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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,

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Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEFM dot com and

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Speaker 1: we could read your letter live on the air, just

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Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 2: And you're supposed to say you never know, you never know.

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Speaker 2: Buckle up and hold on time. We got it for you.

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Speaker 1: Here.

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Speaker 2: It is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: You never know, it could be yours. Thank you. Not

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Speaker 1: to be late, Tennessee. To holler is a subject. He

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Speaker 1: needs Hennessy to holler here. Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty two

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Speaker 1: years old and single because I will not tolerate a

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Speaker 1: into a big argument because for the past two years

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Speaker 1: he's been drunk when we are intimate and whenever I

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Speaker 1: want him to be on his best behavior. His Hennessy

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Speaker 1: is like liquid confidence, and he has been sneaking it

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Speaker 1: in on me. I don't drink like that anymore. Back

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Speaker 1: when we first met, though, I used to try to

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Speaker 1: out drink him. We do and then pass out in

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Speaker 1: each other's arms. After I had our baby, I never

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Speaker 1: returned to that lifestyle. During our argument last week, he

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Speaker 1: told me that sex with me is boring when he's sober.

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Speaker 1: He said he needs Hennessy to halla. He said meeting

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Speaker 1: my mom was not something he wanted to do, but

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Speaker 1: Hennessy helped him. He talked so lovingly about drinking that

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Speaker 1: it made me want to punch him. I told him

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Speaker 1: said he didn't give af okay. I warned him that

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Speaker 1: if he didn't stop drinking, I was going to move out.

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Speaker 1: He turned and poured a drink right in my face.

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Speaker 1: So my only option was to leave, whether I wanted

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Speaker 1: to or not. I've been staying with my best friend,

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Speaker 1: and my man is worrying me to come back home.

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Speaker 1: He wants to talk to me, but I have told

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Speaker 1: everyone that's close to me exactly what he did to

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Speaker 1: me is going to be hard to forgive him and

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Speaker 1: believe in him. I don't know if I can stop

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Speaker 1: drinking all together. He can stop drinking altogether, but maybe

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Speaker 1: he can slow up a bit. I don't want our

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Speaker 1: daughter to have a drunk daddy all in her face.

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Speaker 1: I try to look at the bright side. I mean

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Speaker 1: he's a happy drunk. He is never argumentative, and the

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Speaker 1: sex is top tier when he's been on that Hennessy

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Speaker 1: all night. Can I put my family back together after

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Speaker 1: he played in my face like that? Or should I

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Speaker 1: leave this drunk for good? Okay? I mean this is

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Speaker 1: a crazy letter, you know, it really is, but it's

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Speaker 1: serious too. I mean, your man, your baby daddy, is

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Speaker 1: a drunk, and you're right, he should not be drunk

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Speaker 1: all in your baby girl's face like that. Your daughter's

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Speaker 1: welfare is of the utmost importance here, period, And I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that you, someone who used to be a heavy drinker,

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Speaker 1: realized that and stop drinking yourself. You put up with

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Speaker 1: his drinking for two years. Two years, I mean, enough

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Speaker 1: is enough here. He won't stop until he gets out

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Speaker 1: of denial and admits that he needs help, and he's

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Speaker 1: he does want to talk to you, so but you

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Speaker 1: can't make him. I mean, having a daughter hasn't stopped

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Speaker 1: him from drinking, and he needs alcohol. He needs that, Henny,

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Speaker 1: you know, to make love to you and all of that.

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Speaker 1: You guys have a serious problem here, you say. The

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Speaker 1: good thing about it is that he's a happy drunk.

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Speaker 1: But he's still a drunk though, And no, you won't

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Speaker 1: be able to put your family back together with your

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Speaker 1: man who obviously cares more about his Tennessey than you

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Speaker 1: and his daughter his family, Steve, I.

