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:31.720 at least an American date, all the fast food cupon 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:32.640 she can handle. 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:37.200 We'll do it right after this hold On second date update. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:40.720 Out of all the dates that we've heard about this year, 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:46.000 this one might be the shortest. Just fifteen minutes that 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.280 Noah spent was Sophie Yeah, and. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.400 Most of it was spent talking about how she didn't 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:51.960 want to be in it. 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:56.080 Yeah, or trying to figure out which European restaurant they 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.800 should go to if they go out at all. It 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:02.560 wasn't a very productive conversation till eventually she just said, 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:03.800 you know what, I'm tired. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:04.840 I'm going to go to bed. 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:05.480 God. 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:08.200 Yeah, and that would not even come with me. No, 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:12.119 just like I'm sleepy. That was basically it. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.360 But now, to be fair, Noah did say she is 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:17.440 very hot, and hot girls do require more beauty sleep, 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:19.320 so we should probably give her a little bit. 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:21.600 Of grace on that works, so I've heard. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:24.920 I will say, I feel like I dropped a couple 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.280 points since kids, and it's not because of anything other 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:28.600 than just the lack of sleep. 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:37.440 Oh, just a couple of points. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:37.439 To at least get me some answers out of this, right, Brooke. 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:40.160 Yeah, I mean I don't know that you should probably 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:42.760 go out with her again? What do I know? 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:45.720 You're hey, what if he did something wrong? We don't know. 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:47.679 Well, that's the thing. I just want to know if 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.880 I did do something wrong, what it was, and maybe 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:51.240 still give me a second chance. 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:54.480 Okay, So but remember, no matter how hot she is, 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:56.840 self respect is priceless. 0:08:57.000 --> 0:09:00.560 Blah blah blah, half of heartless audience. 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.960 Just to thank you for that, Conrad, Brooke, here we go. 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:05.400 I'm gonna dial Sophie. 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.640 Hopefully we can get her to agree to if not 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:09.920 a European date, just an American style one. 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:23.000 But let's see what she has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:23.800 is this Sophie? 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:26.760 Yes? This is she? Who's this? 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:30.160 Hey? This is a radio show that you're on right now. 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:31.600 It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:40.920 What SOE? Glad to have you on it? This is random? 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:44.120 You guys? How did you guys get my number? 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:46.880 We got your number from one of our listeners that 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:50.040 you went on a date with recently, a guy named Noah. 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:53.080 Okay, I don't know if we could even say you 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:54.680 went on a date. He came to your house to 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:58.000 take you on a date. It just never seemed to happen. 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:02.320 Right, Yeah, according to him, because we spoke to him 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:05.760 about it, it only lasted, he said, about fifteen minutes, and 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:07.440 he was pretty bummed out. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:08.559 That's where it ended. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:14.440 What is this whole thing about? How am I involved 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:14.880 in this? 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:17.120 This is a segment called a second Date Update. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:20.280 It's where we try to help our listeners get answers 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:23.640 for why things didn't go well on their first meetup 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:26.720 or why there hasn't been a second one. So we're 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:28.280 just trying to help know a figure out if he 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:29.160 did something wrong. 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:32.560 Yeah, because it's pretty easy to own that it could 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:34.160 be him. 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:36.160 I mean, and it is interesting that you said you 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:38.800 were bummed out that you didn't spend more time together. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:40.480 Can you elaborate what you mean? 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:42.360 Sure? 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:49.120 Like I tried to give him some hints about what 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:54.040 I want for our first date, and I kind of 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:58.120 told him I wanted to do a European style date. 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.840 Okay, and we heard that, Oh he told you that. 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:04.760 Yeah, he mentioned that you had brought it up and 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:06.920 that it was something you wanted to do. He wasn't 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:10.360 one hundred percent sure what you meant by a European date. 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:14.360 Though, so I tried to like give him more hints, 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:19.800 Like I brought up like Scandinavian date, Norwegian date, I 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.640 like listed those three things and was hoping if. 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:26.040 He didn't know, maybe he'd google it. Here's the deal. 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:30.599 Like, after college, I traveled a lot, Yeah, and I 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:32.200 became more used. 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:35.120 To that style of dating. Are you guys picking up 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:35.800 what I'm putting down? 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.520 Because he definitely just what's a European style of dating? 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:40.400 What do you mean? 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:42.640 So? I know this is like on the radio. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.040 I don't want to be inappropriate, but when you go 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:48.280 on a first date, you're with that person, you hang 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.280 out at like their home or your home. 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.720 And then you go out and eat. Makes sense, you 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:54.880 mean more than hangout. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:59.400 Yes, so, like it's the opposite in America where you 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:02.440 have to like play games and I'm small talk, try 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:08.120 to impress each other. But in Norway, you like, get together, 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:11.760 get all of the nerves out. 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:13.880 O you test the chemistry right away. 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:14.840 Yeah. 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:15.600 So it's like. 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:17.560 A pre agreement, like you come over. 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:23.920 Let's because you were a tourist there seeing there, it's 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:24.600 like beautiful. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:26.520 The Norwegian mat are like, no, we swear, this is 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:29.160 how we do it. 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:33.280 You're saying that's what you were wanting to do by 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:34.319 European dates. 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:34.880 Oh my god. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.040 Yeah, I mean I thought he knew that's what I wanted, 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:42.000 but he just didn't seem interested when he got when you. 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:44.000 Did say, when you said, oh I'm tired, I need 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.120 to go to bed, you wanted him to come with you. 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:51.800 Yeah, okay, okay, interesting. 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:54.160 I don't know that that did not show up on 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:54.839 a Google search. 0:12:56.040 --> 0:13:00.720 Yeah, I promise you he was not on standing the 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:03.000 hints that you were laying down for him, but I 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:06.400 way for dinner, he really was a European style dinner. 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:09.960 But now I assure you he probably understands because he 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:12.840 has been listening to this conversation on the other line 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:13.880 waiting to talk to you. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:15.679 Are you joking. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:17.400 Right now? 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:17.640 Yes? 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:22.440 Why are you embarrassed? 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:23.839 Wouldn't you want him to know this? 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:25.880 Not now I feel horrible. 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.160 Well, don't feel feel terrible. 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:32.280 Just talk to him because Noah's there, right, Noah. 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:34.240 Hi, yeah, Hi, yeah, I'm here. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:37.720 He's like the biggest missed opportunity of my life. 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:44.320 Well, hi, hi, Sophie. U h, I'm trying to understand. 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:49.680 You wanted to, like, you know, do the thing and 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:50.920 then and then go to dinner. 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:51.920 His voice. 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:55.880 Guys, So I tried. I really tried giving you the hints. 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:57.640 But if you do it that way. 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:01.440 The Norwegian way, then all that tension is gone and 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:03.320 you can really enjoy each other's company and get to 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:04.720 know each other on the date. 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:06.280 Oh, I am. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:09.640 Going to be so fascinated by our Norwegian listener feedback 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:10.880 on the podcast on this one. 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:12.600 Actually, that does make a lot of sense. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.920 If you get all the stress out early, then you 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:16.080 can just bet yourself more. 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:17.199 When you're going out. 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.520 Idiots, Well, I'm not saying I would do it, but 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:21.880 mentally it makes sense. 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:25.400 To me, like you're more relaxed that yeah, well yeah, 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:29.600 I'm tired. No, what do you think about that? 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:32.720 Well, I mean I think it's cool. It's just kind 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:35.880 of surprising, I mean because I just had never heard that, 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:39.000 you know, but I mean sure, I'm down for that. 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:40.240 Yeah. 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:44.800 Okay, well that was then the moment has kind of passed. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:48.920 Now you're not going to give a guy a chance 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:50.440 to learn the Norwegian way. 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:55.120 I just don't know if he's as assert as I want. 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.080 Oh, the person I'm dating to be. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.280 I mean, I think he was trying to be a 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.040 respectful right like he was. 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:05.040 Yeah, I want to like presume anything. 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:08.320 I just I think you're gorgeous and I just really 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:11.280 wanted to do my best to do the right thing. 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:13.200 But if you want me to be assertive, I mean, 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:21.359 I'm ready to take you to Norway whenever you want. 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.840 I will say, I do think it's kind of sweet 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:29.200 that even though I didn't really explain it to you, 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:33.320 you still got these radio people to contact me. 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.240 And to figure it out. And I think that's kind 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:35.640 of cool. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:39.440 Okay, Well, I mean that is how they do it 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.960 in europe European. 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:47.880 Listeners are going to be like, yeah, So, now that 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:51.280 Noah has heard everything and he's fully clued into what 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:55.000 you were going for, would you be willing to give 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:59.040 him another chance to have a proper European first date 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.320 with you? Because if you do, we're willing to pay 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:03.640 for the date, just the date, though nothing else. 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:08.280 Look Sophie, I will do all the research on Norwegian 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:15.760 style dating. I will call a Norwegian Yeah, I will 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.440 phone a friend all. I will make sure that I 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.480 am prepared and it'll be the best date you've ever had. 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:23.000 Promise. 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:28.200 Okay, that's a lot to live up to. I'm definitely 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:29.360 down to try again. 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:32.360 Oh dude, you got to. 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:34.240 Show up with the bare minimum on you know what, 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.720 run to the bedroom ready. 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:45.200 Well, congratulations, Noah, you got yourself. I guess the first date, 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:48.080 first European style date for yourself. 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:49.920 Thank you, guys. 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:53.720 It's Sophie. Like, before we get off here, like, should 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:56.880 I go on Amazon and buy like a Norwegian flag 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:57.960 because I'll wear that. 0:16:57.960 --> 0:17:00.720 And only that I don't want? 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:02.840 You know, that's hilarious. 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:05.360 Opened to surprises. 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:09.960 Right ready for a full salute of that flag right 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:15.080 up the flagpole congratulations. Definitely let us know how the 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:15.920 first date goes. 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.320 Not all the details though, Yeah, just. 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:21.919 A video will do. Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:22.760 Brook. 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:26.240 You ever feel like you were born in the wrong country? 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:27.119 Oh? 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:30.160 Man, I feel like I maybe have done Norwegian dating 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:30.920 and not even. 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.639 No, no, yeah, it seems more like your style. 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.440 It calls like this make me feel like I should 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:39.400 have been Scandinavia. I knew it, and by the way, 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:42.800 I did google it. I typed in Norway sex and 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:44.360 a lot of things. 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:46.240 I wanted to do my. 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:49.240 Research and a lot of things came up, and it 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:53.000 did say casual intimacy is more common in Norway than 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:54.639 it is in other cultures. 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:57.320 It's kind of that whole region up there. They hate 0:17:57.359 --> 0:17:58.040 small talk. 0:17:58.000 --> 0:17:58.880 Aren't they also hotter? 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:03.440 Oh yeah, I told you, but long in Norway, right, 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:07.760 Some people believe that style of dating actually really helps. 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:10.880 Not everybody agrees with it, though, to each their own. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:14.000 But I feel like Columbia was the big tourist destination 0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:16.920 for dudes last year. Norway is going to be seeing 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:18.760 a big uptick after this. 0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:20.560 Goes to air, probably just because they were trying to 0:18:20.560 --> 0:18:21.560 get hair transplants. 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:23.960 Whatever. It is I'm on that plane too. 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:26.840