1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Da Vinci and Queens. Da Vince says, my wife and 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:08,879 Speaker 1: I took a road trip to her cousin's house for 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: dinner Thursday. She had put Bailey's in her coffee, and 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: when we got to her cousin's house, she was drunk 6 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: and loud. I had no idea that she spiked her coffee, 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 1: so I was mad. Did I overreact since it was 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: a festive occasion, or do I have the right to 9 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: be upset? 10 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 2: Well, also, she was driving. 11 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 3: Didn't you have a right to be upset because that's 12 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 3: endangering people's lives on her roads? 13 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: Of course. 14 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,959 Speaker 3: Now I've had Bailey's before. Do you know how much 15 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 3: of that you got to drink to get drunk? 16 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 17 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 1: A lot, I'm presuming since she said that, I. 18 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 3: Think but she just spiked her coffee. She probably has 19 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 3: a really low tolerance for alcohol. 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 21 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 3: Look, I would just be a little bit more forgiving 22 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 3: people who drink. Judgment is usually off, so I would 23 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 3: no be too worried about that. 24 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 2: Is she mad at him? 25 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: No, he's mad at her. 26 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 3: Hey, man, just let that go. It's gonna be some 27 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 3: other stuff. Well, Why are you still mad about that though. 28 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 1: It happened on thanks mate? 29 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Julie, Yeah, I know you're mad. 30 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you struggling with that, but still mad 31 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 3: is not good for anybody. You can unfold your arms. 32 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 3: This is the Colo segment. I'll get to you in 33 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 3: a minute. Go ahead, Shirley, I. 34 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: Love that, all right. 35 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,839 Speaker 1: This is from moving on to a lease in Sarasota 36 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: at least, writes this morning, my husband was in the 37 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: kitchen on the phone when I walked in. 38 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: He hung up. 39 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: I told him to hand me his phone, and he 40 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: went off. He said that he's not my child, and 41 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: he walked out of the house. Why did he get 42 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: so upset over that? 43 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: Well, you asked for his phone. You're checking it now. 44 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: Two things could happen. That could be a number on 45 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 3: now he didn't want you to see or he just 46 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 3: want to He just don't want to be checked like 47 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 3: he's a child. 48 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: And then he walked out the house to delete the number. 49 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 2: You got you gotta you know, Yeah, give me the phone. 50 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: You know you walked in, he hung up. Maybe he 51 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: was through with the conversation. 52 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 3: It could be that, but if you check him about 53 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,839 Speaker 3: it immediately, he is gonna be upset and gonna use 54 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: that as the reason. You got to be slicker with it. 55 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 3: You gotta not say nothing. Then don't say nothing, then 56 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: get his phone. 57 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: No, Na, you jumping? 58 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: Well, he did hang up as soon as she walked in. 59 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: I hang up a lot of time. 60 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 3: It could be just coincident, all like I said, Or 61 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 3: he could have hung up because he didn't want you 62 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: to hear the conversation. Now, why wouldn't he give me 63 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: the phone. 64 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 2: It's because he is. 65 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 3: Not your child. Give me your phone. Come on, now, 66 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 3: you gotta be a little bit smarter about this, ladies, 67 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: give me your phone now. 68 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: Now. 69 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: See, let me tell you something. 70 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 3: When you make when you do stuff like that to 71 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:22,839 Speaker 3: your husband, now, your husband starts preparing for those moments. 72 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 3: If you're gonna do that, you're gonna have to be 73 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 3: a little bit slickered with it. 74 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: So now give me your phone. Honey, honey, may I 75 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: see your phone? 76 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, no. It ain't how you say. 77 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: It, it's the fact that you're saying it. 78 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, baby, baby, let me have your phone. 79 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: Whatever on this phone, you can't see it. M okay. 80 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: Sounds like he was up to no good. 81 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, sadly, but you know she with the accusational tone. 82 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: Whatever, he was wrong too, all right? Moving on to Milan. 83 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: In Greenwood, Milan, that writes, I called my husband three times, 84 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: back to back, and he didn't answer. I was looking 85 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: at him in the driveway, sitting in his car, ignoring me. 86 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 1: He said he was just chilling. I was worried about him, 87 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: and he didn't care. Why would he ignore me like that? 88 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: I can't tell. 89 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 3: You how many times every man has done that. Every 90 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: single man looked at that phone and with uh uh. 91 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 3: He was in the driveway. He wasn't even on his phone. 92 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: He just having a moment of peace. Now, why your 93 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 3: man can't have this moment a piece? He wasn't talking 94 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 3: on the phone, and you saw him sitting there just 95 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 3: trying to pull hisself together. Now, why would he ignore 96 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 3: me because he was having a moment of peace? 97 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 2: I have done it to he has done it. I 98 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: Tash has done it. 99 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: What would you do if it were hers sitting in 100 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: the driveway, would you, as a concerned husband call her? Yeah? 101 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: I would call her. 102 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 3: But if she don't pick up and I look outside 103 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 3: and she in the driveway, I'm going back in that 104 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 3: finish watching the game. 105 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, we can both have a moment. 106 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 3: But very very few times will a man knowingly destroy 107 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: a woman's peace knowing that could come around and eventually 108 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 3: destroy his. Very few men that have a brain on 109 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 3: their head will do that. So, ladies, if you see 110 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 3: your man just chilling you calling me here, he's just 111 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 3: trying to pull it together. 112 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 2: He's just trying to pull it together, all right. 113 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 3: He wasn't on the phone, none of that, just trying 114 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: to have a moment. Man, malnd you ain't my wife. 115 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: This is from Charles and Philly. Last one Steve girls Rights. 116 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 1: I got a text from my wife's mother and she 117 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: said she needed to speak to me. We haven't spoken 118 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: in months, and I was not in the mood to 119 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: start a text fight with her. My wife knows her 120 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 1: mom is devilish, so why does she insist that I. 121 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: Talked to her? No? 122 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: See what you do, dog is delete the text and 123 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 3: say you never got it and put that thing on 124 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 3: your phone that doesn't allow people to see that you 125 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 3: read the message. 126 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, But if the text says delivered yeah on her. 127 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: End, then she knows he got it. 128 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. And God is two different things. You know, No, 129 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 3: you could deliver the package. I didn't get it. Thought 130 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 3: a text messages no, no. 131 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 2: No, no, hell no. And she own. 132 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 3: If it's say delivered, yeah, but mine don't say God 133 00:06:59,240 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 3: got it? 134 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 2: Now? Where you where it got delivered to? That's between 135 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 2: you and the phone. 136 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: Com Okay, I ain't seen no text and hear my phone. 137 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 3: I have it all people to destroy your peace. That's 138 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,679 Speaker 3: gonna be my closing remarks today. 139 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: All right, okay, all right, all right, So it sounds 140 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: like he and the mother in law have some issues 141 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: here and the wife is ignoring it. 142 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 2: Ya what does that mean? Ambolish? What's going on? 143 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 3: She know her mama start mess this. Dude ain't for it, 144 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 3: so he ignored it. 145 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: All right, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show