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Speaker 1: Advice Sho. Hello, welcome to the Naughty but Nice Show.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host Romp Shooter and its Satursday, which means

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Speaker 1: our dear friend Mark Loopo joins us. Hey, Lupy are

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Speaker 1: you there?

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Speaker 2: Lupy lewis here?

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Speaker 1: Lupy Lou? How is your family vacation? You? Your mom, Doris,

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Speaker 1: I'd believe your dad and your new boyfriend Kevin Jonas

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Speaker 1: all went away. How did it go?

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Speaker 2: Yes, and my brother too, Jonathan.

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Speaker 1: Was there one of them who loves a sandwich.

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Speaker 2: Loves a sandwich? No, it was. It was a great

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Speaker 2: trip that we had so much fun. My family loves

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Speaker 2: Kevin and they got along really well and it was

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Speaker 2: super relaxing.

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Speaker 1: Was there any moments, any little stress? There is always

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Speaker 1: a little bit of stress when you're spending time with

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Speaker 1: a family and somebody new in your life and either

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Speaker 1: going to fit in. Was there any.

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Speaker 2: Moments in the moments for me are like sharing a

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Speaker 2: bathroom with other people. I am not I'm not good

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Speaker 2: no space. Yeah, that was hard.

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Speaker 1: The hardest my single friends or my friends that are dating,

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Speaker 1: my friends that are not living with a partner, talent

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Speaker 1: me the hardest thing, particularly after a certain age. He's

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Speaker 1: giving up your bathroom exactly, just like we have two

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Speaker 1: bathrooms here, luckily in my apartment, and one is very

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Speaker 1: much mine. And if people say to me, sometimes they

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Speaker 1: ask what is the secret to a successful marriage a

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Speaker 1: successful partnership? And the first thing I say is separate bathroom?

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Speaker 1: So true, you need your own space. Well apart from

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Speaker 1: the bathrooms though it went very well. Hey, when do

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Speaker 1: we get to meet Kevin Jonas?

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Speaker 2: Maybe in a few weeks you can have them or

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Speaker 2: cameo or something on the show good.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you can record us a little message. Maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: does he listen?

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Speaker 2: He does, and he loves he loves you, and he

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Speaker 1: Well, there you go alone. What we've created a monster answer?

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Speaker 1: Poor Doris. We don't talk about her anymore. I've been

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Speaker 1: pushed out for I know. I don't want to cause

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Speaker 1: trouble in the family. Look at that they get along

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Speaker 1: so well. And a hornby stir in the plot. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's jump into the show. It's a fun show today.

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Speaker 1: What time is it? My friends? And this story I

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Speaker 1: find just fascinating. So Meghan Markle is shaping her career

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Speaker 1: around four a list women, and one of them is

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Speaker 1: going to surprise you. So Meghan doesn't want to replicate

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Speaker 1: to the success of any one person, but rather she

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Speaker 1: is finding an inspiration in several big names. Sources tewn

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Speaker 1: page six that Meghan reportedly wants to be a little

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Speaker 1: bit of Reese Witherspoon, who doesn't, a little bit of Gwen,

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Speaker 1: a little bit of Glorious Stein and smarty Pants, and

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Speaker 1: a little bit get this mark of Kate Middleton. So

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Speaker 1: nobody would have expect to see Kate on that list

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Speaker 1: because they are very different people. Although get this and

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Speaker 1: I love it. Meghan does respect the work that Kate does.

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Speaker 1: She respects that Kate who really married into this family too,

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Speaker 1: she was not from royal blood. She has managed to

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Speaker 1: instead of hating her for that, she actually admires her.

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Speaker 1: I think that's really interesting. It's a really good insight

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I kind of forgot that Kate didn't

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Speaker 2: with that. You know, it was not an easy transition

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they were calling her when she first met him

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Speaker 1: commoner Kate. Yes, because Princess Diana was a lady. She

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Speaker 1: very much like yourself. Mark. The house that Doris has

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Speaker 1: they're quite her commoner Kate. And now the fact that

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Speaker 1: If you say Rob Shuda, people think of podcasts, books, columns.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting, Mark, have you ever had to reinvent yourself?

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Speaker 2: is you can reinvent yourself. You can't want you if

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Speaker 1: You really can. The other point I want to make here, though,

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Speaker 1: is I'm not sure, Megan, you really want to base

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Speaker 1: I think, here, Meghan, I get it. Who doesn't want

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Speaker 1: A lot of people don't, but her success with them

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Speaker 2: I think it's probably the hardest thing you can do,

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Speaker 1: You've got to be yourself. I want it to be

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Speaker 1: Wendy Williams for a while when you get working on

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Speaker 1: the Wendy Show. But I'm not Wendy. I'm not that girl.

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Speaker 1: I'm not that she's a bit naughty, I don't see.

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Speaker 1: I'm more of a shady shepherd if the truth be told.

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Speaker 1: Have you figured out who you are?

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Speaker 2: Mark?

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Speaker 1: Are you happy with who? Loopy Lewis?

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Speaker 2: I think it's it's an ever growing, an evolving process,

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Speaker 2: But I'm still I have work to do, and I

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Speaker 1: We all do. It never ends, It shouldn't end, and

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Speaker 1: we don't want it to end, because that's part of

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Speaker 1: the joy of being alive. But I must have been

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Speaker 2: I feel that way. And you make it easy too,

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Speaker 2: because it's like talking to you, you know, your friend.

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Speaker 2: We're having fun, but.

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Speaker 1: You're talking about I'm just staring at you on the zoom.

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Speaker 1: I'm always shocked Mark when I find out people listen.

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Speaker 1: of the day. Meghan Markle is shaping her career around

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Speaker 1: Reese Witherspoon, Gwenna Paltrow and a little bit of Kate Middleton.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? The story breaks my heart. Rob Sandra Bullock put

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Speaker 2: in March of twenty twenty two, without Randall by her side,

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Speaker 2: Since then, Bullock has only been seen a handful of

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Speaker 1: we thought there was relationship problems. We were wrong. This

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Speaker 1: her more. Now that sounds crazy coming from a gossip columnist,

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Naughty but Nice Show. I'm hey, Loopie.

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Speaker 1: And now it's time for the nicest of the day.

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