WEBVTT - She cheated. Now what? 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:15.280 Hey, what's up? Grangersmith podcast coming from a new location today, 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:20.080 the bus Montana. I've done the podcast many times on 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:23.279 the bus next door with Wildflower, but today I'm in Montana. 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:25.119 There's a little bit more space here and I have 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:28.160 some more light, and so I'm going to bring in 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:33.839 today my guest Amber and having two people in the 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:37.360 same room and Wildflowers a little tight. So first podcast 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:40.320 on Montana, and I guess I didn't even say the 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.000 reason why I'm doing it on a bus at all. 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:44.360 The reason I'm doing it on a bus at all 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:47.320 is because we're parked at Ee Apparel, but they're doing 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:52.360 some construction work. They're remodeling the kitchen, so it's like, 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:57.040 you know, craziness. So I needed to find a quiet spot. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.600 And it's funny because I could hear butch on the 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:02.400 tractor right now, so it's like, I never really on 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:06.759 this farm, can never really escape noise to make a podcast. 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.840 And Amber and I are building a house and in 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.600 the house there's going to be a special room just 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:14.560 for the podcast, So I don't know if that's going 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:19.520 to be quiet. I'll probably have dogs barking there, but regardless, 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:21.480 thank you for listening. Thank you for watching. I know 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.759 you guys are coming from a lot of different places 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:26.600 around the world and you're listening on all different platforms. 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:30.760 So however you're listening or watching or both, thank you 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:34.960 for giving me this platform. It is a great part 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:36.240 of my day to be able to sit here and 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:39.000 do this podcast. I do want to give a shout 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:42.240 out or two. This is the email Graendersmith podcast at 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:44.080 gmail dot com. If you ever have a question I 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:47.640 could answer it through that way. And I have a 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:50.880 couple of shout outs. This shout out is to Matthew 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:56.520 from North Carolina. Really loves a song, holler. Appreciate you, buddy, Matthew. 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:01.960 This is a shout out to who Paxton van Winkle. 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.560 That's uh, that's all. Paxson one was a shout out, 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:13.560 and then Xavier eighteen from Covington, Georgia. Shout out to Xavier, 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:15.919 what's up buddy? Thank you for liking songs like Never 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:19.480 Too Old and Tractor they were there, damn straight. I 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:23.799 appreciate you so much, man, And let me give one more. 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:26.560 One more shout out here says my name is Isaac 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:31.280 from Lacrosse, Wisconsin. What's up, buddy? 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Maybe you want 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:16.720 one for a Christmas present, or or an anniversary or 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.800 a happy birthday anything. Maybe you just want one for yourself. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.880 But there's a million ways that I could do this. 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:24.960 You have to cameo dot com. I'll shoot you a 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:29.440 video message. All that being said, I know that Butcher's 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.079 working hard on the tractor. I could hear him, and 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:33.480 I'm gonna about to go work with them right after 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.600 this podcast and do a little work on restoring Earl 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:39.760 Dibble's truck and so much stuff that's going on here 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:41.800 at the ee farm. I'm like, I have to keep 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:45.360 notes just to keep up with what I'm doing. Today's podcast, 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:48.800 I'm bringing an Amber and she's almost here, so I'm 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:50.280 gonna work on the truck a little bit. I'm gonna 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:53.440 get Amber in here. I'm excited. I'm always excited to 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:57.840 have her because she has such good insight on life, 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:01.840 and I could learn from her. Every time I'm with her, 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:05.720 I could learn but soaking in, uh some knowledge that 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:08.200 I didn't hear her say before in the ten years 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:10.880 that I've known her. So she's she's a special woman, 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.280 and I think that she could help this podcast and 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.560 a lot of y'all could enjoy listening to her. So 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:53.320 that's what I got. Welcome to the podcast. Ye did 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:20.839 he lo up and down? Going back rangeation? My brother 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:25.560 Tyler just walked on here and we had started the 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.480 podcast and then he Tyler walked on the bus because 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:31.440 people aren't used to knowing that we're doing podcasts on 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:36.240 the bus Montana. But he said that I got an 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:41.640 offer to speak at a church in Granger, Indiana. Is 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:44.880 that you too or just me? She contacted me, but 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:49.520 it only had your name. Okay, So it's interesting that 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:56.520 it's interesting that a church in Indiana would request me 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:00.240 to come speak there. She said that they were the 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.640 Smiths and have watched and oh, she said, you watched 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:06.839 your podcast with Pastor Joe. So she was wondering with 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:09.160 everything with you not touring, She thought you might be 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:12.960 open to speaking engagements at more churches. Yeah, sometimes you're 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:17.640 just like, okay, God, what do you want right now? 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:21.120 What do you want from me? But then you know, 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:23.960 my position is just always keep my eyes open, my 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:30.080 ears open, my heart open, ready for ready to not 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:34.240 miss an opportunity to make a difference that I should 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.000 be doing, you know, instead of taking the first reaction 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.640 of going no, I'm a singer. I am a country 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:43.680 music singer. That's what I do. So yeah, God calls 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.560 us to come out of our comfort zone. Yeah, it's 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:47.839 definitely out of my comfort zone to even think about 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:49.320 something like that. But you have to have a piece 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:52.880 about it too. So yeah, not every opportunity that comes 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:54.520 your way you have to say yes to. You just 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:58.920 have to pray about it. I might do it Indiana Granger, Indiana. 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.599 I might be there. I don't know. Interesting name for 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:05.320 a town. Now she says what she says it's like 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:10.440 you're talking about God being specific. Yeah, I went at 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:15.600 Granger Church. What I was saying before Tyler walked up 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:18.360 here was we slept in the barn last night, as 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.240 we have the last five months while our house is 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:23.600 being built, and last night was the coldest so far. 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.360 It got down to twenty seven and I was thinking, 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:30.720 you know, there's always that argument of do you like 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.160 are you like hot weather cold weather? And everyone that 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:37.600 ever says cold weather says I like cold weather because 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:41.080 you can only take so many layers off, but in 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:43.520 the winter you could just keep putting layers on, like 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:47.360 people say that. And I was thinking that this morning 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:50.520 as I was like wanting to get out from under 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.560 the covers, I was like, I hate that argument. I 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.520 love the summer. Yeah, it's so the concrete. We have 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.520 concrete in there, so it's so cold on your feet 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:00.440 if you don't have anything in Our bathroom is in 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:01.720 the bar, and so we have to walk from the 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:03.160 RV to the barn if we need to go to 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:05.560 the restroom, and it's freezing in the morning. And I 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:07.840 just said on my rise this past Sunday that people 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:11.480 think that, probably think I'm crazy because it's not even 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:14.280 really that cold. Like some people are in like negative weather, 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.720 like five degree weather, and I'm complaining. I was complaining 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:18.560 outside because it was forty degrees and I was like, 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.680 I'm freezing. Yeah, I get it. I get it. And 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:23.680 a lot of people are probably getting their comments ready 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:25.600 or like you're getting their fingers ready right like right now, 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:29.080 I'm being like, well, it's negative seventeen Fargo right now, 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:32.120 or hey, this is me and Mike. Come in Alberta 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:37.400 and it's negative thirty. So you don't know cold. I've been, Yes, 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:40.440 I've traveled. You know. We did in Northern Canada tour 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:45.559 in twenty seventeen in the winter. So yeah, I'm not 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:48.679 just a Texan that doesn't know what cold feels like. 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:51.840 But I will say this, I've seen many people that 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.600 are like, come on, Texas, you think that's cold, and 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:58.240 then they come here and if you're not prepared, twenty 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:00.680 seven is cold because you're a human being, it doesn't 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:04.880 matter what you're wearing. Yeah, and we have a torpedo heater, 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:09.679 we have several propane heaters, and it's it's cozy. I mean, 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:13.480 don't get me wrong. The summertime was really tough when 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.920 It literally got to over one hundred inside that barn 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:20.120 and it's just swinning. It's insulated barn too. It's funny 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:22.320 because he when I wake the kids up in the morning, 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:24.439 he turns on the torpedo heater so they can hear 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:27.199 it outside of the RV, and they just bolt out 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:28.680 of the RV. As soon as they hear that thing go. 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:32.520 They run out to be the first one to sit 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:36.240 in front of it. That's what it sounds like. I 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:38.760 love it, though, because I love that our kids are 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.560 going through this, and it's just such a it's such 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:45.559 a good practice of adversity. It's a good way, like 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.320 we talked about with the church, it's a good way 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:50.960 to force yourself out of a comfort zone. And I 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.400 always love to do that to myself. It's interesting that 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:56.240 I'm doing it to my family now. I'm making you 0:09:56.240 --> 0:10:02.400 guys live in a world of a diversity. But I mean, 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:06.920 you're you're amazing that you could even be accepting. I mean, 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.520 there's probably a lot of wives it would be like, 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:10.960 we're gonna live in an RV while we build the house. Nope, 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.200 we're leasing a house. We're gonna rent a house. We're 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:16.920 gonna rent an apartment, We're gonna stay with in laws. Whatever. 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:19.760 That's our daughter, you even think it would be me 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:21.480 And it's London. She's like, why can't we just reunt 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:24.560 a house? Like sweetheart, trying to teach her like that's 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.000 a waste of money. We have this amazing RV from 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:31.400 Explore USA and it's beautiful and it's cozy. All the 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.240 more reason if she thinks that now, at nine years old, 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:36.760 all the more reason why we need to be doing it. Yeah, 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:39.880 take her out of her comfort zone. Yes, and one 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:41.560 day in life. I don't know when that's gonna be, 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:44.640 but there's gonna be a time when she feels some 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:46.600 kind of adversity and she's gonna go, you know what, 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:51.079 I lived in a barn for eight months, nine months whatever. 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:55.160 I could do anything. And that might be a little 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.560 extreme to claim something like that, but when you say 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:00.680 you've actually sat in a barn and lived in a 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:04.080 living room and watch TV on a couch where it 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:08.080 was one hundred degrees and scorpions were biding you, that 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.960 is coming out of your comfort zone. That's that's exactly 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:15.920 what has happened to us. So yeah, that's great, it's 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:19.520 great and no disrespect to anyone that lives full time 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.280 in a barn at all, because we're doing it and 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.400 I think it's awesome. Yeah, do you want to answer 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.280 some questions with me? I would love to thank you 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:29.520 for having me today. You're welcome, guest. I got a 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:34.360 question there not a question. Sometimes sometimes your questions, which, 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:37.320 by the way, is Granger Smith Podcast at gmail dot com. 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:38.880 If you need to know, if you want me to 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:43.679 say anything, email that. But it's not even questions anymore. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.080 It's sometimes it becomes statements. And I got one this 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:50.280 morning that was like, I wish you would start having 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:54.240 more guests like veterans and people that have struggled because 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.040 I don't quite get as much out of your questions. 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:02.240 And hey, I'm disagreeing with you when you wrote that, 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:07.679 but the fact is, it is exhausting to think about 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.840 filling up a calendar with guests. I'm not Joe Rogan. 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:14.160 Maybe my future could look more similar to Joe Rogan 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:16.560 ten years from now, but right now I don't have 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:19.960 a staff that's constantly booking up my podcast and I 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:23.280 put these out every single Monday. That makes it exhausting 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:27.800 to think about having a guest every week, preparing, getting 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:34.040 things ready, figuring out their background. And it's easier for 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:37.199 me to be consistent first by just answering your questions. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:41.000 Grangersmith Podcast at gmail dot com. So that's the reason. 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:43.360 And I'm meeting in the middle by having Amber with 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:46.360 me today. But I do want to dive in and 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:49.240 I've created now I've done this long enough now with 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.839 these questions that I've started dividing. As the questions come in, 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:58.040 I started dividing them into categories. And Amber has her 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:01.319 own folder now, oh thank you, and it's a lot. 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.400 So it's quite a bit here that I've just thrown 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:06.760 into the Amber folder. So are these questions to me, No, 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:09.040 it's just it's when I read them when I came in, 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.760 I read them and I thought that's something Amber could 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:14.200 answer with me in some way, so I threw it 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:19.480 into your folder. So this first question comes from Mackenzie 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:24.400 and the subject line is fights. Okay. It says, hey, Granger, 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:26.760 my name is Mackenzie. I'm a huge fan of yours. 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:30.959 I was wondering, being a Christian, god fearing household, do 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.560 you and Amber ever fight? I know my parents did 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.840 all the time, and it led to my mom divorcing 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:40.600 my dad because he's not the nicest man on the planet. PS. 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.520 The first time for your album is great. I think 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:45.559 it's the best one yet. That email came in November. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.720 Thank you Mackenzie. I think I know Mackenzie. I think 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:51.240 I've chatted. If it's the same McKenzie on Instagram, I 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:54.959 think before m A c K E n Z. I 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:58.800 I think so okay, it doesn't say where she's from. 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:03.000 You if you throw in where you're from, say and 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.640 you could even do it in the subject line if 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:06.120 you want, But I think it's neat to be able 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.319 to say where you're from when I'm introducing you in 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:12.080 your question. And this is a good question, Mackenzie. We've 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:13.800 kind of touched. We kind of touched on this. I 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:15.280 don't know if it was on My Rise or on 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:18.640 one of your podcasts about us and our fights and 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:23.360 do we fight and we don't fight if we don't 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.200 fight in a sense of yelling at each other, you know, 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.000 like parents yell at each other in front of their children. 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:30.320 We just don't. We never have and we we we 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.720 always say that we maybe attribute that to meeting later 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:36.480 in life, going through our bad I'm sure we both 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:38.800 had some good relationships, but going through all of our 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:43.400 relationships and realizing what we want, what we don't want, 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.760 what we'll stand for, and so we just we just 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:50.320 have never been that couple that fights. And I always say, like, 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:52.960 I can tell when you're frustrated, and you can tell 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.160 when I'm frustrated, and we just don't pick at each other. 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:58.320 Why are you laughing? Because I definitely know when you're frustrated, 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:00.960 and you definitely know who I am. He came, okay, wait, 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:02.640 real quack. He came in the other night. What did 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:04.360 you say to me? He walked in and he said, 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.800 what do I do that annoys you? And I was like, 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:09.240 what you? What have I done that annoys you? What 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:13.080 did you say? I don't remember. Oh oh, he said, 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.640 you just have stuff on every shelf. I don't have 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.880 anywhere to put anything. He's like, there's stuff, there's Christmas 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.880 decorations everywhere, there's no space. So I look at shelves 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:24.280 like countertops and shelves. I look at them as to 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:27.520 hold things that you need to be using. But you 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:31.080 look at shelves and countertops as things to hold decorations 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:34.680 or that you don't touch. That's Christmas, Christmas to Cora, 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:36.800 you say it's Christmas, but you do you do that 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:39.080 at Halloween, do in the fall, you do it in easter, 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:43.160 you do it in summertime? Four Yeah, no, So that 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.160 is like kind of the extent of our fights. We 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:49.200 just I man, there's a caveat with what we're saying, 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:53.760 because I love that we don't fight and we work 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:56.280 hard at it. And part of it was we got 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:58.000 married a little bit later. I was thirty years old 0:15:58.000 --> 0:15:59.640 when we got married, and that's part of it in 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:02.240 my opin. And we learned a lot from past relationships 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:05.280 that didn't work, and we couldn't have done that if 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:10.200 we were twenty. But I don't think you have to 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.520 look at us and go Granger and Amber don't fight, 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:15.400 and we do, so we must not be good. So 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.320 we should split up because I want a relationship like 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:21.680 Amber and Granger. That's not true. No, it's not true. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:25.560 We're very blessed and very lucky that we have a 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:29.640 relationship like that, but that's not what keeps us together. 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:32.520 It's not if we did fight, we wouldn't split up 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:35.440 because of that, right. I think I have a couple 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.680 of friends who they fight in their marriages, but they 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.200 fight knowing that they're on the same team and they're 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:42.280 going down the same lane and they want the same result, 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:47.080 So they work through any disagreements and mean, they're passionate 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:48.440 in their fights as much as they are about their 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:50.360 love for each other. So I don't think that, you know, 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.360 there's no perfect relationship. I don't think that just because 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:56.560 we don't fight, that our relationship is perfect. Yeah, we 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.640 go after each other, but it never gets to the 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.080 second level. It's always stays in the first level. So 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:05.600 when you come in and you're like, babe, there's stuff everywhere. 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.000 Can you please throw stuff away? Yeah, I don't take 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:10.840 it to the next level and go I had a 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:13.160 hard day, you know what I'm going through right now. Yeah, 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:16.960 but I don't do that. I keep it it. Yeah, 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:19.560 you're right, I do have stuff everywhere. Sorry, babe. I'll 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:21.720 get on that. And on that note, if there is 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:24.000 stuff everywhere, instead of going and getting on to him, 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:25.920 I just put it. I just throw it away. It's 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:28.840 just much easier to pick your battles. And she says 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:31.320 on here, my mom divorced my dad because he's not 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:34.840 the nicest man on the planet, and I just have 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:37.240 to say, we're all not the nicest people on the planet. 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:38.679 We all are going to have bad days. We live 0:17:38.680 --> 0:17:41.160 in a fallen world. We are all sinners. Nobody is perfect. 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:43.439 So I think just having grace for each other helps 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:48.040 us to be on the same team. So Mackenzie, don't 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:52.959 The moral of this conversation is don't look for a 0:17:53.000 --> 0:17:57.080 partner that you specifically do not fight with, because that's 0:17:57.200 --> 0:18:02.840 not really It's not really what this is about. Yeah, 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:05.119 this one is from Nicole. It says hello to the 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:07.040 Smith family, which is probably why I put in the 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:11.119 Amber folder. Grangeer, what made you decide to give away 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:14.960 your truck when you had it in your songs and videos? 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:19.520 And Amber, your Sunday Morning with God videos are so 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:23.280 good it helps me get through my days. Amber, How 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:26.879 does your kids feel about God? There's specifically asking you. 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:30.320 It's a lot of good questions. Yeah, so I'll start 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:34.560 with the truck, the truck giveaway, which I got a 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:36.720 feeling we'll do this next year too. In some way. 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:43.040 Maybe I'll go buy a truck this spring that's maybe 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:46.880 kind of crappy, and then me and Butch and Bull 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:50.520 could get and start restoring it or upgrading it and 0:18:50.560 --> 0:18:54.560 just make it super nice and give it away. So 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:58.439 what made me decide it's kind of multi layered. But 0:18:58.560 --> 0:19:02.760 I have driven that truck for a long time, and 0:19:02.800 --> 0:19:05.160 it was I have a lot of memories in that truck. 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:07.440 You know, my dad was in that truck. River was 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:10.560 in that truck. We moved houses in that truck. I 0:19:10.600 --> 0:19:13.720 got married in that truck. So there's brought London home. 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:16.960 Maybe not in that car. It gives in your car, 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:23.320 but I drove her as a newborn. So I just 0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:26.240 had this feeling. I try not to attach myself too 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:32.359 much to unanimate what do you call it, what's inanimate objects? 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:37.199 And I was very attached to that truck, and I 0:19:37.280 --> 0:19:38.760 just thought, you know what, it's time to let go 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:40.840 of this truck. It's time to let go and stop 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:44.080 trying to attach memories to it and see it do 0:19:44.240 --> 0:19:47.320 well in another house and see someone seeing it bring 0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:50.920 joy to someone else's household in a new way. And 0:19:51.720 --> 0:19:54.440 the idea originally came when I was restoring my old 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:57.520 high school truck, the seventy four GMC with Butch and Bull, 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:00.840 and as that started developing, I thought to myself, Man, 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:02.080 this is going to be a good truck, I'll be 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:04.200 able to drive it. But then I don't need two 0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:09.400 trucks at that point. So that's ultimately that what started 0:20:09.560 --> 0:20:13.760 the truck giveaway idea. So then we'll go to your Okay, 0:20:14.280 --> 0:20:18.159 so it says your Sunday Morning with God videos are 0:20:18.160 --> 0:20:21.320 so good that it helps me and people, that it 0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:23.320 helps people and it helps me get through my days. 0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:25.040 Thank you very much for saying that. And let me 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:28.440 say we're gonna I'm thinking about getting a Rise with 0:20:28.480 --> 0:20:32.040 Amber into a podcast form so that people that listen 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:34.840 to or watch it on YouTube. It only exists on 0:20:34.840 --> 0:20:38.000 the Smith's YouTube channel every Sunday Morning, but I'm thinking 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:41.600 about pushing her to I already bought her a microphone 0:20:41.640 --> 0:20:46.200 like this, and I bought her some recording gear, so 0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:49.679 I'm trying to push her to move it into podcast form. Sorry, 0:20:49.840 --> 0:20:51.920 we're thinking about doing that when the house is built, 0:20:51.960 --> 0:20:54.720 so that's probably three three or four months maybe, so 0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:56.640 I'll have a place set up in the house, he said, 0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:58.359 pushing me to do that. And speaking of going out 0:20:58.400 --> 0:20:59.879 of your comfort zone, like we were talking about in 0:20:59.920 --> 0:21:02.280 the beginning, that is really out of my comfort zone 0:21:02.359 --> 0:21:05.560 the Erise videos because I always feel a small sense 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:07.720 of unworthiness, Like you know, you've even said that on 0:21:07.760 --> 0:21:10.200 your podcast about answering these questions, that you just don't 0:21:10.200 --> 0:21:14.520 feel worthy to be telling this to people. But it's 0:21:14.560 --> 0:21:17.040 all about just stepping out in faith and just obeying 0:21:17.040 --> 0:21:18.760 and saying yes to what God is calling you to do. 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:20.480 So thank you for saying that, because that makes me 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:24.000 feel better about Sunday mornings. How do your kids feel 0:21:24.000 --> 0:21:29.000 about God? So our kids have grown up knowing God 0:21:29.320 --> 0:21:31.960 and knowing Jesus and they attend a Christian school now 0:21:32.480 --> 0:21:36.440 and they love God, they love Jesus. They but they 0:21:36.440 --> 0:21:38.840 you know, they have so many questions about about God 0:21:38.840 --> 0:21:41.600 and Heaven. And you know, Lincoln wanted to be Jesus 0:21:41.600 --> 0:21:45.639 for Halloween. And London writes her scriptures out, you know, 0:21:45.720 --> 0:21:47.840 She'll she came home and at school they had to 0:21:48.040 --> 0:21:50.359 memorize scriptures every week, and she came home and wrote, 0:21:50.400 --> 0:21:52.639 like all of them out. They they just have they 0:21:52.640 --> 0:21:56.359 have a good positive outlook on God and Jesus in heaven. 0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:58.800 And so I just hope that we can still plant 0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:00.640 the seeds and continue to grow them in that way 0:22:00.840 --> 0:22:03.840 we could learn from them. Yeah, for sure, they say 0:22:03.880 --> 0:22:07.240 things and I'm like, dang it, it's having faith like 0:22:07.280 --> 0:22:12.000 a child. So moving on to this next question from Simon, 0:22:12.440 --> 0:22:15.040 it's really ironic. I literally just hit the next one. 0:22:15.080 --> 0:22:17.399 It says, Hey, it's Simon. I was wondering if you 0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:19.520 can get a amber to put her arise at the 0:22:19.520 --> 0:22:23.200 Amber on podcast platforms. Okay, perfect, I mean that's the sun. 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:28.359 Look at that boom. Simon says, oh gosh, oh urgent? 0:22:29.600 --> 0:22:31.840 Should we get it? Let's see, do we have time 0:22:31.840 --> 0:22:35.359