WEBVTT - The Most Dramatic Headlines Ever 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:04.840 This is the most dramatic podcast ever and I heard 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:10.720 radio podcast. Hello everybody, and welcome to the most dramatic 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:14.760 podcast ever. I'm Chris Harrison. I am so excited to 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:18.000 be back with you each week, and the more I've 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:20.680 gotten into doing this podcast, the more excited I get 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:23.479 every week. And I miss not talking to you, So 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:26.920 I look forward to our time together. And I want 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.440 to say thank you to everybody that we have run 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:32.600 into over the last two weeks. Elzi and I have 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:35.400 been traveling. We were at the much talked about now 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:37.800 Golf tournament in Orlando. I don't know if that that 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.920 tournament has ever had so much press because I think 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:44.879 thinking thinks in large part to Ben Higgins running into 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:49.559 Chris Lane wells Adams was there, Ben's wife Jessica, and 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:51.720 of course Sarah was there. L Z was there with me, 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.440 and we had a phenomenal time. But the best part 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:57.480 of it for me anyway, was running into all of you. 0:00:57.560 --> 0:01:01.000 We ran into so many people while and around at 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:04.160 events or at the golf course and came up and 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.960 said hello, which we always love. But what I really 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.559 enjoyed personally was how many of you said you're listening 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.880 to the podcast, how many said it's touched you. You 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:17.199 were emotional. I I love it. I love all the notes. 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.440 I appreciate it so much. And it was wonderful to 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:21.880 see so many people. And then Elsie and I went 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:25.520 to New York caught a little Broadway which was spectacular, 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:29.000 and met even more people. But I was I'm wondering 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.560 if this happens to anybody else, You have these little 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:34.440 moments in life, they just kind of kick you in 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.800 the ass and and humble you a little bit and 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.280 put you in your place in a good way. Lauren 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:45.199 and I after Sunday, we're leaving Orlando and we were 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:47.120 at the airport. I was trying to catch that the 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:51.280 Cowboys forty game unfortunately, and Lauren was not watching the game. 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:53.200 But we were talking and chatting and we've been there 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.800 for a little bit and right as our food arrived 0:01:56.840 --> 0:02:02.480 and this woman walks up. Now there's no reason really 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:05.680 for me to be cranky, but I was tired, sunburn, 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:08.400 probably a little dehydrated, been a long week, and I'm 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.560 just sitting there about to watch the Cowboy game. This 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.320 woman who had been sitting next to me came up 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:17.640 to me and at very first that that moment I 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:20.520 was I was thinking about being a little cranky, and 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.519 the first sentence she says to me is, Chris, I 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:25.679 didn't want to come up to you, but my mom 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.040 listened to your podcast and she said, you love when 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:31.480 people come up and say hello, and it immediately just 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:33.840 and put me in my place, put me in a 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:36.960 better mood. And we had an amazing conversation. I'm really 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:39.360 glad she came up, and I'm glad all of you 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:41.080 came up to us this week. Lauren and I had 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:46.240 a blast with everybody. Each week, Elz and I are 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:50.280 going to talk about the headlines, the stories that make 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:53.200 us talk, the things we're discussing in our own lives, well, 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:57.119 the headlines about relationships especially, and I love the name 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.480 that you came up with the most dramatic headlines of 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:03.520 the week with el Hi. Everybody, well, oh my gosh. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:06.080 The first one I wanted to talk about Nikki Bella. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:07.680 I don't know if you all have seen this, but 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.960 Nicky Bella star of w W E Married, got married 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.800 in August to Artem of Dancing with the Stars UM. 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:15.320 I used to interview both of them a lot, and 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.880 they're both so wonderful. But they get married and now 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:22.160 their wedding is airing in her special about her wedding 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:26.400 on E and it comes out that Nikki, we're a 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:29.080 couple of wedding dresses and that one of them was 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:33.680 from when she was engaged to actor John Cena. So 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:37.400 everybody was talking is talking about this because can you 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:43.520 wear a wedding dress from another marriage relationship when you're 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:48.680 marrying someone else, And I completely I think you can. 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:51.320 I support Nikki on this, but I was surprised how 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.840 fired up people were, and that makes me want to 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.160 ask you, what if I said to you, I'm gonna 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.720 dig out the old one, We're going to recycle, reuse, 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.600 and you know I'm going to throw it back on. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:07.320 I think I'm gonna say, first of all, I'm in 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.000 Nicky Bella's camp on this. And by the way, Artom 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.400 didn't care. He also came out and like, this isn't 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.760 an issue. But I think the difference for us would 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:18.600 be you actually wore your wedding dress at your wedding 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.479 excellent point, as opposed to Nikki who just had this 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:24.120 dress that spoke to her that she loves so much 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:26.239 and she never got to wear it and she wants 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:30.159 to wear it for this special occasion. Um, I don't 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.640 know if I would have, if I would or will 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.640 care that much if you actually wanted to wear your 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:36.320 dress again, if you love it that much and it 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:40.920 makes you feel beautiful. But I I think if you've 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:44.640 never worn it. So in as far as Nikki goes, 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.240 I don't understand why people are fired up either this. Look, 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:51.120 you're gonna save ten fifty grand, however much these things 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:54.360 cost these days. Why not. I think it's a really 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:57.960 good headline because it says Nicky Bella wore her wedding 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.480 dress from John Cena and her wedding to artem But yeah, 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.640 when you dig a little deeper, so she had bought 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:06.240 the dress, she'd never worn it, which is the key. 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.200 Um gosh, I don't even know where my first wedding dresses. 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:14.640 That don't most people like. They vacuum seal it, put 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:16.440 it in a bag and then you just never touch 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.159 it again. I'm not going to save it when we 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.520 get married. I mean, I love you, but I think 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:25.080 I donate it. I think there's something beautiful. I mean, 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:28.320 oh my gosh. Sometimes you see women who are wearing 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:30.760 like their grandmother's wedding dress from the fifties, and it's 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:34.200 totally gorgeous. But I don't think i'll I don't feel 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:36.880 that attached to the stuff. To me, it's just I 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:38.200 would just get rid of it. I wouldn't want to 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:39.680 deal with storing it. Well, I don't know what you're 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.800 going to do. We actually haven't discussed this, but um, 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:46.000 for example, at Wells and Sarah's wedding, she had I 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:48.760 don't know, three, four or five dresses Nikki Bella talked 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.159 about having. This was one of several dresses that Nikki 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:54.839 wore as well. So is the dress even that big 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:56.960 of a thing anymore? I know this is probably a 0:05:56.960 --> 0:06:01.520 celebrity deal where you wear multiple dresses. Oh interesting, as 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.640 opposed to that one wedding dress. So really a lot 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:08.200 of brides don't have just one dress anyway anymore. True, Well, 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:10.279 you're still the one you walk down the island, that's 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.839 the one, right. But I think you made such a 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:15.479 good point about you just said she felt beautiful in 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.280 and I think that hits the nail on the head 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:20.880 for me because at first you look at it and think, well, 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:24.880 this dress is attached to this past relationship but the 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:27.960 dress is really about the woman. I think it's about 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:31.200 you wanting to feel beautiful for the person that you love. 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.919 But it's about you feeling beautiful and so to me, 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:37.479 that moment people talk about the moment she said she 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.839 had cried in this stress. That's when you look in 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:42.800 the mirror and think, Okay, I feel like a bride. 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:45.919 I feel that this is the moment I want to 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:49.200 have on my wedding day that I've thought about. So 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:53.400 if she felt that in that moment about this dress, 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:55.360 I had to say it. But I think it's more 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:58.320 about you than it is about the guy, because again, 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:01.520 it's about you being the right person, but it's about 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:04.440 how you, how you've pictured looking for when you find 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:08.599 that right person. Can I tell everybody why this story 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.360 was personal to us, why it kind of hit home? Okay, 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:16.280 so um LZ. When we first moved in together, she 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:20.400 brought an ice bucket, this beautiful crystal ice bucket, but 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:24.080 it was monogrammed. You actually were excited about it? Yes, 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:28.320 I was excited because it said L and Cee l C. 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:32.320 I thought, wow, this is great Lauren and Chris Well. 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.400 Can I also say I love that you thought it 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.240 was great, because you could have thought that was so 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:41.440 weird moving in. I've already monogrammed you thought this is 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:45.680 so sweet. But it turns out Lauren's ex husband his 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:48.360 first name began with the letter C as well. So 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:53.040 just turns out those initials worked perfectly for both of us. 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:58.040 And so the ice bucket was from my first marriage. Yeah, 0:07:58.040 --> 0:07:59.920 the ice bucket was from her first marriage. It was 0:07:59.920 --> 0:08:03.760 a wedding gift to Lauren and her ex. But hey, 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.280 it can quickly transition into Lauren and Chris. So she 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.000 told me about this. I had no problem. It was 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:11.360 a beautiful ice bucket. It has our initials on it. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:15.040 I believe in being environmentally friendly, and I did not 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.720 see the point and throwing that ice buck it away. 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:24.600 It speaks to your confidence in you in our relationship, 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:27.120 and I loved that it didn't bother Artem like you said, 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:29.160 Artem said, Artem said, I want you to be happy. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.480 It shouldn't be a big deal if you're secure in 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:35.000 your relationship and where you're at. Um. I had a 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:36.800 friend of mine who told me that when she moved 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:41.040 in with her boyfriend, she made him get rid of 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:44.160 all the clothing that he'd worn with his ex. He 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.880 had to buy all new furniture, he had to redo 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:50.040 their house. She said, I think things are memories and 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.000 I am not moving into that environment. And she and 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:55.160 I talked about it for a while because it sounded 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:58.480 really extreme to me, as say, sounded expensive. What would 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.680 your reaction be if a woman had said that? Honestly 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:04.720 a bit of a red flag for me. Yeah, because 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:06.679 he goes back to what you're talking about, the confidence. 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.120 If I am with you and I love you, do 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:13.160 I need a new flannel shirt to prove it? You know? Look, 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:15.760 I get if you're walking around and it's odd that 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:19.400 you have so many pictures or keepsakes that remind you 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:22.440 of that other person. There are levels to this, but 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.679 I think to just hey, I need you to get 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:28.280 a new couch, knew everything we gotta paint. That's extreme. 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.280 That's a lot. To me, that's a lot. Okay, Well, 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:32.280 now we have to confess one other thing about when 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:35.839 we first started dating. Crap. What I had forgotten until 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:39.560 this very moment that when we first started dating, I 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:42.559 had a house, and I had one of those. It 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:44.120 was an older house, so it had like a front 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:47.600 sitting room that I never went in and you came 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:49.959 to pick me up and I wasn't ready yet. Shocker. 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:52.240 So I said, go just go chill, I'll be ready 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:54.320 in a minute. And you went in that room and 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:56.679 I come in to find you, and you go, huh, 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.679 you've still got your wedding photos framed in here. All 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:05.000 your setting pictures were still up. But speaks to your confidence. 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.439 It wasn't a big deal. No, I mean, I knew 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:09.760 you'd been married. I mean, look, I mean I am 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:12.439 definitely not going to be throwing stones in this glass house. No, 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.040 I mean married for quite some time. I have children. 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:19.720 So everybody brings baggage to a relationship. That's what makes 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:21.839 us who we are, and it's it's it's what got 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:23.760 us from here to there. And it's what I love 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:26.240 about you because you've grown from that. I've grown from 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:31.199 my relationships. So you can't have it both ways. Well, 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:34.920 and when my friends said get rid of everything, I thought, 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:36.880 now you're taking it to the point of your potentially 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.200 hurting the person you care about, right if you're telling 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.760 them get rid of your past, get rid of erase 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:45.800 your memories. I would never ask someone to erase their memories. 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:48.679 For me, that's part of what made them the person 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:51.600 they are. I don't think you can regret where you've been. 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:54.839 If you love where you are, you can't change your past. 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:57.240 If you like the person you are today, all those 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:00.000 things got us here. So I would never say get 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:03.720 rid of all this stuff whatever. Um, but I do 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:07.240 understand that some things you gotta You've got to talk 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:09.680 about it, right? Are some things a little too painful? 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:12.040 Is it? Hey? I don't know if I want you 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.160 to wear your wedding dress from the first person at 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:18.160 this marriage now, maybe everybody wouldn't have been okay with it. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.200 And I actually think if Artem had said I don't 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:22.200 want you to do this, I think Nikki would have said, Okay, 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:24.160 no big deal. So let me ask you this, Elsie. 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:27.520 M hm. Is there a deal breaker? Is there one 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:31.520 thing you should not carry over from a prior relationship? 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:40.040 Can you think of anything? My first answer is trust issues? Right? 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:47.120 I love that That made you laugh. I'm being serious, Okay. 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:49.360 I was talking to another friend the other day. She's 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:54.319 going through a major marital issue. She has found out 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.360 her husband is having an affair, and she said to me, 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:01.880 how whether they stay together or not? She said, how 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:07.320 can I trust again and the analogy that I gave 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:10.400 her God. I mean that's tough, right because I've always 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:12.560 heard that phrase, once the mirror is broken, you can 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:14.360 put it back together, but you still see the cracks. 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:20.000 But I think you have to you have to trust again. 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:23.160 You have to give whether this person, whether her husband, 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:26.040 is deemed worthy of her trust again or not. First 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:28.960 of all, to me, it's all about effort. Are you 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.760 showing are you actively showing that you can change, that 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.760 you're sorry, that you're going to be better. But I said, 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:38.160 if you've got in a car accident, would you ever 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.720 drive again? Would you get behind the wheel? And I 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.120 think the answer is yes. And I especially think if 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:44.840 you're going if we're just talking about going into a 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:47.719 new relationship, you have to give that person your full 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:50.040 trust until they give you a reason not to. You 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.600 have to trust them and not carry over that past 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:58.600 issue because otherwise you're setting yourself up for failure. I 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:02.719 think it's a move on, but don't forget mm hmm, 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:08.199 you know, be vigilant, be smart. It's all about that communication. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.360 But I agree it's you know, it's the old theory 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.640 if you fall off a horse, get a bike, because 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.360 you're not good at riding a horse. Now that's not 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.079 the saying. Um, we should do a new segment called 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:23.320 dad Jokes of the Week, the most dramatic. What would 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:26.040 you not carry over from a previous relationship? You know 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:30.920 it is something we just mentioned. Pictures would be weird 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.320 to me if you're like, I love this wedding picture 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:37.720 or I love this picture. We talked about women looking beautiful. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.439 I look amazing in this wedding photo. Look, if you 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:42.679 want to cut out your ex husband, I'd be fine, 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:44.760 but I think it'd be weird if if if someone 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:48.760 who you love and started dating seriously had pictures and things, 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:54.120 mementos and things from their ex, well, I would Okay, 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.520 I'll add a caveat. But if you have kids, I 0:13:56.559 --> 0:14:00.320 think I remember we were in the Great Lockdown. I 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:02.920 was going nuts, and I was cleaning out your entire 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:04.960 house because they had nothing else to do. And I 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:07.800 love to organize. Oh my gosh, I love organizing, and 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.520 I learned even more about you doing that. I I 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:14.120 learned that Chris Harrison, literally, at face value, is an 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:18.080 incredibly organized, neat, clean person. But if you open a 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:22.880 cabinet door, things come falling out. I mean I opened 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:24.600 one cabinet in your house and you just had empty 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.640 cardboard boxes in there, Like, what are we doing? You 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.600 never know when you need a box. Well, that's true. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.760 You never know. You're not an adult until you've saved 0:14:30.800 --> 0:14:35.640 boxes and chords. But one, you know, you had photos 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:38.720 from like your first marriage, from that time, and we 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:40.800 saved all that. I saved all that because I think 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:42.680 the kids are gonna want to see it, and that matters. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:46.040 I still have them. And you know, again, as I 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.760 you just pointed out, I had kids and watch these 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:52.000 children grow up for seventeen years before we got divorced. 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:54.800 So yes, a lot of those memories and things happened together, 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:57.200 and I will keep those, like you said, to pass 0:14:57.200 --> 0:15:02.320 them on, but I definitely don't have them on display. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:06.400 You're not gonna walk around our house here and awesome. Yeah, 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:09.480 but even you you mean you had been freshly divorced, 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:13.320 it was. It's something that I think I would understand 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:15.320 if you had a problem with that, where you're like, hey, 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:19.200 can you write pictures are emotional emotional and they bring 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:21.360 up emotion right away, and they bring up emotion for 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.320 everybody else who walks in your house say, we have 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:25.240 a party and people are walking around like is that 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:27.560 Chris with his ex wife? Right? Of course, and it's 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:30.640 something that's on display, like you said. And we'll going 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:32.360 back to my friend who told the guy she was 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:35.680 moving in with to get rid of everything. Something she 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:37.720 said did stick with me and really made me even 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.480 think about myself. I think I came home and probably 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:42.160 just you know, did that thing where I start a 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.120 fight with you because I'm having a thought of an 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:47.120 emotion and I'm not expressing it well. But she said, 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:51.360 you know, things are memories. Items are memories, and I 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:53.680 do think there's some truth to that. And actually one 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:55.600 thing you and I had talked about, which is an 0:15:55.640 --> 0:16:00.280 important sort of next part of a relationship is building 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:02.600 a home together. The importance of that. We love our 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:06.360 house in Austin so much because we picked out everything together. 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:09.440 We chose everything from the wallpaper to the chairs to 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:11.880 all of it, and so this feels like our place. 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:15.240 And there is an importance of stuff both and letting 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:18.680 it go and getting those new building that new world together, 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:22.160 even if it's that physical item world. Should I throw 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:23.920 away the ice bucket, I'll throw away the ice bucket. 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.240 We still have it. I thought it broke. No, no, no, 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:31.560 it didn't. It's you. That's a great it's a great 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.280 ice bucket, really thick crystal, like someone spent a lot 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:35.800 of money on it. You know. Let's move on. I 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:50.320 think it's time for the next headline. Okay. For Dallas 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:56.160 Cowboy fans, we wish we could erased the last several weeks. Um. 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.560 This is an interesting story and it's not about sports, 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:01.800 but it is about Dallas cow Boys quarterback Deck Prescott, 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:06.760 who was hugely popular. He's popular for the franchise. He 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:10.200 handles himself incredibly well as the captain of this ship, 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:14.000 and is that leader in the locker room, leader in 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:17.840 the press room, always does and says the right thing. Well, 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:21.400 Dak arguably had one of the worst seasons of his career. 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:23.840 Got bounced from the playoffs a couple of weeks ago, 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:26.840 lost to the San Francisco forty nine. I'm from Dallas. 0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:29.240 My heart is in this. I'm a huge Dallas Cowboy fan. 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.159 A few days later, I see the headline Dak breaks 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:36.600 up with his girlfriend, and I'm thinking, God, what a 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:40.199 crappy week this guy has had. He played terrible, his 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:44.120 team lost, He's getting hammered, I mean hammered in the press, 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:46.880 even a little bit of shade thrown by his own 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:50.720 franchise for the first time. And then I see he 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:55.320 breaks up with his girlfriend. Really a terrible week he's 0:17:55.520 --> 0:18:00.880 he's having. But then the next day this headline hits. Well, 0:18:00.920 --> 0:18:03.520 all of a sudden, I am interested in sports. I 0:18:03.640 --> 0:18:05.159 actually turned to you and said, did you see the 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:08.120 sideline about Dak Prescott. I mean, I don't know any athletes, 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:09.960 but I do love you and your Cowboys fans, so 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:13.080 I didn't know who that was. One day after the 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:16.080 news breaks that he and his longtime girlfriend of a 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:19.280 couple of years split, news comes out that he is 0:18:19.400 --> 0:18:23.320 dating someone new. Twenty four hours later, and he is dating. 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:27.160 At twenty nine years old, Dak Prescott is dating an 0:18:27.359 --> 0:18:32.160 l s U Jr. A twenty year old swimmer at 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:36.440 L s U. Dak years old just signed a hundred 0:18:36.440 --> 0:18:39.720 and sixty million dollar contract I believe somewhere around those 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:45.080 numbers is now dating a twenty year old junior in college. Now, 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:46.720 the reason you and I were talking about this so 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.600 much is the age difference thing. Do you get asked 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:52.200 about this a lot? I mean, you're I'm not great 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:57.320 at malf I think you're seventeen years older than Meldre. 0:18:57.640 --> 0:19:00.639 Wait how old are you? But yes, all age difference, 0:19:00.640 --> 0:19:06.199 and so immediately our thought has always been age is 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:10.040 not a big deal. It's not a big difference. But 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:13.199 is it hypocritical for me to say there is a 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:17.199 point in time in life when it does matter. You 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:20.000 and I always talk about the difference of life places, 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:22.440 and I also think the age difference thing is very 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:26.639 person a person. Now, I don't know. Maybe this um 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:29.560 young woman is incredibly mature for her age. And by 0:19:29.600 --> 0:19:32.760 the way, maybe Dak Prescott is incredibly immature for his age, 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:35.480 but he's not. I've seen him in the public eye. 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:39.200 He is a very mature man. Oh you are such 0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:41.160 a cowboys. I am no, I've just I mean, I've 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:43.040 seen him talk, in the way he handles himself, the 0:19:43.080 --> 0:19:47.600 way the team looks at him. He wasn't born yesterday. Well, 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:50.720 the reason this stuck out to us is because to me, 0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:54.480 and again I don't know either of them, but I 0:19:54.520 --> 0:19:57.720 think it's potentially a big problem when you're talking about 0:19:57.760 --> 0:20:00.960 someone who's in their professional life dating someone who's still 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:02.760 in their college life. Now, I did want to ask 0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:04.560 you if she's an l s U swimmer. I don't 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:07.320 know our college sports on the same level of professional sports. 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:11.280 This is totally different. And I'll tell you what he's 0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:14.879 because he's the quarterback for the Alice Cowboys. Yes, one 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:18.880 of the most storied, richest franchises in the history of sports. 0:20:19.880 --> 0:20:21.560 It's a big deal. And to be the quarterback for 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:25.080 the Dallas Cowboys, it's like being, you know, shortstop for 0:20:25.080 --> 0:20:28.240 the Yankees. It's a big deal. You are front and center. 0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:31.359 I don't know if that comparison helps me, but you 0:20:32.280 --> 0:20:35.399 so what struck me and struck a chord with me? 0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:38.919 And again I'm dealing with is this hypocritical? I have 0:20:39.000 --> 0:20:44.080 a nineteen year old daughter. This woman that Dac is 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:47.720 dating is barely a year older than my daughter, who's 0:20:47.840 --> 0:20:50.840 also in college at TCU, And I immediately thought, what 0:20:50.960 --> 0:20:53.520 if Taylor was dating a twenty nine year old man, 0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:59.080 especially such a prominent man. I that made my heart 0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:01.080 skip a beat. I'm not gonna lie now. I'm just 0:21:01.119 --> 0:21:03.239 going with my gut emotion of how I felt about this. 0:21:03.320 --> 0:21:05.520 And I'm not trying to throw judgment on this because 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:07.760 I don't know these people that well. I'm not friends 0:21:07.760 --> 0:21:10.520 with Dak. I don't know this swimmer, But I just 0:21:10.560 --> 0:21:13.400 thought from my own perspective, that would scare the hell 0:21:13.400 --> 0:21:16.200 out of me as a dad. If my daughter said, hey, Daddy, 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:20.360 I met this wonderful man. First of all, man, she's like, yeah, 0:21:20.359 --> 0:21:23.200