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Speaker 1: Hello, is this the motherfucking gecko?

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Speaker 2: This is the motherfucking gecko.

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Speaker 1: Oh my fucking god. Uh, she goes begging of the call.

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Speaker 1: But oh my god, how you doing? Damn? What the fuck?

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Speaker 2: How's it going? Matt?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: You said you have to take another call?

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Speaker 4: None of those.

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Speaker 1: Guy keeps calling me, but it's okay. You're more important

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Speaker 1: right now. Going on, Man, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: Who's this guy that keeps calling you?

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Speaker 1: My best friend from taught her he can probably be dying,

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Speaker 1: but it's okay. I'll deal with that later.

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Speaker 2: He's dying, he's dying.

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Speaker 1: He could probably be dying. I mean, he's on really

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Speaker 1: never calls me this much, but that's not important right now.

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Speaker 4: How you doing?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 2: Wait? Your friend, so your friend never usually calls you

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Speaker 2: as much as he's calling you right now.

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Speaker 1: Ye, yeah, which I don't know why that that never happens.

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Speaker 1: He just called me three times, but I just don''ll

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Speaker 1: call me back later.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did he text you?

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Speaker 4: Is he?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: No, he probably is. Okay, it's probably because we're bidding

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Speaker 1: on the World Cup right now, so it's probably something

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Speaker 1: to do with that. I'm guessing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, how much you what? What game are you watching?

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Speaker 2: And how much do you got on it? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god, man, I'm down like fucking four hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: right now in the World Cup.

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Speaker 2: Okay, deeper? Are you gonna go deeper? Are you gonna.

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Speaker 4: Scaring?

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Speaker 1: Money? Doesn't make money, So I'm probably gonna two hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars more than.

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Speaker 2: Do you know? What's funny is I don't know, man,

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Speaker 2: I don't I'm not a big I play some poker,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not a big Like sports betting is there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean are there? How how long have you been

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Speaker 2: into sports betting? Is that like a new thing? I

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Speaker 2: feel like it's fucking everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's kind of it's a hit and go. H

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Speaker 1: So sometimes like I kind of tie up to do

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Speaker 1: too much because when I tend to gamble on sport's putting,

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Speaker 1: I tend to go crazy. So I'll kind of play

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Speaker 1: for a little bit. I'll lose like five hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: and then I'm like, I won't touch it for like

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Speaker 1: I have a really bad addition with gambling. I would

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Speaker 1: just inveig eventually and I take one hundred dollars rent

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Speaker 1: it up to a thousand, and then I woke up

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Speaker 1: the next day and I'll last it all.

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Speaker 2: I here's the thing, if you if you go into

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Speaker 2: any betting situation, we've sorry about this before you go

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Speaker 2: into a bad situation. You're like, I have one hundred dollars,

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Speaker 2: Like if you run a hundred. If you go into

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Speaker 2: like and you're like, I'm willing to lose this hundred dollars,

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Speaker 2: And you run the hundred dollars all the way up

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Speaker 2: to one thousand dollars and then you lose it all.

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Speaker 2: That's fine.

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Speaker 1: You can't get it right, yeah, fight, you can't get.

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Speaker 2: Mad right now if you run it up to a

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars and then you start to be like, I

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Speaker 2: gotta get back that one thousand dollars, and then you

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Speaker 2: start to lose, and then you lose one thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: more than you came in to play with.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: See, as long as you like, don't lose any more

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Speaker 2: than the house money you came to play with.

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Speaker 1: Fine, that's my tind of rule. I'd only lose house

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Speaker 1: money once I'm up like that. I don't really care

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Speaker 1: on can't lose the house money. I'm like, I gotta

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Speaker 2: But that's not your rule. For the World Cup. You're

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Speaker 2: down the house money for the World Cup. World Cup.

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Speaker 1: You know it's different. I've got to make some money.

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Speaker 2: Why do you have to why? Why is what do

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Speaker 2: you do? You have to make money?

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Speaker 1: I've got to make some money. I mean, I just

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Speaker 1: I just liked the rush just winning a parlay with

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Speaker 2: Know, it's funny, is you know? It's fun. I'm not

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Speaker 2: I don't fuck with that stuff. But in my well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but here's like it's fun in my personal life. I

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Speaker 1: The time within your friends. Okay, okay, in.

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Speaker 2: My friend group, I made a bet and okay, so

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Speaker 2: I went to go see the movies Toy Story five.

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Speaker 3: I was actually.

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Speaker 1: About to ask you about that because I was.

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Speaker 1: I was listening to. I didn't even to catch off.

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Speaker 1: how Toy Story three was your favorite movie and how

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Speaker 1: you are nothing like Woody because Woody went back to

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Speaker 1: save Lotso and then Lotso wouldn't say Woody. I forgot

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Speaker 2: Multiple things to say that I that scene from Toy

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Speaker 2: Story three. I have talked about it passionately where Woody

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Speaker 2: saves lots of hugging Bear and then lots of hugging

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Speaker 2: Bear doesn't save Woody. It's a beautiful scene. It's a

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Speaker 2: crazy scene that movie. No, nothing that. I don't know

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Speaker 2: It's the scene where they're all trapped under like spoons

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Speaker 2: and shit and they're about to get incinerated, and lots

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Speaker 2: of hugging Bear is the reason they're there in the

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Speaker 2: first place, and he's you know, an evil an evil villain,

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Speaker 2: and what what does Woody do because he's a good guy.

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Speaker 2: He saves lots of huggin Bear anyway, and then it's

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Speaker 2: lots of huggin Bear's time to say turn to save

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Speaker 2: Louke Woody and he doesn't do it. So by anyway,

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Speaker 2: I saw Toy Story five. It was it was fine,

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Speaker 2: It is all right, It wasn't it wasn't life changing.

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Speaker 2: I saw a review for it, well, I saw a

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Speaker 2: anything need to exist? That's a stupid it's a stupid

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Speaker 2: I made a bet with him and I bet we

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Speaker 2: to see if. I don't know why I picked that word.

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Speaker 2: It was just a stupid word to see if. It

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Speaker 2: was just a fun little bet. And we sat all

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Speaker 2: they use the word frequently, they don't. Then I looked

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Speaker 2: it up. The word frequently is not used in any

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Speaker 2: of the Toy Story movies. Would you believe?

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Speaker 1: Really is it using any Disney movie?

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Speaker 2: I'm sure, I'm sure. I'm I'm sure it is. I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay, but it's.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I like stupid bets, but uh, and I guess

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Speaker 2: that's what Cal she. I like stupid bets. But this

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Speaker 2: is out of hand. Cal she being like bet on

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Speaker 2: what the weather is and ship?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Cal, she's out of hand. You can get it.

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Speaker 1: You could just bet on anything on there, man, You

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Speaker 2: And do you do that? Do you do that? Do

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Speaker 2: you get into like betting on the weather and shit

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Speaker 1: No? No, no, no, no that I think if I had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, who do you got?

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Speaker 2: Who do you got for the World Cup?

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Speaker 1: Uh? The World Cup?

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Speaker 4: I got Spain.

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Speaker 1: I don't really, like I said, I don't know much

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Speaker 1: that's all I know.

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Speaker 2: You texted me and you said I made a married

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 4: I did?

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Speaker 1: Uh? So I lied a little bit, but not really.

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Speaker 1: First day went well, Second day, she ends up wanting

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Speaker 1: So she drove to my house and as she's driving

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Speaker 1: and uh. As he cuts us off, I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: What are you doing with her? Like you know she's married?

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Speaker 1: Da da da, And I'm like, oh fuck, what situations

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Speaker 1: put it off. I'm like, you know what, I knew

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Speaker 1: don't worry, Like it doesn't matter who her husband is whatever,

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Speaker 1: Uh, Kenya, Kenya, Kenya. Honestly, man, I was in Kenya

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Speaker 2: She was crazy camels.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why don't you? Can you like patch your friend in?

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Speaker 1: You want to patch my friend in? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I want to see what he had to say.

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Speaker 1: You want me to give me a second. I think

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Speaker 2: Okay, it'd be funnier if he didn't know the show.

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Speaker 2: I hope I saw something serious. Yeah it is he

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Speaker 1: Ryan? Give me teke. Let me look at his location

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Speaker 3: Worried that. Wait?

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Speaker 2: Why do you have to look at his location?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: But he would he But he just called you like

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Speaker 2: Okay? How long do you think it will take for

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Speaker 3: All?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: He's gone, Maybe he's gone. Maybe it's is it. Maybe

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Speaker 1: No, he didn't answer. You know, we go to do

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Speaker 2: What's your name again?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Loofy, Loofy? You want to call me? Uh no, I uh,

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Speaker 2: I've never watched one piece.

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Speaker 1: I ever watched one piece? Okay, oh no, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Actually I got start getting for work. It was really

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Speaker 2: It was good talking to you to Loofy. I wish

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Speaker 2: in the universe man.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'll see you on the universe. Man. How

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Speaker 2: By lufy? See you? Who? I don't really I don't

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Speaker 2: You know what I know is when people are like,

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Speaker 2: The logic doesn't make sense. It's like, Oh, I'm not

440
00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,720
Speaker 2: into soccer, but I watch this big soccer event because

441
00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:00,399
Speaker 2: it's a big soccer event.

442
00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:01,480
Speaker 1: You know.

443
00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,320
Speaker 2: Like it's like if I was like, well, I'm not

444
00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,520
Speaker 2: in the League of Legends, but I watched the finals

445
00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:11,520
Speaker 2: because you know it's the finals. The logic doesn't make sense.

446
00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:14,639
Speaker 2: Here's what happens when you have a podcast. You have

447
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,159
Speaker 2: to have you have to say an opinion about something.

448
00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:22,880
Speaker 2: All right, let's take another call. Hello. Hello, Hey, what's

449
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:23,320
Speaker 2: your name?

450
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:24,200
Speaker 3: Amanda?

451
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:25,000
Speaker 2: Amanda?

452
00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:25,800
Speaker 3: Is this GK?

453
00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:27,680
Speaker 2: This is the Gecko? What's up, Amanda?

454
00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:31,280
Speaker 3: Hey, this is tired. I didn't think you would respond.

455
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,440
Speaker 3: I thought I'd missed it. Nothing. I'm just shit home

456
00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:39,679
Speaker 3: cleaning and I was doing schoolwork for new classes that

457
00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,240
Speaker 3: are starting. We're get you up to you?

458
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,280
Speaker 2: What am I up to? I'm staring out the window.

459
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm looking at the sky and that's just about it

460
00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 2: for me. Amanda, what uh? What did you want to

461
00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,680
Speaker 2: talk about today, Amanda.

462
00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 3: So there's a couple of things. The first is I'm

463
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 3: in a relationship that's like it's been we've been together

464
00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:16,240
Speaker 3: like six years. But I'm a very I'm a very active,

465
00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:21,960
Speaker 3: busy person. Like I grew up with a navy the

466
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:25,440
Speaker 3: old father. Like, my home was not messy. I didn't

467
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 3: even know what a messy home looked like as a

468
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:31,680
Speaker 3: child on So things just have a place, and that's

469
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 3: how I function. I don't want to let it build

470
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 3: up and then spend a whole day devoted to cleaning

471
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 3: it up, you know. But to guide that, I'm went.

472
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, I need a list, need a list

473
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,880
Speaker 3: to do something? How do I know what to do

474
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 3: if you don't make me a list, I don't know. Dude,

475
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,399
Speaker 3: use your eyeballs.

476
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 2: If you don't make him a list.

477
00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:01,880
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, So basically I still have to use all

478
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 3: the brain power for anything to get done. So I

479
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 3: might as well just do it myself. It'll probably get

480
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 3: half asked done if I'm not the one that doesn't

481
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:14,200
Speaker 3: doesn't do it.

482
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 2: That's called uh, you know there's a word for that, right,

483
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 2: It's a phrase. It's called weaponize it's called weaponized incompetence.

484
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, that sounds like a very gallid phrase.

485
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 2: My sister told me about that. She was like, that's

486
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 2: the one thing that I won't that's like one of

487
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,520
Speaker 2: the things she doesn't want in her dating life is

488
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:37,680
Speaker 2: weaponizing competence, like somebody not doing something because it's like, oh, well,

489
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:40,200
Speaker 2: you'll do it so much better, you know, like they're

490
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 2: weaponizing they're incompetence to not like do a thing. But okay,

491
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 2: so you've been with but you've been with this guy

492
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 2: for a long time. This is not like a fur

493
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 2: You've been with this guy for six years, right, So

494
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 2: why is it Why is it now that this is

495
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 2: coming up.

496
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 3: I think it's because we hit. So we had lived

497
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,400
Speaker 3: together previously for a few years, but then he got

498
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 3: into some trouble with the court system, so he had

499
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 3: to get he basically like had to go do this

500
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,360
Speaker 3: program for like almost a year and a half. So

501
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 3: then I was on my own with bull not my own,

502
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 3: but I had my kid who's fifteen. I've got a

503
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 3: fifteen year old son, and then my dog. Then just

504
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 3: me and we It was just nice. It was so nice.

505
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,120
Speaker 3: My bed was always made very nicely so I could

506
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 3: just slide into a nice fitted sheet when I was

507
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 3: ready to way down. Everything was put up. I could relax.

508
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 3: I didn't have to worry about this or I wasn't

509
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 3: asked what's for dinner when I get off of work.

510
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 2: I gotta be hon It sounds like you hate this guy.

511
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 1: I do you know?

512
00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:00,239
Speaker 2: Wait? Wait wait wait wait, what's your what's your? Amanda? Amanda? Well,

513
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm so curious. I am so cure with my mother. Why, okay,

514
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 2: it sounds like you hate this guy. I mean that

515
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 2: you sounded like you were so stoked that he was gone.

516
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 2: Why why have you been with him? Why have you

517
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 2: been with him for so long? If you don't like

518
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 2: him this much.

519
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 3: I didn't used to feel this way. I didn't used

520
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 3: to feel this way. And I was so devastated when

521
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 3: when it got to the point where we had to

522
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 3: live separately. But then after a few weeks, maybe like

523
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 3: a month or two of it, I got into, like,

524
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 3: you know, just a good flow and I had I

525
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 3: just realized how how much more relaxed and easy things

526
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 3: were and felt. And then all of a sudden he

527
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I'm gone, I get to move back.

528
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 3: And it was real quick, and I just felt so bad.

529
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 3: I just felt so bad to say no. But now

530
00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 3: it's just like snowballed into this fucking mountain of resentment.

531
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

532
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 3: Like he left to go to the gym. You know

533
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 3: how stoked I was for that.

534
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 2: It did. Okay, you gotta you gotta leave this guy?

535
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 2: You hate? You do not you hate this guy? How long?

536
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 2: How long have you known that you don't like being

537
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 2: around this guy?

538
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 3: Probably probably since he moved back into like about eight months?

539
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 2: Eight months? Oh wow? Okay, and the the your your son?

540
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 2: That's not his, is it?

541
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 4: No?

542
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 3: No, it's just mine, all right.

543
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 2: Is there any reason to not leave this guy? You don't?

544
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 3: Oh not, other than like making sure all of my

545
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,199
Speaker 3: finances would be lined up, you know, so it was

546
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 3: smooth for my transition to one just one income. But

547
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 3: that's about it. And I just feel bad. I just

548
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 3: feel shitty about it. Yeah, but I know I'm shitty

549
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 3: of me to stay.

550
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 2: Well yeah, of course. I mean, if you don't like

551
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: this guy, then there's no reason for either of you

552
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 2: to be together.

553
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 3: I know, because, like I said in the text, the

554
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 3: thought of making a list for being asked for one,

555
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 3: you know, and like Hulk movies when he gets so

556
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 3: angry and he does that double fist like smash and

557
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 3: throws the cars across the cities.

558
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: Uh huh, that's what a list.

559
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 3: The thought of making a list makes me feel like

560
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 3: doing going and finding a vehicle outside and just fucking

561
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 3: smashing it across the universe.

562
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 2: Well, the fact that he says he needs a list

563
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 2: is like a wi okay, okay, let me ask you this.

564
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 2: Do you want to work it out? Do you want

565
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 2: to be like, hey, listen, man, you gotta stop, you

566
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 2: gotta not be like this or else I'm gone, Or

567
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 2: do you want to just leave?

568
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't I don't think that would work

569
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 3: because I've tried that. I did try that a lot.

570
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 3: I tried really hard, honestly, just because I I'm a

571
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 3: very you know, if I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna

572
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 3: do it right, and I'm gonna do it all the

573
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,439
Speaker 3: way and I'm gonna apply myself. But then it was

574
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 3: just like, you know, you can only say something so

575
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 3: many times and then you realize this, this isn't gonna change.

576
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: You're not sorry, You're not going to try, You're not

577
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 3: gonna you don't care and I think I don't know

578
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 3: what I think. I think you're just a child.

579
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's just the financial reasons to not leave

580
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: pretty much.

581
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

582
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 2: M well, I mean, listen, my opinion is of course

583
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 2: that like there's no there's just nothing. It's just there's

584
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: nothing really here. It sounds like, you know, like there's

585
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 2: no Yeah. So uh, I mean, if you guys don't

586
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: have a kid together and there's no reason to really

587
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 2: be with each other, then I think it sounds like

588
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 2: you're I mean you're not You're not even groveling about it.

589
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: You're not even like should I or shouldn't I? You're

590
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: very like, oh, I don't like this guy.

591
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 3: I know, I know. I think the main thing is

592
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 3: really just the guilt about it.

593
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 2: Mmm mmm uh, I don't. I don't think you need

594
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 2: to be guilty, you know. I mean, I think this guy,

595
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 2: I don't really know this guy's deal, right, but like

596
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: I think I think there. I think the greater guilt

597
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: is to be found in staying with someone that you

598
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 2: don't want.

599
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 3: To be with, right, Yeah, just waste all that time.

600
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a bit of a waste of time.

601
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 2: So if I were you, I would just uh, I

602
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 2: would relinquish myself of that guilt.

603
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I want to talk to you about my

604
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 3: dad also, sure, Okay, So my dad, my dad was

605
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 3: a seal. Him and my mom were real rocky, and

606
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 3: my mom would like leave and then come back, leave,

607
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: come back because my dad was psycho. That's why I

608
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 3: should get that. So for long. My dad retired from

609
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 3: the Navy when I was about eight or nine because

610
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 3: of their divorce, and all of the family, their parents

611
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: on both sides all lived in Oklahoma, so we left

612
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 3: California for Oklahoma. The second my dad leaves the Navy,

613
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 3: he gets on drugs. He leaves the Navy for a day,

614
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 3: I feel like and it was like he just went

615
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 3: straight to partying and my dad went crazy. He also

616
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 3: raised me and my sister by hisself while on this

617
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: drug roller coaster life till I was about twelve. It

618
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 3: was not a healthy environment at all. It was very,

619
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: very up and down. You didn't know if it was

620
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 3: going to be a happy day or a sad day.

621
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 3: It could be really fun. I mean my dad used

622
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 3: to take me to Fort, the preacher's yards and the

623
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 3: little town we lived in, or we would go ding

624
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 3: ding Dong ditch the mayor. You know, he taught me

625
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 3: good life lessons, but that was like more the more

626
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 3: time that went by, the very few and in between

627
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 3: those kind of good days word But and then when

628
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 3: I was twelve, my mom finally got us, and then

629
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 3: my dad. I got out of school ninth grade one

630
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 3: day and had a voicemail. My dad was like going

631
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 3: to Alaska bye. And then I didn't see him till

632
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: I was eighteen, which he had gone because he had

633
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: pretty sure he'd like snitched on somebody or something and

634
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 3: he'd gotten himself into a lot of trouble, so he

635
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 3: had to leave the area. But finally, like I get

636
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: to be nineteen, I have my son. My dad decides

637
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: that means he needs to come back. And he seems

638
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 3: to be doing better, you know so, but it's always

639
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 3: his cycle. He's good, he gets a job, he does great.

640
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 3: Then you can tell he's like doing drugs again. It'll

641
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 3: suddenly take him six hours to show up when you

642
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 3: guys have plans, and then it gets like the worse

643
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: off he is on, you know, the cycle he's going through,

644
00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 3: he gets pretty awful, like some mean, evil coord person.

645
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 3: But I always knew that if my dad had been

646
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 3: not on drugs, he would have been the best at

647
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 3: ever he's. It's just so crazy the night and day

648
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 3: difference him sober or not. And I always had a

649
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 3: lot of like anger issues growing up. It took me

650
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 3: a lot to like not be a very angry, mean person,

651
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 3: I guess, which I do very well now. I like

652
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: control myself. I don't freak out. I'm not screaming at people.

653
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 3: I just you know, I can't change shit. I just

654
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 3: have to let it go. I'm not going to stress

655
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 3: about it. But so my dad was always that person

656
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:50,239
Speaker 3: I had that I could relate to about it. You know.

657
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 3: He knew the kind of like anger I felt inside

658
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 3: of my body when I was angry, like nobody else

659
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 3: could ever understand. I could call my dad and say

660
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 3: them most awful, just horrible things that I was thinking

661
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: at the moment, and he would be like, Okay, you

662
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 3: feel better, Yeah, cool, thanks, you know, Whereas if I

663
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 3: were to call my mom or sister, they'd be like,

664
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 3: please don't talk like that, Amanda, that's not very nice,

665
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 3: you know. So that was just I don't know, even

666
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 3: though I knew he was shitty, he still understood me

667
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 3: and there were still little pieces of him that I

668
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 3: had was it was like solid, no matter what he

669
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: might like, go through his cycle where he's good, bad,

670
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: falls off, he disappears for a while, but then he

671
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 3: comes back. But and every time he goes through a cycle,

672
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 3: there's always a girlfriend. And my dad doesn't date women

673
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 3: his age. For instance, right now, he's my dad's sixty five,

674
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 3: and I think his girlfriend is a year older than me.

675
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 3: She's thirty six or thirty five. So, and my dad's

676
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 3: very obsessed about like dying and getting old. And I

677
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 3: don't know, it's very weird, but he'll only get younger women.

678
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: And what do you mean, I'm obsessed with dying and

679
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: getting old. But he talks about it a lot.

680
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the I mean, it's always been a thing

681
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: he's mentioned throughout life. I can regularly remember having a conversation.

682
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 3: He's scared. I think he's scared he's going to go

683
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: to Hell. My dad's a pretty firm believer in heaven

684
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 3: and hell, and I'm not religious really, so that's always

685
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 3: been a thing between us. But he's very terrified he's

686
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 3: going to die and he'll go to Hell and then

687
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 3: that nobody here on earth will remember him.

688
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: Whoa and he's told that to you.

689
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, my dad, He's I've been his little

690
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 3: friend that he would just chat with since him and

691
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 3: my mom separated, little like dad. It's ridiculous, but then

692
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: it's understandable because I feel like if you if you're

693
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 3: in a religion that you believe punishes people, and based

694
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 3: on the things that I know my dad has done,

695
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 3: if there was a Hell, I'm I do believe he

696
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 3: would probably go wow, yeah, Like I just I don't know.

697
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 3: I don't believe in I don't believe in that kind

698
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 3: of stuff because I just feel like, even if there

699
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 3: was a god, I don't want to be a part

700
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: or a follower of something that would create us and

701
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 3: know that we have a fucked up life ahead of us,

702
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 3: If that makes sense. You know, like a little kid

703
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 3: doesn't know that free will is why they're getting beat

704
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 3: or you know, like awful things happen to them. It

705
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 3: seems like if you try to get an answer about

706
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 3: anything like that, they're like, well, do you just have

707
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 3: to give it to God? God knows he wouldn't give

708
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 3: you something he couldn't handle. Uh, pretty sure he's doing

709
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 3: that all the time. Because I'm seeing lots of people

710
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: with late school of things they are not able to handle.

711
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 2: So so how often are you do you chat with

712
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 2: the guy anymore?

713
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: So we've always throughout all of these years, been pretty

714
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 3: consistent talking until about I think it's officially been a

715
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 3: year since I've spoken to my dad on the phone.

716
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 3: Other than I think two or three times I've text him,

717
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 3: but it was about stuff for my son, like stuff

718
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 3: about my son's sports, or like you know, competitions, like

719
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 3: good news about my son, or when my dad has

720
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 3: tried to get sympathy, Oh, I have a doctor's appointment.

721
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 3: But he got this new young girlfriend and Stee got

722
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 3: this new young girlfriend, and he was already dating somebody

723
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 3: at the time who was like a very spin active

724
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 3: in my life since I was young. Like her and

725
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 3: my dad go back to high school. They've known each

726
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: other and been off and on that long. And my

727
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 3: dad was just being really awful to her during the

728
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 3: meeting the younger girl and deciding he was leaving the

729
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 3: girlfriend for the new young one. And I wasn't supportive

730
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 3: of it, you know. It wasn't like I tried to

731
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 3: stop it, but I don't want to be I don't

732
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 3: want to hear about it. I don't need to be included.

733
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 3: I don't think it's right or you should be treating

734
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 3: her that way, So just don't involve me, Like, just

735
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 3: keep that to yourself. I don't need Because my dad

736
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 3: has this habit of like when he does things that

737
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 3: are not okay, he'll call you and tell you that

738
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 3: someone else said this negative thing about him. But whatever

739
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 3: that negative thing is is what he did, and he's

740
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 3: trying to plan to seed to make it look like

741
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,280
Speaker 3: he didn't be that and people were talking crap.

742
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'll say this. I mean, you know, I'm

743
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 2: down to just let you chat about it for as

744
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: much as you want to talk about But the tough

745
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: part about stuff, especially like with your parents and shit

746
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 2: is like at six, I hate to be like this,

747
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 2: but at sixty five, at a certain point, man, it's

748
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 2: like at a certain point, I feel like people, if

749
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: they were going to change, they would have. And so

750
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 2: it's kind of just like up to you as to

751
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: like how much you want to tolerate or not. I mean,

752
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 2: I don't know I have limited him from that, but uh,

753
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 2: that's kind of my gut feeling at least right now,

754
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: in this point of my life, and I.

755
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,479
Speaker 3: Think that's right. I had accepted a long time ago,

756
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 3: like if I was going to maintain anything with my dad,

757
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 3: I needed to realize, you know, he's never going to

758
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 3: be better. This is what it is, and I'll just

759
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 3: have this or I'll have nothing. But then when I

760
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 3: didn't support this new girlfriend switch last year, he just

761
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 3: like lost it on my sister and I. He was like,

762
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 3: if you guys can't be supportive, then I don't need

763
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 3: you in my life. Like he's the one that cut

764
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 3: it off. He's the one that cut contact. Basically said

765
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 3: the I, my sister and I were negative negativity that

766
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 3: he didn't need. And he was so in love with

767
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 3: this girl, like he's never been in love before. I'm like,

768
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: what are you talking about. You've had like four wives up,

769
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 3: you're always in love like this. So we had that

770
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 3: big falling out fight and then I still was trying

771
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 3: to maintain, you know, something with them relationship wise. But

772
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 3: my my final straw was I was on the phone

773
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 3: with him. I had called him because I was discussing

774
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 3: Helen Keller. To be very honest, I was telling him

775
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 3: how I think that Helen Keller while she may be real.

776
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 3: I don't think she's quite the the pioneer.

777
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: For you were letting it behind, you were letting it

778
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: be down that you don't fuck with Helen Keller.

779
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 3: Yes, And my dad was like, yeah, that makes sense.

780
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,720
Speaker 3: And I'm like, just you know, my dad would always

781
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 3: have conversations like this with me, like we're just talking

782
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 3: and when all of a sudden, this girlfriend, I can

783
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 3: hear her in the background. She's she does fuck with

784
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 3: Helen Keller. She's hard like it was very crazy, okay,

785
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:13,320
Speaker 3: all right, yeah, And that didn't sit right with you? Well,

786
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 3: I mean it didn't. I didn't. I wasn't going to

787
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 3: say anything. It didn't sit right with me because I don't.

788
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 3: I think that means you're not thinking very hard. Wait

789
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 3: wait wait.

790
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: Wait, wait wait wait hold on. If you're not all

791
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 2: right the way this is going to increase the length

792
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 2: of this conversation by about forty five minutes. But I

793
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 2: do have to ask, why why do you hate Helen Keller.

794
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't hate her. I just don't think

795
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 3: that she I don't see how anybody taught her to

796
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,959
Speaker 3: do all of these things. When if you can't see

797
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 3: and you can't speak in here. How do you know

798
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 3: what the apple you're feeling is? Is an apple? Well?

799
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 3: That's hard.

800
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: That's the whole thing. That's why she that's why everyone

801
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 2: loves her is because you know, she did the impossible thing.

802
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think it's pretty impossible. I just

803
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 3: don't see how she did it and well filled by it?

804
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, hold, this is a whole new angle

805
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 2: to this phone call. Why do you Why are you

806
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: offended by Helen? Why are you offended by it? Are

807
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 2: you blind and deaf?

808
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 3: I'm not, But I think that she's They're making her

809
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 3: out to be this crazy, pioneering, you know, woman figure.

810
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 3: And there's a lot of women out there that are

811
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 3: probably doing great things and overcoming a lot of challenges.

812
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 3: So don't lie about the ones you're overcoming. And I

813
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 3: just don't see how it makes sense that she learned

814
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 3: those things, Because if you can't show it to me

815
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 3: and I can't hear it and I can't see it,

816
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 3: how do I know what it means when I feel it?

817
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 2: Damn, Helen Cole, I thought that for some reason, I

818
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 2: thought Hally Color died young. She mentioned like eighty seven.

819
00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: That's pretty good. Did she she uh, how did she

820
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 2: do it?

821
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 3: Well?

822
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 2: Oh, oh, and Sullivan, and I remember all this ship

823
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 2: basically this this, this, this this lady and Sullivan I

824
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: like like put her hands in certain positions that like

825
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: she like would feel Anne Sullivan's hands and like use

826
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 2: it to like learn like uh sign language or something

827
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 2: like that. That's how I remember it.

828
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the story I remember too, and I've just

829
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 3: spent a lot doesn't make sense, and it doesn't make sense.

830
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 3: I can't wrap my head around it. And I've devoted

831
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 3: more time of my life than I probably have to try,

832
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 3: and or that I probably should have. But when I

833
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 3: was talking to my dad about that, this girlfriend comes

834
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 3: in and she's like, she did do that, and she

835
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,760
Speaker 3: did learn all of those things and she flew a plane.

836
00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 3: I was like what.

837
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 2: Wait wait wait wait she did she did fly a plane.

838
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: I mean she didn't really fly a plane. She flew

839
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 2: a plane in the way that like a little kid,

840
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: uh like flies the flies a plane when the pilot's like,

841
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: do you want to fly a plane? Like? I think

842
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 2: the plot, by the way, this is all misinformation. I

843
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 2: fucking know what I'm talking about, But I think the

844
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 2: pilot had the plane on like auto whatever, and then

845
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 2: she just like sat in the front and like held

846
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 2: the stuff well on it look honestly technically on technicality,

847
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,439
Speaker 2: totally flew a plane, right.

848
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:44,479
Speaker 3: But this girlfriend, I think she thought that Helen took

849
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 3: the plane like controlled the takeoff, navigated, did all of

850
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 3: it while blind. And so all of a sudden, my

851
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 3: dad switches up on me and starts acting like I'm

852
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 3: stupid in the conversation like it was crazy, just total

853
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 3: one to eighty, like we're going back and forth, and

854
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 3: my dad and I disagree on a lot of shit,

855
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 3: so like we can always, you know, have these little

856
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 3: debates or talks. But it was like when she came

857
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 3: through for Helen, so did my dad in a very

858
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 3: condescending way. And it was I don't know, I was

859
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 3: I was so mad. I just got off the phone

860
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 3: with him, and I just haven't spoken with him on

861
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,760
Speaker 3: the phone since he ll now from behind the grave,

862
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 3: yeah not even here. And she doesn't know the impact

863
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 3: she's made on my life. And so I've always thought

864
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 3: I was cool with you know, this is my dad,

865
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 3: this is what it is, Take it or leave it.

866
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 3: But then now that I've like actually cut him off,

867
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 3: like for good, and I'm just not going to tolerate

868
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 3: it because like my little sister, she's four years younger

869
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 3: than me, and she will tolerate all of their negativity

870
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 3: and hit for my dad. She'll like go take him

871
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 3: to lunch and then he'll be mean. She were the whole.

872
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: Amanda, Amanda, Amanda. I'm gonna sorry, Amanda. I'm gonna let

873
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: you go in a second, but I just I'm gonna

874
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 2: say this. I do think that at a certain point

875
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 2: it is a thing of like it sucks. By the way,

876
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry to hear that you're having these issues with

877
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 2: your dad, but I do think at a certain point

878
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 2: with your with your folks, it's like you can't really

879
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 2: expect them to you can't expect them to change. You

880
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 2: have to either like you have to just like limit

881
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: the amount of time that you specifically limit the amount

882
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: of time you spend talking about Helen Keller with your

883
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: dad or honestly, you sound like it's the Helen Keller

884
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 2: stuff is the stuff I'm more concerned about, because it

885
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 2: sounds like you have a some obsession with Helen Keller

886
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 2: and now it's rubbing off on me. I'm trying to

887
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 2: pay attention. But I'm also scrolling through Helen Keller's Wikipedia page.

888
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 2: Did you know she went to Japan to try to

889
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 2: to try to find out more about how Chiko, the

890
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 2: loyal dog who searched for his deceased master for ten years.

891
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 2: You know about how Chico?

892
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,720
Speaker 3: I don't, And I don't know how she knew about

893
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 3: the dog either, because, dude, you.

894
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 2: Know what, I think, you're right. I think this is

895
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 2: I think her. Yeah, I think her.

896
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: Whole thing, the Kerry Tree with George Washington. I think

897
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 3: that's the whole point of Helen was just the teachers,

898
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 3: you could do things that are impossible.

899
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess. I guess you're right. How did she

900
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 2: even know about dogs?

901
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? She never seen it. She's felt something soft.

902
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 2: But that's I think, like, hold on, look she has

903
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 2: she just she's she's a picture of her with Yeah,

904
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 2: she loves these Japanese dogs. Man, that's crazy. She had

905
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: a dog named go Go. It's not accurate.

906
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 3: I mean, look, she you know she's from an American breed.

907
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: Oh.

908
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 2: She was an opponent of Woodrow Wilson. Did you know

909
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 2: that she did not like Woodrow Wilson?

910
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 3: I did not. You're just on the Wikipedia because now

911
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to.

912
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 2: Do I'm sorry. I shouldn't. No, I'm sorry, I should

913
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: be I should be more, I should be more present

914
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 2: with this conversation and not on the Wikipedia page of

915
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 2: Helen Keller. And I'm not gonna blame you for putting

916
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 2: me on there. But Amanda, is there anything else you

917
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 2: want to say to the people of the computer before

918
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 2: we go?

919
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 3: No, no, I don't, but thanks thanks for letting me Ben.

920
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 2: Of course, I'm glad you got to speak your piece.

921
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 2: I hope things go better with your father. And I'll

922
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 2: see you in the universe. I almost almost called you

923
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,720
Speaker 2: Helen for some reason. I'll see you around the universe. Goodbye, Amanda,

924
00:47:55,760 --> 00:48:02,439
Speaker 2: Thank you, good luck. That was Amanda. Nice person. Hope

925
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 2: things go well with their dad. I mean, you know

926
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 2: we've talked about I feel bad for folks who have,

927
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 2: you know, trouble with their folks. But there is a

928
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 2: thing of like you can't like, you know, expect them

929
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 2: to change. Who where she was born Helen Keller's father.

930
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 2: Oh wait they were, Yeah, they had a bunch of slaves.

931
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 2: Look at that. He served. Helen Keller's father served as

932
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 2: a captain in the Confederate Army. The family was part

933
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 2: of the slaveholding elite before the Civil War, but they

934
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 2: lost their slaveholding status afterwards. Yeah, I guess that makes

935
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: sense that Helen Keller's family had slaves. I don't know

936
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 2: why that makes sense, but it makes sense. All right,

937
00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: let's talk about something else.

938
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, dude, is this real?

939
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 3: This?

940
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 2: Uh? As far as as far as we know, as

941
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 2: far as we know. What's your name? Man? Hi?

942
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 4: Uh, I'll go by. Uh, I'll go by.

943
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 2: Beast, beast? What are you doing, beast? Are you doing

944
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 2: right now? What are you doing?

945
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 4: I just got off work, brother, I'm a mail man.

946
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 2: Oh, we've had some mail men on the show before.

947
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 2: What what's going on in the male world?

948
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 3: Well?

949
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 4: Uh, it's not as glamorous as it would seem, you know.

950
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 4: I know that. I know that Back in the day,

951
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 4: being a male carrier was considered to be a pretty good, uh,

952
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 4: a pretty good job because of the fact that, you know,

953
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 4: there's a lot of I'm pretty sure a lot of

954
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,280
Speaker 4: people grew up seeing the same mail man every day,

955
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 4: and if they had a conversation with him, it's probably

956
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 4: the type of guy that would how can I say it,

957
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 4: It's probably the type of guy that was putting his

958
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 4: kids through college, own his own house. So it's not

959
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 4: like that anymore, unfortunately, and the times that we're living

960
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 4: in you already know how the economy is and stuff.

961
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,959
Speaker 4: But you know, I know that's a that's a whole

962
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 4: other spiel. But you know, I'm just out here man,

963
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 4: just trying to trying to pay my bills and stuff.

964
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 4: You know, it's a it's a cool job in the

965
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 4: CeNSE where like, for example, I'm an animal lover, so

966
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 4: I like being able to say what's up to the

967
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 4: cats or the dogs. But other than that, I mean, shit,

968
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,439
Speaker 4: you know who wouldn't want to get paid more?

969
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 2: So you're saying that it used to be back in

970
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 2: the day, you used to be able to actually support

971
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 2: your family by being a mailman, but now it's still

972
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 2: a struggle.

973
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I And to elaborate that a little bit more,

974
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 4: I'd say, like, for example, back in the day, I

975
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 4: know that they would just pretty much work there. They're

976
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 4: eight hours. I know overtime was a thing, like it'd

977
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 4: been a thing, but I just feel like back in

978
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 4: the day, you could work your your regular just eight

979
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 4: hours and you would have enough to pay your bills,

980
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 4: take care of your responsibilities as well as having some

981
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 4: extra money on the side, you know, for playtime. You know,

982
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 4: whether you want to go out with your girl or

983
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 4: by yourself something. And nowadays it's like, dude, I work overtime.

984
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 4: There's times where I do ten to twelve hours a

985
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 4: day and I'm still kind of like, shit, dude, I

986
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 4: wish I had more money in my pocket.

987
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 2: You know, how many hours a day are you are

988
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 2: you working? How many hours a week are typically working?

989
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 4: I want to say I'll at least do maybe like

990
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 4: fifty fifty five plus. Sometimes it just depends on you know,

991
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 4: the time of year. Two like when I'm you when

992
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 4: I worked sixty plus is like I want to say,

993
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 4: like the holiday season. As of right now, I mean,

994
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 4: what's it called? The mails not that heavy obviously Mondays

995
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 4: or the heaviest days just because it's the beginning of

996
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 4: the week. But aside from that, I mean today I

997
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 4: just did an eight hour shift. So right now I'm

998
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 4: about a clock out at four thirty. I'm just kind

999
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 4: of chilling in my work truck till it's time to

1000
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 4: clock out.

1001
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 2: Oh wait, you texted me something I forgot that you

1002
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:47,320
Speaker 2: texted me something.

1003
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, I texted you a couple of times.

1004
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: You said, I want to talk about how I hate

1005
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 2: my sister.

1006
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, what's it called. If you want to

1007
00:52:58,080 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 4: get into that, I'm doing to get into that.

1008
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 2: I mean, sure, man, it's up to you. What's going

1009
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: on with her?

1010
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:08,439
Speaker 4: Okay, let me just take a little sip of water

1011
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 4: really quick. Okay, So it's a very long story, but

1012
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 4: if I can short in it the most possible long

1013
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 4: story short, I haven't talked to my sister in over

1014
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 4: a year already, and the reason why we haven't talked

1015
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 4: is because I get it may be a little bit

1016
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 4: me in the sense where I kind of set it off,

1017
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 4: but to just break it down to you as quickly

1018
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 4: as possible, she doesn't get along with my fiance now.

1019
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 4: And I've been with my fiance for what we have

1020
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 4: been dating for I want to say twelve years, but

1021
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 4: we just recently got engaged last year. But I haven't

1022
00:53:55,800 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 4: talked to my sister since last March. So basically the

1023
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 4: reason why is because Jesus doesn't appreciate my girl and

1024
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 4: what my girl does for her, especially because she doesn't

1025
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 4: think that I like her boyfriend. And it's not even that,

1026
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,359
Speaker 4: it's just I really haven't gotten to know the guy.

1027
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 4: And there was a situation that happened back in the

1028
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 4: day where she heard me say something and she heard wrong.

1029
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 4: So we kind of had like a falling out, and

1030
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 4: it was over her boyfriend. She thought I was talking

1031
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 4: smack on her boyfriend when it really wasn't like that.

1032
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 4: It was just kind of me trying to say, like, hey,

1033
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 4: like I don't even know the guy that you're dating.

1034
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 4: I would like to know who my sister is dating,

1035
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 4: because before this whole falling out, like me and my

1036
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 4: sister had a really good relationship and like, you know,

1037
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 4: like I love my sister, like you know that she

1038
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 4: was my rid or died, which is why I do

1039
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 4: feel her by this situation, but I kind of try

1040
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 4: not to think about it, especially after so much time

1041
00:54:55,760 --> 00:55:00,720
Speaker 4: has passed. But anyways, so when that whole fall now happened,

1042
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 4: I took it upon myself to reach out to her boyfriend.

1043
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 4: I didn't even tell her that I was going to

1044
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 4: reach out to him, and I was like, hey, like

1045
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure you heard what happened, but I just

1046
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 4: kind of want to clear things up with you, and

1047
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 4: we were able to clear things up relatively quick, like

1048
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 4: it wasn't it wasn't anything crazy or serious, and I'm

1049
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 4: sure that he was able to understand that. And that's

1050
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 4: why I kind of feel hurt too, because it's kind

1051
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 4: of like, dude, like, I know you you can't expect

1052
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 4: people to do the same things that you would do.

1053
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 4: But I just kind of took it as like, dude, like,

1054
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 4: like I went ahead and I made peace with your

1055
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 4: boyfriend even after it was a misunderstanding. Why can't you

1056
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 4: do the same with my girl? And the whole thing

1057
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 4: that set it off was there was going to be

1058
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 4: a barbecue. My sister was invited to the barbecue by

1059
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 4: my friend who was throwing the barbecue, and my sister

1060
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 4: ended up wanting to go. And I just felt some

1061
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 4: type of way because when I told my girl about

1062
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 4: my sister going, she's like, oh, like, why didn't you

1063
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 4: tell me about that? And uh, I you know, she

1064
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 4: has a right to, like, you know, feel some type

1065
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,439
Speaker 4: of way, but I just felt some type of way

1066
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 4: at the fact that I'm like, dude, like, why am

1067
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 4: I putting so much effort into keeping two people that

1068
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 4: I love apart? So after that phone call, I'll stop

1069
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 4: I'll stop talking if you if you want to interject.

1070
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just trying to follow here. But basically,

1071
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 2: the gist of what I'm getting. The gist of what

1072
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 2: I'm hearing is that your sister and your fiance do

1073
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 2: not like each other.

1074
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 4: No, if not, I would have came out and said that,

1075
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,839
Speaker 4: it's more so my sister and I don't know what

1076
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 4: type of problem she has with with my fiance. Like,

1077
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 4: sometimes I think that she's a little bit envious of her,

1078
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,879
Speaker 4: even though I know for a fact my sister wouldn't

1079
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 4: flat out say that. But at the same time, it's

1080
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 4: just kind of like, like, you don't really have a

1081
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 4: reason to hate her, Like, why is it that you

1082
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 4: don't like her? I watch her straight up before.

1083
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 2: Why is your sister envious of your girlfriend?

1084
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 3: She?

1085
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 4: Well, like I said, I don't know if she would

1086
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:11,760
Speaker 4: straight up say that. Knowing my sister, she probably wouldn't

1087
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 4: straight up say that. But my my feeling is my

1088
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 4: sister is the type of person to like, she's that

1089
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 4: she's that girl that like, she's very pretty and she

1090
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 4: gets a lot of attention, but she's also very conceited

1091
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 4: in the sense where like she's always taking pictures of

1092
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 4: herself and trying to promote like a lifestyle that she's

1093
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 4: living that it's it's really not what it is, you know,

1094
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 4: Like she makes it seem like like she's rising and

1095
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 4: rolls royces.

1096
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 2: That's your sister, that's your that's your sister, right.

1097
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 4: Yes, that's my sister. So I think that because my

1098
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 4: sister tries to portray this life that she lives, and

1099
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 4: she sees that my my fiance, we're not the type

1100
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 4: of people. We're not flashy or anything like that. We're

1101
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 4: not even rich, if I'm being straight up with you.

1102
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 4: But my girl, she's a real go getter and everything

1103
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 4: that she's accomplished, she's accomplished it on her own. I've

1104
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 4: obviously been there to support her, but obviously I can't

1105
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 4: do the work for her. So you know, my girl

1106
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 4: has a masters, My girl's a she's a medical social worker.

1107
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 4: And yeah, my girl really like she has a good

1108
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 4: head on her shoulder. She's a smart cookie. So I

1109
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 4: just think, you know, it's kind of like a jealousy

1110
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 4: type of thing, like like, oh, I make myself out

1111
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 4: to look like I'm this type of like rich girl,

1112
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 4: but in reality, I look to my right and there's

1113
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 4: a girl that I feel like I'm competing with even

1114
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 4: though that's my brother's fiance. Does that make any sense?

1115
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, Okay, so your girl, basically your your sister

1116
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 2: is jealous of your fiance because your fiance is it

1117
00:58:55,280 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 2: sounds more successful than her and more motivated than she is. Yes,

1118
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 2: the same.

1119
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 4: And I mean it's it's kind of sad because, I mean,

1120
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 4: I never expected something like this to happen, especially because

1121
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 4: you know, I had a good relationship with my sister.

1122
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 4: I've always had a good relationship with my sister. But

1123
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 4: it just feels like, I don't know, like the only

1124
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 4: thing that I can really say, and I'm only saying

1125
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 4: this because obviously I've grown up with my sister and

1126
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 4: I know her for who she really is. But the

1127
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 4: only logical explanation that I can come up with is

1128
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 4: that you know, she's she's jealous of her, She's envious

1129
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 4: of her. Okay, it sounds I want to get your

1130
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 4: take on this.

1131
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean my take on the listen, it sounds

1132
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 2: like your sister is. I mean, it sounds like the

1133
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 2: burdens on your sister, man, because if your sister wants

1134
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 2: to be like that, you can't really stop her from

1135
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: being like that. I mean, if you just wants to

1136
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 2: like be a dick, then you know you gotta tell her.

1137
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 2: I mean, have you told your sister to stop being

1138
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 2: a dick to your Yeah?

1139
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 4: We' we've had We've had conversations in the past. And

1140
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 4: what I was getting to, uh with that whole that

1141
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 4: whole thing about her, How can I say it? That

1142
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 4: whole thing with her wanting to go to the barbecue.

1143
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 4: I felt some type of way because I'm like, damn, like,

1144
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 4: why do I have to keep two people apart that

1145
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 4: I love? So what I went ahead and did was

1146
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 4: I called her and I'm not gonna lie to you

1147
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 4: get I gave her a piece of my mind, and

1148
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 4: like you know, I like I just kind of like

1149
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 4: just went on like you know, your your what I

1150
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 4: was like, your selfish, like you only think about yourself,

1151
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 4: and like, you know, maybe that's where I kind of

1152
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 4: went went wrong. But at the same time, I just

1153
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 4: didn't realize that everything that I was holding in like

1154
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 4: like I was holding stuff in and I never realized

1155
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 4: to put it that way. So basically, when I went

1156
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 4: off on her, I just kind of exploded, you know.

1157
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 4: But at the same time, I'll be honest with you too.

1158
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 4: I don't regret anything that I said, and I feel

1159
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 4: like everything that I said, I just kind of like

1160
01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 4: got it off my chest, you know. So sorry if

1161
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 4: it gets a little loud, I'm going into the post

1162
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 4: office really quick just to drop off my scanner. But

1163
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 4: I'm off the clock so I can keep talking.

1164
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 2: That's all right, man. Uh, Well, I think fuck uh,

1165
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 2: I think it's okay. I think it's okay that you

1166
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 2: spoke your piece. Man. I think it's okay that you

1167
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 2: spoke your piece. You know, I mean that all I think.

1168
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 2: Here's what I'll say is that just let your sister be,

1169
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 2: Just let her. If this is your sister's problem, man,

1170
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 2: this isn't your fucking problem. And you told your sister

1171
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 2: to like chill the fuck out, and at this point

1172
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 2: it's like you, you know, you got to live your

1173
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 2: own life. But if she wants to be jailed, and

1174
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 2: let her be jailed, of course.

1175
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah. The The only reason why I kind of like,

1176
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 4: the only reason why I kind of feel like it's

1177
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 4: like not not only her problem, but also my problem too,

1178
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 4: is because it's it's me and my sister. And that's

1179
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 4: it like I don't I don't have any more immediate siblings.

1180
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 4: So the fact that like her and I have this problem,

1181
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 4: and then my mom's a single mom, so my mom's

1182
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 4: kind of stuck in the middle. It just it just

1183
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 4: kind of feels weird because, like, like I said, we

1184
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 4: all used to kind of have like a good relationship

1185
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 4: all with each other, and then now my mom's kind

1186
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 4: of stuck in the middle. And like I've spoke to

1187
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 4: her before and be like, hey, like I don't know

1188
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 4: if you've you've talked to your daughter, but Loki, you

1189
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 4: should kind of like try and slap some sense into her.

1190
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,919
Speaker 4: And she says, she says, oh, well, like I've talked

1191
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 4: to her, but she feels like she is right. So

1192
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 4: it just feels like, honestly, nothing's ever going to get accomplished.

1193
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 4: But I've also made peace with the fact that, like,

1194
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 4: if my sister wants to be like that for the

1195
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 4: rest of her life, that's cool.

1196
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 2: What's your name again, mine?

1197
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 4: Well, I'll go by beast.

1198
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 2: Oh beast, yes, beast beast. My feeling is the is

1199
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 2: the last thing you just said where you're like, listen,

1200
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 2: if your sister wants to be like that, I say,

1201
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 2: you just let her be like that and like just

1202
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 2: live your life like like you know, minimize the amount

1203
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 2: of time that you spend around her and like just

1204
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:10,840
Speaker 2: just let her be like that. But yeah, don't let

1205
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 2: it take up too much of your your mental energy. Man.

1206
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 4: No, yeah, it doesn't anymore because, like I said, we

1207
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 4: haven't talked in about like, uh it's it's been like

1208
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 4: about a year and like three months. And then aside

1209
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 4: from that, I moved out from my mom's house last November.

1210
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 4: So basically since last November, I don't I don't get

1211
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 4: to see her on a on a regular basis.

1212
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 2: Uh, beast, Is there anything else you want to say

1213
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 2: to the people of the computer before we go?

1214
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 4: Honestly, I just want to say that you're fucking awesome, dude.

1215
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 4: You helped me get through you. You helped me get

1216
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 4: through a lot of my work days. I kid you not.

1217
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 4: I listened to an episode of Yours every freaking day.

1218
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: And uh.

1219
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 4: I will also say that the nerves are definitely real

1220
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 4: people I know. Ghek always says that this is probably

1221
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 4: one of the lowest stake things that we would probably

1222
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 4: do in our lives. But even then, the nerves are real.

1223
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 2: A beast. Beast, you're a very sweet guy. Man, don't

1224
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 2: don't beast, you're a sweet guy. Don't freak out too

1225
01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 2: much about anything, my friend, all right, you know, I hope.

1226
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if you're just nervous

1227
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 2: because you're on the phone, but I hope you're not

1228
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 2: generally nervous in life. You're a you're a sweet man.

1229
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 2: If there's a life after this one, I think I

1230
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 2: think God will hook you up in it.

1231
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 4: Ah, dude, thank you. I appreciate this, bro, And honestly,

1232
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 4: I hope this makes I hope this makes it onto

1233
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 4: a podcast so I can be walking delivering mail and

1234
01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 4: at the same time be listening to our conversation on

1235
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 4: one of your podcasts.

1236
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 2: Thank you, Beast. You have a good rest of the day.

1237
01:04:57,360 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 4: Man, Thank you, Bro. I love you a good day.

1238
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:02,080
Speaker 2: Thank you, Beast. Have a good one.

1239
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 3: Man.

1240
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 2: Damn, what a sweet nice guy. What a nice guy.

1241
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do? How do I that's

1242
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 2: he's just a what a nice guy. Sometimes I talk

1243
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 2: to someone and they're just such a like like a

1244
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: wholesome person that I'm like, what do I do with

1245
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: the not? What do I do with the knowledge that

1246
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 2: you exist. Now, you know what I mean? How do

1247
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 2: I I know it's done making any fun. I know

1248
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 2: it doesn't make any fucking sense, but I'm just like, man,

1249
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 2: this is a real nice guy. I hope I hope

1250
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 2: it doesn't freak out too much. Yeah, don't freak out.

1251
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 2: Don't freak out anyway, folks, that was the Therapy Eco podcast.

1252
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 2: I hope you guys enjoyed listening. Please leave me leave

1253
01:05:56,280 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 2: me some comments in the Spotify comments section, and I

1254
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 2: like reading the comment in the Spotify pomments section. Or

1255
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 2: if you're not listening on Spotify for listening somewhere else,

1256
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 2: then just send me an email Therapy get goomail at

1257
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 2: gmail dot com with questions, comments, concerns about the podcast.

1258
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 2: I think that's it, man, I think that's all we

1259
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 2: have to say. We talked to our sports betting friend,

1260
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 2: we talked to Amanda, we talked to a very nice

1261
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 2: mail man. We keep talking to people. We keep talking

1262
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 2: to people people, and we'll be doing that. We'll just

1263
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 2: keep doing it. We'll keep talking to people. We'll keep

1264
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 2: being a gecko. And I think I think we did

1265
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,400
Speaker 2: a podcast. It feels like we did another day at

1266
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,439
Speaker 2: the office. Feels like we did a podcast. I hope

1267
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 2: you guys enjoyed listening to it. That's it. That's it.

1268
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 2: We'll do another one next week, and then the week

1269
01:06:58,560 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 2: after that, and the week after that, and the week

1270
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 2: after that. We'll do it for forty years and then

1271
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 2: we'll die. That's a SpongeBob reference. I like that show, SpongeBob.

1272
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 2: I wonder what he's doing now, SpongeBob. I wonder where

1273
01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 2: he is, wonder what he's thinking about. Okay, thank you guys.

1274
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 2: Ghat bless you all, see you around the universe. Goes

1275
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 2: on the line, taking your phone calls every night. Becon

1276
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 2: goes to it and ride.

1277
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 4: He's teaching you a loud your life, but he's not

1278
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 4: really an expert.