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Speaker 3: Like to apologize before I do my letter response, because

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Speaker 3: you know, I just as I was listening and I

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Speaker 3: just felt like my notes is like on points. So

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Speaker 3: I just you know, this is an opinion show, and

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Speaker 3: you can't help everybody in the letter. And sometime I

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Speaker 3: think the people that write the letters that fault. You

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Speaker 3: just never know when he would go, let's go see

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Speaker 3: he needs hennessy to I'm a thirty two year old

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Speaker 3: and I'm single because I will not tolerate a drunk

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Speaker 3: You ain't said nothing that's special, okay, So let's just

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Speaker 3: get that off the dribble. I love how people go

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Speaker 3: I will not tolerate a drunk living in my house.

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Speaker 3: Well most people won't, but then a lot of people do,

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Speaker 3: so thank you. My ex and I got into a

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Speaker 2: His hennessy is like liquid confidence. We used to call it.

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Speaker 3: I had a partner man that used to when he

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Speaker 3: so we should call it a glass of guts.

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Speaker 2: We used to call it a glass of goods because

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Speaker 2: he wasn't nothing.

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Speaker 3: He could fight any both full of bravado when he

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Speaker 3: he would get hit ass toe up anyway. So I've

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Speaker 3: seen that liquid confidence. It's called a glass of guts,

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Speaker 3: and he's been sneaking it on me. I don't drink

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Speaker 3: like that anymore. Listen to this line. Back when we

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Speaker 3: first met, though, I used to try to out drink him.

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Speaker 2: Why what you win for that?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes people do stupid stuff and then when they backfire,

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Speaker 3: they wonder how I got Like Well, y'all used to

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Speaker 3: have drinking context and you tried to all drink him

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Speaker 3: and you couldn't. We would do shots and then pass

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Speaker 3: out in each other's arms, and you thought that was

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Speaker 3: a nice sexy evening. We would do shots and pass

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Speaker 3: out in each other's arms. Oh, y'all's relationship is going

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Speaker 3: the right way.

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 3: After I had our baby, I never returned to that lifestyle.

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Speaker 2: That was a good choice.

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Speaker 3: Doing our argument last week, he told me that the

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Speaker 3: sex with me was boring. When he's sober, he said

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Speaker 3: he needs Hennessy to he's okay, Wait a minute, Wait

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Speaker 3: a minute. He told you that having sex what you

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Speaker 3: was born and he needed Hennessy to holler. So he

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Speaker 3: needed Hennessy for y'all to make love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, hang on, Steve, can.

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Speaker 2: You send me a picture of yourself? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Steve? All right? Well, uh have part two. Steve's response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour subject

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Speaker 1: he needs Tennessee to holler. We'll get back into it

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Speaker 1: dot com. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is he needs hennessy to holler. Uh.

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Speaker 2: They used to have drinking contest this couple.

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Speaker 3: She put him out because he don't drink good, He

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Speaker 3: drink too much and all that she's single now she

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Speaker 3: don't tolerate that. When they first met, they just drank

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Speaker 3: each other's and try he would, she would try to

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Speaker 3: outdrink him. It didn't work, and then they pass out

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Speaker 3: in each other's arms. It's such a romantic relationship that's

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Speaker 3: heading to AA meetings. Then after that they had a

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Speaker 3: baby and she didn't return to that lifestyle. That's a

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Speaker 3: good choice for us, mother and doing our argument last week,

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Speaker 3: he told me that sex with me is boring when

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Speaker 3: he's soap. He said, he needs hennessy to holler. I

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Speaker 3: asked for you when I when we went on last break,

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Speaker 3: could you send me a picture of yourself because that's

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Speaker 3: starting to sound that's starting to sound nice if you

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Speaker 3: need alcohol to holler at your wife?

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Speaker 2: What? What? What? What?

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Speaker 3: What the hell happened here? I think that has something

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Speaker 3: or somebody ain't the same no more. Neither one of

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Speaker 3: y'all is the same. No more in your head in

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Speaker 3: the wrong direction. Uh, he said me my mom was

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Speaker 3: not something he wanted to do. Well, he probably was true,

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Speaker 3: but Hennessy helped him. Well, now we need a picture,

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Speaker 3: you and your mama. Y'all need another picture. I need

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Speaker 3: a picture you and your mama. This dude gotta do

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Speaker 3: a lot of drinking. Just sit down and have a

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Speaker 3: conversation with your mama, Lord of money, and then listen.

