Speaker 1: Kicking off your weekend with a brand new Second Date podcast.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here at Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, okay, you too.
Speaker 1: What do you think the success rate of taking a
Speaker 1: one night stand with a person you met at the
Speaker 1: club and turning it into an actual relationship.
Speaker 2: I don't know you were going to say zero.
Speaker 3: Well, you try it once and then you realize.
Speaker 4: It's a zero.
Speaker 5: In my experience, I think if you're annoying enough and
Speaker 5: you keep going back, they'll keep you around it.
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, well that's exactly what one of our listeners
Speaker 1: is going to try to do today, so.
Speaker 2: We wish her luck.
Speaker 1: Yeah, or apparently. And let's get in to some listener comments.
Speaker 5: Alexis Yeah, I saw one from I'm Gonna Say It
Speaker 5: Wrong Star seven Am. I like it said, I have
Speaker 5: to stop listening to your podcast while I'm driving.
Speaker 2: I was about to crash my car.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well you can listen, just don't look down
Speaker 3: at your phone.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, I think it's not a shock. I think
Speaker 2: you laughing, maybe crying, we don't know.
Speaker 1: I just thought you need to drive in silence or
Speaker 1: just anger, like this is where my life has come.
Speaker 2: Yeah, All right, let's be safe. Let's get this brand
Speaker 2: new second day started right now.
Speaker 4: Second date update.
Speaker 6: When you have that option to spend the night over
Speaker 6: at your date's place the first time you hang out, Yeah.
Speaker 4: How do you make that decision?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 2: People say no?
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I mean, do you pull a b and
Speaker 6: just consult your bottle of wine until you say yes,
Speaker 6: give me ten minutes.
Speaker 4: Do you pull a Jose.
Speaker 6: And check their fridge to make sure they have good
Speaker 6: breakfast options for the next morning? Or do you pull
Speaker 6: a Batman villain move like two face and flip a
Speaker 6: double headed coin?
Speaker 2: Oh that's again the same answer that.
Speaker 4: Again, Yeah, and see that coming. Guess I'm staying the
Speaker 4: night with you.
Speaker 3: The other way you have imagine telling the girl I
Speaker 3: gotta go the coin that can.
Speaker 4: Think of that?
Speaker 6: But I only asked because one of our listeners had
Speaker 6: to make that decision, wondering do I stay over or
Speaker 6: do I go home to night?
Speaker 3: Now back with Brook though, like, is this a really
Speaker 3: difficult way to always.
Speaker 5: Pack a bag actually close leaving your car?
Speaker 4: You guys have much more of a game plan than
Speaker 4: I realized.
Speaker 2: But we are so easy on this show.
Speaker 6: Clearly, let's talk to our listener and see how she feels. Jackie,
Speaker 6: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hi you guys, Hi jack you are you better at
Speaker 2: playing hard to get than we are?
Speaker 3: Jackie, stop hitting on us.
Speaker 6: I don't know how did you make your bedtime decision?
Speaker 1: Well, it was really for.
Speaker 7: The moment, I guess.
Speaker 1: I so you didn't pack a bag like Alexis is
Speaker 1: what you're saying.
Speaker 4: No, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Who did you go out with?
Speaker 7: Your name is Miguel.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you like the Latin boys. I mean it
Speaker 3: doesn't mean he is for sure, but most likely I.
Speaker 4: Don't want to assume anything about him. He's probably like
Speaker 4: a super white guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, he is.
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I don't feel excited you like you?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Was the lead up before that decision?
Speaker 8: Well, I met him on Tinder, so we had been
Speaker 8: like communicating for a while, and I was out with
Speaker 8: my girlfriend and we were like taking like, you know,
Speaker 8: cute girl snaps.
Speaker 3: It's Friday night.
Speaker 8: My homegirl was like, you just sit in this snap.
Speaker 8: You look so cute and like invite him. I'm like,
Speaker 8: oh my.
Speaker 3: God, right, your girl asked you up. And they're the.
Speaker 1: Ones that told you I've been out with a single
Speaker 1: girl friend before where we're like, yeah, have them come
Speaker 1: and they meet for the first time while we're all there.
