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Speaker 1: Kicking off your weekend with a brand new Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here at Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, okay, you too.

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Speaker 1: What do you think the success rate of taking a

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Speaker 1: one night stand with a person you met at the

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Speaker 1: club and turning it into an actual relationship.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you were going to say zero.

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Speaker 3: Well, you try it once and then you realize.

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Speaker 4: It's a zero.

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Speaker 5: In my experience, I think if you're annoying enough and

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Speaker 5: you keep going back, they'll keep you around it.

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Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, well that's exactly what one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: is going to try to do today, so.

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Speaker 2: We wish her luck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or apparently. And let's get in to some listener comments.

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Speaker 5: Alexis Yeah, I saw one from I'm Gonna Say It

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Speaker 5: Wrong Star seven Am. I like it said, I have

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Speaker 5: to stop listening to your podcast while I'm driving.

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Speaker 2: I was about to crash my car.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well you can listen, just don't look down

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Speaker 3: at your phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, I think it's not a shock. I think

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Speaker 2: you laughing, maybe crying, we don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just thought you need to drive in silence or

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Speaker 1: just anger, like this is where my life has come.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, All right, let's be safe. Let's get this brand

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Speaker 2: new second day started right now.

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Speaker 4: Second date update.

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Speaker 6: When you have that option to spend the night over

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Speaker 6: at your date's place the first time you hang out, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: How do you make that decision?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: People say no?

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I mean, do you pull a b and

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Speaker 6: just consult your bottle of wine until you say yes,

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Speaker 6: give me ten minutes.

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Speaker 4: Do you pull a Jose.

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Speaker 6: And check their fridge to make sure they have good

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Speaker 6: breakfast options for the next morning? Or do you pull

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Speaker 6: a Batman villain move like two face and flip a

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Speaker 6: double headed coin?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's again the same answer that.

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Speaker 4: Again, Yeah, and see that coming. Guess I'm staying the

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Speaker 4: night with you.

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Speaker 3: The other way you have imagine telling the girl I

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Speaker 3: gotta go the coin that can.

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Speaker 4: Think of that?

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Speaker 6: But I only asked because one of our listeners had

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Speaker 6: to make that decision, wondering do I stay over or

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Speaker 6: do I go home to night?

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Speaker 3: Now back with Brook though, like, is this a really

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Speaker 3: difficult way to always.

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Speaker 5: Pack a bag actually close leaving your car?

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Speaker 4: You guys have much more of a game plan than

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Speaker 4: I realized.

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Speaker 2: But we are so easy on this show.

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Speaker 6: Clearly, let's talk to our listener and see how she feels. Jackie,

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Speaker 6: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi you guys, Hi jack you are you better at

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Speaker 2: playing hard to get than we are?

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Speaker 3: Jackie, stop hitting on us.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how did you make your bedtime decision?

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Speaker 1: Well, it was really for.

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Speaker 7: The moment, I guess.

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Speaker 1: I so you didn't pack a bag like Alexis is

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Speaker 1: what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: No, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: Who did you go out with?

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Speaker 7: Your name is Miguel.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you like the Latin boys. I mean it

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Speaker 3: doesn't mean he is for sure, but most likely I.

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Speaker 4: Don't want to assume anything about him. He's probably like

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Speaker 4: a super white guy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, he is.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I don't feel excited you like you?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Was the lead up before that decision?

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Speaker 8: Well, I met him on Tinder, so we had been

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Speaker 8: like communicating for a while, and I was out with

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Speaker 8: my girlfriend and we were like taking like, you know,

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Speaker 8: cute girl snaps.

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Speaker 3: It's Friday night.

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Speaker 8: My homegirl was like, you just sit in this snap.

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Speaker 8: You look so cute and like invite him. I'm like,

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Speaker 8: oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, right, your girl asked you up. And they're the.

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Speaker 1: Ones that told you I've been out with a single

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Speaker 1: girl friend before where we're like, yeah, have them come

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Speaker 1: and they meet for the first time while we're all there.

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Speaker 4: As a guy intimidated.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but that's a test, right, He's a

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Speaker 4: So how did it go?

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Speaker 8: It went great?

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Speaker 7: He showed up.

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Speaker 8: It was like a bar club, like they played music.

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Speaker 7: So he actually did dance.

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Speaker 8: And when I tell you you can move.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, can really dance? You are a giddy right now?

