WEBVTT - “I BROKE UP A MARRIAGE”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, is this the motherfucking gecko?

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<v Speaker 2>This is the motherfucking gecko.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my fucking god. Uh, she goes begging of the call.

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<v Speaker 1>But oh my god, how you doing? Damn? What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>How's it going? Matt?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>You said you have to take another call?

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<v Speaker 4>None of those.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy keeps calling me, but it's okay. You're more important

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Going on, Man, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's this guy that keeps calling you?

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<v Speaker 1>My best friend from taught her he can probably be dying,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's okay. I'll deal with that later.

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<v Speaker 2>He's dying, he's dying.

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<v Speaker 1>He could probably be dying. I mean, he's on really

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<v Speaker 1>never calls me this much, but that's not important right now.

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? Your friend, so your friend never usually calls you

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<v Speaker 2>as much as he's calling you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye, yeah, which I don't know why that that never happens.

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<v Speaker 1>He just called me three times, but I just don''ll

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<v Speaker 1>call me back later.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did he text you?

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<v Speaker 4>Is he?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>No, he probably is. Okay, it's probably because we're bidding

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<v Speaker 1>on the World Cup right now, so it's probably something

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<v Speaker 1>to do with that. I'm guessing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, how much you what? What game are you watching?

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<v Speaker 2>And how much do you got on it? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My god, man, I'm down like fucking four hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>right now in the World Cup.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, deeper? Are you gonna go deeper? Are you gonna.

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<v Speaker 4>Scaring?

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<v Speaker 1>Money? Doesn't make money, So I'm probably gonna two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars more than.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know? What's funny is I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I'm not a big I play some poker,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm not a big Like sports betting is there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean are there? How how long have you been

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<v Speaker 2>into sports betting? Is that like a new thing? I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like it's fucking everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's kind of it's a hit and go. H

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<v Speaker 1>So sometimes like I kind of tie up to do

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<v Speaker 1>too much because when I tend to gamble on sport's putting,

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<v Speaker 1>I tend to go crazy. So I'll kind of play

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit. I'll lose like five hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm like, I won't touch it for like

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<v Speaker 1>another five months, and then I'll go back to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a really bad addition with gambling. I would

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<v Speaker 1>just inveig eventually and I take one hundred dollars rent

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<v Speaker 1>it up to a thousand, and then I woke up

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<v Speaker 1>the next day and I'll last it all.

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<v Speaker 2>I here's the thing, if you if you go into

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<v Speaker 2>any betting situation, we've sorry about this before you go

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<v Speaker 2>into a bad situation. You're like, I have one hundred dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you run a hundred. If you go into

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<v Speaker 2>the casino, right and you have one hundred dollars, you're

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<v Speaker 2>like and you're like, I'm willing to lose this hundred dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>And you run the hundred dollars all the way up

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<v Speaker 2>to one thousand dollars and then you lose it all.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't get it right, yeah, fight, you can't get.

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<v Speaker 2>Mad right now if you run it up to a

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars and then you start to be like, I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta get back that one thousand dollars, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>start to lose, and then you lose one thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>more than you came in to play with.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>See, as long as you like, don't lose any more

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<v Speaker 2>than the house money you came to play with.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine, that's my tind of rule. I'd only lose house

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<v Speaker 1>money once I'm up like that. I don't really care

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<v Speaker 1>on can't lose the house money. I'm like, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>go home.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's not your rule. For the World Cup. You're

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<v Speaker 2>down the house money for the World Cup. World Cup.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's different. I've got to make some money.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you have to why? Why is what do

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<v Speaker 2>you do? You have to make money?

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to make some money. I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>I just liked the rush just winning a parlay with

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<v Speaker 1>the World Cup. And I don't really watch Talker, so

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<v Speaker 1>betting on the World Cup because all my friends do

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<v Speaker 1>it now too, so it kind of it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like our thing now, you know, I don't know, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, it's funny, is you know? It's fun. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>really into like like I don't funk with cal she

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<v Speaker 2>I don't fuck with that stuff. But in my well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but here's like it's fun in my personal life. I

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<v Speaker 2>made a bet with my friend my friend, and I

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<v Speaker 2>went to go I make bets all.

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<v Speaker 1>The time within your friends. Okay, okay, in.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend group, I made a bet and okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>I went to go see the movies Toy Story five.

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<v Speaker 3>I was actually.

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<v Speaker 1>About to ask you about that because I was.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was listening to.

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<v Speaker 1>I was listening to. I didn't even to catch off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. It was an episode where you talked about

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<v Speaker 1>how Toy Story three was your favorite movie and how

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<v Speaker 1>you are nothing like Woody because Woody went back to

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<v Speaker 1>save Lotso and then Lotso wouldn't say Woody. I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>what the context or something like that, and you said

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<v Speaker 1>that was your favorite movie. So I remember I talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm gonna ask if you watch Toy Story five.

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<v Speaker 2>Multiple things to say that I that scene from Toy

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<v Speaker 2>Story three. I have talked about it passionately where Woody

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<v Speaker 2>saves lots of hugging Bear and then lots of hugging

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<v Speaker 2>Bear doesn't save Woody. It's a beautiful scene. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>crazy scene that movie. No, nothing that. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if it's one of my favorite movies. I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>have favorite movies. I'm like a movie guy, but uh yeah, yeah, no.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the scene where they're all trapped under like spoons

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<v Speaker 2>and shit and they're about to get incinerated, and lots

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<v Speaker 2>of hugging Bear is the reason they're there in the

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<v Speaker 2>first place, and he's you know, an evil an evil villain,

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<v Speaker 2>and what what does Woody do because he's a good guy.

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<v Speaker 2>He saves lots of huggin Bear anyway, and then it's

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<v Speaker 2>lots of huggin Bear's time to say turn to save

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<v Speaker 2>Louke Woody and he doesn't do it. So by anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I saw Toy Story five. It was it was fine,

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<v Speaker 2>It is all right, It wasn't it wasn't life changing.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw a review for it, well, I saw a

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<v Speaker 2>review for it that was like, does this movie need

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<v Speaker 2>to exist? And it's like, but as fuck, it does

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<v Speaker 2>anything need to exist? That's a stupid it's a stupid

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<v Speaker 2>loan to watch the movie. I went with my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I went with my friend and we had I had

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<v Speaker 2>I made a bet with him and I bet we

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<v Speaker 2>bet a dollar. I we bet a dollar. I bet

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<v Speaker 2>that that they would use the word frequently in the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet him, I bet him one dollar that they

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<v Speaker 2>would use the word frequently in the movie. And it

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<v Speaker 2>was hard to pay attention because I just kept waiting

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<v Speaker 2>to see if. I don't know why I picked that word.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just a stupid word to see if. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just a fun little bet. And we sat all

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<v Speaker 2>the way to the end credits scene to see if

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<v Speaker 2>they use the word frequently, they don't. Then I looked

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<v Speaker 2>it up. The word frequently is not used in any

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<v Speaker 2>of the Toy Story movies. Would you believe?

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<v Speaker 1>Really is it using any Disney movie?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure, I'm sure. I'm I'm sure it is. I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's okay, but it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I like stupid bets, but uh, and I guess

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<v Speaker 2>that's what Cal she. I like stupid bets. But this

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<v Speaker 2>is out of hand. Cal she being like bet on

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<v Speaker 2>what the weather is and ship?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Cal, she's out of hand. You can get it.

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<v Speaker 1>You could just bet on anything on there, man, You

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<v Speaker 1>can bet on Trump saying just random words.

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<v Speaker 2>And do you do that? Do you do that? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you get into like betting on the weather and shit

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<v Speaker 2>like that?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, no, no that I think if I had

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<v Speaker 1>to do that, I would I probably have to uh

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<v Speaker 1>check myself into somewhere. It's not that bad, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, who do you got?

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<v Speaker 2>Who do you got for the World Cup?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? The World Cup?

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<v Speaker 4>I got Spain.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really, like I said, I don't know much

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<v Speaker 1>about the World Cup, but I got Spain. All I

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<v Speaker 1>know is you men, you mar MESSI ever know, though,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all I know.

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<v Speaker 2>You texted me and you said I made a married

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<v Speaker 2>couple get divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>I did.

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<v Speaker 4>I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? So I lied a little bit, but not really.

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<v Speaker 1>So it turns out up they're not fully divorced, but

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<v Speaker 1>they're so legally married, but they're not together. I'm with

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<v Speaker 1>his wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you are shit, you made them break up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I had met her, I was going through

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<v Speaker 1>I was just going through a breakup and I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting drunk and I found her on my Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know what, she looks really good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I dmd her off, like, hey, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to get to know you. She didn't

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<v Speaker 1>text me back until like two days later. Mind you,

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<v Speaker 1>I was really drunk when I texted her, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even remember texting her until I saw her text

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<v Speaker 1>me back and I was like, oh shit. So we

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<v Speaker 1>scheduled date for Vameron Time's Day. We went out to eat,

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<v Speaker 1>We had a good time. She told me she was

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<v Speaker 1>single and that she was living with her cousin and

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<v Speaker 1>that she was out because she's not from here, and so, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, that's cool. We went back to her place.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see anything out of the ordinary. It seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a normal place, like it was just

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<v Speaker 1>her and her cousin living there, but nobody was at

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<v Speaker 1>the house at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Fast forward.

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<v Speaker 1>First day went well, Second day, she ends up wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up with me, so I told her just

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<v Speaker 1>come to my house and you could just drive here.

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<v Speaker 1>So she drove to my house and as she's driving

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<v Speaker 1>to my house, she told me to come out to

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<v Speaker 1>like help a part. So I get in the car

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<v Speaker 1>with her and some guy kind of cuts us off,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh. As he cuts us off, I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>the I live in a sketchy area, so I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe it's like a neighbor or something like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>I had it was stork. So she stays in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>I get out the car and this guy starts putting

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<v Speaker 1>a camera in my face talking about who are you?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing with her? Like you know she's married?

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<v Speaker 1>Da da da, And I'm like, oh fuck, what situations

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<v Speaker 1>did I just get myself into? So I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>put it off. I'm like, you know what, I knew

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<v Speaker 1>she was married, Like no, she's she's with me, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry, Like it doesn't matter who her husband is whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not a tall person. I'm like, fine, by wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hell on, hell on. So you're this guy's

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<v Speaker 2>this lady's husband cuts you off on the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, in my neighborhood and your neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 2>And then and then you say to him, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care who if she's married, she's with me now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I was drunk. I was intoxicated, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was already and I didn't I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>throw into the bust people like oh what you know, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to make her look bad. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yo, fuck it, I'll just play along. That's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like I already knew, mind you, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what the fuck is going on. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, Yeah, I knew she's married. Da da

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<v Speaker 1>da da. And they're like, I just found it funny

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<v Speaker 1>because I said, I'm five five. This guy's like six something,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's tall as shit. So I'm like looking up

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<v Speaker 1>at him and he has a phone down recording me,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, turns out I thought this was the friend

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. Turns out that was a husband. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that, And yeah, he was trying to fight

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<v Speaker 1>me over her, and I was like, like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to fight you, like, you know, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know you. Turns out he was in the military the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time too, and she ended up staying with me

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<v Speaker 1>after that, and he ended up supposedly breaking up. He

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<v Speaker 1>ended up moving out, she moved in with me. Fast forward,

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<v Speaker 1>I found out they're not even divorced yet. Actually they're

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<v Speaker 1>still married. You know, yeah, we've been together for about

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<v Speaker 1>a year now. But that's basically the whole Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So it sounds like this was this lady like

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<v Speaker 2>cheating on her husband with you, or like she she

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of left.

