1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex, on parenting, 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter and we could be 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air and helping you out, 6 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: just like we're gonna do for this person right here. 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight, we got it for you 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 1: and Strawberry. Let at all all right, subject one big, 9 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: happy family or nothing at all. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've 10 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: been dating a man for three years and we get 11 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: a long great We've talked about getting married, but we 12 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: have to work out a few kinks first. Both of 13 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: us have teenage kids from previous relationships, and I spend 14 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: a lot of time with his kids. Every other weekend. 15 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: He is always around my kids because I have sole 16 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: custody of them. We always joke about how his kids 17 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: like hanging out with me more than him. If I 18 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 1: am doing something for my kids, I include his kids. 19 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: I buy them gifts for birthdays, Christmas, or just because 20 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: I buy them gifts, and there's no separation to me. 21 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: But over the weekend I had the strangest conversation with 22 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 1: my boyfriend about the kids. He told me that this 23 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: Christmas he plans to focus more on his kids and 24 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: spend quality time with them alone during the holidays. I 25 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: was shocked to hear this. Over the years, he's been 26 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: good to my kids, but I do see a difference 27 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: in how he treats them and how he treats his 28 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: own kids. My kids love him, so I never make 29 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: a big deal out of it. The fact that he 30 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: is trying to make a big distinction between the kids 31 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: really hurts my feelings. Blended families are tricky and we've 32 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: been trying to make it work, but this was a 33 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: harsh reality check. My kids come first, but I'm able 34 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: to love his kids as my own. Now I have 35 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: doubts about marriage. Am I overthinking this? Stephen Shirley, what 36 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: do you think? No, you are not overthinking anything. I 37 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: say go with what you see and what you know, 38 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 1: because when people show you, and in this case, tell 39 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: you who they are, please believe them. I mean, Okay, 40 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: let's look at the facts. This man that you've been 41 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: with for three years told you that this Christmas he 42 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: just wants to spend quality time with his kids alone 43 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 1: during the holidays. What else do you need to hear? 44 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: It's the holidays, That's the time when you and your 45 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: man and kids. You know, you guys are supposed to 46 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: spend family time together, not apart. So again, what else 47 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: is it that you need to hear? I mean, he 48 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: doesn't want to be with you, and he doesn't want 49 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: to be with you and your kids for Christmas? Okay, 50 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: In this relationship, you're all in, are just everything. In 51 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: this relationship, you have accepted as teenage kid. You spend 52 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: a lot of time with them, You remember their birthdays 53 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 1: and other special occasions. You buy them gifts and stuff. He, 54 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: on the other hand, makes a difference between his kids 55 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: and your kids, and you're right. In order for a 56 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: blended family to work, you have to show love to everyone, 57 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: even if in your heart you love your own kids more. 58 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: And I think that's pretty normal to feel that way. 59 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: You have a special bond with your kids, you carried 60 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: them in all of that. But you know you're fair 61 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: and loving on the outside. But your man is not 62 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: doing that and he's not trying to hide it. Even 63 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: though you say your kids love him and you haven't 64 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: made a big deal out of it. It is a 65 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: big deal because he sounds like he has checked out 66 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: of this relationship and on his way out of this relationship. 67 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: Someone who's thinking of marriage, of marrying you, would not 68 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: want to be without you on this Christmas. Okay, sounds 69 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: like he's gonna be with someone else, Steve or surely 70 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: I have to agree with you, So here we go. 71 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: This lady been dating this man for three years, everything 72 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: going great, talked about getting married, but they need to 73 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: work out some kinks. You know, both of them got kids. 74 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: He spends a lot of time and he's always around 75 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: the kids because she got soul custody of them. And 76 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: we joke about how his kids like hanging out with 77 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: me more than him. And then you know, if I'm 78 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: doing something for my kids, I include his kids. I 79 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: buy him gifts for birthdays, Christmas. Everything, no separation to me. 80 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: But over the weekend he had a little conversation with 81 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: my boyfriend about the kids. He told me, he say 82 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: this Christmas, he playing it on focusing more on his kids, 83 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: spend quality time with them alone during the holidays. I 84 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: was shocked to hear that. Over the years, he's been 85 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: good to my kids. But I do see a difference 86 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: in how he treats them and how he treats his 87 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: own kids. My kids love him, so I never made 88 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: a big deal out of the fact that he's trying 89 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: to make a big distinction between the kids. Really hurt 90 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: my feelings. Then the families are tricky yesterday all and 91 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: I've been trying to make it work, but this is 92 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: a harsh reality check. My kids come first, but I'm 93 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 1: able to love his kids as my own now have 94 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: doubts about marriage. I'm overthinking this. I think you all 95 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: got to sit down and have a conversation. Something is 96 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: happening where he's feeling like he's obviously not paying close 97 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: enough attention to his own kids. So he decided this 98 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: year he gonna spend times with his kids alone. Somebody 99 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: then said something to him. He didn't come to this 100 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: conclusion on his own. Somebody said something to him. Somebody said, 101 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: you know what the kids feel like, you just treat 102 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: everybody better than now they come. Man, they feel like 103 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: you'll step child. Somebody fed this information to him. All 104 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: one of the kids said something to him. That's the 105 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 1: only reason for he to suddenly go like this. So 106 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 1: he's trying to prove that that's not true. So he 107 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: gonna be spending a lot of time with just his 108 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: kids alone on Christmas and he's been with her for 109 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: three years. Yeah, I don't know how he think that's 110 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: gonna Yeah, he'd been not later, he'd been not say that. 111 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: Nobody didn't lay down. He's been kids and then lay down. 112 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 1: He can't go to sleep in that house. I can't 113 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 1: make that statement and then go get into bed and 114 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: start snooze. Now that's been being a temph on your life. 115 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: You need to wake up. But that was kind of 116 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: cold though. I mean, yeah, he plans to focus more 117 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: on his kids and spend quality time with them alone 118 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: during the holiday. Word. Oh and you said this? I laughed. 119 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll hang on. Part two of your 120 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: answer is coming up. Um, we'll take a short break 121 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: here and come back at twenty three after the hours. 122 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: Subject one big happy family or nothing at all? You're 123 00:06:53,680 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: listening to all right, Steve, Uh, this letter it's crazy. 124 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 1: Let's recap subject one big happy family or nothing at all. Well, 125 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: it look like nothing at all because he want to 126 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: spend this holiday with his kids, spend more time with 127 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:14,559 Speaker 1: his kids alone, time of making your kids have happy 128 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: Christmas and my kids over here. They lift stuck out. Now, 129 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that this ship, Michelle, I want 130 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: you to be the wife asking me why we can't 131 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: have this Christmas together, and you're gonna be repeatedly keep 132 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: asking me about this Christmas and I'm gonna keep giving 133 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: you different people. Okay, Well, honey, I'm so happy the 134 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: holidays are here. I can't wait to spend Christmas with you. 135 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: I wish I could say the same. Well, what do 136 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: you mean we are spending it together, aren't we? Well, 137 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: you know, we're gonna spend it together, but it's gonna 138 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: be separate. But separate is not together, Honey, We're gonna 139 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: spend Christmas together, right, you, me and the kids. Hey, look, 140 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: you need to keep saying the word together. I'm just 141 00:07:56,240 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: telling you we're gonna spend it together. We're gonna be together, 142 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: but it's gonna be separate. I want to spend it together, 143 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: you know, you, me, the kids, us. Hold on, Hold on, 144 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: what what kids you talking about? I'm talking about our kids, 145 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: my kids and your kids. No, no, no, no, see 146 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: your kids, a yr kid, my kid and me and 147 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: my kids gonna spend this holiday together and alone, but honey, 148 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: we're together. You know, we're we've been dating for three 149 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: years now. See all this, all this is important to you. Yes, 150 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: and I thought it was important to you that we'd 151 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: be together. But not like this though, You talking about 152 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: all the time I'm talking about during the holidays. Yes, honey, 153 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: I've planned stuff, I've cooked, I've invited people. Over all 154 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: of that, you know, one big happy family. Well, I 155 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 1: don't you know, baby, damn you know. You don't ask 156 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: me nothing. Well, we've we've been together for three years. 157 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: It's kind of a given that we spend the holidays together. Yeah, 158 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 1: but you ain't. You ain't like, did nothing special for 159 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: the holidays. I've been out here lining people up. So 160 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: we make our move, make our move. I thought we 161 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: were gonna just be together. We put the Christmas tree 162 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,719 Speaker 1: up and did the decorations and everything. Who all help 163 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: put your Christmas tree? Let me ask you did the kids? 164 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody help? But the talk kids you don't know 165 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: their name? Calling the land kid couldn't help out where 166 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: ain't nobody helped? But the talk? Excuse me aside? There's 167 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: an aside, honey, h what did you say? Nephews aren't 168 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: way about hype though, even in the letter name. They 169 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 1: just did. But the shop kids is what is they do? 170 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what the shop kids they put all 171 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: ornaments on the bottom of the tree and they put 172 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: your skirt around it, and the shot kids water. We 173 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: got plenty for show people to do round. Somebody got 174 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: to plug it up every ye ain't that way. You 175 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 1: ain't got to being over you. It ain't nothing, shot 176 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: work ain't nothing for you. Well, honey, and the tree 177 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: looks so beautiful. I'm so grateful, and I just wanted 178 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: to spend it together, you know, you mean us together, 179 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: and hang these balls on the bottom of that tree too. 180 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: I like, I like treat balls at the bottom of 181 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: the tree. Okay, ornaments, yes, yeah, them ornament But the 182 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: balls though, I don't like Christmas ornaments that others, you know, 183 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: acorn Christmas tree can I just like ball. Don't like 184 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: all that angel don't look like angel figurines. What about 185 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: the lights that makes the tree look so pretty? Yeah, yeah, 186 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: you gotta have lights. That ornament you made at school 187 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: and brought home. Butn't matter what's on the tree is 188 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 1: just as long as we're together, honey, and I want 189 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: to be together for this Christmas. Well, baby, that ain't 190 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: that ain't what we fend to do? No, well why not? 191 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: I mean, what's the problem? No, I see you know, 192 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: you just trying to make this some mem I'm trying 193 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:09,079 Speaker 1: to make this something else. I haven't told you. Don't holler, 194 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 1: don't that's why right here, you don't need to yell 195 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: at me. You can't hear. I can hear, just fine. 196 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: I just can't hear. Just fine when you can be 197 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: by yourself. But we're gonna be there. How about that? 198 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: That's alone and then we're gonna be They come up. 199 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: It's my house too, yes, clap back? What are you 200 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: talking about? I don't pay the mortgage and never will, 201 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: but it's my house. I don't know who told you that. 202 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: I told myself that when we when we first started 203 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: living together. Oh well, I'm gonna have to get a 204 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: restraining order on you. Oh that works both ways. I 205 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: can get one of you too, you know. But we're 206 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: gonna be together. That Saint California, this Califord. Oh you 207 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 1: trying to do me? Oh, we're gonna be together. Well 208 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: you want to be Cliff? What what what you do? You? 209 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna do you never probably had the best 210 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: cruiser we ever had. No, I don't think so, honey. 211 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: It's not gonna go down like that. We've been together 212 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: for three years. We've always spent Christmas together. We're gonna 213 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 1: be together this Christmas, whether you like it or not. 214 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: Were you cooking? Fight whoever you want? We ain't gonna 215 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: make it to vote. We ain't gonna make it too. 216 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: Do you have someone else? Do I have someone? You've 217 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: hurt me? Because why wouldn't you want to spend it 218 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: with me? You've been spending Christmas with me? All of 219 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: a sudden, Oh so you want folk? Christmas is in 220 00:12:46,200 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: a road. Here we go. We'll be together. We're gonna 221 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: be together. You're real, all right, Today's Strawberry Letter. We 222 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: gotta get out of here, Steve. That's right. If you 223 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships and work and sex and all that, 224 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: just go to Steve Harvey. F M. We'll have more 225 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. 226 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.