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Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

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Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew.

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Speaker 1: Subject my wife needs performing and hand medication. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty nine year old black man married to

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Speaker 1: a beautiful black woman and we have a ten year

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Speaker 1: old son. We've been married for eleven years and over

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Speaker 1: the years, I've fallen short of being a great husband.

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Speaker 1: I struggled to stay faithful and I slipped a few

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Speaker 1: times and started sexting and having phone sex with women

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Speaker 1: I met online. It's not my wife's fault that I

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Speaker 1: did what I did, but she has changed since we

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Speaker 1: got married. We went for two years without sex, and

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Speaker 1: at the time we were still young, so I suggested

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Speaker 1: that we switched things up to make it interesting. I

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Speaker 1: tried different positions with her, and she complained or said

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Speaker 1: she was uncomfortable. She is in tiptop physical shape and

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Speaker 1: she works out several times a week, so it was odd.

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Speaker 1: Then we had a talk and she told me that

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Speaker 1: she is going to do a better job at pleasing me.

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Speaker 1: Her idea of doing a better job was to have wild,

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Speaker 1: nasty sex with me all over the bedroom after she'd

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Speaker 1: had some pills her doctor gave her. This was a

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Speaker 1: mood killer for me, so I was not mad at

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Speaker 1: all when she fell asleep while she was on top

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Speaker 1: of me. I decided to try again the next night,

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Speaker 1: so I sent her dirty text messages all day about

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Speaker 1: what I wanted to do to her. She said she

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Speaker 1: would be ready and would take her pills. I asked

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Speaker 1: what pills. She said, she was taking some pills to

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Speaker 1: increase her libido and they're all natural and safe. I

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Speaker 1: told her that they made her too wild and she

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Speaker 1: was really out of control. That night we did it

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Speaker 1: and it was the same thing. She was a wild

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Speaker 1: woman and it was a turn off. I can't believe

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Speaker 1: my wife has to take performance enhancing medication to have

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Speaker 1: sex with me. I don't want this sloppy sex. What's

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Speaker 1: a man to do? Wow? I mean, we got a

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Speaker 1: lot of strawberry letters about sex, not enough sex, not

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Speaker 1: good sex, cheating sex, threesome sex, etc. We get a

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Speaker 1: lot of them, But Steve, I don't think. I don't

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Speaker 1: think we've ever gotten a letter from a husband about

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Speaker 1: the sex being too wild. I think this might be

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Speaker 1: a first. And wait a minute, husband, weren't you the

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Speaker 1: one complaining about not having sex for two years? Weren't

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Speaker 1: you the one asking to and I quote switch things

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Speaker 1: up and make it interesting? Yeah, well, be careful what

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Speaker 1: you wish for a hum because she gave you what

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Speaker 1: she thought you wanted wild and I guess nasty sex.

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Speaker 1: And now you're saying she's too much. What is she

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Speaker 1: doing in there that turns you off so much. I mean,

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Speaker 1: all you told us was that you guys were all

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Speaker 1: over the bedroom and she was a wild woman. That's

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Speaker 1: all you said. As husband and wife, of course you

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Speaker 1: need to have a healthy sexual relationship, but you guys

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Speaker 1: are obviously on two different pages when it comes to

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Speaker 1: pleasing each other. But I also hear you say that

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Speaker 1: everything turns you off, especially her libido pills. So she

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Speaker 1: could try to get a lower dosage maybe, you know,

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Speaker 1: and see what happens after that, then maybe she won't

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Speaker 1: be so wild. You know. I'm struggling really to figure

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Speaker 1: out just why you're so turned off and what is

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Speaker 1: it that you wanted? I mean, isn't this what you wanted?

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Speaker 1: Isn't it the wild nasty? I don't know what did

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Speaker 1: which to some people would just be regular sex, I

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Speaker 1: might add, Or is it the fact that she needs

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Speaker 1: of think that's what it is, and that's why you're

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Speaker 1: taking this so personally. I think a lower dosage and

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Speaker 1: more communication between you two would help you. Guys at

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Speaker 1: this point, Steve, that ain't it? He It is right? Here.

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Speaker 1: My wife needs performance enhanceme medication. Let's talk about this

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Speaker 1: for a minute. Thirty nine year old dude got this

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Speaker 1: beautiful black woman. You got ten year old boys been

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Speaker 1: stay faithful, and I slipped a few times, started sex

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Speaker 1: into having phone sex with women I met on nine. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what you did. It's not my fault that I

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Speaker 1: did what I did. It's not my wife's fault that

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Speaker 1: I did what I did. But she has changed since

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Speaker 1: we got married. We went for two years without sex,

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Speaker 1: two wow. And during that time we was young. So

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Speaker 1: I suggested we switched things up to make it interested.

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Speaker 1: All right, This is the key this whole letter that

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Speaker 1: I'm about to expose to you. The key to this letter.

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Speaker 1: It's in the two years y'all had no sex. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you suggested that she switched things up. Please remember

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Speaker 1: this block of information because you're gonna need it for

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Speaker 1: the rest of the letter. I tried different positions with her,

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Speaker 1: she complained, saying she was uncomfortable. She's in tiptop physical

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Speaker 1: you thought it was odd. So then y'all had a talk,

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Speaker 1: and then she told you that she was going to

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Speaker 1: do a better job at pleasing you. Now, these are

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Speaker 1: the two pieces of information for when we come back

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Speaker 1: number one, two years without sex, Switch things up to

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Speaker 1: make it more interesting. All right, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of Steve's response in twenty three minutes after the hour

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Speaker 1: subject my wife needs performing enhancing medication. We'll get back

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter A sub jacked

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Speaker 1: my wife needs performing enhancing medication. Ladies and gentlemen, here

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Speaker 1: we go, thirty nine year old black dude man to

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Speaker 1: this fan woman in tiptop shape, and things changed for

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Speaker 1: a while. He wasn't the best husband, cheated on her

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Speaker 1: it wasn't his wife's fault. It's just that things change

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Speaker 1: after they got mad. They have not had sex in

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Speaker 1: two damn years, for long time years. That's a long

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Speaker 1: long time. Seven hundred days, two months, two months, What

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Speaker 1: do you mean it's two months? Is two damn long?

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Speaker 1: Two years is extraordinary? I don't know what you quick

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Speaker 1: calling me your husband. But she has changed since we

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Speaker 1: got married, and it's been two years, and so you see,

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Speaker 1: two years without six. We was young, and I suggested

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Speaker 1: we switch things up to make it interested me. I

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Speaker 1: make it interesting in two years without sex. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: I tried different positions and she complained. She in tiptop

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Speaker 1: was it was odd. Now here we go. Then we

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Speaker 1: Here we go, two years without six, Switch things up,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do a better job of pleasing you.

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Speaker 1: Next line, her idea of doing a better job was

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Speaker 1: to have wild, nasty sex with me all over the

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Speaker 1: bed room to complain about it. After she had some pills,

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Speaker 1: her doctor gave up hard up dog. What is you

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Speaker 1: writing us? Fault God? You say, switch things up? Switch? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: over here more interesting? Yes, I'm over here, now switch.

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Speaker 1: I'm hanging on the headboard. Switch switch. That's just regular

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Speaker 1: for me. I got my boody hanging off the banks. Switch.

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Speaker 1: I got my foot up on the door knob switch

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Speaker 1: the bath phone. Man. Oh, there was some switching going on.

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Speaker 1: This was a mood killer for me. So I wasn't

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Speaker 1: next night. So I this is what you did. You

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Speaker 1: send her dirty text messages all date boy, what I

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Speaker 1: wanted to do. Also, you're gonna throw gas on the fire.

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Speaker 1: All damn day girl. I'm Fenna take you. I'm Fenna

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Speaker 1: being you. I'm Finn sprang you. I'm Finn the hold you.

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Speaker 1: I'm Finn tall yo. I'm finna get this thing. You

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna believe me when I get there. She was

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Speaker 1: says she will be ready and would take her pills.

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Speaker 1: I asked what peel the peel boy? The pills she

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Speaker 1: pills to increase a lobido and they all naturally safe.

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Speaker 1: I told her they made her two wild? Hold up,

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Speaker 1: what the hell you mean two wild? Y'all ain't had

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Speaker 1: sex in two years. This ain't wild? She make it up? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you getting makeup? Love tied trim you getting woe off

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Speaker 1: tail you getting all love it? Boy? Boy, you're here

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Speaker 1: time about that night we did it and it was

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Speaker 1: the same thing. She was a wild woman. She came

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Speaker 1: in the house that you said, all this talking all

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Speaker 1: damn day. What you're gonna do? She said, Well, I

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Speaker 1: I'm fitting to where you're out. Now you ain't here

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Speaker 1: mad about these damn peals. Ask her for a pill?

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Speaker 1: You take one, and if they're doing all that, we

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Speaker 1: want to know where they at Do they make that

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Speaker 1: for me? Boy? You by you you don't know a gift.

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Speaker 1: I want to turn off. I can't believe my wife

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Speaker 1: has to take performance enhandsome medication. Now sexual me? Shut up?

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Speaker 1: You tripping? He asked for this, though, then he come

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Speaker 1: tell me about I don't want this sloppy sex or

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Speaker 1: package it about slopping, Well, that's that slopper, slopper slop

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Speaker 1: slop slop slop shop slopping. But what does he want though, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I mean he don't he wanted his way. Yeah, they

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