Speaker 4: As a guy intimidated.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but that's a test, right, He's a
Speaker 2: guy up for it.
Speaker 4: So how did it go?
Speaker 8: It went great?
Speaker 7: He showed up.
Speaker 8: It was like a bar club, like they played music.
Speaker 7: So he actually did dance.
Speaker 8: And when I tell you you can move.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, can really dance? You are a giddy right now?
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 9: Well, he just don't know. It was a good date, right,
Speaker 9: I have fun?
Speaker 2: Can I ask how much alcohol was consumed at this point?
Speaker 2: A lot?
Speaker 3: How much before he got there?
Speaker 2: Did he show up and.
Speaker 4: You were already?
Speaker 7: I wasn't like gone.
Speaker 8: I was like everybody at the bargain tipsy, Like you know.
Speaker 4: Okay, you weren't brooking it on the first day. That's fun.
Speaker 2: I'm never gone. The key is a glass of water
Speaker 2: after every drink.
Speaker 4: That sounds way too responsible. We're gonna edit that.
Speaker 6: Out, so Jackie keep going.
Speaker 4: What happens after that?
Speaker 8: So then like the lights come on and everyone's gone,
Speaker 8: Like my friends are gone?
Speaker 7: What the letters are cleaning up?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 6: They left me, But isn't that a good sign, like
Speaker 6: when the girls feel like you're safe enough to be
Speaker 6: on your own with this person, they're like, okay, she's
Speaker 6: got it.
Speaker 2: No, you don't ever leave a girlfriend without checking in. Yeah.
Speaker 8: First ever, Remember I was drinking like a lot, so
Speaker 8: there's a high percentage chance that I told him that
Speaker 8: I was okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, okay, and you felt safe with this guy.
Speaker 6: So the lights came on, they're shutting the bar down,
Speaker 6: and your friends aren't there.
Speaker 4: What happens next?
Speaker 8: We were hungry because you know, we've been drinking. Oh,
Speaker 8: he got like, yeah, some hot dogs and like tug.
Speaker 1: I like how you're trying to make this sound all
Speaker 1: very classy.
Speaker 2: We've talked, I mean we made out. You were making
Speaker 2: out at this point, right.
Speaker 8: I mean yeah, in between bites.
Speaker 4: Between hot dog bites.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, okay.
Speaker 6: So obviously this ends up over back at Miguel's place somehow.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 8: He said that his place was like up the street,
Speaker 8: and it's not normally something I would do.
Speaker 2: We all say that you don't need to though, yea,
Speaker 2: But I said yes, okay and had a good time.
Speaker 1: I mean the description of this, though, just sounds like
Speaker 1: I don't know I feel like he was maybe under
Speaker 1: the understanding this was one.
Speaker 2: Night of fun brook.
Speaker 4: How dare you it's Tinder? And are you not remembering
Speaker 4: the hot makeouts in between wiener bites.
Speaker 1: And I just I don't know if your expectations are
Speaker 1: matching maybe what his work.
Speaker 8: So I kind of wanted to continue to get to
Speaker 8: know him, Like I didn't see this as a one off.
Speaker 2: Did you tell him that?
Speaker 8: I felt like it was implied for my profile.
Speaker 4: No, it's good.
Speaker 6: You do not want to be on the first did Like,
Speaker 6: by the way I see this going long term, that's
Speaker 6: not a good thing.
Speaker 4: I could die like this, you guys.
Speaker 2: So the next morning they could obviously talk about how
Speaker 2: she hopes this isn't the last time she sees them,
Speaker 2: and that she sees something more with him. I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 2: what was that like?
Speaker 8: So we didn't have like a ton of time to
Speaker 8: talk because I got picked up, but I.
Speaker 7: Did text him later.
Speaker 4: Did you respond?
Speaker 8: See? That's why he helped because when I waited it
Speaker 8: sounds like he's just being polite, Like it's a different
Speaker 8: tone to his text now Rather when when we were
Speaker 8: snapping the night before, it was very.
Speaker 4: That's weird.
Speaker 6: When I text super drunk and super sober, I sound
Speaker 6: exactly the way.
Speaker 1: But she hadn't talked to him sober, you know, like
Speaker 1: you said, you had been talking to him for a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks on TikTok, so you can tell a vibe.
