1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: It's a weekend special of course, Brooke and Jeffrey in 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: the morning, this is your second Date Update podcast. And 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: every Sunday we like to do something a little different, 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: throw in something else we've done on the show that 5 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: we think you'll love because it's heavy in the relationship drama. 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and today we got a textual healing. But 7 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: before we started, Alexis, you got some good comments, right yeah. 8 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: Morgan Dodgson said, this show is the best thing that 9 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: came out of TikTok for me. I listen all day 10 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: of work, all the way from Alberta, Canada. I love 11 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: you guys. 12 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: Ps. 13 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make the bet that Jose is a loud 14 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: snore just a thought. What I actually don't snore? 15 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 3: Really, every girlfriend, every person I've ever slept around, my family, 16 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 3: they've always told. 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: Me, like I sleep like I bet you look like 18 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: a little angel baby. Yeah, I know. 19 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 3: When I wake up and I turned into the. 20 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: Devil, he may suck his thumb in his sleep though. 21 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, thanks for being here. Your 22 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: textual healing starts right now. 23 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 4: What's the one thing you would never want your neighbor 24 00:00:58,480 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 4: to know about you? 25 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: Oh, that's a crazy. 26 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 3: Question that you don't actually recycle all of your glass bottles. 27 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 3: Sometimes you let your dog pee in their yard, or 28 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 3: that large hole you dug in the middle of the 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 3: night wasn't for a new tree. 30 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: Again. 31 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 3: Look, wells caught his neighbor doing something that's making him 32 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 3: feel very uncomfortable. It's actually happened multiple times, and he 33 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 3: feels like he has to tell them. But this is 34 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 3: a conversation that's definitely text worthy and not something you'd 35 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 3: ever want to actually say to them in person. You're 36 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 3: gonna hear it in a brand new textual healing coming 37 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 3: up right after this text you will he then text 38 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 3: you will do you have an important text to send 39 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 3: but aren't quite sure what to say. In the past, 40 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: Mike soft Words Clippy would pop up on your screen 41 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 3: and go, Hey, looks like you're sending a text. Can 42 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 3: I help? 43 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Clippy. I don't think Clippy was around 44 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: when we were sending text message. 45 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 3: Yes, well Clippy is long long dead. Yeah, he can't 46 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 3: help you anymore. And you certainly can't trust your friends 47 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 3: because they'll just gossip about it behind your back. 48 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 4: So all that's left is your radio fam. 49 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: That's right, we are paid a very very small salary 50 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: to help strangers with their personal lives. 51 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: Wait, gossip about it behind their back. 52 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 4: Oh no, we are, We're not friends. 53 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:33,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. 54 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 3: So today we have a guy who is in a 55 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 3: tough spot and has turned to us for help. His 56 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 3: name is Jimmy. Jimmy, welcome to Textual Healing. 57 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 2: Thanks for the help. 58 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: Okay, well I wouldn't say that right off the bat. Jimmy, 59 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: you don't know what kind of help you're going to. 60 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: Get better than anything I'm getting. Now, this is a 61 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: little bit of a tickle. 62 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 3: Oh okay, like that, Jimmy was all, what's going on? 63 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 3: Why'd you email the show? 64 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: Here's what's going on. Ext door neighbor names Hannah. I'm 65 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 2: sure she's I don't really know it. She seems to 66 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: be a lovely lady. Okay, it's the problem. I work 67 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: from home, and this has happened on multiple occasions where 68 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: I'm up in my office and I take up like 69 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 2: an astronom break and I'll, you know, off stretch, I'll 70 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 2: look out the window. 71 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're in your office. Is this an apartment building? 72 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to picture here. 73 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 2: No, No, I live in a nice little two story house. 74 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 3: Okay, how many bedrooms and how many baths? 75 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: I need to know how far away this neighbor is? 76 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 4: Is it Victorian Star? It's a house with a window, 77 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 4: so you look out the window and. 78 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 2: I can see into her yard. And several times she's 79 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 2: just been laying out there sunbathing. But she's been laying 80 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: out there sunbathing topless. 