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 9: Well, he just don't know. It was a good date, right,

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Speaker 9: I have fun?

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Speaker 2: Can I ask how much alcohol was consumed at this point?

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Speaker 2: A lot?

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Speaker 3: How much before he got there?

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Speaker 2: Did he show up and.

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Speaker 4: You were already?

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Speaker 7: I wasn't like gone.

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Speaker 8: I was like everybody at the bargain tipsy, Like you know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you weren't brooking it on the first day. That's fun.

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Speaker 2: I'm never gone. The key is a glass of water

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Speaker 2: after every drink.

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Speaker 4: That sounds way too responsible. We're gonna edit that.

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Speaker 6: Out, so Jackie keep going.

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Speaker 4: What happens after that?

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Speaker 8: So then like the lights come on and everyone's gone,

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Speaker 8: Like my friends are gone?

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Speaker 7: What the letters are cleaning up?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 6: They left me, But isn't that a good sign, like

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Speaker 6: when the girls feel like you're safe enough to be

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Speaker 6: on your own with this person, they're like, okay, she's

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Speaker 6: got it.

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Speaker 2: No, you don't ever leave a girlfriend without checking in. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: First ever, Remember I was drinking like a lot, so

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Speaker 8: there's a high percentage chance that I told him that

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Speaker 8: I was okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, okay, and you felt safe with this guy.

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Speaker 6: So the lights came on, they're shutting the bar down,

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Speaker 6: and your friends aren't there.

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Speaker 4: What happens next?

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Speaker 8: We were hungry because you know, we've been drinking. Oh,

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Speaker 8: he got like, yeah, some hot dogs and like tug.

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Speaker 1: I like how you're trying to make this sound all

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Speaker 1: very classy.

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Speaker 2: We've talked, I mean we made out. You were making

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Speaker 2: out at this point, right.

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Speaker 8: I mean yeah, in between bites.

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Speaker 4: Between hot dog bites.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 6: So obviously this ends up over back at Miguel's place somehow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: He said that his place was like up the street,

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Speaker 8: and it's not normally something I would do.

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Speaker 2: We all say that you don't need to though, yea,

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Speaker 2: But I said yes, okay and had a good time.

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Speaker 1: I mean the description of this, though, just sounds like

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Speaker 1: I don't know I feel like he was maybe under

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Speaker 1: the understanding this was one.

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Speaker 2: Night of fun brook.

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Speaker 4: How dare you it's Tinder? And are you not remembering

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Speaker 4: the hot makeouts in between wiener bites.

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Speaker 1: And I just I don't know if your expectations are

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Speaker 1: matching maybe what his work.

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Speaker 8: So I kind of wanted to continue to get to

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Speaker 8: know him, Like I didn't see this as a one off.

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Speaker 2: Did you tell him that?

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Speaker 8: I felt like it was implied for my profile.

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Speaker 4: No, it's good.

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Speaker 6: You do not want to be on the first did Like,

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Speaker 6: by the way I see this going long term, that's

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Speaker 6: not a good thing.

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Speaker 4: I could die like this, you guys.

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Speaker 2: So the next morning they could obviously talk about how

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Speaker 2: she hopes this isn't the last time she sees them,

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Speaker 2: and that she sees something more with him. I'm just saying, like,

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Speaker 2: what was that like?

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Speaker 8: So we didn't have like a ton of time to

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Speaker 7: Did text him later.

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Speaker 4: Did you respond?

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Speaker 8: See? That's why he helped because when I waited it

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Speaker 8: sounds like he's just being polite, Like it's a different

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Speaker 8: tone to his text now Rather when when we were

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Speaker 8: snapping the night before, it was very.

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Speaker 4: That's weird.

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Speaker 6: When I text super drunk and super sober, I sound

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Speaker 6: exactly the way.

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Speaker 1: But she hadn't talked to him sober, you know, like

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Speaker 1: you said, you had been talking to him for a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks on TikTok, so you can tell a vibe.

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Speaker 3: Like you woke up and you're like, oh, you don't

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Speaker 2: And the light of the bar, so he saw her

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Speaker 6: But clearly something is off here, and you deserve some answers.

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Speaker 6: So let's come back and call Miguel and hopefully he

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Speaker 6: picks up and gives us a little bit of insight

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Speaker 6: when we do your second date update.

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Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, if you missed.

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Speaker 6: Jackie's first date, let's quickly go down the checklist of

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Speaker 6: her hangout with Miguel.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so is he a good dancer?