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<v Speaker 1>So it turns out there was some stuff between them

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<v Speaker 1>that I happened and they weren't no longer together. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he was sleeping in the living room when she was

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping in the master bedroom and I saw that, and

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<v Speaker 1>when I went over there, I saw that just to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure. So I kind of because like her room,

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<v Speaker 1>it looked like it was just a girlroom, only she

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<v Speaker 1>had only her clothes and her stuff was there, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it kind of made sense. So I took her

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<v Speaker 1>word for it. I decided to believe her, and yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and are you afraid has the ex husband their husband?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, since they're still together, has he has he

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<v Speaker 2>entered the fray again at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually presentally. I'm not gonna lie. I may have cheated,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I found out that what besides the boy

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<v Speaker 1>I made something, something may have happened. And I found

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<v Speaker 1>out that they were actually on the phone for like

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<v Speaker 1>two hours, not that long ago. So I guess they

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<v Speaker 1>still have communication in that aspect.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, pause for a second. So you so you cheated

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<v Speaker 2>on this Okay, so you cheated on this lady? And

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<v Speaker 2>then big five? Wait, what is you cheating on this

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<v Speaker 2>lady have to do with that? What you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Even uh well, I'm guessing that's why was the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she called her for like two hours?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, all right, so it's okay, so this lady,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, so back up for a second. This lady

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<v Speaker 2>leaves her husband for you, then you cheated on her,

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<v Speaker 2>and then she goes back to her husband.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of yes, so she was still living with me,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was in communication with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you cheat on this lady?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? I hate to say it I had

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<v Speaker 1>to be that person. It was alcohol. It wasn't me

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<v Speaker 1>I have a serious problem with alcohol. I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>cheat on her. I guess I kind of did in

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<v Speaker 1>a way. Uh, there was like a I was on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram and I saw a girl and I knew and

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<v Speaker 1>I slipped with hard eyes and we sent a few messages.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was it. That was all it was.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, do you like do you like? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>like this? Do you like this woman that you're dating?

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<v Speaker 1>I did? I did at one point, I really did,

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<v Speaker 1>but now not so much for actually breaking up. She's

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<v Speaker 1>actually leaving me next month.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh why is she?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it next month? Is it like a lease

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<v Speaker 2>rent thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no no. So so we have a whole

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<v Speaker 1>we lived somewhere else completely how she moved it with me.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's leaving and I'm going to be living by myself. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The oason she's leaving next month is because she has

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<v Speaker 1>to wait for her school to end, and so she'll

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<v Speaker 1>be able to leave next month.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you stop liking this woman after a year?

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, she was a lot different when I first met

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<v Speaker 1>her than when I thought she is now. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>about the future and what it could be like me

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<v Speaker 1>and her, and it's more of a financial thing, if

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<v Speaker 1>I say, if I can say, because when she lived

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<v Speaker 1>with me the first couple of months I had her,

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<v Speaker 1>I told her she doesn't have to pay anything. She

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<v Speaker 1>can just take care of her bills and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to worry about nothing. Fast forward, after it was time

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<v Speaker 1>for us to move out, I asked if she had money.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't have any money saved up, even though she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't pay nothing for a year. Well, actually we've been

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<v Speaker 1>together almost tears, Actually that's sorry. So for that first

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<v Speaker 1>year that we lived together at the old place, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't save up any money and she was just really

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<v Speaker 1>bad financially and I was basically paying for both of us.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when we moved I told her like, hey, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna get a bit more rat, like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>need you to start helping out if you can. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's still the same thing. She's just really really bad

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<v Speaker 1>with money. She makes really bad decisions. And I asked myself,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's someone I want to be with moving forward.

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<v Speaker 1>If not, then what's the point. So I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>sat down and I told her, I was like, hey, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do this anymore, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's better off if you go your own way

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<v Speaker 1>and I go my own way.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, okay, So it was primarily just like uh uh,

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<v Speaker 2>if you did not want to go, you didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to split bills, not.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess split bills, but like I guess take care

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<v Speaker 1>of another person at the same time as I'm taking

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<v Speaker 1>care of myself.

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<v Speaker 2>If that makes sense, that makes sense. So what's your

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<v Speaker 2>uh what do you what do you want the future

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<v Speaker 2>to look like? What do you what's moving What does

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<v Speaker 2>it look like moving forward? For me?

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<v Speaker 1>Moving forward, it looks like I want to actually get

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<v Speaker 1>my I kind of want to get my shit together. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm working on getting back into school so I could

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<v Speaker 1>become a pilot. So and that costs a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm trying to take care of that. So right now,

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward for me, the next year is probably going

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<v Speaker 1>to look like I'll move out of here. I'll move

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<v Speaker 1>into like a little studio apartment, or I'll share a

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom with someone so I don't have to pay that much,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'll split all my money I have into

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<v Speaker 1>becoming a pilot. I love to travel. I've traveled plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of places. I've been to Japan, I've been to Kenya,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I kind of want to just do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, here, you're gonna a commercial airline pilot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, commercial airline pilot. That's probably later down the road.

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably become like a trainer at first. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you need like a certain amount of hours, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you go down to Houston, I believe, to get

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<v Speaker 1>your license to become a like like a like a

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<v Speaker 1>certified training like a trainer pilot to get your hours.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on down in Kenya? That's that's on my list.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, Kenya, Kenya, Kenya. Honestly, man, I was in Kenya

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<v Speaker 1>for like twenty four hours. Kenyon was really cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>stayed in the sketchy area. And then they have like

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<v Speaker 1>little hotels you can go to like they're like normally resorts,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you could just go up in there and you

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<v Speaker 1>can just hang out, get drinks. It's it's really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>You have camels on the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>She was crazy camels.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, they have camels on the beach. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>have camels on the beaches. It was really really cool. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't Kenya. That was a what was that that

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<v Speaker 1>was in Kenya? That was Oh my god, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>coast of Africa. I can't remember because I did a

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<v Speaker 1>week trip to Turkey, Egypt. It was Mombasa, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was it was Umbasa.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why don't you? Can you like patch your friend in?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to patch my friend in? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see what he had to say.

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<v Speaker 1>You want me to give me a second. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he knows the show. Give me one second.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it'd be funnier if he didn't know the show.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope I saw something serious. Yeah it is he

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<v Speaker 2>is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan? Give me teke. Let me look at his location

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<v Speaker 1>first to make sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Worried that. Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you have to look at his location?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he owns own companies. Sometimes he might be working,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't want to call him. Maybe he's had

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<v Speaker 1>a job site or something.

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<v Speaker 2>But he would he But he just called you like

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<v Speaker 2>three times. They wouldn't be why he's call him back?

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<v Speaker 2>He called you three times?

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<v Speaker 1>Can m.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? How long do you think it will take for

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<v Speaker 2>you to do this?

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<v Speaker 3>All?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>He's gone, Maybe he's gone. Maybe it's is it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it's ringing on his end. Maybe I'm on hold. It's

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<v Speaker 2>funny to do to this bit because I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to his friend for like two seconds and then

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe not, maybe this will turn into something I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. Is he there?

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<v Speaker 1>No, he didn't answer. You know, we go to do

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<v Speaker 1>the alcohol. He'll call me. I'll call him and then

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<v Speaker 1>he won't answer, and he'll call me like two hours later,

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<v Speaker 1>asking what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your name again?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Loofy, Loofy? You want to call me? Uh no, I uh,

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<v Speaker 2>I've never watched one piece.

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<v Speaker 1>I ever watched one piece? Okay, oh no, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I got start getting for work. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>cool to talk to you though, what we thought about

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<v Speaker 1>this moment. So that's that's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It was good talking to you to Loofy. I wish

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<v Speaker 2>you good luck. I hope you win. I hope you

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<v Speaker 2>break even on the World Cup. And I'll see you

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<v Speaker 2>in the universe man.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'll see you on the universe. Man. How

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<v Speaker 1>a going okay?

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<v Speaker 2>By lufy? See you? Who? I don't really I don't

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<v Speaker 2>watch I don't really pay attention to the World Cup.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on in the World Cup? The World Cup?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I know is when people are like,

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<v Speaker 2>well you got to watch the world it's the World

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<v Speaker 2>I know I'm not into soccer, but I don't you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, It doesn't make sense to me when people

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<v Speaker 2>are like, oh, I'm not into soccer, but I watched

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<v Speaker 2>the World Cup because you know it's the World Cup.

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<v Speaker 2>The logic doesn't make sense. It's like, Oh, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>into soccer, but I watch this big soccer event because

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<v Speaker 2>it's a big soccer event.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's like if I was like, well, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>in the League of Legends, but I watched the finals

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<v Speaker 2>because you know it's the finals. The logic doesn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's what happens when you have a podcast. You have

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<v Speaker 2>to have you have to say an opinion about something.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's take another call. Hello. Hello, Hey, what's

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<v Speaker 2>your name?

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<v Speaker 3>Amanda?

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<v Speaker 2>Amanda?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this GK?

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Gecko? What's up, Amanda?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, this is tired. I didn't think you would respond.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I'd missed it. Nothing. I'm just shit home

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<v Speaker 3>cleaning and I was doing schoolwork for new classes that

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<v Speaker 3>are starting. We're get you up to you?

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<v Speaker 2>What am I up to? I'm staring out the window.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at the sky and that's just about it

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<v Speaker 2>for me. Amanda, what uh? What did you want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about today, Amanda.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a couple of things. The first is I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in a relationship that's like it's been we've been together

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<v Speaker 3>like six years. But I'm a very I'm a very active,

0:20:17.000 --> 0:20:21.960
<v Speaker 3>busy person. Like I grew up with a navy the

0:20:22.040 --> 0:20:25.440
<v Speaker 3>old father. Like, my home was not messy. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>even know what a messy home looked like as a

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<v Speaker 3>child on So things just have a place, and that's

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<v Speaker 3>how I function. I don't want to let it build

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<v Speaker 3>up and then spend a whole day devoted to cleaning

0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:41.280
<v Speaker 3>it up, you know. But to guide that, I'm went.

