Speaker 1: Brooking jewels. Second d D. If you listen to the
Speaker 1: show at all, you know that I always rip on
Speaker 1: fathers who say things like I'm not letting my daughter
Speaker 1: date tool she's eighteen, Yeah, because they always say the
Speaker 1: same thing, right, it's hackey. First of all, every dad
Speaker 1: says that creative, Well, it's just annoying. Be a little
Speaker 1: more creative, and then start auctioning your daughter off the
Speaker 1: opposite way. And then also, no, you're not. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna shoot a dude that comes over and wants to
Speaker 1: date her. You're gonna let her date before she's eighteen,
Speaker 1: So stop saying it. It's been said so many times,
Speaker 1: and you're not gonna actually live up to it. I think, though,
Speaker 1: today I may have found somebody who I don't have
Speaker 1: to rip on because I feel like the girl that
Speaker 1: we're about to talk to in a second Katrina who's
Speaker 1: emailed us for a second date update, I feel like
Speaker 1: her father is actually one of the few guys that
Speaker 1: will actually live up to his promise of murdering anybody
Speaker 1: that wants to date her. Katrina, how are you good?
Speaker 1: Who are you good? Would you say that's pretty fair
Speaker 1: analysis of your dad? Yeah, pretty much. So tell us
Speaker 1: how you met the guy that you want us to
Speaker 1: call today, Katrina. So, I met Curtis through some friends
Speaker 1: at school, and he's really great. I really liked him
Speaker 1: a lot. He's really cute and funny and very sweet.
Speaker 1: Are you in high school or are you talking college?
Speaker 1: I just turned twenty, so I just started college. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would hope we'd have an age limit. You still
Speaker 1: live at home, right, Yeah? I do. So you met
Speaker 1: this dude through friends and you liked him a lot.
Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about your date. Well, we
Speaker 1: were going to go out somewhere, but it ended up
Speaker 1: being really rainy, so we just went over to his
Speaker 1: house and decided to watch a movie instead, which was
Speaker 1: really nice. He doesn't also live with his parents, does
Speaker 1: he No, he has a roommate, all right, So you
Speaker 1: guys hung out at his place. Yeah, So it was
Speaker 1: going really well. We were just saying and making out
Speaker 1: during the movie and I got a call for my dad.
Speaker 1: It was at ten oh one, and I completely forgot
Speaker 1: that I was supposed to be home at ten. But
Speaker 1: you have a curfew still even though you're twenty and
Speaker 1: in college. Yeah, because I still live under their roof.
Speaker 1: So your dad's one of those my roof, my rules
Speaker 1: type of guys early too. Yeah, and actually I had
Speaker 1: to beg him for a tenant formally nine. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you need to get a part time
Speaker 1: job and move out. So yeah, because it's where it's
Speaker 1: to get dark though. He just likes me home. Okay,
Speaker 1: oh my god. Well okay, so so he likes you
Speaker 1: home at nine. You begged for ten, He gave you
Speaker 1: until ten o'clock and you missed your curfew. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: he called me, and you know, he's a really he's
Speaker 1: a really great dad. He's just he's just very protective.
Speaker 1: And I guess I kind of yelled at Curtis a
Speaker 1: little bit to take me home because I was really
Speaker 1: kind of scared. And did you just say you yelled
Speaker 1: at Curtis to take you home? Oh? No, Well I
Speaker 1: didn't mean to, but I was like kind of like
Speaker 1: like you gotta go, you know, like you were nervous,
Speaker 1: like you're like, oh my god, we gotta get out
Speaker 1: of here. We got to get him back to my house. Okay.
Speaker 1: I pictured you yelling at him like, come on, you idiot,
Speaker 1: it's ten o'clock. Take me home. Now, so you were panicked?
Speaker 1: And did you tell him about your curfew and everything beforehand? No,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell him. I just I just honestly forgot.
Speaker 1: Did you tell him when you're yelling at him that
Speaker 1: you had to go? Yeah? I told him that my
Speaker 1: dad was really concerned and that I needed to go home,
Speaker 1: And so he like got everything together and we left,
Speaker 1: and by the time we got home, it was like
Speaker 1: ten forty or so. And when I got home, my
Speaker 1: dad was waiting on the lawn and he kind of
Speaker 1: yelled at Curtis. How did that go down? Well, he
Speaker 1: sits four letter words. Did you defend him and say, hey, Dad,
Speaker 1: it's not his fault, it's me that was late. No,
Speaker 1: I can't really talk to my dad that way. He
Speaker 1: sort of it doesn't let me say much when I'm
Speaker 1: in trouble. At any point, did he physically threaten Curtis?
Speaker 1: Was Curtis okay? So how did Curtis respond when your
Speaker 1: dad was yelling at him? Well, he was pretty shocked.
Speaker 1: He just kind of didn't really seem much. He said
Speaker 1: he was sorry. He kind of mumbled under his breath
Speaker 1: and like put his head down and walked to his car.
Speaker 1: And my dad followed him to the car and was
Speaker 1: still like, you know, yelling at him and telling him
Speaker 1: not to ever do that again. And then he just
Speaker 1: caught in his car and drove away. I would drive
Speaker 1: very far away, yeah, I returned. I would be done
Speaker 1: with that situation. Isn't no secret why he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back? Yeah? Have you dated a lot? I mean,
Speaker 1: is this a problem? I haven't dated a lot. I
Speaker 1: dated maybe five guys, you know, like a couple of months, okay,
Speaker 1: and then then they all magically, mysteriously disappeared all at
Speaker 1: the bottom of the ocean somewhere. And you've tried to
Speaker 1: get a hold of Curtis how many times? I've texted
Speaker 1: him five times now and no response or has he
Speaker 1: responded at all. We only responded once. He responded to
Speaker 1: the second text message and he just said I don't
Speaker 1: think we should see each other again, and that was
Speaker 1: all all right. So he was straight up about it.
Speaker 1: And there's nothing else that could have happened on your dad.
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously your dad yelling and threatening him is
Speaker 1: the worst party. She had food in her teeth, that
Speaker 1: was it. I doubt that we're going to call him
Speaker 1: and get that answer, it's probably gonna be. Yeah, her
Speaker 1: dad's a nutcase and I don't want to date her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that's the reason. So how are you
Speaker 1: going to come back? I mean, what do you want
Speaker 1: us to say to make that better? We can't get
Speaker 1: rid of your dad in this situation. I just want
Speaker 1: him to know that I really like him and I
Speaker 1: think he's really sweet and funny and I want to
Speaker 1: see him again. So you know, just like ask him
Speaker 1: if he would be willing to give us another chance,
Speaker 1: and then as long as we abide by the roles
Speaker 1: will be Okay. Oh man, Katrina, you just cribed my
Speaker 1: biggest nightmare dating somebody. All right, what we'll do is
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him me get
Speaker 1: your second date update? Okay? Okay, think you're not around
Speaker 1: your father right now? Are you? No? You don't want
Speaker 1: to pick up the phone? Be like, wow, hell are
Speaker 1: you talking about daughter? All right? Hang on? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. Second date? All right, Katrina?
Speaker 1: Are you about ready to do your second date update?
Speaker 1: I'm ready. I do have a question though, before we
Speaker 1: call the guy who you want us to call this morning,
Speaker 1: just be honest with me about something. Okay, okay, how
Speaker 1: many people has your father killed? Nobody that you know? U.
Speaker 1: Katrina wants us to call this guy named Curtis this
Speaker 1: morning because she went out with Curtis. They just went
Speaker 1: to his house, you know, watched a movie or whatever.
Speaker 1: But Katrina's father is a very controlling guy, she says. Protective, protective, controlling.
Speaker 1: You know, right, Katrina, you wouldn't argue with that. No, nope, okay,
Speaker 1: she still lives at home. As long as she's under
Speaker 1: his roof, she has to live by his rules. So
Speaker 1: he gives her a curfew at ten o'clock. She wasn't
Speaker 1: home by ten, he called her. They rushed home to
Speaker 1: her house. The guy dropped her off, and then her
Speaker 1: dad was waiting outside and proceeded to yell at him
Speaker 1: for dropping her off after her curfew. Well, it sounds
Speaker 1: really bad when you put it like that, well, Katrina,
Speaker 1: because that's because it is kind of bad. I think,
Speaker 1: all right, we're about to call him. You ready, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now? Here we go? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: Can I speak to Curtis please? Yeah? This is Curtis Curtis.
Speaker 1: What's up? Man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning, Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the
Speaker 1: Morning the radio show. Okay, you recently went on a
Speaker 1: date with one of our listeners, and that's the reason
Speaker 1: that I'm calling. How do you know I want a
Speaker 1: date with one of your listeners because they emailed us
Speaker 1: about you, a girl named Katrina. Yeah, and I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure we all know why you aren't calling her back.
Speaker 1: But she emailed us because she really liked you and
Speaker 1: wanted to see if she could talk to you again.
Speaker 1: But you haven't been returning her text messages or phone calls.
Speaker 1: The last text she got from you said that you
Speaker 1: definitely did not want to see her again. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I don't really want to talk to her. She
Speaker 1: told us what happened on your date with her father. Dude. Honestly,
Speaker 1: to me, her dad sounds like a maniac. I don't
Speaker 1: know what she told her or not, but I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: her dad scared me. All. I'll tell you what she
Speaker 1: told us. She said that you guys went to your house.
Speaker 1: She got a phone call from her dad at ten
Speaker 1: because apparently he gives her a curfew at ten o'clock.
Speaker 1: You dropped her off. Her dad was waiting out there
Speaker 1: for you guys, ended up yelling at you. You got
Speaker 1: in the car, drove off and haven't really talk to
Speaker 1: her since. Yeah, I mean ten o one he called
Speaker 1: and she like leaked out, and I drove her home,
Speaker 1: and honestly, even dad was enough to be like, what
Speaker 1: the fu? Yeah? Anyway, I drove her home and I
Speaker 1: dropped her off. I didn't kiss her, I didn't do anything.
Speaker 1: I got out and I opened the door for her
Speaker 1: like a gentleman. And this she was standing on the
Speaker 1: front lawn and like came at me. I thought he
Speaker 1: was gonna punch me in the face. What was going
Speaker 1: through your mind when that happened. I was like, I
Speaker 1: gotta get the hell out of here, and I gotta
Speaker 1: never see this girl or this crazy man. I don't
Speaker 1: know what his deal is. I don't know what she
Speaker 1: may have done in the path to him, or were
Speaker 1: you crazy or I don't know, But honestly, like I
Speaker 1: thought he was gonna kill me, I thought he didn't
Speaker 1: put his fist through my face. Grab you're still beating heart,
Speaker 1: And so that's it. Because her dad seems like he
Speaker 1: wants to murder you. You don't want to go out
Speaker 1: with her again? I mean, yes, But did she tell
Speaker 1: you what happened after? She said that she went into
Speaker 1: the house and then has tried to text you and
Speaker 1: you texted her. Yeah, but I mean what happened after
Speaker 1: with her dad and me? Wait, there's no there's more
Speaker 1: to the story. The next day had worked. He showed
Speaker 1: up in my works the next Are you kidding? How
Speaker 1: does he know where you work? I don't know, she
Speaker 1: told him. I mean she knows where I worked. I mean,
Speaker 1: I've no I have no idea. I didn't I didn't
Speaker 1: ask him why. I just didn't want him there. Jesus,
Speaker 1: that is insane. And what did he do when he
Speaker 1: got there? Like, I mean he came to apologize, which
Speaker 1: I mean, it's crazy. I don't know the guy and
Speaker 1: like what he did, like having a temper like that.
Speaker 1: I don't want his apology, and I certainly want him
Speaker 1: showing up in my work. I don't need like the
Speaker 1: people I work for, heel like, watch this crazy giant
Speaker 1: of the man. Did it end up turning into that?
Speaker 1: Did he create a scene at your work? Yeah, honestly
Speaker 1: he did. He was like he showed up and He's like,
Speaker 1: I just want to say I'm sorry, and I was like, okay, okay, fine,
Speaker 1: just please go. And as he's leaving, he's like yelling
Speaker 1: because I don't know if he doesn't have like a
Speaker 1: normal talking voice, leaving at me, I'm sorry, you had
Speaker 1: to hear to my rules, like I've got curcus man,
Speaker 1: I've got stuffs, and this guy like I don't know you, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: accepting his apology, I said you could take her out again.
Speaker 1: You're jerking now, you're turning that down. God, these kids
Speaker 1: and no respect. Yeah, I mean this makes me not
Speaker 1: want to date. If there's any other fathers out there
Speaker 1: like this, and I'm mic phone into them, I'm just
Speaker 1: going celibate. Wow, what what would you say to Katrina
Speaker 1: if you could say something to her just to let
Speaker 1: her know why you don't want to see her again?
Speaker 1: Lose your dad and try to meet a nice guy
Speaker 1: and say that your dad's dad. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: can't imagine the guy who would want to go out
Speaker 1: with her. And I looks she's super cute and she's
Speaker 1: really cool, and that's kind of the heartbreaking part of it.
Speaker 1: But there's a lot of cute, cool chicks party and
Speaker 1: not see that. Okay, you're not going to risk your
Speaker 1: life today, Katrina. Well, Curtis, I should let you know
Speaker 1: now though, that Katrina is actually on the phone. What
Speaker 1: she's on the phone. Yeah, Curtis, I'm so sorry. I
Speaker 1: had no idea that he came to your work. I
Speaker 1: had no idea that he did that. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: That's I mean, how did he even know where I worked? Well,
Speaker 1: I told him because he asked me, so I even
Speaker 1: realized that he was kind of come find you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, he nearly killed me on your phone, lawn,
Speaker 1: and then he asked you where I work and you
Speaker 1: gave it to him. I mean no, no, I mean
Speaker 1: asked me that night because I just wanted him to
Speaker 1: know that you have a full time job and that you're,
Speaker 1: you know, a good guy. I didn't know he was
Speaker 1: going to come to come there. I didn't know that, Katrina,
Speaker 1: has your dad ever stalked anybody at work before? On
Speaker 1: your behalf? No, I mean it sounds like I think
Speaker 1: he just felt really bad, and I think he just
Speaker 1: really wanted to apologize, you know, in his own way. Yep.
Speaker 1: I mean, I keep you're the crap out of me, Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say to you, Like, well,
Speaker 1: he's a really good guy. If you get to know him,
Speaker 1: you just gotta give him a chance. Oh, Katrina, regardless
Speaker 1: of his character, don't you think the relationship is a
Speaker 1: little bit unhealthy? Maybe that's what you should be working
Speaker 1: on right now instead of trying to date. Is work
Speaker 1: on your father daughter living at home situation. Oh I'm
Speaker 1: totally healthy. So here's the bell. My dad has a
Speaker 1: lot of rules, including he has a rule that if
Speaker 1: I'm at home with friends, I'm not allowed to keep
Speaker 1: the door shut. But man, to show you that I
Speaker 1: care and that I want to move forward from this,
Speaker 1: I I'm willing to leave the door shut. Is that
Speaker 1: like a metaphor for something? Katrina? Katrina, you realize that
Speaker 1: you are twenty years old, right? Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You're twenty you like, I understand being respectful to your parents,
Speaker 1: but they have to be respectful to you too. And
Speaker 1: you know, honestly, I have no idea what he gains
Speaker 1: by this. What he gains is a daughter that doesn't
Speaker 1: lose her morality. That's what he gains. Curtis, So are
Speaker 1: you saying you don't want to go out with me again, Curtis,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Katrina one more
Speaker 1: time on a second date? We will pay for it.
Speaker 1: Doora will be shut and we'll make sure the door
Speaker 1: wall be shut. We'll make sure you guys get home
Speaker 1: when curfews. Well they said when the gets dark outside,
Speaker 1: so that's about six pm now is the street lights
Speaker 1: come on? You guys are home, and we could maybe
Speaker 1: get you together with dad beforehand so you guys can
Speaker 1: talk about it, so you know that there's not gonna
Speaker 1: be a huge blow up. Would you go out with
Speaker 1: Katrina again? I mean, you guys make it sound so
Speaker 1: desirable to go on. I mean, honestly, Katrina, No, I
Speaker 1: had a great time until ten o one, but I can't.
Speaker 1: And I hope that your dad doesn't want to kill
Speaker 1: me after say no, and I hope that you can
Speaker 1: figure things out of him. That's right, Curtis, for your safety,
Speaker 1: you might want to say yes. I didn't even think
Speaker 1: about that. Break my little girl's heart broken. Jupil in
Speaker 1: the morning. First, thanks for some really really isn't let
Speaker 1: the whole word fill it and fill it? And I'm
Speaker 1: still letting the murder business. I go to Dan like
Speaker 1: I'm giving lessons in physics. Right rights you want to