Speaker 3: Like you woke up and you're like, oh, you don't
Speaker 3: look like what I remember.
Speaker 2: And the light of the bar, so he saw her
Speaker 2: in full light bar light.
Speaker 6: But clearly something is off here, and you deserve some answers.
Speaker 6: So let's come back and call Miguel and hopefully he
Speaker 6: picks up and gives us a little bit of insight
Speaker 6: when we do your second date update.
Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, if you missed.
Speaker 6: Jackie's first date, let's quickly go down the checklist of
Speaker 6: her hangout with Miguel.
Speaker 4: Okay, so is he a good dancer?
Speaker 7: Check?
Speaker 4: Did her friends approve?
Speaker 7: Check?
Speaker 2: Those are two good things.
Speaker 6: Could he make out while also eating a street meat.
Speaker 4: Dog at the same time? Check and checks?
Speaker 2: So I may have the same type of men in mind.
Speaker 6: No wonder, people wonder it ended with a little sleepover
Speaker 6: back at his place, But Jackie's hoping it wasn't just
Speaker 6: a one night stand thing for sure. Thing is she
Speaker 6: can't deny that Miguel has been acting differently towards her,
Speaker 6: at least over text. He's being more polite now than
Speaker 6: he is being flirty, and we just want to help
Speaker 6: her figure out the reason why we just think he's.
Speaker 2: The One thing I'm concerned about is that you were
Speaker 2: sounds like pretty drunk that night, and he may share
Speaker 2: a story that could be embarrassing.
Speaker 8: Did you consider that, Jackie, I don't think there was
Speaker 8: anything embarrassing that happened.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so you're willing to hear whatever it is.
Speaker 8: And yeah, but that's why I'm calling because I like
Speaker 8: this guy. I thought we had a good connection on
Speaker 8: Tinder and we had fun with my friends. Even my
Speaker 8: friends are like, well, where's Miguel, And I'm like, I
Speaker 8: don't know.
Speaker 4: Well, man, here's the thing.
Speaker 6: If it does happen to be something embarrassing that you
Speaker 6: don't remember, the good news is Brooke has done something
Speaker 6: ten times more embarrassing.
Speaker 1: Sober probably even Yeah, in fact, we all have.
Speaker 9: That makes me feel better, Okay, comparison is very low.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're always do we want to go around
Speaker 6: the room and give awful examples of how embarrass ourselves.
Speaker 4: Maybe we should save that for once we hear what
Speaker 4: the issue is.
Speaker 3: Got it?
Speaker 6: Okay, let's see if Miguel answers the phone. I'm gonna
Speaker 6: dial his number right now. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Miguel?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Hey man, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and
Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 9: Hey, there's yeah, how can I How can I help you?
Speaker 7: Guys?
Speaker 6: Uh, we're we're calling because we're in the middle of
Speaker 6: a second right now.
Speaker 4: That's called a second date update.
Speaker 7: Sorry, I'm just confused. What does this have to do
Speaker 7: with me?
Speaker 2: Great question?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, well if you don't if you don't know
Speaker 6: what it is, it's where we have a listener who
Speaker 6: has gone out with you and had a really nice time,
Speaker 6: was hoping to meet up again, but that hasn't been happening,
Speaker 6: and she's not really sure why.
Speaker 7: Who is it?
Speaker 4: I don't know if you're seeing multiple people.
Speaker 6: But the girl who reached out to us about you today,
Speaker 6: her name is Jackie.
Speaker 7: Jackie Okay, Jackie from Tender Yeah.
Speaker 2: Saved in the phone sounds like, yeah, it sounds like
Speaker 2: your name. You guys met up?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I met her and friends with the club, right.
Speaker 6: We heard the story from her, and it sounded like
Speaker 6: a really fun night with the stuff of the club,
Speaker 6: and it ended up back at your place after some
Speaker 6: street food hot dogs.
Speaker 2: She said. Her friends even liked you.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's fun.
Speaker 2: Okay, were you going into the night just expecting to
Speaker 2: just have fun for one night? Like you?
