1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This run's from 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Cammy and the DMV. Cammy writes, I live half a 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: mile away from my sister, and I've seen her husband 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: on more than one occasion sitting on the side street 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: talking on the phone. Yesterday I passed right by him 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: and he didn't notice me. 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 2: What's he up to? Should I ask next time? 8 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 3: Now he's sitting on the side street talking on the phone. 9 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: Because you're not supposed to talk on the phone and drive. 10 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 2: Oh oh really? 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: Oh stay ready, good one, Steve good one, ready, good one. 12 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't get me. I see, that's stop it stucked. 13 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 3: I'm on the phone and I'm texting, and that is 14 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 3: against the law. 15 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 4: I pull over. 16 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 17 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 3: Most accidents occurred right close by your house too. 18 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 19 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's another stat you're right, you're right. Oh, he 20 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: just full of statistics. Got already a knowledge all of that, 21 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 2: All of that. 22 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 4: All right. 23 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 1: Moving on to Rosalind and Queens, Roslin says, my husband 24 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: and I were lying in bed talking and he asked 25 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: me why I don't rub his back or run his 26 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: back water. I told him because men don't need all 27 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: of that. He told me, there are women out there 28 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: that love to pamper men. I told him, if he 29 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: thinks he can do better, then go do that. Was 30 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: that the wrong reaction. 31 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 2: Too much? 32 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: Well, you know what you could have did was asked him, 33 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 3: why he don't do that for you? 34 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 4: Turn it around? 35 00:01:58,760 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, flip it. 36 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 4: Now? What did he say he wanted again, Shureley. 37 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: He wanted his back rubbed, and he wanted her to 38 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: run his bath water. 39 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: Now, if that's a problem for you, Roslyn, you know, 40 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 3: and he done told you it's women out there who'd 41 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 3: do it. 42 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 4: Then her response was. 43 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: What if he thinks he can do better, go do it? 44 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: He said that. She said that men don't need all 45 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: of that. 46 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, and men don't need a lot of stuff, 47 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 3: but they want it. You don't need your back rub 48 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 3: eithern you don't need your bath water. 49 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 4: Red. 50 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: Why did he ask what did he ask her? Nicely? 51 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, he tried to be you know, hey, baby, how 52 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 3: come I can't? 53 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 4: But he probably he had a little tone to it. 54 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 3: He had a little tone to it, you know, like 55 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 3: I was just wondering, you know, come he don't never 56 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 3: rub my back or run my bathwater, nothing like that, 57 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 3: you know, because I swimming out here doing that for 58 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 3: their men. 59 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 4: Well, men don't. 60 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 3: Need all of that now this either, this is an 61 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 3: old couple. 62 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 4: But now because you know her name now and we 63 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 4: all know what his name. 64 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: Is, Harold Harold every day Harold Harold. 65 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 3: Harold tried to find out because he didne heurt his 66 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: boys talking about he won't to know how he ain't man. 67 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 3: I don't get none of that at home. Yeah, but 68 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: now you have told him you think you can do better. 69 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 3: Go ahead, Okay? 70 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 2: Was that the wrong reaction? That's a stir question. 71 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 4: Entirely wrong. I think it was a teaching moment for you. 72 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 3: I think you could have taken an opportunity to ask 73 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 3: him for some things you've been wanting to. But now 74 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 3: y'all sending each other out into the world. 75 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 4: To find it. So good luck. This marriage is just 76 00:03:58,280 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 4: moments away from being. 77 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 2: Over over a back rub and some bath water. 78 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 3: Wow, because I ain't running your bath and I ain't 79 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: rubbing your back, Well, somebody will for show. 80 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: All right. 81 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: Moving on to Cherry and Gulf Coort, Cherry says, I'm 82 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: dating a man that's six' three and. MUSCULAR i THOUGHT 83 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: i hit the jackpot until we were. Intimate he didn't 84 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: measure up to my. Standards he tried his best AND 85 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: i faked, it so he'd. Stop should we normalize telling 86 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: these men when they suck in? 87 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 2: Bed come, On, cherry you know what? 88 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 4: MAN i want to say something to. 89 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 3: You you, know, ladies some of you have a very 90 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: very valid point, now because the man is built to work. 91 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 3: Out don't mean he a great lovel but you, Know, 92 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 3: cherry you know it's the fifth side to that. Too, 93 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: now maybe just made AND i don't know. You, YEAH 94 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 3: i can't. 95 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 4: Tell nothing in this. Letter but maybe you just too. 96 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 3: Much you know that can happen, Too, yeah sometimes you 97 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 3: just too. Much he just met, you, y'all just did. 98 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 3: It he didn't know you wanted all. 99 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 4: That, well THERE'S i don't know how he ain't threw 100 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 4: my against his. Walls all of THAT i. 101 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: Know i'm saying to you, though if he didn't measure, 102 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 3: up if he didn't measure, up we got to. Stop 103 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: and how do we tell these men they ain't doing it? 104 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 4: Right? 105 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah that they suck in bed is what she. 106 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 3: Said he might be fine for somebody. Else you just too, much. 107 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: Not too, Much and she just wants him to be 108 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: a good lover because he's bad and. 109 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 4: Bad well he ain't he good at the. 110 00:05:55,839 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 3: GYM i don't understand all these brothers that's all that super 111 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 3: fit that they take. 112 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 4: Time, look, yeah they take. 113 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 2: Time, look that's where they're, focused you, know on. 114 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 4: Jail. 115 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: Uh but that's part of her issue THAT i can't 116 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: do that about. 117 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 3: It yet you get a sloppy looking man that can bring. 118 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 3: It there's a whole lot of them out. There. Girl 119 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 3: he don't look like much but loargy bacon. 120 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 4: Or the main or the main or a main. 121 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 2: Man all, right. 122 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: All? Right so should we normalize telling these men when 123 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: they suck in? 124 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: Bed that's her. 125 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 4: Question you go ahead and tell, you and then you 126 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 4: ain't gonna see you no. 127 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: More and then what you're gonna, Do you're gonna run 128 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 3: next off to let me ask you some. 129 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 4: Cheering if you all, that why you steal a? Baber? Huh? 130 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 2: Huh you're still putting it on her back to the. 131 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 3: Time, NO i just want to know if all these 132 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 3: men sucked in bed while you still Seek. 133 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: HUH i think you're missing the. 134 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 5: POINT i might be spot, on all, Right Cherry cherry 135 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 5: might have to change her name From cherry to. Egg 136 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 5: coming up at the top of the. Hour thank you 137 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 5: see L o about to turn your mic. 138 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 4: Off Mister Steve Harbin martin Show. 139 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 3: Man it might be two birds in that, bush but 140 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 3: if you let this bird go to reach in there 141 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 3: for the two in the bush and they fly out the, 142 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 3: bush you ain't got. NOTHING a bird in the hand 143 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 3: is worth two in the. 144 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 5: Bush but if it's two and THAT i having to catch, 145 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 5: both wouldn't that be? 146 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 3: Better see the key word in there was a small 147 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 3: word with the smaller the smallest words with the biggest. 148 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 3: Consequences if IF i rob this bank and if they 149 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 3: don't catch, Me i'm gonna be rich. 150 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 4: Man, okay a. 151 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 3: Whole lot of IF's sitting in prison today this. 152 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 4: Morning Steve Harby Morrier show coming up right after. 153 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: That