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Speaker 7: Check?

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Speaker 4: Did her friends approve?

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Speaker 7: Check?

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Speaker 2: Those are two good things.

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Speaker 6: Could he make out while also eating a street meat.

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Speaker 4: Dog at the same time? Check and checks?

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Speaker 2: So I may have the same type of men in mind.

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Speaker 6: No wonder, people wonder it ended with a little sleepover

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Speaker 6: back at his place, But Jackie's hoping it wasn't just

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Speaker 6: a one night stand thing for sure. Thing is she

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Speaker 6: can't deny that Miguel has been acting differently towards her,

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Speaker 6: at least over text. He's being more polite now than

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Speaker 6: he is being flirty, and we just want to help

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Speaker 6: her figure out the reason why we just think he's.

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Speaker 2: The One thing I'm concerned about is that you were

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Speaker 2: sounds like pretty drunk that night, and he may share

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Speaker 2: a story that could be embarrassing.

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Speaker 8: Did you consider that, Jackie, I don't think there was

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Speaker 8: anything embarrassing that happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so you're willing to hear whatever it is.

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Speaker 8: And yeah, but that's why I'm calling because I like

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Speaker 8: this guy. I thought we had a good connection on

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Speaker 8: Tinder and we had fun with my friends. Even my

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Speaker 8: friends are like, well, where's Miguel, And I'm like, I

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Speaker 8: don't know.

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Speaker 4: Well, man, here's the thing.

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Speaker 6: If it does happen to be something embarrassing that you

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Speaker 6: don't remember, the good news is Brooke has done something

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Speaker 6: ten times more embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Sober probably even Yeah, in fact, we all have.

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Speaker 9: That makes me feel better, Okay, comparison is very low.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're always do we want to go around

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Speaker 6: the room and give awful examples of how embarrass ourselves.

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Speaker 4: Maybe we should save that for once we hear what

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Speaker 4: the issue is.

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Speaker 3: Got it?

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Speaker 6: Okay, let's see if Miguel answers the phone. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Miguel?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Hey man, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 9: Hey, there's yeah, how can I How can I help you?

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Speaker 7: Guys?

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Speaker 6: Uh, we're we're calling because we're in the middle of

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Speaker 4: That's called a second date update.

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Speaker 7: Sorry, I'm just confused. What does this have to do

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Speaker 2: Great question?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, well if you don't if you don't know

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Speaker 7: Who is it?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you're seeing multiple people.

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Speaker 6: But the girl who reached out to us about you today,

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Speaker 6: her name is Jackie.

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Speaker 7: Jackie Okay, Jackie from Tender Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Saved in the phone sounds like, yeah, it sounds like

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I met her and friends with the club, right.

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Speaker 6: We heard the story from her, and it sounded like

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Speaker 2: She said. Her friends even liked you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she's fun.

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Speaker 2: Okay, were you going into the night just expecting to

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Speaker 1: Weren't thinking of her? Maybe as a multi night type

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Speaker 9: But no, we we we had a situation the next morning.

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Speaker 4: What a situation?

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Speaker 2: She said she had to hurry out because the car

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Speaker 9: Well, yeah, so I heard her get up and call

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Speaker 9: somebody to pick her up. Yeah, And I told her, like,

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Speaker 9: you know, I can call you or whatever, and she said, no, no,

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Speaker 7: So then she jumps in the shower.

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Speaker 9: And about five minutes later, there's a knock at the

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Speaker 2: What your mother is standing at your door?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Apparently she was her ride.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I cannot imagine calling after a night like that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she wasn't happy.

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Speaker 4: Unhappy, Yes, she was not happy.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, what did she say?

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Speaker 7: She started grilling me, like, did you have fun last night?

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Speaker 7: She said? How many partners have you been with?

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Speaker 3: Oh? No?

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Speaker 7: It was really really awkward.

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Speaker 9: Yeah that.

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Speaker 1: So wait, did Jackie ever come and interfere or know

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Speaker 9: It took her a while to get out of a

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Speaker 9: before that whole awkward situation with her mom, I was

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Speaker 1: It's the morning after, like, your mom will always think

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Speaker 6: But it could be a funny story if you're able

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Speaker 3: Dependol, mom.

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Speaker 2: Why would Jackie call her mother?

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Speaker 4: That's a good question, Broke.