Speaker 1: Weren't thinking of her? Maybe as a multi night type
Speaker 1: of lady. I don't want to say relationship because I
Speaker 1: don't know that that's what she's looking for.
Speaker 9: But no, we we we had a situation the next morning.
Speaker 4: What a situation?
Speaker 2: She said she had to hurry out because the car
Speaker 2: was waiting for her.
Speaker 9: Well, yeah, so I heard her get up and call
Speaker 9: somebody to pick her up. Yeah, And I told her, like,
Speaker 9: you know, I can call you or whatever, and she said, no, no,
Speaker 9: it's it's okay, it's okay.
Speaker 7: So then she jumps in the shower.
Speaker 9: And about five minutes later, there's a knock at the
Speaker 9: door and I opened up and it's her mom.
Speaker 2: What your mother is standing at your door?
Speaker 7: Yeah? Apparently she was her ride.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 2: I cannot imagine calling after a night like that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she wasn't happy.
Speaker 4: Unhappy, Yes, she was not happy.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, what did she say?
Speaker 7: She started grilling me, like, did you have fun last night?
Speaker 7: She said? How many partners have you been with?
Speaker 3: Oh? No?
Speaker 7: It was really really awkward.
Speaker 9: Yeah that.
Speaker 1: So wait, did Jackie ever come and interfere or know
Speaker 1: that this was happening.
Speaker 9: It took her a while to get out of a
Speaker 9: shower and get her stuff on everything. So in my mind,
Speaker 9: before that whole awkward situation with her mom, I was
Speaker 9: probably gonna hang out with her again. But to meet
Speaker 9: her mom on the first day like that where she's
Speaker 9: grilling me, Yeah, and.
Speaker 1: It's the morning after, like, your mom will always think
Speaker 1: of you as that guy.
Speaker 6: But it could be a funny story if you're able
Speaker 6: to spin it the right way.
Speaker 3: Dependol, mom.
Speaker 2: Why would Jackie call her mother?
Speaker 4: That's a good question, Broke.
Speaker 6: Then, Actually we should find out because I have to
Speaker 6: tell you Miguel that Jackie is on the other line
Speaker 6: right now listening to this phone call.
Speaker 7: Yeah, is her mom on the line too?
Speaker 6: I don't know Jackie talk to Miguel here.
Speaker 4: Geezil.
Speaker 7: I'm so sorry you read all that.
Speaker 8: I I'm just I don't know. It's it's weird because
Speaker 8: like I was waiting for you to like call me back,
Speaker 8: you know, just like text, text me back or something.
Speaker 1: Well, Jackie, did you get some of like why didn't
Speaker 1: you take up his offer on getting an uber instead
Speaker 1: of calling your mom?
Speaker 2: Okay, well, now I get that because you're in your
Speaker 2: you look like the morning after. It's tough an uber.
Speaker 9: Mom.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, but.
Speaker 4: What if the uber driver's cute?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I get where.
Speaker 2: You have all your friends. You went out last.
Speaker 8: Like my mom, she was like nearby, she was leaving church,
Speaker 8: and it's like, oh, I spend money on a uber.
Speaker 6: She came from church to pick her daughter up after
Speaker 6: a one night stand.
Speaker 3: She yeah, she's not.
Speaker 2: She was upset.
Speaker 4: Wow, did you know that?
Speaker 2: She was so upset she had to have lectured you in.
Speaker 4: The car something to you.
Speaker 8: My mom usually picks me up from my one night stands.
Speaker 4: Oh, she's used to this.
Speaker 3: That mom knows the rundown. Okay, it's another sunday. You
Speaker 3: know what to do after?
Speaker 2: This is probably why they're all one night and not more.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good point.
Speaker 8: And she doesn't need everybody. I just happened to be
Speaker 8: in the shower.
Speaker 7: I didn't know she was gonna grill you mc gall.
Speaker 8: I'm so sorry. I had no idea she was gonna
Speaker 8: do that. I mean, my mom is my best friend,
Speaker 8: She's my favorite person in the whole world, and I
Speaker 8: do didn't see anything. They're coming to pick me up
Speaker 8: after church. I mean she was in the area. I
Speaker 8: didn't want you to have to send money on Uber. I
Speaker 8: didn't want to.