0:20:42.359 --> 0:20:45.359
<v Speaker 3>He's like, oh, I need a list, need a list

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<v Speaker 3>to do something? How do I know what to do

0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:51.720
<v Speaker 3>if you don't make me a list, I don't know. Dude,

0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:53.399
<v Speaker 3>use your eyeballs.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't make him a list.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, So basically I still have to use all

0:21:01.920 --> 0:21:06.760
<v Speaker 3>the brain power for anything to get done. So I

0:21:06.840 --> 0:21:10.800
<v Speaker 3>might as well just do it myself. It'll probably get

0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:13.240
<v Speaker 3>half asked done if I'm not the one that doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's called uh, you know there's a word for that, right,

0:21:17.040 --> 0:21:21.960
<v Speaker 2>It's a phrase. It's called weaponize it's called weaponized incompetence.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that sounds like a very gallid phrase.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister told me about that. She was like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>the one thing that I won't that's like one of

0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:33.520
<v Speaker 2>the things she doesn't want in her dating life is

0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:37.680
<v Speaker 2>weaponizing competence, like somebody not doing something because it's like, oh, well,

0:21:37.720 --> 0:21:40.200
<v Speaker 2>you'll do it so much better, you know, like they're

0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:44.680
<v Speaker 2>weaponizing they're incompetence to not like do a thing. But okay,

0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:46.120
<v Speaker 2>so you've been with but you've been with this guy

0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:47.800
<v Speaker 2>for a long time. This is not like a fur

0:21:48.040 --> 0:21:50.080
<v Speaker 2>You've been with this guy for six years, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>why is it Why is it now that this is

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<v Speaker 2>coming up.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's because we hit. So we had lived

0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:04.400
<v Speaker 3>together previously for a few years, but then he got

0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:08.200
<v Speaker 3>into some trouble with the court system, so he had

0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:10.840
<v Speaker 3>to get he basically like had to go do this

0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:14.360
<v Speaker 3>program for like almost a year and a half. So

0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:18.760
<v Speaker 3>then I was on my own with bull not my own,

0:22:18.800 --> 0:22:22.560
<v Speaker 3>but I had my kid who's fifteen. I've got a

0:22:22.600 --> 0:22:26.000
<v Speaker 3>fifteen year old son, and then my dog. Then just

0:22:26.119 --> 0:22:30.960
<v Speaker 3>me and we It was just nice. It was so nice.

0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:35.120
<v Speaker 3>My bed was always made very nicely so I could

0:22:35.160 --> 0:22:39.280
<v Speaker 3>just slide into a nice fitted sheet when I was

0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:42.680
<v Speaker 3>ready to way down. Everything was put up. I could relax.

0:22:42.800 --> 0:22:45.080
<v Speaker 3>I didn't have to worry about this or I wasn't

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:47.520
<v Speaker 3>asked what's for dinner when I get off of work.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta be hon It sounds like you hate this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? Wait wait wait wait, what's your what's your? Amanda? Amanda? Well,

0:23:00.280 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm so curious. I am so cure with my mother. Why, okay,

0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:04.879
<v Speaker 2>it sounds like you hate this guy. I mean that

0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:08.560
<v Speaker 2>you sounded like you were so stoked that he was gone.

0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:12.119
<v Speaker 2>Why why have you been with him? Why have you

0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:13.800
<v Speaker 2>been with him for so long? If you don't like

0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:14.520
<v Speaker 2>him this much.

0:23:16.359 --> 0:23:18.760
<v Speaker 3>I didn't used to feel this way. I didn't used

0:23:18.800 --> 0:23:21.160
<v Speaker 3>to feel this way. And I was so devastated when

0:23:21.560 --> 0:23:24.800
<v Speaker 3>when it got to the point where we had to

0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:29.000
<v Speaker 3>live separately. But then after a few weeks, maybe like

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:30.879
<v Speaker 3>a month or two of it, I got into, like,

0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:34.080
<v Speaker 3>you know, just a good flow and I had I

0:23:34.240 --> 0:23:39.560
<v Speaker 3>just realized how how much more relaxed and easy things

0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:45.960
<v Speaker 3>were and felt. And then all of a sudden he

0:23:46.080 --> 0:23:48.280
<v Speaker 3>was like, oh, I'm gone, I get to move back.

0:23:48.359 --> 0:23:52.560
<v Speaker 3>And it was real quick, and I just felt so bad.

0:23:52.960 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 3>I just felt so bad to say no. But now

0:23:55.960 --> 0:24:00.760
<v Speaker 3>it's just like snowballed into this fucking mountain of resentment.

0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:02.639
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm.

0:24:03.880 --> 0:24:06.199
<v Speaker 3>Like he left to go to the gym. You know

0:24:06.240 --> 0:24:07.840
<v Speaker 3>how stoked I was for that.

0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 2>It did. Okay, you gotta you gotta leave this guy?

0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:14.440
<v Speaker 2>You hate? You do not you hate this guy? How long?

0:24:14.520 --> 0:24:17.480
<v Speaker 2>How long have you known that you don't like being

0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:18.200
<v Speaker 2>around this guy?

0:24:19.640 --> 0:24:25.600
<v Speaker 3>Probably probably since he moved back into like about eight months?

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:30.560
<v Speaker 2>Eight months? Oh wow? Okay, and the the your your son?

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:31.680
<v Speaker 2>That's not his, is it?

0:24:32.520 --> 0:24:33.040
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:24:33.040 --> 0:24:35.480
<v Speaker 3>No, it's just mine, all right.

0:24:36.160 --> 0:24:41.440
<v Speaker 2>Is there any reason to not leave this guy? You don't?

0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:48.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh not, other than like making sure all of my

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:52.199
<v Speaker 3>finances would be lined up, you know, so it was

0:24:52.240 --> 0:24:58.240
<v Speaker 3>smooth for my transition to one just one income. But

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:04.320
<v Speaker 3>that's about it. And I just feel bad. I just

0:25:04.359 --> 0:25:08.879
<v Speaker 3>feel shitty about it. Yeah, but I know I'm shitty

0:25:08.920 --> 0:25:10.520
<v Speaker 3>of me to stay.

0:25:10.600 --> 0:25:12.679
<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, of course. I mean, if you don't like

0:25:12.760 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 2>this guy, then there's no reason for either of you

0:25:16.920 --> 0:25:18.680
<v Speaker 2>to be together.

0:25:20.560 --> 0:25:23.240
<v Speaker 3>I know, because, like I said in the text, the

0:25:23.320 --> 0:25:25.720
<v Speaker 3>thought of making a list for being asked for one,

0:25:26.240 --> 0:25:29.359
<v Speaker 3>you know, and like Hulk movies when he gets so

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 3>angry and he does that double fist like smash and

0:25:32.720 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 3>throws the cars across the cities.

0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 2>Uh huh, that's what a list.

0:25:37.920 --> 0:25:40.320
<v Speaker 3>The thought of making a list makes me feel like

0:25:40.440 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 3>doing going and finding a vehicle outside and just fucking

0:25:44.560 --> 0:25:46.280
<v Speaker 3>smashing it across the universe.

0:25:46.840 --> 0:25:49.119
<v Speaker 2>Well, the fact that he says he needs a list

0:25:49.280 --> 0:25:52.480
<v Speaker 2>is like a wi okay, okay, let me ask you this.

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:58.240
<v Speaker 2>Do you want to work it out? Do you want

0:25:58.320 --> 0:26:00.879
<v Speaker 2>to be like, hey, listen, man, you gotta stop, you

0:26:00.880 --> 0:26:03.280
<v Speaker 2>gotta not be like this or else I'm gone, Or

0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:04.120
<v Speaker 2>do you want to just leave?

0:26:05.560 --> 0:26:07.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't I don't think that would work

0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:10.000
<v Speaker 3>because I've tried that. I did try that a lot.

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 3>I tried really hard, honestly, just because I I'm a

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:17.160
<v Speaker 3>very you know, if I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna

0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:18.960
<v Speaker 3>do it right, and I'm gonna do it all the

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:22.439
<v Speaker 3>way and I'm gonna apply myself. But then it was

0:26:22.520 --> 0:26:26.320
<v Speaker 3>just like, you know, you can only say something so

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:29.800
<v Speaker 3>many times and then you realize this, this isn't gonna change.

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 3>You're not sorry, You're not going to try, You're not

0:26:32.080 --> 0:26:40.280
<v Speaker 3>gonna you don't care and I think I don't know

0:26:40.359 --> 0:26:45.240
<v Speaker 3>what I think. I think you're just a child.

0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:49.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it's just the financial reasons to not leave

0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:51.760
<v Speaker 2>pretty much.

0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:53.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:26:53.760 --> 0:26:56.920
<v Speaker 2>M well, I mean, listen, my opinion is of course

0:26:56.960 --> 0:27:02.520
<v Speaker 2>that like there's no there's just nothing. It's just there's

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:07.320
<v Speaker 2>nothing really here. It sounds like, you know, like there's

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:10.680
<v Speaker 2>no Yeah. So uh, I mean, if you guys don't

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 2>have a kid together and there's no reason to really

0:27:13.520 --> 0:27:16.639
<v Speaker 2>be with each other, then I think it sounds like

0:27:16.680 --> 0:27:19.280
<v Speaker 2>you're I mean you're not You're not even groveling about it.

0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:21.240
<v Speaker 2>You're not even like should I or shouldn't I? You're

0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:23.240
<v Speaker 2>very like, oh, I don't like this guy.

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:28.359
<v Speaker 3>I know, I know. I think the main thing is

0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 3>really just the guilt about it.

0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Mmm mmm uh, I don't. I don't think you need

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:40.640
<v Speaker 2>to be guilty, you know. I mean, I think this guy,

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:43.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't really know this guy's deal, right, but like

0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 2>I think I think there. I think the greater guilt

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:48.800
<v Speaker 2>is to be found in staying with someone that you

0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:49.439
<v Speaker 2>don't want.

0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:54.359
<v Speaker 3>To be with, right, Yeah, just waste all that time.

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's a bit of a waste of time.

0:27:57.200 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 2>So if I were you, I would just uh, I

0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:03.600
<v Speaker 2>would relinquish myself of that guilt.

0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:08.159
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I want to talk to you about my

0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:14.240
<v Speaker 3>dad also, sure, Okay, So my dad, my dad was

0:28:14.280 --> 0:28:20.439
<v Speaker 3>a seal. Him and my mom were real rocky, and

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:23.920
<v Speaker 3>my mom would like leave and then come back, leave,

0:28:24.000 --> 0:28:26.520
<v Speaker 3>come back because my dad was psycho. That's why I

0:28:26.520 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 3>should get that. So for long. My dad retired from

0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:35.879
<v Speaker 3>the Navy when I was about eight or nine because

0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 3>of their divorce, and all of the family, their parents

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 3>on both sides all lived in Oklahoma, so we left

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 3>California for Oklahoma. The second my dad leaves the Navy,

0:28:48.960 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 3>he gets on drugs. He leaves the Navy for a day,

0:28:55.240 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 3>I feel like and it was like he just went

0:28:57.960 --> 0:29:03.960
<v Speaker 3>straight to partying and my dad went crazy. He also

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:07.640
<v Speaker 3>raised me and my sister by hisself while on this

0:29:09.000 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 3>drug roller coaster life till I was about twelve. It

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:17.400
<v Speaker 3>was not a healthy environment at all. It was very,

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:20.240
<v Speaker 3>very up and down. You didn't know if it was

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:22.520
<v Speaker 3>going to be a happy day or a sad day.

0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 3>It could be really fun. I mean my dad used

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:29.480
<v Speaker 3>to take me to Fort, the preacher's yards and the

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:32.760
<v Speaker 3>little town we lived in, or we would go ding

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:38.080
<v Speaker 3>ding Dong ditch the mayor. You know, he taught me

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 3>good life lessons, but that was like more the more

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:50.360
<v Speaker 3>time that went by, the very few and in between

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 3>those kind of good days word But and then when

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:58.280
<v Speaker 3>I was twelve, my mom finally got us, and then

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:00.719
<v Speaker 3>my dad. I got out of school ninth grade one

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:03.160
<v Speaker 3>day and had a voicemail. My dad was like going

0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 3>to Alaska bye. And then I didn't see him till

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 3>I was eighteen, which he had gone because he had

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 3>pretty sure he'd like snitched on somebody or something and

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 3>he'd gotten himself into a lot of trouble, so he

0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:27.520
<v Speaker 3>had to leave the area. But finally, like I get

0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:30.080
<v Speaker 3>to be nineteen, I have my son. My dad decides

0:30:30.160 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 3>that means he needs to come back. And he seems

0:30:32.640 --> 0:30:37.000
<v Speaker 3>to be doing better, you know so, but it's always

0:30:37.000 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 3>his cycle. He's good, he gets a job, he does great.

0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.840
<v Speaker 3>Then you can tell he's like doing drugs again. It'll

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:46.640
<v Speaker 3>suddenly take him six hours to show up when you

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 3>guys have plans, and then it gets like the worse

0:30:52.840 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 3>off he is on, you know, the cycle he's going through,

0:30:56.360 --> 0:31:02.920
<v Speaker 3>he gets pretty awful, like some mean, evil coord person.

0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 3>But I always knew that if my dad had been

0:31:08.480 --> 0:31:11.200
<v Speaker 3>not on drugs, he would have been the best at

0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:15.280
<v Speaker 3>ever he's. It's just so crazy the night and day

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 3>difference him sober or not. And I always had a

0:31:19.160 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 3>lot of like anger issues growing up. It took me

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 3>a lot to like not be a very angry, mean person,

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 3>I guess, which I do very well now. I like

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 3>control myself. I don't freak out. I'm not screaming at people.

0:31:36.160 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 3>I just you know, I can't change shit. I just

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:42.360
<v Speaker 3>have to let it go. I'm not going to stress

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 3>about it. But so my dad was always that person

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:50.239
<v Speaker 3>I had that I could relate to about it. You know.

0:31:51.440 --> 0:31:54.320
<v Speaker 3>He knew the kind of like anger I felt inside

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 3>of my body when I was angry, like nobody else

0:31:57.160 --> 0:31:59.720
<v Speaker 3>could ever understand. I could call my dad and say

0:31:59.760 --> 0:32:05.000
<v Speaker 3>them most awful, just horrible things that I was thinking

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 3>at the moment, and he would be like, Okay, you

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 3>feel better, Yeah, cool, thanks, you know, Whereas if I

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 3>were to call my mom or sister, they'd be like,

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 3>please don't talk like that, Amanda, that's not very nice,

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 3>you know. So that was just I don't know, even

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 3>though I knew he was shitty, he still understood me

0:32:28.520 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 3>and there were still little pieces of him that I

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 3>had was it was like solid, no matter what he

0:32:34.720 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 3>might like, go through his cycle where he's good, bad,

0:32:38.600 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 3>falls off, he disappears for a while, but then he

0:32:42.160 --> 0:32:47.760
<v Speaker 3>comes back. But and every time he goes through a cycle,

0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:51.280
<v Speaker 3>there's always a girlfriend. And my dad doesn't date women

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 3>his age. For instance, right now, he's my dad's sixty five,

0:32:57.640 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 3>and I think his girlfriend is a year older than me.

0:33:00.400 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 3>She's thirty six or thirty five. So, and my dad's

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:11.760
<v Speaker 3>very obsessed about like dying and getting old. And I

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:15.560
<v Speaker 3>don't know, it's very weird, but he'll only get younger women.

0:33:15.760 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 2>And what do you mean, I'm obsessed with dying and

0:33:19.360 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 2>getting old. But he talks about it a lot.

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, the I mean, it's always been a thing

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 3>he's mentioned throughout life. I can regularly remember having a conversation.

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 3>He's scared. I think he's scared he's going to go

0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:38.680
<v Speaker 3>to Hell. My dad's a pretty firm believer in heaven

0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:45.200
<v Speaker 3>and hell, and I'm not religious really, so that's always

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:48.960
<v Speaker 3>been a thing between us. But he's very terrified he's

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 3>going to die and he'll go to Hell and then

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 3>that nobody here on earth will remember him.

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Whoa and he's told that to you.

0:33:58.040 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, my dad, He's I've been his little

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 3>friend that he would just chat with since him and

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:11.320
<v Speaker 3>my mom separated, little like dad. It's ridiculous, but then

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 3>it's understandable because I feel like if you if you're

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:21.040
<v Speaker 3>in a religion that you believe punishes people, and based

0:34:21.080 --> 0:34:24.359
<v Speaker 3>on the things that I know my dad has done,

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:26.960
<v Speaker 3>if there was a Hell, I'm I do believe he

0:34:27.000 --> 0:34:33.960
<v Speaker 3>would probably go wow, yeah, Like I just I don't know.

0:34:34.640 --> 0:34:36.759
<v Speaker 3>I don't believe in I don't believe in that kind

0:34:36.800 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 3>of stuff because I just feel like, even if there

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:43.320
<v Speaker 3>was a god, I don't want to be a part

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 3>or a follower of something that would create us and

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 3>know that we have a fucked up life ahead of us,

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:58.239
<v Speaker 3>If that makes sense. You know, like a little kid

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 3>doesn't know that free will is why they're getting beat

0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:06.080
<v Speaker 3>or you know, like awful things happen to them. It

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:09.280
<v Speaker 3>seems like if you try to get an answer about

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:11.359
<v Speaker 3>anything like that, they're like, well, do you just have

0:35:11.480 --> 0:35:14.440
<v Speaker 3>to give it to God? God knows he wouldn't give

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 3>you something he couldn't handle. Uh, pretty sure he's doing

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:20.800
<v Speaker 3>that all the time. Because I'm seeing lots of people

0:35:20.840 --> 0:35:23.600
<v Speaker 3>with late school of things they are not able to handle.

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:28.480
<v Speaker 2>So so how often are you do you chat with

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:30.759
<v Speaker 2>the guy anymore?

0:35:32.640 --> 0:35:37.440
<v Speaker 3>So we've always throughout all of these years, been pretty

0:35:37.440 --> 0:35:42.319
<v Speaker 3>consistent talking until about I think it's officially been a

0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:44.839
<v Speaker 3>year since I've spoken to my dad on the phone.

0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:49.160
<v Speaker 3>Other than I think two or three times I've text him,

0:35:49.200 --> 0:35:52.800
<v Speaker 3>but it was about stuff for my son, like stuff

0:35:52.840 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 3>about my son's sports, or like you know, competitions, like

0:35:57.719 --> 0:36:02.359
<v Speaker 3>good news about my son, or when my dad has

0:36:02.440 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 3>tried to get sympathy, Oh, I have a doctor's appointment.

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:14.640
<v Speaker 3>But he got this new young girlfriend and Stee got

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 3>this new young girlfriend, and he was already dating somebody

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:21.280
<v Speaker 3>at the time who was like a very spin active

0:36:21.360 --> 0:36:23.600
<v Speaker 3>in my life since I was young. Like her and

0:36:23.640 --> 0:36:27.520
<v Speaker 3>my dad go back to high school. They've known each

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.200
<v Speaker 3>other and been off and on that long. And my

0:36:30.320 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 3>dad was just being really awful to her during the

0:36:35.200 --> 0:36:39.840
<v Speaker 3>meeting the younger girl and deciding he was leaving the

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 3>girlfriend for the new young one. And I wasn't supportive

0:36:44.200 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 3>of it, you know. It wasn't like I tried to

0:36:48.000 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 3>stop it, but I don't want to be I don't

0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:52.360
<v Speaker 3>want to hear about it. I don't need to be included.

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:55.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's right or you should be treating

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:59.920
<v Speaker 3>her that way, So just don't involve me, Like, just

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 3>keep that to yourself. I don't need Because my dad

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:05.840
<v Speaker 3>has this habit of like when he does things that

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:10.400
<v Speaker 3>are not okay, he'll call you and tell you that

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:14.520
<v Speaker 3>someone else said this negative thing about him. But whatever

0:37:14.600 --> 0:37:17.680
<v Speaker 3>that negative thing is is what he did, and he's

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:19.799
<v Speaker 3>trying to plan to seed to make it look like

0:37:19.880 --> 0:37:22.280
<v Speaker 3>he didn't be that and people were talking crap.

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:27.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I'll say this. I mean, you know, I'm

0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:30.640
<v Speaker 2>down to just let you chat about it for as

0:37:30.719 --> 0:37:34.560
<v Speaker 2>much as you want to talk about But the tough

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:36.600
<v Speaker 2>part about stuff, especially like with your parents and shit

0:37:36.719 --> 0:37:41.799
<v Speaker 2>is like at six, I hate to be like this,

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:45.960
<v Speaker 2>but at sixty five, at a certain point, man, it's

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:50.279
<v Speaker 2>like at a certain point, I feel like people, if

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:53.080
<v Speaker 2>they were going to change, they would have. And so

0:37:53.160 --> 0:37:55.400
<v Speaker 2>it's kind of just like up to you as to

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:58.279
<v Speaker 2>like how much you want to tolerate or not. I mean,

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:02.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't know I have limited him from that, but uh,

0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:04.719
<v Speaker 2>that's kind of my gut feeling at least right now,

0:38:04.719 --> 0:38:07.560
<v Speaker 2>in this point of my life, and I.

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:10.479
<v Speaker 3>Think that's right. I had accepted a long time ago,

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:13.560
<v Speaker 3>like if I was going to maintain anything with my dad,

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:16.640
<v Speaker 3>I needed to realize, you know, he's never going to

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 3>be better. This is what it is, and I'll just

0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:22.600
<v Speaker 3>have this or I'll have nothing. But then when I

0:38:22.719 --> 0:38:29.640
<v Speaker 3>didn't support this new girlfriend switch last year, he just

0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:32.799
<v Speaker 3>like lost it on my sister and I. He was like,

0:38:32.880 --> 0:38:36.279
<v Speaker 3>if you guys can't be supportive, then I don't need

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:39.239
<v Speaker 3>you in my life. Like he's the one that cut

0:38:39.239 --> 0:38:43.560
<v Speaker 3>it off. He's the one that cut contact. Basically said

0:38:43.600 --> 0:38:49.799
<v Speaker 3>the I, my sister and I were negative negativity that

0:38:49.920 --> 0:38:52.319
<v Speaker 3>he didn't need. And he was so in love with

0:38:52.360 --> 0:38:55.239
<v Speaker 3>this girl, like he's never been in love before. I'm like,

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 3>what are you talking about. You've had like four wives up,

0:38:58.520 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 3>you're always in love like this. So we had that

0:39:03.640 --> 0:39:06.880
<v Speaker 3>big falling out fight and then I still was trying

0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:11.440
<v Speaker 3>to maintain, you know, something with them relationship wise. But

0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 3>my my final straw was I was on the phone

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:19.279
<v Speaker 3>with him. I had called him because I was discussing

0:39:20.239 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 3>Helen Keller. To be very honest, I was telling him

0:39:24.560 --> 0:39:28.279
<v Speaker 3>how I think that Helen Keller while she may be real.

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:34.920
<v Speaker 3>I don't think she's quite the the pioneer.

0:39:35.080 --> 0:39:38.960
<v Speaker 2>For you were letting it behind, you were letting it

0:39:39.000 --> 0:39:40.880
<v Speaker 2>be down that you don't fuck with Helen Keller.

0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:45.080
<v Speaker 3>Yes, And my dad was like, yeah, that makes sense.

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:47.720
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, just you know, my dad would always

0:39:47.719 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 3>have conversations like this with me, like we're just talking

0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:54.279
<v Speaker 3>and when all of a sudden, this girlfriend, I can

0:39:54.320 --> 0:39:58.759
<v Speaker 3>hear her in the background. She's she does fuck with

0:39:58.840 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 3>Helen Keller. She's hard like it was very crazy, okay,

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:13.320
<v Speaker 3>all right, yeah, And that didn't sit right with you? Well,

0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:17.120
<v Speaker 3>I mean it didn't. I didn't. I wasn't going to

0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:20.000
<v Speaker 3>say anything. It didn't sit right with me because I don't.

0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 3>I think that means you're not thinking very hard. Wait

0:40:24.160 --> 0:40:24.720
<v Speaker 3>wait wait.

0:40:24.560 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 2>Wait, wait wait wait hold on. If you're not all

0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:29.839
<v Speaker 2>right the way this is going to increase the length

0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.560
<v Speaker 2>of this conversation by about forty five minutes. But I

0:40:32.840 --> 0:40:35.560
<v Speaker 2>do have to ask, why why do you hate Helen Keller.

0:40:36.560 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't. I don't hate her. I just don't think

0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 3>that she I don't see how anybody taught her to

0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:44.959
<v Speaker 3>do all of these things. When if you can't see

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:49.960
<v Speaker 3>and you can't speak in here. How do you know

0:40:50.040 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 3>what the apple you're feeling is? Is an apple? Well?

0:40:54.719 --> 0:40:55.279
<v Speaker 3>That's hard.

0:40:55.360 --> 0:40:57.680
<v Speaker 2>That's the whole thing. That's why she that's why everyone

0:40:57.760 --> 0:41:00.200
<v Speaker 2>loves her is because you know, she did the impossible thing.

0:41:01.520 --> 0:41:05.000
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I think it's pretty impossible. I just

0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:08.879
<v Speaker 3>don't see how she did it and well filled by it?

0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:13.360
<v Speaker 2>Wait wait, wait, hold, this is a whole new angle

0:41:13.440 --> 0:41:14.880
<v Speaker 2>to this phone call. Why do you Why are you

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 2>offended by Helen? Why are you offended by it? Are

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 2>you blind and deaf?

0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm not, But I think that she's They're making her

0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 3>out to be this crazy, pioneering, you know, woman figure.

0:41:27.440 --> 0:41:29.920
<v Speaker 3>And there's a lot of women out there that are

0:41:29.960 --> 0:41:33.839
<v Speaker 3>probably doing great things and overcoming a lot of challenges.

0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 3>So don't lie about the ones you're overcoming. And I

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:41.680
<v Speaker 3>just don't see how it makes sense that she learned

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 3>those things, Because if you can't show it to me

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:47.399
<v Speaker 3>and I can't hear it and I can't see it,

0:41:49.960 --> 0:41:52.200
<v Speaker 3>how do I know what it means when I feel it?

0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:54.440
<v Speaker 2>Damn, Helen Cole, I thought that for some reason, I

0:41:54.440 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 2>thought Hally Color died young. She mentioned like eighty seven.

0:41:56.640 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 2>That's pretty good. Did she she uh, how did she

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:01.920
<v Speaker 2>do it?

0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:02.160
<v Speaker 3>Well?

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:04.839
<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh, and Sullivan, and I remember all this ship

0:42:05.280 --> 0:42:10.359
<v Speaker 2>basically this this, this, this this lady and Sullivan I

0:42:10.480 --> 0:42:15.480
<v Speaker 2>like like put her hands in certain positions that like

0:42:15.640 --> 0:42:19.600
<v Speaker 2>she like would feel Anne Sullivan's hands and like use

0:42:19.640 --> 0:42:23.719
<v Speaker 2>it to like learn like uh sign language or something

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:24.879
<v Speaker 2>like that. That's how I remember it.

0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:29.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the story I remember too, and I've just

0:42:29.840 --> 0:42:33.160
<v Speaker 3>spent a lot doesn't make sense, and it doesn't make sense.

0:42:33.800 --> 0:42:38.680
<v Speaker 3>I can't wrap my head around it. And I've devoted

0:42:38.719 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 3>more time of my life than I probably have to try,

0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:48.239
<v Speaker 3>and or that I probably should have. But when I

0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:51.120
<v Speaker 3>was talking to my dad about that, this girlfriend comes

0:42:51.120 --> 0:42:53.600
<v Speaker 3>in and she's like, she did do that, and she

0:42:54.440 --> 0:42:57.760
<v Speaker 3>did learn all of those things and she flew a plane.

0:42:58.520 --> 0:42:59.279
<v Speaker 3>I was like what.

0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Wait wait wait wait she did she did fly a plane.

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:06.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean she didn't really fly a plane. She flew

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 2>a plane in the way that like a little kid,

0:43:08.920 --> 0:43:12.440
<v Speaker 2>uh like flies the flies a plane when the pilot's like,

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:14.560
<v Speaker 2>do you want to fly a plane? Like? I think

0:43:14.600 --> 0:43:17.200
<v Speaker 2>the plot, by the way, this is all misinformation. I

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:20.360
<v Speaker 2>fucking know what I'm talking about, But I think the

0:43:20.400 --> 0:43:26.040
<v Speaker 2>pilot had the plane on like auto whatever, and then

0:43:26.160 --> 0:43:29.480
<v Speaker 2>she just like sat in the front and like held

0:43:29.480 --> 0:43:34.960
<v Speaker 2>the stuff well on it look honestly technically on technicality,

0:43:35.880 --> 0:43:38.439
<v Speaker 2>totally flew a plane, right.

0:43:38.960 --> 0:43:44.479
<v Speaker 3>But this girlfriend, I think she thought that Helen took

0:43:44.520 --> 0:43:49.360
<v Speaker 3>the plane like controlled the takeoff, navigated, did all of

0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:55.279
<v Speaker 3>it while blind. And so all of a sudden, my

0:43:55.400 --> 0:43:58.560
<v Speaker 3>dad switches up on me and starts acting like I'm

0:43:58.640 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 3>stupid in the conversation like it was crazy, just total

0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:07.880
<v Speaker 3>one to eighty, like we're going back and forth, and

0:44:07.920 --> 0:44:10.080
<v Speaker 3>my dad and I disagree on a lot of shit,

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:12.520
<v Speaker 3>so like we can always, you know, have these little

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:17.520
<v Speaker 3>debates or talks. But it was like when she came

0:44:17.560 --> 0:44:21.520
<v Speaker 3>through for Helen, so did my dad in a very

0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:27.719
<v Speaker 3>condescending way. And it was I don't know, I was

0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:30.000
<v Speaker 3>I was so mad. I just got off the phone

0:44:30.040 --> 0:44:31.840
<v Speaker 3>with him, and I just haven't spoken with him on

0:44:31.880 --> 0:44:35.760
<v Speaker 3>the phone since he ll now from behind the grave,

0:44:36.760 --> 0:44:39.880
<v Speaker 3>yeah not even here. And she doesn't know the impact

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:44.000
<v Speaker 3>she's made on my life. And so I've always thought

0:44:44.000 --> 0:44:46.160
<v Speaker 3>I was cool with you know, this is my dad,

0:44:46.200 --> 0:44:48.399
<v Speaker 3>this is what it is, Take it or leave it.

0:44:48.960 --> 0:44:51.879
<v Speaker 3>But then now that I've like actually cut him off,

0:44:52.200 --> 0:44:55.440
<v Speaker 3>like for good, and I'm just not going to tolerate

0:44:55.520 --> 0:44:59.400
<v Speaker 3>it because like my little sister, she's four years younger

0:44:59.400 --> 0:45:03.560
<v Speaker 3>than me, and she will tolerate all of their negativity

0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:07.200
<v Speaker 3>and hit for my dad. She'll like go take him

0:45:07.239 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 3>to lunch and then he'll be mean. She were the whole.

0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:12.640
<v Speaker 2>Amanda, Amanda, Amanda. I'm gonna sorry, Amanda. I'm gonna let

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:14.080
<v Speaker 2>you go in a second, but I just I'm gonna

0:45:14.120 --> 0:45:20.960
<v Speaker 2>say this. I do think that at a certain point

0:45:21.040 --> 0:45:23.480
<v Speaker 2>it is a thing of like it sucks. By the way,

0:45:23.520 --> 0:45:26.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry to hear that you're having these issues with

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:28.680
<v Speaker 2>your dad, but I do think at a certain point

0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:31.760
<v Speaker 2>with your with your folks, it's like you can't really

0:45:31.880 --> 0:45:35.799
<v Speaker 2>expect them to you can't expect them to change. You

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:38.360
<v Speaker 2>have to either like you have to just like limit

0:45:38.400 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 2>the amount of time that you specifically limit the amount

0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:45.080
<v Speaker 2>of time you spend talking about Helen Keller with your

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:47.640
<v Speaker 2>dad or honestly, you sound like it's the Helen Keller

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:50.000
<v Speaker 2>stuff is the stuff I'm more concerned about, because it

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:52.840
<v Speaker 2>sounds like you have a some obsession with Helen Keller

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:55.520
<v Speaker 2>and now it's rubbing off on me. I'm trying to

0:45:55.520 --> 0:45:58.720
<v Speaker 2>pay attention. But I'm also scrolling through Helen Keller's Wikipedia page.

0:45:58.840 --> 0:46:02.919
<v Speaker 2>Did you know she went to Japan to try to

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:05.319
<v Speaker 2>to try to find out more about how Chiko, the

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:09.280
<v Speaker 2>loyal dog who searched for his deceased master for ten years.

0:46:09.480 --> 0:46:10.360
<v Speaker 2>You know about how Chico?

0:46:11.520 --> 0:46:13.720
<v Speaker 3>I don't, And I don't know how she knew about

0:46:13.719 --> 0:46:19.040
<v Speaker 3>the dog either, because, dude, you.

0:46:19.000 --> 0:46:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Know what, I think, you're right. I think this is

0:46:22.560 --> 0:46:25.040
<v Speaker 2>I think her. Yeah, I think her.

0:46:24.920 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 3>Whole thing, the Kerry Tree with George Washington. I think

0:46:28.680 --> 0:46:30.960
<v Speaker 3>that's the whole point of Helen was just the teachers,

0:46:31.040 --> 0:46:33.520
<v Speaker 3>you could do things that are impossible.

0:46:35.560 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess. I guess you're right. How did she

0:46:37.600 --> 0:46:39.800
<v Speaker 2>even know about dogs?

0:46:40.280 --> 0:46:44.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? She never seen it. She's felt something soft.

0:46:45.880 --> 0:46:48.719
<v Speaker 2>But that's I think, like, hold on, look she has

0:46:48.960 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 2>she just she's she's a picture of her with Yeah,

0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:59.560
<v Speaker 2>she loves these Japanese dogs. Man, that's crazy. She had

0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:02.160
<v Speaker 2>a dog named go Go. It's not accurate.

0:47:02.200 --> 0:47:05.800
<v Speaker 3>I mean, look, she you know she's from an American breed.

0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh.

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:13.359
<v Speaker 2>She was an opponent of Woodrow Wilson. Did you know

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:15.360
<v Speaker 2>that she did not like Woodrow Wilson?

0:47:16.680 --> 0:47:19.799
<v Speaker 3>I did not. You're just on the Wikipedia because now

0:47:19.800 --> 0:47:20.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna have to.

0:47:20.560 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 2>Do I'm sorry. I shouldn't. No, I'm sorry, I should

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:28.120
<v Speaker 2>be I should be more, I should be more present

0:47:28.160 --> 0:47:30.600
<v Speaker 2>with this conversation and not on the Wikipedia page of

0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Helen Keller. And I'm not gonna blame you for putting

0:47:32.400 --> 0:47:37.800
<v Speaker 2>me on there. But Amanda, is there anything else you

0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:39.319
<v Speaker 2>want to say to the people of the computer before

0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:39.520
<v Speaker 2>we go?

0:47:40.360 --> 0:47:44.239
<v Speaker 3>No, no, I don't, but thanks thanks for letting me Ben.

0:47:44.920 --> 0:47:46.640
<v Speaker 2>Of course, I'm glad you got to speak your piece.

0:47:46.680 --> 0:47:48.920
<v Speaker 2>I hope things go better with your father. And I'll

0:47:48.920 --> 0:47:51.360
<v Speaker 2>see you in the universe. I almost almost called you

0:47:51.440 --> 0:47:55.720
<v Speaker 2>Helen for some reason. I'll see you around the universe. Goodbye, Amanda,

0:47:55.760 --> 0:48:02.439
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, good luck. That was Amanda. Nice person. Hope

0:48:02.480 --> 0:48:03.680
<v Speaker 2>things go well with their dad. I mean, you know

0:48:03.680 --> 0:48:05.560
<v Speaker 2>we've talked about I feel bad for folks who have,

0:48:05.640 --> 0:48:08.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, trouble with their folks. But there is a

0:48:08.120 --> 0:48:11.080
<v Speaker 2>thing of like you can't like, you know, expect them

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:20.800
<v Speaker 2>to change. Who where she was born Helen Keller's father.

0:48:22.200 --> 0:48:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh wait they were, Yeah, they had a bunch of slaves.

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:29.000
<v Speaker 2>Look at that. He served. Helen Keller's father served as

0:48:29.000 --> 0:48:31.879
<v Speaker 2>a captain in the Confederate Army. The family was part

0:48:31.920 --> 0:48:35.600
<v Speaker 2>of the slaveholding elite before the Civil War, but they

0:48:35.760 --> 0:48:48.759
<v Speaker 2>lost their slaveholding status afterwards. Yeah, I guess that makes

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 2>sense that Helen Keller's family had slaves. I don't know

0:48:54.920 --> 0:48:58.480
<v Speaker 2>why that makes sense, but it makes sense. All right,

0:48:58.560 --> 0:48:59.600
<v Speaker 2>let's talk about something else.

0:49:04.520 --> 0:49:08.040
<v Speaker 4>Hello, Hey, dude, is this real?

0:49:09.040 --> 0:49:09.120
<v Speaker 3>This?

0:49:09.560 --> 0:49:13.520
<v Speaker 2>Uh? As far as as far as we know, as

0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:17.239
<v Speaker 2>far as we know. What's your name? Man? Hi?

0:49:17.680 --> 0:49:21.160
<v Speaker 4>Uh, I'll go by. Uh, I'll go by.

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:25.839
<v Speaker 2>Beast, beast? What are you doing, beast? Are you doing

0:49:25.920 --> 0:49:26.919
<v Speaker 2>right now? What are you doing?

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:31.680
<v Speaker 4>I just got off work, brother, I'm a mail man.

0:49:33.120 --> 0:49:36.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh, we've had some mail men on the show before.

0:49:36.120 --> 0:49:39.560
<v Speaker 2>What what's going on in the male world?

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 3>Well?

0:49:42.120 --> 0:49:45.319
<v Speaker 4>Uh, it's not as glamorous as it would seem, you know.

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:48.879
<v Speaker 4>I know that. I know that Back in the day,

0:49:50.680 --> 0:49:53.520
<v Speaker 4>being a male carrier was considered to be a pretty good, uh,

0:49:54.000 --> 0:49:57.160
<v Speaker 4>a pretty good job because of the fact that, you know,

0:49:57.440 --> 0:50:00.239
<v Speaker 4>there's a lot of I'm pretty sure a lot of

0:50:00.280 --> 0:50:03.280
<v Speaker 4>people grew up seeing the same mail man every day,

0:50:03.719 --> 0:50:06.320
<v Speaker 4>and if they had a conversation with him, it's probably

0:50:06.360 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 4>the type of guy that would how can I say it,

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:11.400
<v Speaker 4>It's probably the type of guy that was putting his

0:50:11.480 --> 0:50:17.040
<v Speaker 4>kids through college, own his own house. So it's not

0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:20.840
<v Speaker 4>like that anymore, unfortunately, and the times that we're living

0:50:20.840 --> 0:50:23.040
<v Speaker 4>in you already know how the economy is and stuff.

0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:25.959
<v Speaker 4>But you know, I know that's a that's a whole

0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:29.040
<v Speaker 4>other spiel. But you know, I'm just out here man,

0:50:29.200 --> 0:50:32.320
<v Speaker 4>just trying to trying to pay my bills and stuff.

0:50:33.160 --> 0:50:35.080
<v Speaker 4>You know, it's a it's a cool job in the

0:50:35.120 --> 0:50:38.400
<v Speaker 4>CeNSE where like, for example, I'm an animal lover, so

0:50:38.760 --> 0:50:41.680
<v Speaker 4>I like being able to say what's up to the

0:50:41.760 --> 0:50:46.680
<v Speaker 4>cats or the dogs. But other than that, I mean, shit,

0:50:46.760 --> 0:50:48.439
<v Speaker 4>you know who wouldn't want to get paid more?

0:50:50.239 --> 0:50:52.680
<v Speaker 2>So you're saying that it used to be back in

0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:54.600
<v Speaker 2>the day, you used to be able to actually support

0:50:54.600 --> 0:50:57.520
<v Speaker 2>your family by being a mailman, but now it's still

0:50:57.520 --> 0:50:58.040
<v Speaker 2>a struggle.

0:50:59.239 --> 0:51:02.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I And to elaborate that a little bit more,

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:07.120
<v Speaker 4>I'd say, like, for example, back in the day, I

0:51:07.200 --> 0:51:10.719
<v Speaker 4>know that they would just pretty much work there. They're

0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:13.440
<v Speaker 4>eight hours. I know overtime was a thing, like it'd

0:51:13.480 --> 0:51:15.920
<v Speaker 4>been a thing, but I just feel like back in

0:51:15.960 --> 0:51:18.680
<v Speaker 4>the day, you could work your your regular just eight

0:51:18.719 --> 0:51:24.120
<v Speaker 4>hours and you would have enough to pay your bills,

0:51:24.640 --> 0:51:27.640
<v Speaker 4>take care of your responsibilities as well as having some

0:51:28.360 --> 0:51:32.000
<v Speaker 4>extra money on the side, you know, for playtime. You know,

0:51:32.040 --> 0:51:33.840
<v Speaker 4>whether you want to go out with your girl or

0:51:34.239 --> 0:51:38.400
<v Speaker 4>by yourself something. And nowadays it's like, dude, I work overtime.

0:51:39.840 --> 0:51:43.480
<v Speaker 4>There's times where I do ten to twelve hours a

0:51:43.560 --> 0:51:47.520
<v Speaker 4>day and I'm still kind of like, shit, dude, I

0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:49.000
<v Speaker 4>wish I had more money in my pocket.

0:51:49.040 --> 0:51:55.400
<v Speaker 2>You know, how many hours a day are you are

0:51:55.440 --> 0:51:57.279
<v Speaker 2>you working? How many hours a week are typically working?

0:51:59.440 --> 0:52:04.880
<v Speaker 4>I want to say I'll at least do maybe like

0:52:06.160 --> 0:52:11.279
<v Speaker 4>fifty fifty five plus. Sometimes it just depends on you know,

0:52:11.320 --> 0:52:14.000
<v Speaker 4>the time of year. Two like when I'm you when

0:52:14.040 --> 0:52:17.919
<v Speaker 4>I worked sixty plus is like I want to say,

0:52:18.040 --> 0:52:21.080
<v Speaker 4>like the holiday season. As of right now, I mean,

0:52:22.360 --> 0:52:26.520
<v Speaker 4>what's it called? The mails not that heavy obviously Mondays

0:52:26.600 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 4>or the heaviest days just because it's the beginning of

0:52:28.600 --> 0:52:32.880
<v Speaker 4>the week. But aside from that, I mean today I

0:52:32.960 --> 0:52:35.279
<v Speaker 4>just did an eight hour shift. So right now I'm

0:52:35.280 --> 0:52:37.279
<v Speaker 4>about a clock out at four thirty. I'm just kind

0:52:37.280 --> 0:52:40.040
<v Speaker 4>of chilling in my work truck till it's time to

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:41.920
<v Speaker 4>clock out.

0:52:44.320 --> 0:52:46.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, you texted me something I forgot that you

0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:47.320
<v Speaker 2>texted me something.

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:50.759
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I texted you a couple of times.

0:52:51.120 --> 0:52:53.960
<v Speaker 2>You said, I want to talk about how I hate

0:52:54.000 --> 0:52:54.600
<v Speaker 2>my sister.

0:52:56.239 --> 0:52:58.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, what's it called. If you want to

0:52:58.080 --> 0:52:59.759
<v Speaker 4>get into that, I'm doing to get into that.

0:53:01.280 --> 0:53:04.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, sure, man, it's up to you. What's going

0:53:04.120 --> 0:53:04.600
<v Speaker 2>on with her?

0:53:05.800 --> 0:53:08.439
<v Speaker 4>Okay, let me just take a little sip of water

0:53:08.480 --> 0:53:15.799
<v Speaker 4>really quick. Okay, So it's a very long story, but

0:53:15.880 --> 0:53:20.040
<v Speaker 4>if I can short in it the most possible long

0:53:20.080 --> 0:53:25.000
<v Speaker 4>story short, I haven't talked to my sister in over

0:53:25.040 --> 0:53:27.840
<v Speaker 4>a year already, and the reason why we haven't talked

0:53:27.920 --> 0:53:31.359
<v Speaker 4>is because I get it may be a little bit

0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:34.160
<v Speaker 4>me in the sense where I kind of set it off,

0:53:34.200 --> 0:53:36.680
<v Speaker 4>but to just break it down to you as quickly

0:53:36.680 --> 0:53:42.759
<v Speaker 4>as possible, she doesn't get along with my fiance now.

0:53:43.840 --> 0:53:48.680
<v Speaker 4>And I've been with my fiance for what we have

0:53:48.800 --> 0:53:51.480
<v Speaker 4>been dating for I want to say twelve years, but

0:53:51.920 --> 0:53:55.799
<v Speaker 4>we just recently got engaged last year. But I haven't

0:53:55.800 --> 0:54:00.880
<v Speaker 4>talked to my sister since last March. So basically the

0:54:00.960 --> 0:54:06.759
<v Speaker 4>reason why is because Jesus doesn't appreciate my girl and

0:54:06.840 --> 0:54:12.600
<v Speaker 4>what my girl does for her, especially because she doesn't

0:54:12.640 --> 0:54:15.279
<v Speaker 4>think that I like her boyfriend. And it's not even that,

0:54:15.360 --> 0:54:17.359
<v Speaker 4>it's just I really haven't gotten to know the guy.

0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:19.920
<v Speaker 4>And there was a situation that happened back in the

0:54:20.000 --> 0:54:25.400
<v Speaker 4>day where she heard me say something and she heard wrong.

0:54:25.920 --> 0:54:28.600
<v Speaker 4>So we kind of had like a falling out, and

0:54:29.200 --> 0:54:32.600
<v Speaker 4>it was over her boyfriend. She thought I was talking

0:54:32.600 --> 0:54:34.600
<v Speaker 4>smack on her boyfriend when it really wasn't like that.

0:54:34.680 --> 0:54:36.200
<v Speaker 4>It was just kind of me trying to say, like, hey,

0:54:36.239 --> 0:54:38.200
<v Speaker 4>like I don't even know the guy that you're dating.

0:54:38.600 --> 0:54:40.480
<v Speaker 4>I would like to know who my sister is dating,

0:54:40.480 --> 0:54:43.200
<v Speaker 4>because before this whole falling out, like me and my

0:54:43.239 --> 0:54:45.360
<v Speaker 4>sister had a really good relationship and like, you know,

0:54:45.440 --> 0:54:47.600
<v Speaker 4>like I love my sister, like you know that she

0:54:48.120 --> 0:54:50.160
<v Speaker 4>was my rid or died, which is why I do

0:54:50.200 --> 0:54:53.359
<v Speaker 4>feel her by this situation, but I kind of try

0:54:53.400 --> 0:54:55.719
<v Speaker 4>not to think about it, especially after so much time

0:54:55.760 --> 0:55:00.720
<v Speaker 4>has passed. But anyways, so when that whole fall now happened,

0:55:00.920 --> 0:55:04.680
<v Speaker 4>I took it upon myself to reach out to her boyfriend.

0:55:05.160 --> 0:55:06.560
<v Speaker 4>I didn't even tell her that I was going to

0:55:06.600 --> 0:55:07.880
<v Speaker 4>reach out to him, and I was like, hey, like

0:55:08.880 --> 0:55:11.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty sure you heard what happened, but I just

0:55:11.160 --> 0:55:13.759
<v Speaker 4>kind of want to clear things up with you, and

0:55:14.080 --> 0:55:16.680
<v Speaker 4>we were able to clear things up relatively quick, like

0:55:16.719 --> 0:55:20.640
<v Speaker 4>it wasn't it wasn't anything crazy or serious, and I'm

0:55:20.680 --> 0:55:24.200
<v Speaker 4>sure that he was able to understand that. And that's

0:55:24.239 --> 0:55:26.239
<v Speaker 4>why I kind of feel hurt too, because it's kind

0:55:26.239 --> 0:55:30.000
<v Speaker 4>of like, dude, like, I know you you can't expect

0:55:30.600 --> 0:55:33.560
<v Speaker 4>people to do the same things that you would do.

0:55:33.960 --> 0:55:36.520
<v Speaker 4>But I just kind of took it as like, dude, like,

0:55:36.520 --> 0:55:39.319
<v Speaker 4>like I went ahead and I made peace with your

0:55:39.360 --> 0:55:43.200
<v Speaker 4>boyfriend even after it was a misunderstanding. Why can't you

0:55:43.239 --> 0:55:46.319
<v Speaker 4>do the same with my girl? And the whole thing

0:55:46.320 --> 0:55:48.759
<v Speaker 4>that set it off was there was going to be

0:55:48.800 --> 0:55:52.520
<v Speaker 4>a barbecue. My sister was invited to the barbecue by

0:55:52.560 --> 0:55:55.880
<v Speaker 4>my friend who was throwing the barbecue, and my sister

0:55:56.000 --> 0:55:58.640
<v Speaker 4>ended up wanting to go. And I just felt some

0:55:58.719 --> 0:56:01.239
<v Speaker 4>type of way because when I told my girl about

0:56:01.280 --> 0:56:04.560
<v Speaker 4>my sister going, she's like, oh, like, why didn't you

0:56:04.560 --> 0:56:07.440
<v Speaker 4>tell me about that? And uh, I you know, she

0:56:07.480 --> 0:56:09.399
<v Speaker 4>has a right to, like, you know, feel some type

0:56:09.440 --> 0:56:11.439
<v Speaker 4>of way, but I just felt some type of way

0:56:11.440 --> 0:56:13.440
<v Speaker 4>at the fact that I'm like, dude, like, why am

0:56:13.440 --> 0:56:16.719
<v Speaker 4>I putting so much effort into keeping two people that

0:56:16.800 --> 0:56:22.200
<v Speaker 4>I love apart? So after that phone call, I'll stop

0:56:22.239 --> 0:56:25.640
<v Speaker 4>I'll stop talking if you if you want to interject.

0:56:26.120 --> 0:56:28.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm just trying to follow here. But basically,

0:56:29.520 --> 0:56:31.880
<v Speaker 2>the gist of what I'm getting. The gist of what

0:56:31.920 --> 0:56:34.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm hearing is that your sister and your fiance do

0:56:34.640 --> 0:56:35.399
<v Speaker 2>not like each other.

0:56:36.680 --> 0:56:39.239
<v Speaker 4>No, if not, I would have came out and said that,

0:56:39.320 --> 0:56:41.839
<v Speaker 4>it's more so my sister and I don't know what

0:56:41.880 --> 0:56:44.960
<v Speaker 4>type of problem she has with with my fiance. Like,

0:56:45.320 --> 0:56:48.279
<v Speaker 4>sometimes I think that she's a little bit envious of her,

0:56:48.360 --> 0:56:50.879
<v Speaker 4>even though I know for a fact my sister wouldn't

0:56:50.920 --> 0:56:53.480
<v Speaker 4>flat out say that. But at the same time, it's

0:56:53.520 --> 0:56:56.440
<v Speaker 4>just kind of like, like, you don't really have a

0:56:56.520 --> 0:56:58.440
<v Speaker 4>reason to hate her, Like, why is it that you

0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:00.880
<v Speaker 4>don't like her? I watch her straight up before.

0:57:01.600 --> 0:57:04.719
<v Speaker 2>Why is your sister envious of your girlfriend?

0:57:05.840 --> 0:57:05.920
<v Speaker 3>She?

0:57:06.520 --> 0:57:09.560
<v Speaker 4>Well, like I said, I don't know if she would

0:57:09.560 --> 0:57:11.760
<v Speaker 4>straight up say that. Knowing my sister, she probably wouldn't

0:57:11.760 --> 0:57:15.880
<v Speaker 4>straight up say that. But my my feeling is my

0:57:15.960 --> 0:57:19.480
<v Speaker 4>sister is the type of person to like, she's that

0:57:19.760 --> 0:57:23.480
<v Speaker 4>she's that girl that like, she's very pretty and she

0:57:23.520 --> 0:57:26.840
<v Speaker 4>gets a lot of attention, but she's also very conceited

0:57:26.960 --> 0:57:30.840
<v Speaker 4>in the sense where like she's always taking pictures of

0:57:30.920 --> 0:57:34.720
<v Speaker 4>herself and trying to promote like a lifestyle that she's

0:57:34.800 --> 0:57:38.040
<v Speaker 4>living that it's it's really not what it is, you know,

0:57:38.160 --> 0:57:40.760
<v Speaker 4>Like she makes it seem like like she's rising and

0:57:40.920 --> 0:57:42.120
<v Speaker 4>rolls royces.

0:57:42.400 --> 0:57:45.080
<v Speaker 2>That's your sister, that's your that's your sister, right.

0:57:45.000 --> 0:57:49.480
<v Speaker 4>Yes, that's my sister. So I think that because my

0:57:49.600 --> 0:57:53.240
<v Speaker 4>sister tries to portray this life that she lives, and

0:57:53.280 --> 0:57:57.760
<v Speaker 4>she sees that my my fiance, we're not the type

0:57:57.760 --> 0:57:59.720
<v Speaker 4>of people. We're not flashy or anything like that. We're

0:57:59.720 --> 0:58:01.440
<v Speaker 4>not even rich, if I'm being straight up with you.

0:58:01.800 --> 0:58:06.240
<v Speaker 4>But my girl, she's a real go getter and everything

0:58:06.240 --> 0:58:09.640
<v Speaker 4>that she's accomplished, she's accomplished it on her own. I've

0:58:09.640 --> 0:58:13.400
<v Speaker 4>obviously been there to support her, but obviously I can't

0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:15.680
<v Speaker 4>do the work for her. So you know, my girl

0:58:15.720 --> 0:58:19.200
<v Speaker 4>has a masters, My girl's a she's a medical social worker.

0:58:19.680 --> 0:58:23.040
<v Speaker 4>And yeah, my girl really like she has a good

0:58:23.080 --> 0:58:25.400
<v Speaker 4>head on her shoulder. She's a smart cookie. So I

0:58:25.480 --> 0:58:27.600
<v Speaker 4>just think, you know, it's kind of like a jealousy

0:58:27.640 --> 0:58:30.640
<v Speaker 4>type of thing, like like, oh, I make myself out

0:58:30.680 --> 0:58:32.960
<v Speaker 4>to look like I'm this type of like rich girl,

0:58:33.200 --> 0:58:36.720
<v Speaker 4>but in reality, I look to my right and there's

0:58:37.360 --> 0:58:39.720
<v Speaker 4>a girl that I feel like I'm competing with even

0:58:39.760 --> 0:58:42.560
<v Speaker 4>though that's my brother's fiance. Does that make any sense?

0:58:45.520 --> 0:58:50.040
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Yes, Okay, so your girl, basically your your sister

0:58:50.160 --> 0:58:55.160
<v Speaker 2>is jealous of your fiance because your fiance is it

0:58:55.280 --> 0:59:01.400
<v Speaker 2>sounds more successful than her and more motivated than she is. Yes,

0:59:01.640 --> 0:59:01.960
<v Speaker 2>the same.

0:59:02.000 --> 0:59:05.680
<v Speaker 4>And I mean it's it's kind of sad because, I mean,

0:59:06.400 --> 0:59:09.680
<v Speaker 4>I never expected something like this to happen, especially because

0:59:10.080 --> 0:59:13.800
<v Speaker 4>you know, I had a good relationship with my sister.

0:59:13.880 --> 0:59:16.040
<v Speaker 4>I've always had a good relationship with my sister. But

0:59:16.080 --> 0:59:19.560
<v Speaker 4>it just feels like, I don't know, like the only

0:59:19.600 --> 0:59:21.720
<v Speaker 4>thing that I can really say, and I'm only saying

0:59:21.760 --> 0:59:24.240
<v Speaker 4>this because obviously I've grown up with my sister and

0:59:24.280 --> 0:59:27.240
<v Speaker 4>I know her for who she really is. But the

0:59:27.280 --> 0:59:29.680
<v Speaker 4>only logical explanation that I can come up with is

0:59:29.680 --> 0:59:32.440
<v Speaker 4>that you know, she's she's jealous of her, She's envious

0:59:32.480 --> 0:59:35.120
<v Speaker 4>of her. Okay, it sounds I want to get your

0:59:35.160 --> 0:59:35.880
<v Speaker 4>take on this.

0:59:36.440 --> 0:59:38.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean my take on the listen, it sounds

0:59:38.520 --> 0:59:42.600
<v Speaker 2>like your sister is. I mean, it sounds like the

0:59:42.840 --> 0:59:45.080
<v Speaker 2>burdens on your sister, man, because if your sister wants

0:59:45.120 --> 0:59:47.840
<v Speaker 2>to be like that, you can't really stop her from

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:51.120
<v Speaker 2>being like that. I mean, if you just wants to

0:59:51.120 --> 0:59:55.120
<v Speaker 2>like be a dick, then you know you gotta tell her.

0:59:55.160 --> 0:59:57.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean, have you told your sister to stop being

0:59:57.200 --> 0:59:59.400
<v Speaker 2>a dick to your Yeah?

0:59:59.440 --> 1:00:02.840
<v Speaker 4>We' we've had We've had conversations in the past. And

1:00:03.280 --> 1:00:06.720
<v Speaker 4>what I was getting to, uh with that whole that

1:00:06.760 --> 1:00:09.840
<v Speaker 4>whole thing about her, How can I say it? That

1:00:09.920 --> 1:00:13.720
<v Speaker 4>whole thing with her wanting to go to the barbecue.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt some type of way because I'm like, damn, like,

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<v Speaker 4>why do I have to keep two people apart that

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<v Speaker 4>I love? So what I went ahead and did was

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<v Speaker 4>I called her and I'm not gonna lie to you

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<v Speaker 4>get I gave her a piece of my mind, and

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, I like I just kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>just went on like you know, your your what I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, your selfish, like you only think about yourself,

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<v Speaker 4>and like, you know, maybe that's where I kind of

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<v Speaker 4>went went wrong. But at the same time, I just

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<v Speaker 4>didn't realize that everything that I was holding in like

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<v Speaker 4>like I was holding stuff in and I never realized

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<v Speaker 4>to put it that way. So basically, when I went

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<v Speaker 4>off on her, I just kind of exploded, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>But at the same time, I'll be honest with you too.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't regret anything that I said, and I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like everything that I said, I just kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>got it off my chest, you know. So sorry if

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<v Speaker 4>it gets a little loud, I'm going into the post

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<v Speaker 4>office really quick just to drop off my scanner. But

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<v Speaker 4>I'm off the clock so I can keep talking.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all right, man. Uh, Well, I think fuck uh,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's okay. I think it's okay that you

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<v Speaker 2>spoke your piece. Man. I think it's okay that you

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<v Speaker 2>spoke your piece. You know, I mean that all I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's what I'll say is that just let your sister be,

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<v Speaker 2>Just let her. If this is your sister's problem, man,

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't your fucking problem. And you told your sister

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<v Speaker 2>to like chill the fuck out, and at this point

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you, you know, you got to live your

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<v Speaker 2>own life. But if she wants to be jailed, and

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<v Speaker 2>let her be jailed, of course.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. The The only reason why I kind of like,

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<v Speaker 4>the only reason why I kind of feel like it's

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<v Speaker 4>like not not only her problem, but also my problem too,

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<v Speaker 4>is because it's it's me and my sister. And that's

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<v Speaker 4>it like I don't I don't have any more immediate siblings.

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<v Speaker 4>So the fact that like her and I have this problem,

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<v Speaker 4>and then my mom's a single mom, so my mom's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of stuck in the middle. It just it just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of feels weird because, like, like I said, we

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<v Speaker 4>all used to kind of have like a good relationship

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<v Speaker 4>all with each other, and then now my mom's kind

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<v Speaker 4>of stuck in the middle. And like I've spoke to

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<v Speaker 4>her before and be like, hey, like I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if you've you've talked to your daughter, but Loki, you

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<v Speaker 4>should kind of like try and slap some sense into her.

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<v Speaker 4>And she says, she says, oh, well, like I've talked

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<v Speaker 4>to her, but she feels like she is right. So

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<v Speaker 4>it just feels like, honestly, nothing's ever going to get accomplished.

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<v Speaker 4>But I've also made peace with the fact that, like,

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<v Speaker 4>if my sister wants to be like that for the

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<v Speaker 4>rest of her life, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your name again, mine?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'll go by beast.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh beast, yes, beast beast. My feeling is the is

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<v Speaker 2>the last thing you just said where you're like, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>if your sister wants to be like that, I say,

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<v Speaker 2>you just let her be like that and like just

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<v Speaker 2>live your life like like you know, minimize the amount

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<v Speaker 2>of time that you spend around her and like just

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<v Speaker 2>just let her be like that. But yeah, don't let

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<v Speaker 2>it take up too much of your your mental energy. Man.

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<v Speaker 4>No, yeah, it doesn't anymore because, like I said, we

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<v Speaker 4>haven't talked in about like, uh it's it's been like

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<v Speaker 4>about a year and like three months. And then aside

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<v Speaker 4>from that, I moved out from my mom's house last November.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically since last November, I don't I don't get

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<v Speaker 4>to see her on a on a regular basis.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, beast, Is there anything else you want to say

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<v Speaker 2>to the people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I just want to say that you're fucking awesome, dude.

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<v Speaker 4>You helped me get through you. You helped me get

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<v Speaker 4>through a lot of my work days. I kid you not.

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<v Speaker 4>I listened to an episode of Yours every freaking day.

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<v Speaker 2>And uh.

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<v Speaker 4>I will also say that the nerves are definitely real

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<v Speaker 4>people I know. Ghek always says that this is probably

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<v Speaker 4>one of the lowest stake things that we would probably

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<v Speaker 4>do in our lives. But even then, the nerves are real.

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<v Speaker 2>A beast. Beast, you're a very sweet guy. Man, don't

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<v Speaker 2>don't beast, you're a sweet guy. Don't freak out too

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<v Speaker 2>much about anything, my friend, all right, you know, I hope.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know if you're just nervous

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<v Speaker 2>because you're on the phone, but I hope you're not

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<v Speaker 2>generally nervous in life. You're a you're a sweet man.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's a life after this one, I think I

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<v Speaker 2>think God will hook you up in it.

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<v Speaker 4>Ah, dude, thank you. I appreciate this, bro, And honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>I hope this makes I hope this makes it onto

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<v Speaker 4>a podcast so I can be walking delivering mail and

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<v Speaker 4>at the same time be listening to our conversation on

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<v Speaker 4>one of your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Beast. You have a good rest of the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, Thank you, Bro. I love you a good day.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Beast. Have a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, what a sweet nice guy. What a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what to do? How do I that's

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<v Speaker 2>he's just a what a nice guy. Sometimes I talk

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<v Speaker 2>to someone and they're just such a like like a

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<v Speaker 2>wholesome person that I'm like, what do I do with

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<v Speaker 2>the not? What do I do with the knowledge that

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<v Speaker 2>you exist. Now, you know what I mean? How do

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<v Speaker 2>I I know it's done making any fun. I know

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't make any fucking sense, but I'm just like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a real nice guy. I hope I hope

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't freak out too much. Yeah, don't freak out.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't freak out anyway, folks, that was the Therapy Eco podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you guys enjoyed listening. Please leave me leave

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<v Speaker 2>me some comments in the Spotify comments section, and I

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<v Speaker 2>like reading the comment in the Spotify pomments section. Or

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<v Speaker 2>if you're not listening on Spotify for listening somewhere else,

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<v Speaker 2>then just send me an email Therapy get goomail at

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<v Speaker 2>gmail dot com with questions, comments, concerns about the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's it, man, I think that's all we

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<v Speaker 2>have to say. We talked to our sports betting friend,

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<v Speaker 2>we talked to Amanda, we talked to a very nice

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<v Speaker 2>mail man. We keep talking to people. We keep talking

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<v Speaker 2>to people people, and we'll be doing that. We'll just

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<v Speaker 2>keep doing it. We'll keep talking to people. We'll keep

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<v Speaker 2>being a gecko. And I think I think we did

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast. It feels like we did another day at

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<v Speaker 2>the office. Feels like we did a podcast. I hope

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<v Speaker 2>you guys enjoyed listening to it. That's it. That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do another one next week, and then the week

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<v Speaker 2>after that, and the week after that, and the week

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<v Speaker 2>after that. We'll do it for forty years and then

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<v Speaker 2>we'll die. That's a SpongeBob reference. I like that show, SpongeBob.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder what he's doing now, SpongeBob. I wonder where

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<v Speaker 2>he is, wonder what he's thinking about. Okay, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Ghat bless you all, see you around the universe. Goes

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<v Speaker 2>on the line, taking your phone calls every night. Becon

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<v Speaker 2>goes to it and ride.

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<v Speaker 4>He's teaching you a loud your life, but he's not

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<v Speaker 4>really an expert.