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Speaker 6: Then, Actually we should find out because I have to

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Speaker 6: tell you Miguel that Jackie is on the other line

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Speaker 7: Yeah, is her mom on the line too?

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Speaker 6: I don't know Jackie talk to Miguel here.

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Speaker 4: Geezil.

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Speaker 7: I'm so sorry you read all that.

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Speaker 8: I I'm just I don't know. It's it's weird because

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Speaker 1: Well, Jackie, did you get some of like why didn't

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Speaker 1: you take up his offer on getting an uber instead

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, now I get that because you're in your

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Speaker 9: Mom.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, but.

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Speaker 4: What if the uber driver's cute?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I get where.

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Speaker 2: You have all your friends. You went out last.

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Speaker 8: Like my mom, she was like nearby, she was leaving church,

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Speaker 6: She came from church to pick her daughter up after

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Speaker 3: She yeah, she's not.

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Speaker 2: She was upset.

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Speaker 4: Wow, did you know that?

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Speaker 2: She was so upset she had to have lectured you in.

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Speaker 4: The car something to you.

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Speaker 8: My mom usually picks me up from my one night stands.

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Speaker 4: Oh, she's used to this.

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Speaker 3: That mom knows the rundown. Okay, it's another sunday. You

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Speaker 2: This is probably why they're all one night and not more.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good point.

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Speaker 8: And she doesn't need everybody. I just happened to be

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Speaker 7: I didn't know she was gonna grill you mc gall.

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Speaker 8: I'm so sorry. I had no idea she was gonna

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Speaker 8: do that. I mean, my mom is my best friend,

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Speaker 8: She's my favorite person in the whole world, and I

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Speaker 8: do didn't see anything. They're coming to pick me up

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Speaker 8: didn't want you to have to send money on Uber. I

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Speaker 2: Inconvenience to anybody.

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Speaker 4: I mean, Miguel, what do you think I get it?

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Speaker 9: Like, I'm super close with my mom too, and I've

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Speaker 7: But I wasn't under eighteen at the time, and you know,

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Speaker 7: I'm an adult.

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Speaker 3: It's been a while.

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Speaker 7: It was just really off putting for you to feel

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Speaker 1: She was just asking about like the other day, Like wait,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was asking, like, have you heard from him?

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Speaker 8: He seemed like a nice guy.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes mom's coming really really hot when they just want

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Speaker 1: And you already ripped the band aid off with her,

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Speaker 1: like there's no way you could get lower and she

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Speaker 2: You live for the next time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 8: She did say that she would pick me up if

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Speaker 7: Okay, this is so weird, Like I've never dealt with

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Speaker 6: Well, we'd like to let you deal with it one

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Speaker 6: and we'd pay for it.

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Speaker 1: I bet Jackie could even promise that her mom won't

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Speaker 2: Or or maybe mom any interaction with you.

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Speaker 4: No, she'll have her grandma coming get I.

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Speaker 8: Mean, Miguel, I thought that we had like a really

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Speaker 7: Years, Like she looks amazing.

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Speaker 8: So if you if you pick me, if you kick me, Miguel, like,

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Speaker 6: Is not a lot of people come on the show

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Speaker 2: But I should try.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's up to you, Miguel. We're running out

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Speaker 7: Honestly, that was the weirdest pitch I ever heard. But Jackie,

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Speaker 1: Yeahs my god, you know the first person she's calling

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Brook Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Before I say anything about this, I just want to

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Speaker 4: Page at Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: We put them up every week along with our awkward

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Speaker 2: And then lecture the one night stand Oh yeah? Like

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Speaker 4: Mom came in with the tough love after every one

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Speaker 2: That was going to be one mother in law to

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, man? Why didn't we ask?

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Speaker 6: Though we should have specifically asked who picked her up

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Speaker 1: Because who would have been a million years thought it

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Speaker 6: Well, whose job is it to ask that question, alexis

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Speaker 6: we need to put you.

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Speaker 4: On this Okay?

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Speaker 2: From now on Okay.

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Speaker 6: Anytime we do a second date, you are asking the

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Speaker 2: It's not gonna give you like flagged or anything for asking.

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Speaker 4: All Yeah, it's just gonna help us.

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Speaker 6: This is a good learning moment so that we can

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Speaker 6: help our listeners. Email the show and we will call

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Speaker 6: the person who's not calling you back and grill them

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Speaker 6: like her mom did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 8: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning