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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 2: Political analysts and former South Carolina Representative Bakari Sellers is

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Speaker 2: joining us to break down VP Harris's new opportunity agenda

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Speaker 2: for black men. You don't want to miss that, and

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Speaker 2: that's coming up at the top of the hour. But

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Speaker 2: right now it is time to ask the CLO our

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Speaker 2: Chief Love Officer.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: This is from Kendra in Kansas City. Kendra writes, I

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Speaker 2: have a six year old son that critiques me. I

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Speaker 2: think his daddy is influencing him to do it, or

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Speaker 2: he's heard his daddy say these hurtful things about me.

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Speaker 2: I would be shocked if my son as making this

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Speaker 2: stuff up on his own. Should I have a talk

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Speaker 2: with his dad?

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Speaker 3: Well, I would start with whipping the.

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Speaker 1: Boy right at the gate.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't give a damn what you heard your

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Speaker 3: daddy say?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 3: Is you talking to me? I'm your mother. You don't district,

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Speaker 3: you don't critique talk. I don't remember ever critiquing my mother.

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? Man? Adding all this new fangled

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Speaker 3: parent and should I he's critiquing me and I think

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Speaker 3: he's getting I don't give a damn where he getting

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Speaker 3: it from I'm gonna start with that. Now you can't

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Speaker 3: stop his daddy, but I can stop you, so that

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Speaker 3: that's why I would start. But now you know, you

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Speaker 3: ain't supposed to discipline the child, and you're supposed to

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Speaker 3: give a child a right to think and give him choices.

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Speaker 3: That's how y'all raise y'all rabbit ass kids raise him

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Speaker 3: like that. We're not doing that. I told my grandson

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Speaker 3: just yesterday, I will knock your little monkey ass out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what and what did he do?

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Speaker 3: He went and told his little brother, I'm not a

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Speaker 3: one kidder.

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Speaker 1: That's what he got out of that phrase.

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Speaker 3: All right, I'm not a monkey, I said, you mean

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Speaker 3: issue he is?

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Speaker 2: Stuff something about moving on to Dalvin and Tulsa. Dalvin writes,

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Speaker 2: my sister and her husband sold their home in LA

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Speaker 2: and moved closer to family. Now that they have money,

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Speaker 2: nothing is good enough for them, and we're tired of

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Speaker 2: them acting brand new.

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Speaker 1: I want to tell them to chill. But will I

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Speaker 1: look like a hater if I talk to them a well.

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Speaker 3: That's not making you a hater. You just want to

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Speaker 3: Maybe you should just do it in the form of, like, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: just want to pull your coat. Uh, some of the

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Speaker 3: things you all are saying in front of the family's

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Speaker 3: got them a little bit upset. You might want to

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Speaker 3: pull up a little bit because a lot of people

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Speaker 3: are not as fortunate as you and feel like they'll

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Speaker 3: be having it rubbed in their face a bit. So

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Speaker 3: if I w was you just pulling your coat, I'm

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Speaker 3: cool with it. You know, he of your best life.

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Speaker 3: But you know now that you all have done that,

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Speaker 3: we back home and you you are amongst the poor,

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Speaker 3: and you know we don't have nothing.

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Speaker 4: And they only balling dog because they sold that house

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Speaker 4: in Cali.

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Speaker 3: That's the only reason why they balling. Well, the only

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Speaker 3: reason they balled is because they moved back with people

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Speaker 3: that's really poping. Okay, Yeah, you stayed your hands in Calli.

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't be having none of you struggle struggle boss.

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Speaker 1: Expensive out there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have moved back to Byeway, Mississippi. Now you

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Speaker 3: the you the superstar over there? Ain't everybody having that?

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Speaker 3: No Lane, Louisiana, New Nathaniel, Alabama. You know them little towns.

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Speaker 3: You'd be going New Nathan.

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Speaker 1: You all right?

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Alison in Piscataway, Alison, Alison writes, my

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Speaker 2: husband loves to watch explicit videos, so I asked him

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Speaker 2: if we.

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Speaker 1: Could make one. He said, he doesn't think of me

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Speaker 1: in that way because I'm not that freaky. Is that

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Speaker 1: good or bad?

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Speaker 3: Well, he just told you what he likes, what you aim.

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Speaker 3: He watched explicit videos. You asked him, could y'all make one?

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Speaker 3: He say, he don't look at you that way because

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Speaker 3: you're not that freaking You're not you know, and you're

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Speaker 3: gonna get some question you're not gonna believe. I think

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Speaker 3: you need to leave this one. I'll just let him

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Speaker 3: watch the movies because you're gonna be up in a

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Speaker 3: movie doing something he ain't know you was. Really, I

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Speaker 3: don't think you really cut out for the point of

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Speaker 3: movie biousness doing something. Go ahead, I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: right now, don't do that. That film gonna get out.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna get out if somehow Hello, what you mean, how.

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Speaker 1: Is their husband gonna put it out? That's what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So how will he get out.

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Speaker 1: If it's.

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Speaker 3: In their bedroom?

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Speaker 1: He wouldn't put that out.

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Speaker 3: How did to Kim kar dash Shild take it out?

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Speaker 1: Her mama was the manager.

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Speaker 3: Indeed, God shout you right now. It's a it's a

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Speaker 3: man sitting in jail right now that his whole house

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Speaker 3: was video allegedly, and people are scared to day on

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Speaker 3: the field. How they get out and how see you

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Speaker 3: can't take that chance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you there, you're right, all right?

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Speaker 1: I seem okay. My husband didn't want her to do

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Speaker 1: it anyway.

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Speaker 3: So oh I wasn't invited over there?

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Speaker 2: God, why what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: He's talking about the other case.

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Speaker 4: For some parties. I'm glad I missing God, boy boy

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Speaker 4: boy God, Yes, glad I ain't on the guest.

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Speaker 3: List, all right.

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Speaker 2: Last one, This is from Chaney and Cape Canaveral Shane writes,

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend sent me a photo of my boyfriend in

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Speaker 2: another girl's face. He laughed in my face and asked

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Speaker 2: if it's a crime to talk to other women. I

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Speaker 2: didn't know how to answer him because it.

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Speaker 1: Was just a picture. Did he say that to throw

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Speaker 1: me off?

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Speaker 3: No, your girlfriend has sent a picture of him talking

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Speaker 3: to another girl.

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Speaker 1: What in another girl's face is how she put it?

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Speaker 3: What do that mean? In another girl's face? Mean you

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Speaker 3: was up on somebody talking. They wasn't kissing, They didn't

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Speaker 3: have a clothes off. They was over there talking. He

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Speaker 3: laughed and said, it's a he can't talk to nobody.

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Speaker 3: But the real thing is you need to check your girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: What's her motivation here? He all he talking to hers?

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Speaker 3: So what? So what? Sometimes you can bring stuff in

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Speaker 3: your life that don't exist. Somebody was talking to the lady.

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Speaker 3: You ain't found no text, You ain't seen no pictures

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Speaker 3: of him, You ain't. You ain't seen no post on Facebook.

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Speaker 3: She sent a picture of him. He in public somewhere. Obviously,

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Speaker 3: Why is the girlfriend in this mess?

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Speaker 1: She shouldn't be sorry mess. But I'm just saying, maybe

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Speaker 1: that's what it was.

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Speaker 4: Why did be taking picture of something?

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Speaker 3: You need to take of the man? But a lot

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Speaker 3: of time it's angle though, because you can make a

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Speaker 3: person like if you take a picture at an angle,

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Speaker 3: he can look like they kiss it, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: really it's yeah, Yeah, it's an angle like that over

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Speaker 3: the shoulder angle. Yeah, they look real close. They could

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Speaker 3: be three feet apart. Yeah. I think the dude is innocent.

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Speaker 3: I think your girlfriend shouldn't have sent you the picture.

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Speaker 3: But no, he ain't throw you off, even to throw

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Speaker 3: you off from what what you ain't got No evidence.

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Speaker 3: Your nothing says your man is cheating. Why why are

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Speaker 3: you bringing putting this in your life, showing up but

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Speaker 3: no evidence. You need some new Fred that ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: do nothing.

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Speaker 1: You mean I ain't gonna do that, all right?

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Speaker 2: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll talk

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Speaker 2: to south former South Carolina representative and political analyst Bakari Sellers.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.