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Speaker 3: Is he talked so lovingly about drinking that it made

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Speaker 3: me want to see now he obviously described this hidden

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Speaker 3: in a way that you haven't heard him describe you.

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Speaker 3: I told him that my mom could tell he was drunk,

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Speaker 3: and he said he don't give a f my band

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Speaker 3: that hiddensy. Now see hennessy, how you tell the truth.

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Speaker 3: I warned him that if he didn't stop drinking, I

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Speaker 3: was gonna move out. He turned it, poured a drink

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Speaker 3: right in front of my face. Oh yo, leave you

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Speaker 3: gonna if I drink another drink?

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Speaker 2: Watch that and he poured another drink.

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Speaker 3: So my only option was to leave, whether I wanted

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Speaker 3: to or not. Well, you called him on this bluff

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Speaker 3: and you left. All he did was poor the drink

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Speaker 3: in his face. Now, he an alcoholic. Alcoholics lived to

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Speaker 3: drink and any excuse would do. So you offered it,

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Speaker 3: But I want I've been staying with my best friend

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Speaker 3: He wants to talk to me, but I've told everybody

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Speaker 3: that's close to me exactly what he did. Now it's

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Speaker 3: going to be hard to forgive him. And I believe

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Speaker 3: and believe in him. I don't know if he can

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Speaker 2: Can slow down a bit.

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Speaker 3: Lady, that are no slowed down alcoholics. When you are

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Speaker 3: an alcoholic, you are full tilt. Now you can be

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Speaker 3: a functioning alcoholic. And I think you're about to describe

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Speaker 3: him as one. But it ain't gonna be no slowing down.

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Speaker 3: That's not fit to happen. He has to have it.

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Speaker 3: He's an act. He's an alcoholic. I don't want our

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Speaker 3: try to look at the bright side. Oh, here we go.

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Speaker 3: He's a happy drunk. I've known somebody like that before.

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Speaker 3: He's a happy drunk like he's a functioning god call it.

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Speaker 3: He like does well when he's drunk. He's okay, he cool,

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Speaker 3: He ain't belligerent, he don't he don't get nasty with

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Speaker 2: Check this out.

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Speaker 3: And the sex is top tier when he's on the

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Speaker 3: Hennessy all night. Now, y'all need hennessy to make love.

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Speaker 3: We need to focus on this right here. Why does

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Speaker 3: he need to get drunk to have to go and

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Speaker 2: He needed hennessy to look at your mama. You have come, say.

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Speaker 3: Somebody to get picture because he needs either that here

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Speaker 3: this is blurring his vision or you need to go

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Speaker 3: I'm just telling you right now, can I put my

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Speaker 2: After he played in my face like that?

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Speaker 3: So what you're saying you you left him because he

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Speaker 3: poured that drink right in front of your face. He

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Speaker 3: played in front of your face. You said, if you

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Speaker 3: don't stop drinking, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna leave you.

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Speaker 3: He turned around and poured a drink right in front

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Speaker 3: of your face. And now that's why you left. So

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Speaker 3: you didn't leave because he needed hennessy to make love.

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Speaker 3: You didn't leave because you don't want your baby to

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Speaker 3: have a drunk daddy. You didn't leave because he didn't

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Speaker 3: want to talk to your mama without being drunk. You

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Speaker 3: didn't leave because y'all used to do shots together and

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Speaker 3: fall asleep in each other's arms. You left because you

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Speaker 3: told him, if you have another drink, I'm leaving, and

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Speaker 3: he pulled that drink right in front of your face.

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Speaker 3: I think you need to go home back over there

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Speaker 3: and work it out with your man. But I think

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Speaker 3: you got to convince your man that he needs help,

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Speaker 3: because until he starts to stop drinking, this is going

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Speaker 3: to continue. But now I know this on go. Once

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Speaker 3: he stops drinking, he's not gonna be happy and to

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Speaker 3: love making gonna get right on back to being bored.

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna tell you that right now.

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: Bligr comments on today's Strawberry and to.

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Speaker 3: The lady that wrote the letter, you really need to

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Speaker 3: go look in the mirror at yourself.

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Speaker 2: Real good and.

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