81 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 3: Ah, and what. 82 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 4: Are you wearing when you're inside the house. 83 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: And Jeff, why she really doesn't care. She's in her 84 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: own backyard. 85 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 3: I know, but yeah, that's why you don't want to look. 86 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: Do you feel creepy when you see this? 87 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 2: I bet I feel very creepy. Yeah, I look. The 88 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 2: first time I look. I'm not gonna lie do it. 89 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,839 Speaker 2: The first time I look, I lingered for a couple 90 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 2: of seconds because it's like wow, and then of course 91 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: your guy yeah, and I turned around. I was like, 92 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: let me get back to work or ignore this. 93 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude. If it was my neighbor, I'd 94 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: be like like, go. 95 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 2: And here's the thing. It's not like it's our two houses. 96 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: If I can see it, the neighbors can also see. 97 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: Do you think she doesn't realize that we. 98 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: All have bushes, you know, they're pretty high. Some people 99 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 2: have fences, so you can't see him from like round level. 100 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 2: And it's during the day, so I don't know who 101 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: else is home. 102 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 3: Oh so you you actually may be doing her a 103 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 3: favor by if you were. 104 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 4: Is that what you're trying to do is let her 105 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 4: know that she's you can see her. Oh God, that's 106 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 4: so hard to say. 107 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean at first I thought like, let it go, 108 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: it's just un of my business. But like the second 109 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: or third time, well, I just literally just turned around. 110 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, she's up there. It occurred to 111 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: me like, yeah, you know what, I'm not the problem 112 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: that she doesn't know she has? Do know? 113 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: What do you know about her? 114 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: Like? 115 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: Are you friends or what's your relationship with her? 116 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 2: I just really no relationship at all. I know that 117 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 2: she's married. I've met her maybe once. I've met her 118 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 2: husband once or. 119 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: Twice, Okay, and we know she obviously hates tamlines. Yeah 120 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: are you is her husband look really strong and tough, 121 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: like he could beat you up? 122 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 2: I say, it's pretty even when it comes between me 123 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: and her husband, I wouldn't. I'm not a physical consultation 124 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: type person. 125 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, that's not It sounds like you want to 126 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 3: do the right thing and just warn her that maybe 127 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: other people can see if she doesn't realize it. But 128 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 3: that's definitely an awkward conversation to have with anybody. I 129 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 3: can understand why you wouldn't want to do it in person. 130 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 3: You can't just by the way. 131 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: I mean if you when you text her, is she 132 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: even going to know who you are? 133 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 4: Did you get the phone number from her? 134 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 2: No? I didn't. I got her number from the HOA, 135 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 2: the contact with from the HOA. Everybody just has their 136 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: number there. Oh wow, I actually don't know. Here's the thing. 137 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 2: I don't know if I should put from my phone 138 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: and identify myself. 139 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: Can you stay anonymous? 140 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: That's even Crippierpier if I stayed anonymous. 141 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 3: Let's go around the room really quick and get ideas. 142 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 3: Alexis will start with you. What does he send? 143 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: I agree. I think he just seem to say the 144 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: neighbor first of all, I'm sure reply to it. 145 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: I'm your neighbor, and I see you naked. Okay, that's 146 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 3: one idea, Alexis. 147 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,239 Speaker 1: Or I think you say, hey, it's Jimmy. We haven't 148 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: met before, and this may be the most uncomfortable thing 149 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: I've ever had to tell someone and then just let 150 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: her respond to that. 151 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 4: So basically what Alexis said, but really long winded. What 152 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 4: do you think? I think you need to be professional 153 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 4: and generic. 154 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: I think that's the best way. 155 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 4: Okay, but what do we in a corner or embarrassed? 156 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: Maybe we put those bug eye emoji. 157 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 3: I was going all emojis where it's like I emoji 158 00:06:56,360 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 3: bathing suit emoji, sun oil emoji, two houses next to 159 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 3: each other. Emojis make her decipher what you're saying. 160 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: I don't think she would be mad at you. I 161 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: think she's just getting an embarrassed I already know. 162 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 3: So we threw a lot of ideas at you there, Jimmy, 163 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: which one do you want to go with? 164 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: Younger, we would definitely go with the all emoji deciple. 165 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 4: You want to do all emojis? 166 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: No, if I was a younger earlier Manka, she. 167 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: Would text back, she would be like, what is this? 168 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,239 Speaker 2: I think you get it, but I think I'm gonna 169 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 2: have to go generic and professional. 170 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 4: All right, So go ahead and tell us what you're writing. 171 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Hi, this is your next door neighbor Jimmy, 172 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 2: just so you know, we can see you sunbathing. 173 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 4: Topless okay and okay finger emotion. 174 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: Don't put topless in there, just sunbathing, sunbay. 175 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: Call good call, right, we can see you sunbathing. 176 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 4: And three thumbs up emojis. 177 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 2: I just deleted no no emojis, I just deleted the 178 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 2: word topless. Okay, okay, okay period At the end of 179 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 2: the sentence of sunbathing question. 180 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: We're just alerting her that that she's being seen, so 181 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 3: we'll see if she responds. We're gonna come back and 182 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 3: continue textual healing with your next door neighbor as we 183 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 3: alert her that you can see her topless in her 184 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: backyard right after this. If you're just joining us, we're 185 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 3: in the middle of textual healing with our accidental peeping 186 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 3: tom named Jimmy because he works from home and has 187 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 3: spotted his next door neighbor sunbathing multiple times in her 188 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 3: backyard with her top off. 189 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: And I gotta say, we got to give him credit 190 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: that he wants to help her out and not just 191 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:45,559 Speaker 1: let her continue like some gross guy will, So I 192 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: really actually appreciate that. 193 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 3: Don't just say gross guy, you would do it too. 194 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 4: Brook maybe you would keep looking. 195 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 3: But he did want to be a good neighbor and 196 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 3: warn her that she is visible to him and probably 197 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 3: to other houses. 198 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: Nearby, and they god, kids are building treehouses all. 199 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 3: Around right now. Thing is, it's awkward because he doesn't 200 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: really know her very well, only met her like one 201 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 3: So how do you tell that to somebody without coming 202 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 3: across creepy and awkward. 203 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: Well, and he knows for sure she's married. 204 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 3: Right, So we decided the best route was to go 205 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 3: with a professional text, basically saying, Hi, I'm your neighbor, 206 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 3: just letting you know I can see you when your 207 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 3: sonbathing in your backyard. We emitted all the dirty emojis 208 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 3: that we suggested. Not sure why, but that was Jimmy's choice. 209 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 3: Jimmy did she respond? Okay? 210 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 2: She well, okay, here's the thing. 211 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: What yea, why are you so stressed out? 212 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. Okay, I got a response. The 213 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 2: problem is I've got a response from the husband. What. 214 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: There are two names, two constant numbers on the hl 215 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 2: A list, and I guess maybe they mixed them up. 216 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 4: Oh god, I don't know. 217 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: I think if a guy read that text, he could 218 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: totally interpret that the wrong way. 219 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 5: Yeah, he was not happy at I didn't get a 220 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 5: lot of EMOCHI, but I got a lot of swearing 221 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 5: from the husband. From the husband, and you know he's 222 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 5: serious because there was no there's no real big mistakes. 223 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 2: You know. 224 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: Wait, what what can you read of his response? Can 225 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: you read any of it? 226 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: What do you mean? You? And then this, you know, 227 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:19,359 Speaker 2: a couple of words. 228 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 4: That wonderful, helpful neighbor? 229 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 2: Is that not? The last text is she shouldn't be 230 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: showing it all? Here's her number? You tell her what? Yeah, 231 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: he gave me her number. 232 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: That's weird. 233 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe he's oh my god, like he's like, she 234 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 3: shouldn't be doing that, like in their own backyard. 235 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: Why would just deal with that relationship? 236 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 3: Maybe that's not the first text that he's gotten like 237 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 3: that about his wife. 238 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: Didn't think about that. He's like pastor complaints to her. Okay, 239 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: it's like it's a problem now, So now we have 240 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: to retext the wife and actually tell her. 241 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, I listen, I already texted. I just texted her 242 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 2: the same message I said the first time. 243 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 1: Okay, any information about how you accidentally told her husband? 244 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: Thank you? 245 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 4: If you would have said I talked to your husband. 246 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 2: No, no, no, I didn't see a reason to make 247 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 2: the situation. 248 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I could cause it any more awkward. 249 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 2: So I'm just waiting for a response right now. 250 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 251 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 3: Oh god, okay, so now we're still oh geez, we're 252 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 3: going to make it super awkward with you and the husband. 253 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 4: Now, well, I. 254 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: Don't know, Maybe that the husband is just really mad 255 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: at his wife. Oh, it sounds like it. 256 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 3: Sounds like it's bugging him. I want to know. 257 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: Hold on, I just I just got a response. I'll 258 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what she responds right now. Let me 259 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 2: just open it and read. 260 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 4: The wife responded. 261 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: She just responded, are you the one with the binoculars? Oh? 262 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 3: Oh my Godlars. 263 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 4: Okay, this is the time you need to be honest 264 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 4: with us. 265 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 2: No, no, let's get that out of the way. I 266 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: didn't I don't know. I mean, I'm right, like if 267 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 2: I wanted. Okay, why are. 268 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:59,119 Speaker 1: You still so much? This should be a very simple response. 269 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 2: No, I'm not looking at her with binocular Okay. 270 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 3: Is it a telescope that you're using? What device? 271 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: No? No, wait, what do I say to that? 272 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 4: I mean, no, yeah, yeah, that's the truth. 273 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 3: Doesn't sound like. 274 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 4: It's the truth. 275 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: I think you need to say No, that's horrifying. I 276 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: was writing you to warn you that people could see you. 277 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 2: I like that. I don't like the horrifying part. 278 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 4: Boobs are harassing our neighborhood. It makes it sound like 279 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 4: the view is not a good view. 280 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: I don't think. I didn't take it that way. 281 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 3: Well, it's not you that he's texting, and. 282 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: We just know that isn't me, not even OMG. 283 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you need to reply a little bit 284 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 3: more surprised, even at the insinuation. 285 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,079 Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I don't anything like that. I don't 286 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 2: want to engage more than I have to know that 287 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 2: wasn't me. Once I put know that wasn't me, I 288 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 2: think we're good. 289 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 3: I mean I think you should at least explain. I'm 290 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 3: just trying to warn you into other wrong to be 291 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 3: helpful here. 292 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 2: Okay, No, that wasn't me. I just wanted you to 293 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 2: know what was going on. 294 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 4: Sure, if you. 295 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 3: Want to get it simple like that, that's up to you. 296 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think as simple as possible. I just want 297 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 2: to get it over with. 298 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 3: You know, I think it doesn't make sense, alexis what 299 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 3: doesn't make sense about that. That's the end of it. 300 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: You're gonna let her know what's going on. What's going on? 301 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: You didn't say anything? 302 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, well no, no, no, no. I just want to know 303 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 2: that people can see it. That's it. There's no need 304 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 2: to He's just going back and forth. I'm just trying 305 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: to be a good neighbor. Here's what's happening. 306 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: Why are you so defensive? 307 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 2: Right? 308 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 3: You seem really like amped up and stressed out about this. 309 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: Is it something you didn't expect to have to do 310 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: with the husband? And this was the whole thing with 311 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 2: the guy basically yelling at me over the text. 312 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 4: You don't deal with drama, No, not at all, got it? 313 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: You know, I work for a home or re the 314 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: husband back and say I'm so sorry or something. 315 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 2: Right, I could, but now it's like you want me 316 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: to text two people and I just want to get. 317 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: Okay all the answers. You're gonna have to sell your 318 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: house and move. 319 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 3: You're gonna be the most hated person in the neighborhood 320 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 3: at the end of this. But just start with the 321 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 3: text to the wife where you're just politely telling her 322 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 3: I just was trying to warn you that I could 323 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 3: see you. 324 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 4: Okay, let's go with U with or without binoculars. I 325 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 4: can see. 326 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm closing enough, right, Okay, So the response to 327 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 2: are you the one with the binoculars is just gonna 328 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: be No. I just wanted you to know what was 329 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 2: going on, Okay. 330 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 3: I mean I wasn't really our suggestion, but you're telling you. 331 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: I don't want to leave it open for like a 332 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 2: back and forth conversation, Okay. I just wanted you to know. 333 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 2: Just sound where I'm gonna have to go back and forth. 334 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 3: Stop talking, start hitting send on your text message. 335 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm gonna do that right now. 336 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 3: Let me just it's more more words. 337 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: Isn't going to end. 338 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 3: I feel like even if she was like James for 339 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 3: letting me know, and the guy. 340 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 2: Was like thank you, Okay, I just sent it. 341 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 4: Okay, thank god. 342 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: This is just such a simple situation. 343 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 2: It was definitely wasn't in the beginning. And then you know, 344 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 2: I gotta I don't know this guy. I know he's 345 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: going to react when he comes home from work. 346 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 3: You know, you got to pay more attention when you're 347 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: looking at what numbers you're texting. 348 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: That's why you need to know your neighbors. 349 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 2: I was it's got to be a mistake on the 350 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 2: h o A list. And the more I think about this, 351 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: the more as creepous it sounded. 352 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you you're talking is not going to 353 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: help you. If you have to talk to this guy 354 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: in person. 355 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 4: It's actually better that we're doing this overtext. 356 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, she does. She's typing a response. 357 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 5: Dott stot starts, stops. 358 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: What was that? But that's supposed to do that? 359 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 4: You were supposed to that. 360 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 2: Okay, here's a response. 361 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 4: Oh god? 362 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: What this is? Her response is what if I said 363 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: I wanted you to see me smirk emoji? 364 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, you're getting beat up by us? 365 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: This? Yeah, this is great. Now I really do have 366 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 2: to move. 367 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: Okay, well, just just right back and say I'm not 368 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: into that. Leave it, Blake. Let her guess what you 369 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: are into it. 370 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 2: No, I don't want to leave anything netting. Could I 371 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: just say I think it would be maybe easy to 372 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 2: just say no, thank you and then just block their number, 373 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: block her. 374 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: You have to live. 375 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe do a bikini emoji and then a thumb's 376 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 3: down or like a green barf emoji. 377 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: Oh god, it's terrible. I think I'm not into that. 378 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: It is probably good. 379 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, it's that's the way to let her 380 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 3: know that he doesn't want. 381 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: To You said, I said horrific view or something like that, 382 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: and you were worried about it. 383 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 3: Before I realized she was going to be really into 384 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 3: people looking, you know. 385 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 2: I mean, now that I think about it, I don't 386 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 2: know blocking her is a good idea because she's right 387 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: next door, like they already know who I am. 388 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 3: That you can't block her you live next The only 389 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 3: way this could be worse is if the husband texted 390 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 3: you saying, what's wrong with you? 391 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 4: Are you not into her? 392 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? You guys, I just I don't want to be 393 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 2: involved in this weird triangle, or any triangle for that matter. 394 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: It is strange that the husband told him I was 395 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: just trying to be a good neighbor. 396 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 2: And now this whole thing's ridiculous. 397 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 1: You're their house. 398 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 3: It's gonna be a party with just the three of you, 399 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 3: all right, But at least it sounds like we helped 400 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 3: you do what you set out to do. You wanted 401 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 3: to tell her that people can see, and now she 402 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 3: definitely is aware. 403 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: You don't have to feel bad if you look because 404 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: parents she. 405 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 3: Wants you to. You can go ahead and get those 406 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 3: binoculars back. 407 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 2: Out and can not meetculars Yeah, okay, sure, or even 408 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 2: binocular 409 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.