Speaker 2: Inconvenience to anybody.
Speaker 4: I mean, Miguel, what do you think I get it?
Speaker 9: Like, I'm super close with my mom too, and I've
Speaker 9: had my mom pick me up from some really sticky situations.
Speaker 7: But I wasn't under eighteen at the time, and you know,
Speaker 7: I'm an adult.
Speaker 3: It's been a while.
Speaker 7: It was just really off putting for you to feel
Speaker 7: like your mom doesn't like me already, you know, like
Speaker 7: that was love you.
Speaker 1: She was just asking about like the other day, Like wait,
Speaker 1: she was asking about Miguel.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was asking, like, have you heard from him?
Speaker 8: He seemed like a nice guy.
Speaker 6: Sometimes mom's coming really really hot when they just want
Speaker 6: to make sure that he's a good guy. They're not
Speaker 6: actually angry.
Speaker 1: And you already ripped the band aid off with her,
Speaker 1: like there's no way you could get lower and she
Speaker 1: knows where.
Speaker 2: You live for the next time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, I mean.
Speaker 8: She did say that she would pick me up if
Speaker 8: it ever did happen again.
Speaker 7: Okay, this is so weird, Like I've never dealt with
Speaker 7: anything like this before.
Speaker 6: Well, we'd like to let you deal with it one
Speaker 6: more time and send you on another date with Jackie,
Speaker 6: and we'd pay for it.
Speaker 1: I bet Jackie could even promise that her mom won't
Speaker 1: come or pick her up.
Speaker 2: Or or maybe mom any interaction with you.
Speaker 4: No, she'll have her grandma coming get I.
Speaker 8: Mean, Miguel, I thought that we had like a really
Speaker 8: great time. I think it's gonna be better, like mom
Speaker 8: doesn't have to come. But I also just want to say, like,
Speaker 8: isn't my mom really hot? Like that's how I'm going
Speaker 8: to look in like the next twenty.
Speaker 7: Years, Like she looks amazing.
Speaker 8: So if you if you pick me, if you kick me, Miguel, like,
Speaker 8: and then he hot for the rest of my life.
Speaker 6: Is not a lot of people come on the show
Speaker 6: and try to sell themselves by saying how hot their
Speaker 6: mom is.
Speaker 2: But I should try.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's up to you, Miguel. We're running out
Speaker 6: of time here, so we need an answer.
Speaker 7: Honestly, that was the weirdest pitch I ever heard. But Jackie,
Speaker 7: I'm don for oh.
Speaker 1: Yeahs my god, you know the first person she's calling
Speaker 1: after this is her mom.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Brook Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: Before I say anything about this, I just want to
Speaker 6: say make sure if you miss any of our second
Speaker 6: date updates, you go to our YouTube.
Speaker 4: Page at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: We put them up every week along with our awkward
Speaker 6: Tuesday calls. And man, maybe this should have been an
Speaker 6: awkward Tuesday phone call having your mom come from church
Speaker 6: to pick you up after your one night stand.
Speaker 2: And then lecture the one night stand Oh yeah? Like
Speaker 2: that was the part that how did she go from
Speaker 2: like lecturing him to I like him? Where is Miguel?
Speaker 4: Mom came in with the tough love after every one
Speaker 4: night stand?
Speaker 2: That was going to be one mother in law to
Speaker 2: handle for somebody's.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, man? Why didn't we ask?
Speaker 6: Though we should have specifically asked who picked her up
Speaker 6: after the date.
Speaker 1: Because who would have been a million years thought it
Speaker 1: would be her mother?
Speaker 6: Well, whose job is it to ask that question, alexis
Speaker 6: we need to put you.
Speaker 4: On this Okay?
Speaker 2: From now on Okay.
Speaker 6: Anytime we do a second date, you are asking the
Speaker 6: driver's name, a physical description, license plate number, and relationship status.
Speaker 2: It's not gonna give you like flagged or anything for asking.
Speaker 4: All Yeah, it's just gonna help us.
Speaker 6: This is a good learning moment so that we can
Speaker 6: help our listeners. Email the show and we will call
Speaker 6: the person who's not calling you back and grill them
Speaker 6: like her mom did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 8: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning