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Speaker 1: I See's Daily Game. It's a production of iHeartRadio. What's

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Speaker 1: up to Sights Tea. You're listening to The Daily Game,

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Speaker 1: the compilation of motivational quotes I've collected over the years

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Speaker 1: that I've found inspiring and helped me through the game

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Speaker 1: of life. Today's quote comes from the French aristocrat Antoine

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Speaker 1: Descente ex superre. This is a quote that I've been

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Speaker 1: saying for a while, and I never knew exactly where

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Speaker 1: it came from, but now we do. Love does not

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Speaker 1: consist of gazing at each other, but looking outwards together

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Speaker 1: in the same direction. I'll change it for Antoine, It'll

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Speaker 1: be relationships do not consist of gazing at each other,

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Speaker 1: but in looking outwards in the same direction. Because love

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Speaker 1: comes in different flavors. You know, you love your mother,

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Speaker 1: you could love your father, you could love your kids.

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Speaker 1: But a relationship you have to be on the same page,

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Speaker 1: so the two people have to see a future that's similar.

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Speaker 1: I mean me and Cooco, we've been together over twenty years.

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Speaker 1: But if she wanted to live on the beach and

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Speaker 1: I wanted to live in the woods and the mountains,

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Speaker 1: that's a deal breaker. Because even if I did live

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Speaker 1: on the beach, I would be unhappy, so that relationship

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Speaker 1: would be one sided. If both people see the same

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Speaker 1: view of the future, you have the potential for a long,

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Speaker 1: loving relationship. I always say that most of the judgment

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Speaker 1: calls you make in a relationship will be artistic. That's

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Speaker 1: what are you going to eat, how you guys gonna dress,

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Speaker 1: how you're going to decorate your home, where you're gonna live,

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Speaker 1: What are you going to do for vacation, What do

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Speaker 1: you guys do? What music's what do you do for entertainment?

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Speaker 1: These are artistic calls. You have to have similarities oppositees

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Speaker 1: a track, but they don't stick. You have to be

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Speaker 1: similar and have similar visions of the future. You have

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Speaker 1: to look out in the same directions. This doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: you have to be identical on everything. I might like

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Speaker 1: one kind of music, Coco might like another kind of music.

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Speaker 1: That's not a deal breaker. But the vision of the future,

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Speaker 1: your kids, and what you guys want has to be similar. So,

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Speaker 1: as the French aristocrat said, love does not consist on

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Speaker 1: gazing at each other, but looking outward together in the

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Speaker 1: same direction. I one hundred and ten percent agree with this.

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Speaker 1: You have to find somebody who shares the same vision

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Speaker 1: of the future. Here's the problem. As we grow, our

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Speaker 1: ideas change, and that's the fear in a relationship is

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Speaker 1: that I might want to do this for the first

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Speaker 1: ten years, but the next ten years I have a

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Speaker 1: shift in what I want. And that's called human nature.

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Speaker 1: And that's why all relationships are crapshoot. Because you look

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Speaker 1: out in the same direction doesn't mean you will continue

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Speaker 1: to look out in that exact same direction for the

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Speaker 1: next thirty, forty fifty years, whatever you guys plan to

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Speaker 1: be together. This has been another ice cold fact from

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Speaker 1: me iced tea. Listening again tomorrow when I drop some

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Speaker 1: wisdom on your ass till then, stay safe, stay smart,

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Speaker 1: and stay knowing you want the same goal. At the

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Speaker 1: finish line, I sees Daily Gaming. It's a production of iHeartRadio,

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Speaker 1: Final Level Entertainment and Oddity, an Asylum entertainment company. The

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Speaker 1: show's executive producer is Noel Brown. Supervising producer is Jordan

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